Amanda Bynes is one of the saddest former child star stories ever. She was just such a talented girl! She did great in comedy sketches. It’s just so sad.
Yeah beats me, that “old soul” trope is bullsh**t! They can have a few years as partners and after that it will be one taking care of the other for the remaining of their marriage…
As a female I think it’s sooooo weird … I keep having 23, 24, 26 year olds hit on me & I keep having to inform them I’m 31 and I like my age or older. I would consider the 26 year old but I feel like he’s not the best connection
I was a teenager around the time he started getting popular. My friends and I were in love with him after seeing "Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging". We were so psyched for the "Kick@**" movies. When we found out he got married and was pregnant with a woman in her forties when he was still a teenager we all thought it weird and wrong, but people didn't really make a fuss about it on a big scale unfortunately. So sad he wasn't able to be protected.
This is surprisingly common with young actors. :( One of my teen heartthrobs was Edward Furlong, the kid from Terminator 2, and he was in a "relationship" with his 28 year old manager when he was 14. The media just acted like "wow, lucky kid!". When an older man goes for a young girl at least society has the decency to condemn their actions, but when an older woman goes for a young boy, people seem to just look the other way.
Idk - I just cannot understand a 40 year old woman finding an 18 year old teen sexually attractive. Sure, I can appreciate someone’s beauty. But, I would never want to sleep with them or have a relationship with them. So weird.
Desperate old pervert men n women are usually still obsessed with their popular attractive crush from high school Who was way out of their league! Some become adults with a little bit of money or power & They prey on innocent naive younger people to fulfill their teenage fantasies.sick n sad but luckily it NEVER WORKS OUT LOL 😅the younger person always cheats or leaves.Eventually, I mean, if I meet you as a teenager. You have a whole decade of your 20s to grow a brain which they eventually do😅
I'm 40 and I've always been attracted to younger men--but 18 years old? Ew. That's just predatory and weird. How would you possibly have enough in common to sustain a healthy relationship?
I found that odd and bad too. I don't want him to cheat, I want him to leave her. People can cheat on a partner but that doesn't mean they break up once the other finds out or anything. I'm also worried about their kids and what they are perceiving as 'normal'. The internet is kind of like the Twilight Zone...
same thing happened to patrick dempsey and then he woke up one day and realized wtf Am I doing and got a divorce. He still admits he was looking for a mother figure
@@essies4294 I believe you can do this, subconsciously. It's more the fact that, whoever the older person is, they should probably evaluate the situation and not let it get so far.
I'm 43, I have a 21 year old son. This whole thing grossed me out. I couldn't even imagine getting pregnant at my age never mind with someone who could be the peer of my 21 year old son. It's definitely a power dynamic.
@@flazada Cool, agree BUT ''getting pregnant at my age'' bit was unnecessary imo, plenty of women give birth at that age, it's still possible, you know, and no it's not ''too old'' for that.
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 when I said at my age, I was speaking from my own feeling and opinions. Not saying 43 year olds can't get pregnant. That's a strange takeaway from my comment but thanks I guess?
I don't want to sound mean; but they don't even look good as a couple. She looks (and is) way too old for him, and their whole dynamic feels sick and wrong. The way she is carrying on looks embarrassing in my opinion. He never got the protection he needed.
I agree!!! I straight up don’t want this to sound disrespectful but…what was it about her that enticed him in the first place… he is a heartthrob and she…. Looks like… a Wallace and gromit claymation character…..! Wait never mind, I don’t care if it sounds disrespectful, she is not a good person and I don’t like groomers 🤮 🤢
A women in her 40s should have been mature enough to discourage an 18 year olds affections. Groomer, creep, soul sucker. The horse should have stuck to her own pasture.
No respect for this woman. I just find BOTH of them downright disgusting! The wife needs to move on to a better life for her and her son. No wonder Grande can’t find love! Usually, the way you get into a relationship becomes a huge reflection of the way it will proceed. If it starts with cheating, it will(generally) end with cheating or will have far more insecurities than a regular relationship.
I know of a woman who set her sights on her ex husbands male cousin a few months after the divorce was final and she was 31 and HE WAS 15!!! He was still at school. His parents found out on his 16th birthday and tried to get thr police involved for statutory R and as it's the UK that's the legal age of consent and there was no proof of sex under age. Well cut to him being 37 and her being in her 50s- they have two teenage daughters and he had a mental breakdown over the fear of what could happen to his daughters as they're age he was when that woman got her hands on him. He took a leave of absence from work and sobbed to my husband that he felt like he'd lost his family by choosing her over them
Yep when the kids get to be the age of the “groomed” partner they see how emotionally immature they are and think “wait? I was this age when….” That’s when the penny will drop for Aaron too
When I watched ‘Nowhere Boy’ I thought Aaron was so beautiful… to think that while myself, and so many other teens, had an age appropriate crush on him there was a middle aged woman grooming him is just beyond me.🤯
Men can can be victims as well. I had heard some stories of men tell me about them losing their v card to older girls when they was still kids and I'm talking as young as 8 years old. I'm a victim of sexual abuse as a child and having children of my own so hearing stuff like this is so heartbreaking.
I just started the video, just reminded me of Patrick Dempsey's first wife, I think she was in her fourties and he was 18 when they married. Would love to see a video of yours on this
Especially men progressing slower than woman in general, WHY would ANYONE choose an 18/19 y/o as a life partner? Imagine choosing to deprive him of a life he can choose for himself. I was a teenager when he became popular, and like other commenters, I was grossed out and worried for him. I was a naive, love-lorned teen but it’s not realistic.
Because they do tend to treat older women with respect more than men their age and of course if they don't they're easy to groom and make do so. They typically want to prove they can be man enough and don't do that for girls their age. Love how social media reminds me I hate adults
I am so GLAD SOMEONE IS TALKING ABOUT THIS!!! Their relationship gives me the chills everytime I think about it. Aaron is an underrated actor and he's got a lot of talent. It's so sad to see this woman being treated like she hasn't done anything wrong. I've actually read an interview where she actually knew Aaron when he was 6 YEARS OLD. Like if this is true, it is unforgivable and disgusting that she was allowed to be in this predatory relationship for so long and nothing is being done.
Post the link to the interview where it is a publication where Sam Taylor-Johnson is actually interviewed and says this. Not some third or fourth hand recount by someone. An actual interview. You can't because it does not exist. They did not know each other prior to him being cast.
I wonder what Sam's kid's father thought when she married basically a teenager. I'd be really questioning her intentions and influencing the kids. Aaron is my peer and I grew up watching their "love-story" and was always weirded out by it. I wish he actually got to experience real love and attraction other than the grooming he experienced. I mean they obviously met BEFORE he was 18, the filming of nowhere boy started in march 2008 and casting was done long before that. And Aaron was born in june 1990.
I’ve followed her career for decades. Sam Taylor WOOD as she used to be called. She married an aristocratic English man and was a famous fine artist. Her art career is largely forgotten now… but she had a wealthy lifestyle…she completely reinvented herself as a filmmaker. It’s like two different people. Her ex is a very famous art dealer named Jay Jopling.
She met him when he's 17 y-o, that's why it deems to be "unhealthy" but if that time he's already an adult, not a minor, I'm sure ppl won't bet an eye. Same like this video that I saw on Tik Tok recently, this woman is 45 y-o too & he met a guy of 29 y-o & she gained cheers & whistles from audience lol
@@LoveK1 True af bcs yg friend is 32 currently & her new bf just turned 20. She said that she doesn't care if he's still young bcs for her, as long as he's a matured one, it's more than enough for her & I was like ok, lol
Around 18:17 , ye them acting like nobody is ALSO critical of that big of an age gap with a 40 year old man going for a barely legal girl. NO LADY, we're side eyeing ALL of you. The LEAST she could have done if she TRULY cared about HIM and not just her own feelings and libido is to tell him to go out and date and give life a chance and if he still felt that way in a few years but just immediately getting together and becoming pregnant with a barely legal young man is to me VERY selfish. And yes also creepy if she knew his family and knew him growing up, super weird.
Yes! If she had REALLY loved him she would have wanted what was BEST for him!!! This king of selfish women can’t possibly love anyone! I wonder if she would be ok a men her age marrying one of her daughters!!!
