I think it’s unfair to blame budget cuts for a poor education. We have a good education system in Scotland. However, we tend to keep handing out government money on other things.
Wow, just traveled the exact same road to home education, well done you, massive commitment to your kids. They will have a great time on the new education journey. We’re watching closely for any tips .
I homeschooled my kids from day one and one is getting a masters and the other in college doing wonderfully. They are very social and have friends. Do not listen to all the people who have no idea what they are talking about. Homeschooling is wonderful.
As a Mum who took her child out of school at 5 years old due to a head teacher force feeding them & causing serious school anxiety, I think you’re making the right choice for your family right now. Their happiness and education is paramount and if that’s not happening in the school system then home education is an amazing alternative. My younger children have never seen the inside of a classroom (their choice). We are 14 years into home education and LOVED every minute of it ❤ All the best to you all on the start of your exciting journey into education your way!
Good for you & your family - I home educate my son and have done for the last three years - and I have another that goes to school . Home educating is brilliant and they are learning all the time through every you do& it’s a much slower pace which absolutely works for us . Good luck in your home educating journey. X
I am so disappointed about how you are talking about the twins' teacher, here on youtube, and especially on Patreon. I really struggle to believe everything happened as described.
As a former teacher, I retired early because of two reasons - administrators and parents. The problems work both ways. Somehow it seems like homeschooling is going to be difficult for a social being like Agnes.
There are a ton of social opportunities available to homeschool kids. As a homeschool mom I have to limit my daughter’s social activities and get togethers so we have time for school. Sometimes we have to finish school for the week on Saturday because she had so much going on socially during the week. 😂
I think honestly lack of socialization is one of the myths of homeschooling pitfalls. I think it is a natural concern, but with dance,swimming ,community programs, outdoor activities, other homeschool meet ups, and cooperative learning there will be ample opportunity to engage with other children outside the home. Our governments are broke and starving our education and health care systems, and it’s showing. As a teacher, I’m sure you are well aware of the overcrowding, the lack of resources, the social breakdown leading to staff that are exhausted and unable to meet all the requirements. I too taught for many years. It doesn’t have to be an us vs. them. If we are honest our current system isn’t working well for any of us.
I fully support your descision and would say school broke me. I worked in education and it's not working in many ways. It's lovely how you have discussed your descisions with them. I had seen some changes in Leah, Erin and did worry about Agnes for a bit. You are amazing parents. 🤗🤗Xx
There are plenty of activities and clubs for them to be in for the social side and she has plenty of siblings. As a parent who has homeschooled both of mine. They had plenty of social outing and lots of friends. There are homeschool groups here in USA and millions are homeschooling these days. Mine are now in college and one getting his masters degree. There is no stopping them.
My suggestion is to get involved with local homeschool groups. They will be a great support for what’s available in the area. Also watch some you tube videos about homeschooling.
If children are stressed and so unhappy at school, youse are being Amazing parents home schooling and putting your children first is the absolute right decision ❤
Both my children have EBSA and haven’t been in education since mid September 2024. We are doing home learning and are waiting for assessments. Your children’s mental health and happiness is the most important thing. Your making the right choice for your children at this point in their lives.
We home educated our 3 oldest children at various times, and if I had school-aged children today I would absolutely not have them in school. I speak as the wife of a secondary school maths teacher who will happily be retiring shortly. He spends half his day teaching and dealing with matters that have absolutely nothing to do with his subject.Please don't feel pressured into doing everything as it would be done at school. Find what really interests each child and integrate maths, English, history, science etc. into that interest, they are much more likely to enjoy and learn that way. Also,don't try too hard with socialising. Socialising in school is not natural, they are stuck with their own peer group all day. Outside of school at the shops, doing various activities they will learn to mix with people of all ages.
@@cherrypie8796 when you home educate you dont have to have set lesson times at all, you can choose what you do and when you do it, there is mo pressure like school. You dont even have to follow the curriculum you can choose what to teach and how to teach at home. And the biggest thing of all is their mental health is not effected like it can be with school. Some people are lucky and their kids thrive at school and are not effected in any way but just remember some kids are not thriving and are effected. We do whats best for our kids and others should live and let live.
Best decision I made my son was depressed age 13.he has a big heart and is a unique soul.and was told to man up because he was upset at being constantly bullied. He was told he needs to change .so after 8 months we took him out .and he is doing really well.his mental health has improved so much .and he realises now that he doesnt need to change who he is.he is a happy healthy loving young man.he starts college in September and I'm sure he will flourish. Go with your hearts.
I ended up homeschooling my youngest for a while. We were lucky that I got him into an accredited online program. Teachers were in charge, supplies were provided and classes had scheduled times. He was still involved in recreation department sports too. We are lucky that we had support through our local board of education too. I have many friends who have home schooled long term and I assure you their children’s education was far superior to the children in public schools. You will find your way as parents/teachers and it will become easy and second nature. Give yourself grace while you get started. ♥️ My daughter is a stay at home mom now but she and her husband are both middle school teachers. I’m grateful that they both make a difference. 😊
I absolutely could not “get” algebra no matter how much I tried 😂 The alphabet doesn’t belong in math 😂 But I can do medication calculations easily. (Nursing skill) Flo is a doll 😊
Think you are doing the right thing ,as parents we all inly want the best for our kids and if that means pulling them out of mainstream schooling then you do it ,its no one else's decision only yours. Honestly I reckon children learn more at home . Good luck too you all x
You seem to have put a lot of thought into this decision. You also both look a bit upset by whatever has been going on. It's the best decision for you and your children. Glad the girls are feeling better, big hugs ❤
As a home ed parent to 2 children with sen needs honestly the best decision i made it wasnt an easy decision and a decision that took a long time but now i have no regrets we are lucky as a family to travel 2 times a year today we just come home from dubi and have done alot of learing over there to might be worth looking at little box crafters they do stem and craft also aqa certificates i know some people have the views oh no home ed bad view of it because of lack of knowledge but honestly home ed can be anythjng you want to do we have been through the same thing getting out of the mind set of traditional also might be worth looking at what the home ed community say is to give them time before starting home ed because of the trauma just add bits in gradually i wish you both the best for home ed journey there is pleanty of support groups out there sending postive vibes and love to you both and the family also just to note university look for children that are home ed as they are self sufficient as they dont need orders i know some one child who got in to university that has been home ed never been to school
I’m a retired Assistant Head of school catering for special needs. I retired early and ‘progression’ with new curriculum totally contradicted my ethos for these student. One size does not fit all. Experience followed by discussion is much more valuable. No two children learn in the same was.
It seems a shame that Agnes will be impacted bc you've made the decision that some of her siblings need a different school environment if she is thriving. At the end of day, you are responsible for your children and the decisions you make for them. As a result you also own the responsibility for all the outcomes, be it positive or negative. I'm not sure how anyone thinks they have right to tell you how you should raise your children.
