I really hope that since this video that things have changed for the better for you & that you’ve met better guys since then. I keep thinking in my head that God is saving you for last because your someone extremely special. You deserve the world. Your personality is A1, you have shit in order as far as priorities & your just all the way around a great women in my eyes. I can’t wait until the day a man sees you for the great woman you are & wants to cuff you up cause you deserve that! You should do an updated video about this. I’m curious to know how much you’ve grown since this video & how your mental is today verses 3 years ago. You’re someone really special & appreciated. ❤
Miss Jemima sent me here! You’re one of my new faves!!! Intellect with a side of snatch a bih up by her edges if he or she steps out of line. Your delivery is damn near poetic 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“I am part of the society that bashes me” a WORD! Hit the nail right on the head, sis. We need to love ourselves more especially because of the way we’re perceived! You look beautiful as always xx
Not me finding a new bestie in my head. Roox I would say you are everything, but being everything to everyone is one of the things that leave US so empty. I'll just say you're amazing and you're brilliant and I just love seeing a young woman who seems to be on the same journey I am, and doing so with grace and realness and honesty and fabulous hair and makeup!
Sometimes, I have these discussions with myself, or if I'm talking to someone, I really be talking to myself too. I think when we can read ourselves out like this it's bc we actually passed the test that we continue to think we have to resit. Which is so funny to me 😂 But we're all just learning, and when we get close enough to our lesson, we see that we're not unicorns, and if we are, we're not the only ones. You LIT ❤❤❤
Absolutely appreciate your vulnerability. I just talked to my therapist about this. I had only had 2 relationships. The second being my husband and i didn't love myself either. He taught me how to love myself. We have been programmed to desire what we don't have instead of appreciating what it is we do have and offer. Wishing you peace and continued growth. I'm so glad to have subscribed to you ♥️
Baaaaaaaaaby are you mad? Listen baby you are gorgeous and you legit just said a whole word! Like you legit just hit the nail on the head. Child the crazy thing is I’ve had “friends” try to make me the “purse holder & wing woman” because I was the dark skin friend! At first I thought I was tripping but I wasn’t and when I was getting holler baby it was “fun shade” being thrown. I hope you make more videos because baaaaaaaby you gathering me.
You’re Bomb girl... you’re so raw, the realist. Thank you for sharing your mind with the world. I appreciate you! You’re beautiful af ❤️ I’m working on myself too. Thank you!
You are so f’ing awesome! Everything you said is 💯 %. I’m working through my ish as well but I have to tell you that you described this self realization that so many women experience so eloquently!
I saw this video recommended to me and something pulled at me to click on the video and I’m so glad I did! I wanna let you know your’re not alone, it is okay that you have never been in a relationship & there is nothing wrong with you. I share the same experience I’m 33 and I have never been in a real relationship either. I’m Ghanaian, so I understand the cultural aspect of marriage and getting married is emphasized so much. Also, I’m a big girl too been big my whole life, so I felt initially for a long time and especially when I was younger that apart of the reason I hadn’t been in a relationship was because I am a big girl. But as I got older and saw with some friends of mine who are also big to that have boyfriends, I changed my thought like no that’s not it. Then I was like something must be wrong with me and that is the place I’m trying to change my mindset about. I realized too, that I have never really worked on self-love & changing the way I view and speak to myself. So you’re not alone, I’m glad I found your channel! You’re dope as hell!
Hey 👋 Darling 💗 Great information. Round of Applause 👏. . Happy to see you Healthy and Strong through the Struggle of it all. Your looking beautiful as well. "We all Hold the Cause of our Effect." My Opinion My Quote! Love You 💞. Keep the Truth and Facts coming. I'm always Learning and laughing.
Thanks for the live beautiful 👑& yaaas I want to be kinder to myself too & not focus on finding a man. I really need to get my ish together . slowly but surely
I understand exactly where you are coming from and what I think is it’s a lot of you’s in all of us no matter what size color or person that you are but we must as a people expect the hand God has dealt us and in that we will find beauty and be satisfied
I pray we both learn to please Yahuah 1st then we may get the desires of our heart fulfilled. Be safe and i hope youbalways stay encouraged😊😊😊😊❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sorry you feel that way but I love u and u my sister. And if I’m not reaching too much why yo friends not boosting you and encouraging you? You fly regardless with yo beautiful self.
My friends hype and encourage me DAILY. In my opinion, it’s not their job to validate me. It’s mine. It’s my self growth and my journey, you know? And all they can do is support me on said journey.
