MEN ARE SEVERELY GASLIGHTED BY SOCIETY | IT'S NOT YOU BRO

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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor 7 місяців тому +510

    Men are gaslighted into doubting their worth and thinking less of themselves than they actually are. Without us, society would fall apart.

    • @RoxanneRock
      @RoxanneRock 7 місяців тому +20

      Gaslit is the correct word. Jus sayn

    • @koylejeune4332
      @koylejeune4332 7 місяців тому +7

      🎯

    • @JackAtkins-xz5wi
      @JackAtkins-xz5wi 7 місяців тому

      SUPPRESS EVERY HUMAN AND CONTROL THEM 100%

    • @DamianBrownie
      @DamianBrownie 7 місяців тому

      @@Kilo93R9wtf crazy

    • @koylejeune4332
      @koylejeune4332 7 місяців тому

      @@Kilo93R9 Narcissist are borderline insane. They will create scenarios just to blackmail you or use whatever method in their cheap bag of tricks.

  • @DirectAdminReal
    @DirectAdminReal 7 місяців тому +271

    She wants a guy like spiderman, but passes by Peter Parker every day

    • @theendtimesarehere
      @theendtimesarehere 7 місяців тому +28

      *“JEZEBELS”* 💯%

    • @nathanielduarte1770
      @nathanielduarte1770 7 місяців тому +1

      How's she supposed to know he's spier man?

    • @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024
      @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024 7 місяців тому +19

      That's an excellent analogy.

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 7 місяців тому +11

      She not worth it.
      I want my Men to walk past women with no talking.
      Just breeze past her because she will just be in the past.
      Rear view mirror.

    • @carlosmelo5910
      @carlosmelo5910 7 місяців тому +3

      I agree with you 💯 and you are a great person. I'm from portugal 🇵🇹🇵🇹

  • @KenWang2
    @KenWang2 7 місяців тому +160

    Not just women its everybody including family and friends that are gaslighting.

    • @universalredguard
      @universalredguard 7 місяців тому +14

      Yup

    • @russelgrimes6739
      @russelgrimes6739 7 місяців тому +12

      Stand up and fight back. They'll think twice before trying to mess with a bold person who can defend themself, again.

    • @bryangregory48
      @bryangregory48 7 місяців тому +16

      Yep. Have lost friends when I started prioritizing myself and was proud of my manhood. It’s an insidious culture we live in

  • @thelastflop
    @thelastflop 7 місяців тому +130

    My own mother gaslighted me my entire life and I found out all women do this to men

    • @LifesAGambleLAG
      @LifesAGambleLAG 7 місяців тому +9

      In which way? Im in similar situation bro

    • @thelastflop
      @thelastflop 7 місяців тому +43

      @LifesAGambleLAG she basically causes the reaction and problems then blames you saying you are the problem and never takes accountability for her end. You can probably relate, ive met so many guys that their moms do the same thing

    • @thelastflop
      @thelastflop 7 місяців тому +21

      @LifesAGambleLAG it makes you insane over time, its pure torture of the soul

    • @LifesAGambleLAG
      @LifesAGambleLAG 7 місяців тому +13

      @@thelastflopbro literally the exact same issue. It makes it uneasy being around that type of energy and is driving me insane. Thanks for sharing man try to stay strong and distance yourself

    • @thelastflop
      @thelastflop 7 місяців тому +4

      @@LifesAGambleLAG thanks bro, likewise 🙏🏼 it makes us stronger in the end

  • @wjkathman
    @wjkathman 7 місяців тому +134

    Feminism = power without accountability.

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому +1

      Why are you hypocrites? How do you blame others for your failure to lead?

    • @jman3767
      @jman3767 7 місяців тому +15

      @@universalmother He’s not blaming lmfao he’s stating what feminism is. There’s reason feminism is getting an increasing amount of back lash as time goes by, but knowing you guys you’ll find some way to blame that on men/misogyny

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      @@jman3767 Yes, it is blaming. It is what you boys do, as you aren't men. You sit around and blame others for your problems, EXACTLY like the females. We aren't the failure, princess. We aren't the one hiding behind excuses running from the problems.

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jman3767 Yes he is, as are you. Sitting and complaining in the comment sections is proof of that. You wouldn't be here otherwise if you were living life and being accountable.

    • @Antoniodagreat
      @Antoniodagreat 7 місяців тому +13

      How a feminist jumped on this comment 😂😂😂 no wonder they stay single

  • @DavidCarroll-rl9bt
    @DavidCarroll-rl9bt 7 місяців тому +318

    Life is not fair. Be true to yourself, don’t engage with toxic people.

    • @user-el8bp1gj2m
      @user-el8bp1gj2m 7 місяців тому +23

      But it is nearly Impossible, to Life with toxic people is going to be in the Future Not avoidable

    • @rejectionistmanifesto8836
      @rejectionistmanifesto8836 7 місяців тому

      So millions of men are saying enough is enough and NOT having children or marriage which are used to trap and crush them using the Courts are kids are born.

    • @drewtrulock333
      @drewtrulock333 7 місяців тому +1

      That's facts

    • @life4trinity
      @life4trinity 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen

    • @ronaldmcdonaldjuniorghost
      @ronaldmcdonaldjuniorghost 7 місяців тому +1

      Facts

  • @YAHAYAH_369
    @YAHAYAH_369 7 місяців тому +68

    Societal Narcissism
    Societal Gaslighting

  • @TheSnoozeFox
    @TheSnoozeFox 7 місяців тому +156

    Needed to hear this, completely fell for my female flatmate and we spent an amazing couple weeks together, slept together. telling me how safe she felt with me, wanting to go to all these place and do all these things with me.
    She then disappears for two weeks to her “moms” comes back and tells me she’s moving out and going back to Ukraine in a few weeks. Went cold on me and hardly speaks to me, it’s so evil how they treat us.

