I like to say the person cheated on themselves 😅 because they cheated themselves out of the pure trusting connection they originally had with you. Not to downplay or invalidate anyone's feelings. Through prayer, therapy etc relationships can be restored; including the relationship with self. I'm glad therapy has been beneficial. May God bless and help us all ❤
It's really badass that you're willing to be this vulnerable on social media. This is the first non-short video I've seen of yours. Worth the subscribe. I feel you on the relationship deal. A lot of us get there eventually. You have great content and seem like a great mom.
@@americaneden3090yuck- these ppl are paid to share their private life and should know you don’t share anything you aren’t prepared to answer ??? About
Vulnerability IS connection. This is how you've established a follower and fan base who roots for you and feels so close to you. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability!!!!!
@@katstickler5757 honestly, I thank God everyday that my ex got his (now ex-wife) pregnant bc he couldn’t use my child as leverage to make my life as miserable anymore. If that makes sense bc he has another child to focus on. So now he’s pretty much a single dad to that child bc she moved to a different state.
I really enjoyed this! My ex cheated on me while we were still together and divorced me and married her when she got pregnant. It is an awful feeling. The good part is I got an amazing son out of the marriage and he is very close to his half sister. I got remarried and that helped me to forgive. It also helped when his new wife was so accepting of my son and always included him in activities they were doing with their child as she got older. They have a great relationship and I’ve forgiven her for ruining my marriage. She is actually a lovely woman. I hope MK has a good relationship with her half sibling.
"Feel through it to heal through it" - Some of the best advice I've ever gotten when learning how to process my emotions or go through trauma. Repression or avoiding the feelings causes more damage, in the long run, the longer these feelings are not addressed :(
This is also such a well thought out and consructed reply too. Especially on their advice concerning not leaving issues to go unresolved for to long a time after. Otherwise it just gets harder to come to terms with .💯🙏
Comedy is your comfort when you feel too exposed. Just so you know, you are loved as yourself. You do not have to entertain anyone. Seeing a woman comfortable and own her peace is the best joy you can give others. ✨️ You are amazing and I'm proud of you! (I was a young mama too.)
cheating thing is spot on. the worst part is questioning your own judgement. however, ultimately...they hurt themselves in the long run. The short run sucks for the cheatee.. the long run sucks for the cheater.
It’s betrayal from the person you’re most intimate with & had a promised future. It’s a horrible thing for them to do. It’s normal to feel anger, hurt, etc. takes a while to get over.
During the mediation, you mentioned feeling like you couldnt breathe😢. I went through that same experience. Knowing you love your child more than life itself and having one person (the judge) in charge of when you will have them etc is exactly like having life pulled out of you. The anxiety that accompanied this is unparalleled. Thank you for sharing Kat❤
I SO agree with about this idea of not getting over an ex. I love all my exes, even though I wouldn’t date them anymore. But I can’t simply erase the love I felt for them, it just changes, but it’s always love. And even if there are days I hate them, I still love them. Which I totally understand that doesn’t sound logical at all. 😅
Thank you for being vulnerable about mental health medications! There is such a stigma around them that I feel like is slowly fading away because of people like you being so open. I still struggle telling people I’m close with that I’ve been on antidepressants.
Yeah that’s what I was thinking but from what I have seen, I don’t think they really directly speak because it looks like her mom does the MK exchange for them (or at least sometimes).
Maybe he did. They share custody so from what it sounds like is she found out while she was about to get on a plane , and maybe he had MK that week and told her while he had his daughter.
Her ex probably couldn’t handle her being more successful than him and looked to get his ego rubbed by another woman. Figuratively and metaphorically. Awful that he could cheat and break up a family. Thanks for being so genuine Kat.
one thing I wish was asked is if Kat understands the depth of the impact she has on women. navigating my late 20’s, Kat is someone that I look up to highly.
I really appreciate and love when she said I don't believe time heals I believe it's what you do in that time that heals. Kat is so wise I could listen to her talk all day 😢❤
being cheated on is so hard it happened to me after being in a relationship I thought was going to be forever. Told me on our 3.5 years :( it warps how you perceive things and yourself but I definitely understand you’re not alone and you’re a great mom! ❤
I love what you said about it not being time that heals the wounds but what you do with the time. I don't know I just thought it was really beautiful and it hit my heart nicely. I haven't personally had to go through mediation but my family members have and I've heard it's the worst because you walk in trying to be the bigger person and trying to be logical and maybe even giving and you end up across the table from someone who you don't actually seem to know anymore which is incredibly jarring on so many levels beyond the pain of what's even going on. You are so strong and so beautiful and we all just enjoy your shares so much. You make your content creation look so effortless but I'm sure you work plenty hard and just know we all value your efforts 🤗❤
You made me tear up!! Such a beautifully written message that definitely will be saved to my camera roll for days when I am not feeling great🥹🫶 Thank you so much for these kind words, you have no idea how much they mean to me
Kat ive been following you for a long time. You have always been a radiant and brilliant ray of sunshine 🌞 but you have grown so much emotionally and to take random strangers on that journey with you and opening up your heart and your life to so many people takes a lot of courage. We have all witnessed your level of emotional growth on this journey and it just makes us love you more. I know you dont know me, but you helped me get thru some major things in my life with your positivity. Thank you Kat.❤
Kinda can’t believe you found out via social media. You think the mother of his first daughter should find out privately as it’s going to be MK’s half sibling.. wow
Him not telling you himself is massively effed. You guys co-parent MK, and this new baby will be her sibling. Whether or not the adults like it, y’all are family. And a family discusses things.
