I am a 50 year old woman who just stumbled across your channel. There are several channels on UA-cam with similar platforms, and several of them discuss leveling up to catch a wealthy man, etc. However, you truly focus on elegance, poise and helping women be the best they can be. Well done, Vivienne. New subscriber here. ☺️
Your videos are really enlightening. In an era where women are encouraged to be strong and masculine to survive the hurdles of life, women should be reminded that we are feminine and we can be strong while being feminine and classy.
A man who I was recently in a relationship with, did something that angered me. He came by & I told him I was upset with him & he bowed his head. I showed him where I put all his things. He said "now it comes out". I don't yell scream or cuss at a man. I'm learning to watch my behavior & refrain from being confrontational, because I don't want his defensiveness
1. Practise Self Care - Taking care of mental, emotional well-being. Exercising regularly, eating healthily, surround yourself with like-minded people. 2. Be Graceful - Carry yourself with self-respect, dignity & honour. 3. Discretion - Be careful who you disclose personal matters with. 4. Reputable - Don't get involved in matters that don't concern you. 5. Be Open - Open up and accept being pampered, be the recipient of good things and treatment. Allow yourself to receive more and pamper /treat yourself. Don't be afraid of asking for help. 6. Act Like A Lady - Think about how you act with others. Don't cackle like a hyena, be gentle and graceful with your laugh. Watch your alcohol intake. 7. Wear Perfume - Always smell good. 8. Avoid Masculine Traits - Don't try to be one of the guys. 9. Be Expressive - Show emotions with your body language, don't be afraid to show emotions but don't be overly dramatic.
Vivienne, I found your channel a little over 2 years ago and I must say, your videos are just getting better. Being a lady is so much more than makeup, hair and nails. It's in how you carry yourself, your world view, how you interact with people and most of all, one can achieve femininity without going into debt and buying everything covered with logos. Vivienne's advice is solid and I rarely put a put wrong when I implement her suggestions. Wonderful channel. Keep up the great work and cheers from Canada!
I agree, wholeheartedly. I find many women get angry & deeply offended if I suggest they hone in on their femininity. These women tend to be crass, vulgar and masculine. Like truckdrivers. They say they want to marry high quality man but they act so gruff. I just don't understand why they get mad at me?
@rosahacketts1668 NO you don't seem to know what you are talking about others absolutely nothing wrong with being masculine on women we are in 21 century not in the middle ages
@@mariharrik5987 Are you serious? 21st century doesn't mean women should be crass or vulgar. Especially out in public. All this mess started with Girls gone wild, Snooki and nazi feminism. Women can be assertive and take authority in work mode. Dating is different. Relationships with family, loved ones..femininity is power. My guess is you are not married and your probably quite unhappy. I don't think you get it, honey.
Hello Vivienne, could you please speak on how an elegant woman can be independent and have a husband as a provider simultaneously? What if our husband doesn't want us to work, but we feel more secure with having our own? I just want to know how to find the balance. I know that ultimately we should do what our intuition nudges us to do. I appreciate your insight.
I struggle with number 7 perfume really gets to my sinuses anytime someone is wearing even just a little it clogs me up I start sneezing and I'm no fun to be around as long as I'm around them. 🤷🏼♀️ I'm overly sensitive to Smells. I shower and try to stay smelling clean and I have a few perfume set I control the amount with like literally one drop not even that not sure if anyone else can smell it but I try. I have to be so careful with smells especially cologne and perfume
Whenever I feel like i 'm emotionally Drained...I visit your channel ..Cuz After that I feel Like I am an elegant lady who deserve love, Respect and Caring 🫂❤️🤎
To tell you the truth it is best to keep our personal issues to ourselves. I don't find myself divulging personal information to women. Some of us can be so vindictive. God is my best friend. God listens to our prayers.
Its funny because for me I have masculine traits and my best friend still fell head over heels in love with me hes the only friend I have and he has long hair and I have short hair
Being a Christian doesn't mean being careless, so u tell the whole world your private life? Which verse in the bible says that? On the contrary the lord ask us to be careful yet kind.
