Does Van Life REALLY Suck?! Stepping OUT of Your Comfort Zone!
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
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In this thought-provoking video, we dive deep into the world of van life and the perceptions surrounding it. Is van life truly as challenging as some portray it to be, or is it simply a matter of stepping out of our comfort zone? Join us as we explore the reasons behind why some individuals decide to quit van life and the societal conditioning that might play a role in our perceptions. Get ready to challenge your beliefs and explore the idea that stepping out of your comfort zone might just lead to a more fulfilling life.
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This is so spot on. I'm 77 and I was getting kind of fearful of leaving my house. Well, prices skyrocketed and I couldn't do enough work to keep up rent. I saw it coming so I started transforming a shuttle bus and here I am today in Quartzsite. It was painful giving away or selling everything I worked for in the last 30 years after building up again after divorce. When it was finished I was free. Scared, but free. Now, after a couple months, I'm still a little scared but feeling great. Don't have to worry about the lawn, gas and electric going up all the time, on and on. I no longer am living to societies expectations, and it has freed my mind and relieved most all my stress. No old age home for me, than you.
Good for you brother, Way to go. We did 21 months in our 1995 class B in beautiful La Jolla, California. Getting through a few organizational things before eagerly getting back to that life pretty soon, but with lots of longer distances for seeing the many great places in the west we have yet to go to. More true adventure awaits, God willing.
Old mechanic.
Little has changed from the very old "Living in a van down by the river"
Lot of these "New" campers + Glampers think they pioneered this stuff lol
Just don't get caught up in the whole "Solar power" nonsense.
Solar,is small scale like vans+ RVs is very extremely weak actual steady working amperage.
Comparing solar to a gasoline generator,is like comparing a mouse to a elephant,it's basically a failure,which many of these newbies are waking up to every day....
Don't fall for solar, but it's a great way to charge your cell phone, IF the suns out 😃
Maybe travel with a little group of people who are also living van life, so you don't feel scared or lonely.
Another great video Bob and I absolutely love where you're at the background is beautiful
As a retired truck driver I miss seeing the country. I hated driving a semi, but loved driving around the country. We thought we would travel the country in our pickup camper, but brain cancer had different ideas. For those of you doing van life, enjoy. Wish we could be there with you. God bless.
Sending prayers your way❤
Get better brother. The world needs you. ❤🙏
Driver, you kick that cancers ass. You can do it. Merry Christmas and happy new year.
Wish you could to, heart hugs to you 💜
I hope the cancer is now in remission. God bless!
I’ve had a few things starting out that sucked in my van life but I knew going in that there would be a learning curve. But that was part of the draw for me is figuring those problems and dealing with it. At 67 I’m doing really well in my van life! Cheers!😊thanks Bob😊
Respect from Dave in lreland....i am 52 going to try it soon u are a role model sir Happy new year
I am from Wisconsin and 61. Living in Florida now. Planning for my escape to life on the road! Good for you!
65 and over 5 years into it. It has some good points and more than a few bad. A good place to park at night and dealing with the weather can be a real problem. Getting pretty tired of it myself. Of course owning or renting real estate has it's problems too.
Hello from a fellow WI van dweller!
yay, Wisconsin! I'm 72, been at this 3 yrs & I love it! Going into my 3rd yr as horse camp host for OR state parks, which is BEST way to spend retirement, esp on limited SSB. Can't afford space rent on $1100/monthly, but I've got the best looking front yard that changes every 4-6 months & unlimited electricity, water, sewer, laundry facilities, along with the greatest group of dedicated co-hosts living RV or van life!
This is the PERFECT video to watch for the coming year. I have so many plans for 2024 to step outside of my comfort zone. One of my favorite quotes that pushed me is from Benjamin Franklin “Many people die at twenty five and aren't buried until they are seventy five” ♥️
Great quote! Thanks for sharing! I'm 72 & still blazing trails at Oregon state parks as camp host, going into my 3rd yr as solo lady van lifer... Happy trails, Ms. CharLee
For me, the process of getting rid of the “stuff” was satisfying and liberating. It was satisfying to see the objects that had served me well go on to serve someone else. Along with the physical house cleaning came a personal house cleaning. I decided what and who I wanted in my life and jettisoned all the rest. I found peace! I found a new comfort zone in my own heart that doesn’t rely on my physical space. I can be anywhere and my comfort zone is there with me.
Very well said Gail! I am in the process of donating my "stuff" as of this writing. I also found that peace and not afraid.
@Gail-gf7km- I always looked at Nomads as hippies on wheels. The hippies from the 60s got rid of the consumer mentality . These material items keep us locked down and staying at home to protect it all. The government wants us to be on the grid and paying taxes. Watching T.V and being on social media looking at other people live their lives is such a waste. People want Van life and 100% non failure rate.
@@LisaLightning Everyone's situation is different, you have to do what works for YOU. Maybe you can put some things in storage for now and figure that part of it out later. Just factor in the storage cost and don't make things stressful or complicated for yourself. Also there are all types of vehicles. There are vans made for wheelchairs etc. Figure out what you need and do the research to find what vehicle has it or who can build it for you. There are disabled people out there. Listen to their stories. Maybe get in contact with Bob or another seasoned van lifer like Gloria on Wheels and get a personal consultation. There is a plan for everyone. Like Bob said we can't let things hold us back from truly living.
Sometimes; living in a house can suck too. We need to choose happiness wherever we are so we can truly begin to live. ❤
Exactly
I've had to settle back down in one spot due to health but I LOVED being a van dweller! edit:
Lived in my van for 5 years on purpose ...I knew my health was waning and I wanted this experience and adventure of traveling the entire USA!
Very rewarding!