This is the first long form video I've came across from your channel and you are such a light! Going through some battles of my own that really don't relate to any of the trials you touched on, but still found this to be such a refreshing way to slow down and enjoy something positive with my coffee before getting my day started. Keep doing your thing!
The part about the best thing about being a mom “I popped a baby out of me, I can do this” literallly yesss me 100% & the whole love like no other girl you’re so on point💁🏼♀️
You are truly incredible. I found your channel by accident, but you just radiate such positivity and beauty...you bring so much joy to UA-cam. Love you muchly, from Scotland 🏴❤
I feel like cat hasn’t fully gotten over mike and I feel like it’s a process, I admire her so much. It took me 8 years to get over my sons dad too made it hard for me to date because even though he sucked, I always compared everyone to him. Putting aside the pain and creating a beautiful life for her and mk❤
As a woman, I can’t imagine, knowing that some guy was in a committed relationship with someone he felt comfortable enough to post on social media with, got her pregnant or a period cheated on her, and then left her and want to start a relationship with this person. He is an absolute loser, and she is going to be so embarrassed when she finds out the hard way.
This made me love you more. Thank you for being vulnerable with us love. It is very brave and admirable. Thanks for making us feel less lonely out here 🤍
Love how honest and raw Kat is! Alot of people don't dive into the real and raw emotion of your ex moving on. It's a weird and sometimes hard thing to process even years later and it's nice to hear others experience the same feelings and need time to process too.
OK first of all…in the algorithm universe I started getting some of your shorts and I thought you were/are very funny… then I clicked on this to maybe deep dive and get a better understanding of who you are and I started crying listening and watching you answer that first question. People just don’t value or understand how a sense of humor can sustain an individual especially in these times we’re living love ya Please keep the content coming people need to laugh…🍄
Okay, Idk if Kat will see this but I wanna say to her only 3 things💖 1.If i was in the US, we would soo be besties. Youre such an amazing person! 2.I got over my first husband in only one way - for one and a half year after the divorce i was crying literally every day about him. During this period i was calling him time to time in panic and he was like "WTH, get yourself together" and nowadays 10 years further we are very good friends, we never got jelious or anything. I waited very long time until i was ready for another relationship and now i feeel the happiest married woman in the world to my second husband. 3.BLOCK the bullies! Lov you❤
Love ya Kat! For those crap comments, just tell yourself, 'It's not a ME problem. It's a THEM problem.' Never feel like you need to share your life until you're ready. You're bringing so much joy to this world. Keep being you! ❤
Love this ❤ you are so genuine & it really helps us viewers who are going through things that make us feel alone realize everyone is human and emotions (good &bad) are normal and O.K. ❤
I threw up when I was told my ex got his girlfriend pregnant. Probably hit me more cuz she was 13 weeks pregnant and me and him had only been separated for 3 weeks. He was having an affair. And left me and our 1yr old homeless and broke.
I love the relationship you have with your brother seems like you guys get along so well. Reminds me of my relationship with my sister and me. We also have alot of funny moments together.
I have been in a situation like this its vice versa that my ex wife got pregnant by her very good friend and I know how is it's to feel betrayed. every hour was painful as they say time is the best healer, I am a single parent happy looking after my Boys, and you got to go on in life with a full positive energy, and yes love yourself and all thanks should go to your family and friends for their support .
Haven't sat down yet to watch this video, but just want to say so proud of you your doing so great. I believe its probably true when the camera is off as well:) Being so transparent is not easy! I am sure so many of your stay encouraged lady your a great !
Right away I connected with you over your feelings about your ex having a baby with his new gf. I had such a strange reaction to my ex and him having a new baby too. It was so unexpected. It was so hard to explain so I didn’t talk about it with anyone other than my mom since she always understands me 😊❤
I convinced my brother and SIL to tell his daughter's mom, about them being pregnant before posting it. They didn't want to because of the way she acted and handled things very childish. Still, they asked if they could speak with her when they picked up their daughter and told her, of course, it didn't go over well she got pregnant and didn't tell them and was very petty, but they didn't say anything, and left it be well they got pregnant again and didn't say anything, and she blew up and as always held their daughter over his head. Long after huge problems with her, he no longer is in contact with his daughter. The moral of the story is that being petty should not be included in co-parenting.
Divorce is definitely anxiety inducing and drains everything out of you. I hope you're actually happy in being with yourself because thats so important. Found you through these relationship update videos (thanks YT algorithm) but saw a lot of the other ones. You're funny, strong, smart and look like you can force your way through just about anything. wishing you the best!!
