Nostalgia is a drug that some people get addicted to. Guys, anyone can experience this kind of stuff, just because you're out of high school or college or uni doesn't mean that you're life is over, there's more than enough time to experience hazy summer nights with someone else.
Got a similar experience, all I had to do was stop being shitty with myself, train, take baths daily, train some more, go to a proper hairdresser, shave nicely, wear clean clothes, get new clothes, have some fucking faith in myself despite my whole life telling me to give up and boom. It is not magic and it is not easy, but it works. It is on your hands ultimately and you're responsible to make it happen. Be strong, for yourself, the most important person in your life.
Some people find "the one" in their childhood then stay with them and forget about their friends and families. Some people only have their friends and families until they're in their 30's. Find some ways to express and vent these things if it is overwhelming you. And make sure you go outside and take opportunities!
@@Zuzuga1 I remember telling something like this to a friend who asked me why did I spend so much time outside, and he hugged me pretty strong, and I cried pretty hard
At the end of the day, we need to accept that we can't get everything we wanted in this life but that's okay. We still can improve ourselves and there always tomorrow.
I like how on its own this video is about two people who felt out of place so they went and had fun in their own way. There's something about the spontaneity of it and deciding everything as they go along that makes me both happy and sad, for some reason.
3:19 This is the frame that hurts. She will never know how special this night was for you. She had fun; You got to know what fun actually is. It will forever haunt you to know that she doesn't think about that night everyday like you do. Maybe if you asked her to stay...
Somewhere out there is someone who if you were to just meet them; would become the most important person in your life. Love, frendship, a soulmate - everything you would do would revolve around eachother and you couldn't live apart from one another. Even if you wandered the world for the rest of your life, the two of you will never meet... they just exist out there. The fact they even exist is bittersweet in a way and that's how this video makes me feel.
we happy with the success team in soccer, we buy dream from Tv show, movies etc Think that it could be us. The joy we empathy. The sadness... It's bittersweet, it gave us hope from the image we saw all over the internet. Feeling connect. Feeling we part of something. We forget who we are just for a moment. We dream. But still it's just a false paradise. they are not us....
Nothing hurts more than the idea of “what could’ve been” The thought that maybe in some different universe everything worked out and how the people you love the most are still by your side. The idea that maybe, just maybe, everything could go back to how it once was. However time does not forgive and slowly but surely those sweet emotions that we once took for granted will leave if behind until they are nothing more than whisper in the wind. I wish I could’ve fixed everything with my friends, I loved them so much, they made me feel like life truly was wonderful, nothing compares to those times, it hurt when they got away because of my mistakes, it hurt even more when the same people I loved so dearly a year back started talking to each other about how awful of a person I was, of how much they disliked me, do you know how it feels to have one of your closest friends tell you “please, never talk to me again”? You feel sadness, anger, dread, and frustration, you promised yourself that you would to anything for your friends so what do you do when they are the ones that want to get away from you? It hurts It’s been 2 years and it still hurts, however, it hurts less than it did before. The wound will leave a scar, but it will heal, and that’s all that matters.
Yea i know how it feels, it’s only memories that you can look back at of good times wishing it was the same today, I’m sorry about what you’ve had to go through but people like us who feel they’ve lost important people and even themselves, we are still here and what ever you choose to do with the rest of your life and as long as you are happy with choices you make along the way, you’ll look back at these friends and will be looking at the good times and then comparing those past memories with other amazing memories of other amazing people We learn from are mistakes and are mistakes make us stronger and better Live your life with no regrets my friend, you only get one
Seeing this comment, I feel pained. Because, I had an old friend who was manipulative and hurtful all the time, but I saw that he truly saw us as friends and appreciated me and my other friend. We got into a fight, and my friends helped me get rid of him completely. I was on the other side, I was the one who asked them to "never talk to me again." And seeing the perspective of someone who received that, it's hard. It makes me feel guilty but I know I did the right thing because I can already see not only my mental health but my life improving as well. I don't know. I'm in my teenage years and I'm confused and scared. I don't know what to do.
Reading all these comments made me realize how much I wasted my youth. Everyone had a person they wish would've stayed, a friend they wish could've been saved, a relationship they wish could've been fixed. I never had any of those things. Yet this video is still hurtful, since it's a reminder of how exciting and fun my youth could've been if I wasn't such a coward.
Had a night just like this before with someone special. One big adventure at night just the two of us cruising around Tokyo. Sometimes I still dream about it. I truly never wanted to go home. Home was with her. By her side.
remember anon, love just happens it just hits you in the most unexpected way, well thats what ive been told. I've only dated 1 girl and that girl was the one who led me on and was the one who confessed, by the time she told me she wanted to date and love me i thought she was the one since of course i love her and everything about her and then one day she broke up with me, I woke up thinking everything was fine life just moves on the usual then i recieved a text from her saying she wanted to broke up and how she didnt love me and she wasn't ready as i read i was like bullshit what the fuck? all those happy memories we made and stuff and she didnt love me? I didnt reply and seen her eversince she sent me that text. After that i was lost in life i dont know but life was the same exept something feels empty or missing. I started listening to music more and imagine fake scenarios that i would like to happen and because of that i was in a state of existential dread wondering if there was any purpose of life? if im not even living my best life and what is the purpose of life? because of that i started viewing the world as a Nihilism living life as normall exept not caring if i die but then i found a hobby (biking) and started biking and working out after that i suddenly have an urge to just live and save up money enought to travel the whole world and as of right now im starting to be happy slowly. Albert Camus said “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” so i guess il go travel the world and just whatever happens happens. if your reading this all the way to the end Thanks for reading my ted talk
"imagine fake scenarios that i would like to happen" this is what I used to do when I was lying in bet, driving bus or while being on a long walk. But I slowly lost the ability to do so, I could not longer keep the stories running and could not think of new parts. Nowadays I am kind of able to do so again, but not sure if I should.
it's that something we can truly create by our own itcan be memories like this video, and i think it's the best type still, not always people have that, but we still have our own. And it will be fine if i can communicate with myself. Through anything we create, we are communicating to ourself, it's not easy, it's a struggle but as long as i have that desire, it might be just fine... or not.. that's how life work
@@belldragneel8381 i spend all day coming up with things i could be doing, should be doing, fake scenarios where everything works out for me and everyone likes me and it's all happily ever after in the end i can't stop, it's a core part of my though process and if i don't keep doing it i think i might lose the ability to take any action whatsoever
It wont get easier if you dont dabble in a bit of pain. To remake a man pain fits best. you can focus on saving up but is the only reason your leaving is because you want a home? you should try focusing at the present if you want to dominate your future.
Wanderlust was the one that hits very hard for me. because to me, my girlfriend was practically the one who made me raise my chin up through these past 2 years, even before I confessed to her. She was my childhood friend, and has always been there beside me. We're doing good, but she might move away due to family issues, so seeing the girl on this video get on the train, set something off in my heart. worst but funny part about this is, we can't really be all lovey dovey with eachother everywhere, we don't want eachother's parents to know about it or it'll be just a headache for us, even though it would benifit us more to be open. I mean she said his dad is more of a joking type rather than a "I will fucking beat you to a pulp if you lay a hand on my daughter" type of dad. But she told me we can pull off veil on my 18th birthday. I just hope this relationship lasts that long, I'll make it last like a Valve Multiplayer game.
The life I wanted already passed me by like a train I failed to catch. All I'm left with are fantasies of something I never even came close to. But that's just life, isn't it.
I remember sending this to a couple of my friends (but it was the lost kitten version), and they said it was so cute and made their hearts melt But i find it terrifying Am I just a pessimist?
i wouldn't say pessimist, well, that also depends on what you mean by "terrifying" i personally find the lost kitten version more "depressing" so to speak? i cant really find the right word, melancholic and depressing are too far out there to describe the feeling. everytime it hits that part of the video where the music goes *I was looking for a hooker when i find you...* and the beat drop just hits hard. im still super young (turning 15 shortly) but i just keep telling myself "that could've been you" or "i could be there, im not there because of me" or "you're wasting your life by just sitting in that damn room for hours on end", even though i know nothing i do currently will let me be where the video is smiling and having fun. even if i have the money to go there, guess what, japan is closed because of covid. and its not really about the girl in the video, i dont really care about relationships as of, having friends is more than enough for me. though i know still can go there, i know time will change and i may be able to go there someday, the feeling just persists no matter how many times i watch it or tell myself. this version i personally feel the same thing, but a bit milder. the chorus *"i never wanted to go home"* still gives me the feeling, but not as strong as the lost kitten version. sorry for the long comment, its 4 am and i dont really have anything to do. and before you assume anything, i dont really watch anime. my profile picture is just me finding out a bit about JoJo's from memes and i delved deeper into that and decided to set that as my PFP, i am too bothered to change it, not like its anything major anyway, so yeah. i have only watched 1 episode of jojos on record, and practically none on any other anime.
0:00 - 0:13 he always sees her in the crowds 0:18 Looking at her while she's enjoying the singing 0:26 She leaves and he soon follows because he's curious 0:47 While she grabs his hand, he's pulled because she's more prone to these exciting nights while he was moving like it would be slow/normal 1:38 - 1:45 she's walking and looking around, he's only looking at her 2:10 / 2:11 glance her way. she's looking forward 2:23 quick glance at her, she's looking forward 2:26 looking at her as they walk, she looks back, but quickly runs ahead to the shrine 2:33 She makes a wish, he watches 2:37 Flashback to when they went to school together?! 2:38 Notices him looking but quickly looks at the view below 2:43 He'd rather just look at her, but she doesn't look back 2:50 Looking past his menu at her 3:02 She passes out for a moment at the table-- slight lean forward 3:05 Closer view of her hand, Take her hand! 3:06 Reaching out to her, TAKE HER HAND! 3:08 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! 3:13 You can see he's looking at her but her smile fades, for you it meant the world but that sporadic night of wonders and exploring is just another Tuesday for her 3:19 Casual goodbye and half glance back at him before vanishing. You never know if you'll get what you want, sometimes people don't reciprocate the feelings you do and events you treasure with them, they may not even remember the next minute. There's no way to know unless you tell them. Her occasionally seen glances back at him could've been happening as much as his were to her, just we never saw... Her smile vanishing at the end could've been her realizing her night with him was over, she could have wanted the same ending he wanted but neither of them made the move. Truth is, if you have someone special like how she was special to him (her being the only person he notices in the crowds and enjoying her company) and you really want them-- you should go for them while you still can, don't give them away like he did here... Fear of rejection is real so it may not always be as easy or simple as saying, "just go for it," but you'll never know what could have been if you let the moment pass and don't go for it while you can.
