Her tactic is emotional exaustion. Doesnt give him a single minute alone, keeping the pressure on at all time. That poor man is done, hes just too tired to process anything. RUN AUSTIN RUN
@bella-vi9mu Props to him for being amicable with his ex and ex in laws. It's nice to see that people who broke up can still look out for each other's safety in a crisis. Maybe I've just seen way too many toxic divorce situations, so I'm impressed by basic human decency though. 😅
@@madalice5134common sense is and human decency is not common it's very rare cause it requires emotional control and self awareness and also being extremely honest with urself without victimizing urself in the process. Most people who are self aware of there issues just victimize themselfs saying there's nothing they can do about it.
On one hand I feel bad for junior high school me because she never got to date any of the people she liked, but on the other hand holy Jesus am I glad I never had to go through that phase. The second hand embarrassment is unbearable.
@@CL-lx2pm lol my brother is 16 and has said he's not sure about dating during high school. i was like, 'that's probably a good decision'. plenty of people didn't date in high school and we've got perfectly acceptable love lives as adults :) edit- he'd be allowed to if he wanted to, of course. i don't think banning kids from dating is the answer at all, neither does his mom. we think just speaking honestly about it helps a lot. and i guess it helps that he's seen his mom and me happily single for years on end lol
No literally! I was instantly reminded of those wattpad stories written by 12 yr olds where the main character would get in the face of their love interest and be like “ it’s you and me against the world”-source: a former wattpad kid😔
this helps explain why there is an EPIDEMIC of female teachers raping/molesting/sexually assaulting students. they want to relive that high school first love that makes them feel alive/crazy about them. These women are often married with kids even, but they want the 1 thing many women hold as the most important thing in the world, what they perceive as "true love." often they see this in high school, cuz the idea of high school sweethearts and the mindset of not getting the boys when they were younger combined into them taking advantage of young boys... TLDR male validation is more important than anyhing else in these womens lives, and will risk prison, losing their children, marriage, freedom, and get disowned from your family... what could be worth it? male validation trumps it all.
I think she didnt want them separated bc that way she couldnt control what he said. Shes hiding abuse and freaking out bc theyre about to expose her ass
When people are in that state of mind. Its nearly impossible to be rational with them. Whatever you say goes in one ear and out the other. I do help she seeks help and improves her situation for the sake of her child or children.
Bruh once I saw the funkos, i immediately know Austin is a sweet, sad boi who got taken advantage of his trauma when he was looking for comfort and safety and she used it against him
“Austin, please come here.” “Austin, please come back to me.” ”Austin, don’t do anything” “Austin, protect me please.” “Austin, don’t show them.” “Austin, don’t shut the door.” “Austin, you have to save me.” “Austin, can I come in?” “Austin, come and save me.” “AUSTIN!” Austin is tired
As an older sister you don't have to remind him that. You did it bc you love and care for him not bc you want him to be gratefull. If one day he help you for something, do you really want him to use that against you everytime you argue with him? Being there for your family is not a privilege it is a duty.
It is a joke relax. Also it depends on your relationship with your brother, me and my brother joke on everything even traumatic stuff so this would be us.
@@massimechedou7407nobody said anything about using it in arguments, you’re showing what you think someone would do instead of reading and understanding .
@@oop6390 You are the one who didn't understand bro. The comment said that she would remind him that moment. Read it again. I don't show anything it is literally written.
@@LomangeFizz How can you know its a joke? You don't know her. Anyway I say that in the case its not. It might be a joke for you but go see people traumatized by experiences like that and see if they are laughing about it. Your way of thinking and what you find funny is not representative of everyone. I'm relax btw I'm just saying what I think I didn't insult anyone. A negative comment doesn't mean you need to relax
The fact that the ex-husband showed up to see if Austin and his sister were safe says A LOT. Also I’m SO glad you found this. I saw this a while ago and immediately thought “Boze needs to see this”
My thoughts exactly. It's a HUGE red flag if the ex is friends with the current lover or his family and does personal check ups. I hope Austin understands that and bails.
You just know that once all of this was over and everyone was gone, Austin sat in his house, took a deep breath, and rediscovered what silence sounds like.
@@AJDaniels5298excuse me, *SIMON AND GARFUNKLE* STARTED that chat (no disrespect to Disturbed's version. That one was absolute fire and it's honestly REALLY hard for me to say if I like the OG version or Disturbed's version best). Put some respect on the OGs for Sound of Silence!
Boze has said before about how toxic people will try to get a small win in an argument, so her just wanting him to not show his phone, just wanting her stuff, just wanting her dog, just wanting a lighter, just needing to pee, it's all because she has lost so much control that she's trying anything and everything to just get ONE win. I love that she was shut down every single time
I also wonder if anybody punched her when she actually settle down or not? I doubt she would change, just mellow out until she can get to "AUSTIN?;#&5ydtk250:'3 AUSTIN?!? GDtO5j4CeIJcDU" again
Man, this is so accurate. My boyfriend’s ex tried this for months after she found out he was seeing someone. She went so far as to give him her son’s dog while was at camp, because she said the dog missed him. Little did she know I love all the dogs😂. After a couple of weeks, she asked for visitation. We were like nah, she has a new momma now😂
She's just going to stalk him like an absolute psychopath the second she gets out of jail. She'll show up at his house and place of work and bang on the door, shrieking "AUSTIN!"
@@mattdunn4977ITS NOT ! His name is ALLEN -I used to be like Allen why she call you that? “He goes:” Well we talked so long before I realized she thought my name was “Austin”, it seemed awkward correcting her … and now… well…you know…”we laughed, and figured They might not even hang out again “….but now… well…
@@khaleesireyna731 REAL, I cut off this abusive emotionally manipulative friend/situationship one time and I was literally getting messages from his other ex-friends/-partners in entire other *countries*, people I had not known even existed, all congratulating me and offering to talk about recovering from him...... felt like I had just realized I had been trapped in a cave for 3 years straight or something
Personally, I took it as her trying to get the officers to “turn on him” . Manipulators love to isolate their victims and single them out. If the cops were protecting Austin then she wanted to make the cops suspect him
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe she had there some abusing/threatening mails or something? There's no way she would be screaming like that just for a weird porn. 😄
It's also a means of intimidation and control. Hearing your name triggers your attention, it's almost impossible not to focus on someone when they say your name even if they're not talking to you. Go into a Walmart and loudly say a common name, watch how many people turn around or say "What?" even though they don't know you. 😂😂 Blitzing someone with their name multiple times during an argument, for example, makes it very hard for the person to focus on ANYTHING but you and your bs. It's harder for them to form thoughts, it's literally that distracting. Also, using a different but similar name when addressing someone you don't much care for is a pretty common method of passive-aggressive dismissal. 😬 Like "Yeah sure thing Justin" when the dude's name is really Dustin or whatever.
It makes me sick the amount of times she pleads for him to protect for. For me, it says that he's a very loving and protective person and she's taken advantage of that and used it against him for a long time.
On the one hand, I've seen it first hand and it is honestly scary the amount of "not my fault/I'm ALWAYS the victim" these people can play, but on the other hand, it is so cringe that I don't get it either because I feel my soul shrivel up a bit at the thought of being LIKE THAT.
