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  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet Місяць тому +92

    Why did the narcissist cross the road?...... They thought it was a boundary, badumtisssss ⚔️😎⚖️

  • @f1ng1rl
    @f1ng1rl Місяць тому +9

    The scariest thing about this reading is that this happened to me, I blocked them and didn’t even tell them why and I never will because they know why. Some people are truly insane. If anyone else reads this please cut off toxic people so that they can’t profit off of your blessings, it’s YOUR life and you owe no one anything at all.

  • @jessicawicker3582
    @jessicawicker3582 Місяць тому +9

    You are absolutely correct 💯
    They are going to learn a very hard lesson

  • @Cajungypsy682
    @Cajungypsy682 Місяць тому +14

    Good luck kiddo. You met your match. My God is stronger than your demons.

    • @sylvialundin4968
      @sylvialundin4968 Місяць тому

      Yes keep your faith as we must to stand our ground. It is so repugnant. I got out 3 years ago. Would get a restraining order if he comes to my house. PDQ

    • @Freedomofspeechisgod
      @Freedomofspeechisgod Місяць тому

      Truth! Trust that everything hidden will come to the light. Always.

  • @melissa-hw7jr
    @melissa-hw7jr Місяць тому +1

    This is what i have been dealing with. They are determined.

  • @JSTNtheWZRD
    @JSTNtheWZRD Місяць тому +5

    Can't leave, fused spine, no family. no friends.....

    • @jessicawicker3582
      @jessicawicker3582 Місяць тому

      I❤Y
      Pray....He hears your fainst whispers.... Knows every hair on your head ... Loves you.... A lifetime of tribulation is better than 1 day in hell ...🎉🎉🎉🎉
      Rejoice, tell your body, "body you're going to act right, and be well in the name of Jesus Christ! Body, work in the way God intended for you to be, right now! In Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen"
      Believe it.... Be grateful... Ignore the ugly, keep your eyes on Jesus face.... 🎉🎉🎉🎉
      Don't look at them ❤
      You're never alone....and stronger than you know

  • @anahifuentes2637
    @anahifuentes2637 Місяць тому +11

    This happened to me. I moved to another country for my ex and then when I was completely financially dependable on him without any alternatives He started to treated me bad and he left me for someone else. Leaving me broke, jobless and away from all my friends and family. He still tried to get back on my good grace for several years but I strenght my boundaries. I still managed to move forward and slowly but surely made my way. After 3 years living there I move back to my country and Got back my stability. I don't hold grudges against people but this guy was another level so I healed, moved on and never look back. I don't want anything to do with him. I don't even resent him anymore. I cut all ties.

    • @jasmine333-h6i
      @jasmine333-h6i Місяць тому

      blessings to you, that was extremely difficult to experience and transcend. 🤍

  • @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu
    @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu Місяць тому +5

    Idk why but I run into this energy all the time that im genuinely sick of it
    Everyone (from family to bfs & ex husband) tries to sabotage me when it comes to my finances/independence
    I had been ruminating about this HARD the past few days because I can't wrap my brain around why this continues to be a such a key theme in my life

    • @ashhcatchemall
      @ashhcatchemall Місяць тому +1

      no reason except ppl are terrible. it's not you.

    • @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu
      @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu Місяць тому +1

      @@ashhcatchemall apparently just terrible around me lol they are all very supportive with everyone else...its mindboggling

    • @ashhcatchemall
      @ashhcatchemall Місяць тому

      @@ultravioletfemme-lq5mu there's studies that the more altruistic you are the less people team up with you or like you. It's like the more altruistic others are the more it makes them look bad in comparison, if they could see past their own ego they'd know it's not personal. It's their issue with themselves, and not our fault.

    • @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu
      @ultravioletfemme-lq5mu Місяць тому

      @@ashhcatchemall ahhh interesting, good to know.

    • @jessicawicker3582
      @jessicawicker3582 Місяць тому

      You have to face it and see what are the reasons for falling for it... This is what I had to do .. 8 guess I was feeling rejection...and clingy but no... They wanted me and everyone else to 😂😂😂
      So, did I want to go behind that? Not even having a day on if I catch an STD because of them?
      Who cares who their fuckin, they could not even satisfy me ... With 8 billion people in this rock, who wants that shit😂😂😂😂
      So, it's a weakness which I believe God was making me face ..
      Who can ever see a lie coming? Only the liar can!