@@norfangl3480 I think they already knew each other. They seem to be part of a larger group doing karaoke at the beginning but split off to do their own thing. So the regret doesn't come from not exchanging contact info, it comes from the fact that the guy didn't confess when he had the perfect opportunity to
I've been sleepwalking (I've been sleepwalking) Through the railway station (through the railway station) Wake me up (wake me up) When they call my destination (when they call my destination) Where I've been (where I've been) I was bound to leave behind (I was bound to leave behind) All device (all device) And all disease was mine (and all disease was mine) Oh, speeding out of reach Oh, you're the one I had to meet I never wanted to go home (The wanderlust will carry your song) There was nothing there for me (The wanderlust will carry your song) In a high rise on my own (I've been on the brinks of highways for so long) Looking out in a mirrored balcony (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me? (The wanderlust) I'm rolling in (I'm rolling in) For a seven day weekend (seven day weekend) Living up again (living up again) To my old reputation (my old reputation) Can you cover me (can you cover me) 'Cause I got no armour ('cause I got no armour) Keep moving on down the line Keep on going further (keep on going further) Oh, speeding out of reach Oh, you're the one I had to meet I never wanted to go home (The wanderlust will carry your song) There was nothing there for me (The wanderlust will carry your song) In a high rise on my own (I've been on the brinks of highways so long) Looking out in a mirrored balcony (The wanderlust will carry, carry, carry your song) I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to hide (Nowhere to go, nowhere to be) I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to be (Oh, wanderlust will carry your song) Walk fifty city blocks down but they always find us (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me? (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me?
it gives me a bit of comfort knowing that people are experiencing the same things i am but despite that, each of their experiences are truly unique in painful ways. There will be a place for us brothers and sisters
The fact this started at 11 seconds for me, despite the fact this is genuinely my first time seeing it, makes me wonder when the hell I'd seen this before. What's going on with me bros? I can't fucking take it anymore.
if you hover over it before clicking or tapping on it the video plays out. probably did that before opening the video and didn't realize it. either that or you had autoplay on at some point beforehand and it played partway without you realizing, and so when you opened it this time it was already in a little ways
@@linkly9272 This was long before the new UA-cam update, bro, it definitely wasn't that. That feature has only been around for about a month, plus it only works like that if you're on the homepage, which I wasn't when I got recommended this.
People come and went throughout my life. I met a boy about 3 months ago, we were as thick as thieves for 6 weeks, almost inseparable. I was comfortable with him, he made me feel safe. He made me feel like I was wanted. The first ever boy to ever made me feel loved. Enjoy the moments while they last. Try to appreciate the small things. Nobody stays in your life forever.
dang man, watching this makes me regret a whole lot. had a best friend, fell in love with him and he was the one guy who I could go out with and experience life with. he made everything worth it. doing dumb shit like going to the mall and cloudwatching in the park... little things that just aren't the same to do alone. we'd go and get coffee and sit in mcdonalds in the middle of the night and just talk about life. when our jerkass friends would bully him I was always there to stand up and drive his drunk butt back home and take care of him. when his girlfriend was abusing him and cheated on him I was there to cook for him and make sure he got his act back to normal. college came along and I decided to apply to the same place he was going, and we both got in. He was boarding, and we'd skip class together and spend time in his dorm. we were together and broke up a few times in highschool, and Id go to his place almost every day after class. In college it was different, we'd spend whole days together, Id drive there and we'd spend the whole day together, touring the campus, sneaking into random classes and sitting in the back just to see what they were like, smoking pot in the shower together - always getting into trouble, but it was okay since we were together. Then after a year of all that, our bad grades piled on and he was stressed out and he dropped out, and, me, stupidly I did too. Job searching was tough, and he had to move away. I never really got a chance to say a proper goodbye. we tried to make it work long distance, but only getting to see each other every few months made it impossible - it would never be the same again. I wish I could have gotten him to stay, now we're too far away and both slaving away at different retail jobs. He finally broke up with me and I'm still holding onto all of our dumb experiences growing up together. I'm still wishfully thinking that it can all work out somehow, and all he's done is become more and more distant and I dont know how I'm supposed to move on from the one person I've loved for years and years of my life. We grew up together and I was hoping we could grow old together too. Dang man, I've still got old pictures of us together doing stupid things, like us posing for a mutual friend's sweet 16 pretending to choke each other, and an old video of us wresting around trying to fight, and group photos of skipping class to go to brunch and ones of us just chilling in bed together. I want all that back again, I've kept every gift he's given me and I dont think I could ever fully let go. Not being a better person to him has now left me alone. A distant friendship is all I'm clinging to, and I hope I can make it better. I'm just a gay dumbass trying to hope for a future together. Sorry for the long comment but this song really does it for me. The ambiance to it, the pictures, everything just spikes my memory. Thank you for the experience and for reading this mess of a ramble.
heyo, i may not know you but i'll be wishing you all the best. all these feelings are valid and nothing's wrong. may you have a good day, dear stranger, i hope for a good future with you two.
Glad there's some people on this planet sharing some of the experiences and feelings i'm having. Will never meet you guys, but it's good to know you exist somewhere and somewhen.
I am an Introvert and being isolated from the real world not bothered by everyone is a paradise to me but this....this hits hard It made me feel like it open a massive hole in my heart that I keep blocking because I can't accept the truth that I needed someone in my life. Everyday I feel empty without knowing why, a bird without it's wing, train without it's rack, a brush without it's paint and a man without love. I'm 20 and never experienced this I'm so envy to those people who did, I feel like I'm missing something important in my life that soon my regrets might haunt me T-T. Maybe it's time to rethink my life a little bit more time to grow up I guess? If you feel the same way I was, you're not alone in this battle we can get through this, we will seek happiness sometime, someday but definitely will
I have the same feeling. It upsets me seeing couples happy and I just wish that could be me and that special someone. I hope you’re doing better stranger.
@@amirulfirdaus9962 i feel like they are both depressing, but this one hurts more, at least for me, because makes you think about what you could have done, and what it could have been
Very nice edition, it was wonderful... It happens and it turns out that the song is quite painful, it is sad... But this video is magnificent. Thank you :''')
The video is just wonderful, it’s like a window to the soul and instant nostalgia. That ending reminded me of a girl I meet in uni. We started spending a lot of time together but it was just friendship. However, I started developing feelings for her but she was more into open relationships and she was also too chaotic sometimes, besides in a way I knew I only had feelings for her because she was the only person, I has in my life given that I am a loner. Also, I knew it was wrong because I had another friend who liked her, and even though she already had rejected him, he still had feelings for her. Then she said she had feelings for me too but I still was conflicted. And one day we went with other friends to a party and I told them just messing with them that ‘Parties are to meet people and you get extra points if you kiss them’ so one of the guys was like ‘Ok, let’s do it, we are all single, and whoever gets the least kisses pays the food’. That ended in him kissing the girl and she really liked it so they started dating afterwards. Eventually she stopped seeing me and I went back to being as lonely as always.
Tbh, it seems like thot behaviour from here (if put it simply). She had feelings for you, then go to party where some random dude kissed her for fun and she ok with it. Bitch please. She just showed her real nature. It can be hard for you, but take this situation for consideration in future.
This is almost the exact same as my own experience. Loved this girl but she was into open relationships. Turns out she doesn't like normal relationships much and in the end I just find out more details about it and get really, really sad. But I guess that's just how life is sometimes bro. I feel ya. Im sure we'll find someone who truly will love us and keep us company. Gotta stay strong :D
i've been on a long binge of music for the past 2 days, and this song made me realize how truly lonely i am having relationships have been so hard, i love giving love but i feel as though i never deserve it. i get so scared of the commitment and eventually end things only a few months in because im a fearful avoidant. that was until i met him at least, well, more of like saw him. first day of freshman year, never really ever noticed him until the 2nd semester, where i started to like him. he was my first ever actual crush (i have dated people, but they've either confessed to me and i went along with it or just rejected them) i've ever had. roll around to now, sophomore year of high school and only have two classes with him. it hurts so much, especially since his friend liked me and asked me out and i said yes, because i thought my crush for him was over. but all his friend would ever talk about was him, how he's great, how they'd jokingly bully him, whatever. it made me realize that i still liked him, i want to be with him so badly but im afraid now i cant even do that. i broke up with him two weeks from valentines day, and it was refreshing. but i still wanted to be his friend because he's a great friend after all, and im no longer closer to anyone as much anymore. yet, he still talks and brings him up. im not complaining at all about it, but it makes me realize more and more that i do still have such a crush on him, especially when my friend sends me photos/videos of him. his smile, his pretty blue eyes, his adorable hairstyle he has, his face, everything about him makes me feel so happy. im just an observer now, i try to talk to him like i used to during freshman year in 2nd semester but i never have a chance to. i know he has a crush on someone and its most likely not me, but im still hopeful for the day i can at least tell him how i truly feel, even if i do get hurt afterwards. now my friend makes me do doodles/drawings of strange requests of him, which i dont mind but it makes me feel so sad. especially how the other day he randomly started teasing me about liking him, and i got so scared and nervous because he was saying how he liked me and all that (which i knew was most likely not true, but i still had my hopes up) and just, it made me feel hope, but the hope had soon ended very fast and reality set in. i truly have no one with me in this world. no matter how much i make others happy or have friends, i dont talk to anyone out of school, let alone hang out with them. im still stuck on my crush and have been for the longest time but i know i cant do anything anymore and i feel so stupid. im both alone and lonely, and i cant do anything about it. i wish i could love him as icarus loved the sun, yet the passion burned me so much, i've gotten mental anguish if you decided to read this, thank you truly. i have no one to share this with and speaking to practically no one but venting in a random comment section weirdly helps, i hope everyone has a good day and i'll see you all on the other side :)
I'm not sure how much has changed since you posted this, namely two months or so have passed. But, I sincerely hope things have improved. And I know that most advice that I could give would end up being preachy, as you know yourself best; And as such you know what you can do best. Though if you feel down, believe that everything will turn out alright in the end if you try your best. I hope that you take care of yourself in the best way possible, and that includes venting into random comment sections.
Aw hell naw mate. Its a rather sad situation but I hope you somehow salvage this, and if you can't, find someone else, do other stuff, every day you're able to forget him and your pain is another day you're recovering. I know i cant possibly imagine the life you had with him and the love you truly felt but just maybe, you can get love him again, and hell, maybe even celebrate that valentines times day you missed out on with him, yer mate?
This comment really hit me close to home. To be honest, I feel the same as you. Life has always been a downwards spiral for me and I’m not sure if I’ll ever stop being the lonely fool cooped up in his room wishing someone would notice him and invite him on anything other than asking for homeworks. It’s been 2 months already since I last went out of my room for anything social. I’m sure you’ve already heard this, and maybe you do not wish for a recommendation, yet, I still feel as if I should tell you this: I recommend to just say it, just ask him if you can tell him something in private and then tell him everything in the most serious and mature tone possible, it really helps in getting over people, I say this from experience. Regardless, I’d just like you to know that those feelings are entirely natural and, paradoxically, you’re not alone on your loneliness. Or well, at least I’d like to believe I’m not alone in it. Good luck.
the part at 2:40 fucked me up. Them going to Suki-ya is such a brain blast. I used to Live in Nara, Japan, and that was my go to spot for yummy, cheap food that also was out of the way from my university, so it was a nice break from the Academic chaos. God I miss it. God I wish I could just go back.
