Love is the best.. and the worst

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 667

  • @TDot2323
    @TDot2323 11 місяців тому +580

    Colby really needs to do more of his own content. We need more Colby in our lives.

    • @Jmyin
      @Jmyin 11 місяців тому +5

      I find Colby so annoying lol but he reminds me of someone I know so that might be unfair

    • @shawnamccowan9707
      @shawnamccowan9707 11 місяців тому +15

      Colby is the sweetest person have u ever met him

    • @TDot2323
      @TDot2323 11 місяців тому +2

      @@shawnamccowan9707 I have not. But I plan to at some point, hopefully! Lol.

    • @shawnamccowan9707
      @shawnamccowan9707 11 місяців тому +1

      @@TDot2323 I have met them all of them more than once

    • @KP-nk7fo
      @KP-nk7fo 11 місяців тому

      Plot twist , Colby ends up with Kristin

  • @jackiewiles886
    @jackiewiles886 11 місяців тому +291

    I have to say the best part about this whole vlog was watching grandpa lift his arms. That was amazing!!

  • @LifewithCheyi
    @LifewithCheyi 11 місяців тому +117

    I met a beautiful couple a few weeks back and we were talking about how they met and what they went through together. They told me that when they met, they literally love who each other were and spent all there times together. 3 years later, they both felt it was either time to take the next step marriage or split up. Well, they decided to split up and see what happens. 6 months apart, they realized that they couldn’t live without each other and decided to get married and they’ve been married for 11 yrs and counting. Life is a mystery, you never know what will come at you, but I believe if you are truly meant for each other, you’ll find your way back. If it’s not then it wasn’t meant to be and someone else will come at the right time.

  • @chelseabare
    @chelseabare 11 місяців тому +65

    Don’t wait too long if you know she’s the one… tomorrow isn’t promised to any of us 💗

  • @emilynoesner6765
    @emilynoesner6765 11 місяців тому +238

    I appreciate the real and raw honesty from both you and Colby. This was the first time I’ve heard him speak at all about Mickala.

    • @chanelbriggs9501
      @chanelbriggs9501 11 місяців тому +12

      I agree ! I’ve been waiting to hear the story behind it

    • @kerigirl711
      @kerigirl711 11 місяців тому +3

      When? I even re-watched & didn’t hear that. 😅

    • @TWG420
      @TWG420 11 місяців тому +1

      I rewatched it. And it was on there yesterday where he talked about her but now when I'm watching it it's gone.. I think that part was removed

    • @jessicamichaud6088
      @jessicamichaud6088 11 місяців тому +7

      ​@Keri Iw was at the end, when they were playing truth or drink. Seems to have been cut out though. He was asked if he would get back with her I think, and without hesitation he immediately said No...never..he said something like they just werent right. They didnt have the same values...moraly they did...but just in life or something they didnt....

  • @dawnhayes1231
    @dawnhayes1231 11 місяців тому +10

    Idk if you will see this but I have to say, I am a lot like Kcup. I am someone who needs validation, especially when my husband and I first married 25 years ago. I needed him to show me he wouldn’t let me go. I needed to hear him say he KNEW I was the one God sent him for. If you love her and she’s your person and you believe God wants this relationship let her know! That’s what a real relationship is about. Not letting go when the valley’s get low. Love her like Christ loved the church. He tells us all the time He will never leave us. ❤

  • @klove16
    @klove16 11 місяців тому +14

    “go get her” “i want to” aghhh that was adorable and heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time 😭😆i’m praying for strength and help for you guys and if it is in God’s plan He will lead y’all back together 🫶i love you guys! also we need more colby in our lives!!! much love💕

  • @natawshaw
    @natawshaw 11 місяців тому +6

    I remember when Noah first said i love you on camera to kcup and he talked about his definition of love. About how you love them that you only want what's best for the other person. Noah dont doubt that her life is better without you. Its not she misses you just as much. For the all thats holy in this world stop using past tenses. It is not over, follow what everyone even Colby said it. Go get her. Sometimes it takes a grand gesture and everyone puts their pride and ego to the side. I have no doubt you guys will come back stronger. This break has only made Kcup faith and her relationship with God stronger and i know you are proud of her. Much love and prayers that you get the guidance you guys need. God does not do things for you, he gives you the tools to use ❤