    • @ykonratev
      @ykonratev 7 місяців тому +47

      It's ok in a few years you'll find her crying on tiktok

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому

      If I had £1 for every time I 2as duped into believing in these narcissistic dreams, I'd have enough revenue to live 20 lifetime's it's smoke and mirrors along with bullshit hence why I promised myself throughout all of the bullshit that the opposite gender put me through I'll never be the same again once they've broken that side of me its going to take a real godsend of a women to fix all of that and I'm not just going to fall for any woman because I'm now awake to who they really are and that's a bunch of reptilian shapeshifters they think they're fooling me still to this day when in reality they're fooling themselves 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому +11

      @@ykonratev like they always do 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому +7

      @bleacchy nope I'll do what I do best, and thats block the naysayers just to leave their false images/lives bruised I only have the room for real ones if they're not that I'm not interested

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY 7 місяців тому

      @@SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns kikin ass.taken names

  • @JeffBentonMusicTalk101
    @JeffBentonMusicTalk101 7 місяців тому +22

    Im been single for about a year now, I started having a carefree attitude ignoring women at work, the gym and in public. I have been gaslighted all my life. I am so happy now because the freedom of being single, good looking, smart, and talented is liberating. Woman have only tried to destroy me for over 20 yrs. You are so right and you have to do what you want guys. And don't feel bad because most likely she is using you, cheating on you or lying to you. Stay strong men. Ignore these women until they break. We have to all stay strong and on our purpose. God be with us!

  • @BentaygaSB
    @BentaygaSB 7 місяців тому +45

    It’s so painful and cold out here I pray for all my brothers in the dark dealing with heartbreaks and betrayal 😢 please pray and forgive yourself for being patient, loving, and caring 🙏🏿‼️

    • @23lnp
      @23lnp 7 місяців тому +5

      Thanks brother, love and pray for you too.
      We’ve all been stung by these women in the past and hopefully more men will wake up and smell the coffee too.
      We must concentrate on ourselves and society will fall into place eventually.

  • @gbaustin
    @gbaustin 7 місяців тому +12

    every woman i've ever dated has been a landmine i'v been manipulated into willingly stepped on. I don't harbor resentment anymore, but you're so right, i'm gonna do what the fuck I want now

  • @KrustyMillennial
    @KrustyMillennial 7 місяців тому +20

    Always remember fellas, Tom Brady was divorced by a post-wall model. It will never be enough, so give them what you want....just know you won't get it back it return, whatever it is.

    • @daver1161
      @daver1161 6 місяців тому +2

      They will discard you anytime the wind blows the wrong way, regardless how much she chased after you or the relationship in the beginning. They base their choices off emotions and emotions change with time-keep that in mind. I don’t care if she’s a “good girl” (none of them are), she will be cold to you the day she decided she’s done with you. Prepare yourself emotionally for that day.

  • @johncalhoun9335
    @johncalhoun9335 7 місяців тому +28

    Be alone, they don't want us no matter the outcome ,there's no place for us here

    • @brentchackel8649
      @brentchackel8649 7 місяців тому +2

      Johnny god will put one in front of you and YOU won’t even have to do a thing except choose her back or take the high road. I say try her out but fire her quick if she slacks off..gods plan

  • @Neon-o4e
    @Neon-o4e 7 місяців тому +32

    As men, we don't have the luxury of crying or being overgrown children. The worst part is, even our own mothers try to encourage us to be more emotional. Once we learn what our mother tells us doesn't align with reality and the wicked way this world works, we realize how alone we truly are.

    • @michaelaxis6304
      @michaelaxis6304 7 місяців тому +2

      My mom don't care and hate me and she does favoritism to my brothers

  • @christinetirichkin
    @christinetirichkin 7 місяців тому +54

    I don't typically comment on videos but I feel the need to after listening to this one. My boyfriend confided in my about his past relationships and he told me that he has been used for his money a few times here and there. I've heard the same story from a few different men and it breaks my heart. You men are all hurt and I'm sorry you had to go through all of this bullshit. I truly hope you listen to these words in the video, focus on yourself and pay very close attention to the red flags you see. I hope all men are able to choose themselves and exit when their boundaries are crossed. The person you choose to spend the rest of your life with is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. I'm rooting for all of you.

    • @KeyyRussell
      @KeyyRussell 7 місяців тому +4

      I personally appreciate this comment

    • @JF-xm6tu
      @JF-xm6tu 7 місяців тому +2

      Your boyfriend is lucky. Many women do not share your view

    • @iShadowby
      @iShadowby 7 місяців тому +1

      Love is a commitment and commitment is about an act to stay the same way you've already dedicated to, daily. Which means today, tomorrow, the day after and so on, stay the same. It's not really that hard since if you're think of it like a daily thing to do. It might get bored, but the thing is, when I saw old peoples, and the ones who're living a happy life and have an expression of already fulfilling in life are the ones who still have their loved ones, whether it's a husband, or wive, or descendants. And on the opposite, the ones who lived alone, tend to have somekind of psychological disorder, while others seemingly have somekind of vibes that pushes away other people to even just get close to him/her. So I think now that becoming old while still having a family is kinda like a reward for being loyal and stay commit to each other no matter what comes. It's actually a rare thing to see these days.

    • @jeremiahharden8900
      @jeremiahharden8900 7 місяців тому

      Hats off to a real woman.

    • @6birddog9
      @6birddog9 7 місяців тому

      Wow a real analytical and empathetic take. You are the anomaly. Thank you 🫡

  • @commiserable4626
    @commiserable4626 7 місяців тому +15

    Like how come women are allowed to define what a "real man" is? I'm trying to be myself and now they have the right to tell me what I should be? Oh but I can't tell them what to do?