There are so many sad people in the comments regretting their lives and wishing they could've done better things. I never comment so I'm gonna do this on my alt, I'm 19 now and I don't think I've ever regretted a single thing I've ever done. This is coming from a person who has had his fuck ups, I had 2 girlfriends who we're best friends in high school and somehow I got away with playing them both for a few months, but when they found out it was awful, the pain I put them through was terrible and that was a huge turning point for me as a person, I am proud of who I am currently. From then on I would continue to make mistakes and grow as a person like all of us do. I could easily relate this video and say I loved a girl who I never told but I was always there to help her, she just started dating another guy though so I missed my chance, but I don't regret it. I was there when she told me she liked him and though it was crushing at first, instead of being bitter I instead rooted her on and wished the best and called out to the universe that they would get together, and I'm so thankful they did. But that doesn't mean she'll be the only one I will have in my life, there is still so much more to experience and I can't wait for what's in store. One day, I'm gonna make memories like this with someone and it doesn't even have to be a significant other, it could be just a friend as well. I feel like those who strive to be in a relationship are really missing so much more to life. If you are even caring to read all this (which thank you by the way) then strive to live a life without regret. As people we grow, we learn, we adapt, it is only natural that you are gonna fuck up at some point whether you mean to or not. Don't get caught up in that overall critical headspace forever and remember that no one should travel alone. If you got no one on your side, go find someone dawg because no matter where you go there is bound to be someone that will wanna vibe with you. I'm gonna go what I do best and strive to motivate others, the choice is yours on what you wish to do next with your time, at least make sure it's a positive one. Thanks for reading.
Remembering becomes painful when you can no longer go back and imagine you’re there again. When you can only remember in images, pictures from a photo album instead of videos.
this reminds me of that feeling of defeating a dark souls boss for the first time, and then knowing I will never feel that again 'cause the games became easier. It makes me feel empty at times
Currently, I am having a "phase". I don't know. I like somone, but I like them at the point that I am willing to let them go. Let them live life and be happy. Since they are heading away, and Ill be still here. It seems like it was born too late or too far. Its hard. But, I want that person to be succesful and live a happy life. I come to learn to be that friend who they need in hard times. Not be nothing more, or nothing less. Since I am aware the hard truth is that distant is usally not the way for certain people like they. So, I just come and learn. Mentally, and emotionally. That I will make that person time here. The best time they will remember. Be a good friend. Be that somone to lay on. Until that person moves and work for their life. Ill be happy knowing I did an impact on them. In a positive way. and move on for me too. Doing my dreams. No. Goals. Accomplishing them. Live my life to the fullist. Thats the mindset we need to have. and that exactly what I will do once that person will be gone. not for good, but in reality. That hope. Will be gone. I see that other people have different, yet. Similar feelings. and I appreciate them. Makes me feel confortable letting out this intel to the internet. and for those who are feelings worst or similar to others in the comment section. There are always going to be other people that are, if not. Better that the person you fell in love or liked. Life will give you good and bad. But you will have to do the first step in order to move on. and hopefully. Find your happyness. (thanks for reading this!) (I give you a massive virtual hug! :) ) (Some of us need them)
The fist bump in the end hits really different to me. I'm not a physical person, people usually respect my private space a lot and hardly approach me in fear of rejection or rudeness of my part. I'm usually quiet and on my own, serious face and all. The majority of people find me attractive, it's like they're assuming I'm in another league or something. So, in the friend group I have, the major part of physical interaction I partake are those type of fist bumps. Not saying that I'm a hug enthusiast, but has been years like this. I feel like I could have some really deep connection with people, but my way of being reserved and the "fear" others have because of my reserved nature really puts a barrier in everything. Changing now feel way too out of character to me. Furthermore, I move pretty often, when this ended, I'm in my final school year and planning to go to college. Maybe there it could be different. Besides, I'm learning how to live my life now. I don't want to waste it. Also, english is not my mother language, it might have some terrible error here and there.
This hit really close to home for me, except for the "attractive" part. I'd say I have trouble finding the words and the outlet for my emotions, and this affect my approach on relationship with people, especially with strangers that want to befriend me. Out of nervousness and anxiety, I often say nothing and put on my most stoic, indifference expression that might bore, annoy or scare people around me away. I have a couple of close friends from my school days, but sometimes i find it rather regretful that I am the way that i am and want to change. Been living in the gray part of life, I really admire the colorful and expressive experiences that I have never got the chance to be a part of.
Lyrics I've been sleepwalking (I've been sleepwalking) Through the railway station (through the railway station) Wake me up (wake me up) When they call my destination (when they call my destination) Where I've been (where I've been) I was bound to leave behind (I was bound to leave behind) All device (all device) And all disease was mine (and all disease was mine) Oh, speeding out of reach Oh, you're the one I had to meet I never wanted to go home (The wanderlust will carry your song) There was nothing there for me (The wanderlust will carry your song) In a high rise on my own (I've been on the brinks of highways for so long) Looking out in a mirrored balcony (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me? (The wanderlust) I'm rolling in (I'm rolling in) For a seven day weekend (seven day weekend) Living up again (living up again) To my old reputation (my old reputation) Can you cover me (can you cover me) 'Cause I got no armour ('cause I got no armour) Keep moving on down the line Keep on going further (keep on going further) Oh, speeding out of reach Oh, you're the one I had to meet I never wanted to go home (The wanderlust will carry your song) There was nothing there for me (The wanderlust will carry your song) In a high rise on my own (I've been on the brinks of highways so long) Looking out in a mirrored balcony (The wanderlust will carry, carry, carry your song) I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to hide (Nowhere to go, nowhere to be) I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to be (Oh, wanderlust will carry your song) Walk fifty city blocks down but they always find us (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me? (The wanderlust will carry your song) Will there ever be a place for you and me?
I believe I’m still in time to make memories like this, but I only have a few years left of my teens (I don’t know how to say it in English), because I lost the first half for being an introvert that never left home to play computer games, and I’m currently losing the second half because I’m sulking over the rejection I got from the girl who gave me courage to leave my bubble and start going around with my friends… I want to forget her and start living my life as soon as I can, but how is it possible?
You can’t necessarily forgot, only move on. Don’t try spending time trying to forget a person, it’s unfortunately not possible. I found this out a bit ago. Just do what you like dude, try and get out more. If that doesn’t work try and sit outside and think for a while, but not too much for that has its effects. Wish you the best and goodluck.
I don’t think being able to make memories like this is limited to age, it certainly helps and I’ll say I missed out on it in my teens. But it’s more about finding and being with the people that’ll make you feel this way no matter the age. I hope that I’ll be able to find those people myself :) Good luck to you and your journeys, keep your head up. We’ll be alright. :)
I feel you, anon. Been in the same place when I was a teenager. Let me tell you these two things: 1) it’s never too late to experience something for the first time. Age is just a number, and all the things you could experience in your teen years you could also experience them later in life, and I assure you there’s little to no difference. When you’re young it seems impossible, but with time you’ll grow out of it. It sucks, but it’s also beautiful; 2) Don’t try to forget someone, try to treasure the happy memories you have with them, and remember all the mistakes (if there’s a mistake, sometimes things just don’t work, nobody’s fault), so you can work on yourself and be a better person. Mistakes make us become better, make us knowing ourself better, if we don’t reject them. TLDR: time heals everything, you’ll experience everything you need to at due time and with no drawbacks, memories help you becoming a better person. Godspeed you and everyone struggling with life, you’re not alone and you can do it
"Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions." My friend, what I have to tell you is that no matter how young or old you are (you are still young!), you are lamenting things which did not happen, and things in the past. These things are not in your control. Only the choices you make in the present are in your control. Since this is true, you should also recognize that lamentation will not serve you, and that there is only going forward. So, forward you will go!
I absolutely never comment on videos, but this is actually magnificent. Unlike 90% of the comment section, I’m not depressed, but the complimentary music, (lower pitch sounds much better) poignant story, and nostalgic “captured moment in time” style of the art clashing against the realistic backdrop really rips out emotions in a visceral, raw way. I see how disconnected people have become, (in my area and age group) and not to make excuses, but it’s objectively more difficult to really connect and bond with people compared to previous generations (stories from family come to mind). I still try though. It’s extremely telling by the comment section how so many people related to this, and as for me, both listening to the song and reading the comments (the one that hit me the hardest was by ichtyid) melted a heart I never knew I had. Brought out emotions that I may have felt before, but just not in this way, not with this type of music. This is the video that introduced me to Metric. A few of my perspectives on things actually shifted when I watched this a few times for the better. Seriously, I genuinely thank you for making this and hopefully, one day, you’ll read this comment.
I still dream about that one girl I met when I was 11, one of the first friends I had after we moved over city, my lack of emotional intelligence and the strictness of my parents made me ruin things with her at 15, I still wonder what could have been only if I acted in a better way. Just imagine, being with together with the love of your part childhood, youth, adulthood. Still spending nights dreaming and thinking about her.
5 years and still missing her. Seeing her with someone else while im stuck in a toxic relationship is painful... Then i remember she was trash too and i wasn't much better and everything feels a little brighter 🤣
I was too late, I hesitated so many times and just couldn't tell her I loved her, I regret every second. I can't redo it. Fuck. This keeps reminding me of that time, it helps and doesn't at the same time. It's the closest thing to make me feel like I went back and I could redo everything. Man this animation and music just works too well to make my monke brain sadge and happy.
I don’t think I’ll ever stop wondering if it was possible. Especially in those nights where the silence becomes all too much and that’s when I’ll think of you and regret it all. But it is for the better, right? It is. I want it to be.
Stop with the "could've been" or what "can't be" anymore and start thinking about what "can be". Nostalgia is a fucking drug, folks, kill it while you're still ahead and keep that head of yours up high, despite everything. You're gonna fucking make it, boyos. We always have, we always will.
This comment section is less sadder than the other one. This vid hits different its less about missing out of something but just wanting to escape away and more feeling at home with someone. Homies are called homies for a reason Edit: 06|13|2023 I just made the biggest realization last night that I never had a home my whole life of 20 years Edit: 07|112024 its been a year already and at the moment I'm curious what places the video was taken at...
I've cut almost all my ties to the people I know. I literally only am in contact with one friend and thats all. This all started when my ex broke up with me abruptly over text. I didn't really feel sad about the breakup but I felt something missing. Everyday just was filled with emptiness. I realized after that being with my friends didn't really make me happy. I now feel like all that I know just isn't what I wanted it to be. Now that I am in a program and don't see them ever, I just stopped contacting them in general over the internet. I now am just reflecting on how my life turned out to be this mess of no emotion. Everyday felt the exact same as the last. At some point I got really bored just talking to my friends and just stopped. That was a really good feeling. I was relived that I didn't have to talk to them anymore. But the problem with that is am I a good person for that. Guilt was pretty heavy for a few weeks but after continuing to improve myself by working, doing school, working out I feel really good. Even if the days are the exact same I can be myself all the time. I realized that what I was with the people I knew was not even me, it was just a part of me that didn't mind to just assimilate. I now feel free but really lonely. Other than one friend I talk to I don't really talk to many people very openly. I'm not really sure where I was going with this but just wanted to get this out there. It's a weird problem of feeling super fake with the people I have surrounded myself with for the last 5 years. I'm not sure if this makes me a really bad person but I basically forged a fake relationship just to fill the void I feel now. Thats the end of my ted talk thanks for reading :).
as each month passed and each phone call became more and more dreaded, You found that your love had departed as quickly as it arrived. And what a terrible realization that was. Because I wanted to love you. You were perfect, compassionate, kind, accepting, willing to set your foot down, and you were strange in a uniquely beautiful way. You were my companion to so many adventures and memories in a short amount of time, moments that I’ll forever revisit with a tinge of bittersweet.