Wow I love your transparency and honesty. It’s crazy how we all go through similar situations and handle them differently but I love the way you can open up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Funny when you are honest about things and nobody around you can handle the honesty. I appreciate everything I have seen of yours. And you are a beautiful person and very funny. By funny, I mean you have the talent to make others comfortable and laugh aloud. That is something most do not have naturally. Thank you for making me laugh. Most people cannot do that. :)
Thank you thank you thank you for talking so openly about meds. The stigma around them is lessening slowly but surely, and it is because people are willing to speak about it openly. ❤
Kat, been watching your hilarious and real self on Tiktok since 2020. (I hope we don’t lose it in FL). You sharing your actual process in real-time has helped so many people. Wish I had you years ago! Feeling alone in pain is the hardest, so sharing it helps people feel less alone-you know!! I was also cheated on in early 90’s and he denied it constantly which really messed with my trust issues. It took a while, but remarried at 39 & we feel like we’re high school sweethearts. Babies at almost 40 & 43. There’s always hope!!!
Being divorced and going through that is hard. But if one party doesn’t want the marriage all you can do is give them what they want. I’m grateful that my Ex and I. Never needed mediation, she had her lawyer fill out papers. We agreed on everything and no family court for alimony or child support. Family court only screws over one party and that wasn’t our thing. We are great and co raise the kids, back each other up! California is a beautiful state, but all the bureaucratic bs and politics. Plus the tax’s and cost of living make it a no live state imo. The same could be said about New York and cost of living in a lot of East cost cities that are amazing.
I genuinely think Kat is a great person all the way down to her soul. She does always say the perfect things, though. Very deliberate and intentional in the way she presents everything perfectly. Makes me timid of how genuine she is actual being because of this. But a big fan!
I wish I could give you a hug, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. You are a light in this life, thank you making so many people feel less alone. Much love to you and your family. ❤
Just want to say you're so cool Kat! I don't think we have much in common haha because I haven't gone through these experiences but I really admire you and your outlook on life is very inspiring! ♥
My mom can't hurt my feelings. She can't possibly say anything I don't already know and accept about myself. Albeit, I don't like myself, I still know most of what I am, so there's never going to be a surprise comment that gets under my skin.
Thank you 💗 like really thank you. Your first answer was something that touched me, it hasn’t happened to me YET but I know it’s coming. I’ll FEEL it when it comes thanks to you. ❤
When people criticize you, it says way more about them and their own insecurities than it does about you. No one with a good, healthy foundation of self-value would dream of going on SM and saying hurtful things to a total stranger. How awful. ONLY take criticism to heart if it’s constructive and from someone you value. Let everything else bounce off. It’s a conscious choice and it’s SO liberating. Of course we want people to like us and we want to make a good impression on everyone, but that nasty shit has nothing to do with you. Don’t give your energy to the haters. Just silently wish them healing and forget about it. YOU ARE AWESOME! 💛
Kat, you are so very awesome, a true shining light. What's coming across is that you are on an adventure with benefits to us all. As far as I understand no one is a bad guy here with regards to your life, maybe young and in love and then not. Isn't this whole media UA-cam thing incredible? You should think about trying out for SNL or comedy you have a Robin Williams energy to you, seriously. I'm your fan.
I relate to this video soooo much. I’m 7 years post divorce and still mourn the life I lost, feel lonely even though I’m extremely grateful for the life I’ve created ❤️🩹
You’re so genuine, honest and hilarious ❤ have been following you for years and it’s insane to see the stuff you show us.❤️ You’re an amazing mama and fuck the haters. So so proud of you Kat!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Kat your genuine heart and passion is so evident even though I’ve never met you in person. We all love and support you and MK SO SO much. I remember when I was going through a really tough time, I purposely went to your tik tok and made me smile. Keep shining ✨
This is far enough back -hello Kat I'm Stuart Coverdale. West coast💌🇨🇦 I don't do (have a fb page haven't touched it or my instgrm since 2012) social media; because of covid I have this account for entertainment while being locked away -if covid never happened I wouldn't be here. I work lots and the few hours at night I have to myself? Like heck I'm spending it behind a computer screen -in fact I don't even own a computer.You are a wonderful bundle of positive energy and you lift my spirits every moment you share. AND I will speak the unspoken -ya I'm watching and you know it, lol....(sorta like the phantom of the opera up in the pipes -theater ref) love and light to you and your loved ones❤🌞 EDIT: ummmm? ....uh, ya: I thought about it and even tho I did give you my name I feel maybe? the last part of it was kinda, maybe, could be interpreted as, questionable behavior. I have been brought up as a gentleman and have responsibility to my family name. I'm just a simple person a tradesmen; as my father before me, lol.... (hang onto your Sox dear Dorothy; we're not in Kansas anymore) I don't do social media nor have I had an influence on society. I watch UA-cam for entertainment and not as much anymore; I hold a position of responsibility at work and after 12-14 hours the last thing I want is to hang out in front of a computer -to which I don't even own. On a spiritual level I hang out in the moment: whether in person, over the radio, video ;live or recorded -I live in that moment; I can feel that moment and everything in that moment feels me. (I sure hope you're a Don Juan Castaneda fan -or at least Pirates of the Caribbean, lol... but there can only be one and it's very lonely -thus making the connection to other moments other than the one I'm in much easier. it's a long story; it was really good acid wen I was young, and I've been enlightened. idk wat else to say... I wrote to make you feel more comfortable and to know: no we will never meet. I live on the west coast of Canada. I don't think we have some "special" connection and you want me -that would scare the crap out of many ladies from newscasters to movie stars. I love my work and am grateful for being able to do something I enjoy very much -so I'm very rooted to Van-city❤ and young lady I'm old -I'm 54 years of age I live paycheque to paycheque I have a very physical job (I work with tower cranes; the ones that build skyscrapers -find me work there I then maybe I can come visit -lol; jkn) that keeps my health I smoke (yes yuck) that's enough I hope this settles any questions you may have had that would trouble you But sit in the grass at Berkeley and ask yourself truly wat is a unicorn supposed to look like ......lol love and light
Can I just say I love watching your impressions of your ma.fav video was mom I'm depressed.....who? don't tell me about your depressions,it dims my light...LOVE IT.
