be our valentine? with Zolita

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  • @FlorenceBstrd
    @FlorenceBstrd 7 місяців тому +91

    I think the eps w Zolita (along w the one with Kyra and the solo one) have been my favorites so far. But I love and watch them all aha. This podcast has easily become one of my favs and something I love forward to each week. I love it sm thank you 🫶

  • @catherinechase9517
    @catherinechase9517 7 місяців тому +44

    Everytime I listen to your podcast I’m always soooo shocked that nearly an hour has passed!! It’s the equivalent of back in the day when you were having a great time with your friends and your mom arrives to pick you up and you’re like no!! Not already!!

  • @crissi_cix
    @crissi_cix 7 місяців тому +74

    Happy Valentines Day to everyone who is reading this. Sending you all lots of lots of love♥️

  • @joannah651
    @joannah651 7 місяців тому +42

    the "who wants to be a millionaire" music when Zoe's brain was buffering 😂

    • @WritingRN2
      @WritingRN2 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂💯

  • @jessicaryan8456
    @jessicaryan8456 7 місяців тому +14

    I think the 2 intro format is good. I like the more personal and up to date intro and then the guest intro.

  • @terrydillon9323
    @terrydillon9323 7 місяців тому +9

    I enjoy your programs , thank you. I started laughing at myself when I saw your program was about Valentine’s Day because, I forgot it was Valentines day.

  • @SKYLARHOP
    @SKYLARHOP 7 місяців тому +12

    I keep seeing zolita everywhere, I'm in love... happy valentine's day to you zolita happy valentine to you all ❤

  • @Becks_3
    @Becks_3 7 місяців тому +10

    Happy Valentine’s Day Shannon! Spending this year alone, its not due to breakup but a deeper sorrow for my mum who transitioned a few weeks ago (so i am shattered). I have been looking forward to finding solace in ur podcast tonight (already night time for me). Sending love your way. Hope you enjoy your day 🩵

  • @clauinmay
    @clauinmay 7 місяців тому +8

    "i'm attracted to all three of them in different ways" literally the magic of boygenius in a sentence

  • @catherinechase9517
    @catherinechase9517 7 місяців тому +9

    My best friend for the last 5 years has bought me a single rose for Valentine’s Day because she knows how much I love flowers!! I dry the flower so soon enough I’ll have a bouquet 💐🫶🏻💕🏳️‍🌈

  • @hmmcms1
    @hmmcms1 7 місяців тому +8

    Happy Valentine’s Day! You look great in red!!🥰

  • @keatonmask1918
    @keatonmask1918 7 місяців тому +6

    I don’t have a valentine this year so thank you both for officially asking me! haha ❤

  • @_asantesana_squashbanana_
    @_asantesana_squashbanana_ 7 місяців тому +6

    All you need are pets to know unconditional love and loyalty. Not to mention peace. With love from Down Under ❤

  • @WritingRN2
    @WritingRN2 7 місяців тому +3

    First of all, I love you Shannon❤ and second of all, 37:25 is legit me. I too have wondered if I can still consider myself Queer when I haven't been with a woman either. But I know for sure I'm attracted to them. I've just never been with one. It's a confusing thing for me.

  • @flxxlh
    @flxxlh 7 місяців тому +6

    the slow zoom got me laughing so hard🤣

  • @SophiaAnderson16
    @SophiaAnderson16 7 місяців тому +3

    Shannon! You may never read this but I just wanted to thank you so much for your presence and this podcast! I have been talking to this girl from Hinge for a few weeks (although I met her once during undergrad and thought she was cute) and have been going on dates with her. Last night she texted saying she's just feeling a platonic vibe between us so I've been super sad over the situation because I really liked her. So I decided to watch this episode while I ate my dinner to cheer me up. I have been watching you for probably 8 years or so and you always brighten my day and have become one of my comfort UA-camrs. So thank you for all that you do and for being the person you are

  • @danijelasaric5738
    @danijelasaric5738 7 місяців тому +6

    Love this podcast and this community happy valentine’s day everyone ❤

  • @debbiebeveridge1883
    @debbiebeveridge1883 7 місяців тому +6

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you and Zoe!❤

  • @NoYes-oh9pt
    @NoYes-oh9pt 7 місяців тому +4

    Such a relatable episode. My last wlw relationship ended because of lesbian bed death (among other factors) bc eventually it just felt like we were best friends hanging out all the time

    • @rpmmoth712
      @rpmmoth712 7 місяців тому +1

      I don't understand this. My interest doesn't die or wane. Everytime we have sex it's like it's the first month having sex and it just stays at that intensity for me. The only thing that makes me uninterested and suddenly so is if my perspective of the person changes and it's usually because their character is horrible.

