Gay Dating in Korea: Went on a group date with strangers...
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
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Taking risks and trying to meet guys organically like so many of you suggested! lol
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Is it just me, but I can't help smiling like a idiot watching Dabit's videos 😊
His energy just brings me joy. 🥰
Thank you 🥹 this comment brings me so much joy 💕
You're definitely not the only one🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was giggling like crazy during the whole vid😊
I was coming here to say that too! All the time, I watch through the video and then realise at the end that I have been grinning and giggling like an idiot the whole time 🤣 I love it
Boy stop... you need to be put yourself out there. Go on those dates and explore... have fun and I hope you find a good match...we are here for the tea and also motivation. 😂😂😂...we want the gay dating tea!!!!!❤❤
On it!!! 🫡
I honestly have no idea HOW there isn't just a bunch of dudes flooding around Dabit, wanting to date him at all times
Dabit's literally the best, watching his videos brings me so much joy❤🥰
Thank you 🥹 my time will come
@@dabit1205 sure will😌
I would certainly date him at a heartbeat❤
I truly hope that one day you'll find an amazing person. I can't believe no one has snatched you up yet. Like seriously. You and Kano are such a joy.
Thank you 😂 i am looking looking 👀💕
"It is an honour to be eaten by me"
Sure, I don't doubt that 😂😂😂
You look so good. This color is great on your skin.
So glad that you're putting yourself out there to date. I don't know why I strongly believe love comes when you're not seriously looking. But your effort is bound to count.
Rooting for you! FIGHTING!!!
Thank you~ Haha unfortunately if i dont look then ill have 0% chance of meeting anyone cuz i rarely leave my house to begin with 🤪 but im def trying to be “less desperate” and focus on meeting friends and having fun! Haha
@dabit1205 You're on course. I wish you the very best because there's none more deserving. ❤️❤️❤️
Just grabbing my chair and waiting in line to next video...
I will spill some tea🫢❤️🔥
You are handsome and sweet. If someone blocks you they are a creepy person you don't need.
Omg, the wrist bands and hand stamps, that's how you know you had an adventure 🤠 LOL Hopefully eating Matthew's ramen gave you more moo-tivation to try another experience out of your comfort zone 🤭🤭🤭 keep up the main character energy! We love to see it 😘💛💛
Mooo~ 🐮 🕺✨🪩💕
Watched on his man 2 with his journey and his growth is so beautiful being more open and authentically him
Omg I can’t wait to cry when he has a mannnnnnnnn
7:46 "truer words have never been spoken"
🍜❤️🔥
Im glad you had a great time! Love this ♥
100% will do it again 🙂↕️
How many clubs did you go to? Your arm had so many club bands on it that it looked like Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings...hahaha! But seriously, im so happy to see you getting yourself out there and having fun. I can't wait to hear all the updates. See you and all the Chunks soon on Twitch~~~🙌❤️
Haha we only went to 4!! 🕺🪩 was def a night to remember 😌
Mike, you look so good!!!
@wiwiwiwiwi3117 awww, thank you!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well done for actually going! That's the hardest part. Looks like you had fun, too, which is a massive bonus 🎉
Yeah there was literally nothing to be scared of haha i will def be trying it again soon :p
So did kano get a step dad or not 😂. Dating is soo fun in your pov 😂😂
Kano is still waiting 😂
I think you are certainly on the right path! Creating a life for yourself, where you are happy, and finding confidence in what you have achieved so far. Dating is just not easy, especially in these times, where all wishes can be granted by app, within the next 20 minutes... But those group settings, where you know, that people are looking for potential friends and boyfriends seem like a really great option! Honestly, I would bet on those for a while! 😊 Maybe one of those guys, you talked to, will be at the next one, too? If nothing else, shaking the bag a little, on who you hang out with, can also create new possibilities 😁
I am so happy .. you are trying the dating pool again... fighting ❤❤❤
Gonna try to be more bold this time!! But making sure to go in with an open mind 😂 haha
Feel so good to see you going out and having fun doing new things. Keep having fun and take care of yourself too❤ Hope Kano finds a step dad soon😂
He is honestly so pushy about me finding him a step dad 🙄
I look forward to the future videos! Watching these is a great way to start my day 😊
Good to see you having fun.