I personally thought it was strange when Demi married Ashton, Cameron dated Justin, and let’s not forget Jada’s entanglement. However, this takes things to a whole new level it reminds me of Taran Noah Smith ( the youngest kid on Home Improvement) marrying someone much older when he was 17. They met when he was 14 and she was 30. 🤢
Check the actual president of France. He is in his forties and she is in her seventies. Her children were studying at the same school as him, think he has one year difference with one of her kids. If l remember well, she even was teacher at that school. He is always declaring that he is so in love with her. I do not say that the woman cannot be older in a relationship but not like a mother-son difference. They are looking so creepy ....
Macron's parents even moved away from that grooming wife specifically to get away from her, but she followed them! She set her sights on the underage Macron and she finally got him.
I can imagine that the All That reunion was probably a huge trigger for any possible PTSD she could be afflicted with. So I'm not sure that all public events will cause Amanda a mental breakdown. 🤷🏼♀️
Also I’m a 53 year old woman with 2 grown kids 27 & 25 & for me personally I cannot fathom dating much less marrying somebody who is their age or less . I just think of them as “kids” like mine & there is no attraction for me. Sure my kids have & I know attractive, interesting people that age but it comes down to Boundaries people. You have to have some!!!
I would honestly love if Sloan did a podcast talking about these things with a friend/friends. I think it would be so fun to hear them talking in a casual, relaxed, off-the-cuff way! ❤
In the Larry King interview, Larry tries to compare his marriage with the Taylor-Johnson's marriage. However, they focus on the age gap being the issue everyone has. But I did the math, Larry King met his last wife when she was 38 and he was 64. Sam met Aaron when he was 18, a TEENAGER. The age gap plays into it, but the main issue is he was a teen. So no one is gonna ask Larry King about his 26 year age gap with his wife, because she was a grown ass woman when they started their relationship.
So happy someone is talking about this marriage (grooming) never thought this was ok! I hate that SAME justification groomers give: he/she has an old soul!!! WTF 🤬 stay away from kids! I’m 40 can’t even understand what can you possibly have in common with an 18! Let them grow and understand themselves first! Thinking about my teenage son dating a women 20+ yrs old makes me mad! Later he will be her caretaker no longer a partner: think about it!
I am SO glad you're talking about this. I grew up having a huge crush on Aaron after seeing him in Kickass LOL. I always thought the marriage was strange. How tf a man looking like that gonna be tied down to her? (Yes SHADE, look at him then, look at her). I hope Aaron Johnson realizes what plans were set in place (for HIS life) without his knowing.
he is prob starting to now that their kids reaching age aaron was when groomed. that is why she threw a vow renewal, and she is pushing at 60 now. cross fingers he leaves the horsey groomer.
No, I thought the same, but she was divorced before she even met him. They also met when he was 19, not 13. There’s a lot of lies spread around about these stories.
Hey Sloan, It's so amazing that you dive in deep to find details for curious cats like us! I am a follower from India who has stayed in the US for 5-6 years, however, if you could put some light on what a "conservatorship" is, I think it could help the context better for folks who are not acquainted with the concept. THANKS for this!
Hi! I don’t know if Sloan replied, but in short a conservatorship is: When an adult has been deemed “unfit” to care for themselves by a family member or (in Hollywood) a business associate and you are basically jailed in a home that was been over taken by people to monitor your every move. People in conservatorship are often hidden from the world until they have to perform. Kind of like the circus. Hope that helps. (I am not a professional on this matter but I’m American and read a lot o these types of subject) ✌🏽
So, I’m Sloan’s managing moderator and responsible for replies. I’m sorry I’m late on this one. Also, I actually work with a lawyer on UA-cam (That Surprise Witness TV) who advocates against conservatorship abuse and can explain a little more clearly. A Conservatorship, or Guardianship in some states (some people think they mean different things, but that is incorrect), is when the court deems you unfit to care for yourself. They appoint a Conservator or Guardian to make decisions for you, whether it be medical or financial. This is usually reserved for the severally disabled or the elderly, but in some cases lately, it seems this power is being abused in order to assume control of vulnerable people with wealth, and most being celebrities, i.e, Britney Spears, Bam Margera, Sam Williams, Peter Max, Wendy Williams, and Nichelle Nichols, to name a few. It is true that the common denominator is that the conservator isolates the conservatee so they’re unable to seek help. For a further background of this legal court order that should really be illegal because it trespasses upon just about every Constitutional right in the United States, is that it was initially instated in order for slave owners to control their slaves. Let that sink in.
Thank you for getting back Monica! 🥰 And thank you for clarification. I completely agree. I think there should be a psych eval for the person who is deemed " responsible" for Client ________. As we've seen, completely unfit people, have been put in a position of power over other, with no regard to THEIR (the "guardian") state of mind and health, just say yes if they state a claim, spill some tea, and say I got this. I know that's very lames terms, but to put it short, it seems to be all it take. Completely reprehensible. The laws of who can care for another should have more guidelines a strict rules/consequences than a game show, like Wipe Out, that require a physical from ones GP. 💞@@simplymonca
Well one thing is for certain Aaron wasn't swept off his feet by her stunning good looks , she saw a kid , that she could mould and that she could see had talent , and attached herself to him , all these relationships with younger male celebs that get married young never last. Once the men get to their 40s and the grandma they married actually looks like a grandma, they break up , Like with Hugh Jackman , Patrick Dempsey , Ewan McGregor , all meet older women very early in their careers, that where in Patrick's case she was his manager it was very Celine Dion like , and he was 17yo when they meet she was in her 40s in fact she died in 2014 she was 74 they married when he was 21 and were married for 7 years. In Ewan's case he was 21 and is wife was 27 and an established production designer , and Hugh Jackman wife she was the star in the family at first , Johnny depps first wife was an older makeup artist , he was in is early twenties when they meet . Jude's law first wife was 8 years older than him , he was 23 when she had their first kid she was 31 and had 3 more kids with him before he was 30 , Sadie frost has latched herself onto any up-and-coming guy , the father of her first child was in a new romantics band in the 80s and when his career was on the decline she attached herself to the next up-and-coming star Jude. YOU can either see it as older women seeing talented guys that they can get the claws into early in their careers , or from the perspective of the guys , trying to get their careers off the ground and attaching themselves to someone who is more established in the film industry , either way it never ends up working .
There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with an age gap relationship... when the people are mature adults! Emphasis on adults!! We're not talking about teens. Weather he was legal or not, he was literally a teenager! That's not okay. Especially because she knew his family! That means she knew him when he was even younger. Perhaps even as a child! That's just ick AF! Now I was in an age gap relationship for almost 12 years. Our age gap was 29 yrs. Sadly I was recently widowed by my 66yo husband. He had a very unexpected heart attack which has been devastating. I'm grieving terribly. However, he was truly the best thing and the best man I've ever known. Likely the best man I ever will know. He treated me with more respect than I often felt I deserved. He never called me outside my name, never raised his voice with me, never ever treated me like anything other than a blessing. I was lucky to be his wife. Saying that, I was a grown adult when we met. I was 25. I'm now a 37yo widow. That's really the only downside to an age gap relationship between adults. It means the older partner will unfortunately die much earlier than the other. So age gap relationship are great for some people. If they're mature adults, not teens, then I don't see any issue personally.
I'm so so sorry for your loss. My husband is 22 years older than me and I am disabled, I'm so scared for the day he passes before me. I wish I could pause his aging. Thank you for sharing this comment. I often feel like there is something wrong with me for loving someone so much older but he really is my rock. I don't know what I would do without him. I'm so so so sorry again. 💔
It reaaaally depends tho. For me personally, 20-30 years apart is creepy if the woman/man is below 30. Just because I still don’t feel like an adult myself. It may really depend and there are unique exceptions, but when an old man makes a move on me I find it really creepy and predatory.
Sam & Aaron's relationship is definitely creepy. They are probably using each other. He needs her to get famous. And she likes being with someone she can control and is vulnerable. I doubt this marriage will last. Plus, Aaron's going to get tired of being around Sam 24/7. She's smothering him. He hasn't experienced life yet; she has. IMO
Watch him leave her when he’s like 40 n then get with a “ mature” soul who’s young n he’s gonna say he feels young 😂🤣😂😂 hollyweird is disgusting why df are we still even following or allowing these ppl to have anything
I am a mail lady and I listen to u everyday and so it feels like I know u hahaha I would loooove to know more about your life you have such a great vibe!!!! Tell us more!