Spot on once again you've never stopped loving them you've had children with them and you've got memories with them what you do if the love becomes different it's not romantic it's not passionate you care you wish them the best and hope for the best for them you don't hate them because it's not in you to hate but the love that you have that was exclusive to them and for them that's not there but you do have love And that's good thing
lol they aren’t. They are just kidding. I think they are going to keep it going for a while. Just like another tiktok creator, her name is Abby and for the longest she said her brother was Chris. Not sure why it’s a thing to say people are siblings or cousins lol
I don't think you're wierd...You are genuine, you are fun, you are warm and very smart. And - in love with life. In today's world, that may be wierd, unfortunately.
Thank you for your videos. My favorites that my wife and I just crack up over (I come from a hispanic family) are your "as my hispanic mother" videos. OMG. So funny, so SPOT ON!!! Thank you again and keep up the great work. 😂
Being cheated on is such massive trauma for so many reasons! Thank you for sharing. Therapy has helped me a ton
I like to say the person cheated on themselves 😅 because they cheated themselves out of the pure trusting connection they originally had with you. Not to downplay or invalidate anyone's feelings. Through prayer, therapy etc relationships can be restored; including the relationship with self. I'm glad therapy has been beneficial. May God bless and help us all ❤
Cheating is just what some insecure people do. It's not a reflection on the partner, it just is.
I’m putting my money on this chick is nightmare to deal with
Feeling upset over the pregnancy isn’t a jealousy thing. It’s literally life changing for MK, whether they work out together or not.
It's really badass that you're willing to be this vulnerable on social media. This is the first non-short video I've seen of yours. Worth the subscribe. I feel you on the relationship deal. A lot of us get there eventually. You have great content and seem like a great mom.
You have no idea how much that means to hear!! Welcome to the family Chris! I’m so happy you found your way to us❤
Well Kat you could explain what happened with the guy you introduced us too .
mk would love the zoo in santa barbara.
@@michaelmijatovich8983 well u might respect privacy. Even public figures deserve privacy.
@@americaneden3090yuck- these ppl are paid to share their private life and should know you don’t share anything you aren’t prepared to answer ??? About
Vulnerability IS connection. This is how you've established a follower and fan base who roots for you and feels so close to you. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability!!!!!
Thank you guys so much for accepting me in my vulnerability! I am so thankful for every one of you
@@katstickler5757 sorry for my bad reply ,,
Forgive me 😢
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@@katstickler5757 honestly, I thank God everyday that my ex got his (now ex-wife) pregnant bc he couldn’t use my child as leverage to make my life as miserable anymore. If that makes sense bc he has another child to focus on. So now he’s pretty much a single dad to that child bc she moved to a different state.
I really enjoyed this! My ex cheated on me while we were still together and divorced me and married her when she got pregnant. It is an awful feeling.
The good part is I got an amazing son out of the marriage and he is very close to his half sister. I got remarried and that helped me to forgive. It also helped when his new wife was so accepting of my son and always included him in activities they were doing with their child as she got older. They have a great relationship and I’ve forgiven her for ruining my marriage. She is actually a lovely woman.
I hope MK has a good relationship with her half sibling.
Who ruined your marriage?
"Feel through it to heal through it" - Some of the best advice I've ever gotten when learning how to process my emotions or go through trauma. Repression or avoiding the feelings causes more damage, in the long run, the longer these feelings are not addressed :(
This is also such a well thought out and consructed reply too. Especially on their advice concerning not leaving issues to go unresolved for to long a time after. Otherwise it just gets harder to come to terms with .💯🙏
Yes!!! We are socialized to push every thing away but that is the way things get stuck in us. Feel to heal, baby!!!
@My My this was not meant to be sent to either yourself or the above-mentioned so I can only apologise to either
Feel to heal!! It is so life changing!!
I saw a creator recently stumble upon her recovery method and I loved it: Feel. Deal. Heal. ❤
Comedy is your comfort when you feel too exposed. Just so you know, you are loved as yourself. You do not have to entertain anyone. Seeing a woman comfortable and own her peace is the best joy you can give others. ✨️ You are amazing and I'm proud of you! (I was a young mama too.)
