7 Warning Signs You Need a Mental Wellness Check

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  • How good are you at recognizing early signs that your mental health is slipping? It’s very hard to pull yourself out of a hole when you bottom out from depression. It’s much easier to change your course if you haven’t gotten too low. Here’s are some relatively common signs that your mental health is going downward.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 736

  • @tayzonday
    @tayzonday Рік тому +609

    Sometimes I swear Dr. Marks has eyes in my walls.

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 Рік тому +6

      Have wondered the same!! 👀❣️

    • @YellowJeff94
      @YellowJeff94 Рік тому +28

      Glad to know you are still here, Tay. I can still remember your famous video all those years ago during the days of old UA-cam.

    • @retrocrono
      @retrocrono Рік тому +10

      Hey yooo, unexpected to see you here but cheers OG.

    • @MrDJ317
      @MrDJ317 Рік тому +19

      Chocolate rain!!

    • @MissMarvel_
      @MissMarvel_ Рік тому +8

      She just knows it's a good time to talk about depression when winter swings around because of seasonal depression

  • @tmlawson751
    @tmlawson751 Рік тому +690

    1. Not bathing regularly (guilt adds to misery, despite not having energy to do it)
    2. Not brushing teeth (just an extra step, too much energy to do)
    3. Super cluttered surroundings
    4. Lose track of time, doing nothing (psychomotor slowing), staring into space, leads to being overwhelmed by catching up
    5. Feeling strong emotions under the surface (tears falling at any time, feeling fragile, or angry or rageful) that don't match the situation
    6. Isolation from others because of the deep unhappiness from inside
    7. Feeling exhausted and sleepy, even after waking up from a night of rest
    And yes, this also happens when you are unmedicated bipolar, not just medically depressed.

  • @Ryan-mw9pm
    @Ryan-mw9pm Рік тому +60

    I have poor hygiene and I don't brush my teeth, my room is a mess and I feel trapped in a constant dopamine cycle that I can't break. Thank you for this video and helping me become more aware of what I have become.

    • @lpjah8951
      @lpjah8951 Рік тому

      Damn bro me 2! I just started anti depressants. Quit alcohol 3 months ago. I was in a vicious cycle of depression and drinking to cope with it which ended up me hitting the ground hard! My room is a mess and I can’t clean it. I just can’t deal with it! Only brush my teeth like every other day. Over this 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @chloe-sunshine7
      @chloe-sunshine7 Рік тому +2

      I hope you get the help you need soon. I believe in you even if I don't know you. You got this, random stranger.

    • @0taxz550
      @0taxz550 Рік тому +4

      Take some mushrooms

  • @ran2123
    @ran2123 Рік тому +45

    As someone who’ve spiraled into depression a lot of times, i notice these signs leading to that. I’m scared to spiral again so I’ve developed a routine that i follow every single day except for a few exceptions with valid reasons. After i wake up in the morning, i pee, make my bed, brush my hair, wash and refill water bottle, drink water, brush my teeth, do yoga, meditate and take a bath. In the evening before bed, i brush my hair, take a half bath, floss, brush my teeth and journal. I make sure that i follow this routine everyday because i know that it’s going to help me keep going when I’m starting to spiral. And most times, this routine prevents me from spiraling. Sometimes, it takes me late to do them but the most important thing is that I still did them. Taking care of myself and my hygiene is the most basic thing i can do for my own self and this has helped me a lot with not spiraling into depression. I still feel depressed from time to time but i don’t get depressed for longer periods now. I’ve started following this routine in 2020 but almost at the end, some things happened and i spiraled into depression. I followed that routine for eight months before it got disrupted and I hadn’t had a major episode of depression during that time. I struggled to restart following that routine after and i’ve failed to restart it a lot of times last year and early this year but i succeeded in restarting it again this year. I’ve been doing it for over seven months now and i haven’t experienced major episode since then.

  • @wootlesswocks
    @wootlesswocks Рік тому +6

    I have PTSD, anxiety, and major depressive disorder. Exercise is one of the things that makes living tolerable. It also helps me realize how fortunate I am to be able-bodied, and appreciate my body for all the things it does for me.