It’s probably not good to share too many personal details about your life online which is probably why Sloan avoids getting too deep online about his personal life.
She was refreshing, empathetic, intelligent, & overall delightful - great interview Sloan! You did a nice job of explaining the show for a non-watcher (like me) & letting your guest speak without interrupting her. One of my biggest pet peeves is when hosts cut off their guests - I can't watch Tom Bilyeu because of that. You could tell she was instantly quite comfortable. Your work is continuing to improve, mate. ❤
I’m 39.. have hooked up w men way younger but stopped a long time ago as the dynamic can feel so off. I also think there’s a big difference in an older woman feeling flattered that a young guy still finds her sexy or have a one night of fun…. But for an older person to flaunt and openly date a younger partner is a whole different level of fuckery. That age difference is NOT to be bearing love and respect and a connection worth bringing to a relationship. Not only just from the way people might view you but you know the power dynamic is off. You can’t grow and learn from each other and build love when you know it’s just a sexual fetish type dynamic ! Every woman fears her husband leaving them for a younger girl and that idea is strongly shown in movies, tv shows, true crime stories. Thank you for covering this, Sloan
SLOAN PLEASE TRY TO ALWAYS be FAIR & reasonable on all topics. I like the kindness and understanding you impart to us. Love the efforts to do research.Well done.
It's not about the age gap really, 40 and 60 (who met at that age) go for it, 50 and 30 have a ball, it's the fact that he was an inexperienced naive child that hadn't even been out in the world on his own. Yes 10 years is fine as long as the youngest is mid to late 20s. Honestly, I feel so bad for him. He missed out on so many young adult experiences, things that make you who you are. Breaking up, making up, cliche ass shit like dancing in the rain, being by yourself, experimenting with every aspect of yourself, your 20s are such an important time to find your style, voice, and most importantly your boundries. Personally, I'm not sure im a big fan of say 2 18yr olds getting married that young. Don't get me wrong sometimes it works out but usually it doesn't. I just hope he doesn't wake up and look around at 50 and have a nervous breakdown when he realizes he skipped a big portion of the who are you part of life. Whats he going to do when she inevitably passes first? He went straight from being under the direction of his parents to being under her comand? He's never been on his own, he never had a chance to have things happen to establish dislikes, likes, again BOUNDARIES. I think he's headed for a hard time.
My ex was 12 years younger, yet we both met at work as adults, and people thought I was younger than him, lol. Unfortunately, I realized he was looking for a replacement mother thanks to childhood trauma
Someone pls tell me...what kind of psychomother wears a shirt saying "star palate"? Lynne Spears is so freaking wierd. I feel so bad for Britney. So embarrassed for her!
I'm kind of torn on this one. Yeah, I can't imagine dating someone so much younger or older than me BUT then again I've heard many stories of extreme age gap relationships with much older men that seem to be way more acceptable to people and seemingly are happy?
This is all just modern day infantilization of adults. If they actually cared about the issue and weren’t on a bandwagon of outrage they would be doing actual work to change the age of majority from 18 to 30 or whatever they think it should be.❤
@@essies4294you sound stupid. Why on Earth would governments make the age of consent 30? They want people getting married, working and joining the military much earlier than that. 18 is leagues away from 30 in terms of every metric. Noon would care if they started when he was 25.
Ugh I hate it when celebrity family members write books before the celebrity themselves. It’s pure greed. Shows what kind of human they are. Also if she gets a restraining order that pretty much proves he is just harassing her criminally. So nope. I can not support him. When someone is asked to leave they are supposed to leave. Unless it’s their own home.
These big age gaps have always perplexed me. I instantly think of Jerry Seinfeld and his child bride. It’s just weird. I tried dating a guy who was 60 when I was 44 and I was like nope. Not gonna happen. The sad 🍆. He needed to be waited on. He was into the news like it was a soap opera. Constantly checked his stocks. No thank you. There is so little in common with these gaps.
Same, dated a man 53 when I was 35, we were together 3 years but at least 2 of those years I was living in bizarro world! He was narcissistic but the generational differences were there to me also, sometimes he'd say the same things my dad would say that made me roll my eyes, got to the point my eyes were about to roll out of my head!
I’m 33 and I couldn’t imagine dating anyone younger than 25 personally - and that’s at a push for me. So I can’t imagine how dating a teenager in your 40s sounds like a good idea
Its sad that thru her pain shed become such a great actress that touched MILLIONS of children has somehow forgotten how to be her real self. I think she doesnt know who she is anymore. And BABYGIRL, we dont wanna see that guy doing anything but holding the damn camera YOU SHULD BE TALKING AND ASKING QUESTIONS not him. Love u Amanda find urself please ❤
I'm 28 and when I watch shows based around highschool aged kids or like coming of age shows I feel like such a fucking creep for thinking any of those people are hot. Even if in real life they're around my age just because they're acting as a high schooler I'm grossed out. In my mind teenage dudes and even early twenties are basically toddlers mentally/emotionally.
I feel awful for the men who are abused by women and won’t report it because they feel they won’t be believed and/or will be mocked (I feel awful for anyone abused just to be clear).
Weird but men have been doing this since forever.. my own grandma was married to a man almost 30 yrs older than her. We can all feel some type of way about age differences but I only care when it’s a physical relationship with someone underage. He was 18/19? And he’s not out here complaining; they look like they’re doing ok. Regardless of age.
A lot of this is misogyny let's not lie. Sylvester Stallone also got with his 19 year old wife when he was in his 40s, yet no ones calls him nasty names and spam him everywhere.
I'd just like to clear up a few things about Sam and Aaron's relationship based on what can actually be confirmed and backed up with legit evidence. - Aaron's date of birth is on the 13th of June of 1990 and casting for the film began around August/September 2008, so if Aaron and Sam first met when he auditioned for the film then that means that he was 18 years old, not 17 or 19 like some people believe. - Filming for Nowhere Boy apparently began around February/March of 2009 and ended around May 2009 which means that Aaron did not turn 19 until after filming ended. - Aaron was filming Kick-A*s and had a very tight schedule when the auditions for Nowhere Boy were happening so due to conflicting schedules the only way he would have been able to audition was if he went on his day off to audition at Sam's house since it would have been scheduled last minute. - There is no actual evidence or proof of Sam knowing Aaron or his family before he auditioned for Nowhere Boy despite people claiming that they did in fact know each other before 2008. - Sam was not an established director before directing Nowhere Boy. She had only directed a couple of short films before and Nowhere Boy was the first full-length film she ever directed. - Sam and Aaron publicly announced their relationship in October 2009, around the same time that the film was released in theatres. His parents were completely against the relationship at first, but they apparently got over it some time after Aaron and Sam's first child was born. - Both Sam and Aaron have publicly stated that they had an immediate attraction and connection when they met, and that connection/attraction only grew stronger the more time they spent together. They also admitted that the relationship began only after filming was over, which means that the relationship supposedly began around May 2009. Although, people who worked with them did say that it was very obvious that something was going on between them because it was like they were in their own little world on set. - Also, during an interview after the film was released Sam admitted that she and Aaron had been living together since around March 2009 which means that it's more likely than not that the relationship began much earlier than they claimed it did. Plus, when they publicly announced their relationship in October 2009 they had already gotten engaged. - They announced they were expecting their first child in January 2010, and gave birth in July 2010. And they had their second child 2 years later in 2012 and got married a few months after.
You Go! So great coverage of a weirdo situation as I've wondered about that coupling. If she is responsible for his acting ability I offer him up. He's astonishing and if that's what he wants and she gets him there. WTF.
Great Podcast Sloan ❤!! I Love everything that you do because it’s so well done. And you are so articulate & Yes 🙌 handsome as well lol😂. Please do let us have a peek into your life more because I do believe you have a great story to tell about your life & how you got to be so successful! Thanks 🙏 so much Sloan for all the hard work that you do & the risks you take sometimes to bring us the story!!!