We have a few kids in our family that have additional needs, but there is no spaces in the schools and nurseries that they need, and its been hard on the parents trying to find them the placements and help that the kids need, the schools are over crowded and no support for them or parents
I'm so glad you are now seeing home education as your future choice. It is not school at home but education in the fullest sense. I'm a teacher and have left the " sausage factory". Don't be afraid and don't defend your decision. They are your children. Loads of home education groups around.
A principle once told me that not every child is suitable for school..this was said by her in relation to my son who was continually in trouble in high school. He left school in yr 10 and he decided to study his way into university once he was out the school system and is now a podiatrist .I wished I had home schooled him as he struggled so much with anxiety etc. I then decided to home school my youngest daughter and here in Australia every year you are assessed to make sure you are teaching your child all the curriculum, I was told during one of these assessments that a home schooled child gets more education in 2 hours of learning a day than a child in school. In hindsight I wish I had homeschooled all my children..I hate that we have children then are expected to give them to other people who decide how our children need to learn, behave and be disciplined etc. the peer group pressure, being bullied, not fitting in can create life long issues. You will always get people who know nothing about home schooling telling you it's wrong etc..they need school to socialise blah blah. You know your child better than anyone else.
Well done Zoe and Ben I'm sure this was a hard vlog to make. I hope you're not getting any negative comments. I hope everybody is supporting you because you're making the correct decision for your children who only you know best. As Zoe has spoken about home educating the children on many occasions, especially Toby from when he was in the old school. It's lovely to say the change in him since his move to schools but unfortunately it doesn't suit everybody. As I've said in previous vlogs I have three autistic grandchildren and one who has ADHD. He's in year 6 & has an EHCP but if my daughter was to take him out to school to home educate him. She would have to pay private for all the services that are involved in his care that he needs, It's so difficult and just not straightforward. It may take you a little while to get established into a routine with all the children home educating but you will get there because they've got parents who care and are willing to put the effort in. All your children are good readers. We see that on the live they soon come in and start reading all the messages and I'm sure that's only from the effort you've put in because Joseph was doing the same. You all take care guys XX
As a teacher in the American school system; I would 1000% homeschool my children and I am actively helping my cousin begin her homeschool journey with her littles. You know exactly what your children need and how best to help them thrive. It’s not going to be easy; but I bet they will blossom immediately. Happy to follow your new education journey. Look into Outschool.
You have made the right decision for your children your children will be happier in the long run nothing wrong in homeschooling what amazing parents you are take care
Hey guys Home schooling is quite the norm here. You have obviously looked into it and only have the best of intentions for your wonderful brood. Go for it. We as parents need to do everything in our power to make sure our kids have all their needs met. As we know all kids are different and need different things. You always put yours first, so if home schooling means they are happier and content then that's what needs to happen regardless of what others say and think. I take my hat off to all home schooling parents they do a fantastic job. I have watched stories of home schooled kids and how it has impacted their lives and none of them were unhappy. I wish I had done it when my kids were small because they never fit in at school but my generation were definately brought up to believe kids went to school as soon as they turned 5. Time have changed thank goodness. Anyhoo good luck with your new venture your kids are going to thrive.
First of all, there’s no such thing as perfect parents or perfect children. If your children are suffering from anxiety and are constantly stressed, bullied and are not learning then making the decision you have is best. I watched school environment deteriorate so much over the last 10+ years. Needless to say, I retired. 👏 You have made the right choice. Schools are also spending too much time teaching things that young children aren’t emotionally ready to comprehend. I commend you for making the best choice for your children.❤😊
My son and daughter in love took our grandchildren Gracie and Walker out of public school and put them in a small private school because of bullying and other things. Gracie has nine kids in her class and Walker has seven. They are thriving and love their school, they are alot happier now then they were in public school. Your doing the best thing for the twins, they will thrive with ya'll teaching them. Don't let the naysayers, they don't know what your children need, ya'll do.
Zoe and Ben you are 💯 doing the right thing for your children in home-education, you will get people telling you that you are wrong don’t listen to them, because it’s your children not theirs, there are no set rules or times for any lesson, when I did it with my youngest I worked with what she wanted to do and when she was getting stressed we would stop and no more lessons indoors, we would go out, there is so much more to learn about the world around us by being outside, whether that’s the beach the park or the shopping it’s all educational and learning, plus learning begins at home, from a baby learning crawling sitting standing, walking, reading stories drawing etc, plus they learn life skills eg cooking sewing crafts but the best thing it is at the comfort of their own home with the people who brought them in the world l, and then we send them to strangers for 6 hours a day, I wish I had done this with my first, you learn more being out and about than sat in a classroom, more forest schools need built and secondary schools need to teach more social skills and offer more, skills like mechanics hair styling instead of just at college, I have seen some of my grandchildren who did really well in primary school to hate secondary school but also some grandchildren who are ok with both, but a lot are struggling with school, my 5 year old grandson who is autistic and non verbal and attends a mainstream school and is thriving there at the moment because he thrives on routine but he also loves being outside, he couldn’t be home-educated unless he was out all the time 😂😂😂😂, so Zoe and Ben you do what you want and what is right for your children don’t listen to anyone else, you both know your children, some people hate just because they think they can, you will love home ed oh by the way Joseph writing his name in the sand is mark making and guess what Ofsted would approve because they like children being outside more that inside, that’s a fact x😅
At the end of the day they’re your children and you’re doing what is best for them and no one has the right to judge or say anything else because you know them better than anybody else and I agree that if your children are a happy at school home educate them You know because you don’t want your children to suffer in silence if they’re sad I support I support you 110% and if you do get the old rude comment well they should mind their own bloody business because it’s nothing to do with them and but you always get that one nosy Parker thinking they know best well they don’t know your children And you’re putting your children’s needs first and that’s what good parents does that’s what that’s why you’ve got wonderful children with good manners because they loved the honest and you care about them some parents don’t give a damn about their children they don’t give a damn and they wonder why they go down the wrong path in lifeso so I wish you all the best and you’re doing the right thing for your children.
I wish i could have had home schooling for mine at the time i didn't know anything about it. All the best for the home schooling . Take care from Norfolk
I think you do you ! , if somebody ,anybody does not like it well tuff ! , you and your children are your concern ! not another humans choice ,your the parents ,you decide . ....
But isant this going to put presure on yr wife if you go to work & its left her to teach them as yr wife has had depression in the past & you both get stressed when their on holidays 😮😮😮
Your Life, Your Kids, Your Decision, I hated Parts of School due to Bulling & Lack of Education No Choice of Home Schooling back in the day Go for it Zoe & Ben you sure have my blessing xx
The Sullivan family is taking care of the Sullivan family! Perfect and thank you for even sharing what you did. That message helps a lot of other families. Ultimately, it is your children's welfare that you are looking out for, and have enough children and experience to know what the next move would be for any of the kids. BRAVO!!
