I like what you said about spouses competing. In so many marriages one or both spouses will "keep score". The scorekeeping spouse often values their points more than that of their spouse. The spouse's points often depreciate over time
Two weeks ago this would have went in one ear and out the other, but recently God has been opening my eyes to my feminist tendencies. My inner “need to be right” mentality can really bring an argumentative side on issues that I could take to God and %50 would be settled that way. I love what everyone had to say. This is just what I needed. ❤
The bit about complaining vs. expressing concerns...brilliant! I loved that you guys got the chance to have this interview. You guys have such a strong voice these days and it was a needful conversation for young married couples.
I love your acknowledgement of the differences between us in relationships... makes a lot of sense. Just wondering how you think this applies in same sex relationships?
I would have loved it if you had gotten to the question that is at the heart of the debate for well meaning Christian men and women, and that is whether the man has both the ability and responsibility to 1) decide when an issue is at an impasse, and then 2) have the "final say" on any matters that can't be readily resolved. I think this is a lie from the pit of hell that is destroying real unity in marriage. Jesus said we shouldn't lord our authority over other people, but too many churches teach men to do exactly that, rather than mutually submitting and partnering with their wives. I'd love you to tackle that tension in a future episode.
Husband and wife in Christ Genesis 3 kjv (After God caught adam and eve) [16] Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, AND HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE. God said it plain as day. The husband has authority. It is what it is. The bible never changes. In every type of relationship only one has authority. Not two. From the president to employers all the way around. In this case the husbands. Ephesians 5 [22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it. 1 corinthians 14 [33] For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. [34] Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 1 timothy 2 [9] In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; [10] But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. [11] Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. [12] But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. [13] For Adam was first formed, then Eve. [14] And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. [15] Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. Husband and wife in Christ. The husband has authority over the money, finances, estate and everyone in it. In a Godly way. The wife must respect the husbands authority willingly out of respect and love and obedience to God. The children as well. And have a peaceful environment. Only true children of God will respect eachother in a Godly relationship. Not a busy chaotic household or life. Nothing like indoor animals or video games to take time away from worshipping and studying HIS word. And to not create idols. 1st timothy 3 4] One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; [5] (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? Be busy in the Lord, not busy in the world. Chaos is from the devil. And be immune to outside interference from others. If this is flipped then the man is a cowardly simp. Common these days. Husband and wife in Christ both need to learn their role to be a happy and respectable couple. Gods order of the family unit. Christ Husband Wife Children Others. In that order. No outside interference should disturb that order. This is Gods structured order. Femenists/satanists will fight this to the end. Matthew 12 [32] And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come. Denial of scripture is blasphemy against the holy spirit. Please dont comment about abuse or mismatch. This is about a serious mature husband and wife in Christ. Not a worldly husband and wife. Faith works. Serve the Lord. Have a blessed day 😁
I like what you said about spouses competing. In so many marriages one or both spouses will "keep score". The scorekeeping spouse often values their points more than that of their spouse. The spouse's points often depreciate over time
Two weeks ago this would have went in one ear and out the other, but recently God has been opening my eyes to my feminist tendencies. My inner “need to be right” mentality can really bring an argumentative side on issues that I could take to God and %50 would be settled that way. I love what everyone had to say. This is just what I needed. ❤
The bit about complaining vs. expressing concerns...brilliant! I loved that you guys got the chance to have this interview. You guys have such a strong voice these days and it was a needful conversation for young married couples.
I love 'Feminine not Feminist' posts! 💖 God bless you all!
I love your acknowledgement of the differences between us in relationships... makes a lot of sense. Just wondering how you think this applies in same sex relationships?
I would have loved it if you had gotten to the question that is at the heart of the debate for well meaning Christian men and women, and that is whether the man has both the ability and responsibility to 1) decide when an issue is at an impasse, and then 2) have the "final say" on any matters that can't be readily resolved.
I think this is a lie from the pit of hell that is destroying real unity in marriage. Jesus said we shouldn't lord our authority over other people, but too many churches teach men to do exactly that, rather than mutually submitting and partnering with their wives.
I'd love you to tackle that tension in a future episode.
Husband and wife in Christ
Genesis 3 kjv
(After God caught adam and eve)
[16] Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, AND HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE.
God said it plain as day. The husband has authority. It is what it is. The bible never changes.
In every type of relationship only one has authority. Not two. From the president to employers all the way around.
In this case the husbands.
Ephesians 5
[22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
[23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
[24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
[25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.
1 corinthians 14
[33] For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.
[34] Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
1 timothy 2
[9] In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
[10] But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
[11] Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
[12] But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
[13] For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
[14] And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
[15] Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
Husband and wife in Christ.
The husband has authority over the money, finances, estate and everyone in it. In a Godly way. The wife must respect the husbands authority willingly out of respect and love and obedience to God. The children as well. And have a peaceful environment.
Only true children of God will respect eachother in a Godly relationship.
Not a busy chaotic household or life. Nothing like indoor animals or video games to take time away from worshipping and studying HIS word. And to not create idols.
1st timothy 3
4] One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
[5] (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?
Be busy in the Lord, not busy in the world. Chaos is from the devil. And be immune to outside interference from others.
If this is flipped then the man is a cowardly simp. Common these days.
Husband and wife in Christ both need to learn their role to be a happy and respectable couple.
Gods order of the family unit.
Christ
Husband
Wife
Children
Others.
In that order. No outside interference should disturb that order.
This is Gods structured order.
Femenists/satanists
will fight this to the end.
Matthew 12
[32] And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come.
Denial of scripture is blasphemy against the holy spirit.
Please dont comment about abuse or mismatch. This is about a serious mature husband and wife in Christ. Not a worldly husband and wife. Faith works.
Serve the Lord.
Have a blessed day
😁