  • @MNelson928
    @MNelson928 7 місяців тому +40

    You nail it, man!… it’s no coincidence, that women, and the feminist movement to become girl, power, etc. etc. eventually, end up, taking on the worst qualities of the worst kind of men…
    Doesn’t seem like they have any shame anymore
    ~Boston buddy

    • @33wanwan
      @33wanwan 7 місяців тому

      they dont have any shame whatsoever, just think of no 1

    • @jaimelynn6701
      @jaimelynn6701 7 місяців тому

      I am a woman, a 40 year old woman and I agree with what you said. Feminism is destroying women, especially the gen z's. The behaviour is disgusting. I feel bad for these young men.

  • @FZERO20
    @FZERO20 7 місяців тому +17

    I swear I been telling myself this. The only way for a guy to get better is to upgrade himself on his own. That’s it

  • @dimorphic91
    @dimorphic91 7 місяців тому +16

    I've never been more certain and committed to steer clear of these narc vampires for the rest of my days. Any attempt to integrate into the norm should be seen as nothing more than a path to self destruction.

  • @JuniorWitter-vz4mh
    @JuniorWitter-vz4mh 7 місяців тому +29

    Lol, you know the simps are hating this video.

    • @heir_bag
      @heir_bag 7 місяців тому +6

      they truly are I get a good laugh at them in Wal-Marts and outtings they look so pitiful, while their women cheat on them without them even guessing it 😂😂

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому

      Let them keep hating the little salty ass bitches they'll only be put through the same shit we were and it'll affect them the hardest and not us 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁

    • @JuniorWitter-vz4mh
      @JuniorWitter-vz4mh 7 місяців тому +5

      @@heir_bag lol, then when you call the women out on it they defend them.....pathetic ...

    • @heir_bag
      @heir_bag 7 місяців тому +1

      @@JuniorWitter-vz4mh it tickles tf outta me bro i swear 😂😂

  • @jeremiahharden8900
    @jeremiahharden8900 7 місяців тому +4

    For me a spiritual path has worked for me. It won't work for everyone but work on yourself and your purpose on why you are here will be shown to you.

  • @CrazyClips876
    @CrazyClips876 7 місяців тому +28

    I’m really impressed with your level of understanding I know 50 year olds who can’t hold a candle to you.

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 7 місяців тому +50

    It used to not be this way.
    It used to be families was a real thing. ..

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 7 місяців тому +8

      I agree. This is what media, movies, news have done to us. It is disturbing, disgusting and hard to get out of with all the trashy online dating apps (which I refuse to use).

    • @yami6499
      @yami6499 7 місяців тому +3

      In that time, men were gaslighted to die on battlefield or face jail.

  • @BigLadGreen
    @BigLadGreen 7 місяців тому +16

    Most used gaslight ever "Who hurt you?"

  • @jr7392
    @jr7392 7 місяців тому +25

    It used to be that men had Responsibility (to provide, protect, etc.) but also had the Authority to go with it. The past couple of generations have worked to eliminate that Authority while keeping the Responsibility in place. The gaslighting the video creator mentions is just one part of this strategy. In the end, do not accept any Responsibility you lack the Authority to successfully carry out. Men are starting to realize this, slowly because of inhibition by gaslighting and "thirst" but they are realizing it. Hence all the whining by the privileged that men aren't keeping them in the lifestyle to which they have become accustomed along with ramping up the gaslighting. The OP makes the statement "become the most powerful individual you can be." This is good advice. The power that you have is to walk away and not participate. If you are not respected for what you bring to table, bail. That's the secret really. A dime's worth of respect gets a dollar's worth of effort from us, but we're not getting that dime. We're not even getting pennies. It's shocking that all it takes to get us to do the heavy lifting of civilization is a modicum of respect and even that is apparently too much to ask. Incredible.

    • @j.irving5689
      @j.irving5689 7 місяців тому +2

      Facts bro. That was one of the main issues with my ex wife. She wanted the authority but it was my responsibility. I broke it down to her very simple and plain. I'm all for 50/50 decision making but if we can't agree then we go with what I think for simple fact that if we fail then it's my responsibility. If it's my responsibility then I have the final say. She couldn't get with that. She wanted a puppet and no accountability. I left after a few years.

  • @Nsimpson
    @Nsimpson 7 місяців тому +101

    I’ve never understood why people like me and many other men are single in this day in age when we are good men. Sure, we might not check off all the boxes compared to others but we still have a lot of potential. It kinda baffles me seeing others get chosen but not us.

    • @JackAtkins-xz5wi
      @JackAtkins-xz5wi 7 місяців тому

      SUPPRESS EVERY HUMAN AND CONTROL THEM 100%

    • @Tokolos
      @Tokolos 7 місяців тому +49

      In each relationship I ever had, my love just grew over time, while the opposite occurred to them. The kinder, more loyal or supportive I became, the faster they left. I was baffled for many years, until I had a relationship with a narcopath, and realised majority of females just don’t care at all)

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому +10

      You aren't men. Men would have never allowed the power dynamic to shift.

    • @freedom4life123
      @freedom4life123 7 місяців тому +1

      @@universalmother Bollocks, women love the power trip over men and as soon as we start to show some leadership and authority you start to say we are controlling and possessive and all the other emasculating things you come out with. I just bust n move now to avoid all the mental gymnastics with women. juice aint worth the squeeze.

    • @theuncanspan
      @theuncanspan 7 місяців тому +12

      ​@@universalmotherare you suggesting 🍇? Cause 🍇 is the ultimate equalizer.

  • @scottwwsi
    @scottwwsi 7 місяців тому +14

    know this: the 'believe all women' PSYOP is one of the worst bullsh*t cons in history.
    so many got hooked into that scam and it has fu(ked up a lot of men.
    great video.!