  • @HestiaFires
    @HestiaFires Місяць тому +2

    So right on! This is happening to me now. This man has parasitized me for years and I can't get rid of him. The only recourse I have is getting the law involved but that is messy. I pray for Divine Intervention! Please, I need divine intervention!! Initially, he was all charm. I learned he's a filthy misogynist and doesn't like it that I'm doing better than him but takes all he can from me!

  • @AlchemyOfInteraction
    @AlchemyOfInteraction Місяць тому +5

    “i want you to rely on me for money, even tho i’ve been unemployed for the last four years”

  • @contentedtiger_
    @contentedtiger_ Місяць тому

    Jess this was a painful story to listen to. Kind of put into perspective what I've endured. I am grateful to God for freeing my heart while everything else falls into place. 🌹

  • @7thHouseScorpio
    @7thHouseScorpio Місяць тому

    My middle name is literally Fawn lol and you’re speaking on my child’s father’s energy. He sabotages EVERY SINGLE THING. Broke into my house, my car, and I been telling this man for 10 years I don’t want him he STILL is trying to get in my energy lol

  • @kitty2doggyMeow
    @kitty2doggyMeow Місяць тому

    I think that a lot of people feel school is that way too "It is not a place to make friends." It has become more professional.

  • @contentedtiger_
    @contentedtiger_ Місяць тому

    I just want to say again that this story is painful. I think it's because you delivered it with such realism and compassion.

  • @maggs4714
    @maggs4714 Місяць тому +1

    💫⚡️💫Hi Jess, No Way!! IT’S JUST NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!😉 He needs to stay away!! You were dead on!!!..I hear You loud & Clear…Doesn’t matter..He has met his match!!
    I’m Confident& Strong!! Thank you so much I watch You every day!! 😉👍🏻🙏🏻

  • @sherwoodregan
    @sherwoodregan Місяць тому +4

    💯 Baby trapped, plandemic made it so much worse- lost my business and couldn’t return to work as he was just using weaponised incompetence so I couldn’t leave the baby, isolated me from family and friends, insisted on doing all the cooking and was trying to make me overweight and unattractive, massively financially abused me so I couldn’t leave the house, couldn’t get clothes or a haircut or go out anywhere. Tried to get me to sign up for a more expensive house. He wanted total control, while he went out and partied and cheated and slandered me to everyone. He’s horrific. So relieved to be free.

    • @beekocsis4051
      @beekocsis4051 Місяць тому +1

      How did you get free? I’ve been trying for 7 years

  • @toniponey7758
    @toniponey7758 Місяць тому

    This is so accurate … thankfully I moved away from weirdo neighbour stalker early this year. The harassment was unwarranted, sneaky & very nefarious but over time I got proof. Wishing anyone else going through similar experience a successful escape! 🙏

  • @maggs4714
    @maggs4714 Місяць тому +2

    I can’t stand this kind of Energy either!! he never even physically said “Hello” or looked me in the eye?? I’m not an Idiot!I He doesn’t have a chance!!😉 Enough is Enough..Get Lost 👎🏻👎🏻I AM only getting Stronger & Stronger!!! No I do NOT need him…He needs me!!👎👎👎🏻👎🏻

  • @JSTNtheWZRD
    @JSTNtheWZRD Місяць тому +1

    Dang lever pullers. I dig that. We should like make it the new karmic, lever pullers. 😅 like in eraserhead

  • @angelinadivina24
    @angelinadivina24 Місяць тому

    I’ve been through some stuff but glad to say this one doesn’t resonate for me. 😅 I truly feel for you all that are dealing with this person! 😮‍💨

  • @Moonbaby262
    @Moonbaby262 Місяць тому

    lol! Exactly what I’m going through with a new guy and what I went through with my ex-husband. Sending mail to my house. Narc just like my ex. Textbook.

  • @MyWalk3296
    @MyWalk3296 Місяць тому +1

    Be gone, get behind me.