  • @candaceburden5905
    @candaceburden5905 11 місяців тому +47

    “GO GET HER”
    -Colby
    The end… 😂
    What your grandpa said at the beginning god will give you a way.. work for it. Relationships aren’t easy.. they can be hard, they will be.. but you come back stronger.. find out what works and what don’t.. you two made me realize in my last relationship what it was lacking.. and reminded me what I wanted and needed. Much love to both of you! ❤

  • @Joy-od7xo
    @Joy-od7xo 11 місяців тому +16

    So many wise words Noah. Your biggest fear..."I'm focused so much on my work, that i miss my love story". You both mentioned work. Now you can work together to make this great love that you have together be the love of your lifetime🤍

  • @chantelouellette1152
    @chantelouellette1152 11 місяців тому +21

    Well i’de have to agree with so much of what you said Noah…. There never will be another Kcup, this girl brings out the best in you & always will. She’ll always be your biggest cheerleader and to this day defends you always. Love this girls heart & how’s she’s always bettering herself & helping others through her troubles. No doubt in my mind you two are meant to be & will be stronger than ever ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kimnycz6329
      @kimnycz6329 11 місяців тому +7

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @gretaneufeld4338
      @gretaneufeld4338 11 місяців тому +4

      Koah is strong together ❤️ ❤

  • @zymbc
    @zymbc 11 місяців тому +52

    Colby can talk about important and complex subjects with so much clarity and make it so simple, we need to hear more from you Colby...Can you have a PODCAST, please? ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lotusky1246
    @lotusky1246 11 місяців тому +8

    He misses Kcup and hope is there. I see that Kcup is very open and honest with her feelings. Not in a needy way. But, just finding how strong her faith is in GOD. She is growing in faith. That's always a good thing.

  • @3jeffs
    @3jeffs 11 місяців тому +34

    Noah. Remember. Sometimes we are so focused on the future that we forget we are in the middle of what we prayed for. Continuing to pray for you both. For Gods guidance and wisdom in your life. ❤

    • @mamapad578
      @mamapad578 11 місяців тому +1

      This is the most profound thing I’ve read in a while. Won’t soon forget it. Thank you for reminding me too. ❤

  • @gretaneufeld4338
    @gretaneufeld4338 11 місяців тому +56

    Noah I really hope you follow your own heart not listen to others 😢

  • @addie3980
    @addie3980 11 місяців тому +43

    Everyone needs a bro like Colby and hope he also finds his significant other one day. ❤️

  • @kelleymontgomery7323
    @kelleymontgomery7323 11 місяців тому +94

    Sending prayers for you and KCup to find your way back to one another and come back stronger then ever! ❤

    • @maddsluiz1296
      @maddsluiz1296 11 місяців тому +15

      We need to stop praying for them to get back together and start praying for them to have the strength to go in the direction God intends. If it's back to each other that's amazing! If not they'll need strength to move on.

    • @belindaremus9976
      @belindaremus9976 11 місяців тому +6

      @@maddsluiz1296 you said that right👍🙏♥️

    • @sadnlonelywithoutmydaughter911
      @sadnlonelywithoutmydaughter911 10 місяців тому

      ​@@maddsluiz1296what happened?? I just got my account back and haven't hears nothing for a long time

  • @tinamauldin2413
    @tinamauldin2413 11 місяців тому +14

    I will say this no relationship is perfect! There will be trials and tribulations on every relationship! If you find the person you can’t live without them you fight for that relationship! Your right there will never be another KCup, that girl loves you and supports you in so many ways. On her lives she’s so real and I will say not a time comes by that she is not cheering you on! Prayers for you both!

    • @LoriB11
      @LoriB11 11 місяців тому +8

      You’re so right! She is his biggest supporter and cheerleader. Always thinking of him.