Life isn't supposed to be easy all the time. Finding your purpose can be challenging and scary but also exciting and fun. Thank you for all the wisdom you bring to the world Bob. You definitely found your purpose, and your kindness has helped so many.
In 2 weeks I’ll start my 4th year in my travel trailer & I haven’t been happier or more comfortable. I’ve always had a deep craving for adventure. I love it. I will admit it’s not always great doing it alone. It would make things easier & sometimes more enjoyable with a partner, but I don’t ever want to give this up. I’m seeking a new purpose now that I’m a widow & the kids are grown & gone. I think when people are considering this nomadic lifestyle it would be easier if they were able to just ease into it over a period of time with multiple trips. To work out their kinks & figure out what works best for them. I tent camped from the time I was 7 months old & have a craving for nature that won’t quit. I think always having had that camping life made the transition easy for me.
Good for you! Safe travels ♥️
Do you ever hook up with caravans for company? Do you spend more time boondocking or staying in RV parks?
I agree. I plan on easing into it when I start. I want to go out a few months at a time and be able to learn. I won't have a partner, but I haven't for a good while now anyway.
That's an encouraging comment. Thank you. I'm not planning to live full time ever... at this point... but one never knows. I'm planning a four month trip in 2025 and plan to practice in 2024 with shorter outings. I am nervous/excited as I'll be going alone... solo female... across Canada. I have traveled alone for years but refer to myself as a ten day girl because the thing that always calls me back is my studio. Knowing that, I'm fitting one into my 13' Boler. Determined to make it work. This trip is on my bucket list. I'm 61.
@@InTheStudioWithMyrna I get it! Sounds like you have a good solid plan. I just turned 63 & have met many solo women on this journey. Wish you all the best!!
If you’re unaccustomed to your own company this might not be the life for you. But if you’re even a little adventurous.. Take the plunge 🥰
But van life could teach one to become a-ccustomed to one's self.
Now 67 and have been watching Bob videos for about 10 years.. Got some health issues and a couple New ones.. I Still want to try and Live Life Like Bob!! Still My Dream.. I'm Very Sure I'll get Started in 2024 , I'm Not Scared, just trying to get organized.. You're Amazing Bob!!
Am not a van lifer now..but listening to a hospice nurse list the most common regrets when people reach the end..were ..working all the time, not spending time with family and friends and not doing what they loved. Took my first, solo car camping trip this year at 72. 6000 miles and 45 days later with lots of uncertainties and learning experiences along the way, I am filled with excitement and fulfillment months later. I only have to look at photos I took to bring the feeling back. I can't express how unfortunate it is to let your fears of "suckiness" keep you from experiencing mind blowing scenery and just plain quiet time in nature. My biggest regret is that I didn't figure it out sooner..did that work, work, work thing. Thank you, Bob..you started me on this path years ago watching your videos.
Beautiful! There will always be suck, but there will also always be something to make it worthwhile, right?
I have never once thought it sucked.
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Some of us have an open heart but are stuck in a prison.
You hit the nail on the head Bob. No better way to say how we are stuck in the matrix and how to escape it. For those people craving freedom, This is it.
I agree. Everything sucks if a person believes that, but living on the road can be amazing and the freedom is worth it. Everything in life needs to be practiced with gratitude and confidence. If a person has that base, all things can be conquered.
I'm working on it, you all sound so sensible - I wouldn't want to come out there and have to depend on others TOO much. That would defeat the Purpose. Stay safe Y'all.
Amen! Isn't it amazing the multitude of good things that come when we have grateful hearts? PTL
Well said!
I've been at it for 8 months now and figuring it out as I go.
You nailed it, Bob. Conform, produce, consume. I'm so sick of this life. I'm 60 now and hoping to sell my sticks/bricks and head out. Once I made this decision I feel more trapped than ever and waiting is becoming unbearable! I need a way to get free sooner! Thanks for being so informative and showing me the way I can finally be free!!!
If people didn't produce, where would your vehicle come from? And your fuel? And your food?
I guarantee you are consuming food+ fuel non stop lol
Several months ago, me & my daughter decided to give vanlife a try. I started video documenting my journey from hermit in a stationary tin can to vanlifer in a mobile tin can. I have been stagnating for nearly ten years. Kinda of just waiting to die. When mini-me suggested vanlife, it scared me but then grew on me. We have always been a camping & adventuring family, so I decided to that I *would* leave my comfort zone, travel with my daughter & see my friends & my country before I’m truly infirm. I decided that, yes, I’m 70 yo, but I may as well give this a go, even if it’s my last hurrah! Lol.
My daughter embarked on her journey last week! But alas! I am still ‘grounded’ due to circumstances. However, I expect to join her early in 2024! Once my home sells, the mobile part of my journey begins. Then I will release my journey journal for public viewing.
Your video hit home, Bob. You are describing me, except I don’t know yet if ‘van life sucks!’ Lol. Thank you!
I'm sure you feel the same, but traveling with your adult child is also a special kind of magic that #vanlife gives us too 🥰
Any updates? Have you shed the sticks and bricks yet?
I did truck camper living for two years by choice and really had enough. Being bothered by law enforcement was starting to be a pain in the butt and short showers to conserve water my two main gripes. It was definitely different and Im glad I tried it. I know now that I can surely live with a lot less.