  • @Selah_Soul
    @Selah_Soul Рік тому +71

    Whew. I am experiencing all of this. Just scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist. This came right on time. Thank you ❤️

  • @happynjoyousnfree
    @happynjoyousnfree Рік тому +102

    I played this video for my addiction recovery group, and they all said that this is what their active addiction looked like. We had a great discussion! I asked why they think that depression looks like active addiction and they said that "no one's happy in addiction." Thanks so much for ALL of these videos! Love the practical advice: sleep well, eat well, and exercise. Just awesome stuff!

    • @nostalgicbliss5547
      @nostalgicbliss5547 Рік тому +9

      Damn that's true. It's usually because of deep unhappiness that leads to people overindulging

    • @jebronlames2854
      @jebronlames2854 Рік тому +1

      Everything thing else other than the drug u are taking seems unimportant ESPECIALLY when youve come down and ur sober. Why brush my teeth when i could just get high? Why clean my dishes when getting high will bring me much more gratification because of my addictive ass personality? And then when ur sober and run out of drugs ur not thinking oh ill actually do sumthing productive now because all ur effort is going toward acquiring more drugs. Literally ur brain is re-wiring itself into believing that drugs are more important than personal health or hygiene and when u do get high u have no motivation to clean those dirty dishes beach whats the point I already got my drugs fuck those dishes.

  • @SocialNomad
    @SocialNomad Рік тому +26

    I definitely recognize cluttered surroundings as a sign, when I'm stress the cleaning of my room is usually the first thing I stop doing.

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Рік тому +85

    This video scared me. Number 3 was literally EVERYTHING going on with me right now. I am beyond depressed and things are getting worse. Thank you Dr. Tracey! You save lives with your videos.

    • @tmlawson751
      @tmlawson751 Рік тому +4

      Get better soon 💖

    • @MrBUGS713
      @MrBUGS713 Рік тому +1

      Try a keto or carnivore diet

    • @3glitch9
      @3glitch9 Рік тому

      Please research EHS

  • @mudswallow5074
    @mudswallow5074 Рік тому +100

    I wonder why those depression assessment questionnaires don't ask about things like how many times you brushed your teeth last week instead of super subjective stuff like how many days you felt bad about yourself last week. I always feel like the questionnaires don't capture what's going on, but you capture the scary, tangible issues related to inability to function here. All of the things you mentioned apply to me except the emotions one - I don't have emotions when my depression is at its worst.

    • @ismahanm1118
      @ismahanm1118 Рік тому +1

      That’s such a good point

    • @janelle_beans
      @janelle_beans Рік тому +3

      Me looking at this comment not having brushed my teeth in a full week. 🙃 Spot on.

    • @angeleyes1879
      @angeleyes1879 Рік тому +1

      @@janelle_beansplz go brush em 😵‍💫🤢

    • @ginalibrizzi5204
      @ginalibrizzi5204 Рік тому +10

      I have a feeling that most people would be too embarrassed to admit the truth if they aren’t bathing or brushing their teeth regularly.

    • @shade767
      @shade767 Рік тому +3

      @@ginalibrizzi5204 That’s true, but I’m also too embarrassed to say how much I hate myself. I guess that declining physical health is also really important to recognize though.

  • @NETTY283
    @NETTY283 Рік тому +11

    Wow....this is a wake up call for me. All I have to do now is find the strength to start🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @simplementexenia
    @simplementexenia Рік тому +37

    I’m bipolar and I instantly know that depression is coming when the quality of my sleep goes down and I start to shower once in 4 days even though I can still feel really good emotionally. You can teach yourself to track those things if you have some sort of recurrent mental health issues. It helps to catch it and do something about it till it gets worse

  • @AeriaGl0ris
    @AeriaGl0ris Рік тому +59

    Several of these applied to me a few months ago. Not exactly sure what changed, but for a while I have been doing better. I'm going to try and use these signs as a sort of checklist in the future so I can know when I need to change something to help my mental health.