FYI Tyler topic starts at min 10. A very interesting thing is that lots of people said they meet when he was like 8 years old, then stay around his orbit. Once he turn 18 that’s when they call it official
I’m in my late 40s & this is why I have an issue with it. In my 20s I was successful bc I built a company. Prior to that, I had been a model signed to the biggest agency & been on my own making 6 figures since 16. I had grown up in a hut in a 3rd world so we didn’t know better either. Men, including A-listers I can prob call out, would want to date me even though they knew my age. They’d groom me by telling me, “I was different than girls my age bc I was successful & living on my own.” This superficially may have been true. I thought I was so mature. Money & a career cannot equate to life maturity. However, looking back in my 30s and again in my 40s, I knew nothing about life. When ur 18+ is the time where u leave the nest and grow with ppl ur same age. U learn as u make the same mistakes with them. A man/woman who dates young ppl is doing nothing but parenting and when ur 18-28, u really don’t get it until u become their age. Then u look back and ask urself- what did this older person have in common with me back then. I look at that 30yo hitting on my 17yo self & it disgusts me in so many ways. At 30, I cannot fathom having anything in common with a 17yo. It’s so inappropriate on many many levels. It will take STJ for his kids to be that same age and see how he was groomed. She’s a pedophile and Leo DiCaprio, Dane Cook and any person over 30 dating anyone under 24 is a legal one. It’s different once u hit 30 and want to date a 50yo. Seeing ppl like this triggers me esp bc I didn’t have any1 telling my young self that these ppl had something really wrong with them.
Unpopular opinion, but hear me out. I'm 39, single since over 5 years. I've always dated guys my age or slightly younger. But there came a time i was pursued by much youger guys, in their ealry- mid twenties. I know majority of people cannot imagine this or are even grossed out and i get it. What i experienced with younger guys however, was so different than dating men my age. Men my age are often kinda jaded, play games as in not showing any affection or treating me like an option and as if I'm nothing special. Fair enough if that's how they really feel, but a lot of it is insecurity, fear and unhealed heart break. Younger guys have often been so much more open and affectionate towards me. They openly confessed their feelings and emotions and treated me with so much respect and admiration. I obviously would never accept a proposal or get into something really serious with someone under at least 25. I just wanted to share some insight that to a point i understand the attraction a younger guy can have. I definitely am guilty of that. After being treated like literal shit by men my age, it gives me solace and hope that there are still guys out there who are better. Its just a shame they're over a decade younger than me.
@@desireelachante1284 Some of them are still kids 😅 but so are the 40+ yo men. I think in the end it comes down to mental maturity and that's often not determined by the physical age. And also it depends on what people are looking for in their partner. Personally I don't need a provider or material wealth, I'd rather have a partner who respects me and truly loves me.... and if the one who can offer that happens to be 10+ years younger than me, be it. Love is love... 😊
@@kathyhilbig9312 exactly they are kids anyway! So at least I'll get a fresh, active, handsome and young one! 😂 And yes they have a opener mentality and it's not to late, in case, to 'teach" them how to treat a lady😂😂
I can see that. I'm only 30 and my fiancé is almost 4 years younger than me. Whenever younger men (I call them boys, but they're men) whenever they attempt to pursue me, they're so much more vibrant and lively than other 30 year olds who already seem dead inside. 🤷🏼♀️
I can totally understand where you're coming from. Obviously I don't know you, but in my point of view, it seems that you yourself are kinda jaded due to the mistreatments from men your age and feel insecure because of it? So then you resort to much younger guys bcs they have less experience of heartbreak, instead of trying to talk through the relationship with a man your age? I get that it can be exhausting, I've been in the same boat I almost gave up dating altogether. I've just seen a lot of the men counterparts who call older, more experienced women bitter, have too much baggage, etc. And to me, you seem to be the flip side of the coin. Just my two cents.
It is very clear that she groomed him. When people are groomed, they don't understand or don't want to accept what happened to them. A middleaged woman going after a guy who could've been her own SON'S AGE and pursuing a relationship with him JUST as he turned 18. According to her, Aaron was a "troubled teen", (so she knows he was a teen, a kid) and I have heard he also had anxiety at the time. If a teacher did this to a student, would it be acceptable? Hell no it wouldnt.
Hahaha, i just saw that this video was under lets get into it and i was pissed someone was trying to copy you. I clicked on the video to see who the culprit was and it was you. Looks like i have many more videos to watch. Amanda bynes my fav topic
Amanda Bynes is one of the saddest former child star stories ever. She was just such a talented girl! She did great in comedy sketches. It’s just so sad.
Why is it so hard for people to not date teenagers!? 🤮
but theyre so impressionable?!!! It's so much fun 🤡 in all seriousness; she got pregnant with a teenager at 43. That should be illegal.
Yeah beats me, that “old soul” trope is bullsh**t! They can have a few years as partners and after that it will be one taking care of the other for the remaining of their marriage…
@@mjgiani3944exactly I hate that narrative too!
Thank u .. like WTF 😒 simpletons
As a female I think it’s sooooo weird … I keep having 23, 24, 26 year olds hit on me & I keep having to inform them I’m 31 and I like my age or older. I would consider the 26 year old but I feel like he’s not the best connection
I was a teenager around the time he started getting popular. My friends and I were in love with him after seeing "Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging". We were so psyched for the "Kick@**" movies. When we found out he got married and was pregnant with a woman in her forties when he was still a teenager we all thought it weird and wrong, but people didn't really make a fuss about it on a big scale unfortunately. So sad he wasn't able to be protected.
YES omg I thought I was the only one who saw that movie and fell in love with him
Then to see this happen and ppl finally notice it after all this time
This is surprisingly common with young actors. :( One of my teen heartthrobs was Edward Furlong, the kid from Terminator 2, and he was in a "relationship" with his 28 year old manager when he was 14. The media just acted like "wow, lucky kid!". When an older man goes for a young girl at least society has the decency to condemn their actions, but when an older woman goes for a young boy, people seem to just look the other way.
@@littlelagoonsnever knew that 🤯 so disgusting. Where were his parents??
same
I am 40 years old woman. Can't imagine having something in common with someone who's 18. No way.
I'm 36 and it gives me the icky yuck
That's the age gap between my stepson & I. It makes me feel ill.
Idk - I just cannot understand a 40 year old woman finding an 18 year old teen sexually attractive. Sure, I can appreciate someone’s beauty. But, I would never want to sleep with them or have a relationship with them. So weird.
Desperate old pervert men n women are usually still obsessed with their popular attractive crush from high school Who was way out of their league! Some become adults with a little bit of money or power & They prey on innocent naive younger people to fulfill their teenage fantasies.sick n sad but luckily it NEVER WORKS OUT LOL 😅the younger person always cheats or leaves.Eventually, I mean, if I meet you as a teenager. You have a whole decade of your 20s to grow a brain which they eventually do😅
i agree, i’m only 24 and i wouldn’t sleep with an 18 y/o i think that’s so weird lol.
I'm 40 and I've always been attracted to younger men--but 18 years old? Ew. That's just predatory and weird. How would you possibly have enough in common to sustain a healthy relationship?
I'm 28 and couldnt ever fancy an 18 year old, literally no one under 24 for me.
This is bad but look into the youngest kid on Home Improvement he married at 17 a much older woman that he met at 14. 🤢
you know it's bad when the internet is rooting for a man to cheat on his wife
I found that odd and bad too. I don't want him to cheat, I want him to leave her. People can cheat on a partner but that doesn't mean they break up once the other finds out or anything. I'm also worried about their kids and what they are perceiving as 'normal'. The internet is kind of like the Twilight Zone...
That's awful
@@planetofaliens only jealous losers. that’s just as bad. I would lose respect for him as a fan if he did.
same thing happened to patrick dempsey and then he woke up one day and realized wtf Am I doing and got a divorce. He still admits he was looking for a mother figure
So, he knew he was looking for a mother figure? Sounds like he knew what he was doing then. He just doesn’t want a mother figure anymore.
@@essies4294 I believe you can do this, subconsciously. It's more the fact that, whoever the older person is, they should probably evaluate the situation and not let it get so far.
@@essies4294 it's called trauma.