For those in my replies: I realized that Boze watched a different video than I did and it had more footage, so I recounted. New number is 246. Sorry for the mistake.
Her repeatedly saying his name is also a tactic - it's supposed to make people feel more sympathetic to you if you keep using their name, except if you do it too much you just look crazy.
But it kept Austin's attention on her and not thinking about what the cops and his sister are telling him. Keeping him off balance and overwhelmed was the key to her plan.
You’re also more likely too pay attention. It’s been shown that using a persons name is the most efficient way to get their attention, voluntarily and involuntarily
I am pretty sure she's either high or drunk which, on top of the desperation to get the control over him (because I believe she's an abuser) made her more obvious than she would have been ordinarily.
the ex-husband is the mvp. he’s familiar with that crazy and he was willing to put himself back into a situation where he’d have to deal with her just so another guy doesn’t get trapped the same way he did ❤
Props to the sister for staying calm during this, was asked to wait downstairs, gave the officer any info she thought would help, and then just let them do their jobs
For real. Poor guy man, I have a feeling he's sick of hearing his own name after hearing her scream it so many times. I know I would be if she screamed my name all night like that, damn. I'd hear her voice every time a person called my name.
This is the best evidence that there is to show why every state needs to include COERCIVE CONTROL into domestic violence laws!!! She should have been arrested for this after the first 50 times she yelled Austin. It's gross and sickening to see her do this for soo long. The leos did a good job within the limits of their power here though.
Omg yes it’s so fuggin scary all I could think was please don’t go back with her Austin, she WILL hurt you! She is scary, and relentless, a horrible combination
Why couldn’t they have charged her with disorderly conduct a little earlier on because she was interfering with the investigation from the beginning? I don’t have the patience for those kinds of people
@tremoneyv Girls. And white girls at that. Tons more wiggle room for a white girl to shriek "Austin! Austin!" 932 times at night than for a man to bellow "Jessica! Jessica!" in the same scenario. Much less if he's black or brown.
Yes, I was just thinking that! They let her get away with quite a bit before actually detaining her. Obviously I don’t want police brutality against her, but I think any reasonable person can see the very large difference between those two scenarios.
She wanted them to force her away, it's a lose/lose situation. Let her stay and manipulate him, or force her away and let her scream victim to make him feel bad. "This is the effort it would take to get rid of me" to make him feel powerless later on.
Austin deserves better, and I hope and pray he never gets hurt by her again. The emotional and metal exhaustion she caused me by just listening to the body cam, I can’t imagine what it feels like to live with her
When she said "AUSTIN!..AUSTIN, THEY'RE TRYING TO MAKE ME GO DOWNSTAIRS!" All I could think of is; "ANDRE! THERE'S A HELICOPTER IN MY HOUSE!" "That's just the ceiling fan, grandma.." "OKAY!" 🤣😂😆
I need to know the crazy lore behind this lady. The ex husband, Austin was her coworker, does she love Austin, "I haven't seen him in 2 years", why doesn't she have somewhere to go, "they're trying to keep us apart AGAIN", etc.
This made me so mad because why didn’t they just detain her and take her downstairs so they could talk to him. Why tf would they take him and his sister out of their home. Why didn’t they detain her. That’s absolutely wild.
I would be SO annoyed with this girl as my neighbor... I can already hear my big dog barking up a storm at all that noise and me just being like "stfu". 🙄😑
@@azzombie That's what I thought but there they were trying to. I didn't curse or act crazy or anything. Small towns seem to attract power hungry backwoods individuals who have more ego than ability.
An officer once told my mom he’d “take her to the street and beat her” as a “joke”, than admitted he had no reason to pull her over, he just didn’t like the way her car looked (whatever that meant).
the cops showed up at my house and i 16 at the time had to come down stairs and say no excuse me i am going to be loud for a second, no you are not correct, because they had come down on false claims of us being abused, a counselor at my school made that arrangement when nothing was wrong she doesn't have the job anymore like what is.. wrong with the way police approach people and situations?
And especially because he was reacting to a facebook post saying he was missing, and he instantly knew to get over there. Smh They should form a support group
I’m receiving extreme second hand embarrassment from her. Her laying on the ground, begging for him, knocking at the door, lying, attempting to manipulate, and causing a commotion. I wish the best for Austin. I hope he’s able to leave her for good. She’s a freak.
Can we point out her using an excuse to get inside. She clearly calmed down and tried to say she "wanted a lighter". Then when the cop offered to give her his downstairs, she realized she's not getting inside which is what she really wanted and got all insane again.
hands down 30 seconds in to her speaking 100 words a second (not literally), i would’ve closed the door and said she was going to get charged with obstruction
She reminds me so much of my ex. I was not allowed to go to another room or sleep until we "resolved the issue". Never a moment of peace until I was so tired I'd agree to anything.
I have neighbors like this and can confirm. Big pity for the building management too, and bless these cops. Some police officers won't even get involved when this is going on with some couples: they just let them fight it out.
The way the sister acting reminded my own sis especially her tone and expression; chill outside yet has that calm rage inside. The toxic girlfriend also reminds me of my abusive ex, but he was way more sneaky and manipulative about it. Thankfully, I broke up with him and everyone was very happy and supportive. 💛 Edit: Hardest I've laughed at Boze's community, thanks girl! 💛
Girl. I emailed you this video as soon as it came out months ago. The moment i watched this woman try ANYTHING to make eye contact w/ Austin.... i knew! I knew i needed Boze to have a look & pick this apart. Ive never seen something so unhinged in my life. She was looking between the officers' legs trying to make eye contect w/ that poor guy.
I have a friend whose brother was in a similar situation. His ex was incredibly controlling and he was trapped with her for YEARS. They’re separated now, and she’s also a deadbeat mom to their kids. Now, my friend says it feels like she’s getting to know him all over again, because her entire family had lost him for so long
I think they should've, they were being very nice to her though. Imo they let her be heard by him for way too long though, considering he's an obvious abuse victim. If the genders were reversed no way would they have left a man scream at a woman for so long, they would have cut contact between them immediately specifically so he couldn't manipulate the victim like she tried to do so many times in the video. And I generally don't like pulling this card, but I do think double-standards apply here. I genuinely think letting her have such an audible breakdown probably did him more harm than good, hearing that shit is traumatic. I'm very glad he had his sister in there with him though, and that she searched for him only 24 hours after he cut contact considering he has his own house. If that woman's tactics of trying to isolate him had festered even more than I fear that state she would've found him in.
When my cat wants something, she meows literally nonstop at my door until someone caves and lets her in. This emotionally stunted woman uses the same tactic as a cat.
the emotional overwhelm where you can't think is quite literally an interrogation tactic to get suspects to open up because they have no opportunity to think or process or make the best decisions for themselves.
he is probably extremely happy that he has already escaped... he is like a firefighter, except he saves people from her, and not from flames... I mean, I'd rather be trapped in a burning building.
@@Burncsbas someone who has spent some time not only getting myself away from my crazy mother's shenanigans, but also helping other people get away from her, I feel seen with this comment.
My heart goes out to him. I don’t think he’s heard the last from her and that is worrying. She’s dangerous. Anyone who can openly behave like this without a care in the world doesn’t just need therapy they need 24 hour supervision!