This, this right here, it feels like hazy memories, like i've lived it.. I don't know what everyone else seems to be talking about, but it feels like i've lived this.. So nostalgic, with a hint of melancholy, and a kind of ''lust'' ? to feel this sort of experience. Early 21st century perfection
this song along with lost kitten struck me in a weird way, lost kitten shocked me into seeing the life i was going to have if i continued down the path i was going, and wanderlust struck me with the life i do want. (I'm 17 2/5, almost in college) so instead of feeling pain and regret i felt motivated and hopeful. which, reading the comments is not what everyone thinks.
Hey there, buddy. 26 and I felt the same way. Lost a lot of opportunities in middle & high school, and jumped right into the working world after getting my major. Half of that misfortunate was solely my fault and I wished I could've done better, but what's done was done. And because of that and the things that came after, plus the thought of being closer to being 30, has not been a fun experience for me. Musics and friends have been the only things that kept me together and like you, I found Lost Kitten and Wanderlust. It threw me off because like everyone else here, these edits made me want to experience things like running around in the night aimlessly, having a genuinely good time with a girl. And like you, instead of feeling down for myself like I always did, I felt hopeful because I came to realize that we still have so much time to discover these experiences ourselves and all it takes is giving ourselves another chance. It also came to me that despite hating the World and society, many of us introverts fantasize about being a part of something, having friends and lovers who support us as we struggle on the way. And a question popped up and I asked myself, "do I really want to carry on this path and be a loner loser forever?" and obviously, I don't want to. Now, I hang out with friends and go to clubs (not the best idea but I'm starting small), take my job seriously and try to make connections at my workplace, because there's no way am I going to let myself being stuck in that pit for the rest of my life. Point is, I'm glad you're feeling motivated to be better and I hope you still do. And I hope that whatever comes in your way, you have with you your friends/family/parents/partner and most importantly, your resolve. Just remember to not to take things too seriously, and before you think about taking control, you gotta control your heart and mind first.
I don't know dude, this just hit really hard for me. Much harder than Little Kitten, especially the slow and the edit. It keeps me questioning myself why can't I have a day like this, why can I have a friend like this, even if it's just friends and it's just a night, to do whatever we want, go wherever we want...
Heh. This hurts after a recent break-up, but y'know, I'm glad I had someone to feel this much happiness with. I loved that person so much, I could've died for them. I never really felt like living a life for myself, never had a purpose to do so without questioning everything I did. But with them, I felt like I had a reason to keep going, someone to feel comfortable and vulnerable with. And yet... I fucked it all up, two times, with two different people. And it never really stops to hurt to know I was the cause of my downfall twice, and the mistake was always the same. I hate it. I hate myself for it. But... I have to keep going. As much as I hate this emptiness of being alone without a lover or without friends, I think I should keep hope. Because who knows, maybe I'll feel this happiness again. And if I don't, oh well. Life can be terrible, bleak and miserable, for a lot of us. But I know it can also be beautiful. It can be filled with the joy of hearing your loved one laugh at your stupid jokes. Their infinite chatter about things they enjoy, the glee in their voice when they do so. Feeling whole, because you know someone cares, and loves you. So heed the message of the depressed fuck-up that I am: Keep your heads up, peeps, and stop thinking about the past that shackles you. We all make mistakes, some worse than others, and no matter how hard we wish it could've been different, it never will be, because mistakes can be forgiven but never undone. Still, everyone deserves happiness, and if it means going through Hell to get your own slice of Heaven, then go for it. Because you deserve it. And who knows, maybe one day you'll get to feel like never going home to spend time carried by wanderlust with someone you love.
This makes you feel things for sure. I've seen some phenomenal videos on UA-cam, and even with the strongest competition imaginable, this one might be the best I've seen, ever. Easily top 5. Thanks for putting this together man.
That one and only time the universe inexplicably gives you a chance to connect with someone you like. And even though it just lasted a few hours, the time you spent with that person didn't matter. You got to be with her when you still had a chance...
It's been 3 years since I last had a connection with my feelings. I don't know why my defense mechanism blocked out emotions but I really hate not feeling anything other than frustration. I want to feel the same feelings you guys do.
Stumbled upon this on a slow weekend afternoon. The video ends and I hear nothing other than the faint hum of my fan. Leaning back and slowly spinning in my chair, I lonely embrace this feeling of emptiness
Mathematically, the odds of finding true love with someone special is just ridiculous. There are 8 **billion** people in the world, the odds of finding your ‘one true soulmate’ are so small they might as well not exist. But we should never stop trying.
There's no such thing as a soul mate. Just find you a good woman and grow together. This soul mate mentality has alot of couples break up because they expect their partner to be a perfect match from the jump without putting effort in on both ends
Not a day goes by where a piece of you engraved within my mind that doesn’t cause my entire consciousness to stumble into a state of maladaptive day dreaming. Not a day goes by where I refuse to leave the comfort of silence and solitude, since it’s all I have left of you. You never fail to find your way back into my mind, you find your way to me over and over again through the presence of the strangest of passer by.
One time i was in school wasn’t much different than any other day or at least I thought. After school finished I stayed there just to chill school was great at the time I had lots of friends all the teachers were understanding and I was overall happy. I was sitting there until a girl walked up to me. She sat there and started talking to me about a few minutes later she insisted we get outta here. I agreed so we went to a nearby library looking at books and people watching. Then to the park where we played with all the equipment and such and before we left we went on a shopping cart and rode around the streets til we went to a grocery market to buy drinks. After she wanted to go to her place but my mom needed me home so I walked her home and she opened her house gate and she held it open for me i stared at the ground and said “ Today was fun but I have to go now..” She just stared at me and said “ Oh….okay” she shut the gate slowly and walked in her house before giving me a wave of goodbye. I walked home that day just thinking about everything. I knew she was the one. But after I searched I never found her. She disappeared into thin air. Then a year later i found her but she was with someone else. I felt to hurt. And I should’ve said it then and there when I parted ways with her that I wanted her. Now I pass the library, the park, the supermarket, the block with frustration and sadness. I could’ve had her but I was to scared to lose her which anyways I did. I regret leaving her. I regret not telling her. This song this illustration showed me exactly what happened to me. Fuck man.
Everytime I listen and watch thisxi, I felt sad and happy. The fact this remind me of my ex when we experience the happiest day of our live but sad that we couldn't experience that day again.
It is what it is, im not the only one to experience this kind of thing, multiple people before me already experienced this kind of pain Im not special in any regard I miss you
![[Metric] - Lost Kitten HD](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/rptLcA0E4ps/mqdefault.jpg)
Beautiful 🤍🤍🤍
NO WAY
WOAH
Metric has officially seen both of the videos
OMG!!!!
WAIT WHAT
This one hurts so bad.
The pain of regretting the life you never had never gets easier, does it?
its only gotten harder my friend
Its too painful for me. Have you gotten better?
Just keep on living, try to catch what you don't have. This is the only change we get.
You learn to live with the pain.
nah it's only downhill from here for us
Nostalgia is a drug that some people get addicted to.
Guys, anyone can experience this kind of stuff, just because you're out of high school or college or uni doesn't mean that you're life is over, there's more than enough time to experience hazy summer nights with someone else.
Have been believing in that since childhood
Time to change that mind, life would go easier without expectation
Got a similar experience, all I had to do was stop being shitty with myself, train, take baths daily, train some more, go to a proper hairdresser, shave nicely, wear clean clothes, get new clothes, have some fucking faith in myself despite my whole life telling me to give up and boom. It is not magic and it is not easy, but it works. It is on your hands ultimately and you're responsible to make it happen.
Be strong, for yourself, the most important person in your life.
Your* life
Unfortunately, no it won't happen in my life
anemoia
im not gonna sugar coat it. i dont know how many "it is what it is" i have left in me
Thats when "Ill change how it is" starts.
I hope you are doing okay, buddy.
Me too bud.
It’s never been more over than it is now.
I'm gonna be honest. I don't know how much longer I can go like this.
Some people find "the one" in their childhood then stay with them and forget about their friends and families.
Some people only have their friends and families until they're in their 30's. Find some ways to express and vent these things if it is overwhelming you. And make sure you go outside and take opportunities!
@@cookiemunchers89 I don’t have either “the one” or friends and family lol
@@yuanyuanxi262 ikr!
going outside is really useful , im strugling with it on my own .
@@Zuzuga1 I remember telling something like this to a friend who asked me why did I spend so much time outside, and he hugged me pretty strong, and I cried pretty hard
At the end of the day, we need to accept that we can't get everything we wanted in this life but that's okay. We still can improve ourselves and there always tomorrow.
I want a hoodie like hers now
I thought people would want someone like her like I do but thats a first lmao. yeah that hoodie do be lookin fresh
I mean we all do at some point but can't do it if you're not in a mentally right place
Right? I love the red logo at the back of the hoodie
Do you guys have any links to similar looking hoodies
I've been thinking of going to a custom press shop and see if they'd be willing to do something like that
You know you're coming up against the abyss when these two videos pop back up in your feed. Guy hit something spiritual with these.
i like how we know what those two videos are
exactly, these videos take me back and its kinda comforting and also a bit hurting at the same time..
I like how on its own this video is about two people who felt out of place so they went and had fun in their own way. There's something about the spontaneity of it and deciding everything as they go along that makes me both happy and sad, for some reason.
Maybe because the guy couldnt express how he felt towards her at the end
@@eufouria_music the fact that you're replying to comments even now means a lot to me and many others who have this video saved. thank you for this.
@@eufouria_music after all this time your still here- damn.
3:19 This is the frame that hurts.
She will never know how special this night was for you. She had fun; You got to know what fun actually is.
It will forever haunt you to know that she doesn't think about that night everyday like you do.
Maybe if you asked her to stay...
😔
Spot on
@@WanderlustWillCarryUsOn ayo is that the dude
@@noofthecorn3380 what dude?
@@WanderlustWillCarryUsOn the title dude
Somewhere out there is someone who if you were to just meet them; would become the most important person in your life. Love, frendship, a soulmate - everything you would do would revolve around eachother and you couldn't live apart from one another. Even if you wandered the world for the rest of your life, the two of you will never meet... they just exist out there.
The fact they even exist is bittersweet in a way and that's how this video makes me feel.
The chances of finding the perfect one are slim but still there. Every step you take they take 2 steps toward you or away from you
we happy with the success team in soccer, we buy dream from Tv show, movies etc
Think that it could be us. The joy we empathy. The sadness...