I go to Jesus to heal me ,he is my creator and I find He puts me back together again We want to become beings of LOVE WE NEED TO GET INNER HEALING WHICH HELPS US TRULY FORGIVE
I love your video and what advice you give us but I don’t like the music you plying in beginning of your video it’s boring, old , and annoying. Please change it .🙏❤️
I am a 50 year old woman who just stumbled across your channel. There are several channels on UA-cam with similar platforms, and several of them discuss leveling up to catch a wealthy man, etc. However, you truly focus on elegance, poise and helping women be the best they can be. Well done, Vivienne. New subscriber here. ☺️
I am 54 years, I am new subscriber n I agree!!
Your videos are really enlightening. In an era where women are encouraged to be strong and masculine to survive the hurdles of life, women should be reminded that we are feminine and we can be strong while being feminine and classy.
Please we need a lecture in how to show anger in a feminine way. We have the right to be angry.
I agree
Exactly
Body language says enough, just get up and leave the situation.
A man who I was recently in a relationship with, did something that angered me.
He came by & I told him I was upset with him & he bowed his head. I showed him where I put all his things. He said "now it comes out". I don't yell scream or cuss at a man. I'm learning to watch my behavior & refrain from being confrontational, because I don't want his defensiveness
Agree.
1. Practise Self Care - Taking care of mental, emotional well-being. Exercising regularly, eating healthily, surround yourself with like-minded people.
2. Be Graceful - Carry yourself with self-respect, dignity & honour.
3. Discretion - Be careful who you disclose personal matters with.
4. Reputable - Don't get involved in matters that don't concern you.
5. Be Open - Open up and accept being pampered, be the recipient of good things and treatment. Allow yourself to receive more and pamper /treat yourself. Don't be afraid of asking for help.
6. Act Like A Lady - Think about how you act with others. Don't cackle like a hyena, be gentle and graceful with your laugh. Watch your alcohol intake.
7. Wear Perfume - Always smell good.
8. Avoid Masculine Traits - Don't try to be one of the guys.
9. Be Expressive - Show emotions with your body language, don't be afraid to show emotions but don't be overly dramatic.
Thank you
❤️👍🏽
I always appreciate your summaries! Thank you ☺️
Many thanks
Thank you.
Vivienne, I found your channel a little over 2 years ago and I must say, your videos are just getting better. Being a lady is so much more than makeup, hair and nails. It's in how you carry yourself, your world view, how you interact with people and most of all, one can achieve femininity without going into debt and buying everything covered with logos. Vivienne's advice is solid and I rarely put a put wrong when I implement her suggestions. Wonderful channel. Keep up the great work and cheers from Canada!
Being feminine is the absence of vulgar words, manly ways, rough in character and speech.
Yes
I agree, wholeheartedly. I find many women get angry & deeply offended if I suggest they hone in on their femininity. These women tend to be crass, vulgar and masculine. Like truckdrivers. They say they want to marry high quality man but they act so gruff. I just don't understand why they get mad at me?
@rosahacketts1668 NO you don't seem to know what you are talking about others absolutely nothing wrong with being masculine on women we are in 21 century not in the middle ages
@@mariharrik5987 Are you serious? 21st century doesn't mean women should be crass or vulgar. Especially out in public. All this mess started with Girls gone wild, Snooki and nazi feminism. Women can be assertive and take authority in work mode. Dating is different. Relationships with family, loved ones..femininity is power. My guess is you are not married and your probably quite unhappy. I don't think you get it, honey.
I love your look. Simply elegant...beautiful example. Thank you.
Thank you so much😊♥
Your channel is a blessing. So many information of value, and none is falling on deaf ears.
So glad I fell on your channel. Picking up so many tips on elegance. Love your poise, love how you seem to exude what you preach. 😉
So true, I feel the same. She is a just a breath of fresh air
Thank you. "Be graceful". Awesome. I love your presentations.