🕺✨🪩❤️🔥🐮
I love you, and I'm looking forward to your next video ❤❤❤
I have no idea what’s happening next haha 😭
That's usually the most fun way to make friends or meet people :)
I honestly had so much fun!!! ❤
@dabit1205 yay!! Here's to future fun :) I'm living for this new era of you!!
I was literally waiting for your video. Checking every week whether you uploaded it or not. Got to know about your current life. Felt better. Good luck on your boyfriend hunting and have a happy Christmas.
Sometimes my life is just barren 😂 but it’s getting exciting again! So more updates soon!💗
@@dabit1205What matters most is your happiness, so if this makes you happy, go for it. We never know what's waiting for us on the other end. I'm excited to see how your upcoming dates go.
Love that your getting out there and trying something new 🙂. The group thing sounds fun and seems good if you're just trying to meet new people (or more haha).
Looking forward to the next story 😉
It really is so much fun!! I cant wait to go again hahaha
Haha omg i need more tea on the sul-bungae dating experience 😂 please do another story time
taking a moment to appreciate dabit's moles (they look like constellations, _literally_ so beautiful!!) giving you my support always and forever♥♥ you are refreshingly personable, and effortlessly charming-sending you all the love in the world and *more* from the united kingdom :D putting this out into the universe with all of my heart and everything i have so that our dabit will meet someone worthy of such a gorgeous smile🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Omg no one has talked about my moles like that 😭 thank you that helped me appreciate them more ⭐️
But did you have FUN???? from all those bands, it seems yes!
Hope you go again, and find some happiness!
I enjoy following along with you. :)
I love his sense of humor 😭😂
Moo 🐮💕
Love your bright personality✨✨
Hope you will find your destined person🫶🫶
I hope so too 🥹💕 but trying not to rush things~ just focusing on having fun and meeting people!
Omg been so long ^O^!! More updates with the neighbor? xD lol
Haha ill try to update more often :p 💕
You're so brave. My anxiety could never lol. Glad to see you putting yourself out there though
Noo, you are always young!! Glad to see, that the night was fun :3
Awww, I miss Seoul
"It is an honour to be eaten by me"
What kind of eating are we talking about 😍😅
This is hilarious, hiccups are a funny note to end it on. Personally I stopped bothering a few years ago after getting jaded about trying to date, so glad you're getting out there and are trying, it's tough.
Everything is an experience, good or not so good, you'll laugh, cry and shake your head, but as long as you take care of you, don't be afraid of those experiences.
Okay, now we are on a roll. I just can't stop grinning like an idiot watching you, Dabit. That being said, SPILL THE TEA!!! How is the night? Will Kano get a stepdad? But besides all that, I'm just SO SO SO happy that you are putting yourself out there and trying stuff and having fun🥰😇
Yeah honestly I say it’s for a bf but im just having so much fun trying new things 😂 i will spill the details soon!!
It is great to take the initiative to participate in social activities.😀
Soul mates will always appear unexpectedly, and maybe one day he will appear by your side.
First of all, you should take good care of yourself and love yourself.🥰🥰
You in the morning with your "tramp stamps" and wristbands !!!!!!! I was giggling the whole time !!!!! UPDATE ASAP !!!!!!!!!!
