She failed the girlfriend test, but he married her anyway. This kind of woman cheats anytime the opportunity presents itself. He'll never know the extent of her betrayal.
THIS IS WHY AT THE FIRST SIGN OF SKETCHINESS YOU NOPE OUT. This will save you untold heartache. It also allows you to separate the wheat from the chaff and find someone halfway decent.
Lol i can only laugh and imagine how many times she cheated on him even being at home and then she is telling him she isn't going out with guys anymore 😂
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
@@AbrahamKingston @AbrahamKingston the two of you are writing the same thing on different posts. You're either a couple of Simps or you're feminists trying to keep men Simps 😂
Imagine using caring for your young child as an alibi to cheat. She was so desperate to cheat that it's beyond sickening. This guy was lucky tho. Many guys go thru this and yet still end up destroyed financially on the way out. Imagine being cheated on, then the court still forcing u to continually fund her lifestyle? Good for this guy tho
What a clown. 😂😂 Gaslit himself into thinking she wasnt cheating, rewarded her by marrying her, and still has the audacity to think he's not the problem. You *knowingly* married a cheater and expected it to not happen on a girl trip. Can't feel bad for a man who knowingly steps in crap and expects to not be judged for it.
@truestoryepic No defense needed. If anyone posts a story online, they're looking to be judged or some sort of sympathy. It can be in any form of advice, help, or even how to move on, but there is some sort of validation to it.If they don't want it, they'd lock their thread, or turn off the comments so they won't have to be judged.
Dude from day one she was cheating and you refused to acknowledge it. Then you are still playing around being a family. Cut your ties and have specific drops and move on.
Oh, My Gosh ! Now that's a NEW TWIST ! A colludge graddjuit re-connectingconnectingconnecting with'er ol' colludge flame behind'er Husband's back ! Wudda they been learning them, these days ?
EXACTLY. It's really hard to feel sorry for these guys who are doormats and simps and who never stand up for themselves. He married her KNOWING deep down she had cheated. He has NOBODY to blame but himself. I don't even blame her since she was given at least one pass if not more he isn't telling us about to essentially go and cheat on him. Why wouldn't she believe that he would eventually cave to her AGAIN??? My wife and I don't go on Girl's or Boy's Only Nights, Trips, Vacations, Weekends, etc. We do things as a couple, mutually agreed upon by both of us. And even then, going on couple's vacations are a bore and we would rather do a family vacation with our kids or just the two of us as then we can do and see the things WE want to do and see and not worry about other couples. If my wife has to travel to a conference or something for work (very, very rare, 3 times in the last 10 years), she literally demands I go with her as she doesn't want to go alone. Even if she is traveling with another co-worker, who would be a woman as her company refuses to send men and women on overnight work trips (not sure if something bad has happened in the past to dictate this policy), she wants me to come along. When I ask her why she needs me to come along, she just says she will be bored and miss me. This is probably because we do literally everything together. While this approach may not work for everyone, it works for us.
That's silly. If she's capable of cheating on you at the bar or on a trip, even if she wasnt planning to? Then she's DEFINITELY going to end up finding some other way to cheat when she starts to resent you for forbidding things. I mean i wouldnt cheat, but i would definitely resent my wife over time if she just started banning me from going out with my friends. Plus OP is stupid if he thinks the only times his wife cheated were on these girls trips.
Failed the girlfriend test, so she was unworthy of marriage, then went on to prove it. Cheaters NEVER stop cheating, they just get better at hiding it.
If she wants a girls trip, don't argue, just say "OK" and leave it. After she leaves, pack her stuff, and put it on the curb, send her a pic, block her. The very fact that she wants to go means that she is not that into you. She should be worried that some other woman is going to see your value and swoop in an scoop you up while she is gone. Arguing about it, telling her what you're going to do - it's already too late. Women talk, men do. Demonstrate, don't explicate. Acta, non verba. You don't set a boundary with words, but with deeds. If you say, "If you x, I'll y" , she'll always think that she can talk you out of 'y' later or that she didn't really 'x' - always some words from her end. Remember, as men, we don't TALK about it, we BE about it.