When I decided to do this, after reading Bob’s blog years ago, I was nervous, because I knew I would be uncomfortable. There would be heat and humidity, mosquitoes, and other bugs, and that had me worried. Until I realized that I was actually afraid of simply being uncomfortable! We have gotten so spoiled in this society that the thought of discomfort is actually frightening. When I realized what an overreaction that was, I decided I wanted this life enough to figure it out. I went to my first RTR, rented a car and borrowed a tent, to make sure I really wanted to do it. After four days of some considerable discomfort, I still wanted this. And that’s when I knew I was willing to put up with a little discomfort in order to have the freedom and pleasure of life on the road. I did it for eight years full-time, with many big and small problems, but never regretted it. I have settled down, but I miss it and I’m planning to get back on the road, at least part time, as soon as I can get another rig
Great message!! When people have a purpose in life, it really makes for a happy life. Its so easy to stay home, sit in front of the TV and slowly die, mentally. 'Purpose' is EVERYTHING!
You give a realistic picture. Your wonderful commenters have given me hints, tips & ideas. Anyone who thinks it’s going to be "fantastic" isn’t paying attention to people’s showering & toilet issues. The woods are my friend. Gas prices aren’t 😁. I LOVE my Subaru Crosstrek that I LIVE in. I LOVE my life. I’m old enough to not care what people think. I advise everyone to practice first. If you think it’s a possibility, live in your home but pretend it’s your vehicle. Measure your water. Pee in yogurt container. Shower however you expect to in vehicle.Turn off tv. Stay outside. I exclusively used my camp stove, Goal Zero & fridge for vehicle. Did this for 2 months. Slept in vehicle for a couple weeks in driveway. Watched what I wore. How much I spent. I’m not ever going to be a "sell it all" & hit the road person. I’m wary & cautious. If you think it’s cheap-it’s not. Gas is expensive. Finding water. Finding toilets to dump waste. Finding safe spots to park. BUT you WILL find yourself & be surprised at how strong you are. Thanks Bob & the Whole Community of Nomads!☮️ *I don’t miss gutter cleaning, mowing the lawn or fixing/updating appliances. I drive by Home Depot & wave these days*
Thanks for reminding me I need to clean my gutters and rake the leaves. Lol
It's people like you that help me to get stronger. I have a small studio apt. now, and I am slowly - almost unconsciouly, re-arranging my things in van, small rv size. i thought I might get an "easy chair" to read and relax in when I first moved in. I miss the full moon and stars in the desert, and I want it back. I'm working on it, thanks for the post.
Great advice to try living the way you would in a van, but at home first, especially regarding bathroom issues. I know that's going to be my biggest challenge in a minivan. I'm confident that I'll figure out what will work for me, though!
Change is always painful but the results are well worth the trials and tribulations. A new life can be had and enjoyed for those willing to make the change. Thank you Bob for all of the information and knowledge you so lovingly share.❤
Yes Van life isn't always easy. Van life isn't always a choice. Van life comes with a stigma. Van life also give freedom from being stagnant. Some people are envious of Van lifers. ❤😊
I don’t normally comment, but I really appreciated this. I have a quote. I go by “change comes only ,when the pain of staying the same , is greater than the pain of
change”.
Great message as always. The only point I would like to share is that I think people can still get out of their comfort zone without doing vanlife. This can be done through traveling, changing career, starting a new activity, etc. How we do it it’s personal and circunstancial. What Bob shares it’s one of many great ways that are available.
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I agree, can life is one way not THE way. I read that couples who get out of their comfort zone together, like playing a new game or trying a zip line, bond stronger. Need both safety and novelty to thrive.
Well said! I did not watch/listen to much of the video as I get annoyed by a "blaming of societal norms" on a personal acceptance of those "norms" or whatever. I made several conscious lifestyle choices for myself 38 plus years ago.: 1 person self employed "shop" vs "corporate", small home (not tiny, but small), RV for work/travel. Overall, I chose relatively simple ... I also chose to remain primarily single and to not have children which I am aware allowed me the freedom to make some of the choices that I made. As you (@ydsamples) notes ... nomadic life/van life is one option of a simpler life style but not the only option. AND, all options whether simple or more complex have their own challenges as well as consequences. FWIW I am 68 and will fulfill my last self employment development contract in January 2024. And then on to ???? I have some ideas :)
even downsizing or getting rid of 'stuff' and simplifying
I spent my FIRST night in my van last night. Still navigating. So glad I decided to do this. I’ve got plenty to work out but I’m in it to win it!!!
It takes a special person to be able to do this bob and you are that special person. Hoping to meet you one day.
Wise, Bob... always so wise. I think many of the "van life sucks" videos are produced for two reasons. People bought a fantasy to escape realty and expected that they would make a video or two and have the Instagram life that they saw on UA-cam. Others utilized the title as click bate. Both sadden me.
I'm a part-time van dweller since 2018, however I was great at conforming and consuming. I wasn't very happy as a child and I was determined to use whatever talents that I had to change my life (for me it was through education). I was successful in this endeavor and I worked harder and harder and then filled my physical and emotional exhaustion with stuff. I loved my career, and I felt that I did do something positive in the world. However, no one thing is enough.
I can do almost everything thing in my van that I can do in sticks and bricks, I just need to do them differently. In return, there is a freedom and a simplicity. I'm not worrying about the lawn or the water heater, I'm living life. Is it an Instagram life? Nope, that is a fake life.
When the pandemic hit van life became trendy. Trends come and go and trend seekers move on to the next "great thing." Your videos allow van dwellers to have pride in an alternate lifestyle that society shames. Thank you.
Well still have to worry about the water heater unless you are really roughng it!
Yes, I have seen several channels that I otherwise enjoy using similar titles as clickbait. It's disappointing.
Thank you.
Van life sounds like regular life. Nothing is perfect and life is what you make it. But that Mountain View in the background. Wow! So beautiful. It looks like a Bob Ross painting.
Happiness is a state of mind. If you don't have your mind in order then you will not be happy anywhere. So many people try to change their external world to fix their internal world only to find that their internal problems remain. Do the inner work and you will be happy anywhere.