  • @Becks_3
    @Becks_3 7 місяців тому +4

    Shannon, Oh my goodness!! I had the best time watching this podcast. Zoe, sending you heaps of love. But seriously.. that moment when someone asked “what if you had 8 more in a tank?” And your response had me cracking up! “Read the room. If you got 8 more in the tank, let them out!” 😂 classic! Pure gold! x

  • @haley6973
    @haley6973 7 місяців тому +3

    have casey tanner on! she’s a queer sex therapist and her content is awesome

  • @megshogie6123
    @megshogie6123 7 місяців тому +3

    Happy Valentines Day, Shannon!! And Zoey too!! ❤❤ love for you both, today and all days. I LOVE the pup...stretches, and making herself a little bed space...she is SO FREAKIN CUTE😊

  • @Supernellly
    @Supernellly 7 місяців тому +2

    Please do more “Fuck, Marry Kill” loved it! 😂🙏🏼

  • @lavenderrosecosplay5639
    @lavenderrosecosplay5639 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy Valentines! I hope you had a nice day Shannon and Zoey. Recently discovered both of you and I'm loving the podcast!

  • @ellouisebadger849
    @ellouisebadger849 7 місяців тому +2

    If a woman is ever wearing lingerie for me... wow I might actually pass out 😂❤

  • @Mekaro94
    @Mekaro94 7 місяців тому +3

    Very pretty decorations! Happy Valentine's Day to everyone, lots of love to you ♡

  • @Viajeramzm4
    @Viajeramzm4 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy Belated Vday Shannon & Zolita Love you guys!

  • @11Windermere
    @11Windermere 7 місяців тому +1

    Where does the last name BEVERAGE come from??? And in Dry Feb? LOL but seriously where does that name come from? xo

  • @intrepid_astronaut
    @intrepid_astronaut 7 місяців тому +1

    Another most splendid episode with the best, love seeing Zolita as a guest and, of course, featuring Quinn!!
    On another note, I have this non-scientifically backed theory that one of the reasons lesbian bed death occurs is because, unlike heterosexual tomfoolery, there really isn't a physiological time limit. Where with men, once they're "off to the races", there will come an eventual point in which they will be rendered fully "out of commission" for a period of time, might as well just slap a sign on them that says "out of service". However, for women, when the relationship is new, there's often a lot of sex happening, and this subconsciously becomes a baseline expectation. Also, I think people get caught up in the idea that sex isn't done until someone "finishes", which, to me, couldn't be further from the truth. Sex isn't magically rendered invalid because someone or both didn't finish, this pressure doesn't need to exist. Circling back to what Zolita mentioned, embrace "the quickie" and just enjoy it for the sake of engaging in that level of intimacy with your partner. No one needs to finish and it doesn't need to be a back-breaking marathon.
    As always, thanks for indulging my musings, Happy Valentine's, y'all!

  • @emilykissell4015
    @emilykissell4015 7 місяців тому +1

    My bff asked if I ever liked her and she was worried about my answer lol. But, I spent valentines day with her and her boys...got them each a rose and she cooked us a nice homemade meal. I never have and I still don't like her like that and we've had that conversation more times than either of us would like, but I think it's healthy to have regular check ins. We check in about so many other things because sometimes boundaries change. 🤷

  • @stacy4329
    @stacy4329 2 місяці тому

    Clicked because 1. Found this channel because some title said lesbian, and 2. Pomeranian
    😊

  • @kaszadorina6806
    @kaszadorina6806 7 місяців тому +2

    Really liked this episode, Happy Valentines Day to y'all!!!

  • @Phule77
    @Phule77 3 місяці тому

    I think a lot of people are asexual but grow up with messaging that sex is required for relationships.

  • @lapetitelynn
    @lapetitelynn 7 місяців тому +1

    Shan, you definitely need a dog! You’re so good with them and you’re like the most dog person in the world (but with no dog)

  • @loh.22
    @loh.22 7 місяців тому +1

    Reminder to be nice to your local florist. We go through hell. We have no time for love even if we want it. Be kind no matter how stressed you are.

  • @krojle
    @krojle 7 місяців тому +3

    I love you Shannon happy valentine day

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 7 місяців тому +1

    Shannon can one get TomboyX in Australia? I’m have trouble finding it on line.😬

  • @lilysantacruz2682
    @lilysantacruz2682 7 місяців тому +1

    Reignite your crush on Amanda Seyfried watch the movie Chloe😍

  • @Amy-zp1qf
    @Amy-zp1qf 7 місяців тому +1

    Happy valentine day to you & zoe❤️❣️❤️the pod it’s soo Good 💯❤️to see Quincy he’s the cutest 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @3Oh3metrostation
    @3Oh3metrostation 7 місяців тому +1

    Happy Valentine's Day Shannon! ❤ I Love U! 😘 And to all the girls and gays!