  • @felipefigueira79
    @felipefigueira79 7 місяців тому +59

    So true. Im 45... and verify what you're saying. People always play by their rules. Do whatever you want with respect to yourself. We were gaslighted to be giving and the provider-- all the time. Accepting the world as it is... so painful but necessary. Theres so much power in us when me focus on ourselves. This man knows what he's talking about! Unlimited!

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 7 місяців тому +2

      I disagree. When he talks about men, yes I agree. When he talks about women I totally disagree, he puts ALL women in the same category and that's just plain gaslighting women like me who have gone thru hell and back with men. If all men got their lives together and supported good women, there would be no issue. But all men want a super model next to them who has no voice and does everything for them. So unrealistic. Men need to look for the unusual woman to find a gem. But you're not looking for that, you all want the PERFECT woman, when you ain't all that yourselves. (Not meant as a rant..lol!).

    • @zx6r79
      @zx6r79 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@bumblebee_mson a scale from 1-1000, how much do you think you just proved their point lol smh

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 7 місяців тому +1

      @@zx6r79You know what? I thought you would have a good comeback and a great head on your shoulders and answer me in a smart way. Looks like you proved MY point, case closed!

    • @zx6r79
      @zx6r79 7 місяців тому +1

      @@bumblebee_ms is that why you just talked like you knew me before I left a comment..... good news is, theres a humane society in every town. Youll never have to be lonely. (How was that?)

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 7 місяців тому +1

      @@zx6r79 Wow, Joels followers are all snappy today. I love that, a bit of feistiness never hurt anyone. Yeah, I can handle that. Thanks for making me laugh, I really enjoyed it. Have a great day.

  • @JJ-rp2df
    @JJ-rp2df 7 місяців тому +15

    Keep up the amazing content. Can confirm everything at age 45. It's almost biblical, seeing society's man hating double standards, single men's self preservation and women's greedy self destruction. Survival of the fittest is not between species but within.

  • @general_electrics
    @general_electrics 7 місяців тому +3

    You didn't tell a single lie. Keep spreading the message.
    There will be exceptions, but they are *rare.* It's like winning the lottery.

  • @edhutch8946
    @edhutch8946 7 місяців тому +10

    So true, the title. It is the way. We are treated like living human sacrifice.

  • @Insight-music
    @Insight-music 7 місяців тому +27

    It’s a narc eat narc world

    • @rw7975
      @rw7975 7 місяців тому +2

      NPD is 1.6% of the population; it's rare and runs in families. (highest genetic component of all cluster B personality disorders)
      Narcissistic traits are common however - behaviors particularly endorsed and celebrated in feminist circles and female hivemind etc

    • @rw7975
      @rw7975 7 місяців тому

      @@steelearmstrong9616 You're confused - I'm citing the DSM 5. Narcissistic traits aren't the same thing as NPD... its a serious disorder that runs in families.
      Traits are prevalent in modern society - maybe you need to stay in and read more.

  • @KioMetalFan
    @KioMetalFan 7 місяців тому +2

    this is why i stay unhinged

  • @dwddavidsway4701
    @dwddavidsway4701 7 місяців тому +29

    Imagine the times I have been through . . . 49 years, 15 years NC, I have become a beast! I haven’t met anyone that is made like me! My five boys ask me how I do it? What makes you tick. Dad?
    We are here to overcome all things as we learn the trUth in all things as all things are possible with a loving Creator . . .
    Follow your hearts desires and become who you are! I am a skating dancing fighting machine and I like myself and my unique abilities! . . .
    Great message Terry! Your passion and experiences in this realm have taught you wisdom, that is admirable for your age bro! I have a son your age and he is sharp like you! . . . . All seven are aware of this Narc tank . . .
    Blessings, peace,
    ~Dwd~

  • @ChiqueIndustries
    @ChiqueIndustries 7 місяців тому +2

    He’s right man. The gaslighting happens when people keep telling us we aren’t doing enough or not stepping up. No. It LITERALLY is happening to the best of us.

  • @liviomoreira2457
    @liviomoreira2457 7 місяців тому +9

    Young man. Two wrongs don't make one right. Leave toxic ppl you can't help improve, but don't give toxicity back. By giving toxicity back, you are reinforcing their wrong believes.

  • @SFBay69
    @SFBay69 7 місяців тому +4

    Millennial men and Gen Z men..the rest of us knew this DECADES AGO

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT 7 місяців тому +8

    I wish I realized this the easy way. By listening to other mens nightmare experiences with female nature. So true. I was gaslighted into thinking woman were innocent and sweet. hahahahah Woman are survivors and they will pump up your ego to get what they want. Once you know the game...once you look in the mirror and are honest with your inadequacies...you wont want outside approval and validation from anyone except yourself. That is real power. Thats when real growth begins. Women will smell it on you. They wont understand why you dont care about their attention. It drives them crazy. The first time you experience you wont ever forget it and youll start to see the game for what it is. Never let them think they "have" you. Stay safe out there gentlemen. Never stop building yourself!

  • @albertfromsd
    @albertfromsd 7 місяців тому +5

    We need more people saying this out loud. Dont need to change everyones mind all at once but the more of us who bring this to light, the sooner they will be forced to realize its not just a single weak man.
    Expect a storm of insults from everyone including men. Stay strong. Get stronger. Lets support each other through these times

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 7 місяців тому +18

    If you make money by yourself, thats the main thing. Cause you do that yourself.

    • @Feroste
      @Feroste 7 місяців тому

      Right, keep paying the feminists

  • @brandonlashbrook6892
    @brandonlashbrook6892 7 місяців тому +5

    It's like Machiavelli said in the Prince. Why should the prince keep faith when no one else is?