  • @corylcreates
    @corylcreates Рік тому +14

    My sleep has a domino effect on the rest of my wellness. Same with the time of day I wake up. Sleeping in until 10am seems like a luxury to many people, but getting up before 8am has improved my wellness markedly.

  • @rilindshehu2458
    @rilindshehu2458 Рік тому +17

    I have all of these symptoms except the teeth one, and I ALSO have low thyroid and low vitamin D. Somehow I've been getting through most of my life like this and a lot of it has been "normalized" for me. Learning about these things has shown me that I'm missing out on things and that I have a lot to look forward to with my health.

    • @FauziahAbdullah715
      @FauziahAbdullah715 Рік тому +2

      If you think there's a way out, there will be a way out. And, don't compete and compare yourself with others but compete and compare your present with your previous. All the best to you.

  • @karenswartz8280
    @karenswartz8280 Рік тому +15

    I hit all 7 hallmarks ( no surprises there). I’m too ashamed to say how long it’s been since I showered blast, my pile of laundry is almost as tall as me, my house is in chaos(I think it mirrors what goes on internally, in my head), I’m petrified of someone showing up unannounced at my home. I could go on…..BUT….on this past Sunday, I decided to pick one thing that I could commit to doing for myself, that will hopefully be a start. I have managed to follow through with brushing my teeth every day. I see my psychiatrist tomorrow, and hopefully will have a long-needed medication change.

  • @xorbe2
    @xorbe2 Рік тому +5

    This video embodies a hidden societal problem ... it implies that we need to be busy 24/7 just to keep up. Maybe society in general adds to the problem, human minds and bodies aren't really intended to deliver peak performance every waking moment. Yeah I isolated myself from most of the people that were around me, tired of busting my butt working hard with "friends/family" demanding I fix their problems too, naw dawg, no more of that. Gosh they got angry when I stopped jumping on demand, blocked blocked and blocked.

  • @ronvalley1973
    @ronvalley1973 Рік тому +8

    I love how you do the graphics with your face on the tv sets, that is so cool, dang, I'm 67 and have no idea how that is accomplished. Excellent video too!

  • @noahpehowic6080
    @noahpehowic6080 Рік тому +39

    I'm not at this low of a point in my depression, but I know I have it. It causes me to sympathize greatly for people who have it worse than me, and I cannot imagine how it must feel for people who are at that point. I feel like I'm in a fairly dark place, so it's terrifying to imagine what it's like to be at a worse mental point.

    • @CarimboHanky
      @CarimboHanky Рік тому

      dont self diagnose and go to a doctor
      socialmedia is making people think and feel they have issues they really dont

    • @noahpehowic6080
      @noahpehowic6080 Рік тому +1

      @@CarimboHanky I only "diagnose" myself with depression because of the fact that I'm grieving a close family member and because anxiety goes hand in hand with depression. I put the word diagnose in quotations because depression itself is not a condition-- many people experience it at some point and some degree. It's a condition when it's at the level of being clinical depression.

  • @markvega9894
    @markvega9894 Рік тому +19

    Physical activity definitely helps me out. It got me out of my depressive Rut during the 2020-2021 shutdowns and I practice being active religiously now. I'm a case manager in mental health and incorporate physical activities with my clients in rehab. However it's still difficult because of the poor food these clients consume. It's like prison food and our agency doesn't have or get enough funds from DMH to subsidize healthier meals. I feel like I'm doing what I can to prevent these people from getting any worse than where they're at. It's very sad and unfortunate that people still live under conditions like this while undergoing treatment. :/

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 Рік тому +5

      Hi Mark! Unfortunately quite true about nutrition. As a case manager, you have some 'clout', lol..any possibility you could negotiate with some local businesses or farms etc to donate some fresh vegs/fruits..it's apple season, harvest time! Possibly local grocery/bakery for their day-old goods, damaged packages, etc?? I know you already have a full time++ job!...but it was just a thought maybe community might be willing? 🤞🍎🍓🌰🍞🥦🥬🫑!! Best wishes!! ❣️

    • @markvega9894
      @markvega9894 Рік тому +1

      @@elysianfields8461 yea I can, that's a possibility, but there's not many community farms in the neighborhoods we serve these clients. There food desserts. Only thing I could consider is inquiring of donations of some sort with local markets. Definitely not gonna work "out" of my work time to do it because I don't get paid for that but it's worth inquiring during work hours while passing by. Thank you for that recommendation.