  • @vibhuti23
    @vibhuti23 11 місяців тому +27

    I just love Colby how he support and understand noah and kcup❤

  • @LoriB11
    @LoriB11 11 місяців тому +31

    Thank you for being open with your thoughts. What I took from the vlog is there will never be another person for you like Kcup. She has amazing values, you love her, miss her and want to reach out. You said that you guys have made mountains out of nothing, and your life wouldn't be better without her. What else do you need to tell you that she's the one? Listen to what YOU said. There will always be issues in a relationship and marriage. But you make a commitment to work through the issues together. I really hope you will take the time while she's away to truly realize what you have with Kcup and go get her when she gets back. Life is so short, don't waste time.

  • @nathalieparenteau9498
    @nathalieparenteau9498 11 місяців тому +11

    Praying for you and Kcup I really believe you two will find your way back to each other Love is still there she miss you and love you figth for your relationship ❤️

  • @carlameredith
    @carlameredith 11 місяців тому +16

    I miss this kind of vlog!!! Just doing your thing and hanging out with everyone. It's so real 🤍 and time spent with Colby is so valuable. He has a great heart and is wise beyond his years.
    I think you just realized why your break is valuable. You see the things you didn't like in your relationship and now you can work on those and make it better. Kcup just needs a minute to spread her wings and fly - then she will fly right back to you 💗
    Love you both so much and want the best for you 🥰

  • @jerryglantz1630
    @jerryglantz1630 11 місяців тому +146

    Sometimes destiny needs a push. Relationships are difficult and you have to work on them and for them. You and Kcup obviously love each other, fight for your love !

    • @bethanycrites8265
      @bethanycrites8265 11 місяців тому +12

      He needs to fight for kcup and work it out and they both love each other so much

    • @BlessedMamaJacklynn
      @BlessedMamaJacklynn 11 місяців тому +5

      I agree

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 11 місяців тому

      ​@@bethanycrites8265 I'm curious what he did

    • @jeanjolicoeur8407
      @jeanjolicoeur8407 11 місяців тому

      Maybe what she did

    • @lindawhite2297
      @lindawhite2297 11 місяців тому +1

      Stop it, you are not God and you don't know His will! Other people need to pull back, so they can see the whole picture. God's word says His ways are not our ways. Don't tell others what to do with their lives.

  • @elizabethunger9190
    @elizabethunger9190 11 місяців тому +83

    Colby is right. There isn’t “the one”. There is no “perfect person for you”. There are lots of people in the world with the qualities you want in a spouse. But the choice is yours and once you’re in a covenant, you make it work. You learn you partner and improve yourself so the marriage lasts. I’m almost exactly a year younger than you Noah (Jan 28th, 1998). I’m married with two kids two and under. My husband is 28 and we got married at 21 and 24. We’ve had ups and downs but ultimately, divorce isn’t an option. We’ve bettered ourselves over the last 4 years and learned and grown together. We’re stronger now than we ever were.
    If you asked me, I think you’re scared. You’re scared of getting married because then there’s no going back from there. My husband and I were married a year after the day we met. We knew. Period. If you truly love Kcup and can’t imagine yourself with another woman in the future, step into that and marry her.

    • @tinamauldin2413
      @tinamauldin2413 11 місяців тому +7

      Yes he knows and he answered his own questions , praying for him

    • @TheNerdistheWord
      @TheNerdistheWord 11 місяців тому +3

      I have a similar story but I’m 32 and my husband and I have been married since I was 20 and he was 24. Within a month of dating we knew we were going to get married. Almost a year after we started dating we got married. It’s been 12 years and 2 kids later and it’s been amazing ❤️

    • @moderator7169
      @moderator7169 11 місяців тому

      you've never been in love before

    • @mamabear956
      @mamabear956 11 місяців тому +1

      Amen! Stop Noah. Stop being scared and start trusting with your whole heart.

    • @elizabethunger9190
      @elizabethunger9190 11 місяців тому +1

      @@moderator7169 Lol I’m sorry what!? 😂

  • @chryskirby9501
    @chryskirby9501 11 місяців тому +13

    Seeing how invested and caring Colby is when it comes to you sharing your heart. You’re friendship with each other is priceless and a God sent.

  • @danielhorn7229
    @danielhorn7229 11 місяців тому +8

    Got get her Noah! Don't let kcup go. God put her in your life for a reason. Show her everyday how much you love her.