I watched the original video of this interaction and this woman is absolutely out of her mind. I’m glad to see that you’re covering this Boze, I really like that you dig deep and breakdown their behaviors/actions.
Honestly I love how gentle the cops were with Austin. Like at the beginning that one cop just calmly walked up despite her crazy ass screaming and he just gently said “Austin come here.” Like the contract from his tone to hers of her demanding and screaming and yelling for Austin to come over to the cops gently asking him to come with him. We love to see people being nice to abuse victims.
Her desperation to control Austin is not only pathetic but seriously unhinged. She's seriously a 51-50. Not a danger to herself, but to Austin or another poor unsuspecting guy. She's the type of girlfriend who would burn down a guys house because if she can't have him, no one can and refuses to live without him. How did her ex-husband get free? He needs to have a talk with Austin. Luckily Austin has such a protective sister and mom. A sister who has her eyes open to such a manipulating gaslighter. She did say she wanted to be taken somewhere safe. So, jail it is. I really want to see her antics in court.
When boze said something about not working in law enforcement because she would've socked her it radiated the same energy as Kenji saying "TASER TASER" when something slightly happens and that's why they're my favorite lil content creators 😌
As someone who has severe mental illness in the family, this is what I personally call “Hollywood Crazy”: The type of crazy action/episode that you’d see in a movie and go “no one actually does that shit! That’s an inaccurate, and disrespectful portrayal of mental illness”, …then later be shocked to see a real human being doing it in real life… That lady absolutely needs mental health services. It was scary to watch how obsessive she was.
Ever have a textbook narcissist as a mom (Of course many of you have). I got the "That isn't how you're feeling, this is how you're feeling" lectures a lot. It fucked me up hard, because I question what emotions I am going through now because my poor brain is just unable to tell how I feel right away- so I need a minute to orient- which was another thing I was never given. I was cut off so many times trying to explain what was wrong when I was young, that when people interrupt me now, I just shut right up. Bombarded into silence and then bombarded more being asked "So what's wrong? Tell us tell us" bs they were just pointless circles. I know others have been through this- I feel you guys
God that’s awful. I was just made to feel like I was a constant bother and annoyance so now I constantly view myself in that light but the emotional exhaustion you must have gone through as a little child is insane. Reading your comment made me really sad, both for little you and grown up you, not that you’re someone that needs to be pitied by any means, but just having a mother like that, you didn’t ask for it and didn’t deserve it, some people should not be parents, period.
@@KLee1028 Yeah being put in a constant state of confusion makes for a very messed up and confused adult. If you ever see someone getting overwhelmed by simple questions to decide things - may have had a similar life to mine. It goes through our brains like "Oh my god, do I get to decide? What if I decide wrong? what is the right answer here? which does everyone like?" Meanwhile the waiter, as all waiters can tell it seems, is like "Ma'am this burger is for you? It's just swiss or cheddar?"
I do that too!!! I can't stand being interrupted to the point where at one point when I was a teenager, I went mute. "Until someone noticed. No one will. It doesn't matter if I try to say anything anyway." And I was right. No one noticed, no one even commented on how I was "quiet." I only talked to my dog and got very good at giving people facial cues and hand gestures they wanted. Nowadays, even though mother is passed, if I'm interrupted, I just shut right up. I make myself try a little harder and I do repeat myself if people genuinely didn't hear it or didn't understand, but if I try talking and I'm cut off more than twice I just shut down and I literally can't try again.
In the original video, I see people commenting that she might be having a mental episode. But it’s still not an excuse. She’s so incredibly exhausting and overwhelming and no one deserves to have to deal with it.
I'll be honest, I'm not getting "mental episode" from her here. I'm getting, like Boze said, "I'm losing control over the person I've been controlling this whole time".
I personally dealt with someone with a mental episode similar like this and it is a struggle. They have no control over it. Their reality shifts and everything is lead by feelings no filter, no thinking over it. They'll get impulsive, irritable, aggressive, unreasonable, manipulative even. It's an awful sickness. I don't wish that on anybody.
@khaleesireyna731 nah this is 100% a mental episode but she still needs to go figure it out. She keeps talking about don't show them Austin, they're smiling Austin, they took my passwords Austin, my dogs in there(it wasnt). These are absolutely manifested from a mental break of some sort whether it's psychosis or schizophrenia or schizo-effective disorder idk but it's not just he "being a controlling narcissist"
i was a codependent teenager, and still have some of those tendencies on a much smaller scale. this isn't a mental health episode, she knows what she's doing. i'm sure her emotions are real, mine were too, but i can also vouch that everything she's doing only comes from a fear of being alone/losing her partner. she probably is a normal person deep deep deeeeeeep down, but she's built up so many tactics that force people to become attached to her because she's scared of not having someone. also explains why she would leave an ex and get a new boyfriend, she doesn't care who it is, she just wants someone she can convince to love her. sad and at her grown age she should know better.
Hearing and seeing how blatant she was about trying to manipulate him made my skin CRAWL. Like how desperate she acts just... holyyy ;-; Hearing how insistent she was with it was so uncomfortable, I think if I was in his shoes I would end up doing what she said purely because of the pressure. This poor man I hope he is healing now and away from her + ppl like her for good. Also props to Austin for being so strong cuz I'd be in TEARS like aaaahhhhh ;-; shes just too too much and so blatant about it- Honestly had to pause a few times cuz shes making me so anxious I can only imagine what Austin felt like ;-;
Impressive. My ex mentally broke me and convinced me i was lower than dirt so i would accept whatever treatment she felt like dishing out, and this chick makes me think my ex wasnt that bad
I think it’s because of the strength difference. Men are generally bigger and stronger than women. So when someone big threatens someone smaller than them, people take it more seriously than the opposite. Plus men commit more violent crimes I think. I’m not saying women don’t have the capacity to be violent. But when a guy behaves like her, in most cases his victim rarely comes out physically intact…*It’s a double standard, I’m not defending it at all* , I’m just saying it doesn’t surprise me, it’s the police after all.
@@haywoodjablowmi1427 It's probably just a risk thing. Cops only have a reason to react when there is a real danger. She was annoying as hell but not a real danger yet. Tbh though with how many times she tried to push past them I don't really get why they didn't just sit her ass in the cop car just to have her out of the way. The disorderly conduct thing happened long before the actual arrest.
You got to love how at 19:50 through all her crazy yelling, she takes a break long enough to calmly light her cigarette before she gets back to Screaming AUSTIN!
Her tactic is emotional exaustion. Doesnt give him a single minute alone, keeping the pressure on at all time. That poor man is done, hes just too tired to process anything. RUN AUSTIN RUN
I used to be super susceptible to emotional exhaustion so when I notice that I’m SCREAMING from the rooftops lol
Yes exactly that! I was trying to figure out the word for it.. she is an emotional vampire. Sucking the life out of everyone around her.
Exactly it!!! I hope he heals from this... even I'm gonna have nightmares hearing his name 😭
@@MeganSpruce90 she should be on What We Do In The Shadows 😂
@@bozevstheworldWhat’s the title of the OG video? I can’t seem to find it.
the fact that the ex husband came to save the boyfriend is extremely telling 😭
@bella-vi9mu ohh okay i may have misheard but still veryyy telling
@bella-vi9mu Props to him for being amicable with his ex and ex in laws. It's nice to see that people who broke up can still look out for each other's safety in a crisis. Maybe I've just seen way too many toxic divorce situations, so I'm impressed by basic human decency though. 😅
@@madalice5134common sense is and human decency is not common it's very rare cause it requires emotional control and self awareness and also being extremely honest with urself without victimizing urself in the process.