It's bittersweet, it gave us hope from the image we saw all over the internet. Feeling connect. Feeling we part of something.
We forget who we are just for a moment. We dream.
But still it's just a false paradise.
they are not us....
My good friend who I met the first day of the 2021-2022 school year. And who left the school a few weeks in.
I miss him. I hope we meet again.
is that porter's quote for fresh static snow? If not sry mate. And yea its just sad that some will never meet their best others
Hehe ,I had that twice , IT SUCKS
Nothing hurts more than the idea of “what could’ve been”
The thought that maybe in some different universe everything worked out and how the people you love the most are still by your side.
The idea that maybe, just maybe, everything could go back to how it once was.
However time does not forgive and slowly but surely those sweet emotions that we once took for granted will leave if behind until they are nothing more than whisper in the wind.
I wish I could’ve fixed everything with my friends, I loved them so much, they made me feel like life truly was wonderful, nothing compares to those times, it hurt when they got away because of my mistakes, it hurt even more when the same people I loved so dearly a year back started talking to each other about how awful of a person I was, of how much they disliked me, do you know how it feels to have one of your closest friends tell you “please, never talk to me again”? You feel sadness, anger, dread, and frustration, you promised yourself that you would to anything for your friends so what do you do when they are the ones that want to get away from you?
It hurts
It’s been 2 years and it still hurts, however, it hurts less than it did before.
The wound will leave a scar, but it will heal, and that’s all that matters.
Yea i know how it feels, it’s only memories that you can look back at of good times wishing it was the same today, I’m sorry about what you’ve had to go through but people like us who feel they’ve lost important people and even themselves, we are still here and what ever you choose to do with the rest of your life and as long as you are happy with choices you make along the way, you’ll look back at these friends and will be looking at the good times and then comparing those past memories with other amazing memories of other amazing people
We learn from are mistakes and are mistakes make us stronger and better
Live your life with no regrets my friend, you only get one
Seeing this comment, I feel pained. Because, I had an old friend who was manipulative and hurtful all the time, but I saw that he truly saw us as friends and appreciated me and my other friend. We got into a fight, and my friends helped me get rid of him completely.
I was on the other side, I was the one who asked them to "never talk to me again." And seeing the perspective of someone who received that, it's hard. It makes me feel guilty but I know I did the right thing because I can already see not only my mental health but my life improving as well.
I don't know. I'm in my teenage years and I'm confused and scared. I don't know what to do.
I hope you're doing well in your life right now bro
😥Im not being sarcastic
Shit regret hurts like a bitch
Reading all these comments made me realize how much I wasted my youth.
Everyone had a person they wish would've stayed, a friend they wish could've been saved, a relationship they wish could've been fixed.
I never had any of those things. Yet this video is still hurtful, since it's a reminder of how exciting and fun my youth could've been if I wasn't such a coward.
How are things going now?
Had a night just like this before with someone special. One big adventure at night just the two of us cruising around Tokyo. Sometimes I still dream about it. I truly never wanted to go home. Home was with her. By her side.
Why not find her again
"Will there ever be a place 4 u and me?"
This line just hit reaaal hard
I thought it was taste instead of place
remember anon, love just happens it just hits you in the most unexpected way, well thats what ive been told. I've only dated 1 girl and that girl was the one who led me on and was the one who confessed, by the time she told me she wanted to date and love me i thought she was the one since of course i love her and everything about her and then one day she broke up with me, I woke up thinking everything was fine life just moves on the usual then i recieved a text from her saying she wanted to broke up and how she didnt love me and she wasn't ready as i read i was like bullshit what the fuck? all those happy memories we made and stuff and she didnt love me? I didnt reply and seen her eversince she sent me that text. After that i was lost in life i dont know but life was the same exept something feels empty or missing. I started listening to music more and imagine fake scenarios that i would like to happen and because of that i was in a state of existential dread wondering if there was any purpose of life? if im not even living my best life and what is the purpose of life? because of that i started viewing the world as a Nihilism living life as normall exept not caring if i die but then i found a hobby (biking) and started biking and working out after that i suddenly have an urge to just live and save up money enought to travel the whole world and as of right now im starting to be happy slowly. Albert Camus said “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” so i guess il go travel the world and just whatever happens happens. if your reading this all the way to the end Thanks for reading my ted talk
"imagine fake scenarios that i would like to happen" this is what I used to do when I was lying in bet, driving bus or while being on a long walk. But I slowly lost the ability to do so, I could not longer keep the stories running and could not think of new parts. Nowadays I am kind of able to do so again, but not sure if I should.
it's that something we can truly create by our own
itcan be memories like this video, and i think it's the best type
still, not always people have that, but we still have our own. And it will be fine if i can communicate with myself. Through anything we create, we are communicating to ourself, it's not easy, it's a struggle but as long as i have that desire, it might be just fine... or not.. that's how life work
@@belldragneel8381 i spend all day coming up with things i could be doing, should be doing, fake scenarios where everything works out for me and everyone likes me and it's all happily ever after in the end
i can't stop, it's a core part of my though process and if i don't keep doing it i think i might lose the ability to take any action whatsoever
“He Who Laughs Lasts”
It wont get easier if you dont dabble in a bit of pain. To remake a man pain fits best. you can focus on saving up but is the only reason your leaving is because you want a home? you should try focusing at the present if you want to dominate your future.
It reminds me of the false happy memories of the girlfriend I never had
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time to make it a reality, my dude
heh...
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;_;
I dont know which hurts more, this or Lost Kitten :...)
Lost Kitten is simpler but is sadder too
Lost kitten for me. It's probably the "you'll never be mine" bit, idk
@@deloreanmail103 very true, that part always has me crying
Wanderlust was the one that hits very hard for me.
because to me, my girlfriend was practically the one who made me raise my chin up through these past 2 years, even before I confessed to her. She was my childhood friend, and has always been there beside me. We're doing good, but she might move away due to family issues, so seeing the girl on this video get on the train, set something off in my heart.
worst but funny part about this is, we can't really be all lovey dovey with eachother everywhere, we don't want eachother's parents to know about it or it'll be just a headache for us, even though it would benifit us more to be open. I mean she said his dad is more of a joking type rather than a "I will fucking beat you to a pulp if you lay a hand on my daughter" type of dad. But she told me we can pull off veil on my 18th birthday.
I just hope this relationship lasts that long, I'll make it last like a Valve Multiplayer game.
@@totallynoteverything1. i believe in you man, go get what most of us couldnt.
The life I wanted already passed me by like a train I failed to catch. All I'm left with are fantasies of something I never even came close to. But that's just life, isn't it.
Ngl the more I watch the more fitting the music becomes, and the better it gets
I remember sending this to a couple of my friends (but it was the lost kitten version), and they said it was so cute and made their hearts melt
But i find it terrifying
Am I just a pessimist?
Yeah, depending on how old you are, you still got time.
i think you need a double cheese bacon burger
I think you need a double cheese bacon burger too
I think you need a double cheese bacon burger as well
i wouldn't say pessimist, well, that also depends on what you mean by "terrifying" i personally find the lost kitten version more "depressing" so to speak? i cant really find the right word, melancholic and depressing are too far out there to describe the feeling. everytime it hits that part of the video where the music goes *I was looking for a hooker when i find you...* and the beat drop just hits hard. im still super young (turning 15 shortly) but i just keep telling myself "that could've been you" or "i could be there, im not there because of me" or "you're wasting your life by just sitting in that damn room for hours on end", even though i know nothing i do currently will let me be where the video is smiling and having fun. even if i have the money to go there, guess what, japan is closed because of covid. and its not really about the girl in the video, i dont really care about relationships as of, having friends is more than enough for me. though i know still can go there, i know time will change and i may be able to go there someday, the feeling just persists no matter how many times i watch it or tell myself. this version i personally feel the same thing, but a bit milder. the chorus *"i never wanted to go home"* still gives me the feeling, but not as strong as the lost kitten version.
sorry for the long comment, its 4 am and i dont really have anything to do. and before you assume anything, i dont really watch anime. my profile picture is just me finding out a bit about JoJo's from memes and i delved deeper into that and decided to set that as my PFP, i am too bothered to change it, not like its anything major anyway, so yeah. i have only watched 1 episode of jojos on record, and practically none on any other anime.
0:00 - 0:13 he always sees her in the crowds
0:18 Looking at her while she's enjoying the singing
0:26 She leaves and he soon follows because he's curious
0:47 While she grabs his hand, he's pulled because she's more prone to these exciting nights while he was moving like it would be slow/normal
1:38 - 1:45 she's walking and looking around, he's only looking at her
2:10 / 2:11 glance her way. she's looking forward
2:23 quick glance at her, she's looking forward
2:26 looking at her as they walk, she looks back, but quickly runs ahead to the shrine
2:33 She makes a wish, he watches
2:37 Flashback to when they went to school together?!
2:38 Notices him looking but quickly looks at the view below
2:43 He'd rather just look at her, but she doesn't look back
2:50 Looking past his menu at her
3:02 She passes out for a moment at the table-- slight lean forward
3:05 Closer view of her hand, Take her hand!
3:06 Reaching out to her, TAKE HER HAND!
3:08 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
3:13 You can see he's looking at her but her smile fades, for you it meant the world but that sporadic night of wonders and exploring is just another Tuesday for her
3:19 Casual goodbye and half glance back at him before vanishing.
You never know if you'll get what you want, sometimes people don't reciprocate the feelings you do and events you treasure with them, they may not even remember the next minute. There's no way to know unless you tell them. Her occasionally seen glances back at him could've been happening as much as his were to her, just we never saw... Her smile vanishing at the end could've been her realizing her night with him was over, she could have wanted the same ending he wanted but neither of them made the move. Truth is, if you have someone special like how she was special to him (her being the only person he notices in the crowds and enjoying her company) and you really want them-- you should go for them while you still can, don't give them away like he did here... Fear of rejection is real so it may not always be as easy or simple as saying, "just go for it," but you'll never know what could have been if you let the moment pass and don't go for it while you can.
thank you for that comment!
m8, i think i might cry, your comment made me see that i need to go for it, and whatever happends, happends
How tf do a girl and guy spend all night running around together and not at any point share contact details?
@@norfangl3480 I think they already knew each other. They seem to be part of a larger group doing karaoke at the beginning but split off to do their own thing. So the regret doesn't come from not exchanging contact info, it comes from the fact that the guy didn't confess when he had the perfect opportunity to
@@TheChiefOrg13 that is a good explanation
You really know how to hit where it hurts, and I respect that.
lost this song for a while and i was desperate for many nights to find the channel and song again and the video. Thank you so much.