  • @kaitlynwhitlock109
    @kaitlynwhitlock109 7 місяців тому +1

    Esther Perel does great work on the topic on long term relationships and sex: She has a TED Talk "The secret to desire in a long-term relationship"

  • @pottertardis9706
    @pottertardis9706 7 місяців тому +3

    Best episode ❤ I also love the solo one

  • @sierrasipe4893
    @sierrasipe4893 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m so excited for this podcast to evolve and grow for you!! I’ve missed you over the past few years and I’m glad you’re back in one way or another ❤️ happy Valentine’s Day to you love. I love you!

  • @AllAboutAmyB
    @AllAboutAmyB 7 місяців тому +1

    Love your friendship. Love your Pod. Look forward to it every week. Hope you had fun at Dave and Busters 😊

  • @karintenbroek2026
    @karintenbroek2026 7 місяців тому +1

    A big valentine's kiss for you both from the Netherlands ❤

  • @CintaBandung-l1t
    @CintaBandung-l1t 7 місяців тому +1

    Happy valentine's day❤❤❤
    Cant wait to see u with vweb

  • @iamzulfiyamusic
    @iamzulfiyamusic 7 місяців тому +1

    lol I have text anxiety like this all the time! 💕

  • @talinas1731
    @talinas1731 6 місяців тому +1

    watching this march 29th 2924+

  • @ivrosepetalsvi
    @ivrosepetalsvi 7 місяців тому +2

    happy valentines day i love yall 💖

  • @madaleeX
    @madaleeX 7 місяців тому +1

    You two should be together ❤️

  • @beatriz.8.
    @beatriz.8. 7 місяців тому

    you guys holding the mics in your hands gives me anxiety!!! PLEASE get some stands for them, those precioussssssss

  • @spupodcast
    @spupodcast 7 місяців тому

    I am a sex therapist, lets talk! Ask me anything.

  • @mommyissuesmusic
    @mommyissuesmusic 5 місяців тому

    Shannon mentions wearing a ribbed tank and IMMEDIATELY there’s a knock on the door. 😂😂😂

  • @nurellysa
    @nurellysa 7 місяців тому +1

    Am I the only one who ships them

  • @hmmcms1
    @hmmcms1 7 місяців тому +2

    Are you doing sxsw this year??

  • @ITZAKY-o6x
    @ITZAKY-o6x 7 місяців тому +1

    Can I steal Quincy?

  • @deborahsnyder9398
    @deborahsnyder9398 7 місяців тому +1

    Happy Valentine Day Love Love You ❤❤

  • @thalitafernanda2404
    @thalitafernanda2404 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤😘 do 🇧🇷😍😍😍🔥🔥👊

  • @ROCKONplaceboforever
    @ROCKONplaceboforever 7 місяців тому

    I'm late but happy Valentine's day ❤❤❤ doesn't matter if you are single a couple or just your beautiful and amazing self you treat yourself and love yourself first 🙏 🌈 also love you Shannon

  • @Alisonkim_ju
    @Alisonkim_ju 7 місяців тому

    Shannon I looked up the efficacy of melatonin. I also need it.😂 I will take it!!!Let us be morning people together.

  • @kerismith6884
    @kerismith6884 7 місяців тому

    Omg you and Zoe trying to come up with the Woody Allen quote from Annie Hall. 😂 Watch that movie for the quote. Lmaooooo i don't want to belong to a club that would have me for a member. And omg that puppy dog is so cute!

  • @kerismith6884
    @kerismith6884 7 місяців тому

    You should get Whitni Miller BDE moves queer sex therapist to do a show with you. Love the show!

  • @smoothinfldr6994
    @smoothinfldr6994 7 місяців тому

    Good stuff lol.
    My breakup song pick: Devil Don’t Know or Sunrise- Morgan Wallen

  • @becominge
    @becominge 7 місяців тому

    I can stop watching now.. 1 min 22 seconds in, and that little puppy sniff got me dead!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Rikki.64
    @Rikki.64 7 місяців тому

    Lot's of Love from your fans in the United Kingdom 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @theysay04
    @theysay04 7 місяців тому

    Forgot it's valentine's day until i got to the hospital for my physiotherapy. They do blood donation camp every year. went to donate with my therapist lol... I didn't even get to donate though.

