She summed up her entire view of the man and their relationship; "my ticket to an early retirement". She didn't want him, but just what he could provide.
She will never get him back. She has shown him that she has no loyalty and men value that more than any woman can ever understand. .. and once the trust is gone, the relationship is dead.
She keeps saying he kissed me. Not once I didn't block my ex, I didn't talk or message him, I didn't go meet him without telling my fiance, I refused to meet up my ex.
*skill activated* Blameshift x10. Do they ever listen to themselves and catch on to the insanity they expect people to believe? Why was your ex able to contact you? She knows full well what she did and why she did it. You're just pissed you lost your meal ticket.
As cheaters are almost always on the antisocial spectrum, they lack the necessary empathy or accountability to ever be able to believe their actions are their own fault. They are never LTR material and unfortunately too many guys and girls miss the signs early on before becoming entangled in relationships with these emotional vampires. The second a person starts to see it in a person's behavior, they should act accordingly (gray rock, etc)
They similarly execute their own offspring to the tune of over a million people a year (in USA) - l think it’s blatantly obvious and clear that they do not have empathy or a conscience.
My wedding, stupid mistake and it's my ex-boyfriend's fault, not even a minute in andvthis woman is already a lost cause. Can we get one woman on here that is truly remorseful and acts like an adult? Lady you were the cause of all of this and you got nobody to blame but yourself. You cannot force him to take you back, the fact that you are still thinking of yourself is why you will fail. You are not respecting his choice to seperate, you are not giving him his space. If you have any care left for him, you would leave him in peace. He might take you back in the future or he might nowt. The choice is not yours it's his. Put your big girl pamts on and move on.
He ruined ‘HER’ day!!! Weddings are not for the man! She did not make a mistake, she made a series of choices. She CHOSE to stay in touch with her ex. She CHOSE to hook up with her ex. She CHOSE to spread her legs for her ex. Sorry toots, game over.
And nowadays we are all one or the other because they have all been ran thru and used so much that it’s impossible for a regular dude to get a good one that has not rode the 🐔 🎠
Accountability is like kryptonite to this woman. She made a conscious decision to go out to lunch and she made the decision to cheat so she is at fault. And she doesn't want him back...she wants the life of no work and all her bills paid back. Lady. You broke the one rule your ex had. He will never trust you again. Trust, loyalty and peace are all a man really desires and it appears you gave him none of these in the end. You ruined the relationship for attention and validation. Have fun on the streets.
Well that was easy. “Look at this great sketch I got from my ex when after a lot of Facebook chat we had brunch and a kiss behind your back. Wait, why would that bother you? We didn’t sleep together, I promise! 🤞I didn’t say anything beforehand to you because…. well… um… “.
She would have kept escalating the affair with X if the fiancée was weak and “l don’t want to be controlling, of course l let her have guy friends and make new male friends and hang out with them all the time and be around their X boyfriends all the time because l’m not insecure”….. Weak males always end up suffering major consequences for their actions
8 minutes in she says that she going out with her ex and couldnt tell her fiance. Then 10 seconds later she says she couldnt tell him because he would be mad
Everything about this story says the attention and validation from Winky was still important to you. That means fiancé is #2 to Winky. Fiance did the right thing. An ex is an ex for a reason. Once they're in your past, it's best to keep them there.
I'm going to add something: my wife of 26 years and I had a conversation about 31 years ago. The gist of it was this: do not put yourself in compromising situations. Just as you wouldn't walk down a back alley of a bad neighborhood announcing you had hundreds of dollars on you, don't go visiting your ex without consulting your significant other first - preferably just don't go. Yet you did exactly that, and played right into Winky's hands. You want to keep a quality man? Next time, if you're fortunate enough to have a next time, avoid even the appearance of disrespect. Men have learned not to give women the benefit of the doubt because way way too often they end up getting burned when they do. That's why you have to go above and beyond to keep good man. The family court system makes it extremely risky for a man to get married. Men have done the cost benefit analysis, and have decided anything that even looks off is grounds to call off the wedding - if they even entertain the idea of getting married at all in the first place. Remember that next time. Oh, and if you try to pull the "controlling" or "insecure" cards on a good man, that's a quick way to lose him too. We are tired of the BS and have no tolerance for it anymore.