DABIIIIIT I JUST LISTENED TO YOUR SONGS ON SPOTIFY!! You have such an amazing voice!!! 🫶 Hope you make more music when you can ☺️
The important thing is that you are happy my love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good luck for the future ❤❤❤❤❤
Im glad Cano is Healthy. And im glad taht Dabit going out and have fun, and going again on dates. Most important is have fun, and be healthy. Poor Matthew and Taerae :D :D :D
omg i'm literally going on a group date kinda thing on Wednesday and was thinking of vlogging some of the experience, and then this video appeared in my feed LOL. Looking forward to hearing about more dating adventures, Dabit! 😅😀
Group dates always feel more natural haha you should def vlog it! Never know what might happen haha
So great seeing you put yourself out there! Almost motivated me to try dating again after too many years but not quite.. I'd rather cheer you on 😁 Looking forward to hearing more about your adventure 🤞🏻
the moothew meme was too real
I have a feeling that the love you have been searching will come to you when you are least expecting. I do not know why but a voice tells me about crazy thing is about to happen😅
I dont know how I missed this!!!! Anyway its great to see you and hear how everything is going. Im happy you are out having fun❤
Love your singing... **fighting*** hv fun and enjoy meeting ppl or new friends...❤
You are so adorable and funny. Hope you find that someone soon to make you happy ❤
Always enjoy watching your videos 😂💙
So happy for you! looking for your next week's dating gathering update 😂
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You can't just leave us hanging and not telling us how the night actually ended!!! It sounds super crazy though and I hope that you had lots of fun 😊
Happy birthday best boy❤
5:23 You are good-looking too🤭
I am jealous.. you met ZB1🔥💜
7:24 - yes, yes it would be 😂😘
And next time I’d recommend the (24 hour?) pho place right outside those clubs in Itaewon, before heading home. It’s a lifesaver. Best of luck finding some good people out there sooner rather than later!!
There’s a 24hour pho place in itaewon?!? 🫢 I must try!!!
pretty sure it’s called Emoi. Have fun! I can’t wait to visit Seoul again for those clubs
Dabit, I got you as my top artist on Spotify...😭
(I love your videos, BTW! They make me smile❤)
So glad you had fun.
And I thought I was weird for getting hiccups from spicy food, glad to know I'm not the only one 🤠
Anyways, wishing you the best of luck, hope this December will go easy on us all!
For me it’s super spicy foods or super fizzy drinks that trigger it haha 😅
Love this series❤
Want you to have special someone one or several special someones but then the series will be over.
Onscreen captions especially morning after😅
hope you and your neighbor make friends or love connection 🙏
Thanks for the early morning entertainment(EST states)
Several?!? 😳 haha this series will be going on for a while i fear 😂
Its so interesting watching this video. ❤❤❤❤
keep us updated its interesting
Dabit! You are an extremely handsome young man. Intelligent, talented, get out of your own head. Believe in yourself! When you told your story about taking the desk to your boyfriend, I cried. I was the same when I was young, doing everything for my partner and not being appreciated. I love you (not romantically). Lol! I want you to find love!!
What an honorable breakfast 😅😅😅 It's so fun watching you tho!
your eyes are so mysterious
This is a great video 👍🏻
Thank you ☺️ ❤
You were the only one on that show that I would have been interested in dating, but I get it, or I had better get it at some point, since I too never date! One long term relationship that just didn’t work in the end, and … dating desert. Been a model, worked in entertainment, own a business, but just don’t connect, so don’t be discouraged, yet! If I lived in Korea I’d absolutely ask you out (at least twice).
Omg I had the same experience here in America when they guy ghosted me right after got to the date and never showed!
But I know it hard to go in dates…and I live in a small town so…that’s no fun
So be safe…and yasss I hope you find someone that you are compatible and comfortable with and vise versa.
I hope you find the person you looking for you deserve it ❤
Ah, happy birthday!
The only thing I didn't like about this vlog is... it was too short 😭
Boy! We need more 😂❤️
On it 🫡
Hyung please stay safe ..
We love you soooo much❤️
6:56 Moothew 🐄not Matthew 💅💅💅
My Mooothew~🐮
@@dabit1205 well then can I have Jiwoong for myself 🥹😙
Can I just say that you are the cutest. And anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. What is wrong with these guys ! Do they not see what we see. Anyway sending you all the best in everything you do from California 🌻
Thank you 🥹 hopefully someone here sees my potential ✨💕
Hi Dabit thank you for sharing your adventures❤❤in the dating world❤❤have fun with it❤❤FYI.....looking handsome as ever❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love you loads❤❤❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ☺️ thankyou
Me encantan tus locuras! Eres muy atrevido 😂😂😂
Como nos puedes dejar así a medias😮Nos tienes que contar todo con detalle❤
I will do a story time soon. 😂 haha
I love your videos. I hope I see you with someone soon. You deserve love and happiness.