  • @RPMentorTokyoChannel
    @RPMentorTokyoChannel 7 місяців тому +11

    There are no consequences for women's behavior while they're doing it. I do wonder if there will come a time when this changes-perhaps some form of recourse legalized for men.

  • @sherwoodwilliams6097
    @sherwoodwilliams6097 7 місяців тому +16

    Bro is preaching the truth 💯

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      This isn't truth. You aren't men. Real men would have never allowed the power dynamic to shift.

    • @sherwoodwilliams6097
      @sherwoodwilliams6097 7 місяців тому

      @@universalmother really prove I am not then?

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      @@sherwoodwilliams6097 You sit around in comment sections hiding behind excuses while blaming others for the problems, instead of doing the work, exactly like the females. Do you know why we are brutal on all of you? We love men, as they are who complete us as women. Yet, you are not taking the lead as men should do. How are females supposed to follow if you aren't leading them?

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      @@sherwoodwilliams6097 You sit around in comment sections blaming others for the problems while hiding behind excuses, the exact same as the females.

    • @23lnp
      @23lnp 7 місяців тому

      @@universalmother well the only way to stop this madness is to get physical and you know we will be gaslit and slandered going with our strengths to combat this madness.
      We will be ridiculed, shunned and locked up !

  • @sinr1one
    @sinr1one 7 місяців тому +5

    "It's either gonna take one special woman or...just a bunch of average ones." -Bill Hicks

  • @josephdouglas3399
    @josephdouglas3399 7 місяців тому +14

    🤔 this, No doubt is definitely a young man who has no time for bull crap in life. he's actually sitting back reflecting and analyzing on what he's seeing in life. He's calculating. and he's giving the proper formula and calculations for what is going on. 🤔

  • @bryangregory48
    @bryangregory48 7 місяців тому +1

    The word you’re looking for when you say greedy, is solipsistic. Solipsism is the perfect definition to describe them

  • @JohnSmith-bm6zg
    @JohnSmith-bm6zg 7 місяців тому +1

    Mothers are sometimes the worst gaslighters

  • @_sacredseven_
    @_sacredseven_ 7 місяців тому +30

    We're expected to be understanding and mature enough not to let it trigger us. Which is rightfully so. Doesn't make it easy. When dealing with the ignorance of Women, Children, and other Men. We must Respect ourselves enough not to let the Disrespect of Ignorant people affect us. People who dont Respect themselves aren't capable of respecting others. Or being understanding enough to consider what someone else might be going through. It's our Job as Men to so. Big responsibility. Something any Good Father does. Let us stay under the Wing of the Heavenly Father so we can exemplify his qualities in our character.

    • @JackAtkins-xz5wi
      @JackAtkins-xz5wi 7 місяців тому

      SUPPRESS EVERY HUMAN AND CONTROL THEM 100%

    • @RollnWthePunches
      @RollnWthePunches 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏🤙✊

    • @sanwonjack6780
      @sanwonjack6780 7 місяців тому

      Simple get your passport travel abroad get what you need and come right back and make your money.

    • @quasipulsar2032
      @quasipulsar2032 4 місяці тому +1

      “People who don’t respect themselves can’t respect others.” Some profound truth there brother, it’s like a metaphor for one of the 48 laws of power: ‘infection; avoid the unhappy and the unfortunate; you may believe you are saving the drowning man until he pulls you beneath the surface with him.” If we are to take risk they definitely must be well founded merit based calculated risks.

  • @lightningfrom9396
    @lightningfrom9396 7 місяців тому +2

    Yup just broke up with a girl because she thought she could do whatever she wants, no consideration for disrespect etc. Its crazy, last one i would expect it from too.

  • @jasonscala5834
    @jasonscala5834 7 місяців тому +7

    I have this single mom colleague at work who is trying do hard to get me to ask ger out 😂.. yeah she used to vmbe an 8 15 years back today she is just a liability. Stay strong, stay sharp, women need you but you dont need them.

    • @ayanna439
      @ayanna439 7 місяців тому

      This is why males are failing because you choose to be delusional thinking women need you 😂

  • @RollnWthePunches
    @RollnWthePunches 7 місяців тому +7

    Best way to cultivate self power is to self analyze daily, watch your pride, keep an eye on pride, daily analysis of self is important, reason why bible is real, it tells you just that. Gods the only way, Father of Christ, read that bible, true wisdom awaits 🙏🎚️📿 Much love to all

  • @nadegraphy
    @nadegraphy 7 місяців тому +5

    a lot of men these days are lowkey craving this thing, just imagine someone telling you: ''hey, I see you working so much everyday, I am fully aware of your efforts and I wanted to ask you how you feel? how are you?''
    and I'm telling you it feels amazing just IMAGINING this scenario, let alone HAPPENING.
    if you're a man in this situation and you feel like no one sees you, hang on. keep going. they will eventually see you when the time is right and you will have all the power in the world to UNCONCIOUSLY not care about anyone's approval but yours and everything you want will fall at your feet if you develop confidence & force of will.

    • @solohd17
      @solohd17 7 місяців тому +1

      🤝🏽

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 7 місяців тому +1

      I’m very very blessed that my wife does this things. She writes notes to me many mornings thanking me for working so hard and says she hopes I know it doesn’t go unnoticed. She had a great and strong father so that’s a green flag to look for gentlemen

  • @Brad-pc3bi
    @Brad-pc3bi 7 місяців тому +6

    I just took a maintenance job doing every "man" job that company requires. What a great education i am getting!

    • @ShyMplsMale
      @ShyMplsMale 7 місяців тому +2

      Former maintenance guy here. Definitely a bunch of good skills to have. Not to impress a woman (some don't care but a few will find it super sexy) but to impress yourself. Good luck!