I've been sleepwalking (I've been sleepwalking)
Through the railway station (through the railway station)
Wake me up (wake me up)
When they call my destination (when they call my destination)
Where I've been (where I've been)
I was bound to leave behind (I was bound to leave behind)
All device (all device)
And all disease was mine (and all disease was mine)
Oh, speeding out of reach
Oh, you're the one I had to meet
I never wanted to go home
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
There was nothing there for me
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
In a high rise on my own
(I've been on the brinks of highways for so long)
Looking out in a mirrored balcony
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
(The wanderlust)
I'm rolling in (I'm rolling in)
For a seven day weekend (seven day weekend)
Living up again (living up again)
To my old reputation (my old reputation)
Can you cover me (can you cover me)
'Cause I got no armour ('cause I got no armour)
Keep moving on down the line
Keep on going further (keep on going further)
Oh, speeding out of reach
Oh, you're the one I had to meet
I never wanted to go home
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
There was nothing there for me
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
In a high rise on my own
(I've been on the brinks of highways so long)
Looking out in a mirrored balcony
(The wanderlust will carry, carry, carry your song)
I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to hide
(Nowhere to go, nowhere to be)
I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to be
(Oh, wanderlust will carry your song)
Walk fifty city blocks down but they always find us
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
3:06 really gets you thinking “what if”
it gives me a bit of comfort knowing that people are experiencing the same things i am but despite that, each of their experiences are truly unique in painful ways. There will be a place for us brothers and sisters
The fact this started at 11 seconds for me, despite the fact this is genuinely my first time seeing it, makes me wonder when the hell I'd seen this before.
What's going on with me bros? I can't fucking take it anymore.
You still alright bro?
@@degosbravo2739 Yeah, I'm fine, I've been doing some cognitive restructuring and fixing myself on the inside, I'm getting better now.
probably pressed the fast forward button by accident
if you hover over it before clicking or tapping on it the video plays out. probably did that before opening the video and didn't realize it. either that or you had autoplay on at some point beforehand and it played partway without you realizing, and so when you opened it this time it was already in a little ways
@@linkly9272 This was long before the new UA-cam update, bro, it definitely wasn't that. That feature has only been around for about a month, plus it only works like that if you're on the homepage, which I wasn't when I got recommended this.
People come and went throughout my life.
I met a boy about 3 months ago, we were as thick as thieves for 6 weeks, almost inseparable.
I was comfortable with him, he made me feel safe. He made me feel like I was wanted. The first ever boy to ever made me feel loved.
Enjoy the moments while they last.
Try to appreciate the small things.
Nobody stays in your life forever.
dang man, watching this makes me regret a whole lot. had a best friend, fell in love with him and he was the one guy who I could go out with and experience life with. he made everything worth it. doing dumb shit like going to the mall and cloudwatching in the park... little things that just aren't the same to do alone. we'd go and get coffee and sit in mcdonalds in the middle of the night and just talk about life. when our jerkass friends would bully him I was always there to stand up and drive his drunk butt back home and take care of him. when his girlfriend was abusing him and cheated on him I was there to cook for him and make sure he got his act back to normal. college came along and I decided to apply to the same place he was going, and we both got in. He was boarding, and we'd skip class together and spend time in his dorm. we were together and broke up a few times in highschool, and Id go to his place almost every day after class. In college it was different, we'd spend whole days together, Id drive there and we'd spend the whole day together, touring the campus, sneaking into random classes and sitting in the back just to see what they were like, smoking pot in the shower together - always getting into trouble, but it was okay since we were together. Then after a year of all that, our bad grades piled on and he was stressed out and he dropped out, and, me, stupidly I did too. Job searching was tough, and he had to move away. I never really got a chance to say a proper goodbye. we tried to make it work long distance, but only getting to see each other every few months made it impossible - it would never be the same again. I wish I could have gotten him to stay, now we're too far away and both slaving away at different retail jobs. He finally broke up with me and I'm still holding onto all of our dumb experiences growing up together. I'm still wishfully thinking that it can all work out somehow, and all he's done is become more and more distant and I dont know how I'm supposed to move on from the one person I've loved for years and years of my life. We grew up together and I was hoping we could grow old together too. Dang man, I've still got old pictures of us together doing stupid things, like us posing for a mutual friend's sweet 16 pretending to choke each other, and an old video of us wresting around trying to fight, and group photos of skipping class to go to brunch and ones of us just chilling in bed together. I want all that back again, I've kept every gift he's given me and I dont think I could ever fully let go. Not being a better person to him has now left me alone. A distant friendship is all I'm clinging to, and I hope I can make it better. I'm just a gay dumbass trying to hope for a future together. Sorry for the long comment but this song really does it for me. The ambiance to it, the pictures, everything just spikes my memory. Thank you for the experience and for reading this mess of a ramble.
Hey, there might still be time. If there is a will, there is a way. Wishing nothing but the best for you two
heyo, i may not know you but i'll be wishing you all the best. all these feelings are valid and nothing's wrong. may you have a good day, dear stranger, i hope for a good future with you two.
I teared up a bit reading this. Sounds like you still have a chance. I wish you the best of luck. Hope everything works out.
@@dogolionnovelder4951 and?
lmao gay
Glad there's some people on this planet sharing some of the experiences and feelings i'm having. Will never meet you guys, but it's good to know you exist somewhere and somewhen.
I am an Introvert and being isolated from the real world not bothered by everyone is a paradise to me but this....this hits hard It made me feel like it open a massive hole in my heart that I keep blocking because I can't accept the truth that I needed someone in my life. Everyday I feel empty without knowing why, a bird without it's wing, train without it's rack, a brush without it's paint and a man without love. I'm 20 and never experienced this I'm so envy to those people who did, I feel like I'm missing something important in my life that soon my regrets might haunt me T-T. Maybe it's time to rethink my life a little bit more time to grow up I guess? If you feel the same way I was, you're not alone in this battle we can get through this, we will seek happiness sometime, someday but definitely will
Maybe today maybe tomorrow best of luck to you strange.
I have the same feeling. It upsets me seeing couples happy and I just wish that could be me and that special someone. I hope you’re doing better stranger.
I grew out of the lost kitten edit and now like this one more
Welcome to the next phase
lost kitten just depressing, this one gives you hope
@@amirulfirdaus9962 i feel like they are both depressing, but this one hurts more, at least for me, because makes you think about what you could have done, and what it could have been
@@aquaenjoyer1612 one is knowing it will never happen but want to do something for them
while the other wishes and wonders what could have been
Very nice edition, it was wonderful...
It happens and it turns out that the song is quite painful, it is sad... But this video is magnificent. Thank you :''')
Glad to see others sharing my vision : )
malware, no sé quién sos, pero te vi en una infinidad de videos comentando, asi q te mando un saludito
The video is just wonderful, it’s like a window to the soul and instant nostalgia.
That ending reminded me of a girl I meet in uni. We started spending a lot of time together but it was just friendship. However, I started developing feelings for her but she was more into open relationships and she was also too chaotic sometimes, besides in a way I knew I only had feelings for her because she was the only person, I has in my life given that I am a loner. Also, I knew it was wrong because I had another friend who liked her, and even though she already had rejected him, he still had feelings for her.
Then she said she had feelings for me too but I still was conflicted. And one day we went with other friends to a party and I told them just messing with them that ‘Parties are to meet people and you get extra points if you kiss them’ so one of the guys was like ‘Ok, let’s do it, we are all single, and whoever gets the least kisses pays the food’. That ended in him kissing the girl and she really liked it so they started dating afterwards. Eventually she stopped seeing me and I went back to being as lonely as always.
Stay strong brother, for only we got each-others backs even if it seems like theres no one there, is always someone that has your back in some way
Tbh, it seems like thot behaviour from here (if put it simply). She had feelings for you, then go to party where some random dude kissed her for fun and she ok with it. Bitch please. She just showed her real nature. It can be hard for you, but take this situation for consideration in future.
This is almost the exact same as my own experience. Loved this girl but she was into open relationships. Turns out she doesn't like normal relationships much and in the end I just find out more details about it and get really, really sad. But I guess that's just how life is sometimes bro. I feel ya. Im sure we'll find someone who truly will love us and keep us company. Gotta stay strong :D
FUCK
i've been on a long binge of music for the past 2 days, and this song made me realize how truly lonely i am
having relationships have been so hard, i love giving love but i feel as though i never deserve it. i get so scared of the commitment and eventually end things only a few months in because im a fearful avoidant.
that was until i met him at least, well, more of like saw him. first day of freshman year, never really ever noticed him until the 2nd semester, where i started to like him. he was my first ever actual crush (i have dated people, but they've either confessed to me and i went along with it or just rejected them) i've ever had. roll around to now, sophomore year of high school and only have two classes with him. it hurts so much, especially since his friend liked me and asked me out and i said yes, because i thought my crush for him was over. but all his friend would ever talk about was him, how he's great, how they'd jokingly bully him, whatever. it made me realize that i still liked him, i want to be with him so badly but im afraid now i cant even do that. i broke up with him two weeks from valentines day, and it was refreshing. but i still wanted to be his friend because he's a great friend after all, and im no longer closer to anyone as much anymore. yet, he still talks and brings him up.
im not complaining at all about it, but it makes me realize more and more that i do still have such a crush on him, especially when my friend sends me photos/videos of him. his smile, his pretty blue eyes, his adorable hairstyle he has, his face, everything about him makes me feel so happy. im just an observer now, i try to talk to him like i used to during freshman year in 2nd semester but i never have a chance to. i know he has a crush on someone and its most likely not me, but im still hopeful for the day i can at least tell him how i truly feel, even if i do get hurt afterwards. now my friend makes me do doodles/drawings of strange requests of him, which i dont mind but it makes me feel so sad. especially how the other day he randomly started teasing me about liking him, and i got so scared and nervous because he was saying how he liked me and all that (which i knew was most likely not true, but i still had my hopes up) and just, it made me feel hope, but the hope had soon ended very fast and reality set in.
i truly have no one with me in this world. no matter how much i make others happy or have friends, i dont talk to anyone out of school, let alone hang out with them. im still stuck on my crush and have been for the longest time but i know i cant do anything anymore and i feel so stupid. im both alone and lonely, and i cant do anything about it. i wish i could love him as icarus loved the sun, yet the passion burned me so much, i've gotten mental anguish
if you decided to read this, thank you truly. i have no one to share this with and speaking to practically no one but venting in a random comment section weirdly helps, i hope everyone has a good day and i'll see you all on the other side
:)
I'm not sure how much has changed since you posted this, namely two months or so have passed. But, I sincerely hope things have improved. And I know that most advice that I could give would end up being preachy, as you know yourself best; And as such you know what you can do best. Though if you feel down, believe that everything will turn out alright in the end if you try your best. I hope that you take care of yourself in the best way possible, and that includes venting into random comment sections.
Aw hell naw mate. Its a rather sad situation but I hope you somehow salvage this, and if you can't, find someone else, do other stuff, every day you're able to forget him and your pain is another day you're recovering. I know i cant possibly imagine the life you had with him and the love you truly felt but just maybe, you can get love him again, and hell, maybe even celebrate that valentines times day you missed out on with him, yer mate?
This comment really hit me close to home.
To be honest, I feel the same as you. Life has always been a downwards spiral for me and I’m not sure if I’ll ever stop being the lonely fool cooped up in his room wishing someone would notice him and invite him on anything other than asking for homeworks. It’s been 2 months already since I last went out of my room for anything social.