You don’t owe us this much but it makes us feel that much closer to you! I respect your honesty! Love you and you’re videos lol 💕
cheating thing is spot on. the worst part is questioning your own judgement. however, ultimately...they hurt themselves in the long run. The short run sucks for the cheatee.. the long run sucks for the cheater.
It’s betrayal from the person you’re most intimate with & had a promised future. It’s a horrible thing for them to do. It’s normal to feel anger, hurt, etc. takes a while to get over.
During the mediation, you mentioned feeling like you couldnt breathe😢. I went through that same experience. Knowing you love your child more than life itself and having one person (the judge) in charge of when you will have them etc is exactly like having life pulled out of you. The anxiety that accompanied this is unparalleled. Thank you for sharing Kat❤
I SO agree with about this idea of not getting over an ex. I love all my exes, even though I wouldn’t date them anymore. But I can’t simply erase the love I felt for them, it just changes, but it’s always love. And even if there are days I hate them, I still love them. Which I totally understand that doesn’t sound logical at all. 😅
Thank you for being vulnerable about mental health medications! There is such a stigma around them that I feel like is slowly fading away because of people like you being so open. I still struggle telling people I’m close with that I’ve been on antidepressants.
Wait… he couldn’t even tell you about MK getting a sibling before posting it to the world? What a punch to the gut.
Honestly says more about him than her but probably sees it as he doesn’t owe her anything.
Damn, I didn’t even think of that.
Yeah that’s what I was thinking but from what I have seen, I don’t think they really directly speak because it looks like her mom does the MK exchange for them (or at least sometimes).
Maybe he did. They share custody so from what it sounds like is she found out while she was about to get on a plane , and maybe he had MK that week and told her while he had his daughter.
You really expect anymore more from him? He's trash
Kat is one of those people that just radiates light
Her ex probably couldn’t handle her being more successful than him and looked to get his ego rubbed by another woman. Figuratively and metaphorically.
Awful that he could cheat and break up a family.
Thanks for being so genuine Kat.
one thing I wish was asked is if Kat understands the depth of the impact she has on women. navigating my late 20’s, Kat is someone that I look up to highly.
This made my day 🤍🥹 sending you so much love Christina! I am so thankful for you!!
I really appreciate and love when she said I don't believe time heals I believe it's what you do in that time that heals. Kat is so wise I could listen to her talk all day 😢❤
being cheated on is so hard it happened to me after being in a relationship I thought was going to be forever. Told me on our 3.5 years :( it warps how you perceive things and yourself but I definitely understand you’re not alone and you’re a great mom! ❤
I love what you said about it not being time that heals the wounds but what you do with the time. I don't know I just thought it was really beautiful and it hit my heart nicely.
I haven't personally had to go through mediation but my family members have and I've heard it's the worst because you walk in trying to be the bigger person and trying to be logical and maybe even giving and you end up across the table from someone who you don't actually seem to know anymore which is incredibly jarring on so many levels beyond the pain of what's even going on. You are so strong and so beautiful and we all just enjoy your shares so much. You make your content creation look so effortless but I'm sure you work plenty hard and just know we all value your efforts 🤗❤
You made me tear up!! Such a beautifully written message that definitely will be saved to my camera roll for days when I am not feeling great🥹🫶 Thank you so much for these kind words, you have no idea how much they mean to me
Kat ive been following you for a long time. You have always been a radiant and brilliant ray of sunshine 🌞 but you have grown so much emotionally and to take random strangers on that journey with you and opening up your heart and your life to so many people takes a lot of courage. We have all witnessed your level of emotional growth on this journey and it just makes us love you more. I know you dont know me, but you helped me get thru some major things in my life with your positivity. Thank you Kat.❤
"dont think about it, feel it" !!!!! I needed to hear this, thank u
Kinda can’t believe you found out via social media. You think the mother of his first daughter should find out privately as it’s going to be MK’s half sibling.. wow
Him not telling you himself is massively effed. You guys co-parent MK, and this new baby will be her sibling. Whether or not the adults like it, y’all are family. And a family discusses things.
@@anitabaaath5715He’s the one who cheated!
This is the first long form video I've came across from your channel and you are such a light! Going through some battles of my own that really don't relate to any of the trials you touched on, but still found this to be such a refreshing way to slow down and enjoy something positive with my coffee before getting my day started. Keep doing your thing!
It felt like reliving the pain of the wounds that have scarred. I love you’re “just feel your emotions” yes!!
Kat is genuine from the heart. Always positivity and thoughtful answers.
Thank you so much Emily! Sending you lots of love
Thank you for opening up to us Kat you didn’t have to but this says a lot about you caring for your fans I’ve been rooting for you for over a year ❤️
The part about the best thing about being a mom “I popped a baby out of me, I can do this” literallly yesss me 100% & the whole love like no other girl you’re so on point💁🏼♀️
your personality is immaculate!! Such a positive soul! Proud of you & how far you come🫶🏽
keep doing what you’re doing kat, i’ve followed you since you’ve started, i’m proud of you. you’ve helped me through a lot of situations
You are truly incredible. I found your channel by accident, but you just radiate such positivity and beauty...you bring so much joy to UA-cam. Love you muchly, from Scotland 🏴❤
Fellow scot here! And couldn't agree more with that you said xxx
I am so glad you found your way here, welcome to the family! Love you much from Florida!!