  • @marlee4177
    @marlee4177 7 місяців тому

    Happy Valentine’s Day!!! Question for you and Vwebs next episode: what is y’all’s favorite memory from being on the Farm at Bonnaroo? Will you ever be back?

  • @winec00ler
    @winec00ler 7 місяців тому +1

    hot ❤‍🔥@9:07

  • @stacy4329
    @stacy4329 2 місяці тому

    Quinn is so cute 🥰

  • @augustabernard4483
    @augustabernard4483 7 місяців тому

    A friend sent me money for valentines day....Was happy.

  • @rachaelmcmillan7737
    @rachaelmcmillan7737 7 місяців тому

    YAYYY SO EXCITED ABOUT ANOTHER ZOLITA EPISODE!! Also when I first looked at the thumbnail I thought she was Alex Cooper lol

  • @agirlnamedkaitlyn5775
    @agirlnamedkaitlyn5775 6 місяців тому +1

    28:40 😂loved it

  • @notreallyjess21
    @notreallyjess21 7 місяців тому

    I also pronounce lingerie as lingerie 😅

  • @summerwalker7303
    @summerwalker7303 7 місяців тому

    It’s an upside down pineapple shannon 😂😂 I love you guys lol

  • @Carriehammer718
    @Carriehammer718 7 місяців тому +1

    ♥ ♥ ♥

  • @hockeyboy97
    @hockeyboy97 7 місяців тому

    Happy Valentine’s Day to my best friend. I love you

  • @ITZAKY-o6x
    @ITZAKY-o6x 7 місяців тому +1

    Love this episode

  • @ruth9924
    @ruth9924 7 місяців тому

    Excellent episode!

    • @Rainbow_Warrior_Princess
      @Rainbow_Warrior_Princess 7 місяців тому

      It is definately a German Spitz, either a Pomeranian (Zwergspitz / Dwarfspitz) or a Kleinspitz (Miniature Spitz).

  • @joriemitchell2069
    @joriemitchell2069 7 місяців тому

    Mating in Captivity by Ester Perel in re to bed death

  • @ellouisebadger849
    @ellouisebadger849 7 місяців тому

    I was so not interested in Valentine's Day until this video popped up 😂❤

  • @Rikki.64
    @Rikki.64 7 місяців тому +3

    That would make great Merch "Lesbians can have quickies too!" 😂

  • @ninreck5121
    @ninreck5121 7 місяців тому

    @betterhelp needs to sponsor you

  • @terrisparks311
    @terrisparks311 7 місяців тому

    No Valentine for me - so Love you Shannon

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 7 місяців тому

    Are you tired sweetheart?💜💜

  • @deeguinan3751
    @deeguinan3751 7 місяців тому

    december 12th is my bday yassss

  • @sydneypetchel4459
    @sydneypetchel4459 7 місяців тому +1

    Who is Audrey

  • @DeborahDewey-j6m
    @DeborahDewey-j6m 3 місяці тому

    Love you Shannon❤

  • @felicitas5091
    @felicitas5091 7 місяців тому

    So cute thank you girls❤

  • @carrieyang1994
    @carrieyang1994 6 місяців тому

    Quin is too cute

  • @veromeeker445
    @veromeeker445 7 місяців тому

    Aye tell zoey I said wat up

  • @Rikki.64
    @Rikki.64 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy Valentine's Day Shannon 💐💖🫂

  • @ITZAKY-o6x
    @ITZAKY-o6x 6 місяців тому

  • @Julie_ao
    @Julie_ao 7 місяців тому

    Hi.

  • @b_itiswhatitisb514
    @b_itiswhatitisb514 7 місяців тому

    Happy Valentine’s Day ladies!! Love you Shannon ❤️

    • @b_itiswhatitisb514
      @b_itiswhatitisb514 7 місяців тому

      Zoe you’re awesome!! Much love and respect 💕💕💕✊✊✊

  • @Rikki.64
    @Rikki.64 7 місяців тому

    🌈💖🏳️‍🌈

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee 7 місяців тому

    ❤U

  • @julianamendesalves5547
    @julianamendesalves5547 2 місяці тому

    46:27 Text you Shannon...wish I could listen to you/read. Liked all your photos. Any chances we can have 1on1 chat? 😜🥰

  • @julianamendesalves5547
    @julianamendesalves5547 2 місяці тому

    44:52 Shannon, what are you doing tonight? LoL😅 Can we talk?

  • @Chizz-Chioma
    @Chizz-Chioma 7 місяців тому

    Happy Valentine guys... Love y'all.

  • @blondiek5844
    @blondiek5844 7 місяців тому

    Zoe is so beautiful and smart girl. Shannon too. I think that you have to record more videos together. ❤