  • @tajaziz1904
    @tajaziz1904 11 місяців тому +69

    You and kcup are a match made in heaven ❤

  • @katrenababy2661
    @katrenababy2661 11 місяців тому +5

    GO GET HER!!!

  • @natashahurley4924
    @natashahurley4924 11 місяців тому +4

    I totally understand the reset. It absolutely has nothing to do with not loving someone, it’s the opposite. You just need time to think and reflect and grow. I totally get it. See what aspects you miss, and what you need to do differently. I think it’s a smart thing to do.

  • @lovething35
    @lovething35 11 місяців тому +2

    Oh my noah you made me cry so much in this video. I can see how much pain you are in you two need to talk it out.

  • @be_the_light29
    @be_the_light29 11 місяців тому +2

    Loving someone is a choice. We all want to base everything on “feelings” but sometimes there will be moments where you have to choose to love your partner. There will be difficult moments that are going to be challenging. If you truly love someone then you stick it out and make it work. Communication, compromise, love, loyalty, and compassion will get you far in your relationship. Each bump in a relationship is an opportunity to learn and grow as a couple. If you truly love them and want to be with them, then fight like there’s no tomorrow to make it work. Nothing is worth giving up the person who you truly love and want to spend your life with. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @janewright1126
    @janewright1126 11 місяців тому +20

    Noah, I appreciate how you have shown your feelings and like Coby said go get her ❤

  • @dieketsengbolofo5120
    @dieketsengbolofo5120 11 місяців тому +68

    Always love Noah's chats. More of these deep real life question car rides please. So good

  • @staceys2711
    @staceys2711 11 місяців тому +6

    Noah, it's not too late to do things differently with Kcup. It's never too late! Both of you just gotta set some healthy boundaries for each of you & then both of you respect those boundaries because you love eachother. And figure it out. I have the utmost faith in both of you to work through this & I do think you both will come back as one of the strongest couples with an unbreakable foundation! ❤

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 11 місяців тому +17

    Sending love your way and kcup’s way ♥️

  • @kathleencoats
    @kathleencoats 11 місяців тому +19

    Even in marriage u may have to take time apart. There's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes in relationships when you're together all the time you forget to be your own person. You guys are supported and thank you for sharing part of your journey and being real with everyone. ❤

  • @Amanda-yz8yw
    @Amanda-yz8yw 11 місяців тому +16

    I love how vulnerable y’all were in this vlog. Praying for y’all 🕊💕

  • @deannamayhugh9909
    @deannamayhugh9909 11 місяців тому +21

    Just know your followers are also going through the heartache you and KCup are experiencing. Relationships are difficult at times and with God in your hearts and on your side, you both can get through this. I pray that neither one of you give up on the other and you choose to work through this together. You both are an inspiration to many and being transparent about what real life can look like even through the good and bad is so inspirational. Continued prayers for you and KCup!!

  • @amtothefm
    @amtothefm 11 місяців тому +3

    Always here for y’all. Praying you find what you want. :) God knows but you have to wait.

  • @stephaniesantos5790
    @stephaniesantos5790 11 місяців тому +10

    Praying for you and Kcup. 🙏 Just know I am here for the both of you. That’s what this family is about supporting and praying for each other.

  • @Clara_rose152
    @Clara_rose152 11 місяців тому +11

    Praying for you in this season!❤️

  • @addie3980
    @addie3980 11 місяців тому +13

    So nice to see Grandma and Grandpa. I thank God for Grandpa Schnacky's progress ❤🎉

  • @sabrinahensley3817
    @sabrinahensley3817 11 місяців тому +21

    You and kcup are in my prayers. 🙏

  • @crystalmariegee4268
    @crystalmariegee4268 11 місяців тому +1

    Happy his recovery is well and praying for the best for y'all.