  • @loveanab
    @loveanab Місяць тому

    Thank you Jess! Love you! I needed your confirmation so much . I am struggling but holding my ground. My new motto is: Can't touch this! lol and you must have felt my energy anger towards this turd! I went Boss mode on that fool. 😂 He's actually scared of me. That's crazy! Yeah he aint reducing shit. He says I'm delutional lol dude you are so ...fill in whatever word u wanta use describe this jack Ass. 😂 I cant imagine living with this nutbag daily. He can trigger anyone. .i cant stand that energy either. You always feel my energy alot when its intense. Thats amazing. I love your talented nature..you use your gifts. An angel in flesh helping so many people Jess. ❤❤

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock Місяць тому

    It will end badly

  • @AlchemyOfInteraction
    @AlchemyOfInteraction Місяць тому

    literally posted in community tab “how dare they be happy without me!”

  • @Scubiedoo79
    @Scubiedoo79 Місяць тому

    Thank you. Been blinded for years 🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @Goldenspeakingwolfwoman
    @Goldenspeakingwolfwoman Місяць тому

    Yup - thank you

  • @jasmine333-h6i
    @jasmine333-h6i Місяць тому

    thank you for this reading. it confirms something i was sensing about a person in my community. i’m very sensitive to energy and could feel either her pulling on my energy or an attachment on her pulling on my energy. i cut things off with her and my energy and timeline shifted. to anyone who has difficulty breaking away, im sending you prayers and blessings to break away. know in your mind that no one can control you and that you are always protected. i’ve learned that if you believe that you aren’t protected, that it will override the protection you are receiving. try not to be afraid. pray not to be afraid. 🤍

  • @Freedomofspeechisgod
    @Freedomofspeechisgod Місяць тому

    They may want to. They can’t unless I willingly give it up. They can’t do ish to me. It’s funny to me. Because they can’t bother me. Because I honestly don’t care about them. Literally at all. 😂😂😂 it’s so funny

  • @Mz.CreeMoon
    @Mz.CreeMoon Місяць тому +1

    Ms. Jess.. YOU R FRICKING AWESOME❤🎉❤ I love your visual analogies 💝 That's exactly how I speak soul Sister. Thanks kindly as I am a new subscriber 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Freedomofspeechisgod
    @Freedomofspeechisgod Місяць тому

    It only works if I believe it.

  • @jessicawicker3582
    @jessicawicker3582 Місяць тому

    A liar will always be a liar at the end of the day....
    I see why God hates it...
    They can't cause anything else... This is a domino effect now.... I am not even going to hear it, look at it, or tolerate it ever again

  • @the_intuitive_siren11
    @the_intuitive_siren11 Місяць тому +1

    How about some of those people were cops, judges and prosecutors that helped them terrorize my life

    • @amberjohnson7406
      @amberjohnson7406 Місяць тому +1

      I'm dealing with something similar in my town with my family. I hope that you're taking care of yourself.

    • @the_intuitive_siren11
      @the_intuitive_siren11 Місяць тому

      @@amberjohnson7406 thank you. I hope you rebuild better and stronger✨❤️

    • @amberjohnson7406
      @amberjohnson7406 Місяць тому +1

      @@the_intuitive_siren11 looks like I can't comment back to you on here about my situation. Someone just deleted my comment

  • @themetamystic
    @themetamystic Місяць тому +3

    not the jersey shore metaphor 😂 i love you jess haha thank you for making me laugh about this dark energy that i'm still clawing my way out of

  • @rosie7152
    @rosie7152 Місяць тому +3

    This is my mother.

  • @JSTNtheWZRD
    @JSTNtheWZRD Місяць тому +2

    It's my mom I'm handicapped right now, its worse than you think❤is there no help from my fellow

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet Місяць тому +3

    Domination Ideology is everywhere Jess, like one really needs God's guidance yo avoid this sheeetttt.... but I say this through the keys of being born with Eris in Aries directly opposite Pluto in Libra... so I need God's guidance to avoid this sheeeetttt

  • @Melinda-xq5do
    @Melinda-xq5do Місяць тому

    It's been in all ways of my life and stolen my inheritance because he's stolen my mail and stolen my identity

  • @AmandaAtchison
    @AmandaAtchison Місяць тому

    Yep 😢

  • @monicatriant1207
    @monicatriant1207 Місяць тому

    Yeah, he stole my children!!!