Most people who are self aware of there issues just victimize themselfs saying there's nothing they can do about it.
That man knew the boyfriend was in danger and what his ex is capable of.
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"I wouldn't put it past her running down the street with handcuffs on yelling Austin! Austin they're winning!" Died laughing at that point.
This girl is like a crazy 14 year old who thinks she's in love and it is so embarrassing
On one hand I feel bad for junior high school me because she never got to date any of the people she liked, but on the other hand holy Jesus am I glad I never had to go through that phase. The second hand embarrassment is unbearable.
@@CL-lx2pmI think this exactly like I could have had a high/middle school sweetheart but I also am glad this never happened to me
@@CL-lx2pm lol my brother is 16 and has said he's not sure about dating during high school. i was like, 'that's probably a good decision'. plenty of people didn't date in high school and we've got perfectly acceptable love lives as adults :)
edit- he'd be allowed to if he wanted to, of course. i don't think banning kids from dating is the answer at all, neither does his mom. we think just speaking honestly about it helps a lot. and i guess it helps that he's seen his mom and me happily single for years on end lol
No literally! I was instantly reminded of those wattpad stories written by 12 yr olds where the main character would get in the face of their love interest and be like “ it’s you and me against the world”-source: a former wattpad kid😔
this helps explain why there is an EPIDEMIC of female teachers raping/molesting/sexually assaulting students. they want to relive that high school first love that makes them feel alive/crazy about them. These women are often married with kids even, but they want the 1 thing many women hold as the most important thing in the world, what they perceive as "true love." often they see this in high school, cuz the idea of high school sweethearts and the mindset of not getting the boys when they were younger combined into them taking advantage of young boys...
TLDR male validation is more important than anyhing else in these womens lives, and will risk prison, losing their children, marriage, freedom, and get disowned from your family... what could be worth it? male validation trumps it all.
She has an extreme issue with jealousy. She is toxic, and i hope he stays away from this woman.
I think she didnt want them separated bc that way she couldnt control what he said. Shes hiding abuse and freaking out bc theyre about to expose her ass
well said xopinkleox.
i don't see jealousy here; i just see a control freak
correct!!!
When people are in that state of mind. Its nearly impossible to be rational with them. Whatever you say goes in one ear and out the other. I do help she seeks help and improves her situation for the sake of her child or children.
Bruh once I saw the funkos, i immediately know Austin is a sweet, sad boi who got taken advantage of his trauma when he was looking for comfort and safety and she used it against him
“Austin, please come here.”
“Austin, please come back to me.”
”Austin, don’t do anything”
“Austin, protect me please.”
“Austin, don’t show them.”
“Austin, don’t shut the door.”
“Austin, you have to save me.”
“Austin, can I come in?”
“Austin, come and save me.”
“AUSTIN!”
Austin is tired
I’d be too fr 😭
Austin about to change his name to never hear it again.
AUSTIN!! DONT LEAVE ME HERE!!
AUSTIN!! AUSTIIIIIN!!
(coughing and banging)
HELP MEEE
I'm tired and I wasn't even there.
@@wouldntyouliketoknowwesath778910/10 reference 😂
Take a sip of water every time she says “Austin!”
Stay hydrated, my friends
i think that might give me water poisoning lmao
i drank to much and died
i would drown
Just sit in a pool tbh
your tummy is gonna be all swish swish swish after
Bro as an older sister I would never let this footage down. I’d be like “Remember that time I saved you from that crazy chick…”
As an older sister you don't have to remind him that. You did it bc you love and care for him not bc you want him to be gratefull. If one day he help you for something, do you really want him to use that against you everytime you argue with him? Being there for your family is not a privilege it is a duty.
It is a joke relax. Also it depends on your relationship with your brother, me and my brother joke on everything even traumatic stuff so this would be us.
@@massimechedou7407nobody said anything about using it in arguments, you’re showing what you think someone would do instead of reading and understanding .
@@oop6390 You are the one who didn't understand bro. The comment said that she would remind him that moment. Read it again. I don't show anything it is literally written.
@@LomangeFizz How can you know its a joke? You don't know her. Anyway I say that in the case its not. It might be a joke for you but go see people traumatized by experiences like that and see if they are laughing about it. Your way of thinking and what you find funny is not representative of everyone. I'm relax btw I'm just saying what I think I didn't insult anyone. A negative comment doesn't mean you need to relax
The fact that the ex-husband showed up to see if Austin and his sister were safe says A LOT.
Also I’m SO glad you found this. I saw this a while ago and immediately thought “Boze needs to see this”
I hope they became friends and look out for each other 😮
My thoughts exactly.
It's a HUGE red flag if the ex is friends with the current lover or his family and does personal check ups. I hope Austin understands that and bails.
That's the ex of Austin's sister NOT the ex of the crazy gf.
The fact that she was actually married has left me dumbstruck 😮
Yeah the last time I saw an ex show up at the new partners house when something was wrong the new partner was dead in a suitcase… so. Says a lot.
You just know that once all of this was over and everyone was gone, Austin sat in his house, took a deep breath, and rediscovered what silence sounds like.
The silence would be deafening
_Disturbed has entered the chat_
idk, if i was him in that moment i feel like my ears would still be ringing with AUSTIIIIN, AUUUSTIIIIIIN 😂😭
I'm going to assume cognitive dissonance for a looooong time unraveling wtf he just went through 😂
@@AJDaniels5298excuse me, *SIMON AND GARFUNKLE* STARTED that chat (no disrespect to Disturbed's version. That one was absolute fire and it's honestly REALLY hard for me to say if I like the OG version or Disturbed's version best). Put some respect on the OGs for Sound of Silence!
"TOXIC" is a grave underestimation of what this woman is. She makes crazy ex-girlfriend look like saints
Boze has said before about how toxic people will try to get a small win in an argument, so her just wanting him to not show his phone, just wanting her stuff, just wanting her dog, just wanting a lighter, just needing to pee, it's all because she has lost so much control that she's trying anything and everything to just get ONE win.
I love that she was shut down every single time
I wonder how she would be in jail. Sorry for the other inmates who deal with her😢
I also wonder if anybody punched her when she actually settle down or not? I doubt she would change, just mellow out until she can get to "AUSTIN?;#&5ydtk250:'3 AUSTIN?!? GDtO5j4CeIJcDU" again
That is profoundly accurate
@@actual_doge3221 I've never been to prison, but i know someone who has, and she wouldn't have a fun time.
She would 100% piss off the wrong person.
Man, this is so accurate. My boyfriend’s ex tried this for months after she found out he was seeing someone. She went so far as to give him her son’s dog while was at camp, because she said the dog missed him. Little did she know I love all the dogs😂. After a couple of weeks, she asked for visitation. We were like nah, she has a new momma now😂
She's just going to stalk him like an absolute psychopath the second she gets out of jail. She'll show up at his house and place of work and bang on the door, shrieking "AUSTIN!"
Quick someone create a gofundme so Austin can move and change his name.