I'm 90% sure the same person is feeding True Story fake stories and he's enjoying just reading them. You used to do something good, True Story. Very disappointed.
most of the times in the stories, the likes of them are too thirsty for bad boy hot dogs, and their libido go through the roof for piece of bad boy meat (chad and tyrone), the disrespect of the bad boy did to them, makes them itchy for pleasure, like magnet to a metal
Leave him alone you done him a favor you would have cheated in the future anyway he was not your first choice your ex was not willing to marry you so this was your second choice
5:28 "My beautiful day" says all you need to know about her views on marriage/wedding. "1 ticket to early retirement" yep she's a gold digger! The cooking thing reminds me of my parents, my Mom (SAHM) couldn't cook when she married my Dad, for the 1st year married my Dad dreaded coming home to Mom's supper, BUT he did and ate everything on the plate "happily". Eventually my Mom learned to cook using cookbooks (1970s). My parents were happily married and deeply loved each other til death did they part. But I don't have any illusions about modern women being like my Mom.
As you ear she only talk about what he does for her. She don’t love him she love her ex, she will cheat again she take her back. She wants he’s money she would never do anything to help him. Watch she will never do part 2!
1:00 OP: " me cheating was not my fault " True & community: reconciliation is out of the question right there. YES it was your fault. Lack of accountability is the de@th tone of a relationship. You will do it again, you do not.love him, you do not respect him. This happened because you do not display self control and discipline. Reconciliation is impossible because you don't feel regret over him, only yourself. Where's the reflection in HIS pain, his broken heart, his trust? No you are a selfish gold digging street walker. Buy a dog and stay alone.
😂😂😂😂 Soooooo.... OP is alpha widowed and she thought she found a sucker to provide for her. Nice guys finish last. Don't be a nice guy. Be a badboy who is a good guy but will absolutely make heads roll at the first sign of disrespect.
Hahaha He thought some other girl was bringing him food!!! 😂😂😂 OP obviously underestimated her ex fiancé's sexual value to other women. A classic case of FAFO. I see cats and boxwine in here very near future.
Ahhhhh, yes. It's all a "mistake." It wasn't her fault. She blames her ex-boyfriend for everything. Typical 304. Accountability is like Kryptonite to these broads. ... She didn't need to go out with her ex-bf. She wanted to. SHE did that. Love how she tries to spin it and rationalize her actions... She doesn't sound like she loved her husband. She just loved the resources & lifestyle he could provide her. Give it up, sweetie. He doesn't want you anymore. So, stop it before he gets a restraining order put on you. .... Fellas? Stay away from women who are addicted to social media. All they want attention & validation from it.
Cheating is NEVER a mistake. It is an intentional betrayal of the person you claim to love. You knew exactly what you were doing. Personally for me there’s NO SECOND CHANCES FOR CHEATERS. Once and good bye. You don’t sound particularly smart in your story
Always remember, if you ain't her first, you're her last. Women pretend that their virginity doesn't matter and will attempt to shame you as weird for caring about how many sausages they've had but they will completely blow up their own life, the life of their husband, their children and their extended families for 15 minutes of validation from their exes.
Cheating wasn't a mistake... the moment she decided to go to lunch with her ex - without her fiance's consent - she made the first of many deceitful, disrespectful steps. And that's assuming her account of what happened is accurate.
What i hate is when they said "he took advantage of me" or "i didn't intended to cheat" or every other crap like that to justified the fact that she did what she did.
think of all the completely innocent dudes in prison or worse in just the last 20 years because of how ‘they’ lie about everything and take zero accountability for ‘their’ own actions.
Online forums typically block opposite comments. Also most of them are in temporary reconciliation. Not that many of them that have been reconciled for a long time. Not to mention you get the ones with an agenda where their reconciliation doesn't work but they still praise reconciliation attempts.
The 1st big test and she failed. She has no boundaries. What would've happened if they met at a place that served drinks? Go back to your old boyfriend. You deserve each other.
How weak can you be, this is why we say, “she’s never yours, it’s just your turn”. There is always that one BF that she really wanted, even though he “treated her poorly”. And when she gets attention she falls like a tree.
A cheating fiancee who gets caught before the wedding is doing a huge service for her upcoming husband by alerting him to drop her and cut his losses much more cheaply than it would be if he married her and then had to deal with children, alimony, child support, splitting of domestic property, etc. While canceling the wedding may waste some money, the cost is tiny compared to marrying a cheater.
Lady don't worry you will be is forever His forever regret She never loved the ex fiancé she loved the life he could give her the first few minutes she even admits it my quote ticket to early retirement is gone unquote and then at the end when she says her mom wants her to pay went she said she doesn't want to work And one more where talking with her ex boyfriend she said she got feelings for him again She did it to herself and deserves everything
So funny how she tried to play up her ex “mistreatment”. Your cooking was trash and he no only told you he helped you improve. The level of victimhood is crazy work
The OP cheated by going to lunch and not telling her other half. She screwed this up! No accountability!