  • @Tess22000
    @Tess22000 11 місяців тому +8

    "go get her" noah says "i want to" 😭😭😭

  • @Mirabella492
    @Mirabella492 11 місяців тому +9

    First of all, thank you for opening up❤ I have an idea: do a big romantic gesture, like buy tickets to Paris and surprise her or something… I know we don’t even know 1% of your lives but, to say something like that to the public means something…. And I’m not in the position to say it’s meant to be at all, but I just wanna give you a small inspiration, because you guys have always been an inspiration for me. ❤

  • @shantydanielle2679
    @shantydanielle2679 11 місяців тому +3

    Noah this was a GREAT video!!! I LOVE the honesty from you guys🥹🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @DebCanada54
    @DebCanada54 11 місяців тому +8

    Ok by far the best most real Vlog.Thanks to all of you for including all of us.❤

  • @bethmcadoo6178
    @bethmcadoo6178 11 місяців тому +24

    One of your better vlogs. I appreciate the authenticity and openness here. Praying for both you and K-cup.

  • @jesteralfonso8409
    @jesteralfonso8409 11 місяців тому +5

    I agree to the other comments! Noah and KCups meant for each other. Hope Noah follow what his heart telling him for KCups?.

  • @JUICEY.J
    @JUICEY.J 11 місяців тому +3

    Something i have learned through a youth leader is that a relationship with god has to be 50/50, u cant pray and ask for problems to be solved and do nothing, instead u also need to put in the work towards your prayer goal. But some prayers you need to fight for it and its prayer goal more than others. It is his way of teaching us to fight for what we want and love, and the love in our heart

  • @marysnider9024
    @marysnider9024 11 місяців тому

    You two are very wise men, you two are blessed to have one another.i love it when you two do a vlog together.

  • @LoriB11
    @LoriB11 11 місяців тому +32

    My hope is this vlog will contain some raw real emotion from Noah. I understand this is a personal, difficult time for him and Kcup. However, if you're going to put out content, I would prefer no clickbait or pranks. Kcup's vlogs have been amazing to watch. She is showing us how she's navigating this time of reset and has shown unbelievable growth. I believe the relationship is equally important to Noah and I understand his way of coping may be different than hers. I am anxious to see what he chooses to show us. Wishing them both the very best.

    • @deniser7091
      @deniser7091 11 місяців тому +1

      Very well put!

    • @Emilylife881
      @Emilylife881 11 місяців тому +2

      THIS!!

    • @MA-jd4ui
      @MA-jd4ui 11 місяців тому

      Very well spoken Very mature also

  • @_raeoflight
    @_raeoflight 11 місяців тому +12

    Glad to see you getting some quality brother time with Colby again in vlogs, and family time in general with all that’s going on for you lately. I’ve missed seeing the vlogs with the deeper conversations in them, that’s a big part of what made me love the content the fam makes originally. And I’m so happy to see Grandpa doing so well now too. He’s come so far in the last year, and is definitely proof of the miracles God still works everyday. 🙌🏼
    And I know the situation you’re in right now is a tough one, but I pray you have the peace you need during it, and the clarity from God overall on how to proceed. Sometimes people do need time apart to grow, and it doesn’t mean that they aren’t mature enough or that there was anything wrong. Sometimes you just need to work on yourself to be the best you can be, so that the relationship can be better in the long run too. And you never know this could be a way God wants to work on bringing you closer to Him for a reason too. He definitely has a plan for you, and we all know it’s going to work out perfectly in His timing. Just keep taking it day my day. You’ve got this Woah! 🫶🏼💙⚓️

  • @AdieldeVilliers
    @AdieldeVilliers 11 місяців тому +2

    Love the vlog Noah. More of the same as last week. Fun seeing more of Colby. Hope he brings his vlogs back soon. Great job.

  • @MysticEyesMarie
    @MysticEyesMarie 11 місяців тому +5

    THIS WAS SO HEALTHY. It was so good to see your thought process on everything. I wish you all love and peace of mind and soul. Have faith you'll get there 💜

  • @mercieison7241
    @mercieison7241 11 місяців тому +7

    Oh its not that bad. It makes me smile. Colby wants Kcup for Noah.. end of story. . Colby thanks for being there for Noah. He need a friend to talk to. I ❤️ Koah no soooooo much 🥺

  • @estherdalaka7358
    @estherdalaka7358 11 місяців тому +4

    NOAH, Prayers are with you & Kcup. Only God's will be done in your lives..Keep staying positive & doing what you are called to do.🙏sending loves all the way from Papua New Guinea🇵🇬❤

  • @brendakillian6138
    @brendakillian6138 11 місяців тому +4

    Life's too short Noah, don't let Kcup get away. You're crazy if you do. Take it from someone who knows I have lost 3 children and my husband of 32 years. Go get her. Love you all. GOD IS GREAT

  • @kaylaliebel2431
    @kaylaliebel2431 11 місяців тому

    I love the rain & the talk is so relatable!