@@essies4294I’m going to introduce you to a concept called “the subconscious”
@@lulu_LmTHANK YOU agree
I'm 43, I have a 21 year old son. This whole thing grossed me out. I couldn't even imagine getting pregnant at my age never mind with someone who could be the peer of my 21 year old son. It's definitely a power dynamic.
Yes!!! They look like kids to me and I just don't get it.
@@WookieWoman same, it gives me the ick
I am a 34years old woman. I view men who are under 30 as not even option for me to this day let alone 19years old.
@@flazada Cool, agree BUT ''getting pregnant at my age'' bit was unnecessary imo, plenty of women give birth at that age, it's still possible, you know, and no it's not ''too old'' for that.
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 when I said at my age, I was speaking from my own feeling and opinions. Not saying 43 year olds can't get pregnant. That's a strange takeaway from my comment but thanks I guess?
I don't want to sound mean; but they don't even look good as a couple. She looks (and is) way too old for him, and their whole dynamic feels sick and wrong. The way she is carrying on looks embarrassing in my opinion. He never got the protection he needed.
I agree!!! I straight up don’t want this to sound disrespectful but…what was it about her that enticed him in the first place… he is a heartthrob and she…. Looks like… a Wallace and gromit claymation character…..! Wait never mind, I don’t care if it sounds disrespectful, she is not a good person and I don’t like groomers 🤮 🤢
A women in her 40s should have been mature enough to discourage an 18 year olds affections. Groomer, creep, soul sucker. The horse should have stuck to her own pasture.
Exactly! But instead she used the opportunity
Eww
I guarantee she went after him. I don't think he was too hard up for the affection of women
I'm 39 and even early 20s guys look like kids to me. I don't understand it at all.
Ariana you had one job. ONE!
You broke up the wrong marriage 😫
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No respect for this woman. I just find BOTH of them downright disgusting! The wife needs to move on to a better life for her and her son. No wonder Grande can’t find love! Usually, the way you get into a relationship becomes a huge reflection of the way it will proceed. If it starts with cheating, it will(generally) end with cheating or will have far more insecurities than a regular relationship.
Sam laid eyes on him and thought, “you’re going Nowhere Boy”😭
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I see what you did there 😂
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I know of a woman who set her sights on her ex husbands male cousin a few months after the divorce was final and she was 31 and HE WAS 15!!!
He was still at school.
His parents found out on his 16th birthday and tried to get thr police involved for statutory R and as it's the UK that's the legal age of consent and there was no proof of sex under age.
Well cut to him being 37 and her being in her 50s- they have two teenage daughters and he had a mental breakdown over the fear of what could happen to his daughters as they're age he was when that woman got her hands on him.
He took a leave of absence from work and sobbed to my husband that he felt like he'd lost his family by choosing her over them
Oh my gosh no that’s so upsetting!!!
I hope he can heal and find peace 💓
Yep when the kids get to be the age of the “groomed” partner they see how emotionally immature they are and think “wait? I was this age when….” That’s when the penny will drop for Aaron too
Jesus. This is so heartbreaking.
i’m 41 and i can promise u i find it very uncomfortable being around 18 year old boys ! no thank u!
Same
When I watched ‘Nowhere Boy’ I thought Aaron was so beautiful… to think that while myself, and so many other teens, had an age appropriate crush on him there was a middle aged woman grooming him is just beyond me.🤯
Last person that told me they were a "chemist" ended up being a meth cooker... But suuure lol
Lol my thoughts exactly🤣
Not meth 😭😭😭😭❗️❗️❗️
Hey! I know him 2!!! 😂
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well you kinda have to know how chemicals work in order to make that.
Men can can be victims as well. I had heard some stories of men tell me about them losing their v card to older girls when they was still kids and I'm talking as young as 8 years old. I'm a victim of sexual abuse as a child and having children of my own so hearing stuff like this is so heartbreaking.
I feel for Amanda. Mental illness is no joke. I just hope she's happy, whatever that means to her.
I just started the video, just reminded me of Patrick Dempsey's first wife, I think she was in her fourties and he was 18 when they married. Would love to see a video of yours on this
Especially men progressing slower than woman in general, WHY would ANYONE choose an 18/19 y/o as a life partner? Imagine choosing to deprive him of a life he can choose for himself. I was a teenager when he became popular, and like other commenters, I was grossed out and worried for him. I was a naive, love-lorned teen but it’s not realistic.
Because they do tend to treat older women with respect more than men their age and of course if they don't they're easy to groom and make do so. They typically want to prove they can be man enough and don't do that for girls their age. Love how social media reminds me I hate adults
This needed to be exposed 👏🏽🙏🏽bless Aaron I hope he understands what happened to him wasn’t his fault
I am so GLAD SOMEONE IS TALKING ABOUT THIS!!! Their relationship gives me the chills everytime I think about it. Aaron is an underrated actor and he's got a lot of talent. It's so sad to see this woman being treated like she hasn't done anything wrong. I've actually read an interview where she actually knew Aaron when he was 6 YEARS OLD. Like if this is true, it is unforgivable and disgusting that she was allowed to be in this predatory relationship for so long and nothing is being done.
Post the link to the interview where it is a publication where Sam Taylor-Johnson is actually interviewed and says this. Not some third or fourth hand recount by someone. An actual interview. You can't because it does not exist. They did not know each other prior to him being cast.
love how we don’t condone cheating unless it’s on this groomer lmao
Thank you ❤️
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Groomers are not allowed to loyalty, it's like demanding a soldier to protect a dictator
I wonder what Sam's kid's father thought when she married basically a teenager. I'd be really questioning her intentions and influencing the kids.
Aaron is my peer and I grew up watching their "love-story" and was always weirded out by it.
I wish he actually got to experience real love and attraction other than the grooming he experienced.
I mean they obviously met BEFORE he was 18, the filming of nowhere boy started in march 2008 and casting was done long before that. And Aaron was born in june 1990.
He was likely shocked & disgusted.
I’ve followed her career for decades. Sam Taylor WOOD as she used to be called. She married an aristocratic English man and was a famous fine artist. Her art career is largely forgotten now… but she had a wealthy lifestyle…she completely reinvented herself as a filmmaker. It’s like two different people. Her ex is a very famous art dealer named Jay Jopling.
A 23 year age gap is definitely problematic and severe. You can not have a healthy relationship with that big of an age gap.
She met him when he's 17 y-o, that's why it deems to be "unhealthy" but if that time he's already an adult, not a minor, I'm sure ppl won't bet an eye. Same like this video that I saw on Tik Tok recently, this woman is 45 y-o too & he met a guy of 29 y-o & she gained cheers & whistles from audience lol
Btw my partner is 51 & I'm 32 and I met him when I'm 30 y-o & he's 49
It’s only creepy when one of the people in the relationship are under 25 years old.
@@LoveK1 True af bcs yg friend is 32 currently & her new bf just turned 20. She said that she doesn't care if he's still young bcs for her, as long as he's a matured one, it's more than enough for her & I was like ok, lol
My partner is 52. I'm 29. I met him when he was 49 and I was 24.
Around 18:17 , ye them acting like nobody is ALSO critical of that big of an age gap with a 40 year old man going for a barely legal girl. NO LADY, we're side eyeing ALL of you. The LEAST she could have done if she TRULY cared about HIM and not just her own feelings and libido is to tell him to go out and date and give life a chance and if he still felt that way in a few years but just immediately getting together and becoming pregnant with a barely legal young man is to me VERY selfish. And yes also creepy if she knew his family and knew him growing up, super weird.
Yes! If she had REALLY loved him she would have wanted what was BEST for him!!! This king of selfish women can’t possibly love anyone! I wonder if she would be ok a men her age marrying one of her daughters!!!
Amanda, NO ONE WANTS TO SEE THAT GUY DO ANYTHING MORE THAN HOLD THE CAMERA! You need to be the one interviewing, YOUR THE ONE WE WANT TO SEE ❤
I personally thought it was strange when Demi married Ashton, Cameron dated Justin, and let’s not forget Jada’s entanglement. However, this takes things to a whole new level it reminds me of Taran Noah Smith ( the youngest kid on Home Improvement) marrying someone much older when he was 17. They met when he was 14 and she was 30. 🤢
🎀The only one of those relationships which freaked me out was Jada because the person she slept with, was her son’s friend. Sleeping under her roof.🎀
Justin and Ashton were grown-ass men. Young, sure, but not teens. So they don't belong in this list.
