Enneagram: The High/Low Side of Type 6

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 115

  • @llamadrama5
    @llamadrama5 4 роки тому +140

    I am a 6 and it’s kinda scary how accurate this is!! At first I thought I was a 9 because I am a peacekeeper but when I dug deeper I am definitely a 6. I always feels like there is a hidden agenda, I always research things and still come up doubtful, and I go crazy when someone makes me doubt myself after I’ve made up my mind! But I am very loyal to my Husband, my Job, and my family. This was very helpful!

  • @sherwinchia8114
    @sherwinchia8114 3 роки тому +55

    All us 6s are here to find security and support of each other but no one's going to believe what I tell them 😂

  • @UncleForHire
    @UncleForHire 2 роки тому +19

    "Maybe I can relax a little bit and maybe I'll be okay." This line is gold, took a deep breath and instantly felt better after hearing this.

  • @anthonywilson7242
    @anthonywilson7242 3 роки тому +50

    So would a 6 type person be skeptical about what you're saying? Lol

  • @pietrorusso9311
    @pietrorusso9311 3 роки тому +6

    Very insightful but unbalanced presentation of type 6. The positive part of type 6 started almost at the 28th minute of a 32,5 minutes video. The “half full” part of the glass got only 15% of the attention. It might give a negative view of a type which is as good as the other ones. Beside this critic, great content.

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554
    @thesevenkingswelove9554 3 роки тому +11

    imagine being INFP and also 6

  • @sierracrater4970
    @sierracrater4970 4 роки тому +20

    I felt like most of this video was about the low of a type 6 rather than the high.

  • @kimberlybosman3258
    @kimberlybosman3258 4 роки тому +28

    I needed all of this information 20 years ago. Now I need to overcome my fear to reveal myself to people who I have always felt never understood me. I am grateful for your videos. I feel understood.

  • @10scdreamin
    @10scdreamin 2 роки тому +10

    This helps me understand my sister (6w5) better. She has always presented herself to me in a rather vague way-especially when she was stressed out. When I asked questions, trying to understand her situation & her frame of mind, she would hem & haw, never truly making any sense to me (9w8). I believe someone close to her has made her question her ability to come to correct conclusions, made her question her self-worth. So thanks for some helpful insights into her inner struggles.

  • @itsshayla
    @itsshayla 3 роки тому +3

    I feel very attacked and stressed by this information 🥴🥴 like there legit is a reason to not trust anyone until proven otherwise ....but maybe it’s my ptsd

  • @angelaengle12
    @angelaengle12 Рік тому +12

    As a 6, I like to think we are the German Shepherds of the human breed. Anyone who has had a German Sheperd knows they are a very anxious breed. They are always on guard duty all the time. Every noise or bump in the night freaks them out. Very protective and loyal. Being anxious is just part of their nature as it is for me as a 6.

  • @amandaarbuckle9264
    @amandaarbuckle9264 3 роки тому +13

    I have been living in the outhouse forever, but have been healing over the past 3 years. Slowly working my way to the cabin. ❤

  • @enlightentheoccasion
    @enlightentheoccasion 2 роки тому +5

    Wow this is so accurate for me. I definitely use my 5 wing more than my 7 wing. So I definitely need to learn more on how to use my 7 wing.

  • @LindaFager
    @LindaFager 3 роки тому +6

    I wrote down the words of encouragement in the last 3-4 minutes of this to read every time I feel super anxious about something. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

  • @patrarus6097
    @patrarus6097 4 роки тому +23

    Very comprehensive and interesting. I am a 6w7, and that 7 part really does save me in many situations!

  • @renesme4936
    @renesme4936 4 роки тому +12

    I've read a lot about this, and this is the first I've heard about sixes pulling away (to succeed) in times of stress like threes. I saw myself getting arrogant like a three, but I didn't realize the isolation was also part of the disintegration. I've done that my whole life and never understood why, so thank you for sharing this.

  • @soniadi9105
    @soniadi9105 4 роки тому +7

    For me, these fears and anxiousness was the normal way, but lately i came to realise they are over the top, thanks also to you and your friendly obgective comments (from a non 6 's point of view). I feel i'm becoming more self conscious about my behaviours and your last encouragements and ways to overcome fear are much appreciated, they are not obvious to us 6s i suppose haha..Also I like the relaxed, friendly and humorous way of your talking:)

  • @laurenaspreyart
    @laurenaspreyart 2 роки тому +2

    I love the way you describe things. Using the cabin metaphors really helps paint a clear picture and it make learning about the enneagram even more engaging :)

  • @Progamerjay100
    @Progamerjay100 2 роки тому +2

    This was actually very helpful and very eye opening. Thank you.

  • @a.ham_antha7454
    @a.ham_antha7454 4 роки тому +6

    This honestly did help because I am a type 6 and was working on a lot of homework and I got extremely overwhelmed and watching this video did get a little close to home with like how 6s act when under stress and whatnot but the last few messages to the 6s did genuinely help and I calmed down a bit so yea thanks :)