She did not love the guy ..she was in love with the lifestyle the guy was offering her. This guy dodged the bullet....
You got that right 💯. And she said it over and over. She let the Big Catch get away. Dummy!
Yep, very true…
My man got lucky. If they waiver in the slightest …
They’ll give that guy the cheeks and lie their ass off to your face.
Men love idealistically (for real) and they love opportunistically.
She summed up her entire view of the man and their relationship; "my ticket to an early retirement". She didn't want him, but just what he could provide.
This has to be satire. There's no way she's this delusional
You'd be surprised!
Since the first sentence she begin blaming everyone but herself. Women and accountibility 😂😂
She will never get him back. She has shown him that she has no loyalty and men value that more than any woman can ever understand.
.. and once the trust is gone, the relationship is dead.
she let something slip out. when she was talking about the brunch, she said the ex-boyfriend kissed her AGAIN. but she never mentioned the first kiss
I think she meant since they were together for 4 years or something?
@@cutchopweld5717 👍
Your ex knows how easy you are. Nieve!
She keeps saying he kissed me. Not once I didn't block my ex, I didn't talk or message him, I didn't go meet him without telling my fiance, I refused to meet up my ex.
She ruined her marriage lol 😆 good on fiancee
Her words make it out that her X caused all the issues……. this right here proves she’s a bad person.
*skill activated* Blameshift x10. Do they ever listen to themselves and catch on to the insanity they expect people to believe? Why was your ex able to contact you? She knows full well what she did and why she did it. You're just pissed you lost your meal ticket.
As cheaters are almost always on the antisocial spectrum, they lack the necessary empathy or accountability to ever be able to believe their actions are their own fault. They are never LTR material and unfortunately too many guys and girls miss the signs early on before becoming entangled in relationships with these emotional vampires. The second a person starts to see it in a person's behavior, they should act accordingly (gray rock, etc)
They similarly execute their own offspring to the tune of over a million people a year (in USA) - l think it’s blatantly obvious and clear that they do not have empathy or a conscience.
My wedding, stupid mistake and it's my ex-boyfriend's fault, not even a minute in andvthis woman is already a lost cause. Can we get one woman on here that is truly remorseful and acts like an adult?
Lady you were the cause of all of this and you got nobody to blame but yourself. You cannot force him to take you back, the fact that you are still thinking of yourself is why you will fail. You are not respecting his choice to seperate, you are not giving him his space. If you have any care left for him, you would leave him in peace. He might take you back in the future or he might nowt. The choice is not yours it's his. Put your big girl pamts on and move on.
Wanting a cheating female to act like an adult and taking responsibility for her actions is pure fantasy.
NEVER take a cheater back EVER!!
He ruined ‘HER’ day!!! Weddings are not for the man! She did not make a mistake, she made a series of choices. She CHOSE to stay in touch with her ex. She CHOSE to hook up with her ex. She CHOSE to spread her legs for her ex. Sorry toots, game over.
Once she got certainty from the nice guy she had to go looking for the bad boy.
“ not my fault “.
"My wedding...."
Right there is the entirety of the problem.
It's all about HER.
if it wasnt your fault file rape charges! oh wait
My wedding? Our wedding, what a narcisist, not my faulyh? So no accountability
The fiancee was only the provider guy , but she had attraction for the ex boyfriend ..sadly ,this is the truth 😢
And nowadays we are all one or the other because they have all been ran thru and used so much that it’s impossible for a regular dude to get a good one that has not rode the 🐔 🎠
She definitely wasn't to bright ...
The feeling of cheating comes from the wanting to get validation/feeling from the old boyfriend. Henceforth way she chated and went to old boyfriend
Accountability is like kryptonite to this woman. She made a conscious decision to go out to lunch and she made the decision to cheat so she is at fault. And she doesn't want him back...she wants the life of no work and all her bills paid back.
Lady. You broke the one rule your ex had. He will never trust you again. Trust, loyalty and peace are all a man really desires and it appears you gave him none of these in the end. You ruined the relationship for attention and validation. Have fun on the streets.
B you don't deserve him
or anyone
Cheating on him was not your fault? Ahah WHAT!!!?😂😂
Well that was easy.
“Look at this great sketch I got from my ex when after a lot of Facebook chat we had brunch and a kiss behind your back. Wait, why would that bother you? We didn’t sleep together, I promise! 🤞I didn’t say anything beforehand to you because…. well… um… “.
She would have kept escalating the affair with X if the fiancée was weak and “l don’t want to be controlling, of course l let her have guy friends and make new male friends and hang out with them all the time and be around their X boyfriends all the time because l’m not insecure”…..