Check the actual president of France. He is in his forties and she is in her seventies. Her children were studying at the same school as him, think he has one year difference with one of her kids. If l remember well, she even was teacher at that school. He is always declaring that he is so in love with her. I do not say that the woman cannot be older in a relationship but not like a mother-son difference. They are looking so creepy ....
Yep and the guy from Home Improvement. I can’t believe Sloane hasn’t done a story on that one.
Macron's parents even moved away from that grooming wife specifically to get away from her, but she followed them! She set her sights on the underage Macron and she finally got him.
Omg I just looked it up she taught him in high school!!
I can imagine that the All That reunion was probably a huge trigger for any possible PTSD she could be afflicted with. So I'm not sure that all public events will cause Amanda a mental breakdown. 🤷🏼♀️
I'm the same age as Sam. My oldest son was born in 1993. He is three years younger than Aaron! It's so creepy!
Also I’m a 53 year old woman with 2 grown kids 27 & 25 & for me personally I cannot fathom dating much less marrying somebody who is their age or less . I just think of them as “kids” like mine & there is no attraction for me. Sure my kids have & I know attractive, interesting people that age but it comes down to Boundaries people. You have to have some!!!
The Amanda Bynes in the photos on the poster for the conference really doesn’t look like the same person posting these videos to Instagram.
Yep, looks very different. Clone??
I would honestly love if Sloan did a podcast talking about these things with a friend/friends. I think it would be so fun to hear them talking in a casual, relaxed, off-the-cuff way! ❤
In the Larry King interview, Larry tries to compare his marriage with the Taylor-Johnson's marriage. However, they focus on the age gap being the issue everyone has. But I did the math, Larry King met his last wife when she was 38 and he was 64. Sam met Aaron when he was 18, a TEENAGER. The age gap plays into it, but the main issue is he was a teen. So no one is gonna ask Larry King about his 26 year age gap with his wife, because she was a grown ass woman when they started their relationship.
Wonder how his mothers about her teenage son being groomed his middle aged director
So happy someone is talking about this marriage (grooming) never thought this was ok! I hate that SAME justification groomers give: he/she has an old soul!!! WTF 🤬 stay away from kids! I’m 40 can’t even understand what can you possibly have in common with an 18! Let them grow and understand themselves first! Thinking about my teenage son dating a women 20+ yrs old makes me mad! Later he will be her caretaker no longer a partner: think about it!
Deems to be unacceptable bcs Aaron was a minor at that time, I'm sure ppl will be cheering if Aaron was a fully an adult when he met Sam
I am SO glad you're talking about this. I grew up having a huge crush on Aaron after seeing him in Kickass LOL. I always thought the marriage was strange. How tf a man looking like that gonna be tied down to her? (Yes SHADE, look at him then, look at her).
I hope Aaron Johnson realizes what plans were set in place (for HIS life) without his knowing.
he is prob starting to now that their kids reaching age aaron was when groomed. that is why she threw a vow renewal, and she is pushing at 60 now. cross fingers he leaves the horsey groomer.
Didn’t Sam leave her husband for Aaron?
No, I thought the same, but she was divorced before she even met him. They also met when he was 19, not 13. There’s a lot of lies spread around about these stories.
@@essies4294sam is that you?
“He’s a scientist and a bio-chemist” or does he just cook crack on the stove? 🧐😅
Stop ✋️ 😂😂
Meth not crack😂
I remember looking him up after watching the Angus movie. I was shocked. 😯
Have you thought about making a video on the director of Jeepers Creepers?
Yes! Great idea. Hate that dude.
What happened ?
@@JesussyTwerkinHow attention starved can one person be? Your comment is a peek into your troubled mind as you yell into the void. 😆
I also find it interesting that we haven’t seen Sam Taylor Johnson interact with her in-laws. Aaron gives off isolated energy
because he prefers to keep his family private, but his family supports it, there is even a statement from his father about it
I saw that film when it came out, and it’s interesting that the movie really dove into John’s strange relationship with his mother.
Teenage husband ?? Dafuq!!
Hey Sloan, It's so amazing that you dive in deep to find details for curious cats like us!
I am a follower from India who has stayed in the US for 5-6 years, however, if you could put some light on what a "conservatorship" is, I think it could help the context better for folks who are not acquainted with the concept. THANKS for this!
Hi! I don’t know if Sloan replied, but in short a conservatorship is: When an adult has been deemed “unfit” to care for themselves by a family member or (in Hollywood) a business associate and you are basically jailed in a home that was been over taken by people to monitor your every move. People in conservatorship are often hidden from the world until they have to perform. Kind of like the circus.
Hope that helps. (I am not a professional on this matter but I’m American and read a lot o these types of subject) ✌🏽
@@felishacooper7634 lol not exactly. This is simply how Britney’s conservatorship was executed.
So, I’m Sloan’s managing moderator and responsible for replies. I’m sorry I’m late on this one. Also, I actually work with a lawyer on UA-cam (That Surprise Witness TV) who advocates against conservatorship abuse and can explain a little more clearly. A Conservatorship, or Guardianship in some states (some people think they mean different things, but that is incorrect), is when the court deems you unfit to care for yourself. They appoint a Conservator or Guardian to make decisions for you, whether it be medical or financial. This is usually reserved for the severally disabled or the elderly, but in some cases lately, it seems this power is being abused in order to assume control of vulnerable people with wealth, and most being celebrities, i.e, Britney Spears, Bam Margera, Sam Williams, Peter Max, Wendy Williams, and Nichelle Nichols, to name a few. It is true that the common denominator is that the conservator isolates the conservatee so they’re unable to seek help.
For a further background of this legal court order that should really be illegal because it trespasses upon just about every Constitutional right in the United States, is that it was initially instated in order for slave owners to control their slaves. Let that sink in.
Thank you for getting back Monica! 🥰 And thank you for clarification. I completely agree. I think there should be a psych eval for the person who is deemed " responsible" for Client ________. As we've seen, completely unfit people, have been put in a position of power over other, with no regard to THEIR (the "guardian") state of mind and health, just say yes if they state a claim, spill some tea, and say I got this. I know that's very lames terms, but to put it short, it seems to be all it take. Completely reprehensible. The laws of who can care for another should have more guidelines a strict rules/consequences than a game show, like Wipe Out, that require a physical from ones GP. 💞@@simplymonca
Well one thing is for certain Aaron wasn't swept off his feet by her stunning good looks , she saw a kid , that she could mould and that she could see had talent , and attached herself to him , all these relationships with younger male celebs that get married young never last. Once the men get to their 40s and the grandma they married actually looks like a grandma, they break up , Like with Hugh Jackman , Patrick Dempsey , Ewan McGregor , all meet older women very early in their careers, that where in Patrick's case she was his manager it was very Celine Dion like , and he was 17yo when they meet she was in her 40s in fact she died in 2014 she was 74 they married when he was 21 and were married for 7 years. In Ewan's case he was 21 and is wife was 27 and an established production designer , and Hugh Jackman wife she was the star in the family at first , Johnny depps first wife was an older makeup artist , he was in is early twenties when they meet . Jude's law first wife was 8 years older than him , he was 23 when she had their first kid she was 31 and had 3 more kids with him before he was 30 , Sadie frost has latched herself onto any up-and-coming guy , the father of her first child was in a new romantics band in the 80s and when his career was on the decline she attached herself to the next up-and-coming star Jude.
YOU can either see it as older women seeing talented guys that they can get the claws into early in their careers , or from the perspective of the guys , trying to get their careers off the ground and attaching themselves to someone who is more established in the film industry , either way it never ends up working .
It breaks my heart to see what has become of Amanda Bynes. I hope she eventually finds a good doctor who actually cares and treatments that will help.
There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with an age gap relationship... when the people are mature adults! Emphasis on adults!! We're not talking about teens. Weather he was legal or not, he was literally a teenager! That's not okay. Especially because she knew his family! That means she knew him when he was even younger. Perhaps even as a child! That's just ick AF!