  • @seashellz321
    @seashellz321 Місяць тому

    12:26 THAT. The phrase he used was "What If", and sent me a song with that title... "what if we're meant to be"

  • @scarlettxfaerie
    @scarlettxfaerie Місяць тому

    Yes a lot is going on but the biggest recent betrayal has been trying to ruin my Etsy Shop, the only form of making money that I have.

  • @nicoleknickerbocker8740
    @nicoleknickerbocker8740 Місяць тому

    My ex Cameron Samuels, hes an absolute freaking nightmare 😭

  • @PatienceLoveWinzzzz
    @PatienceLoveWinzzzz Місяць тому +1

    Sounds like a baby who wants a pacifier and can’t have it and throwing a whole tantrum because he want that pacifier 😂 oh well you keep ignore them they will eventually stop crying . Ain’t nobody afraid of a narc .

  • @aubreycain3142
    @aubreycain3142 Місяць тому +2

    Haha they can try and try to keep me small. But ive neverbbeen small norbwill i ever be

  • @deewalker2456
    @deewalker2456 Місяць тому +1

    Sounds like Diddy and Cassie

  • @jaimeeduren1857
    @jaimeeduren1857 Місяць тому

    Spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @debrachambers1554
    @debrachambers1554 Місяць тому +1

    I don't understand why me? Why the
    Obsession? I'm a single woman now!
    I'm not signing anything for anyone
    for money! He should have stayed
    with his last fling. I did reach out to
    him this morning to continue his
    Spiritual healing. He never responded.

  • @jaimeeduren1857
    @jaimeeduren1857 Місяць тому +2

    I’m trying to get free but he had a 4 year head start spreading evil lies please pray god helps me & my boys out…. Even when we ran to a d v shelter he got a women to trick me … I was tied to a bed drugged and raped while my baby’s sit in the next room… it worked I ran back yo him in fear of the world again and it’s just so bad…

    • @rachierachh18
      @rachierachh18 Місяць тому

      Omg my heart goes out to you. Much love beautiful

  • @Geraldine-1111
    @Geraldine-1111 Місяць тому

    creepy

  • @mayamuscio1878
    @mayamuscio1878 Місяць тому

    he is the cleaning manager. scorpio ... lots of placements in my 12th house... he has a crush on me but he wants to destroy me.. so weird haha

  • @Linglingyouforgotyablingbling
    @Linglingyouforgotyablingbling Місяць тому

    Wooo this grown man needs a new hobby 😂 that midlife crisis hitting real hard 🤣👏👏👏

  • @AlexPostScript
    @AlexPostScript Місяць тому

    wait a minute... is this about my creepy stepdad? he... wanted uh to... have 'relations' with me, did something horrible to me, then convinced my birth-giver to abandon me because I reported him (even though the charges were dropped and both my birth-giver and my bio-sister lied to the police and possibly under oath as well). If this is about him and not my ex-friend who sabotaged my relationship with my bf who got back together with me after almost 7 months apart that's WILD. Can you tell that I've had to deal with psycho controlling creepers more than once??? HOLY moly I wish I was making this up... feels like i'm in the Twilight Zone at times
    EDIT: Squatter's Rights, they can either stay there for 3 months or get mail sent/pay rent and you can't kick them out, had that happen with someon.
    EDIT 2: the ex-friend sabotaged the relationship so he could uh... have a relationship with me, when I rejected him, he got pissed and unadded me, probably thinking i'd chase? but i know the truth, so now he's blocked on everything.