Weak males always end up suffering major consequences for their actions
"One-way ticket to RETIREMENT ?" That's True Love for ya ! No more Free Ride !
This 304 is stupid.,.the lack of accountability is sickening and frightening
8 minutes in she says that she going out with her ex and couldnt tell her fiance. Then 10 seconds later she says she couldnt tell him because he would be mad
Everything about this story says the attention and validation from Winky was still important to you. That means fiancé is #2 to Winky. Fiance did the right thing.
An ex is an ex for a reason. Once they're in your past, it's best to keep them there.
I'm going to add something: my wife of 26 years and I had a conversation about 31 years ago. The gist of it was this: do not put yourself in compromising situations.
Just as you wouldn't walk down a back alley of a bad neighborhood announcing you had hundreds of dollars on you, don't go visiting your ex without consulting your significant other first - preferably just don't go. Yet you did exactly that, and played right into Winky's hands.
You want to keep a quality man? Next time, if you're fortunate enough to have a next time, avoid even the appearance of disrespect.
Men have learned not to give women the benefit of the doubt because way way too often they end up getting burned when they do. That's why you have to go above and beyond to keep good man.
The family court system makes it extremely risky for a man to get married. Men have done the cost benefit analysis, and have decided anything that even looks off is grounds to call off the wedding - if they even entertain the idea of getting married at all in the first place. Remember that next time.
Oh, and if you try to pull the "controlling" or "insecure" cards on a good man, that's a quick way to lose him too. We are tired of the BS and have no tolerance for it anymore.
Accountability is like kryptonite to women...
“Her Wedding” not Their Wedding. 😂
“my day” me me me and l , l, l.
I'm 90% sure the same person is feeding True Story fake stories and he's enjoying just reading them. You used to do something good, True Story. Very disappointed.
The stories are off. Can't put my finger on why.
Things like this are happening to men in real life each & every day
The road to HELL is paved with good intentions.
I did believe this story except not having sex with an ex-boyfriend.
most of the times in the stories, the likes of them are too thirsty for bad boy hot dogs, and their libido go through the roof for piece of bad boy meat (chad and tyrone), the disrespect of the bad boy did to them, makes them itchy for pleasure, like magnet to a metal
Thank you
You want advice
Stop saying it’s not your fault
Leave him alone you done him a favor you would have cheated in the future anyway he was not your first choice your ex was not willing to marry you so this was your second choice
This is the reason body counts matter
Oh she left the 🚪 open for all this
5:28 "My beautiful day" says all you need to know about her views on marriage/wedding. "1 ticket to early retirement" yep she's a gold digger!
The cooking thing reminds me of my parents, my Mom (SAHM) couldn't cook when she married my Dad, for the 1st year married my Dad dreaded coming home to Mom's supper, BUT he did and ate everything on the plate "happily". Eventually my Mom learned to cook using cookbooks (1970s). My parents were happily married and deeply loved each other til death did they part. But I don't have any illusions about modern women being like my Mom.
“He cancelled my wedding…”, “…my dat is ruined…” she starts off quite telling here, don’t you think?
As you ear she only talk about what he does for her. She don’t love him she love her ex, she will cheat again she take her back. She wants he’s money she would never do anything to help him. Watch she will never do part 2!
Maybe her ex winky will take her back, he was always her back up plan.
Stay single guys these women are not marriage material.
She sounds crazy
1:00 OP: " me cheating was not my fault "
True & community: reconciliation is out of the question right there. YES it was your fault. Lack of accountability is the de@th tone of a relationship. You will do it again, you do not.love him, you do not respect him. This happened because you do not display self control and discipline. Reconciliation is impossible because you don't feel regret over him, only yourself. Where's the reflection in HIS pain, his broken heart, his trust? No you are a selfish gold digging street walker. Buy a dog and stay alone.
he should never take you back. you only wanted the lifestyle. you didn't mention how much you loved him
Obvious sociopath
Good video
It's not my fault...😂
ac·count·abil·i·ty🤔
😂😂😂😂 Soooooo.... OP is alpha widowed and she thought she found a sucker to provide for her.
Nice guys finish last. Don't be a nice guy. Be a badboy who is a good guy but will absolutely make heads roll at the first sign of disrespect.
Hahaha He thought some other girl was bringing him food!!! 😂😂😂 OP obviously underestimated her ex fiancé's sexual value to other women. A classic case of FAFO. I see cats and boxwine in here very near future.
Oh no, it's never a woman's fault. It's not your fault that you can't keep your eyes opened but you can open your legs. Nah, it isn't. 🤦
waaaaaa fkn waaaaaa...