Hopefully not
@@mattdunn4977ITS NOT ! His name is ALLEN -I used to be like Allen why she call you that? “He goes:” Well we talked so long before I realized she thought my name was “Austin”, it seemed awkward correcting her … and now… well…you know…”we laughed, and figured They might not even hang out again “….but now… well…
@@icu3869that’s just so strange to me. What a weird dynamic
😅
Lmaoo wow I love how everyone (her ex husband, his sister & family) all banded together to get rid of this Avengers-level threat 😂💀💀
Honestly, you KNOW someone is bad news when their EX comes in to try to rescue you, like damn, listen to the veterans here!
That’s a loving support system at work!! Love them for that!
@@khaleesireyna731 REAL, I cut off this abusive emotionally manipulative friend/situationship one time and I was literally getting messages from his other ex-friends/-partners in entire other *countries*, people I had not known even existed, all congratulating me and offering to talk about recovering from him...... felt like I had just realized I had been trapped in a cave for 3 years straight or something
someone said take a shot every time she says Austin- SIS WE WOULD DIE.
😂👍🏻
Could you imagine 112 shots?Austin's. Edit: 246. I had watched a different video on this originally.
@DuckQuackerz you actually counted!????? 😂
@@scorchy_girl9820while difficult to an extent, all you really need is a counter app. And click each time
Even if we took shots of WATER we would die lol 😬
Broooo the girl's ex-husband comin in with the defense for Austin was absolutely hilarious 😂😂
Right. He was trying to save bro😂
Fr she’s a nut
it was the sisters ex husband, not hers
"DON'T SHOW THEM" 😂 Dude what are you trying to hide?
YEA RIGHT?! this woman needs to be investigated lol. i hope he did show them whatever tf she was talking about 🤣
Personally, I took it as her trying to get the officers to “turn on him” . Manipulators love to isolate their victims and single them out. If the cops were protecting Austin then she wanted to make the cops suspect him
The 15 bodies of her exes in the basement probably
The body
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe she had there some abusing/threatening mails or something? There's no way she would be screaming like that just for a weird porn. 😄
Take a shot every time she says AUSTIN!
How to get alcohol poisoning
Ded
5 minutes in, I can taste the video
How to die of alcohol poisoning
I will not be doing that.
I 1000000% believe this woman would escalate to violence if she can continue to be around him.
Yo fr, I can totally see him going “missing”.
There is a bit "Misery" going on there.
“Funko man, we got a funko man” best part of the video.
She heard the "if you want someone to like you, use their name" tip and NEVER LOOKED BACK
Oh god ! Yes you are right !
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I bet the maxi pad stack goes from floor to ceiling!
@@MusiciansRule07what
It's also a means of intimidation and control. Hearing your name triggers your attention, it's almost impossible not to focus on someone when they say your name even if they're not talking to you. Go into a Walmart and loudly say a common name, watch how many people turn around or say "What?" even though they don't know you. 😂😂
Blitzing someone with their name multiple times during an argument, for example, makes it very hard for the person to focus on ANYTHING but you and your bs. It's harder for them to form thoughts, it's literally that distracting.
Also, using a different but similar name when addressing someone you don't much care for is a pretty common method of passive-aggressive dismissal. 😬 Like "Yeah sure thing Justin" when the dude's name is really Dustin or whatever.
It makes me sick the amount of times she pleads for him to protect for. For me, it says that he's a very loving and protective person and she's taken advantage of that and used it against him for a long time.
You can tell he’s so soft too and he’s trying to still be nice:(
I never understand how someone can be so delusional that embarrassment just ceases to exist for them
On the one hand, I've seen it first hand and it is honestly scary the amount of "not my fault/I'm ALWAYS the victim" these people can play, but on the other hand, it is so cringe that I don't get it either because I feel my soul shrivel up a bit at the thought of being LIKE THAT.
She clearly has mental health issues beyond logical explanation and needs psychiatric help
Them being 'delusional' is what justifies their behavior in their head as not embarassing but correct n reasonable.
This woman said the word Austin an uncountable number of times. Austin? RUN. 💀🏃♂️
(AWOLNATION beat drop, slowed and reverb plays) 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨💨
246 Austin's came outta her mouth.
@@DuckQuackerzthank you for counting, my son and I were wondering this!!
@@DuckQuackerzthank you for saving me the time lmao
For those in my replies: I realized that Boze watched a different video than I did and it had more footage, so I recounted. New number is 246. Sorry for the mistake.
to whoever in the twitch chat said 'VERONICA OPEN THE DOOR OPEN THE DOOR PLEASE VERONICA OPEN THE DOOR' ur my favourite
SHE IS JD PERSONIFIED
CAN WE NOT FIGHT ANYMORE PLEASE CAN WE NOT FIGHT ANYMORE
VERONICA, I'M SURE YOU'RE SCARED, I'VE BEEN THERE I CAN SET YOU FREE
OHMYGOD THATS ACTUALLY SO GREAT I LOVE HEATHERS 😭😭😭
VERONICA DON'T MAKE ME COME IN THERE
*I'M GONNA COUNT TO THREE*
"Funko Man...we got a Funko Man. Just let the man collect his Funkos." 😂😂😂
won't you take me to Funko town
Her repeatedly saying his name is also a tactic - it's supposed to make people feel more sympathetic to you if you keep using their name, except if you do it too much you just look crazy.
But it kept Austin's attention on her and not thinking about what the cops and his sister are telling him. Keeping him off balance and overwhelmed was the key to her plan.
You’re also more likely too pay attention. It’s been shown that using a persons name is the most efficient way to get their attention, voluntarily and involuntarily
It's wild she's being so openly manipulative. It's usually behind closed doors or in sneaky ways in public. Wow.
I am pretty sure she's either high or drunk which, on top of the desperation to get the control over him (because I believe she's an abuser) made her more obvious than she would have been ordinarily.
I can imagine she use her hands on him
Covert vs. Vulnerable narcissism. Maybe some bipolar too. She's nuts.
no shaaame whatsoever. i will never understand these folk
@@AAAAAA-kz8hooh no doubt. what a scary woman.
the ex-husband is the mvp. he’s familiar with that crazy and he was willing to put himself back into a situation where he’d have to deal with her just so another guy doesn’t get trapped the same way he did ❤
it's the sisters ex husband, not the girls
Props to the sister for staying calm during this, was asked to wait downstairs, gave the officer any info she thought would help, and then just let them do their jobs
Fr. I know how hard that must have been. Never been in her shoes, but enough related scenarios to know
I can’t imagine how hard that would be. Especially if she’s seen the witch manipulate Austin into giving in to her time and time again.
She looked exhausted. Probably used to this crap unfortunately.
Beard cop looks so over how many times he's heard Austin lol.
He's thinking "I'm gonna be hearing that damned name in my sleep."
For real. Poor guy man, I have a feeling he's sick of hearing his own name after hearing her scream it so many times. I know I would be if she screamed my name all night like that, damn. I'd hear her voice every time a person called my name.
I have a feeling Austin is going to change his name after this.