We had one visit from education that’s it once they could see my son safe and doing well they left us to it. When he reached 16 he went to college and done his gcse for free so you have that option
You guys do what you need to do, don’t listen to anyone else, you are doing what your children need and no one knows what they need better then you guys x sending lots of positive vibes to your wonderful family xxx
@thesullivanfamily yous know what's best for your kids and I think you've made the right decision. I've got friends that homeschool and they get on great and do things with other parents who homeschool. Xxx
Homeschool has worked for us and I have a boy with autism and a high schooler who have been home educated since kindergarten! The kids will thrive for sure! I think you will both be amazing learning coaches! Enjoy the ride! Love y'all xoxoxo
@@74nicckki yep im the same 2 out of my 4 are home educated and have been all the better for it, we do whats best for them not what society thinks we should do 🙂
I homeschool both my kids my daughter since 1st grade my son never went they are now 19 and 21 and in college doing amazing we are in the USA and it is looked on bad by people here but you know your child others do not you have to look after them mentally and physically don’t let others dog you you do what’s best for them
Every state in The US is different. I live in NC we homeschool and pay for everything. It doesn’t have to be expensive. The public school in NC and many other states provide free homeschool education. We pay 40$ a month for my son’s education it’s so worth it.
I would have loved to not have gone to secondary school. I was very small,lived a very sheltered upbringing and wasn't taught anything about being social aware. I had to find that out myself once I left home. I was useless at English Literature but great at grammar and unfortunately in Scotland it was one exam. I never understood Maths at all so for me I could have done without those. However to get into training at uni you do actually need English and maths. Luckily I trained and qualified as nurse but I had no hope of training to be a teacher which I wouldn't have minded doing. It's such a shame. I was good at music and school was great for that because I learned to play instruments and could sing in the school choir and play in the school orchestra. So you go on doing what is best for your family and I hope to see lots of smiley happy people enjoying home schooling.There are Man bhone schoolers in Moray and they do meet up regularly which is lovely. Today we went for a walk with our daughter in her wheelchair along the coastal path, and I was able to tell my husband that the path was suitable for a wheelchair(all because I had seen you guys walk it so many times)
As a teacher I can see many children that would benefit from home education. Often they do not have the parents at home and the support to have the opportunity of home education so very happy that you are able to support the kids in this way. One thing I would say is to take it year by year and particularly look at the kids when they are teens and see whether they would benefit more by being back in the system. Very hard decision guys, glad you’ve come to the right conclusion for your family! ❤❤❤❤
Best decision I ever made to pull my daughter out of high school when she was 12, now 38. Good on you for caring for your children. Just be open to their changing needs and wishes as time goes on.
Great decision guys u know ur child/ren better than anyone -- I’ve got PTSD from school I was serverly bullied being registered partially sighted and deaf I really really struggled through all aspects of school I wish my mum and dad would have home schooled me too be honest the bullying extended too my private life too once I was followed in Bradford town centre and on the bus I was drenched in a 2 litre bottle of coke I was nearly 18 left school at 16 no college I went back straight out too work in McDonalds in which the bullies made extremely hard there too -- I’ll be honest since year 9 I’ve heard voices psychic behaviour clinically depressed and server anxiety which is now well medicated through a psychiatrist --- I’ll wish u both good luck 🤞 hope Erin Leah Eva Agnes Joseph and Flo excel at home schooling big hugs 🤗 darlings love ❤️ Claire from Bradford West Yorkshire xx Ps I also don’t use anything I learnt in school I don’t know anyone who does my mum taught me too read and write not school xx
I totally applaud you for your decision. I take care of my granddaughter and she has just started year 7 in a new school, and she has completely changed, she suffers severe anxiety attacks and gets really distressed at having to go school. The school has been excellent, but I think I may need to follow your example, because it’s about the child, not the school.
There ought to be the same resources whichever style of education fits your children,and I mean being able to get credit for managing your child's education.
I am with you about home schooling, and a lot more parents are doing it. Kids learn through play. And at the end of the day their health and well being is more important. X X
Brilliant news,,, my partner has home schooled out 4 little ones since Covid , they are alot happier in there selves ,,,,I totally agree with everything you said ,,there mental health is definitely more important
My family in the USA were pioneer home schoolers (educaters) my children are now 38 and 40 years old. They went to public school till 4th and 6th grade. I say, so does my husband and children. The best and most loving decision we made. They are both well adjudicated adults. Work hard and are well liked by employers and co-worker's. We are very proud of them. Yes i see people advising getting involved in a home school group. That was good for us too. Some parents taught classes i did not feel qualified in so they got a well rounded education. You are looking out for the best for your precious children. You will NOT regret it. I believe you are doing the best gor them. When you see changes in their personality and anxieties, you as their parents know what is best for them blessings to you . I will be praying for you
Hi Zoe and Ben I'm 70 and I've learnt more since going to school in the late 50s and 60s I left in 69 .I hated school my son is 52 and when he was at one school I had to go to the headmistress office for his first report and she said he would never be clever I said no he might not be clever with his head but he might be clever with his hands he went on to be a brick layer and he had to do maths to make a mix of cement I took his out of that school when he was 8 as his report said he had a reading age of 5 he went to another school and came on leaps and bounds . He said when he was at senior school what history got to do with life or geography I said I think it's a waste of time Zoe and Ben good for you both to take the kids out of school I think they will come on leaps and bounds one lesson going to the woods looking at wild life like the birds or squirrels or looking for bugs and all the different trees ect.ibthink the girls would do well at brownies they are already SoCal they go dancing and swimming love fran from st Helens xxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤
Schools are not great anymore. They spend very little time learning at school. So much wasted time. It’s a good decision to take them out. Happiness is so very important ❤
You do what you need to to make sure that your children are safe n loved and at the end of the day they’re your children and we all know how cruel other kids can be but if this is about a teacher and she made your daughter feel that way and then maybe she needs to find a new profession whatever you need to do to make sure that your children are thriving. That’s the bottom line.
I home educated my fraternal twin boys, due to bullying they encountered at their first secondary school. They thrived as a result. Their confidence levels soared and I didn't regret. Good luck whatever you decide.
You must always do whatever you feel is best for your family. As a retired special education teacher from the US, i can live in the shed and help out! However when I said the kids watch videos and color i almost fainted. I do support your decision and look into the homeschooling programs.