Ahhhhh, yes. It's all a "mistake." It wasn't her fault. She blames her ex-boyfriend for everything. Typical 304. Accountability is like Kryptonite to these broads. ... She didn't need to go out with her ex-bf. She wanted to. SHE did that. Love how she tries to spin it and rationalize her actions... She doesn't sound like she loved her husband. She just loved the resources & lifestyle he could provide her. Give it up, sweetie. He doesn't want you anymore. So, stop it before he gets a restraining order put on you. .... Fellas? Stay away from women who are addicted to social media. All they want attention & validation from it.
OP, you'll get no sympathy here; but thank you for helping True Story get his ad revenue.
Inflation is no joke!!
no SIMPathy
@@mgtow-balance3409 Word Up!!
she belongs to the streets.
the call of the streets was too strong to ignore.
Tingles. Always with the tingles. OP mentions them before going on to insist her getting together with him had nothing to do with her feelings. 🙄
This is EXACTLY why it is unacceptable for your girl to keep ex's in their Social Media account friend list.
Yup I found out my ex had her ex in her fb friends list. I later found out they were smashing. Women having guy friends in general is a red flag
No accountability, and extremely selfish!! Was only looking out for herself!
Cheating is NEVER a mistake. It is an intentional betrayal of the person you claim to love. You knew exactly what you were doing. Personally for me there’s NO SECOND CHANCES FOR CHEATERS. Once and good bye. You don’t sound particularly smart in your story
Being in contact with your ex is a red flag
Any guy friends is red flag
Lust and selfish judgement is not a mistake ... but a bad character. Don't marry bad. Nuff sed.
Seriously......wow. this person is delusional... still trying to win her ex acceptance even when she's engaged...wtf
Always remember, if you ain't her first, you're her last.
Women pretend that their virginity doesn't matter and will attempt to shame you as weird for caring about how many sausages they've had but they will completely blow up their own life, the life of their husband, their children and their extended families for 15 minutes of validation from their exes.
Her ex would have put a tingle in her anyway even if she was married or not.
Needing attention and compliments
Cheating wasn't a mistake... the moment she decided to go to lunch with her ex - without her fiance's consent - she made the first of many deceitful, disrespectful steps. And that's assuming her account of what happened is accurate.
These types don't realize how outta touch they sound lol...they think they don't sound like the bad guy or it's no big deal lol
What i hate is when they said "he took advantage of me" or "i didn't intended to cheat" or every other crap like that to justified the fact that she did what she did.
think of all the completely innocent dudes in prison or worse in just the last 20 years because of how ‘they’ lie about everything and take zero accountability for ‘their’ own actions.
Online forums typically block opposite comments. Also most of them are in temporary reconciliation. Not that many of them that have been reconciled for a long time. Not to mention you get the ones with an agenda where their reconciliation doesn't work but they still praise reconciliation attempts.
Thats why all males need RP content
This story was the best. 😂😂😂
Always verify and never just trust blindly…
Dumb mistake huh ? More like a choice btw good luck getting your ex back.
Women NEVER regret the ACT
NEVER
They only EVER regret getting CAUGHT for the act
The 1st big test and she failed. She has no boundaries. What would've happened if they
met at a place that served drinks? Go back
to your old boyfriend. You deserve each other.
How weak can you be, this is why we say, “she’s never yours, it’s just your turn”.
There is always that one BF that she really wanted, even though he “treated her poorly”.
And when she gets attention she falls like a tree.
A cheating fiancee who gets caught before the wedding is doing a huge service for her upcoming husband by alerting him to drop her and cut his losses much more cheaply than it would be if he married her and then had to deal with children, alimony, child support, splitting of domestic property, etc. While canceling the wedding may waste some money, the cost is tiny compared to marrying a cheater.
Lady don't worry you will be is forever
His forever regret
She never loved the ex fiancé she loved the life he could give her the first few minutes she even admits it my quote ticket to early retirement is gone unquote and then at the end when she says her mom wants her to pay went she said she doesn't want to work
And one more where talking with her ex boyfriend she said she got feelings for him again
She did it to herself and deserves everything
If he has any dignity or self-respect, you will never get him back.
Wow, this woman had it so good. The one thing she had to do to keep it, she couldn't do.
It not my fault= not taking accountability
We call him Wink because he has a lazy eye.😂
So funny how she tried to play up her ex “mistreatment”. Your cooking was trash and he no only told you he helped you improve.
The level of victimhood is crazy work
all of them are capable of doing this
FIRST
First what?
Early retirement let that sink in you user.
You had no intentions of sleeping with your ex BF but you did….uh..
Yea sure. I believe you…..
Best fu*king story.