VIVIENNE A. THANKS FOR ALL THE GRANDEIR OF ASSISTENCE TO HELP PRODUCE ELEGANCE INTO MORE LADIES THAN BEFORE
Thank you so much Vivienne. Always looking forward for new videos. I’m changing myself 💐
Your secret is your weapon. AMEN 🙌🙌
I'm so glad that I found your channel.I'm learning so much
Sooooo glad I became a subscriber! I'm learning so much!
I marvel at the way so speak English so well. Thank you for all you do. God bless you and give you the desires of your heart according to his will.
Thank you very much! This should help me pray more about my emotional issues.
I am right there with you. We can do this, and will.
It's so magical how you elaborate Yr points.. Thank you so much.
Hello Vivienne, could you please speak on how an elegant woman can be independent and have a husband as a provider simultaneously? What if our husband doesn't want us to work, but we feel more secure with having our own? I just want to know how to find the balance. I know that ultimately we should do what our intuition nudges us to do. I appreciate your insight.
right this time that I am watching this, you have 222k subscribers. a number which is full of feminine energy
I love it! Great information. Very helpful tips! Thank you!
I struggle with number 7 perfume really gets to my sinuses anytime someone is wearing even just a little it clogs me up I start sneezing and I'm no fun to be around as long as I'm around them. 🤷🏼♀️ I'm overly sensitive to Smells. I shower and try to stay smelling clean and I have a few perfume set I control the amount with like literally one drop not even that not sure if anyone else can smell it but I try. I have to be so careful with smells especially cologne and perfume
Excellent video! Thanks!
I learnt so much from this video. I'm super grateful ❤
Love these tips/advise
Feminity is so stunning. I think of someone like Audrey Hepburn who had such delicate sophistication. A masculine man is also stunning
This was really good!!!
This was so cute mamaaa
Whenever I feel like i 'm emotionally Drained...I visit your channel
..Cuz After that I feel Like I am an elegant lady who deserve love, Respect and Caring 🫂❤️🤎
Thank you for the valuable information.😊
You're a fabulous advertisement for 21st century feminism too!
Thanks for sharing
Lovely video. Thank you very much.
I am mother of 4 kids. I really need these words. Thank you.
Amazing pointers and loved hearing you❤ Highly appreciated for speaking on such sn important topic. Keep sharing and may you grow. God bless.
I have some work to do on my feminine journey. Recently turned 40.
thank you for helping me
To tell you the truth it is best to keep our personal issues to ourselves. I don't find myself divulging personal information to women. Some of us can be so vindictive. God is my best friend. God listens to our prayers.
This was so informative and insightfu... Thank you Vivian
Please how should ladies carry themselves. Please show us the ways
Simply, thank you...
I thank you so much for everything 💙💯 your a true Blessing 💯💙💙💙
We love you 🖤🖤🖤
I like your style!
You have inspired me. Thank You
Thank you so much for this video.
Thank you so much ❤️😍😘
Thank you very much ❤very nice videos also you always you are charming ❤
Am learning so much
2:48 also wow.
You look stunning xx
Came to this video late...but, I loved it! As always, you are on point.
Please we need lecture on how to be elegant as a mother, especially in public.
so lovely
Its funny because for me I have masculine traits and my best friend still fell head over heels in love with me hes the only friend I have and he has long hair and I have short hair
I love your accent
Thank you💝
Thank u 💖
Is it Femininely- Elegant to ride a bike? is it considered Masuline ?
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I do cackle like a hyena 😂😭😩💀 sometimes… usually when I’m home.
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What if you live for Christ? I live for Christ and am transparent with my life so that He gets the glory.
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The Lord makes women amazingly feminine!
😁😁😁😁Yes girl
Being a Christian doesn't mean being careless, so u tell the whole world your private life? Which verse in the bible says that? On the contrary the lord ask us to be careful yet kind.
@@dinahlarbi7285 not all are christians
I go to Jesus to heal me ,he is my creator and I find He puts me back together again We want to become beings of LOVE WE NEED TO GET INNER HEALING WHICH HELPS US TRULY FORGIVE
Has anyone ever told you you look a little bit like Megan Markle?
I love your video and what advice you give us but I don’t like the music you plying in beginning of your video it’s boring, old , and annoying. Please change it .🙏❤️
Thank you 🌹