  • @nanatwinny5211
    @nanatwinny5211 Рік тому +20

    Thank you for this ma'am 🙂 I'm 17 and I'm fighting this

    • @JoSpring
      @JoSpring Рік тому +3

      Don't give up. You have a right to be happy!

    • @donmurky
      @donmurky Рік тому +1

    • @---456
      @---456 Рік тому +1

      💜💜💜

    • @anngo1840
      @anngo1840 Рік тому

      I did fight off my depression by going for a run or a walk for 5-10' a day. With the sunshine and the peace of nuture, I can refresh and balance myself. Why don't you give it a try?

    • @Nautilus1972
      @Nautilus1972 Рік тому

      It's probably worst or stars to become really bad about then. It took about 5 years from 17 until I was 22 before I stopped having suicidal ideation. The mind is your demon at the moment - it's somewhere you can't escape. Sooner or later you will realize that your negative feelings are of your own creation and have allowed others to hold your own feelings to ransom. Stop worry-thoughts in their tracks and dismiss them. Disarm them immediately and despise them. The force is within you already. Turn it on.

  • @roanoak7117
    @roanoak7117 Рік тому +23

    I'm on a study abroad and I've been away from my family for almost a whole semester now and it's been difficult, not to mention I'm feeling stressed with school and I'm trying to help my parents with some business ideas while being half a world away. But I thought I was doing pretty good at managing my depression, anxiety, and my ADHD. But listening to this video I realize I'm actually hitting every one of these marks, I think it's time to review my mental health and try to figure out how to prioritize my mental health a bit. Still all the things I should do I just feel too tired to do, it's always the things that make you better in the long term that can feel so impossible in the short term. But I'll keep working hard.^^

  • @rockgirlemilyavery
    @rockgirlemilyavery Рік тому +3

    I've been to psychiatrists and therapists since 13 and I'm 44. Never once have I heard it describe so well almost exactly how I feel

  • @jackbarnes5589
    @jackbarnes5589 Рік тому +3

    Oh man, I got so many of these checked. Having ADHD, Aspergers, Anxiety, and Schizophrenia doesn't help. Good thing I have 2 good voices helping. I am a mental wreck I stopped counting the mental illnesses.

  • @joeljoss1916
    @joeljoss1916 Рік тому +1

    The quality of help along with the cost leaves too many to suffer alone.

  • @Veroxzes
    @Veroxzes Рік тому +7

    All these signs is me and it’s been this way for as long as I can remember. It’s my personality at this point. I know it eventually gets better, so I just wait it out. Then I’m golden for a few days or a week, then back into the gloom. Rinse and repeat.

  • @anthonyrussell1129
    @anthonyrussell1129 Рік тому +17

    2,5, and 6 really hit home for me. I know I'm going through it when I am always on the cusp of crying for whatever reason. It could be anything that sets me off. A commercial, a song, or watching other people's emotions on display.

  • @Trelevell
    @Trelevell Рік тому +16

    I love your videos because you always make me feel like I’m not the only one with depression giving me the messages that there is always a way to get help with your variety of mental health videos. Thank you so much for being an amazing creator !

    • @gabecossio2923
      @gabecossio2923 Рік тому +1

      I can totally relate. During my last major depressive episode (2021) I felt as if I was the only one with this disorder and that no one understood me. When you get your bearings back you realize that’s not true.