😊 thank you
Bestie no worries, you'll find someone very soon❤
Love you dabit ❤
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Honestly "dating" is tough enough without it being blind-dates. Remember you are _All This & More_ courageous, trust worthy, honest, reliable, loyal, respectful, courteous, responsible, kind, compassionate, clever ++++ also super FUN, CREATIVE, CHEERFUL, GENUINE, CHARMING, HUMBLE, GENEROUS ++++ Just enjoy going out without tagging yourself with the pressure of *dating* . In the end, it's "their" loss and you remain always *AMAZING* !!!!
You are lovely, fighting! Someday you will find the lucky one.
You are very handsome. You'll find your match when you least expect it to happen. Wish you all the love and happiness in the world. God bless you🙏🙏❤❤
Let’s gooooooooo! Stay positive 🎉! You’ll meet a nice man soon enough I’m sure. I’m Canadian… otherwise I’d take you and Kano out for walkies and snackies! 😂
Walkies and snackies!!!! 🐶🧒🏻
@ my best friend ever!!!!…. Her name was Sky. I had her for 14 years. We had a scare as well… paid $4500 to remove her uterus on a chance. She lived and loved a further 5 years. She had never “done it”. Apparently that caused the issue. Anyhow, I love how dedicated and loving you are towards your puppy. It’s beautiful.
Sky was a Rottie as well. Took her in as a rescue… she wound up being the highlight of my teenage years.
Your connection with your puppy is amazing and don’t ever let anyone discount that (like that Grindr jerk).
Nah guy, I saw that happen with friends and even happened with me a while back. I’m old!!! Back in the day there used to be online forum (among friends), was a Korean language gay group and my bestie and I would go. They would post like Chongro 3 - grilled meat, drinks and clubbing in itaeeon. It was cool. It damn.... living in Korea in those days I drank and smoked way too much. Happy memories.. just enjoy life!
You deserve a really good partner who is caring and not superficial. I hope you find one. I know you would.
Yes! He’s out there somewhere 👀
first time seeing you cutie,,,,,,I thought I was watching you in the USA with your accent lol.....did you live in the States?Love your video,,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤,
It's all about not expecting anything.
I can totally relate to the pet thing. My kitty had to have basically all of his teeth removed last month, and it cost roughly $2,000. But, you have to do what you have to do, because we love them so much.
Yeah 😂 the things we do for our fur babies~
Dabit por favor nos conte mais de como foi 😁 pelo seu rosto foi divertido 😄
The way zerose cant gatekeep matthew anymore hes now the moo guy
Haha he’s way too erratic to keep hidden✨😭💕
7:57 you looked so cute here ❤
At my late age, I found my boyfriend very far away from here (Italy), in the Philippines. Actually HE found me... He's 26 y.o. ...imagine, but so sweet and especially out of any gay scene, fashion, consumeristic trend. We "dated" for a couple of years on internet and now we know each other very well: I'm trying to let him coming here and live with me. Try something like this Dabit. Consumeristic societies cannot give you what you are looking for...
that’s so sweet 🥹 maybe i really need to look outside the country 😭
@@dabit1205 South east Asia, but beware of scammers of course. You are really nice and good looking. I followed the show His man 2: you were not very determined towards anybody. But maybe the show was a little falsified, wasn't it?
You looked like you had fun (hangover not so much😅) and who doesn't love moothew?! Don't forsake Jiwoong though 😉.
I can have 2 boyfriends 🥹 💕
Love You 💚♾
술번개 sounds exciting! But I'm not sure how to save energy for that. I might go into one, and then not want to meet another human being for months. 😂😂
Adorable
The guy who ghosted you probably realised you were way out of his league and got cold feet...🤨 it definitely wasn't you 🙂 And if the guy across the road isn't a love interest then I hope he becomes a mate you can go clubbing with, safety in numbers, Dabit 😉
@@sleepysarah. The guy across the street lol already have some stories to share about him 😌
@@dabit1205 Just spill the tea that won't get a YT ban when you're ready.... 😉
OMG MGG SLAY
how come i didnt see u in itaewon im so disappointed with myself wth
Debit, how are the situation with the turmoil happening at the presence
Would you say these speed dating events are exclusionary to just Korean gays? I plan on living in Korea and wondering how difficult it would be to date as a foreigner white guy.
I love ZB1 too!!