I’m sure you’ve already heard this, and maybe you do not wish for a recommendation, yet, I still feel as if I should tell you this: I recommend to just say it, just ask him if you can tell him something in private and then tell him everything in the most serious and mature tone possible, it really helps in getting over people, I say this from experience.
Regardless, I’d just like you to know that those feelings are entirely natural and, paradoxically, you’re not alone on your loneliness. Or well, at least I’d like to believe I’m not alone in it. Good luck.
Here's an corny heart for your and the comments troubles- I hope it helps
What’s it like to hold the hand of someone you love. interlinked
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I really like this style of art, using real life or semi realistic renderings and drawing characters ontop
me at 3am eating a cold pizza and some water feeling my heart break realizing that someone else is living the life you dreamed of with her
I feel you right here man
@@K1w1Appledidnt know you were chill like that
the part at 2:40 fucked me up. Them going to Suki-ya is such a brain blast. I used to Live in Nara, Japan, and that was my go to spot for yummy, cheap food that also was out of the way from my university, so it was a nice break from the Academic chaos. God I miss it. God I wish I could just go back.
There are so many sad people in the comments regretting their lives and wishing they could've done better things. I never comment so I'm gonna do this on my alt, I'm 19 now and I don't think I've ever regretted a single thing I've ever done. This is coming from a person who has had his fuck ups, I had 2 girlfriends who we're best friends in high school and somehow I got away with playing them both for a few months, but when they found out it was awful, the pain I put them through was terrible and that was a huge turning point for me as a person, I am proud of who I am currently. From then on I would continue to make mistakes and grow as a person like all of us do. I could easily relate this video and say I loved a girl who I never told but I was always there to help her, she just started dating another guy though so I missed my chance, but I don't regret it. I was there when she told me she liked him and though it was crushing at first, instead of being bitter I instead rooted her on and wished the best and called out to the universe that they would get together, and I'm so thankful they did. But that doesn't mean she'll be the only one I will have in my life, there is still so much more to experience and I can't wait for what's in store. One day, I'm gonna make memories like this with someone and it doesn't even have to be a significant other, it could be just a friend as well. I feel like those who strive to be in a relationship are really missing so much more to life. If you are even caring to read all this (which thank you by the way) then strive to live a life without regret. As people we grow, we learn, we adapt, it is only natural that you are gonna fuck up at some point whether you mean to or not. Don't get caught up in that overall critical headspace forever and remember that no one should travel alone. If you got no one on your side, go find someone dawg because no matter where you go there is bound to be someone that will wanna vibe with you. I'm gonna go what I do best and strive to motivate others, the choice is yours on what you wish to do next with your time, at least make sure it's a positive one.
Thanks for reading.
It's refreshing to read something uplifting for once
Thanks for making my day, and yeah let's keep on growing and moving
@@arique1822 No thanks needed for speaking facts bromigo, I hope you have a damn good one!
Remembering becomes painful when you can no longer go back and imagine you’re there again. When you can only remember in images, pictures from a photo album instead of videos.
I love the visualization so much it puts something into the song that i cant explain
this reminds me of that feeling of defeating a dark souls boss for the first time, and then knowing I will never feel that again 'cause the games became easier. It makes me feel empty at times
and yes, this might as well be an analogy of life
its interesting to see more and more people relating their feelings and moments through video games rather than in person
If you’ve finished the games, then I guess there’s only one thing left to say.
“Good bye then. Be safe, friend. Don't you dare go Hollow.”
Gud
Pain.
What pains you, fren
Currently, I am having a "phase". I don't know. I like somone, but I like them at the point that I am willing to let them go. Let them live life and be happy. Since they are heading away, and Ill be still here. It seems like it was born too late or too far. Its hard. But, I want that person to be succesful and live a happy life. I come to learn to be that friend who they need in hard times. Not be nothing more, or nothing less. Since I am aware the hard truth is that distant is usally not the way for certain people like they. So, I just come and learn. Mentally, and emotionally. That I will make that person time here. The best time they will remember. Be a good friend. Be that somone to lay on. Until that person moves and work for their life. Ill be happy knowing I did an impact on them. In a positive way. and move on for me too. Doing my dreams. No. Goals. Accomplishing them. Live my life to the fullist. Thats the mindset we need to have. and that exactly what I will do once that person will be gone. not for good, but in reality. That hope. Will be gone.
I see that other people have different, yet. Similar feelings. and I appreciate them. Makes me feel confortable letting out this intel to the internet.
and for those who are feelings worst or similar to others in the comment section.
There are always going to be other people that are, if not. Better that the person you fell in love or liked. Life will give you good and bad. But you will have to do the first step in order to move on. and hopefully. Find your happyness.
(thanks for reading this!) (I give you a massive virtual hug! :) ) (Some of us need them)
The fist bump in the end hits really different to me. I'm not a physical person, people usually respect my private space a lot and hardly approach me in fear of rejection or rudeness of my part. I'm usually quiet and on my own, serious face and all. The majority of people find me attractive, it's like they're assuming I'm in another league or something.
So, in the friend group I have, the major part of physical interaction I partake are those type of fist bumps. Not saying that I'm a hug enthusiast, but has been years like this. I feel like I could have some really deep connection with people, but my way of being reserved and the "fear" others have because of my reserved nature really puts a barrier in everything. Changing now feel way too out of character to me. Furthermore, I move pretty often, when this ended, I'm in my final school year and planning to go to college.
Maybe there it could be different. Besides, I'm learning how to live my life now. I don't want to waste it. Also, english is not my mother language, it might have some terrible error here and there.
This hit really close to home for me, except for the "attractive" part. I'd say I have trouble finding the words and the outlet for my emotions, and this affect my approach on relationship with people, especially with strangers that want to befriend me. Out of nervousness and anxiety, I often say nothing and put on my most stoic, indifference expression that might bore, annoy or scare people around me away. I have a couple of close friends from my school days, but sometimes i find it rather regretful that I am the way that i am and want to change. Been living in the gray part of life, I really admire the colorful and expressive experiences that I have never got the chance to be a part of.
Lyrics
I've been sleepwalking (I've been sleepwalking)
Through the railway station (through the railway station)
Wake me up (wake me up)
When they call my destination (when they call my destination)
Where I've been (where I've been)
I was bound to leave behind (I was bound to leave behind)
All device (all device)
And all disease was mine (and all disease was mine)
Oh, speeding out of reach
Oh, you're the one I had to meet
I never wanted to go home
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
There was nothing there for me
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
In a high rise on my own
(I've been on the brinks of highways for so long)
Looking out in a mirrored balcony
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
(The wanderlust)
I'm rolling in (I'm rolling in)
For a seven day weekend (seven day weekend)
Living up again (living up again)
To my old reputation (my old reputation)
Can you cover me (can you cover me)
'Cause I got no armour ('cause I got no armour)
Keep moving on down the line
Keep on going further (keep on going further)
Oh, speeding out of reach
Oh, you're the one I had to meet
I never wanted to go home
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
There was nothing there for me
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
In a high rise on my own
(I've been on the brinks of highways so long)
Looking out in a mirrored balcony
(The wanderlust will carry, carry, carry your song)
I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to hide
(Nowhere to go, nowhere to be)
I don't know where to go, now I got nowhere to be
(Oh, wanderlust will carry your song)
Walk fifty city blocks down but they always find us
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
(The wanderlust will carry your song)
Will there ever be a place for you and me?
I believe I’m still in time to make memories like this, but I only have a few years left of my teens (I don’t know how to say it in English), because I lost the first half for being an introvert that never left home to play computer games, and I’m currently losing the second half because I’m sulking over the rejection I got from the girl who gave me courage to leave my bubble and start going around with my friends… I want to forget her and start living my life as soon as I can, but how is it possible?
Estamos en la misma, tranqui que se puede!!!
You can’t necessarily forgot, only move on. Don’t try spending time trying to forget a person, it’s unfortunately not possible. I found this out a bit ago. Just do what you like dude, try and get out more. If that doesn’t work try and sit outside and think for a while, but not too much for that has its effects. Wish you the best and goodluck.
I don’t think being able to make memories like this is limited to age, it certainly helps and I’ll say I missed out on it in my teens. But it’s more about finding and being with the people that’ll make you feel this way no matter the age. I hope that I’ll be able to find those people myself :) Good luck to you and your journeys, keep your head up. We’ll be alright. :)
I feel you, anon. Been in the same place when I was a teenager. Let me tell you these two things:
1) it’s never too late to experience something for the first time. Age is just a number, and all the things you could experience in your teen years you could also experience them later in life, and I assure you there’s little to no difference. When you’re young it seems impossible, but with time you’ll grow out of it. It sucks, but it’s also beautiful;
2) Don’t try to forget someone, try to treasure the happy memories you have with them, and remember all the mistakes (if there’s a mistake, sometimes things just don’t work, nobody’s fault), so you can work on yourself and be a better person. Mistakes make us become better, make us knowing ourself better, if we don’t reject them.
TLDR: time heals everything, you’ll experience everything you need to at due time and with no drawbacks, memories help you becoming a better person.
Godspeed you and everyone struggling with life, you’re not alone and you can do it
"Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions."
My friend, what I have to tell you is that no matter how young or old you are (you are still young!), you are lamenting things which did not happen, and things in the past. These things are not in your control. Only the choices you make in the present are in your control. Since this is true, you should also recognize that lamentation will not serve you, and that there is only going forward. So, forward you will go!
I absolutely never comment on videos, but this is actually magnificent.
Unlike 90% of the comment section, I’m not depressed, but the complimentary music, (lower pitch sounds much better) poignant story, and nostalgic “captured moment in time” style of the art clashing against the realistic backdrop really rips out emotions in a visceral, raw way.
I see how disconnected people have become, (in my area and age group) and not to make excuses, but it’s objectively more difficult to really connect and bond with people compared to previous generations (stories from family come to mind). I still try though.
It’s extremely telling by the comment section how so many people related to this, and as for me, both listening to the song and reading the comments (the one that hit me the hardest was by ichtyid) melted a heart I never knew I had. Brought out emotions that I may have felt before, but just not in this way, not with this type of music. This is the video that introduced me to Metric.
A few of my perspectives on things actually shifted when I watched this a few times for the better.
Seriously, I genuinely thank you for making this and hopefully, one day, you’ll read this comment.
:)
@comicsans6054 :>
It's been 5 years and I still miss her.
It's been 10 years for me and I will miss her forever. It only gets worse.
I still dream about that one girl I met when I was 11, one of the first friends I had after we moved over city, my lack of emotional intelligence and the strictness of my parents made me ruin things with her at 15, I still wonder what could have been only if I acted in a better way. Just imagine, being with together with the love of your part childhood, youth, adulthood. Still spending nights dreaming and thinking about her.
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Got some new and special.
We're all going to make it bros.
5 years and still missing her. Seeing her with someone else while im stuck in a toxic relationship is painful... Then i remember she was trash too and i wasn't much better and everything feels a little brighter 🤣
This video gave me the love I had for metric back
Gotta love em
This makes me feel feelings I haven't felt in a long time.