I always love your words of wisdom! (Thoreau) Simplify, simplify, simplify. (Wayne Dyer) Don't die with your music still in you.
I fully agree on challenging yourself to grow. Whenever I'm wanting to try something new and I'm scared I ask myself this question: What is more painful trying this thing out, or regret?
I have been living in Costa Rica for the last 20yrs worked hard bought and sold 3 houses all paid in full helped family with car's and motorcycles and much more having good times and bad times But I'm starting to collect a small SSI check monthly starting in Feb 2024 and I am going to get an old cheap Van and make it realiable to get around and me and my old pug are going to travel around living a Free Van Nomad Life seeing all the Nature Beauty Thanks for you Videos
There's nothing wrong with having a home, working and saving to support one's self and family. There are so many ways to find adventure and explore other than full-time van life. I am now retired and living part-time in my van, but it's a Winnebago Class B and I have the finances to travel however I want and wherever I want. That Social Security so many seniors depend on is dependant on younger people working, so don't knock it.
I agree.... It doesn't have to be...All or Nothing....
I suggest people try traveling....
Maybe a Train across the Country & into Canada....
A Riverboat down the Mississippi River....
& See how much you Love Coming Home....
Exactly. Somebody has to produce. It is what gives us purpose. I occasionally camp. I'm also glad to get home. There's nothing wrong with that.
Change is hard for a lot of people, especially a big change like that.
in the 1989 movie "Parenthood" there is a scene where Mary Steenburgen and Steve Martin play parents watching a disaster of a children's play. the camera shot of them simulates a rollercoaster. one parent is laughing and thoroughly enjoying the ride. the other is frozen in Terror with each twist and turn and sudden drop of the rollercoaster!!!! life IS a rollercoaster: can you enjoy the ride?
i think about the explorers leaving Tahiti. in their dugout canoes; leaving one of the most beautiful places on earth, just to see what ELSE is out there.
I think that a lot of the 'van life sucks' videos are a reaction to overly romanticised portrayals of van / tiny home life in recent times. A reality check rather than a condemnation of van life as a whole. Your channel presents a much, much more realistic picture of van life than a lot of others (which is why I love it).
Agreed!
Ironically, the more I watch other vanlifers/RVlifers videos, the more I know what path I want my life to take next.
Watching all these videos, yours and so many others out there (both positive and negative) has only convinced me that RVlife is going to be the next leg of my life journey.
I know nothing can prepare anyone 100% for all the challenges and pitfalls along the way, but isn't that true for any way of life? Isn't that true for any change?
Life is funny that way, there are always going to be new challenges, new directions, and new solutions for everything. That's how humans evolved, by meeting those challenges and either learning to live with them or overcome them.
I think at my age, I'm 57, I've learned that my "comfort zone" is wherever I choose to make it. I can be comfortable in an apartment (sort of), on a farm, in a house...I've been comfortable even in a shed! (Long story there on that last one, but it was actually FUN!)
I've raised my son, he still has to figure out his "comfort zone" without Mom providing it for him, but that's his journey. I've done my job, I've given him the tools, he has to choose to use them.
When my RVlife path starts, it will be on my own.
Honestly, I can't wait!
Well said....I can tell.....you,ll be 100% ,successful
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It has taken me a couple of years to really work out a "system" for all my daily rituals but I'm really starting to feel at ease in this life. Good luck on your journey, I think you will love it.
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Five years on the road and wouldn't change a thing. Currently in van, but started in my SUV in Nov 2018. I remember that first winter, am temps were in the 20s, and as I'm warming hands with my cuppa joe, I'm thinking "I would still rather be here than working that job that was slowly killing me ". Thanks Bob for the inspiration and insight. Each year gets easier and simpler.
Thanks Bob for your words of wisdom. I am leaving my comfort zone in Senior Apartments... I'm dieing here.😢
5 things human beings cannot live without:
1) meaning
2) satisfaction
3) freedom
4) identity
5) hope
Also Shelter ( vans and RVs count)
We need food everyday
We need money
Some kind of social interactions every week
I am 53 now and been doing the nomad thing all my adult life. The only issues I sometimes have is getting water to bathe. I must say when I do have a hot shower, it’s a luxury for me. Unfortunately I chose to stay on the east coast my whole life so I experience the four seasons. I drive a semi also so that has been a blessing to get a paycheck and free place to live. With my freedom, I’ve been able to travel all over the world.. that is the most important thing in my life experiences not monetary items.
I am so blessed, Bob, that I get to hear your heart sing!! Thank you for being there all these years. I'm sure you've been an inspiration, and even a comfort, for many people.
How many people actually get to live a life full of adventure and Tavel and live to experience different cultures most people just exist
Your talk was better than any Greek philosopher in the world
Van life is probably easy compated to how I do it. I carry a room size tent with me in my car, traveling between forrest. I have been to 16 National Forrest in the last seven months. Each time I move, I have to find a spot and set up the tent.
While it is likely harder than living in a van, I love it, and plan to do it for years. When I'm out running errands and getting supplies, a can't wait to get home to my tent to have a cup of coffee or a meal. It is definitely a confort zone for me.
I hope I run into Bob sometime in my travels. He's a good man and I would just like to shake his hand.
I love van life so far. Sure, there are many challenges and always decisions to make. Been on the road now for 5 months and I thank Bob for all the videos that inspired my decision to hit the road at 65. It is exactly like life, good days, bad days, really good days, and some really bad days. To me, a bad day out here beats a good day in the city where I used to live, any time. EDIT: Here is another quote from me: "If not now...when?"