Dude's going home and crossing "Austin" off the baby name list 😂
In the middle of his sleep, whomever he sleeps with is gonna hear a sleepy"Austin" moan
@katiemoore8555 that's actually a really good idea
the female cops face has me rolling, it’s a mixture of exasperation, confusion, irritation, and a little entertainment lmao
This is the best evidence that there is to show why every state needs to include COERCIVE CONTROL into domestic violence laws!!! She should have been arrested for this after the first 50 times she yelled Austin. It's gross and sickening to see her do this for soo long. The leos did a good job within the limits of their power here though.
Omg yes it’s so fuggin scary all I could think was please don’t go back with her Austin, she WILL hurt you! She is scary, and relentless, a horrible combination
Why couldn’t they have charged her with disorderly conduct a little earlier on because she was interfering with the investigation from the beginning? I don’t have the patience for those kinds of people
They definitely could have but chose not to. Certain people get more wiggle room in these situations than others…
@tremoneyv Girls. And white girls at that. Tons more wiggle room for a white girl to shriek "Austin! Austin!" 932 times at night than for a man to bellow "Jessica! Jessica!" in the same scenario. Much less if he's black or brown.
@@tremoneyvsounds about white
Yes, I was just thinking that! They let her get away with quite a bit before actually detaining her. Obviously I don’t want police brutality against her, but I think any reasonable person can see the very large difference between those two scenarios.
Just adding a comment to boost this up 😁
She wanted them to force her away, it's a lose/lose situation. Let her stay and manipulate him, or force her away and let her scream victim to make him feel bad. "This is the effort it would take to get rid of me" to make him feel powerless later on.
Either that or martyr herself. "This is how hard I fought for you"
Austin deserves better, and I hope and pray he never gets hurt by her again. The emotional and metal exhaustion she caused me by just listening to the body cam, I can’t imagine what it feels like to live with her
“She looks like she would have stinky breath and then gaslight you out of it” 😂😂 No better way to explain my ex
When she said "AUSTIN!..AUSTIN, THEY'RE TRYING TO MAKE ME GO DOWNSTAIRS!" All I could think of is;
"ANDRE! THERE'S A HELICOPTER IN MY HOUSE!"
"That's just the ceiling fan, grandma.."
"OKAY!"
🤣😂😆
THIS NEEDS TO BE PINNED😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I LOVE ANDRES GRAMMA
😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao 😂
If I had a penny every time this woman said Austin.....id be able to pay off my student loans. 😂
Drinking game lol
Yesss!!! 💯 lmao "Austin!!!" 🤣 😂 😆
According to another comment (it could be wrong) that would net you around $2.40 lol
@singingman2025if I had a thousand dollars Everytime she said Austin 🧍🏽♀️
I need to know the crazy lore behind this lady. The ex husband, Austin was her coworker, does she love Austin, "I haven't seen him in 2 years", why doesn't she have somewhere to go, "they're trying to keep us apart AGAIN", etc.
lmao xD
So many questions
Seeing her other 2 body cams she got u can tell she’s just a brat with entitlement issues
Right?? There has got to be some serious tea.
also where was this dog that was her she was talking about.
If I ever hear "Austin" again, *I* might scream. That poor guy, I hope he gets help.
He definitely looks like he's scared of her
She definitely physically abused him
I feel so bad for him
I saw this a month ago and it’s now a running joke to say “Austin, no Austin” in our family. 😂
lol Women.☕
Haha
@@shanecharles4589 why is your whole comment history just about women omg bro
@@shanecharles4589damn way to be obsessed with women lol
@@shanecharles4589 No maidens? 🥺
This made me so mad because why didn’t they just detain her and take her downstairs so they could talk to him.
Why tf would they take him and his sister out of their home.
Why didn’t they detain her.
That’s absolutely wild.
She doesn't have testes. Easy. She's protected by being a woman.
I dont even think the cops saw her behaviour as abusive. Just another "crazy lady" and her emotions...
@@lorrithelinguisteven so- she disturbing the peace the entire time
You know the neighbor is watching through the peep hole of the door 🤣🤣🤣
I would be SO annoyed with this girl as my neighbor... I can already hear my big dog barking up a storm at all that noise and me just being like "stfu". 🙄😑
These cops = hero level patience.
My small town cops = threatened to arrest me bc I said "ya'll suck" when they towed my sons truck.
Face palm.
they can’t arrest u for that 😂
@@azzombie That's what I thought but there they were trying to. I didn't curse or act crazy or anything. Small towns seem to attract power hungry backwoods individuals who have more ego than ability.
They just mad cuz they don't swallow as well.
An officer once told my mom he’d “take her to the street and beat her” as a “joke”, than admitted he had no reason to pull her over, he just didn’t like the way her car looked (whatever that meant).
the cops showed up at my house and i 16 at the time had to come down stairs and say no excuse me i am going to be loud for a second, no you are not correct, because they had come down on false claims of us being abused, a counselor at my school made that arrangement when nothing was wrong she doesn't have the job anymore like what is.. wrong with the way police approach people and situations?
Also if your ex husband is there to check on anyone but YOU. Knowing YOU were involved. ....i mean dont that say something.
And especially because he was reacting to a facebook post saying he was missing, and he instantly knew to get over there. Smh
They should form a support group
@@skunkrat01 I was confused about that. The woman's ex husband went over to save Austin with Austin's father and little sister? What is this drama? 😂
The amount of patience they’re giving her is fkng INSANE.
"They're trying to take me away again."
AGAIN? THIS HAPPENED BEFORE??
Bro my eyes went wide when I heard "again"
LIKE GIRL WHAT DO YOU MEAN AGAIN??
Yeah, clearly for good fucking reason!
“Only you can save me” girl this ain’t a TV show or a movie. No one is saving you from yourself
I’m receiving extreme second hand embarrassment from her. Her laying on the ground, begging for him, knocking at the door, lying, attempting to manipulate, and causing a commotion. I wish the best for Austin. I hope he’s able to leave her for good. She’s a freak.
Can we point out her using an excuse to get inside. She clearly calmed down and tried to say she "wanted a lighter". Then when the cop offered to give her his downstairs, she realized she's not getting inside which is what she really wanted and got all insane again.
And then tried "I need to pee right now" in hopes they'd take her to his bathroom.............. she's delulu
She is obstructing. Take her TO JAIL. These cops are way more patient than I am.
That's white privilege
hands down 30 seconds in to her speaking 100 words a second (not literally), i would’ve closed the door and said she was going to get charged with obstruction
I agree, b u t what happens when she gets out? Restraining order does nothing but waste tree's!
She reminds me so much of my ex. I was not allowed to go to another room or sleep until we "resolved the issue". Never a moment of peace until I was so tired I'd agree to anything.
Ugh those words gave me flashbacks!! I hated my ex for how much of a shit dick he was 😂
The way she was on the ground trying to get into the apartment door….This is another level of psycho
RIP to all those poor neighbors trying to have a peaceful night.
Me as their neighbor but I also got earbuds in: 👁️👄👁️
gonna be hearing his name in their dreams
and rip to austin. no one deserves that. bro must’ve been horrified and the entire neighbourhood knows his name now 🤦🤦
@@Boolignhelp 😭😭 the video is over and still hear her screams echoing in my ears
I have neighbors like this and can confirm.
Big pity for the building management too, and bless these cops. Some police officers won't even get involved when this is going on with some couples: they just let them fight it out.