Thank you for your courage and vulnerability. It does help those of us out here.
Thank YOU for your kindness and support Susan!! It makes such an impact ❤
My mom was my original bully. 😂 I can laugh about it now that I’m 34, and I understand how hard motherhood is.
I feel like cat hasn’t fully gotten over mike and I feel like it’s a process, I admire her so much. It took me 8 years to get over my sons dad too made it hard for me to date because even though he sucked, I always compared everyone to him. Putting aside the pain and creating a beautiful life for her and mk❤
I hate that! I hate comparing my ex to other people I’ve dated
Agreed. She def sugar coated a lot of her answers
As a woman, I can’t imagine, knowing that some guy was in a committed relationship with someone he felt comfortable enough to post on social media with, got her pregnant or a period cheated on her, and then left her and want to start a relationship with this person. He is an absolute loser, and she is going to be so embarrassed when she finds out the hard way.
This made me love you more. Thank you for being vulnerable with us love. It is very brave and admirable. Thanks for making us feel less lonely out here 🤍
Thank you so much 🤍 I am so happy you are here
Love how honest and raw Kat is! Alot of people don't dive into the real and raw emotion of your ex moving on. It's a weird and sometimes hard thing to process even years later and it's nice to hear others experience the same feelings and need time to process too.
Kat, I love hearing you just talk! You’re the sweetest soul and I appreciate your vulnerability! Sending you so much love, mama! ❤️
So sad that things didn’t work out with Cam.. he seems like such a sweetheart 🥺
They are totally still seeing each other casually
@@micheller2283 how'd u know?
OK first of all…in the algorithm universe I started getting some of your shorts and I thought you were/are very funny… then I clicked on this to maybe deep dive and get a better understanding of who you are and I started crying listening and watching you answer that first question. People just don’t value or understand how a sense of humor can sustain an individual especially in these times we’re living
love ya
Please keep the content coming people need to laugh…🍄
Okay, Idk if Kat will see this but I wanna say to her only 3 things💖
1.If i was in the US, we would soo be besties. Youre such an amazing person!
2.I got over my first husband in only one way - for one and a half year after the divorce i was crying literally every day about him. During this period i was calling him time to time in panic and he was like "WTH, get yourself together" and nowadays 10 years further we are very good friends, we never got jelious or anything. I waited very long time until i was ready for another relationship and now i feeel the happiest married woman in the world to my second husband.
3.BLOCK the bullies!
Lov you❤
I went through a divorce during 2021 and 2022. What you said about divorce is so true, it’s emotionally exhausting.
Love ya Kat! For those crap comments, just tell yourself, 'It's not a ME problem. It's a THEM problem.'
Never feel like you need to share your life until you're ready. You're bringing so much joy to this world. Keep being you! ❤
Love YOU Lauren!! Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by and be so kind 🥹 you are incredible!! I’m so happy you’re here❤
@@katstickler5757 😁🥰 Awe!!! Thanks gurl!!!
Love this ❤ you are so genuine & it really helps us viewers who are going through things that make us feel alone realize everyone is human and emotions (good &bad) are normal and O.K. ❤
I love you! I've been watching your shorts but now I'm binge watching your videos. You are awesome.
You’re always alone, even in a crowd. It makes life easier when you think that way.
You must be fun at parties
This comment actually helped me
Time just helps you forget… not heal. There’s always a trigger.
Kat don’t lie! Us OOOG’s saw the live on TikTok with you and Mike talking about how you were both working through YOU CHEATING ON HIM!! Come onnnn!
I love your acting like my mother shorts. They are the best. You're a future comedian.
I threw up when I was told my ex got his girlfriend pregnant. Probably hit me more cuz she was 13 weeks pregnant and me and him had only been separated for 3 weeks. He was having an affair. And left me and our 1yr old homeless and broke.
I love the relationship you have with your brother seems like you guys get along so well. Reminds me of my relationship with my sister and me. We also have alot of funny moments together.
I cried. I laughed. I appreciate you so much. You deserve only the best Kat. You have been a warrior woman throughout EVERYTHING 👏🏼🙏🏼💕
You cried??
Same!🥹😍
@@Iris-mj1gn yes?
I have been in a situation like this its vice versa that my ex wife got pregnant by her very good friend and I know how is it's to feel betrayed. every hour was painful as they say time is the best healer, I am a single parent happy looking after my Boys, and you got to go on in life with a full positive energy, and yes love yourself and all thanks should go to your family and friends for their support .
“I am seeing myself, and I am the shit.” YESSS GIRL!!
Haven't sat down yet to watch this video, but just want to say so proud of you your doing so great. I believe its probably true when the camera is off as well:) Being so transparent is not easy! I am sure so many of your stay encouraged lady your a great !