  • @cececonny5788
    @cececonny5788 11 місяців тому +5

    this really goes to show how real these relationships are. it’s not some rouse for the camera or for the views. it’s real and raw and it’s amazing to see it. praying for noah and kcup!🥰

  • @noahmarino5605
    @noahmarino5605 11 місяців тому +28

    Great Vlog Noah! Your so right figure work out & you’ll both have it made. She’s one of a kind and you don’t want to lose her. Thank you for being vulnerable & letting us see the true Noah

  • @SkyeStoran
    @SkyeStoran 11 місяців тому +4

    The best part was seeing Grampa move/lift his arms! Well don Grampa❤
    It's it just me but when Noah was talking about the break with Kcup he looked like he wanted to cry 😭 Noah we love and support you! Love you Noah

  • @chelseymartinook474
    @chelseymartinook474 11 місяців тому +7

    This vlog is so good. God's got in this season.You and kcup will be so stronger together I pray for guys always❤️ I loved the talk between you and Colby. When I saw Grandpa can move his arms out the biggest smile on my face. Go Grandpa Schnacky!! God is so good 🙌🙌

  • @cindyhildreth2748
    @cindyhildreth2748 11 місяців тому +4

    I love the openness of the talk you guys had. Yall can smile through deep contents. 🙏💙

  • @annsimo
    @annsimo 11 місяців тому +2

    aww this breaks my heart!! i hope it all works out, you are the cutest couple💕💕💕 but just remember everything happens for a reason❣️

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
    @SowingSeedsWithChristy 11 місяців тому +2

    Their faith comes straight away out of their mouths. It's wonderful. ❤

  • @kimberlyhoniker1469
    @kimberlyhoniker1469 11 місяців тому

    I am blessed every time I watch your channel. I think it's great how you put God first and you're not afraid to share what you believe. God bless you and your family.

  • @nidafarha8350
    @nidafarha8350 11 місяців тому +3

    This vlog was the realest I have ever seen it was soo good 🙏but the best part was seeing your grandpa 👏doing an amazing job 🙏god is sooo good 👍

  • @dianekay7117
    @dianekay7117 11 місяців тому +4

    No relationship is without The Mountain and the Molehill as long as you are both on the same path you will always have each others backs xxUKxx Love xxx 💓 xxx 💓

  • @terrywoodman8361
    @terrywoodman8361 11 місяців тому +3

    Hi Noah watching your vlogs your relationship was so intense. Seeing each other every day all the time can put a strain on a relationship. When my wife and I were working she would often be away at least two nights a week. We called each other every night to see how each of us was just for a moment or two. Even now we are retired we still have time apart. She goes on trips with her friends or just goes to our apartment in Malta for a week and I do the same. It’s good to have your own space for a while. I hope you and Kristin get through this and find a happy balance.

  • @aliciabrown7639
    @aliciabrown7639 11 місяців тому +5

    I appreciate the openness out of both you and Colby on this vlog. I’m praying that things work out for you and Kcup. Hopefully both u and Colby Will continues to be open with content. The fans love real and honest and open

  • @maryjackson2946
    @maryjackson2946 11 місяців тому +4

    MAY GOD BLESSINGS,COURAGE,WISDOM AND STRENGTH CONTINUE TO BE WITH WHATEVER YALL'S DECISIONS WILL BE. 🙏✝️

  • @rayhadali7354
    @rayhadali7354 11 місяців тому +25

    Praying for you and kcup you guys are amazing and very inspiring together.

  • @rebeccab7655
    @rebeccab7655 11 місяців тому +7

    You go Grandpa Schnacky!🎉🎉🎉
    I agree that taking a break is good. It sucks but necessary sometimes. It gives you time to reflect and talk when it is time. You got this Noah! I believe whatever happens between you and Kcup will be for the best for both you and her. Praying you have a great day.