  • @TanjaVargoEventCoordinator
    @TanjaVargoEventCoordinator Місяць тому

    So on point. It is my ex husband

  • @Laura_Devine_333
    @Laura_Devine_333 Місяць тому

    Ew. I would have seen this gross 'wanna-be-me' way sooner lol. But that's because I was with someone attached to this witch. He was harvesting my energy and giving it to this 'Big Kahuna' and lying about it for years.. They deserve each other. Bye, Succubus and Incubus, bye LOL!
    Thanks for sharing your gifts with the world. ❤

  • @ForeverSingle10000
    @ForeverSingle10000 Місяць тому

    You smashed what is going on in my life with the person who has been stalking me for 16 years. I know he's out to snuff out my light. He has spent nearly 16 years trying to isolate me and alter the way people see me. I knew he was that kind within 3 seconds of our first meeting and gave him a wide berth. Unfortunately, the silence of the people he has poisoned against me keeps him in my life. I've found God again because of him so not all bad I guess.

  • @debbieharry4452
    @debbieharry4452 Місяць тому

    This is my mother. Unfortunately.

  • @riandaheininga465
    @riandaheininga465 Місяць тому

    My story

  • @Ray-y7l
    @Ray-y7l Місяць тому

    Ya I'm not seeing the abusive part. I thought this was about help

  • @bri-zy4ty
    @bri-zy4ty Місяць тому +2

    I wanna throw up this is exactly my situation, and unfortunately I don't have much of a choice but to deal with this 😢

    • @amberjohnson7406
      @amberjohnson7406 Місяць тому

      I'm sorry to hear that you feel that you don't have a choice. I've been in this situation before and there are ways of getting out. I pray that you can find someone within your community to help you. I planned my escape and left. You just have to want to leave. Take care

  • @Tresieeeeeeèe
    @Tresieeeeeeèe Місяць тому

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @KOiknow24
    @KOiknow24 8 днів тому

    No.

  • @kerstinschorn5092
    @kerstinschorn5092 Місяць тому +1

    Sounds Like a narc

  • @JSTNtheWZRD
    @JSTNtheWZRD Місяць тому

    Everyone knows this is going on

  • @SM-dc7wp
    @SM-dc7wp Місяць тому

    🪽🩵🪽

  • @LoveGodLove14
    @LoveGodLove14 Місяць тому

    You picked up on my ex-partner Ed which is out of my life almost but as far as in love with him absolutely not not even love even in a minute he wishes he wishes to control me even more but he will soon see that I will walk away never to see him again.

  • @Ray-y7l
    @Ray-y7l Місяць тому

    I mean are things not going well?

  • @AmandaAtchison
    @AmandaAtchison Місяць тому

    🎉

  • @KseniaKsenia6
    @KseniaKsenia6 Місяць тому

    💚

  • @jessicawicker3582
    @jessicawicker3582 Місяць тому

    Flim flammer

  • @saraseavin7240
    @saraseavin7240 Місяць тому +7

    This might be the message to the divine masculine in the last channeled message

    • @motherofsamson
      @motherofsamson Місяць тому

      Omg yes this makes sense 😮🎉😂❤

  • @denali1122
    @denali1122 Місяць тому

    No one cares about the truth

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock Місяць тому

    Can't buy me Love the Beatles

  • @fronosmanfreddi3393
    @fronosmanfreddi3393 Місяць тому

    I’m confused by the story of the womanizer and the woman who expects him to only talk to her? Which one is the bad person?

  • @almostteatime6758
    @almostteatime6758 Місяць тому

    💙💙💙

  • @Ray-y7l
    @Ray-y7l Місяць тому

    Or whom it is

  • @Ray-y7l
    @Ray-y7l Місяць тому

    Or are yal saying it's not going well enough?

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet Місяць тому

    This youtube seems a n appropriate awareness for the mythos of Ganymede? The symbol used for the zodiac of Aquarius... the coming refinement of Pluto going through Aquarius?

    • @pragmaticpoet
      @pragmaticpoet Місяць тому

      And I must admit I've been noticing the asteroid Lucifer in a person chart or the synastry charts = they want to be defied or prioritized over God in your life

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock Місяць тому

    Lay off

  • @Ray-y7l
    @Ray-y7l Місяць тому

    You need to calm down and take a breath lol some of us have no idea what you talking abiut

  • @saraseavin7240
    @saraseavin7240 Місяць тому +2

    The dog story omggg🫢🫢🫢