Woman to woman (I’m big too) I’m not looking for validation from anyone. I wanted to say that first. Second, this is the only video I’ve watched but you have some serious things to work through. This video started in a way and the feeling has totally changed. You have to go deeper into your mind. As far as people…you’re wasting your time. People are going to be people. The internet is the gift and the curse. So it is what it is. Hopefully you’ll seek professional help for YOU! That’s all that matters. You have to fix YOU for YOU! The rest of that stuff is for the birds!
Get your A** on the dance floor and dance. You are a beautiful young lady 💕❤️♥️ Don’t be so nice. Just be you. Some time if you want something Go and get it. My Grandmother taught me Most people will give you Nothing Nothing Go and get it yourself. Do it and do it well. Love ya babe ♥️❤️
Sooo apparently your content has always been bomb! This was amazingly open and raw. My weekend will be spent discovering my fave, retrospectively 💕
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I really hope that since this video that things have changed for the better for you & that you’ve met better guys since then. I keep thinking in my head that God is saving you for last because your someone extremely special. You deserve the world. Your personality is A1, you have shit in order as far as priorities & your just all the way around a great women in my eyes. I can’t wait until the day a man sees you for the great woman you are & wants to cuff you up cause you deserve that! You should do an updated video about this. I’m curious to know how much you’ve grown since this video & how your mental is today verses 3 years ago. You’re someone really special & appreciated. ❤
Amen and amen again. Ruka is a beautiful soul. I wish she would stop playing with us and sang cause I can tell she can blow
Miss Jemima sent me here! You’re one of my new faves!!! Intellect with a side of snatch a bih up by her edges if he or she steps out of line. Your delivery is damn near poetic 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Jemima constantly supports me and some of her most dopest subscribers come over here and just send positive energy my way. I love that. Welcome.
“I am part of the society that bashes me” a WORD! Hit the nail right on the head, sis. We need to love ourselves more especially because of the way we’re perceived! You look beautiful as always xx
Thank you so much for tuning in. I’m glad you’re here to watch me grow.
Not me finding a new bestie in my head. Roox I would say you are everything, but being everything to everyone is one of the things that leave US so empty. I'll just say you're amazing and you're brilliant and I just love seeing a young woman who seems to be on the same journey I am, and doing so with grace and realness and honesty and fabulous hair and makeup!
I appreciate your vulnerability. This resonated with me. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for being here.
I'm not all the way through the video yet and you LOOK SOOOOO DAMN GOOD RUKA!!!!!!!!! WHEW!!!
Lmaooooooooo thank you Ashley. 🥺🧡
🤣🤣the rant in the Nigerian accent 🤣🤣
Sometimes, I have these discussions with myself, or if I'm talking to someone, I really be talking to myself too. I think when we can read ourselves out like this it's bc we actually passed the test that we continue to think we have to resit. Which is so funny to me 😂
But we're all just learning, and when we get close enough to our lesson, we see that we're not unicorns, and if we are, we're not the only ones. You LIT ❤❤❤
I am in love with your process Ruka. Thank you, for letting us in 🤎
Thank you for being here.
you got my edges on. give it back
Celebrities watching my live >>>>>
I love your videos jemima....u and ruka should do a clothing haul together
Absolutely appreciate your vulnerability. I just talked to my therapist about this. I had only had 2 relationships. The second being my husband and i didn't love myself either. He taught me how to love myself. We have been programmed to desire what we don't have instead of appreciating what it is we do have and offer. Wishing you peace and continued growth. I'm so glad to have subscribed to you ♥️
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Baaaaaaaaaby are you mad? Listen baby you are gorgeous and you legit just said a whole word! Like you legit just hit the nail on the head. Child the crazy thing is I’ve had “friends” try to make me the “purse holder & wing woman” because I was the dark skin friend! At first I thought I was tripping but I wasn’t and when I was getting holler baby it was “fun shade” being thrown. I hope you make more videos because baaaaaaaby you gathering me.
Wtf is going on with my words today?! 😂😭 I’m on the floor 😭😭😭😭
Man! Lmao. I was struggling.
You’re Bomb girl... you’re so raw, the realist. Thank you for sharing your mind with the world. I appreciate you! You’re beautiful af ❤️ I’m working on myself too. Thank you!
Thank you so much.
11:04 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 i love ruka !!!
A very honest video, thanks for being so transparent❤
Thank you so much.
Love this message sis and you, keep going!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
You are so f’ing awesome! Everything you said is 💯 %. I’m working through my ish as well but I have to tell you that you described this self realization that so many women experience so eloquently!
It’s crazy how this was filmed years ago and still holds a scorching accuracy for a lot of us.