Now I was in an age gap relationship for almost 12 years. Our age gap was 29 yrs. Sadly I was recently widowed by my 66yo husband. He had a very unexpected heart attack which has been devastating. I'm grieving terribly. However, he was truly the best thing and the best man I've ever known. Likely the best man I ever will know. He treated me with more respect than I often felt I deserved. He never called me outside my name, never raised his voice with me, never ever treated me like anything other than a blessing. I was lucky to be his wife. Saying that, I was a grown adult when we met. I was 25. I'm now a 37yo widow. That's really the only downside to an age gap relationship between adults. It means the older partner will unfortunately die much earlier than the other. So age gap relationship are great for some people. If they're mature adults, not teens, then I don't see any issue personally.
I'm so so sorry for your loss. My husband is 22 years older than me and I am disabled, I'm so scared for the day he passes before me. I wish I could pause his aging. Thank you for sharing this comment. I often feel like there is something wrong with me for loving someone so much older but he really is my rock. I don't know what I would do without him. I'm so so so sorry again. 💔
It reaaaally depends tho. For me personally, 20-30 years apart is creepy if the woman/man is below 30. Just because I still don’t feel like an adult myself. It may really depend and there are unique exceptions, but when an old man makes a move on me I find it really creepy and predatory.
I am so sorry for your loss!
Sorry for your loss💗
Everyone here was an adult. Either adults can navigate the world or they can’t.
Sam & Aaron's relationship is definitely creepy. They are probably using each other. He needs her to get famous. And she likes being with someone she can control and is vulnerable. I doubt this marriage will last. Plus, Aaron's going to get tired of being around Sam 24/7. She's smothering him. He hasn't experienced life yet; she has. IMO
It's disturbing & disrespectful to say joey & Aaron are having an affair.
Joey only married her husband 3 months ago.
Watch him leave her when he’s like 40 n then get with a “ mature” soul who’s young n he’s gonna say he feels young 😂🤣😂😂 hollyweird is disgusting why df are we still even following or allowing these ppl to have anything
Why we say she groomed him but when we hear Celine Dion's story about her husband we believe its a true love story and not grooming???
I am a mail lady and I listen to u everyday and so it feels like I know u hahaha I would loooove to know more about your life you have such a great vibe!!!! Tell us more!
It’s probably not good to share too many personal details about your life online which is probably why Sloan avoids getting too deep online about his personal life.
She was refreshing, empathetic, intelligent, & overall delightful - great interview Sloan! You did a nice job of explaining the show for a non-watcher (like me) & letting your guest speak without interrupting her. One of my biggest pet peeves is when hosts cut off their guests - I can't watch Tom Bilyeu because of that. You could tell she was instantly quite comfortable. Your work is continuing to improve, mate. ❤
That woman sam is so sick and dirty to go after a teenage boy she needs locking up how on earth could she sleep with a kid 🤮🤢
She is a groomer, for sure... but i´d like to see people reacting in the same way to cheating, also when women with way older partner do that...
18:08 “It’s one of the last taboos.”
Granny, some things are taboos for _good reason._
Yes! Finally. This woman is creepy as hell.
Hollyweird is just sick and twisted and they are trying to normalise this ish
I’m 39.. have hooked up w men way younger but stopped a long time ago as the dynamic can feel so off. I also think there’s a big difference in an older woman feeling flattered that a young guy still finds her sexy or have a one night of fun…. But for an older person to flaunt and openly date a younger partner is a whole different level of fuckery. That age difference is NOT to be bearing love and respect and a connection worth bringing to a relationship. Not only just from the way people might view you but you know the power dynamic is off. You can’t grow and learn from each other and build love when you know it’s just a sexual fetish type dynamic ! Every woman fears her husband leaving them for a younger girl and that idea is strongly shown in movies, tv shows, true crime stories. Thank you for covering this, Sloan
SLOAN PLEASE TRY TO ALWAYS be FAIR & reasonable on all topics. I like the kindness and understanding you impart to us. Love the efforts to do research.Well done.
Did he not do that?
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Are you mad? Are you a crone that likes teenagers?
I feel like he's always nice
@@christaortega8073me too
I love the let’s get into it into audio clip
Btw, they met when he was 15. Not 18. During the audition. There’s a gap when they are auditioning and finally filming
It's not about the age gap really, 40 and 60 (who met at that age) go for it, 50 and 30 have a ball, it's the fact that he was an inexperienced naive child that hadn't even been out in the world on his own. Yes 10 years is fine as long as the youngest is mid to late 20s.
Honestly, I feel so bad for him. He missed out on so many young adult experiences, things that make you who you are. Breaking up, making up, cliche ass shit like dancing in the rain, being by yourself, experimenting with every aspect of yourself, your 20s are such an important time to find your style, voice, and most importantly your boundries.
Personally, I'm not sure im a big fan of say 2 18yr olds getting married that young. Don't get me wrong sometimes it works out but usually it doesn't.
I just hope he doesn't wake up and look around at 50 and have a nervous breakdown when he realizes he skipped a big portion of the who are you part of life. Whats he going to do when she inevitably passes first? He went straight from being under the direction of his parents to being under her comand? He's never been on his own, he never had a chance to have things happen to establish dislikes, likes, again BOUNDARIES. I think he's headed for a hard time.
My ex was 12 years younger, yet we both met at work as adults, and people thought I was younger than him, lol. Unfortunately, I realized he was looking for a replacement mother thanks to childhood trauma
Someone pls tell me...what kind of psychomother wears a shirt saying "star palate"? Lynne Spears is so freaking wierd. I feel so bad for Britney. So embarrassed for her!
Can you eli5 what "star palete" means?
If he was with Joey King, it was years ago she's been married herself for a while now
Thank you for covering this on your channel because it was interesting. I love your channel 💕
I'm kind of torn on this one. Yeah, I can't imagine dating someone so much younger or older than me BUT then again I've heard many stories of extreme age gap relationships with much older men that seem to be way more acceptable to people and seemingly are happy?
This is all just modern day infantilization of adults. If they actually cared about the issue and weren’t on a bandwagon of outrage they would be doing actual work to change the age of majority from 18 to 30 or whatever they think it should be.❤
@@essies4294you sound stupid. Why on Earth would governments make the age of consent 30? They want people getting married, working and joining the military much earlier than that. 18 is leagues away from 30 in terms of every metric. Noon would care if they started when he was 25.
@@essies4294 Bingo.^^
so....praying and wanting a actual family to break up?? regardless of how it started they have kids who are innocent to that.
Ugh I hate it when celebrity family members write books before the celebrity themselves. It’s pure greed. Shows what kind of human they are.
Also if she gets a restraining order that pretty much proves he is just harassing her criminally. So nope. I can not support him. When someone is asked to leave they are supposed to leave. Unless it’s their own home.
I can see Aaron cheating on his ole bag. Sam knew that this game had a time limit.
OMG amanda bynes is unrecognisable! I thought 'I know a different amanda bynes, idk who this is?!' and it's HER?! So sad!!!
These big age gaps have always perplexed me. I instantly think of Jerry Seinfeld and his child bride. It’s just weird. I tried dating a guy who was 60 when I was 44 and I was like nope. Not gonna happen. The sad 🍆. He needed to be waited on. He was into the news like it was a soap opera. Constantly checked his stocks. No thank you. There is so little in common with these gaps.
Same, dated a man 53 when I was 35, we were together 3 years but at least 2 of those years I was living in bizarro world! He was narcissistic but the generational differences were there to me also, sometimes he'd say the same things my dad would say that made me roll my eyes, got to the point my eyes were about to roll out of my head!
I’m 33 and I couldn’t imagine dating anyone younger than 25 personally - and that’s at a push for me. So I can’t imagine how dating a teenager in your 40s sounds like a good idea
Its sad that thru her pain shed become such a great actress that touched MILLIONS of children has somehow forgotten how to be her real self. I think she doesnt know who she is anymore. And BABYGIRL, we dont wanna see that guy doing anything but holding the damn camera YOU SHULD BE TALKING AND ASKING QUESTIONS not him. Love u Amanda find urself please ❤
I'm 28 and when I watch shows based around highschool aged kids or like coming of age shows I feel like such a fucking creep for thinking any of those people are hot. Even if in real life they're around my age just because they're acting as a high schooler I'm grossed out. In my mind teenage dudes and even early twenties are basically toddlers mentally/emotionally.