  • @joseesteban413
    @joseesteban413 Рік тому +28

    Hi Dr. Tracy Marks,
    I appreciate how much thought you put into your videos. Your examples are super helpful in visualizing what you are explaining. Your visuals and concepts are beautifully tied together! Thank you for your sharing your content! They have helped me manage my mental health vastly.
    Much appreciation and gratitude :)

  • @phoebewoodruff1101
    @phoebewoodruff1101 Рік тому +3

    You have perfectly described my default condition over the last 18 years, after many years of deep episodic depression. Each of the warning signs you described is uncannily accurate. Five years into treatment with medication and therapy, I finally am beginning to feel as though I can function again. (In addition to the depression, I've also been diagnosed with ADHD inattentive type, generalized anxiety disorder, and PTSD.) I wish access to videos like yours had been available when I was younger, but I am so happy that access is available to all of us today. Thank you so much for the good work that you do!

  • @rdoodoo2021
    @rdoodoo2021 Рік тому +4

    Every single thing on this list is my entire adult life. I'm like this all the time. I have major depression. Therapists make me worse cuz they do not understand me. I just keep to myself. I'm used to it. I exercise by walking a lot, I eat well sporadically, and I sleep OK lately. I'm just used to it. I read books and learn new languages on Duolingo. I'm on disability for depression. I will never go back to a therapist. It's awful. Makes me worse every time. Peace to all ✌️🕊️

    • @hazelatwood2292
      @hazelatwood2292 Рік тому +4

      I TOTALLY feel the same way! I’m in the exact same situation as you! I have a required med-check appointment today (must do one every two or three months to get my prescriptions refilled) but I’m hesitant to share too much about how bad my life is because her “required” next step will be to refer me to yet ANOTHER therapist. And - more often than not - that new weekly responsibility will just feel like even MORE STRESS heaped upon me.
      I have actual real life problems stemming from my current state of financial poverty. I don’t have money for a car. And my furnace just broke last night, and I live in New England where it is cold. I need REAL PRACTICAL HELP - and the list of phone numbers to convoluted bureaucracies I’m offered never seems to get me anywhere. 😣. (Just venting.)

  • @shiny2423
    @shiny2423 Рік тому +7

    Okay, I have 6 out of 7~! Still brushing my teeth but even that seems an effort. I mentally force myself bc I don't want my teeth to fall out. I have a lot of clutter but do my dishes and pick up regularly. It's difficult for me to open mail, emails, texts or answer the telephone .
    Bathing is a struggle for many reasons (one being currently handicapped) On the ine hand I know I feel my best after taking a shower; I do have to make myself at least every other day or two.
    I isolate by choice but like social media to connect with people. I rarely invite someone over. I often don't answer the door unless I am expecting someone.
    I have struggled with depression on and off since I was 14. I self medicated in the 70's and 80's although I no longer abuse drugs and don't drink alcohol.
    I recently got into an argument with my next door neighbor bc I didn't answer her text. (Although I had previously explained to her that I don't like talking on the phone or excessive texting.I told her It's was my anxiety and setting boundaries, to "please respect my privacy." To which she should have understood since I compared It to her clinical anxiety disorder of driving her car out of our city limits. She literally cannot drive beyond the demarcation of our town's border and, yes, she is on Disability for her extreme anxiety. So imagine my surprise when she got butt hurt over me not answering her text!!! She rushed past me angrily and mumbled, "I just don't understand your problem with the phone!"
    So I know depression/anxiety all too well. You'd be surprised how many people are ignorant about the disease and especially the medications like Prozac (which I take and attest to it saving my life.).

    • @Cathy-xi8cb
      @Cathy-xi8cb Рік тому +2

      An occupational therapist has a graduate degree in making ADLs easier. Please find one.

  • @ilikaplayhopscotch
    @ilikaplayhopscotch Рік тому +7

    As a diabetic, (type 2) with a ‘I just have to count the carbs’ diet, in addition to hypothyroidism from the replacement hormones (thyroid cancer = no more thyroid), I hit most of these bars, albeit marginally. I’m sorry to whoever hits these and finds out some bad news the long way!
    I’ve got stuff like constant lethargy, but an inability to fall asleep. (It’s a brilliant combo)
    Social isolation and inability to track time. I’d rewatch the rest just to complete this comment but, well, turns out I didn’t.