She doesn't have any permanent partner, because she has hit "the wall" already, it's not because she doesn´t want anybody, it's because nobody she likes wants her back...
Can’t believe the dude married her after the affair trip . Paternity test the kid , let her go on her trip and get a private investigator to get the proof start making arrangements
Man I cannot believe you gaslit yourself into believing she didn't cheat after you caught her in multiple lies, you don't need hard evidence when it is so obvious what ypu heard. Everything that went wrong is on you, you knew she cheated nut let it slide. She failed as a girlfriend and she certainly wouldn't succeas a wife. I am glad you at least was willing to check her on her crap as a husband.
Idk why people still get married when no matter how big of an a-hole he was or no matter how perfect of a husband u are there's still a chance she'll go back to her ex bc "they're just friends" smfh
I bet the dude she cheated with is married and she was screwing him before the marriage. Glad at least the kid was his. Ues, every girls trip she wenton wS a. cheating trip. I also am prettysure her friends ex had. PI way h her that cheating trip Nd that is why they broke up. His wife was going to claim ignorance on that because it would expose her as a cheater also.
She failed the girlfriend test, but he married her anyway. This kind of woman cheats anytime the opportunity presents itself. He'll never know the extent of her betrayal.
yeah this guy is total wimp.
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THIS IS WHY AT THE FIRST SIGN OF SKETCHINESS YOU NOPE OUT. This will save you untold heartache. It also allows you to separate the wheat from the chaff and find someone halfway decent.
This is common for young guys without a lot of experience
Wasted years and money fully, knowing she was a cheater.
Lol i can only laugh and imagine how many times she cheated on him even being at home and then she is telling him she isn't going out with guys anymore 😂
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
I promise You will not regret it
@@AbrahamKingston @AbrahamKingston the two of you are writing the same thing on different posts. You're either a couple of Simps or you're feminists trying to keep men Simps 😂
Imagine using caring for your young child as an alibi to cheat. She was so desperate to cheat that it's beyond sickening. This guy was lucky tho. Many guys go thru this and yet still end up destroyed financially on the way out. Imagine being cheated on, then the court still forcing u to continually fund her lifestyle? Good for this guy tho
What a clown. 😂😂 Gaslit himself into thinking she wasnt cheating, rewarded her by marrying her, and still has the audacity to think he's not the problem. You *knowingly* married a cheater and expected it to not happen on a girl trip. Can't feel bad for a man who knowingly steps in crap and expects to not be judged for it.
In his defense. When did he ask to not to be judged for it or even asked for sympathy?
@truestoryepic No defense needed. If anyone posts a story online, they're looking to be judged or some sort of sympathy. It can be in any form of advice, help, or even how to move on, but there is some sort of validation to it.If they don't want it, they'd lock their thread, or turn off the comments so they won't have to be judged.
I don’t feel bad for him
Should have trusted his gut
Dude from day one she was cheating and you refused to acknowledge it. Then you are still playing around being a family. Cut your ties and have specific drops and move on.
Your gut feel knows best…it lets you know when shit is going down😂
Oh, My Gosh ! Now that's a NEW TWIST ! A colludge graddjuit re-connectingconnectingconnecting with'er ol' colludge flame behind'er Husband's back ! Wudda they been learning them, these days ?
“Thank god I hired a P.I investigator”
“Thank god I hired a private investigator investigator”
Absolutely 💯 percent was in the streets after, before, or pretending to be at work.
Its 2024 gentlemen, it simply is not worth it..
She actually broght a babysitter to help her cheat, wow
No shame
OP always knew this woman was cheating and yet he still chose to marry her. I think he deserves everything he gets. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
EXACTLY.
It's really hard to feel sorry for these guys who are doormats and simps and who never stand up for themselves.
He married her KNOWING deep down she had cheated. He has NOBODY to blame but himself. I don't even blame her since she was given at least one pass if not more he isn't telling us about to essentially go and cheat on him.
Why wouldn't she believe that he would eventually cave to her AGAIN???