Right away I connected with you over your feelings about your ex having a baby with his new gf. I had such a strange reaction to my ex and him having a new baby too. It was so unexpected. It was so hard to explain so I didn’t talk about it with anyone other than my mom since she always understands me 😊❤
So much courage to blast personal business and emotions!! You’re so strong ❤️ thank you, keep up the good work proud of youuuu 🥹🫶🏼
Thank you for being honest and taking the time answering our questions. I truly enjoy this part if you. I also hope to see the video of your
....brother posing as your mom
Thank you so much Alison ❤️ thank you for your kind words, support, and for being here!!
You are very honest and that is very refreshing today! Thank you Kat! MK is adorable! 😌💖💖💖
I convinced my brother and SIL to tell his daughter's mom, about them being pregnant before posting it. They didn't want to because of the way she acted and handled things very childish. Still, they asked if they could speak with her when they picked up their daughter and told her, of course, it didn't go over well she got pregnant and didn't tell them and was very petty, but they didn't say anything, and left it be well they got pregnant again and didn't say anything, and she blew up and as always held their daughter over his head. Long after huge problems with her, he no longer is in contact with his daughter. The moral of the story is that being petty should not be included in co-parenting.
I’ve always loved your honesty 💜 Kat you’re so inspiring to stay positive
You are one fantastic person and it was really nice getting to know you personally through this interview and thanks for brightening my day ❤
Divorce is definitely anxiety inducing and drains everything out of you. I hope you're actually happy in being with yourself because thats so important. Found you through these relationship update videos (thanks YT algorithm) but saw a lot of the other ones. You're funny, strong, smart and look like you can force your way through just about anything. wishing you the best!!
Wow I love your transparency and honesty. It’s crazy how we all go through similar situations and handle them differently but I love the way you can open up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You’re doing great Kat! You deserve the most and best!!!
Thank you for your strength ❤
Thank you so much love 🥹🤍
Funny when you are honest about things and nobody around you can handle the honesty. I appreciate everything I have seen of yours. And you are a beautiful person and very funny. By funny, I mean you have the talent to make others comfortable and laugh aloud. That is something most do not have naturally. Thank you for making me laugh. Most people cannot do that. :)
Thank you thank you thank you for talking so openly about meds. The stigma around them is lessening slowly but surely, and it is because people are willing to speak about it openly. ❤
Kat, been watching your hilarious and real self on Tiktok since 2020. (I hope we don’t lose it in FL). You sharing your actual process in real-time has helped so many people. Wish I had you years ago! Feeling alone in pain is the hardest, so sharing it helps people feel less alone-you know!! I was also cheated on in early 90’s and he denied it constantly which really messed with my trust issues. It took a while, but remarried at 39 & we feel like we’re high school sweethearts.
Babies at almost 40 & 43. There’s always hope!!!
I’m so glad you found us and stuck around all this time!! It means so much to me ❤️ thank you so much for your encouragement and kind words!!
Being divorced and going through that is hard. But if one party doesn’t want the marriage all you can do is give them what they want. I’m grateful that my Ex and I. Never needed mediation, she had her lawyer fill out papers. We agreed on everything and no family court for alimony or child support. Family court only screws over one party and that wasn’t our thing. We are great and co raise the kids, back each other up!
California is a beautiful state, but all the bureaucratic bs and politics. Plus the tax’s and cost of living make it a no live state imo. The same could be said about New York and cost of living in a lot of East cost cities that are amazing.
I genuinely think Kat is a great person all the way down to her soul. She does always say the perfect things, though. Very deliberate and intentional in the way she presents everything perfectly. Makes me timid of how genuine she is actual being because of this. But a big fan!
I wish I could give you a hug, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. You are a light in this life, thank you making so many people feel less alone. Much love to you and your family. ❤
Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable with us 🤍
I would grab every card he throws at you and hold it till you have a full deck then fight for full custody
Just want to say you're so cool Kat! I don't think we have much in common haha because I haven't gone through these experiences but I really admire you and your outlook on life is very inspiring! ♥
“Yeah, it’s good to be cautious all the time” - the most scorpio response ever hahahah
My mom can't hurt my feelings. She can't possibly say anything I don't already know and accept about myself. Albeit, I don't like myself, I still know most of what I am, so there's never going to be a surprise comment that gets under my skin.
Thank you 💗 like really thank you. Your first answer was something that touched me, it hasn’t happened to me YET but I know it’s coming. I’ll FEEL it when it comes thanks to you. ❤
Well, I’m subscribed now. I love how you think and your mental soundness.!!
When people criticize you, it says way more about them and their own insecurities than it does about you. No one with a good, healthy foundation of self-value would dream of going on SM and saying hurtful things to a total stranger. How awful.
ONLY take criticism to heart if it’s constructive and from someone you value. Let everything else bounce off. It’s a conscious choice and it’s SO liberating. Of course we want people to like us and we want to make a good impression on everyone, but that nasty shit has nothing to do with you.
Don’t give your energy to the haters. Just silently wish them healing and forget about it. YOU ARE AWESOME! 💛
Kat, you are so very awesome, a true shining light. What's coming across is that you are on an adventure with benefits to us all. As far as I understand no one is a bad guy here with regards to your life, maybe young and in love and then not. Isn't this whole media UA-cam thing incredible? You should think about trying out for SNL or comedy you have a Robin Williams energy to you, seriously. I'm your fan.