Great message Bob. What holds me back is health disabilities. Need a repeat knee replacement after 22 years. Need the other knee replaced and two hip replacements. I'm almost 74 have been a widow for 17 years. Took my parents in one at a time on Hospice, was a full time caregiver for my husband until his passing. My time may be running out. My son 45 works full time and his wife ....but they camp continuesly every chance they get and will until they retire. I admire them and all the sights they have witnessed. Great advice and information... keeps my dreams of travel alive. Thanks Bob. Sincerely from Debbie and Dexter-Dog 🐶 🐾 my sweet tiny rescued Chihuahua companion living a quiet crafty life in southern California.
It doesn't have to be....
All or Nothing....
You can Travel throughout the USA & Canada by Train....
It's Gorgeous & you can chose how much Comfort you want a long the way.....
Take a Riverboat ride Down the Mississippi River....
& You may find that you've Enjoyed it All but still Love Coming Home...
Enjoy....
Never once did I regret converting 2 Chevy 3500 15 passenger van, into my camper vans.
I’m really hopeful I will feel incredible peace and the person who has been recoiling inside of me can come back out. I’ve never ever fit into “the American dream”. It never even sounded like a good idea to me. I’m very happy to give up the few traditional comforts I currently take advantage of. I’m hopeful to maybe get a little plot of land to homestead on someday. Land I own instead of the bank. However, I believe a mobile life will be ideal as the earth is dying
I am very guilty of being stuck in my comfort zone.
So am I. I'm slowly dieing without living my dreams
Beautiful, well said, every person who dares to live true to themselves, understands exactly what you said and read, this doesn’t just apply to van life, the Nomadic way of life, I’m a homesteader, I live rural and I love it! I have friends I made from school who live in the city and they asked me how can I stand to live as they say “ in the middle of Nowhere?!” But I wouldn’t trade my Nowhere with its New challenges everyday for their office jobs, I would take my thrift store shopping- looking through the junk stores for a undiscovered treasure, over there big fancy malls any day, it’s not easy homesteading we have bears that try’s to get to the honey bees, bobcats, coyotes, that’s always after my hens and bunnies, and in the beginning they seemed to win more than I did but Not now, I didn’t give up I learned from my mistakes I love my mountain hikes and beautiful sunsets and I enjoy not being with crowds of people, it’s challenging but I’m always learning, it feels like I’m really living, and there’s pure joy in that for me, it’s peaceful here and my soul is happy. 😊❤
WOOHOOO BOB! I just got back from a 1-day road trip (in the car) with my dog, I wanted to get away for the day after I'd prayed to God for a sign about selling my house (my comfort zone) & living and traveling in my van! I just got back home & got on YT, there you were! Hallelujah! I'm a retired ER nurse. During the last 2 years I've lost my mom, dad & sister-in-law to " you know what" and have been sitting in my comfort zone dying ever since. I have a 1999 B190 Airstream van I've paid off, she's sitting there patiently waiting for me. My old rebel-rouser self has been stifled down to a barely heard hum. Deep down I knew one day, one fine day, I was gonna walk out there, get in and GO! I've been buying things all along, and I have all I need to just go, just needed a shove! Thanks for the shove! God answers prayers! Love you Bob! Xoxoxox
Wow! What a sad, but neat post. I'm the same way. It's as if we need approval from the universe to pursue our dreams. Wishing you lots of happiness on your new adventure! 😊
Probably a good idea to hang onto your house,and see if you like road life.
Old ex multi multi million mile semi driver.
As a lot of these " Van lifers" quickly find out,the road can+ will chew you up + spit you out,i n a trail of broken parts + shattered dreams.
Ease into it....Se if you have what it takes.
@@Bubba24-ne4zp I'm sorry.
Bob, I'm turning 60 in February, I've had a triple bypass and now I'm in congestive heart failure. I've wanted to see our beautiful country so bad, seeing you with the beautiful backdrop made me almost cry. I'm working hard on my health and I'm promising myself that soon I'm at least going to take my 2008 van that we've built and travel, even if it's only in my own state of Ohio. You're one of the best, thank you!!
Do it.
Live life now.
XO
As Red said from Shawshank, "Get busy Living, or get busy dying!
Nice. Fully agree. I experienced this 1st hand in my 50's: making 6 zeros but compulsively spending it to keep myself distracted from the misery of my comfort zone. Started watching u and others and designed the decade of my 60's predicated on adventure and new experiences. At 61 I have my Van, a new career, and a yr left of debt reduction. I'm attending WRTR for the 1st time after 4 yrs of wishing, and I'm so excited about my life!
I needed to hear this today. I'm almost 65, and I'll be retiring in 2024. My man (a city boy who has never camped), and I are preparing to become full-time nomads---a dream I've had for over a decade. This past week, I've been worried about all the creature comforts I'll give up, like plenty of hot running water, and my washer & drier. I know I want a more adventurous life, but I also know it will be harder in many ways. It's daunting to imagine getting so far out of my comfort zone, and I'm scared. So, thanks, Bob, for the much needed encouragement.👍
You know, I never felt Bob made it look easy. It's obvious he believes in this lifestyle, he keeps his interviews upbeat and positive, but what I've gotten for these CRVL videos is pragmatism: This is how you deal with poop. This is a way to set up your rig. This is how you get mail. I live out of a minivan and, yeah, it sucks on occasion...but vehicle life is an amazing experience, empowering in ways I couldn't have imagined. Yeah, some people drop out and allow themselves bitterness ("It sucks! This is why I left!"). Some of us take a break from time to time, return to the stick and brick for awhile, but always return to a life on the road and happily. It isn't always easy, but it is a deeply enriching experience...