I was too late, I hesitated so many times and just couldn't tell her I loved her, I regret every second. I can't redo it. Fuck. This keeps reminding me of that time, it helps and doesn't at the same time. It's the closest thing to make me feel like I went back and I could redo everything. Man this animation and music just works too well to make my monke brain sadge and happy.
I don’t think I’ll ever stop wondering if it was possible. Especially in those nights where the silence becomes all too much and that’s when I’ll think of you and regret it all.
But it is for the better, right?
It is.
I want it to be.
Maybe we’re not there yet.
Stop with the "could've been" or what "can't be" anymore and start thinking about what "can be". Nostalgia is a fucking drug, folks, kill it while you're still ahead and keep that head of yours up high, despite everything. You're gonna fucking make it, boyos. We always have, we always will.
I am at a point of my life where the only thing i can do is imagine a false imaginary life. A life i wish i had
This comment section is less sadder than the other one.
This vid hits different its less about missing out of something but just wanting to escape away and more feeling at home with someone.
Homies are called homies for a reason
Edit: 06|13|2023
I just made the biggest realization last night that I never had a home my whole life of 20 years
Edit: 07|112024
its been a year already and at the moment I'm curious what places the video was taken at...
Was bro living in an alternate reality
I've cut almost all my ties to the people I know. I literally only am in contact with one friend and thats all. This all started when my ex broke up with me abruptly over text. I didn't really feel sad about the breakup but I felt something missing. Everyday just was filled with emptiness. I realized after that being with my friends didn't really make me happy. I now feel like all that I know just isn't what I wanted it to be. Now that I am in a program and don't see them ever, I just stopped contacting them in general over the internet. I now am just reflecting on how my life turned out to be this mess of no emotion. Everyday felt the exact same as the last. At some point I got really bored just talking to my friends and just stopped. That was a really good feeling. I was relived that I didn't have to talk to them anymore. But the problem with that is am I a good person for that. Guilt was pretty heavy for a few weeks but after continuing to improve myself by working, doing school, working out I feel really good. Even if the days are the exact same I can be myself all the time. I realized that what I was with the people I knew was not even me, it was just a part of me that didn't mind to just assimilate. I now feel free but really lonely. Other than one friend I talk to I don't really talk to many people very openly.
I'm not really sure where I was going with this but just wanted to get this out there. It's a weird problem of feeling super fake with the people I have surrounded myself with for the last 5 years. I'm not sure if this makes me a really bad person but I basically forged a fake relationship just to fill the void I feel now. Thats the end of my ted talk thanks for reading :).
as each month passed and each phone call became more and more dreaded, You found that your love had departed as quickly as it arrived.
And what a terrible realization that was.
Because I wanted to love you.
You were perfect, compassionate, kind, accepting, willing to set your foot down, and you were strange in a uniquely beautiful way. You were my companion to so many adventures and memories in a short amount of time, moments that I’ll forever revisit with a tinge of bittersweet.
Oh great I’m shitting Taco Bell in the bathroom rn and I got liquid flowing out from both ends
I could've had this experience but I am a coward for not asking her out
This music bring back memories its like an ending of an episode of my life. I love it so much
This, this right here, it feels like hazy memories, like i've lived it.. I don't know what everyone else seems to be talking about, but it feels like i've lived this.. So nostalgic, with a hint of melancholy, and a kind of ''lust'' ? to feel this sort of experience. Early 21st century perfection
This does something to my emotions and I don’t like how it feels.
Discomfort is often a great motivation to make good changes for yourself
the most painful thing is tricking yourself into believing this was ever a possibility.
ahahaha....
this song along with lost kitten struck me in a weird way, lost kitten shocked me into seeing the life i was going to have if i continued down the path i was going, and wanderlust struck me with the life i do want. (I'm 17 2/5, almost in college) so instead of feeling pain and regret i felt motivated and hopeful. which, reading the comments is not what everyone thinks.
You're a kid, get out there. It's gonne be fine~
Hey there, buddy. 26 and I felt the same way. Lost a lot of opportunities in middle & high school, and jumped right into the working world after getting my major. Half of that misfortunate was solely my fault and I wished I could've done better, but what's done was done. And because of that and the things that came after, plus the thought of being closer to being 30, has not been a fun experience for me.
Musics and friends have been the only things that kept me together and like you, I found Lost Kitten and Wanderlust. It threw me off because like everyone else here, these edits made me want to experience things like running around in the night aimlessly, having a genuinely good time with a girl. And like you, instead of feeling down for myself like I always did, I felt hopeful because I came to realize that we still have so much time to discover these experiences ourselves and all it takes is giving ourselves another chance.
It also came to me that despite hating the World and society, many of us introverts fantasize about being a part of something, having friends and lovers who support us as we struggle on the way. And a question popped up and I asked myself, "do I really want to carry on this path and be a loner loser forever?" and obviously, I don't want to. Now, I hang out with friends and go to clubs (not the best idea but I'm starting small), take my job seriously and try to make connections at my workplace, because there's no way am I going to let myself being stuck in that pit for the rest of my life.
Point is, I'm glad you're feeling motivated to be better and I hope you still do. And I hope that whatever comes in your way, you have with you your friends/family/parents/partner and most importantly, your resolve. Just remember to not to take things too seriously, and before you think about taking control, you gotta control your heart and mind first.
I don't know dude, this just hit really hard for me. Much harder than Little Kitten, especially the slow and the edit. It keeps me questioning myself why can't I have a day like this, why can I have a friend like this, even if it's just friends and it's just a night, to do whatever we want, go wherever we want...
Heh. This hurts after a recent break-up, but y'know, I'm glad I had someone to feel this much happiness with. I loved that person so much, I could've died for them. I never really felt like living a life for myself, never had a purpose to do so without questioning everything I did. But with them, I felt like I had a reason to keep going, someone to feel comfortable and vulnerable with. And yet...
I fucked it all up, two times, with two different people. And it never really stops to hurt to know I was the cause of my downfall twice, and the mistake was always the same. I hate it. I hate myself for it. But... I have to keep going. As much as I hate this emptiness of being alone without a lover or without friends, I think I should keep hope. Because who knows, maybe I'll feel this happiness again. And if I don't, oh well. Life can be terrible, bleak and miserable, for a lot of us. But I know it can also be beautiful. It can be filled with the joy of hearing your loved one laugh at your stupid jokes. Their infinite chatter about things they enjoy, the glee in their voice when they do so. Feeling whole, because you know someone cares, and loves you.
So heed the message of the depressed fuck-up that I am: Keep your heads up, peeps, and stop thinking about the past that shackles you. We all make mistakes, some worse than others, and no matter how hard we wish it could've been different, it never will be, because mistakes can be forgiven but never undone. Still, everyone deserves happiness, and if it means going through Hell to get your own slice of Heaven, then go for it. Because you deserve it. And who knows, maybe one day you'll get to feel like never going home to spend time carried by wanderlust with someone you love.
God bless you buddy!
man coming back to this just makes me so sad i almost could not play it i miss all of them why must they alll be gone
it's no use crying for a past that never happened, glory to those who look forward!
this make me feel things.
this video is perfect just the way it is
This really makes me feel nostalgic of the past, such a memory trip
is it nostalgic when you look back on memories you never had?
This makes you feel things for sure. I've seen some phenomenal videos on UA-cam, and even with the strongest competition imaginable, this one might be the best I've seen, ever. Easily top 5.
Thanks for putting this together man.
Wanderlust will carry us on
That one and only time the universe inexplicably gives you a chance to connect with someone you like. And even though it just lasted a few hours, the time you spent with that person didn't matter. You got to be with her when you still had a chance...
It's been 3 years since I last had a connection with my feelings. I don't know why my defense mechanism blocked out emotions but I really hate not feeling anything other than frustration. I want to feel the same feelings you guys do.
This pain, that this music give me is rather comforting than hurting
After watching this music video with careful consideration, I am confident to say that I am thoroughly and absolutely cooked.
Stumbled upon this on a slow weekend afternoon. The video ends and I hear nothing other than the faint hum of my fan. Leaning back and slowly spinning in my chair, I lonely embrace this feeling of emptiness
Man life was good that time
Which never happened
These really hit different
No matter how many times you feel pain you have to press on, we all believe in you as we’ve been there
i hope mom doesnt see me bawling my eyes over this, i dont wanna make her sad.
thank you for existing man, have a good life
Mathematically, the odds of finding true love with someone special is just ridiculous. There are 8 **billion** people in the world, the odds of finding your ‘one true soulmate’ are so small they might as well not exist.
But we should never stop trying.
There's no such thing as a soul mate. Just find you a good woman and grow together. This soul mate mentality has alot of couples break up because they expect their partner to be a perfect match from the jump without putting effort in on both ends
I saw the original video. This song just works really well, great work!
I feel like these were made to hurt in a special kind of way.
Exactly onodera
he can't keep getting away with this
😎
you might be in your darkest hours but know that night dont last forever, theres a morning coming
Not a day goes by where a piece of you engraved within my mind that doesn’t cause my entire consciousness to stumble into a state of maladaptive day dreaming.
Not a day goes by where I refuse to leave the comfort of silence and solitude, since it’s all I have left of you.
You never fail to find your way back into my mind, you find your way to me over and over again through the presence of the strangest of passer by.
One time i was in school wasn’t much different than any other day or at least I thought. After school finished I stayed there just to chill school was great at the time I had lots of friends all the teachers were understanding and I was overall happy. I was sitting there until a girl walked up to me. She sat there and started talking to me about a few minutes later she insisted we get outta here. I agreed so we went to a nearby library looking at books and people watching. Then to the park where we played with all the equipment and such and before we left we went on a shopping cart and rode around the streets til we went to a grocery market to buy drinks. After she wanted to go to her place but my mom needed me home so I walked her home and she opened her house gate and she held it open for me i stared at the ground and said “ Today was fun but I have to go now..” She just stared at me and said “ Oh….okay” she shut the gate slowly and walked in her house before giving me a wave of goodbye. I walked home that day just thinking about everything. I knew she was the one. But after I searched I never found her. She disappeared into thin air. Then a year later i found her but she was with someone else. I felt to hurt. And I should’ve said it then and there when I parted ways with her that I wanted her. Now I pass the library, the park, the supermarket, the block with frustration and sadness. I could’ve had her but I was to scared to lose her which anyways I did. I regret leaving her. I regret not telling her. This song this illustration showed me exactly what happened to me. Fuck man.
Everytime I listen and watch thisxi, I felt sad and happy. The fact this remind me of my ex when we experience the happiest day of our live but sad that we couldn't experience that day again.
yep
it turns out being happy has consequences, greater than the reward
This video was the last straw for more than zero people.
Man this feels good and hurts so much at the same time...
man false memories are really shitty, you remember an event that never happened
i just love this song
dude this song slowed makes the vid HIT harddddd. :')
I have become numb in all senses of feelings in a way . I am fighting it , so I don't go into a state of just existing and the fight is going great
This is so fucking nostalgic to me...Damn, what a good time... I miss her
It is what it is, im not the only one to experience this kind of thing, multiple people before me already experienced this kind of pain
Im not special in any regard
I miss you