  • @kandilla
    @kandilla 11 місяців тому +13

    Noah, I wish I could sit down and chat with you and kcup in person. My husband and I went through a very, very similar dating relationship. It was unbelievably difficult. We loved each other, knew we were God’s best for each other, but we are opposites in a lot of ways, which God uses to compliment one another, but that takes a lot of work and time to learn 😅 so it was causing us to just constantly butt heads. We also worked together, and with his family (so very, very similar to your situation). We almost broke up once the fighting was so bad, and a holy fear came over me- God spoke to my heart “you can walk away, I’ll allow you, but that will be the wrong decision and will derail the path I have you on for your calling.” The VERY best decision we ever made was getting counseling from a pastor outside of our immediate circle. He knew our story well and had known my husband’s family for literal decades, but he wasn’t immersed in our daily lives. He was able to walk us through and give us tools to work with and for each other instead of trying so hard to change each other. We felt a little silly doing what was essentially premarital counseling when we weren’t even engaged, but it was the very best thing for our relationship. We’ve been married now coming up on 18 years 🙌🏼 I won’t lie and say life is always easy and rosy, EVERY marriage takes work! But I’m so, so thankful we made the decision to fight for us and press on, and humble ourselves for the good of what God wanted to do in us and through us for his kingdom 😭💗 He will always be enough to carry us through the difficult seasons, and He’s so faithful even when we’re not 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
    I have been and will continue to pray that God speaks so clearly to each of you in this season, and that his presence is near in comfort and peace 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @deniser7091
      @deniser7091 11 місяців тому +5

      Wow!!! What an amazing testimony I pray Noah and Kcup will see this. Thank you for sharing

    • @kandilla
      @kandilla 11 місяців тому +1

      @@deniser7091 God wastes nothing if we’re willing to allow ourselves to be used as a testimony, right? 💗 I always pray our story can encourage anyone struggling through their own relationship issues- NO relationship is without trials, but our culture kind of paints it in that way- if you struggle, it’s not right. No, we ALL struggle, and it’s how we respond that matters 🙏🏼 thanks for your response 🤗

  • @ChloeMcLennan
    @ChloeMcLennan 11 місяців тому +6

    Poor Noah looks so heartbroken... Go get her!!

  • @alyssamoonsamy1948
    @alyssamoonsamy1948 11 місяців тому +2

    Omg we need more of these vlogs..just Noah and Colby chatting about life 🥹

  • @DaphinieJade
    @DaphinieJade 11 місяців тому +5

    Go get her Noah. ❤ love y’all. Enjoyed this video. Great things were said and need to be thought about. Thank you for pouring out some raw emotions

  • @shelbyg19xx
    @shelbyg19xx 11 місяців тому +1

    Loved seeing Grandma and Grandpa! Miss Colby making content too! Good to see him in here 🖤 miss you guys so so much!

  • @claudia_3991
    @claudia_3991 11 місяців тому +1

    I think the best part of this video is when you said "you made mountains out of nothing". It's a really enlightening phrase. Most times we ask ourselves what happened? We say we don't know what happened..etc. When really that's exactly what we let happen and we sometimes are blind to see that... we made mountains out of absolutely nothing. We created arguments over tiny things!! And it's only when we really really think about it afterwards, that we realize that. And it's just sad🥺💔

  • @amaliahanderson9502
    @amaliahanderson9502 11 місяців тому +3

    I think this vlog was very important in showing everyone that you all are real people going through real problems too. Thanks for sharing your journey with us 💜

  • @klg629
    @klg629 11 місяців тому +1

    I loved this vlog so much. Just you two, being so real and showing us that it’s okay to be unsure and single and waiting for the perfect person or trying to figure things out. Thank you for being such a light, I needed this video today. ❤️

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 11 місяців тому +19

    Praying for you and kcup. It’s in God’s hands and his timing ❤

    • @janeferguson7608
      @janeferguson7608 11 місяців тому +6

      Why is it in Gods hands - there are really deep feelings here and surely we need to be responsible for our own decisions.