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 7 місяців тому +2

      I’m a maintenance man and honestly have learned soooo much. Also my wife finds it pretty hot so that’s a bonus

  • @user-xs6ux4dk9y
    @user-xs6ux4dk9y 3 місяці тому

    It took me a long time to realize people were messing with my head all of the time. I've learned that forgiveness doesn't work the way we've been instructed. You shouldn't forgive anyone. (forgiveness is an act of the ego trying to get out of the intense pain.) You have to learn how you were wrong so you can give up your bitterness. In this way you become wiser and your behavior and your mindset change so that you stop operating as a victim. When you are successful you'll notice that the narcissist seems to be missing from your life, like they don't exist. Cheers

  • @TodaTruth
    @TodaTruth 7 місяців тому +2

    “She is not yours , it was just your turn “ no hard feelings

  • @dictionarypictionary9872
    @dictionarypictionary9872 7 місяців тому +4

    I remember seeing a video from the 1980's, a kind of Loose Women show, and the older lady there was talking about the women who were older in her day used to have a saying, that the first 7 years were the defining years of marriage. 'If a couple could stay together for 7 years then it means they will be together their whole lives.' She said, nowadays (80s) the first 7 years of marriage are only the first challenge and then it's the 8th year the 9th year 10th 11th 12th, she says people who have been together 13-20 years are getting divorced now. She goes, 'It's Crazy! What's happening? What is the future going to be like, are people going to get to a point where they don't even want to get married anymore!?'
    Different time doesn't quite cut it to describe what is happening.

  • @dvulton
    @dvulton 7 місяців тому +36

    Follow God’s rule. The right one will fall into your arms. Just stay discipline & never cave into the evil that most of these woman are consumed.

    • @susanwjoh0re735
      @susanwjoh0re735 7 місяців тому +5

      i dont follow fairy tales dude go away.

    • @theuncanspan
      @theuncanspan 7 місяців тому +5

      Bro your teaching were never compatible back and it won't be compatible now. A stillborn ideology.
      Glamorizing humans with "love" & "compassion" never fixes the issue.

    • @RollnWthePunches
      @RollnWthePunches 7 місяців тому

      ​@@susanwjoh0re735lol you obviously do, something inside you wants to 🤝🙏 but Obviously you are too weak right now to admit it, or you're bitter, or youre too insecure and just want to belong to mainstream media. Be strong, stand out, read the bible, even if you dont believe, give it a chance, you'll see 🤙✊🤝🎚️

    • @RollnWthePunches
      @RollnWthePunches 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@theuncanspansince when have humans glamorized love and compassion?? Lol mainstream buddies always glamorized "being cool" or a "bad boy" or being mean lol that's the way to go,, smh that's probably how we got here. You can say all you want, but People don't love or have compassion these days smh

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 7 місяців тому +3

      @dvulton - I agree with you. More men and women need to stay on the right path and we will find each other. Leave the trash behind.

  • @quasipulsar2032
    @quasipulsar2032 4 місяці тому

    “Regardless of how starved: a lion will never eat grass.”
    Your deepest instinct intuitively KNOWS when you have encountered nonsense. We must not react, but respond with our feet and choice of presence. You owe nobody except your parents an explanation.

  • @life4trinity
    @life4trinity 7 місяців тому +14

    You're not wrong on women chasing you because of what you've achieved, but be careful of those women because they might want you for what's your worth and not who you are as a person.

    • @russelgrimes6739
      @russelgrimes6739 7 місяців тому

      I know, they are like vampires, leeches and lampreys: they wanna suck the blood out of your healthy body. Always ward off the parasitic women and bad personalities.

    • @takeonedaily
      @takeonedaily 7 місяців тому

      Women do not love the same way as men. They will never love you for who you are as a person. They are biologically incapable of that. If you want that kind of love get a dog or become gay.
      Sorry to say but that's the reality.

  • @wesleycarlisle3025
    @wesleycarlisle3025 5 місяців тому

    So far Terry you have the same views as I also have and know about and I can appreciate the way you talk to these people that really need to hear the truth and how to navigate through trouble times.

  • @justin2morton1
    @justin2morton1 7 місяців тому +7

    It takes times to find your soulmate. It took me 25 years to meet my wife. I'm 44 now.

    • @BIanka0200
      @BIanka0200 7 місяців тому

      Check her phone buddy

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 7 місяців тому

      Yes and she was absolutely appallingly unattractive compared to when she was younger so you haven't refuted the counterargument of there being an actual temporal exigency and of deserving handsome young men in their late 20s like me being screwed over and remaining a virgin despite looking like a model and having an Ivy League education and 6 figure income (myself). I refuse to date a girl who is physically nowhere near as desirable as when she was in HS and giving herself to stupid little dweebs who didn't earn a thing in their life, compared to my intense sacrifice and labor.

  • @maryfowler7507
    @maryfowler7507 4 місяці тому

    Please please consider running for president. I absolutely love ❤️ love 💕 love 💗 you jerry. Iam a female but you are preaching the truth hundred percent.

  • @user-if5sv3en8b
    @user-if5sv3en8b 7 місяців тому +3

    I'm a woman, and I just don't understand what all this horror is for. Especially when younger women complain to me about not being able to find good men. Well, they completely dismiss real good hardworking men, sleep with jerks who later dump them, or get them pregnant, so that they'd try to find a kind daddy for the kid that is not even theirs! I know that I was raised during a slightly different time, but when I speak to younger women who are just about to get in trouble, and try to warn them, at first they try to shame me for being "traditional". Apparently, it's unacceptable here in Sweden. But they all come back complaining.

    • @francoisthibeaux-brignoles8399
      @francoisthibeaux-brignoles8399 7 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @jonathanm9986
      @jonathanm9986 7 місяців тому +6

      What happens when father figures are no longer in the households. Kids grow up defective and d damaged. What you describe is a reflection of a absent father or a father who failed to raise his daughter correctly instilling the correct values

    • @user-if5sv3en8b
      @user-if5sv3en8b 7 місяців тому

      @@jonathanm9986 Exactly... But apparently having a strong father figure is somehow wrong in today's world, according to "some" mainstream sources. But then, like I said, they all come back and complain.