As soon as you started freestyling I subscribed 💘 had me feeling myself lol love a girl who is her real self regardless👑👑👑
I’m glad to have you, Yasmin. I hope you enjoy this journey with me.
I saw this video recommended to me and something pulled at me to click on the video and I’m so glad I did! I wanna let you know your’re not alone, it is okay that you have never been in a relationship & there is nothing wrong with you. I share the same experience I’m 33 and I have never been in a real relationship either. I’m Ghanaian, so I understand the cultural aspect of marriage and getting married is emphasized so much. Also, I’m a big girl too been big my whole life, so I felt initially for a long time and especially when I was younger that apart of the reason I hadn’t been in a relationship was because I am a big girl. But as I got older and saw with some friends of mine who are also big to that have boyfriends, I changed my thought like no that’s not it. Then I was like something must be wrong with me and that is the place I’m trying to change my mindset about. I realized too, that I have never really worked on self-love & changing the way I view and speak to myself. So you’re not alone, I’m glad I found your channel! You’re dope as hell!
These type of vids 👏🏾👏🏾 love seeing self love content from you all so relatable!!
Thank you so much. 🧡🧡🧡
Hey 👋 Darling 💗
Great information. Round of Applause 👏. .
Happy to see you Healthy and Strong through the Struggle of it all.
Your looking beautiful as well.
"We all Hold the Cause of our Effect." My Opinion My Quote!
Love You 💞. Keep the Truth and Facts coming. I'm always Learning and laughing.
I absolutely love your quote and I’ll be adopting it, if that’s okay.
It's absolutely okay 😊.
I love you and this!! Thank you for your courage!!! You will get the desires of your heart!! 😘
From your mouth to God’s ears. Amen amen. Thank you so much.
Girl thank you!!! Thank you for being here!!!
Thank you for having me.
Thanks for the live beautiful 👑& yaaas I want to be kinder to myself too & not focus on finding a man. I really need to get my ish together . slowly but surely
Slowly, but surely. Like my friend just said, we have to be patient in the process.
I love you girl! When you break into full on Lagos I can’t.🤣💕🥂
My mind be in shambles when the camera turns on!!!
Happy birthday foxy lady enjoy your day God 😇✅🥳🎁🎂🎉🎊🤩😎✅
I really needed this... thank you.
Thank you. For being here.
I love this video
You already glowing with positivity 😍😍
This video was inspired because of you. Thank you.
I.relate.sooooo.much. New Subby!
I understand exactly where you are coming from and what I think is it’s a lot of you’s in all of us no matter what size color or person that you are but we must as a people expect the hand God has dealt us and in that we will find beauty and be satisfied
I pray we both learn to please Yahuah 1st then we may get the desires of our heart fulfilled. Be safe and i hope youbalways stay encouraged😊😊😊😊❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Glad you're back, girl💜
Like I never left. 🧡🧡
@@ChoppedRoox 💜💜💜💜💜
Love the look..
She’s baaaaaack
Like I never left!
Sorry you feel that way but I love u and u my sister. And if I’m not reaching too much why yo friends not boosting you and encouraging you? You fly regardless with yo beautiful self.
My friends hype and encourage me DAILY. In my opinion, it’s not their job to validate me. It’s mine. It’s my self growth and my journey, you know? And all they can do is support me on said journey.
Just watched you and miss Jemima's vlog. You weren't very nice to my girl yet here I am a new subbie
There is some one out there for everybody just because your night shining armor has not arrived yet doesn’t mean he is late.....
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Woman to woman (I’m big too) I’m not looking for validation from anyone. I wanted to say that first. Second, this is the only video I’ve watched but you have some serious things to work through. This video started in a way and the feeling has totally changed. You have to go deeper into your mind. As far as people…you’re wasting your time. People are going to be people. The internet is the gift and the curse. So it is what it is. Hopefully you’ll seek professional help for YOU! That’s all that matters. You have to fix YOU for YOU! The rest of that stuff is for the birds!
I Liked the video as well. Just so you know that I Pay Attention. 💋💯
Lmao, thank you so much.
Get your A** on the dance floor and dance.
You are a beautiful young lady 💕❤️♥️
Don’t be so nice. Just be you.
Some time if you want something
Go and get it. My Grandmother taught me
Most people will give you Nothing Nothing
Go and get it yourself.
Do it and do it well.
Love ya babe ♥️❤️
Your grandmother is right. I have to get it myself. This journey is going to be hard but worth it.
New subscriber! You are beautiful and you matter! God will bring your husband to you!
Amen!! Thank you so much.
You're Incredibly Beautiful
Loving The Hair
Hello can we be friends ?