I feel awful for the men who are abused by women and won’t report it because they feel they won’t be believed and/or will be mocked (I feel awful for anyone abused just to be clear).
Maybe they are in love. It does exist ya know.
Okayyy sloannn that new intro though! I love it ❤
Weird but men have been doing this since forever.. my own grandma was married to a man almost 30 yrs older than her. We can all feel some type of way about age differences but I only care when it’s a physical relationship with someone underage. He was 18/19? And he’s not out here complaining; they look like they’re doing ok. Regardless of age.
She was also his boss. There was a massive power imbalance.
A lot of this is misogyny let's not lie. Sylvester Stallone also got with his 19 year old wife when he was in his 40s, yet no ones calls him nasty names and spam him everywhere.
I'd just like to clear up a few things about Sam and Aaron's relationship based on what can actually be confirmed and backed up with legit evidence.
- Aaron's date of birth is on the 13th of June of 1990 and casting for the film began around August/September 2008, so if Aaron and Sam first met when he auditioned for the film then that means that he was 18 years old, not 17 or 19 like some people believe.
- Filming for Nowhere Boy apparently began around February/March of 2009 and ended around May 2009 which means that Aaron did not turn 19 until after filming ended.
- Aaron was filming Kick-A*s and had a very tight schedule when the auditions for Nowhere Boy were happening so due to conflicting schedules the only way he would have been able to audition was if he went on his day off to audition at Sam's house since it would have been scheduled last minute.
- There is no actual evidence or proof of Sam knowing Aaron or his family before he auditioned for Nowhere Boy despite people claiming that they did in fact know each other before 2008.
- Sam was not an established director before directing Nowhere Boy. She had only directed a couple of short films before and Nowhere Boy was the first full-length film she ever directed.
- Sam and Aaron publicly announced their relationship in October 2009, around the same time that the film was released in theatres. His parents were completely against the relationship at first, but they apparently got over it some time after Aaron and Sam's first child was born.
- Both Sam and Aaron have publicly stated that they had an immediate attraction and connection when they met, and that connection/attraction only grew stronger the more time they spent together. They also admitted that the relationship began only after filming was over, which means that the relationship supposedly began around May 2009. Although, people who worked with them did say that it was very obvious that something was going on between them because it was like they were in their own little world on set.
- Also, during an interview after the film was released Sam admitted that she and Aaron had been living together since around March 2009 which means that it's more likely than not that the relationship began much earlier than they claimed it did. Plus, when they publicly announced their relationship in October 2009 they had already gotten engaged.
- They announced they were expecting their first child in January 2010, and gave birth in July 2010. And they had their second child 2 years later in 2012 and got married a few months after.
You Go! So great coverage of a weirdo situation as I've wondered about that coupling. If she is responsible for his acting ability I offer him up. He's astonishing and if that's what he wants and she gets him there. WTF.
Great Podcast Sloan ❤!! I Love everything that you do because it’s so well done. And you are so articulate & Yes 🙌 handsome as well lol😂. Please do let us have a peek into your life more because I do believe you have a great story to tell about your life & how you got to be so successful! Thanks 🙏 so much Sloan for all the hard work that you do & the risks you take sometimes to bring us the story!!!
FYI Tyler topic starts at min 10.
A very interesting thing is that lots of people said they meet when he was like 8 years old, then stay around his orbit. Once he turn 18 that’s when they call it official
I’m in my late 40s & this is why I have an issue with it. In my 20s I was successful bc I built a company. Prior to that, I had been a model signed to the biggest agency & been on my own making 6 figures since 16. I had grown up in a hut in a 3rd world so we didn’t know better either. Men, including A-listers I can prob call out, would want to date me even though they knew my age. They’d groom me by telling me, “I was different than girls my age bc I was successful & living on my own.” This superficially may have been true. I thought I was so mature. Money & a career cannot equate to life maturity. However, looking back in my 30s and again in my 40s, I knew nothing about life. When ur 18+ is the time where u leave the nest and grow with ppl ur same age. U learn as u make the same mistakes with them. A man/woman who dates young ppl is doing nothing but parenting and when ur 18-28, u really don’t get it until u become their age. Then u look back and ask urself- what did this older person have in common with me back then. I look at that 30yo hitting on my 17yo self & it disgusts me in so many ways. At 30, I cannot fathom having anything in common with a 17yo. It’s so inappropriate on many many levels.
It will take STJ for his kids to be that same age and see how he was groomed. She’s a pedophile and Leo DiCaprio, Dane Cook and any person over 30 dating anyone under 24 is a legal one.
It’s different once u hit 30 and want to date a 50yo. Seeing ppl like this triggers me esp bc I didn’t have any1 telling my young self that these ppl had something really wrong with them.
When a young person says, they're an old soul to justify a relationship; that's the first sign of grooming
when is amandas podcast coming out i love to see it
Edward Furlong and Jackie Domac... When I was a teen, that was the ATJ of my time.
I was waiting for this!!!!
Unpopular opinion, but hear me out. I'm 39, single since over 5 years. I've always dated guys my age or slightly younger. But there came a time i was pursued by much youger guys, in their ealry- mid twenties. I know majority of people cannot imagine this or are even grossed out and i get it. What i experienced with younger guys however, was so different than dating men my age. Men my age are often kinda jaded, play games as in not showing any affection or treating me like an option and as if I'm nothing special. Fair enough if that's how they really feel, but a lot of it is insecurity, fear and unhealed heart break. Younger guys have often been so much more open and affectionate towards me. They openly confessed their feelings and emotions and treated me with so much respect and admiration. I obviously would never accept a proposal or get into something really serious with someone under at least 25. I just wanted to share some insight that to a point i understand the attraction a younger guy can have. I definitely am guilty of that. After being treated like literal shit by men my age, it gives me solace and hope that there are still guys out there who are better. Its just a shame they're over a decade younger than me.
I also date younger guys, who are men anyway not kids, they are way better than older guys...
@@desireelachante1284 Some of them are still kids 😅 but so are the 40+ yo men. I think in the end it comes down to mental maturity and that's often not determined by the physical age. And also it depends on what people are looking for in their partner. Personally I don't need a provider or material wealth, I'd rather have a partner who respects me and truly loves me.... and if the one who can offer that happens to be 10+ years younger than me, be it. Love is love... 😊
@@kathyhilbig9312 exactly they are kids anyway! So at least I'll get a fresh, active, handsome and young one! 😂 And yes they have a opener mentality and it's not to late, in case, to 'teach" them how to treat a lady😂😂
I can see that. I'm only 30 and my fiancé is almost 4 years younger than me. Whenever younger men (I call them boys, but they're men) whenever they attempt to pursue me, they're so much more vibrant and lively than other 30 year olds who already seem dead inside. 🤷🏼♀️
I can totally understand where you're coming from. Obviously I don't know you, but in my point of view, it seems that you yourself are kinda jaded due to the mistreatments from men your age and feel insecure because of it? So then you resort to much younger guys bcs they have less experience of heartbreak, instead of trying to talk through the relationship with a man your age? I get that it can be exhausting, I've been in the same boat I almost gave up dating altogether. I've just seen a lot of the men counterparts who call older, more experienced women bitter, have too much baggage, etc. And to me, you seem to be the flip side of the coin. Just my two cents.
What’s going on with the the lack of guests ? 😢
It is very clear that she groomed him. When people are groomed, they don't understand or don't want to accept what happened to them.
A middleaged woman going after a guy who could've been her own SON'S AGE and pursuing a relationship with him JUST as he turned 18. According to her, Aaron was a "troubled teen", (so she knows he was a teen, a kid) and I have heard he also had anxiety at the time. If a teacher did this to a student, would it be acceptable? Hell no it wouldnt.
I’m 53 and could never..
Hahaha, i just saw that this video was under lets get into it and i was pissed someone was trying to copy you. I clicked on the video to see who the culprit was and it was you. Looks like i have many more videos to watch. Amanda bynes my fav topic
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It's such a waste because he has so much to offer Someone who isn't old enough to be his grandma
Not grandma lmao
OMG so much prejudice against his wife he is not 18 anymore and he can divorce if he wants
Omg ur intro was super good but also would love to see more about your day to day