His sister kept calmer than I could have im proud of her
She fr went from “auuusstiinnn!they won’t let me ouutttt!😫”
to
“ austiiinn! LET ME IN” 😭🤣
When I first saw this, I immediately could see this woman in an interrogation room being questioned about Austin's whereabouts.
I really hate the overuse of the first name to exhaust you. I hate that my best friend had a guy like that. Yuck
The way the sister acting reminded my own sis especially her tone and expression; chill outside yet has that calm rage inside. The toxic girlfriend also reminds me of my abusive ex, but he was way more sneaky and manipulative about it. Thankfully, I broke up with him and everyone was very happy and supportive. 💛
Edit: Hardest I've laughed at Boze's community, thanks girl! 💛
Me too. Sending love
I think basically everyone is more sneaky and manipulative than frantically yelling "AUSTIN".
@@FrenkTheJoyabsolutely. wanted to rip my hair out hearing that grating voice
Her continuously saying Austin gave me an instant migraine, I feel so bad for Austin.
It’s crazy what you can grow to tolerate, I hope he’s in a better place, with a better person :/
I heard Austin so much I read “an Austin migraine” lmao
What if his name wasn't even Austin and she just full cray cray
Girl. I emailed you this video as soon as it came out months ago. The moment i watched this woman try ANYTHING to make eye contact w/ Austin.... i knew! I knew i needed Boze to have a look & pick this apart. Ive never seen something so unhinged in my life. She was looking between the officers' legs trying to make eye contect w/ that poor guy.
18:27
The “WhY aRe YoU sMiLiNg ThIs NoT fUnNy” Took me out
He’s going WhOoP WhooP 👮♂️
This is the only time that is acceptable when someone thinks it’s not funny when it’s actually is funny to the whole world.
My mom overheard me watching this and she said, “you watching those Jerry Springer people!!” 😭😭😭
Lmfao 😭
That’s hilarious!
"THEIR TAKING ME AWAY" As the officers are requesting her to calm down and move downstairs
When she said “Austin, only you…” I, without a single thought nor brain cell, shouted back “…CAN PREVENT WILDFIRES” 🐻💯🔥
Hahahaha 😂😂😂 that's hilarious
Hahahaha 😂😂😂 that's hilarious
You’ve made my day with this one 😂😂😂😂😂
I have a friend whose brother was in a similar situation. His ex was incredibly controlling and he was trapped with her for YEARS. They’re separated now, and she’s also a deadbeat mom to their kids. Now, my friend says it feels like she’s getting to know him all over again, because her entire family had lost him for so long
That's really unfortunate and scary. I hope for healing for the brother. Therapy would be good.
IM exhausted, imagine dealing with that for years at a time
"A lady Reds smoker, she's got something to prove"... Boze, you savage!! 😂😂 (it's 100% accurate!)
And then the “don’t smoke, it’s bad for you” was great
It's honestly heartbreaking watching him try to walk away. You can see the pain and confusion in his face.
"Austin he's SMILING" well if nothing else worked this one surely has to!
Honestly I’m surprised they didn’t put her in the car with her screaming so much
I think they should've, they were being very nice to her though. Imo they let her be heard by him for way too long though, considering he's an obvious abuse victim. If the genders were reversed no way would they have left a man scream at a woman for so long, they would have cut contact between them immediately specifically so he couldn't manipulate the victim like she tried to do so many times in the video. And I generally don't like pulling this card, but I do think double-standards apply here.
I genuinely think letting her have such an audible breakdown probably did him more harm than good, hearing that shit is traumatic. I'm very glad he had his sister in there with him though, and that she searched for him only 24 hours after he cut contact considering he has his own house. If that woman's tactics of trying to isolate him had festered even more than I fear that state she would've found him in.
@@LoreCatanspot on, I don't have more to add, you said what I would think
Also I’ve noticed they’re much quicker to put POC women away when they get violent and annoyingly loud than they do to non-poc women. Just saying
@@TimothyGodcompletely random but I LOVE that profile pic!!
@@m1ssmessy it's just a random i screenshotted from a shorts video lol. It is sorta like the vaping cat picture
When my cat wants something, she meows literally nonstop at my door until someone caves and lets her in. This emotionally stunted woman uses the same tactic as a cat.
It’s literally giving JD vibes 😭 ick
But cats are cute
🤣🤣🤣
@@KadeWriteswho’s JD
@@alskarmode It’s a Broadway Musical (Heather’s) reference… pretty niche in the grand scheme of things 😅
the emotional overwhelm where you can't think is quite literally an interrogation tactic to get suspects to open up because they have no opportunity to think or process or make the best decisions for themselves.
Her EXHUSBAND showed up to help Austin escape her crazy ass!!! I need me some popcorn for this drama.
he is probably extremely happy that he has already escaped... he is like a firefighter, except he saves people from her, and not from flames... I mean, I'd rather be trapped in a burning building.
this isn’t drama. this is a man being abused lmao weird to call this stuff drama.
@@Burncsbas someone who has spent some time not only getting myself away from my crazy mother's shenanigans, but also helping other people get away from her, I feel seen with this comment.
AUSTIN, I have to PEE because my dog stepped on a BEE.
Austin, let me in the bedroom, I forgot to shit on the bed !
🥶🥶🥶👽👽👽🤡💩🤡💀💀💀👿
@@katarinatibai8396 Amber Heard reference
Not the "stinky breath" comments LMFAOOO she gives that vibe, for sureee
She looks like she uses natural deodorant.
@@anothermiddleschoolburnout8816 Or maybe no deodorant at all.
I feel so SO bad for Boze’s editor. Doin the lord’s work sitting through the meth head marathon of the century. We see you 🫡✊
My heart goes out to him. I don’t think he’s heard the last from her and that is worrying.
She’s dangerous. Anyone who can openly behave like this without a care in the world doesn’t just need therapy they need 24 hour supervision!
I watched the original video of this interaction and this woman is absolutely out of her mind. I’m glad to see that you’re covering this Boze, I really like that you dig deep and breakdown their behaviors/actions.
Can you link it please
@@tobiaslawrence8928 UA-cam won’t let me send the link, it gets deleted every time I try.
@@tobiaslawrence8928 It’s from the channel Real Body Cams and it’s called Hostage At Home : Man Battles Controlling & Manipulative Girlfriend
@@tobiaslawrence8928the channel it’s from is linked in her bio; I know it’s pretty resent so it should be easy to find
Whats the title?
Honestly I love how gentle the cops were with Austin. Like at the beginning that one cop just calmly walked up despite her crazy ass screaming and he just gently said “Austin come here.” Like the contract from his tone to hers of her demanding and screaming and yelling for Austin to come over to the cops gently asking him to come with him. We love to see people being nice to abuse victims.
Her desperation to control Austin is not only pathetic but seriously unhinged.
She's seriously a 51-50. Not a danger to herself, but to Austin or another poor unsuspecting guy. She's the type of girlfriend who would burn down a guys house because if she can't have him, no one can and refuses to live without him. How did her ex-husband get free? He needs to have a talk with Austin.
Luckily Austin has such a protective sister and mom. A sister who has her eyes open to such a manipulating gaslighter.
She did say she wanted to be taken somewhere safe. So, jail it is. I really want to see her antics in court.