This video made me feel like you were speaking to me. I am disabled. One of conditions is agoraphobia. My anxiety disorder makes me a nervous driver. I struggle anytime things don’t go as planned. So many reasons that nomad life would be so difficult at first. But…that agoraphobia is the ever shrinking comfort zone where my life gets smaller and smaller. I definitely feel like I am sitting here waiting to die. Things will only get worse if I don’t make changes. Where if I leave here maybe it will be worse at first , but it could turn into something really great. Thank you for your motivational words. Hope is something that can be hard to come by
Sending you strength and the best vibes! ☀️ 💪 🌙
Want to know yourself and grow, live in a van or rv for a year, it's amazing how much you learn :) And if you manage to be comfortable all seasons, then extending the journey becomes more easier by the year
You have to know yourself and what gives you peace and fulfillment. Some people are more at peace in nomadic life. It’s their comfort zone. Because for whatever reason the sticks and brick world is more difficult for them. My meaning and purpose more relates to trying to give back to others for the blessings I have received. Supporting my family and friends and working through my church. It makes me sing. I am very much a part of life.
I respect that everyone has a path. Every path has equal value. I enjoy watching videos of those that follow a nomadic life. It expands my horizon to see how others choose to live. I respect their decisions. I am also very grateful to those who keep the basic chores of this world running.
I don’t think stick n bricks are difficult for them as you say, so much as they see the freedom of living out of their van, rv, car whatever mode they chose because they are living outside. They spend more time out of it then in it. Where when you have a house you go in and are in there safe and sound until you get up and repeat the next day. Being out of your dwelling more than inside allows one to be in tune with nature, spirituality at a whole different level. You meet so many people and hearts connect deeply. Keep in mind we are talking about those that made an intentional decision to live this way, not those that found themselves homeless. Two totally different living situations.
That’s not exactly what I meant. I don’t think choosing to live as a nomad is any more spiritually freeing than living in a house. It’s not a higher goal. You choose a path of life fulfillment. Everyone’s is different. Some people have chosen a life of service to others. Some people are happy sitting on the porch watching the kids play. And I do think that nomadic life is some people’s comfort zone. I like Bob. I’ve watched him well before the pandemic. But it sounded judgmental to me. Being on the road doesn’t make you sing. Being you makes you sing. I raised four children and have eight grandchildren. To not be a part of their daily lives- to not be connected deeply to them- my song would die. Do we now have to conform to being nomads?
Bob, your channel and channels like yours is softening the learning curve for all of us. Today's video can be applied to anything you want to grow at not just van life. Reading or "hearing" between the lines, apply words of wisdom to what it is YOU want to do, not what others want you to do.
Amen
The quote by Anaïs Nin hit me because recently I wrote a revelation that occurred to me: “So much of our misery is borne out of remaining too long at a waypoint.” Hers gives a lot of perspective and makes realize everything is a waypoint if you let it be, meaning there’s so much more beyond it that can only be reached by pushing forward.
Bob, I want to thank you for the learnings and also for setting the example of highlighting female thinkers. It’s so rare that a man doesn’t solely reference other men. I think many people who watch your videos probably can’t recognize the deep authenticity with which you live your life, but some of us do see you. And I applaud you for it. 👏🏼
Living in a stationary white box does feel like death. For the year and a half I car camped a while back, life felt very easy actually. I think I was in a near constant state of awe. I just reembarked and this time in a teardrop, and it’s been much harder since I didn’t have to manage plumbing and the other responsibilities of a camper before. However, it’s all been worth it. It’s the most free you’ll ever be.
Such a powerful message, Bob!!
Some years ago, when I was still working… a student asked me about my volunteer work ( I volunteered at the local dog pound)as I was talking; she said, “wow, working with animals is really a passion for you…. I want something like that in my life. How do you KNOW what your passion IS?”
I thought for a moment, and said, just TRY something that you have an interest in… give it a fair chance… if it your purpose, or passion, you’ll know; because your heart WILL SING.”
This is the beautiful truth about our brief pilgrimage here on Earth.
And I’m so glad you found your passion, and that YOUR heart sings !💕
Imagine a world where that was happening for EVERYONE….😍
Your message is even powerful. Thank You ! 😍
Anyone remember Marty Souffer's Wild America? I sincerely wish Vanlife hosted by Wells was a weekly national broadcast (public television). I am not being facetious. I love this man.
I’m loving van life after the first 6 months at age 70. My only issues are lack of funds means I can’t explore (drive) as much as I want, and any repairs are very stressful (and with an 18 yo minivan, I need several expensive repairs); and I wish I had a bit more space.
I do my van living virtually, all over the world. Meanwhile, I have a very comfortable life in a nice bricks and sticks Texas home. Therefore, I have the best of all worlds.
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I discovered van life 20 years ago. I tried it for a year, and have watched them on YT since 2012. I've seen thousands and van lifer's come and go on UA-cam. Very few of them make it more than a few months or a few years.
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Van life is like getting into the Army. It's a whole different mindset and world. (I did the US Army for 6 years). It's easy if you go with the flow, obey the culture rules, and let the weather be your friend. It also helps to have plenty of money. Van life also can remind me of the Greek who to had to push a boulder up a mountain. The next day, he had to do it all over again.
The beauty of my present life is stability, predictability, and total safety. Already today, I have been to Turkey, the UK, North Carolina and Arizona. How interesting.
Now, I'm off the war in Ukraine and Israel.
Have an excellent day!
Life is what you make of it !
Thanks Bob! My dreams were wrapped up in something that died a decade ago and the ol heart hasn’t sung much since then. Your heartfelt words really resonate.
Same, same. Though not as long ago yet.
Always enjoy Cody ambling thru in the background. He’s got it figured out. Food , clothing and shelter . That’s it.