    • @davewright7833
      @davewright7833 7 місяців тому +6

      Welcome to United States 😂

    • @user-if5sv3en8b
      @user-if5sv3en8b 7 місяців тому +2

      @@davewright7833 U.S or Sweden, it's all the same. The Western world is going nuts in general.

  • @colc8535
    @colc8535 7 місяців тому +19

    Facts brother. We all know their response to this , “who hurt you” 🫠

    • @skyking6989
      @skyking6989 7 місяців тому +11

      "Your an incel" "your gay" etc etc

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      Funny, what we see is you boys doing the exact same thing the girls do. You sit around and hide behind excuses while blaming others for your problems.

    • @AIRFGC
      @AIRFGC 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@universalmother men are human beings too, shocker

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому

      The same old regurgitated nonsense that we know isn't true they're all more or less the same, projecting the same bullshit that's why we were given the spiritual tools to deflect and reject 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁

    • @ackbuilder8262
      @ackbuilder8262 7 місяців тому +1

      That’s minimizing and gaslighting statement on its own.

  • @thezenhodler1620
    @thezenhodler1620 5 місяців тому

    The title of this video on its own is worth hitting the like button.

  • @matthewrogers6170
    @matthewrogers6170 7 місяців тому +5

    GOD Just Told Me❤, Keep Stepping Up To The Plate! And Our Worries Be GODs Worries For NOW ON! Amen, And Amen!❤ Glory To GOD In Heaven Of THE HIGHEST!

  • @bradleywalters1665
    @bradleywalters1665 7 місяців тому +8

    I thought I was going insane….. thank you for this video brotha

  • @migueld8970
    @migueld8970 7 місяців тому +4

    Sound advice, however, I would add you have to protect yourself. Woman today made a game of false accusations. They even call it "getting that bag".. I record all my interactions with women in audio. Store it safely, because you don't know if 30 years down the line after you see some success it comes out of nowhere.

  • @user-wu1gm8xz9u
    @user-wu1gm8xz9u 7 місяців тому +12

    I’ve had this mindset for a while now, once I realized that women nowadays do not care in the slightest about your feelings and what they do to them, I reciprocated that same energy. If I feel like your a walking red flag, and you show interest in me, I’m blocking you and never speaking to you again and have absolutely zero sympathy for doing so. I’d rather be alone than to give in to a girl that I know won’t be loyal or trustworthy in the long run. I simply don’t have time for that, I don’t like sleeping around either, I find it superficial and unenjoyable, it’s only nice when you have a connection with that person. So until I find a woman that I know is trustworthy and loyal, and a good person, I’ll happily stay single and alone. Because that’s better than being in a relationship where the woman walks all over you and has no respect for you.

  • @user-ji8he9hv8x
    @user-ji8he9hv8x 7 місяців тому

    You are soo Right.. I worked 80 90 hour's a week when I was married to my Ex and she wouldn't keep a Job or live within her means and did everything in her power to screw Me over and Stop Me from reaching financial goals.. My Ex is a Prescription Drug Addicted Narcissis and a Freeloader and only wants handouts Not a Job or opportunity

  • @joeavina5171
    @joeavina5171 7 місяців тому +7

    On point to the fucking T 💯💯 8-10 years ago wasn't half as bad as it is now.

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      Face it, you aren't men. Real men would have never allowed this.

    • @Jhchah2492
      @Jhchah2492 7 місяців тому

      Upto 2019 was fairly normal 2020 up until now nogood

  • @hardstyle8184
    @hardstyle8184 7 місяців тому +5

    Medellin , Colombia the girls are amazing down here.... I am not looking forward to returning to Los Angeles after two months down here

    • @mkwhole
      @mkwhole 7 місяців тому +3

      Careful with them bro. Those girls are deceiving

    • @gothamindembaum
      @gothamindembaum 7 місяців тому +3

      They are the same EVERYWHERE BRO. It's in the fucking DNA, not the culture.

    • @Vertex-xy8ts
      @Vertex-xy8ts 7 місяців тому

      Isn't it dangerous?

    • @MalabarTheGreat
      @MalabarTheGreat 7 місяців тому

      Loreto, Peru is also a goldmine. Make sure you speak fluent spanish and understand Latin humor.

    • @MalabarTheGreat
      @MalabarTheGreat 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@gothamindembaum culture is a defining factor of women in a society - countries with a high degree of machismo (like Colombia or Peru) have more-desirable women. Yes, they're still women - but they're more-desirable, at much higher numbers.

  • @jamestitman1857
    @jamestitman1857 7 місяців тому +10

    That's why I don't and won't date most women in today's society . I' trust Jehovah God and Jesus Christ to help build me up and one day God will bless me with the right wife you can't Guess

  • @blankearth5840
    @blankearth5840 7 місяців тому +1

    I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a narcissist, I was homeless with him for a very long time, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, but what seemed like a gift from god just turned into something that completely hurt me, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while I was stuck with my narcissistic father who robbed me of an upbringing and self-worth. Yet, people on the internet and even one of my friends invalidates me and tells me “why should they love you” and “oh it’s because they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything your brother always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair.😔

  • @1phresh
    @1phresh 7 місяців тому +3

    It’s always been like this, nothing new continue to stay in your frame fellas.

  • @SuavecitoSlim
    @SuavecitoSlim 7 місяців тому +1

    I thought I was going crazy.
    We got this together.
    United.

  • @anasb.8681
    @anasb.8681 7 місяців тому

    We men need to put our foot down

  • @carl-vh2ei
    @carl-vh2ei 7 місяців тому +1

    Come through for yourself but not for a modern day woman, come through for yourself so you can enjoy your hobbies and exploring this one life we have on this floating rock!

  • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
    @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому +22

    I don't care how much I'm gaslit manipulated, triangulated, shamed, so forth, and so on. I still choose to protect my love juice, aka baby gravy the world can keep on with their games because they will come to realise my time that they waste is also their time because while they're believing the lies/deceptive naratives of today they're also selling themselves dangerously short we'll always get the last laugh regardless to our situations etc! 🙏👍☺️😂👴🦁💯

    • @universalmother
      @universalmother 7 місяців тому

      Real women have no interest in boys. They are attracted to men.

    • @Insight-music
      @Insight-music 7 місяців тому

      Retain gang

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому

      @Insight-music retaining leads to fruits and many blessings. I recommend you look into the health benefits of retaining ones baby gravy be prepared to have your mind blown!

    • @Insight-music
      @Insight-music 7 місяців тому

      @@SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns been on the SR path for 7 years my guy, I’ve experienced many blessings. Keep it goin bro Les go

    • @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns
      @SurroundedByBackwardAssClowns 7 місяців тому

      @Insight-music I plan on doing just that because once you're awake to female psychology and just how messed up society is, you can never look at them the same way again you'll know if you've met a woman who you see potential within and which women to avoid like the black plague that they are!!

  • @infantrycaptain9224
    @infantrycaptain9224 7 місяців тому

    Kid,you would be a hell of a Ranger!🎖

  • @jummers88
    @jummers88 7 місяців тому +4

    Bro bro you got to bro with the bros

  • @hamp1974
    @hamp1974 7 місяців тому +2

    im 67 now and you are rite.

  • @Itwasme007
    @Itwasme007 7 місяців тому

    Karma is real and is horrible when you have to paid up. Stay truth to yourself.

  • @KIngRenegadeGaming
    @KIngRenegadeGaming 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for speaking the Truth brother. To all young men out there: never give up no matter how bad it gets. You grow stronger in pain.

  • @bingflosby
    @bingflosby 7 місяців тому +4

    Love this video
    My wife was watching it and felt a type of way but she hears logic when I explain it to her she’s not like the common woman that can’t understand logic when it’s presented by someone she trust

  • @fudogwhisperer3590
    @fudogwhisperer3590 7 місяців тому +1

    Men don’t even have to do anything bad to set women off. Holding them accountable and calling them out on their shit is so rare because they’ve been enabled all their life is bound to get them talking bad about you behind your back. Responsibly and accountability is their kryptonite.

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 7 місяців тому

      Call them out in person. I call my wife out a lot and she becomes a better, more responsible person when I do. But if you see them acting like a child, call them out. They’ll probably find it hot anyway lol

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment 7 місяців тому +2

    Joel, I would be lost without this channel. Thank you 🙏☝️📈.

  • @endlessthespokesperson6876
    @endlessthespokesperson6876 7 місяців тому

    🇿🇦I know I'm from another country I'm going to tell you today. You deserve your flowers halfway across the World 💪🏾💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @handsomebarber424
    @handsomebarber424 7 місяців тому +2

    Narcissistic personality disorder is rampant

    • @rw7975
      @rw7975 7 місяців тому

      The opposite is true - NPD is 1.6% of the population and runs in families; highest genetic correlation of all cluster B.
      Narcissistic traits are common and even celebrated in modern society... actual NPD is serious (psychotic state, struggling with delusional thinking and reality testing)

    • @theotherside5865
      @theotherside5865 7 місяців тому +1

      Are you sure 95% of all women don’t have it?

    • @CheezhOfficial
      @CheezhOfficial 7 місяців тому

      Everyone has narcissistic traits. That doesn't mean you got NPD. ​@@theotherside5865

  • @agent_exodus
    @agent_exodus 6 місяців тому

    I couldn’t agree more and thank you for talking about it.

  • @user-wc7ns4mu9v
    @user-wc7ns4mu9v 7 місяців тому

    I’m Chris I lived in Saskatoon was a landlord almost a millionnaire at the age of 35 cash flow businesses!

  • @JKDVIPER
    @JKDVIPER 7 місяців тому +2

    That was cool. The various levels of gas lighting are sometimes extremely different. With women, sure. But with family and people in power. Whole other level. 😂when you’re playing by the rule and get a shhhh sandwich stuffed in your mouth, it makes you physically sick. You are the man. I liked that. That made sense. They want people in fear, so they can be manipulated. They want you scared so they can capitalize. They want you shamed so they can keep you weak. 🤮🤢BAAAARF. 💯👍💥good post!

  • @EvaSchroeder-lb8lx
    @EvaSchroeder-lb8lx 7 місяців тому +1

    I pray for all the men out there! 🙏

  • @9latinumStudioz
    @9latinumStudioz 7 місяців тому +3

    My guy's back 🦾 with a vengeance 😈
    Nice pad bro 👌🦁✨

  • @ericb.3002
    @ericb.3002 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank u for making this video, wish I had a video like this to watch 20 years ago.

  • @PraveenSrJ01
    @PraveenSrJ01 7 місяців тому +1

    Glad to see you making videos again Terry! 😊

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment 7 місяців тому +2

    Bro you’re the John Cena of UA-cam “your time is up my time is now” 😁😆

  • @reignenangelo
    @reignenangelo 6 місяців тому

    I feel gas lit watching this tbh

  • @mastermindrational1907
    @mastermindrational1907 7 місяців тому +4

    I needed to hear this. Great video, bro.

  • @mountainmanxyz
    @mountainmanxyz 7 місяців тому +1

    If you play the game, you will be played. Don't play games. If you want to be real with women, be real with them. But don't lead them on. Two wrongs don't make a right. Be the better MAN!