  • @candaceburden5905
    @candaceburden5905 11 місяців тому +8

    I love how Colby and Noah have different views that are equally so mature and beautiful! I’m currently in the middle..
    Trying to figure out what I believe after a separation and this was refreshing to hear the both aspects!

  • @tajaziz1904
    @tajaziz1904 11 місяців тому +15

    Praying for you and kcup!
    You two were made for each other ❤

  • @univerzaltruth6481
    @univerzaltruth6481 11 місяців тому +4

    Sometimes it take a break to recalibrate and come back together as the people you've evolved into now. ❤

  • @domcacciola4205
    @domcacciola4205 11 місяців тому +19

    Noah mistakes aren’t bad as long as you learn from them. Don’t let your pride get in the way. If you really want something put your heart on the line. That way you’ll never have regrets

  • @Tess22000
    @Tess22000 11 місяців тому +4

    praying for you guys!

  • @kimnycz6329
    @kimnycz6329 11 місяців тому +4

    Seeing how far your grandfather has come, when they told him he would never walk again it’s a true miracle, can’t believe next week it will be a year since it happened

  • @bulourobanakadavu1261
    @bulourobanakadavu1261 11 місяців тому +1

    Appreciate you both guys … Happy to hear from both of you today and sharing your life with us. Keeping all in prayers ; God will help guide you both to your significant other - TRUST HIM AND HIS TIMING. Love you both and family. ⚓️⚓️⚓️⚓️⚓️⚓️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️

  • @princesssprincess
    @princesssprincess 11 місяців тому +1

    I love the honesty from you both 💙

  • @annmarieinthehouse
    @annmarieinthehouse 11 місяців тому +12

    Noah… if you feel that way you have to tell KCup and give her the option to come back. Regrets are the worst thing. Sending prayers and strength for God to lead you in the right direction. By what you said… it’s clear you know she is the one for you. 🙏🏻💖

    • @hopeg02
      @hopeg02 11 місяців тому +4

      This. If he doesn’t move now or in the near future and this slips from under them, they will both have so many regrets in the future. I know bc I made this mistake before and it was hard to move past.

    • @tinamauldin2413
      @tinamauldin2413 11 місяців тому +4

      This!

    • @annmarieinthehouse
      @annmarieinthehouse 11 місяців тому

      @@hopeg02 yes… it can be. Wishing you continued peace in that process. I gave you a follow. Subscribed. Good decision going this route and away from negative comments on TikTok. 🙌🏻💃🏻🙌🏻💃🏻

  • @charlesshephard4933
    @charlesshephard4933 11 місяців тому +8

    Sounds like you and Kcup just need to talk. Don't wait too long or this separation could back fire.

    • @hopeg02
      @hopeg02 11 місяців тому +2

      I agree.

  • @ginapurcell1732
    @ginapurcell1732 11 місяців тому +4

    Your relationship will always have peaks and valleys. You'll become complacent with eacother and have to fight to get back to enjoying one another. Kids will throw a wrench in things. But choosing to fight for one another is the only thing you and your partner need to do to make a lasting relationship. You both seem to have that. Go get her!

  • @jessicazirbes2993
    @jessicazirbes2993 11 місяців тому

    I love this video it’s full of so much emotions and truth

  • @insightthabies4513
    @insightthabies4513 11 місяців тому +1

    You gonna be fine, you both will be, it's okay to break up sometimes and even though you may not find your way back to each other, atleast you know you've had your best and you loved wholeheartedly, it would be worse if you never experienced that

  • @Braveh3artGirl
    @Braveh3artGirl 11 місяців тому +1

    Space is good for any relationship ❤ going through this now with the love of my life. It hurts, but lean on God and pray

  • @lisaprice6389
    @lisaprice6389 11 місяців тому +2

    I can't say for everyone but appreciation for your honesty. We can see how you both are hurting!We love you both. I believe god stepped in for yiu two to really realize what you have! We need Colby to start vloging again! Yea and with you for sure.

  • @kimberlytoth6603
    @kimberlytoth6603 11 місяців тому +9

    Call K-Cup and talk... communication is key to a relationship... don't let the love that you two share slip away. As long as you two keep God first in your personal lives and in your relationship, you can work anything out!!! Much love ❤️