Remember guys, Pain is temporary, but giving up is a lifetime!! Thanks Bob for that lesson just before the New year.!! A new year resolutions!! A 15 minute lesson, but a lifetime lesson learn, trust and love it!! Optimistic or pessimistic!! It's all up to you on how to live your life!!
You dog just hit the road on his own. :) Just giving an example of how to break free. I needed this today. Thanks. I am living in a senior's apartment that is just a three sided cube. I can't even see the sky from here.
I recently passed my one-year/10,000 miles, 17 states mark. It def doesn't suck. I love it. I've had some very miserable days and nights, yes. I don't have a build, heater, A/C, nor most of the other accoutrements of vanlife. I have my reasons, which I won't bore you with here. I manage quite well without all those things. I've been wanting to do this for a very long time, but the timing had to be right. So here I am, out in the wilds of America, seeing and experiencing things I otherwise would not ever have been able to. Finding a job with ease on the road has been my #1 challenge and stressor. I did not start out with a bunch of money, and am living on a shoestring. I need work but few places offer temporary housing, which is a must for me. Otherwise, I'm in heaven out here on the road. Thanks, Bob, for all you've done and continue to do for us nomads. We are a special breed. God bless you all out there..🙏✝️💜💚
This brought up so many thoughts...I am a nomad, year two. I LOVE IT, I LOVE THIS VIDEO. Im amazed at so called Nomads who have created a "comfort zone" in their vehicles...you are so right!😊
My last two years on the road doing craft shows, I gave up hotels. $19,000 in hotel fees were replaced with 26 cents an hour to run my Toyota for air conditioning, snd heat. I ran my Toyota 18 hours a day. Went to the places I lived between shows, and had the time of my life. Museums, Greenfield Village, Cape Cod after Labor Day. It was pure joy. In fact, and my wife found out she can retire, I wasn’t gonna make our product anymore, she looked at me and said, “ I’m sorry, I’m not making light switch covers anymore. Your job is over, you’re retired too”. I was 59. Had she looked, she could have pulled the plug two years earlier being a widow.
And I slept in the front cab of a Toyota Tacoma. Are used camping foam to make the bucket seat level and comfortable. It was glorious.
For some like me, trying to just survive on Social Security and a small savings and living with Chronic Pain from Arthritis it’s not a option not to become nomadic, to live as cheaply as possible. Chasing cooler weather in the summer and warmer weather in the winter because our bodies can’t take the extremes on either end. My hands and back are killing me just trying to get my house ready to sell so I will have emergency money and equip my small 6 x 12 Cargo Camper Trailer with solar & electric brakes and my 2019 F-100 with anything I can to help it’s small engine that will be struggling to getting my rig to higher altitudes. I’m afraid it’s taken me too long this year to get prepared and meet up and join a group of older Nomads to help each other out in a ( not perfect ) attempt to make life as pleasant as possible. If I can prepare everything this year before the next RTR I will be reaching out to others to to find out where to find you good folks, to begin the last chapters of my life.
I only part time in my van, but I feel safer there then anywhere! I call it my "cocoon". There are lots of windows and doors in my house where someone could come in, and I wouldn't even know it. In my van, if you try the door, I would know it immediately. Even in storms, I just hunker down in my cozy bed while it rages on outside, and fall asleep. I do keep appropriate weapons with me just in case. 63 year old female.
This video made me realize I'm being held back by making my "Comfort Zone" my first priority instead of my "Dreams". I'M CHANGING THAT TODAY!!
I just started van life back in October. Yeah, there are things that suck, but there are things that suck about living in a home. I was living with my parents and I didn't get along with my dad. It was a toxic relationship for the most part. The worst things I've experience in living in a van so far are still better than living with my dad.
Plus, slowly, Im figuring things out and I'm making progress to fixing some of the things that suck. For example, besides using public toilets (which is fine for me) I don't like using my toilet when I'm not near a public one. It's difficult to do in my van since it's a minivan and there's not much space (Im a pretty big guy) and it's cold outside at night right now and people nearby my area. So, I'm going to be soon buying one of those privacy tents that are like a portable outhouse. It'll also give me a place to shower. My van is also cluttered, so I'm going to set up my tent and reorganize and try to sell what I haven't been using.
In general, I have been liking living in a van. It's got it's issues, but Im making it work so far. Other issues will probably come up, but I'll deal with them when they come. Living in a van has let me get out of the boring and frustrating cycle I was in living in a house.
So glad you did this video because it was needed. Always consider the source... everyone views our world differently based on their experiences and their eyes. Van life might not be for some because they don't have the adventure gene. But I hope if some viewers are about to change their lives but fear is stopping them, this video is exactly what they needed to hear. Thank you for this!
Another obstacle- spouses or family.
I simply .. IGNORED....BUT...I ALWAYS HAVE.....VERY INDEPENDENT THINKER...INTERESTING,as I view Four Walls as a cage.. BORING.CONFORM?...NEVER
I’m going to the van life when I retire..Wish I can do it sooner..
One big concern of mine is other people. I love the idea of being in different places and wild places. But the thought of leaving a van home and possessions necessary for survival alone where it could all be robbed worries me. I want to be able to step away for a while and not fear disaster when I get back.
Thank you for this. It really resonates with me. I'm in the UK, I'm disabled and in the process of trying to get things sorted so I can spend more time in my campervan. You've said exactly what I'm feeling - how important it is to get out there and DO things, have experiences, make memories, even if the prospect is daunting. The only way to find out what we can do... is to do it.
Love your channel. ❤
It’s a great way to live.