You dont have to explain yourselves guys, theyre YOUR kids . We owe our kids to do what WE think is right and thats what youre doing!!!!keep being you, i hear the home ed community is welcoming, i reckon youll smash it!!!! You know where iam xxx
Well done two very caring parents. You make so much sense and I think you both are so on the ball Makes me think it could be a thing of the future home education. All the very best. Maureen xxxxxx
Home schooling is far more common and significantly more successful than your keyboard critics realise. If traditional school was "the best place" for educating all children, then all children would successfully complete all years, but they don't. Better to home school them now, when there's ample time for you all to see how things go. Nothing is set in stone, and you are rolling with the changes you see you need to make to meet the needs of your family. No one else can ever fully understand what those are except you and your children.
The last 2 years of primary was covid for my youngest... she thrived doing homeschool, so much so when she went back for a term after covid she was one of a handful who hass excelled. I really enjoyed home schooling. I know i'm not at highschool level to do it though so she went to secondary ... This lead to increase in social anxiety etc needing a therapist intervention .... Thankfully we have a very good school here and they are totally understanding to her needs and she is thriving there too atm. I do believe the social life for kids is important but also homeschooling can work too if its done in the right way. (hs groups, education trips, home economics etc)
Hi my son has been home educated for nearly 5 years now due to being severely let down by the education system.He has autism and ADHD which I have had to fight to get a diagnosis but it was the best decision I have ever made ❤
And plus, they have siblings and great parents. That's what I get. How do they socialise, lol 😆 . They are around people they like and who they choose to be around. Nothing is forced they get plenty one on one time.
Side noite, home education takes way less time with pen and paper because your teaching children how to learn, research,create and think critically, including problem solving etc. out side play, cooking, shopping, can all be lessons in math, science, environment and so much more.
Every parent wants their child to be happy. I totally get all your reasons for deciding to home educate the lovely Erin and Leah. A child’s happiness and well being is any decent Mum and Dads first priority. You are totally doing the right thing, the right thing for you and the twins. I wish you all the best moving forward. Ignore the negative comments, they are not worth the keyboards they are typed on. Love to all xxx
Great vlog, thank you so much for your honesty. Its a double edged sword, social media ... Its great to share your incredible life with a lovely large family but tyere will always be negative comments on all decisions.... Dammed if you do and dammed if you dont, its obvious to see from that video that these decisions are made carefully over long thought and consideration for the well being of your family. I feel grateful that you care to share these new changes to the family educational structure, personally if i had a negative view i wouldnt be so rude , i would just not watch it as its plain to see you dont need anyones permission, you have chosen to tell us out of politeness and also on a need to know basis. I think we need to take the main point from this video and thats that you are aware that your children all have different needs and you are prepared to go to whatever lengths necessary to see they have those needs met as well as possible. Go Sullivan Family ! X
SEN isn’t well supported in many schools, all over the UK, so I’m not really surprised by your decision. At least you guys are home and can do this. So many parents saw the value of home education during lockdown, and if you can do it, then go for it! 🎉❤ edit: to be honest, I wish I’d done this for my eldest 35 years ago…..and I was about to say, you guys know what your kids need!
I wished I had done this with my elder children I did it with my youngest child for two years but she had to return to school for 1 and half years because I was a single parent and was told my money would stop so I trained to be a childminder so I was still home if any problems arose, and have a bit of college, she became one of my assistants because when my middle daughter went back to university to train as a midwife, I only minded her children instead and my youngest was learning all the time plus she became an auntie when she was 7 she is now 28 at 20 she was diagnosed with autism, so that’s why she struggled at school, she also did ballet, tap dancing and jazz dance, did majorettes for 3 years, she even did Brownies and got so much confidence, I am glad I home-educated even for only two years, but she learnt so much from childminding x
Hi Zoe and Ben , you know your children better than anyone , the twins will thrive now being home educated, wishing you all a happy weekend lots love Rose ❤
It’s ridiculous to expect all children are the same and have to pass exams that are not suited to their capabilities. Everyone is different and have their own set of skills. They may memorize for an exam and never use it again.
Hi Zoe and Ben I totally agree with you and you know your children best and I personally think mental health is much more important than education they need to be happy to thrive and you will do a great job you can see they are everything to you , sorry to hear eva has had a bad time but I'm sure she will be fine with you and Ben supporting her lot of love and best wishes to you all ❤❤❤
Good on you Zoe and Ben! You know your own children and want them to have a happy life! Wish I was home educated especially in secondary school, after my dad died when I was 12 and when I went back to school I got treated differently and I ended leaving school totally when I 13. And it hasn't done me any harm, I have and had a good career. Best wishes for all the children they will be great at anything they want to do x
Know how you feel my son left school at 14 but home school was not around 35 yrars ago But a nice school social worker got him a work licence he hayed school so he worked for a local butcher cleaning and then he ended running the shop with him and never been out of work for 36 years but my eldest son hated work but joined the army ay 17 and left 27 years later so all kids are dofferent
Zoe and Ben, you are their parents and you know what is best for your children more than anyone else. I always believed this, whether it was going to school, doctor etc. Fair play to both of you for making this decision and knowing both of you through your vlogs, it was well researched and taught about. Best of luck with this and you are correct Zoe saying a teacher can make or break a child. I wish I was home educated as I hated school and only did what I needed to do to scrape by. But at the age of 35 I went to collage and enjoyed it so much. You can go to collage at any age. In my opinion their mental health is more important than any education. Love to your beautiful family as always from Ireland
So many supportive comments, so many stories!! Thank you for your support and for sharing your journeys here guys we appreciate it so much!! Ben ❤xxx
I think it’s unfair to blame budget cuts for a poor education. We have a good education system in Scotland. However, we tend to keep handing out government money on other things.
Wow, just traveled the exact same road to home education, well done you, massive commitment to your kids. They will have a great time on the new education journey. We’re watching closely for any tips .
I homeschooled my kids from day one and one is getting a masters and the other in college doing wonderfully. They are very social and have friends. Do not listen to all the people who have no idea what they are talking about. Homeschooling is wonderful.
your so right.
As a Mum who took her child out of school at 5 years old due to a head teacher force feeding them & causing serious school anxiety, I think you’re making the right choice for your family right now. Their happiness and education is paramount and if that’s not happening in the school system then home education is an amazing alternative. My younger children have never seen the inside of a classroom (their choice). We are 14 years into home education and LOVED every minute of it ❤ All the best to you all on the start of your exciting journey into education your way!
Why does yr wife keep looking up in the air perhaps they didnt like the move you done
Good for you & your family - I home educate my son and have done for the last three years - and I have another that goes to school . Home educating is brilliant and they are learning all the time through every you do& it’s a much slower pace which absolutely works for us . Good luck in your home educating journey. X
I am so disappointed about how you are talking about the twins' teacher, here on youtube, and especially on Patreon. I really struggle to believe everything happened as described.