My wife and I don't go on Girl's or Boy's Only Nights, Trips, Vacations, Weekends, etc. We do things as a couple, mutually agreed upon by both of us. And even then, going on couple's vacations are a bore and we would rather do a family vacation with our kids or just the two of us as then we can do and see the things WE want to do and see and not worry about other couples.
If my wife has to travel to a conference or something for work (very, very rare, 3 times in the last 10 years), she literally demands I go with her as she doesn't want to go alone. Even if she is traveling with another co-worker, who would be a woman as her company refuses to send men and women on overnight work trips (not sure if something bad has happened in the past to dictate this policy), she wants me to come along. When I ask her why she needs me to come along, she just says she will be bored and miss me. This is probably because we do literally everything together. While this approach may not work for everyone, it works for us.
He knew she was a cheater but didn't WANT to know. So he let it go. Years later he gets proof of what he always knew she'd always been doing.
Never allow the girls trip or the girls night out to bars and clubs. If you want to do those things,do it single. OP did good in the end.
That's silly. If she's capable of cheating on you at the bar or on a trip, even if she wasnt planning to?
Then she's DEFINITELY going to end up finding some other way to cheat when she starts to resent you for forbidding things.
I mean i wouldnt cheat, but i would definitely resent my wife over time if she just started banning me from going out with my friends.
Plus OP is stupid if he thinks the only times his wife cheated were on these girls trips.
Solid story.
Failed the girlfriend test, so she was unworthy of marriage, then went on to prove it.
Cheaters NEVER stop cheating, they just get better at hiding it.
One of my relationships ended over my rule no separate vacations!
What a boneheaded move to marry her 😂
If she wants a girls trip, don't argue, just say "OK" and leave it. After she leaves, pack her stuff, and put it on the curb, send her a pic, block her. The very fact that she wants to go means that she is not that into you. She should be worried that some other woman is going to see your value and swoop in an scoop you up while she is gone. Arguing about it, telling her what you're going to do - it's already too late. Women talk, men do. Demonstrate, don't explicate. Acta, non verba. You don't set a boundary with words, but with deeds. If you say, "If you x, I'll y" , she'll always think that she can talk you out of 'y' later or that she didn't really 'x' - always some words from her end. Remember, as men, we don't TALK about it, we BE about it.
Where the likes fellas. I say it all the time. Never argue because you wouldn't argue with a man it would be a fight so walk away
She doesn't have any permanent partner, because she has hit "the wall" already, it's not because she doesn´t want anybody, it's because nobody she likes wants her back...
Can’t believe the dude married her after the affair trip . Paternity test the kid , let her go on her trip and get a private investigator to get the proof start making arrangements
Trash! My goodness!
Man I cannot believe you gaslit yourself into believing she didn't cheat after you caught her in multiple lies, you don't need hard evidence when it is so obvious what ypu heard. Everything that went wrong is on you, you knew she cheated nut let it slide. She failed as a girlfriend and she certainly wouldn't succeas a wife. I am glad you at least was willing to check her on her crap as a husband.
So the real heroes are the Pi... God bless them!
Idk why people still get married when no matter how big of an a-hole he was or no matter how perfect of a husband u are there's still a chance she'll go back to her ex bc "they're just friends" smfh
Courageous guy. 304 girl
Good video
I bet the dude she cheated with is married and she was screwing him before the marriage. Glad at least the kid was his. Ues, every girls trip she wenton wS a. cheating trip. I also am prettysure her friends ex had. PI way h her that cheating trip Nd that is why they broke up. His wife was going to claim ignorance on that because it would expose her as a cheater also.
He didn’t question for a second why his son was okay to go but he wasn’t invited????????🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Shes been cheatiing for years
So you’re was cheating before you still marry her lol. Why do men get marry why don’t you just stay with her without getting married
@@Heartstompkid why don’t people just say it’s my wife or husband without contracting yourself to the person and taking half your stuff
It's the traditional thing to do but the problem is.....there aren't any traditionally loyal women 😂
OP, you never should have trusted her, let alone marry her. But like they say: When You Play With Fire, You Get Burned.
op is a goofball.
Marriage is dead…..amen…