When boze said something about not working in law enforcement because she would've socked her it radiated the same energy as Kenji saying "TASER TASER" when something slightly happens and that's why they're my favorite lil content creators 😌
I need Kenji to watch this
@@ShmewyyShmewor cinnamon toast ken "tase em" or "send her to the ranch" 😂😂
Kenji and Boze might be iconic ngl
Boze and one of my favorite Vtubers collabing? THAT would be AWESOME!!!
As someone who has severe mental illness in the family, this is what I personally call “Hollywood Crazy”: The type of crazy action/episode that you’d see in a movie and go “no one actually does that shit! That’s an inaccurate, and disrespectful portrayal of mental illness”, …then later be shocked to see a real human being doing it in real life…
That lady absolutely needs mental health services. It was scary to watch how obsessive she was.
Ever have a textbook narcissist as a mom (Of course many of you have).
I got the "That isn't how you're feeling, this is how you're feeling" lectures a lot. It fucked me up hard, because I question what emotions I am going through now because my poor brain is just unable to tell how I feel right away- so I need a minute to orient- which was another thing I was never given. I was cut off so many times trying to explain what was wrong when I was young, that when people interrupt me now, I just shut right up. Bombarded into silence and then bombarded more being asked "So what's wrong? Tell us tell us" bs they were just pointless circles.
I know others have been through this- I feel you guys
The two abusive marriages I have endured because of this.
@@shewho333 almost same- 1 marriage then I figured out the pattern. I am sorry for you to have to go through it as well.
God that’s awful. I was just made to feel like I was a constant bother and annoyance so now I constantly view myself in that light but the emotional exhaustion you must have gone through as a little child is insane. Reading your comment made me really sad, both for little you and grown up you, not that you’re someone that needs to be pitied by any means, but just having a mother like that, you didn’t ask for it and didn’t deserve it, some people should not be parents, period.
@@KLee1028 Yeah being put in a constant state of confusion makes for a very messed up and confused adult. If you ever see someone getting overwhelmed by simple questions to decide things - may have had a similar life to mine. It goes through our brains like "Oh my god, do I get to decide? What if I decide wrong? what is the right answer here? which does everyone like?"
Meanwhile the waiter, as all waiters can tell it seems, is like "Ma'am this burger is for you? It's just swiss or cheddar?"
I do that too!!! I can't stand being interrupted to the point where at one point when I was a teenager, I went mute. "Until someone noticed. No one will. It doesn't matter if I try to say anything anyway." And I was right. No one noticed, no one even commented on how I was "quiet." I only talked to my dog and got very good at giving people facial cues and hand gestures they wanted.
Nowadays, even though mother is passed, if I'm interrupted, I just shut right up. I make myself try a little harder and I do repeat myself if people genuinely didn't hear it or didn't understand, but if I try talking and I'm cut off more than twice I just shut down and I literally can't try again.
In the original video, I see people commenting that she might be having a mental episode. But it’s still not an excuse. She’s so incredibly exhausting and overwhelming and no one deserves to have to deal with it.
I'll be honest, I'm not getting "mental episode" from her here. I'm getting, like Boze said, "I'm losing control over the person I've been controlling this whole time".
I personally dealt with someone with a mental episode similar like this and it is a struggle. They have no control over it. Their reality shifts and everything is lead by feelings no filter, no thinking over it. They'll get impulsive, irritable, aggressive, unreasonable, manipulative even. It's an awful sickness. I don't wish that on anybody.
Do you mind sharing the original video? Just the video title 🙏
@khaleesireyna731 nah this is 100% a mental episode but she still needs to go figure it out. She keeps talking about don't show them Austin, they're smiling Austin, they took my passwords Austin, my dogs in there(it wasnt). These are absolutely manifested from a mental break of some sort whether it's psychosis or schizophrenia or schizo-effective disorder idk but it's not just he "being a controlling narcissist"
i was a codependent teenager, and still have some of those tendencies on a much smaller scale. this isn't a mental health episode, she knows what she's doing. i'm sure her emotions are real, mine were too, but i can also vouch that everything she's doing only comes from a fear of being alone/losing her partner. she probably is a normal person deep deep deeeeeeep down, but she's built up so many tactics that force people to become attached to her because she's scared of not having someone. also explains why she would leave an ex and get a new boyfriend, she doesn't care who it is, she just wants someone she can convince to love her. sad and at her grown age she should know better.
Hearing and seeing how blatant she was about trying to manipulate him made my skin CRAWL. Like how desperate she acts just... holyyy ;-; Hearing how insistent she was with it was so uncomfortable, I think if I was in his shoes I would end up doing what she said purely because of the pressure. This poor man I hope he is healing now and away from her + ppl like her for good. Also props to Austin for being so strong cuz I'd be in TEARS like aaaahhhhh ;-; shes just too too much and so blatant about it-
Honestly had to pause a few times cuz shes making me so anxious I can only imagine what Austin felt like ;-;
That poor man. His face says everything.
She needs to be flagged as spam
This made me cackle very unattractively
@@imjustjkThis comment tickled me
😂😂😂😂
Impressive. My ex mentally broke me and convinced me i was lower than dirt so i would accept whatever treatment she felt like dishing out, and this chick makes me think my ex wasnt that bad
If a bloke acted like this, they would have arrested him so quickly
So VERY quickly.
If AUSTIN had been using the same energy the video would have been 90% shorter
I think it’s because of the strength difference. Men are generally bigger and stronger than women. So when someone big threatens someone smaller than them, people take it more seriously than the opposite. Plus men commit more violent crimes I think. I’m not saying women don’t have the capacity to be violent. But when a guy behaves like her, in most cases his victim rarely comes out physically intact…*It’s a double standard, I’m not defending it at all* , I’m just saying it doesn’t surprise me, it’s the police after all.
I thought this exact same thing. They woulda shoved his ass down those steps so quick.
@haywoodjablowmi1427 I wanted to be mad at this but you're absolutely right
@@haywoodjablowmi1427 It's probably just a risk thing. Cops only have a reason to react when there is a real danger. She was annoying as hell but not a real danger yet. Tbh though with how many times she tried to push past them I don't really get why they didn't just sit her ass in the cop car just to have her out of the way. The disorderly conduct thing happened long before the actual arrest.
I honestly hope austin gets a protection order against her. This is dangerous
That’s the kind of psycho that would rather permanently harm him than leave him be. Restraining order for Austin!
That cop tried it though "let's go downstairs I got a lighter in my car" 😂😂😂😂😂
You got to love how at 19:50 through all her crazy yelling, she takes a break long enough to calmly light her cigarette before she gets back to Screaming AUSTIN!
Yay for the sister seeing it was over her head and getting the police involved.
She was a “Please stop this isn’t like you” type of person for sure!
FYI Austin's name was said 112 times (yes I counted)
Edit: Boze watched a different cam channel than I originally did. Recount =246 Austins
Only? I'd have guessed at least 500 beans in that jar.
@scatterbrain_jane I recounted using the video Boze watched. It was in fact 246 Austins.
Thank you 🤓👍💚
The dedication 😆
This video is missing about 55 Austin's from my count of 191.
It's almost like she's got something in that house she doesn't want anyone to see
My theory is it's the skeletons of her previous boyfriends in the walls. The ones that tried to leave
"Only Austin can prevent fires" got me 💀
I didn’t catch that one! 😂
Austin is god