As a former teacher, I retired early because of two reasons - administrators and parents. The problems work both ways. Somehow it seems like homeschooling is going to be difficult for a social being like Agnes.
There are a ton of social opportunities available to homeschool kids. As a homeschool mom I have to limit my daughter’s social activities and get togethers so we have time for school. Sometimes we have to finish school for the week on Saturday because she had so much going on socially during the week. 😂
I think honestly lack of socialization is one of the myths of homeschooling pitfalls. I think it is a natural concern, but with dance,swimming ,community programs, outdoor activities, other homeschool meet ups, and cooperative learning there will be ample opportunity to engage with other children outside the home.
Our governments are broke and starving our education and health care systems, and it’s showing. As a teacher, I’m sure you are well aware of the overcrowding, the lack of resources, the social breakdown leading to staff that are exhausted and unable to meet all the requirements. I too taught for many years. It doesn’t have to be an us vs. them. If we are honest our current system isn’t working well for any of us.
Think this is a good thing for the children , and they will learn so much more about real life etc ❤
I fully support your descision and would say school broke me. I worked in education and it's not working in many ways. It's lovely how you have discussed your descisions with them. I had seen some changes in Leah, Erin and did worry about Agnes for a bit. You are amazing parents. 🤗🤗Xx
There are plenty of activities and clubs for them to be in for the social side and she has plenty of siblings. As a parent who has homeschooled both of mine. They had plenty of social outing and lots of friends. There are homeschool groups here in USA and millions are homeschooling these days. Mine are now in college and one getting his masters degree. There is no stopping them.
My suggestion is to get involved with local homeschool groups. They will be a great support for what’s available in the area. Also watch some you tube videos about homeschooling.
If children are stressed and so unhappy at school, youse are being Amazing parents home schooling and putting your children first is the absolute right decision ❤
I have been homeschooling for 25 years. We have 11 children, and you are going to do great! The kids will flourish! Sending big love from Wisconsin.❤
Both my children have EBSA and haven’t been in education since mid September 2024.
We are doing home learning and are waiting for assessments.
Your children’s mental health and happiness is the most important thing.
Your making the right choice for your children at this point in their lives.
We home educated our 3 oldest children at various times, and if I had school-aged children today I would absolutely not have them in school. I speak as the wife of a secondary school maths teacher who will happily be retiring shortly. He spends half his day teaching and dealing with matters that have absolutely nothing to do with his subject.Please don't feel pressured into doing everything as it would be done at school. Find what really interests each child and integrate maths, English, history, science etc. into that interest, they are much more likely to enjoy and learn that way. Also,don't try too hard with socialising. Socialising in school is not natural, they are stuck with their own peer group all day. Outside of school at the shops, doing various activities they will learn to mix with people of all ages.
I think you have to be 100% committed in putting in the work to homeschool. Set lesson times as routine is still important.
What makes you they won’t be? And who told you it has to be set lesson times ?
I’m sorry I disagree there is no need to do set lesson times when you home educate not home school as it is completely different!!
@@cherrypie8796 when you home educate you dont have to have set lesson times at all, you can choose what you do and when you do it, there is mo pressure like school. You dont even have to follow the curriculum you can choose what to teach and how to teach at home. And the biggest thing of all is their mental health is not effected like it can be with school. Some people are lucky and their kids thrive at school and are not effected in any way but just remember some kids are not thriving and are effected. We do whats best for our kids and others should live and let live.
@@rhirhi43 absolutley right, well said 👏👏👏👏👏
I have often thought of doing this for my kids but to scared to take the leap. So happy you’re doing what’s right and suits your kids
Best decision I made my son was depressed age 13.he has a big heart and is a unique soul.and was told to man up because he was upset at being constantly bullied. He was told he needs to change .so after 8 months we took him out .and he is doing really well.his mental health has improved so much .and he realises now that he doesnt need to change who he is.he is a happy healthy loving young man.he starts college in September and I'm sure he will flourish. Go with your hearts.
I’m 68 years of age and I never went to school but I haven’t done to bad in my life ,every day things are more important than stuff you never use
I ended up homeschooling my youngest for a while. We were lucky that I got him into an accredited online program. Teachers were in charge, supplies were provided and classes had scheduled times. He was still involved in recreation department sports too. We are lucky that we had support through our local board of education too.
I have many friends who have home schooled long term and I assure you their children’s education was far superior to the children in public schools.
You will find your way as parents/teachers and it will become easy and second nature. Give yourself grace while you get started. ♥️
My daughter is a stay at home mom now but she and her husband are both middle school teachers. I’m grateful that they both make a difference. 😊
I absolutely could not “get” algebra no matter how much I tried 😂 The alphabet doesn’t belong in math 😂
But I can do medication calculations easily. (Nursing skill)
Flo is a doll 😊
i think you are so wrong by homeschooling what about there friends u are so wrong
Think you are doing the right thing ,as parents we all inly want the best for our kids and if that means pulling them out of mainstream schooling then you do it ,its no one else's decision only yours.
Honestly I reckon children learn more at home .
Good luck too you all x
You seem to have put a lot of thought into this decision. You also both look a bit upset by whatever has been going on. It's the best decision for you and your children. Glad the girls are feeling better, big hugs ❤
As a home ed parent to 2 children with sen needs honestly the best decision i made it wasnt an easy decision and a decision that took a long time but now i have no regrets we are lucky as a family to travel 2 times a year today we just come home from dubi and have done alot of learing over there to might be worth looking at little box crafters they do stem and craft also aqa certificates i know some people have the views oh no home ed bad view of it because of lack of knowledge but honestly home ed can be anythjng you want to do we have been through the same thing getting out of the mind set of traditional also might be worth looking at what the home ed community say is to give them time before starting home ed because of the trauma just add bits in gradually i wish you both the best for home ed journey there is pleanty of support groups out there sending postive vibes and love to you both and the family also just to note university look for children that are home ed as they are self sufficient as they dont need orders i know some one child who got in to university that has been home ed never been to school
I’m a retired Assistant Head of school catering for special needs. I retired early and ‘progression’ with new curriculum totally contradicted my ethos for these student. One size does not fit all. Experience followed by discussion is much more valuable. No two children learn in the same was.
It seems a shame that Agnes will be impacted bc you've made the decision that some of her siblings need a different school environment if she is thriving.
At the end of day, you are responsible for your children and the decisions you make for them. As a result you also own the responsibility for all the outcomes, be it positive or negative. I'm not sure how anyone thinks they have right to tell you how you should raise your children.