I relate to this video soooo much. I’m 7 years post divorce and still mourn the life I lost, feel lonely even though I’m extremely grateful for the life I’ve created ❤️🩹
That’s exactly how I felt. I wasn’t married to my ex but when he got married it really hit me and I still mourn the life I lost
I need you to please get back with Cam haha. Kidding but for some reason y’all just seem so perfect for each other.
You’re so genuine, honest and hilarious ❤ have been following you for years and it’s insane to see the stuff you show us.❤️ You’re an amazing mama and fuck the haters. So so proud of you Kat!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Kat your genuine heart and passion is so evident even though I’ve never met you in person. We all love and support you and MK SO SO much. I remember when I was going through a really tough time, I purposely went to your tik tok and made me smile. Keep shining ✨
Thank you for sharing your life with us ❤ I have followed you from the beginning and your journey is incredible.
I’m sorry that you had to go through pain! But I’m sure it’s all working for the best, even if it doesn’t look like it yet! Xo Kat!
I had serious ptsd from being cheated on a lot & my self esteem & self worth were at their lowest
I’m from SoCal and your right Santa Barbra is one of the most beautiful places on earth 🌊💙 🪴⛪️✨
“I wish them well…” (me in my head: IN HELL MUAHAHA)
You’re so lovely Kat!! I appreciate your vulnerability 🫶🏼💗
I totally understand. It’s like you’re completely over them in the sense you genuinely don’t want to be with them. But certain things still hurt you.
This is far enough back -hello Kat I'm Stuart Coverdale. West coast💌🇨🇦 I don't do (have a fb page haven't touched it or my instgrm since 2012) social media; because of covid I have this account for entertainment while being locked away -if covid never happened I wouldn't be here. I work lots and the few hours at night I have to myself? Like heck I'm spending it behind a computer screen -in fact I don't even own a computer.You are a wonderful bundle of positive energy and you lift my spirits every moment you share. AND I will speak the unspoken -ya I'm watching and you know it, lol....(sorta like the phantom of the opera up in the pipes -theater ref) love and light to you and your loved ones❤🌞
EDIT: ummmm? ....uh, ya: I thought about it and even tho I did give you my name I feel maybe? the last part of it was kinda, maybe, could be interpreted as, questionable behavior. I have been brought up as a gentleman and have responsibility to my family name. I'm just a simple person a tradesmen; as my father before me, lol.... (hang onto your Sox dear Dorothy; we're not in Kansas anymore) I don't do social media nor have I had an influence on society. I watch UA-cam for entertainment and not as much anymore; I hold a position of responsibility at work and after 12-14 hours the last thing I want is to hang out in front of a computer -to which I don't even own. On a spiritual level I hang out in the moment: whether in person, over the radio, video ;live or recorded -I live in that moment; I can feel that moment and everything in that moment feels me. (I sure hope you're a Don Juan Castaneda fan -or at least Pirates of the Caribbean, lol... but there can only be one and it's very lonely -thus making the connection to other moments other than the one I'm in much easier. it's a long story; it was really good acid wen I was young, and I've been enlightened. idk wat else to say... I wrote to make you feel more comfortable and to know: no we will never meet. I live on the west coast of Canada. I don't think we have some "special" connection and you want me -that would scare the crap out of many ladies from newscasters to movie stars. I love my work and am grateful for being able to do something I enjoy very much -so I'm very rooted to Van-city❤ and young lady I'm old -I'm 54 years of age I live paycheque to paycheque I have a very physical job (I work with tower cranes; the ones that build skyscrapers -find me work there I then maybe I can come visit -lol; jkn) that keeps my health I smoke (yes yuck) that's enough I hope this settles any questions you may have had that would trouble you
But sit in the grass at Berkeley and ask yourself truly wat is a unicorn supposed to look like ......lol
love and light
Can I just say I love watching your impressions of your ma.fav video was mom I'm depressed.....who? don't tell me about your depressions,it dims my light...LOVE IT.
Spot on once again you've never stopped loving them you've had children with them and you've got memories with them what you do if the love becomes different it's not romantic it's not passionate you care you wish them the best and hope for the best for them you don't hate them because it's not in you to hate but the love that you have that was exclusive to them and for them that's not there but you do have love And that's good thing
Why is it that siblings bring out that noiseless uncontrollable laugh more than anyone else can? Lol
UGH THE VAGUE JON ANSWER - never knew this was a possible thing but now i absolutely need to know 😂
lol they aren’t. They are just kidding. I think they are going to keep it going for a while. Just like another tiktok creator, her name is Abby and for the longest she said her brother was Chris. Not sure why it’s a thing to say people are siblings or cousins lol
When your only child is given a sibling, and it’s not from you, that’s tough. Sending love ❤️
I don't think you're wierd...You are genuine, you are fun, you are warm and very smart. And - in love with life. In today's world, that may be wierd, unfortunately.
Thank you for your videos. My favorites that my wife and I just crack up over (I come from a hispanic family) are your "as my hispanic mother" videos. OMG. So funny, so SPOT ON!!! Thank you again and keep up the great work. 😂