Well-framed and stated. One cannot move from a 3500 sq ft home into a camper van (or anything other than a 3500 sq ft home) and expect to have the same 'comforts'. All of your definitions must shift, full stop. For some, they will never be ok with that. For many, it becomes the most liberating experience of their lives. What I despise is the condescension and judgement heaped on any who dare to do anything different than the herd. "Live your life", simple as that. I can't speak for anyone else, but I refuse to 'build myself a static nest to die in comfortably'. Instead I'll take my nest along with me, thank you very much.
I had an Aunt who's entire world existed within a city block in Chicago. Her apartment, her job, where she shopped, even the tavern she frequented were all within walking distance. Her sister tried taking her out to show her other parts of the world & expand her horizons, but she mostly refused to remove the blinders to look around & take any of it in. Eventually she passed away.... I don't know that she had any regrets with her life, but I kinda think that she wouldn't have known that there was anything to regret since she seemed mostly unaware of any other kind of existence she could've had.... I know from my own experience that one's career & possessions can consume their life making it nearly impossible to make any kind of a drastic change, & before you know it, it's over........ Reminds me of what this old German guy I met on a job site used to say: "Too Soon Old..... Too Late Smart".....lol
I do think that someone considering this leap needs to watch some of Bob's older videos covering emergency funds & vehicle maintenance before stranding themselves out on the road......Be smart about it.
The worst thing about vanlife is the humidity, cold and loneliness.
Greetings from rainy Scotland🚐
Bob, I watch your channel because I appreciate the wisdom and perspective you've gained through your experiences, not because of the nomad lifestyle. You are articulate and able to convey complex concepts and life lessons in a practical and applicable way. I believe that having the right attitude and balance in life, is more important that our particular living situation. Thank you.
It's a blessing for me to know that I'm far from being alone. I've much thanks to you all for sharing your "escape" stories. This July is my 63rd, and this September will the beginning of my liberation. Recently, I purchased a 2014 29" Prowler travel trailer with two slides (plenty of room and amenities). Headed to the south west, where I will continue providing chiropractic physician services while staying and "living" whenever and wherever I wish and wherever I'm needed. My four children will fly out so that we're together for a week of adventure and peace. A huge thank you and love to Bob and you all. Peace.
I imagine van life can really suck if one doesn’t have the resources to live comfortably in their vehicle; to have the money to take care of keeping the vehicle running safely. This is where HOWA is such a wonderful organization.
Here are a few other quotes I try to live by: 1) Don’t let your music die inside you” - I forget who said it.
2) “The only people who are afraid to die are those who haven’t lived their life” - May Sarton.
So true !!
I think as long as you do things that brings you joy and hapiness, it does not matter where it is. It could be exploring an amazing forest in the great outdoors or listening to your favorite classical music in your room.
Bob I can't even imagine paying rent anymore or a mortgage van life is wonderful I also am 68 can't think of going inside under the weight of all of those bills. I am so glad to see your smiling self on your videos.😊
I LOVE my comfort zone, but hey, I JUST bought a Toyota Sienna minivan that I will outfit into a camper. I plan to get out of my comfort zone for at least a month at a time. Let the adventures begin!
Can’t say I really care if van life sucks. I enjoy my van life and on the bad days I look forward to the good days which will come back. But I don’t care to try to sell others on the joy of being a nomad. Do your thing.
Many of the van life channels involve people who see it online, buy a $100k conversion, and imagine they'll support themselves by filming and posting their adventures. There's only so many times you can spend the night at Cracker Barrel, or try to be stealthy on a residential street in a densely populated area. I understand that urge to hunker down and just survive, but as you explained so well, that's a problem of our comfort zone. There's a wide world out there. My primary motivation for being a nomad is financial, but I've struggled for much of my life with depression, and I've come to the realization that much of it comes from trying to fit a societal ideal that makes me miserable. I was finally diagnosed with inattentive ADHD at nearly 60, and so much of the struggle to do the 9 to 5, year in and year out, came clear. I'm honestly terrified, but I'm more afraid of rotting where I am, safe and untested. Thanks for the timely video.
This video is going to change lives. What a gift and a blessing this man is to humanity. Thank you for all you do Bob.
Nice view Bob, I was forced to retire at 59, that was 2 years ago. I was talking to a friend at work about when he would retire, he said 2 or 3 years, he died last month. I have a small house in Oklahoma that's paid for, I bought a 2015 Toyota Sienna that I turned into my travel/camper vehicle and I plan on being in it about 3 months a year. I know sooo many boring people that never do anything or go anywhere. I have a friend who has a house for 22 years and has only been away from home 4 day in 22 years.
Of all the great videos you have produced over all these years, this one, this one is your best work. Thank you for your heart-felt message, for your honesty and for sharing all your knowledge. Thank you!
I'm in tears your video hit me to my core. Im 58 and disabled for about 5 years. Desperately trying to avoid a wheelchair. It's getting more and more impossible even with assistance to cover rent utilities food insurance fuel. I've done versions of "vanlife" although it was a ranger pickup and I was a traveling electrician. Im ditching my apt in the spring along with most the contents then im hitting the road. I never in my life have i been able to conform. Since the day I was adopted at 3yo I've been dubbed "different" with whatever amount of time left I have im living my life not what someone else thinks it should be....thank you thank you thank you for the inspiration! Maybe me n my new hound hank will see you on the road❤
Your words are totally resonating with me, I'm 59 yrs old, soon to be 60 years old in July AND
just 32 days away from hitting the road from the East Coast (Portland, Maine).
Casey, you are Not alone.
Reach out if you'd like.
Drew
The thing that held me back is that while I am an introvert I didn’t want to be lonely
love this! A philosopher once said that most people are only able to have HAPPINESS for moments here and there....and the closest thing to happiness is ADVENTURE and adventures are more easily available!