We have a few kids in our family that have additional needs, but there is no spaces in the schools and nurseries that they need, and its been hard on the parents trying to find them the placements and help that the kids need, the schools are over crowded and no support for them or parents
I'm so glad you are now seeing home education as your future choice. It is not school at home but education in the fullest sense. I'm a teacher and have left the " sausage factory". Don't be afraid and don't defend your decision. They are your children. Loads of home education groups around.
A principle once told me that not every child is suitable for school..this was said by her in relation to my son who was continually in trouble in high school. He left school in yr 10 and he decided to study his way into university once he was out the school system and is now a podiatrist .I wished I had home schooled him as he struggled so much with anxiety etc. I then decided to home school my youngest daughter and here in Australia every year you are assessed to make sure you are teaching your child all the curriculum, I was told during one of these assessments that a home schooled child gets more education in 2 hours of learning a day than a child in school. In hindsight I wish I had homeschooled all my children..I hate that we have children then are expected to give them to other people who decide how our children need to learn, behave and be disciplined etc. the peer group pressure, being bullied, not fitting in can create life long issues. You will always get people who know nothing about home schooling telling you it's wrong etc..they need school to socialise blah blah. You know your child better than anyone else.
Well done Zoe and Ben I'm sure this was a hard vlog to make. I hope you're not getting any negative comments. I hope everybody is supporting you because you're making the correct decision for your children who only you know best. As Zoe has spoken about home educating the children on many occasions, especially Toby from when he was in the old school. It's lovely to say the change in him since his move to schools but unfortunately it doesn't suit everybody. As I've said in previous vlogs I have three autistic grandchildren and one who has ADHD. He's in year 6 & has an EHCP but if my daughter was to take him out to school to home educate him. She would have to pay private for all the services that are involved in his care that he needs, It's so difficult and just not straightforward. It may take you a little while to get established into a routine with all the children home educating but you will get there because they've got parents who care and are willing to put the effort in. All your children are good readers. We see that on the live they soon come in and start reading all the messages and I'm sure that's only from the effort you've put in because Joseph was doing the same. You all take care guys XX
As a teacher in the American school system; I would 1000% homeschool my children and I am actively helping my cousin begin her homeschool journey with her littles. You know exactly what your children need and how best to help them thrive. It’s not going to be easy; but I bet they will blossom immediately. Happy to follow your new education journey. Look into Outschool.
You have made the right decision for your children your children will be happier in the long run nothing wrong in homeschooling what amazing parents you are take care
Hey guys
Home schooling is quite the norm here. You have obviously looked into it and only have the best of intentions for your wonderful brood. Go for it. We as parents need to do everything in our power to make sure our kids have all their needs met. As we know all kids are different and need different things. You always put yours first, so if home schooling means they are happier and content then that's what needs to happen regardless of what others say and think. I take my hat off to all home schooling parents they do a fantastic job. I have watched stories of home schooled kids and how it has impacted their lives and none of them were unhappy. I wish I had done it when my kids were small because they never fit in at school but my generation were definately brought up to believe kids went to school as soon as they turned 5. Time have changed thank goodness.
Anyhoo good luck with your new venture your kids are going to thrive.
You will all smash this ❤xx
First of all, there’s no such thing as perfect parents or perfect children. If your children are suffering from anxiety and are constantly stressed, bullied and are not learning then making the decision you have is best. I watched school environment deteriorate so much over the last 10+ years. Needless to say, I retired. 👏 You have made the right choice. Schools are also spending too much time teaching things that young children aren’t emotionally ready to comprehend. I commend you for making the best choice for your children.❤😊
My son and daughter in love took our grandchildren Gracie and Walker out of public school and put them in a small private school because of bullying and other things. Gracie has nine kids in her class and Walker has seven. They are thriving and love their school, they are alot happier now then they were in public school. Your doing the best thing for the twins, they will thrive with ya'll teaching them. Don't let the naysayers, they don't know what your children need, ya'll do.
Zoe and Ben you are 💯 doing the right thing for your children in home-education, you will get people telling you that you are wrong don’t listen to them, because it’s your children not theirs, there are no set rules or times for any lesson, when I did it with my youngest I worked with what she wanted to do and when she was getting stressed we would stop and no more lessons indoors, we would go out, there is so much more to learn about the world around us by being outside, whether that’s the beach the park or the shopping it’s all educational and learning, plus learning begins at home, from a baby learning crawling sitting standing, walking, reading stories drawing etc, plus they learn life skills eg cooking sewing crafts but the best thing it is at the comfort of their own home with the people who brought them in the world l, and then we send them to strangers for 6 hours a day, I wish I had done this with my first, you learn more being out and about than sat in a classroom, more forest schools need built and secondary schools need to teach more social skills and offer more, skills like mechanics hair styling instead of just at college, I have seen some of my grandchildren who did really well in primary school to hate secondary school but also some grandchildren who are ok with both, but a lot are struggling with school, my 5 year old grandson who is autistic and non verbal and attends a mainstream school and is thriving there at the moment because he thrives on routine but he also loves being outside, he couldn’t be home-educated unless he was out all the time 😂😂😂😂, so Zoe and Ben you do what you want and what is right for your children don’t listen to anyone else, you both know your children, some people hate just because they think they can, you will love home ed oh by the way Joseph writing his name in the sand is mark making and guess what Ofsted would approve because they like children being outside more that inside, that’s a fact x😅
Congratulations for home schooling your children. The system failed me. Keep up the good work.❤❤
At the end of the day they’re your children and you’re doing what is best for them and no one has the right to judge or say anything else because you know them better than anybody else and I agree that if your children are a happy at school home educate them You know because you don’t want your children to suffer in silence if they’re sad I support I support you 110% and if you do get the old rude comment well they should mind their own bloody business because it’s nothing to do with them and but you always get that one nosy Parker thinking they know best well they don’t know your children And you’re putting your children’s needs first and that’s what good parents does that’s what that’s why you’ve got wonderful children with good manners because they loved the honest and you care about them some parents don’t give a damn about their children they don’t give a damn and they wonder why they go down the wrong path in lifeso so I wish you all the best and you’re doing the right thing for your children.
I wish i could have had home schooling for mine at the time i didn't know anything about it. All the best for the home schooling . Take care from Norfolk
I think you do you ! , if somebody ,anybody does not like it well tuff ! , you and your children are your concern ! not another humans choice ,your the parents ,you decide . ....
But isant this going to put presure on yr wife if you go to work & its left her to teach them as yr wife has had depression in the past & you both get stressed when their on holidays 😮😮😮
You know best for ur children! Your both Absolutely amazing parents ❤
Your Life, Your Kids, Your Decision, I hated Parts of School due to Bulling & Lack of Education No Choice of Home Schooling back in the day Go for it Zoe & Ben you sure have my blessing xx
Sending lots of positive energy✨ to you both and the family.