  • @Spectacularhuman
    @Spectacularhuman Рік тому +3

    Dr Tracy you are the best !!....
    That part about processed foods.. that's a hard one right there. It's so hard to escape the processed foods if you live a lifestyle that keeps you on the go away from home in order to provide.
    It's always a cheeseburger or a slice of pizza right around the corner, it's so hard to find some broccoli, spinach, cauliflower, red bell pepper, brussel sprouts, etc. Steamed or in the raw... But those french fries they're always sitting right there in front of your face. Thank you again Dr Tracy.

  • @pizzamech3000
    @pizzamech3000 Рік тому +3

    I knew I'd been having a hard time for a while but every single one of these is something I deal with everyday now

  • @alicem1111
    @alicem1111 Рік тому +3

    The isolating is true for me. I also try and pay attention to when I can’t fall asleep at a normal time- it’s a bad sign for me. I try and get back on track as soon as I can. I also pay attention to my eating- when I’m starting feel low I start to not eat. I just forget and I don’t acknowledge my body being hungry or thirsty. So I track my water every day and focus on eating a little at normal meal times even if I’m not hungry. I find tracking ( in a notebook) all of these things to be helpful.

  • @deborahfreeze672
    @deborahfreeze672 Рік тому +7

    Talk about 'in a nutshell'! Every time I feel myself plunging down into the pit I feel all or most of these things. It takes a HUGE amount of energy to push through and continue your regular routine whether it's working, going to school and/or parenting.
    It is ever so helpful to ride out an episode without commitments. Since I am retired I can wait for better days to accomplish tasks. It seems like a lifetime ago that I was able to be physically active. Exercise was a healing balm. For those who can exert themselves, start training when you feel well then push to keep it up during the down times, even if you have to modify it a bit.

    • @zahrinthia1403
      @zahrinthia1403 Рік тому

      I've been trying to finish college but those signs have been me on and off for the past few years. I have been going to therapy but I still just keep going through cycles of when I'm mostly fine and then something happens and I am really not ok for a while which sucks when you have classes to do and are trying to look for an internship that's required to graduate :c
      I just want to graduate already but every semester I have at least one bad episode that puts me at minimum a week and a half behind in my work so it trashes my grades. People keep telling me to push through because I'm almost there but I just feel like I'll never graduate at this point.

  • @lancephillips5848
    @lancephillips5848 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much Dr. Marks for addressing this to help me know I’m not going crazy and that it’s something that can be put into words. I can just cry!

  • @fussyfissy
    @fussyfissy Рік тому +3

    Great video Doc! Thank you for providing resources for everyone! Hope you and your family have a lovely holiday!

  • @free2express08
    @free2express08 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for this. I remember when I was experiencing burnout, I showed some of these symptoms. It's important for me to see this video so I can recognize when I need to take care of myself a bit more.

  • @sharonlockwood1825
    @sharonlockwood1825 Рік тому +2

    Thank you! This was excellent, condensed and practical! I really appreciate the services you provide here.

  • @ilrisotter
    @ilrisotter Рік тому +1

    This is so true. I was on the verge of tears by the third day of my company's all hands event. It felt like I was just struggling to not break down, but they're wasn't much I could do except skip a meal and get some more time for rest in my room. Once the event ended, getting out, and riding around the city helped my emotional state immensely.
    Next event I'm going to make it a priority that I can keep time reserved to myself for physical activity and recovery.

  • @joseph8468
    @joseph8468 Рік тому +1

    Dr.Marks: Thank you very much for the videos you publish. Many of them have greatly helped this listener. You are a blessing in my life.

  • @Dontcallmebruh
    @Dontcallmebruh Рік тому +2

    Thanks DR! I needed this. It’s simple and not overwhelming making the right steps 😊

  • @melancholiadementia
    @melancholiadementia Рік тому +1

    insta watch when i got the upload notification. thanks for being so clear and concise

  • @kubacentala3189
    @kubacentala3189 Рік тому +2

    You are doing great work Dr. Tracey!