Your doing what is best for your family x your amazing parents xx
The Sullivan family is taking care of the Sullivan family! Perfect and thank you for even sharing what you did. That message helps a lot of other families. Ultimately, it is your children's welfare that you are looking out for, and have enough children and experience to know what the next move would be for any of the kids. BRAVO!!
We had one visit from education that’s it once they could see my son safe and doing well they left us to it. When he reached 16 he went to college and done his gcse for free so you have that option
You guys do what you need to do, don’t listen to anyone else, you are doing what your children need and no one knows what they need better then you guys x sending lots of positive vibes to your wonderful family xxx
@thesullivanfamily yous know what's best for your kids and I think you've made the right decision. I've got friends that homeschool and they get on great and do things with other parents who homeschool. Xxx
Homeschool has worked for us and I have a boy with autism and a high schooler who have been home educated since kindergarten! The kids will thrive for sure! I think you will both be amazing learning coaches! Enjoy the ride! Love y'all xoxoxo
@@74nicckki yep im the same 2 out of my 4 are home educated and have been all the better for it, we do whats best for them not what society thinks we should do 🙂
I homeschool both my kids my daughter since 1st grade my son never went they are now 19 and 21 and in college doing amazing we are in the USA and it is looked on bad by people here but you know your child others do not you have to look after them mentally and physically don’t let others dog you you do what’s best for them
Every state in The US is different. I live in NC we homeschool and pay for everything. It doesn’t have to be expensive. The public school in NC and many other states provide free homeschool education. We pay 40$ a month for my son’s education it’s so worth it.
Have you heard of kit Macgraff especially for maths expensive but worth it
I feel for you both you do whatever is best for your children will they not miss there friends children come first love you all ❤
I 100% agree with your choice i just think if the kids have friends at school if they will still connect with them? - Elliot
I would have loved to not have gone to secondary school. I was very small,lived a very sheltered upbringing and wasn't taught anything about being social aware. I had to find that out myself once I left home. I was useless at English Literature but great at grammar and unfortunately in Scotland it was one exam. I never understood Maths at all so for me I could have done without those. However to get into training at uni you do actually need English and maths. Luckily I trained and qualified as nurse but I had no hope of training to be a teacher which I wouldn't have minded doing. It's such a shame. I was good at music and school was great for that because I learned to play instruments and could sing in the school choir and play in the school orchestra. So you go on doing what is best for your family and I hope to see lots of smiley happy people enjoying home schooling.There are Man bhone schoolers in Moray and they do meet up regularly which is lovely. Today we went for a walk with our daughter in her wheelchair along the coastal path, and I was able to tell my husband that the path was suitable for a wheelchair(all because I had seen you guys walk it so many times)
As a teacher I can see many children that would benefit from home education. Often they do not have the parents at home and the support to have the opportunity of home education so very happy that you are able to support the kids in this way.
One thing I would say is to take it year by year and particularly look at the kids when they are teens and see whether they would benefit more by being back in the system. Very hard decision guys, glad you’ve come to the right conclusion for your family! ❤❤❤❤
Big hugs to all of you all ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Best decision I ever made to pull my daughter out of high school when she was 12, now 38. Good on you for caring for your children. Just be open to their changing needs and wishes as time goes on.
Great decision guys u know ur child/ren better than anyone -- I’ve got PTSD from school I was serverly bullied being registered partially sighted and deaf I really really struggled through all aspects of school I wish my mum and dad would have home schooled me too be honest the bullying extended too my private life too once I was followed in Bradford town centre and on the bus I was drenched in a 2 litre bottle of coke I was nearly 18 left school at 16 no college I went back straight out too work in McDonalds in which the bullies made extremely hard there too -- I’ll be honest since year 9 I’ve heard voices psychic behaviour clinically depressed and server anxiety which is now well medicated through a psychiatrist --- I’ll wish u both good luck 🤞 hope Erin Leah Eva Agnes Joseph and Flo excel at home schooling big hugs 🤗 darlings love ❤️ Claire from Bradford West Yorkshire xx
Ps I also don’t use anything I learnt in school I don’t know anyone who does my mum taught me too read and write not school xx
You have got to do what is best for your children I have seen other people doing it and there kids are doing fine 😊
Well done, do what you have to do to protect your babies
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I totally applaud you for your decision. I take care of my granddaughter and she has just started year 7 in a new school, and she has completely changed, she suffers severe anxiety attacks and gets really distressed at having to go school. The school has been excellent, but I think I may need to follow your example, because it’s about the child, not the school.
There ought to be the same resources whichever style of education fits your children,and I mean being able to get credit for managing your child's education.
The schools here in Ireland 🇮🇪 are at the same so I'm pretty sure i now what you're going on about and i agree with you 💯
I am with you about home schooling, and a lot more parents are doing it. Kids learn through play. And at the end of the day their health and well being is more important. X X
Have you tried looking for homeschooling groups in your area
Brilliant news,,, my partner has home schooled out 4 little ones since Covid , they are alot happier in there selves ,,,,I totally agree with everything you said ,,there mental health is definitely more important
My family in the USA were pioneer home schoolers (educaters) my children are now 38 and 40 years old. They went to public school till 4th and 6th grade. I say, so does my husband and children. The best and most loving decision we made. They are both well adjudicated adults. Work hard and are well liked by employers and co-worker's. We are very proud of them. Yes i see people advising getting involved in a home school group. That was good for us too. Some parents taught classes i did not feel qualified in so they got a well rounded education. You are looking out for the best for your precious children. You will NOT regret it. I believe you are doing the best gor them. When you see changes in their personality and anxieties, you as their parents know what is best for them blessings to you . I will be praying for you
Hi Zoe and Ben I'm 70 and I've learnt more since going to school in the late 50s and 60s I left in 69 .I hated school my son is 52 and when he was at one school I had to go to the headmistress office for his first report and she said he would never be clever I said no he might not be clever with his head but he might be clever with his hands he went on to be a brick layer and he had to do maths to make a mix of cement I took his out of that school when he was 8 as his report said he had a reading age of 5 he went to another school and came on leaps and bounds . He said when he was at senior school what history got to do with life or geography I said I think it's a waste of time
Zoe and Ben good for you both to take the kids out of school I think they will come on leaps and bounds one lesson going to the woods looking at wild life like the birds or squirrels or looking for bugs and all the different trees ect.ibthink the girls would do well at brownies they are already SoCal they go dancing and swimming love fran from st Helens xxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤
Schools are not great anymore. They spend very little time learning at school. So much wasted time. It’s a good decision to take them out. Happiness is so very important ❤
You do what you need to to make sure that your children are safe n loved and at the end of the day they’re your children and we all know how cruel other kids can be but if this is about a teacher and she made your daughter feel that way and then maybe she needs to find a new profession whatever you need to do to make sure that your children are thriving. That’s the bottom line.
I home educated my fraternal twin boys, due to bullying they encountered at their first secondary school. They thrived as a result. Their confidence levels soared and I didn't regret. Good luck whatever you decide.
You must always do whatever you feel is best for your family. As a retired special education teacher from the US, i can live in the shed and help out! However when I said the kids watch videos and color i almost fainted. I do support your decision and look into the homeschooling programs.
I’m a twin was born 10 weeks early I’m now 25 Iv had a hard ride
Kid learn new things every day in school or not
You dont have to explain yourselves guys, theyre YOUR kids . We owe our kids to do what WE think is right and thats what youre doing!!!!keep being you, i hear the home ed community is welcoming, i reckon youll smash it!!!! You know where iam xxx
Well done two very caring parents. You make so much sense and I think you both are so on the ball Makes me think it could be a thing of the future home education. All the very best. Maureen xxxxxx
Home schooling is far more common and significantly more successful than your keyboard critics realise. If traditional school was "the best place" for educating all children, then all children would successfully complete all years, but they don't. Better to home school them now, when there's ample time for you all to see how things go. Nothing is set in stone, and you are rolling with the changes you see you need to make to meet the needs of your family. No one else can ever fully understand what those are except you and your children.
The last 2 years of primary was covid for my youngest... she thrived doing homeschool, so much so when she went back for a term after covid she was one of a handful who hass excelled. I really enjoyed home schooling. I know i'm not at highschool level to do it though so she went to secondary ... This lead to increase in social anxiety etc needing a therapist intervention .... Thankfully we have a very good school here and they are totally understanding to her needs and she is thriving there too atm. I do believe the social life for kids is important but also homeschooling can work too if its done in the right way. (hs groups, education trips, home economics etc)
Hi my son has been home educated for nearly 5 years now due to being severely let down by the education system.He has autism and ADHD which I have had to fight to get a diagnosis but it was the best decision I have ever made ❤
And plus, they have siblings and great parents. That's what I get. How do they socialise, lol 😆 . They are around people they like and who they choose to be around. Nothing is forced they get plenty one on one time.
Side noite, home education takes way less time with pen and paper because your teaching children how to learn, research,create and think critically, including problem solving etc. out side play, cooking, shopping, can all be lessons in math, science, environment and so much more.
Every parent wants their child to be happy. I totally get all your reasons for deciding to home educate the lovely Erin and Leah. A child’s happiness and well being is any decent Mum and Dads first priority. You are totally doing the right thing, the right thing for you and the twins. I wish you all the best moving forward. Ignore the negative comments, they are not worth the keyboards they are typed on. Love to all xxx
Do not listen to the trolls mental health matters of your children,I imagine this has went on for a long time,and you have made your decision on past
Great vlog, thank you so much for your honesty. Its a double edged sword, social media ... Its great to share your incredible life with a lovely large family but tyere will always be negative comments on all decisions.... Dammed if you do and dammed if you dont, its obvious to see from that video that these decisions are made carefully over long thought and consideration for the well being of your family. I feel grateful that you care to share these new changes to the family educational structure, personally if i had a negative view i wouldnt be so rude , i would just not watch it as its plain to see you dont need anyones permission, you have chosen to tell us out of politeness and also on a need to know basis. I think we need to take the main point from this video and thats that you are aware that your children all have different needs and you are prepared to go to whatever lengths necessary to see they have those needs met as well as possible. Go Sullivan Family ! X
We are having similar issues with grandson who as just started senior school he is autistic and definetly not getting the. Help he needs
SEN isn’t well supported in many schools, all over the UK, so I’m not really surprised by your decision. At least you guys are home and can do this. So many parents saw the value of home education during lockdown, and if you can do it, then go for it! 🎉❤ edit: to be honest, I wish I’d done this for my eldest 35 years ago…..and I was about to say, you guys know what your kids need!
I wished I had done this with my elder children I did it with my youngest child for two years but she had to return to school for 1 and half years because I was a single parent and was told my money would stop so I trained to be a childminder so I was still home if any problems arose, and have a bit of college, she became one of my assistants because when my middle daughter went back to university to train as a midwife, I only minded her children instead and my youngest was learning all the time plus she became an auntie when she was 7 she is now 28 at 20 she was diagnosed with autism, so that’s why she struggled at school, she also did ballet, tap dancing and jazz dance, did majorettes for 3 years, she even did Brownies and got so much confidence, I am glad I home-educated even for only two years, but she learnt so much from childminding x
I have grandchildren in Canada and USA. And believe me I understand why u made your decision. All the Best to You all😊👐🏼💕
Well done I'm happy for yous taking the kids out of school, best News ever,
Hi Zoe and Ben , you know your children better than anyone , the twins will thrive now being home educated, wishing you all a happy weekend lots love Rose ❤
Well done Zoe n Ben,doing what’s right for your children…Great parents x
It’s ridiculous to expect all children are the same and have to pass exams that are not suited to their capabilities. Everyone is different and have their own set of skills. They may memorize for an exam and never use it again.
Hi Zoe and Ben I totally agree with you and you know your children best and I personally think mental health is much more important than education they need to be happy to thrive and you will do a great job you can see they are everything to you , sorry to hear eva has had a bad time but I'm sure she will be fine with you and Ben supporting her lot of love and best wishes to you all ❤❤❤
Another youtuber i follow home educate her little ones.. life of Baldwins is channel name. They do good. Maybe speak to them
Good on you Zoe and Ben! You know your own children and want them to have a happy life! Wish I was home educated especially in secondary school, after my dad died when I was 12 and when I went back to school I got treated differently and I ended leaving school totally when I 13. And it hasn't done me any harm, I have and had a good career. Best wishes for all the children they will be great at anything they want to do x
I home-edded for 9 years. I only had one child but I have no regrets whatsoever. She's an adult now.
Ben,zo … this lady Imo knows everything about home schooling 👏👏👏xx
Know how you feel my son left school at 14 but home school was not around 35 yrars ago
But a nice school social worker got him a work licence he hayed school so he worked for a local butcher cleaning and then he ended running the shop with him and never been out of work for 36 years but my eldest son hated work but joined the army ay 17 and left 27 years later so all kids are dofferent
I wish my parents would have made that same decision.
Zoe and Ben, you are their parents and you know what is best for your children more than anyone else. I always believed this, whether it was going to school, doctor etc. Fair play to both of you for making this decision and knowing both of you through your vlogs, it was well researched and taught about. Best of luck with this and you are correct Zoe saying a teacher can make or break a child. I wish I was home educated as I hated school and only did what I needed to do to scrape by. But at the age of 35 I went to collage and enjoyed it so much. You can go to collage at any age. In my opinion their mental health is more important than any education. Love to your beautiful family as always from Ireland