  • @aortium6105
    @aortium6105 Рік тому +1

    you have provided such an invaluable resource and are genuinely saving lives. its been getting pretty hard lately to keep it together, and this just came at the time i need it most. thank you endlessly

  • @Itsrichardash
    @Itsrichardash Рік тому +2

    This video is so helpful. Thank you!

  • @nonayoung8177
    @nonayoung8177 5 місяців тому

    you are so kind to do these videos ! thank you !

  • @verucasalt2391
    @verucasalt2391 Рік тому +1

    This channel just came up in my feed.
    It’s like the algorithm knew what I needed.❤

  • @1dfulbenjamin434
    @1dfulbenjamin434 Рік тому +1

    I just wanted to say THANK YOU 😊 for sharing good information in a manner that is clear, concise and helpful.

  • @gabecossio2923
    @gabecossio2923 Рік тому +3

    You did it again Dr. Marks ! Another informative video. Thank you so much.

  • @Fear_Therapy
    @Fear_Therapy Рік тому

    Important signs! Thank you for making this. ❤

  • @frederickred
    @frederickred Рік тому

    Thanks for help great video and editing.

  • @meghanmonroe
    @meghanmonroe Рік тому +4

    Here I thought I was doing better but you literally just made a checklist of my life.

    • @csc8697
      @csc8697 Рік тому +1

      Lol, my thoughts tóo.

  • @jatfield
    @jatfield Рік тому

    Great touch including Ms. Marks on those stock footage! It made them fun instead of distracting and sometimes cringey like they were before. Thanks!

  • @goosiey3
    @goosiey3 Рік тому +1

    These are all me. I’m finally going to the doctor next week. Thank you for your videos ❤️

  • @renewrelationshipcounseling
    @renewrelationshipcounseling Рік тому +1

    Thank you for all of the great content you produce!

  • @TracvM320
    @TracvM320 Рік тому +7

    This made me cry- the darkness of depression is not to be taken lightly.

    • @nomadclan3604
      @nomadclan3604 Рік тому +2

      It's so hard! Sending peace and light to you.

    • @creepyhero84
      @creepyhero84 5 місяців тому +1

      Don't cry, we're all here for you. you're exsistence on this planet make it a better place.

    • @TracvM320
      @TracvM320 5 місяців тому +1

      @@creepyhero84 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @creepyhero84
      @creepyhero84 5 місяців тому +1

      @@TracvM320 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TracvM320
      @TracvM320 5 місяців тому

      @@nomadclan3604 a year later and I just got notified you left this message. It’s so kind- thank you

  • @jadzialawrence
    @jadzialawrence Рік тому +4

    Hi Dr. Marks. I would like to express gratitude for your channel. Your videos are very informative. Thank you! :)

  • @mararashomon9494
    @mararashomon9494 Рік тому +1

    and when you live alone since years it's even harder to acknowledge the situation

  • @Stormie1886
    @Stormie1886 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this

  • @Luke2777F
    @Luke2777F Рік тому

    Thanks for another video and congrats for getting a big sponsor!!

  • @jasmine_milkyflower
    @jasmine_milkyflower Рік тому +3

    My weak points are definitely brushing my teeth and showering.
    It's like my brain makes super articulated reasons up for why I shouldn't shower and I go "Yeah...makes sense, I'll shower tomorrow cause today I didn't workout so I'll workout tomorrow and shower" When I see I can't find time for these basic needs I know I'm getting into the hole. Recently dodged the bullet realising that these things were off.
    Lovely video and thank you so much for the reminder. Feels very good to know I'm on the right track.

  • @laperrona3486
    @laperrona3486 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Dr Marks

  • @gabevillanueva27
    @gabevillanueva27 Рік тому +19

    Scheduled my first behavior health specialist appointment today at age 27. Other than 1 and 2, all the other signs have been pretty consistent in my life for little over 1 year now. This was a very helpful video and during my appointment I'm going to express what symptoms I've been experiencing. Thanks for the content! Much Appreciated :)

    • @TrekStar11
      @TrekStar11 Рік тому +3

      Good for you, respect bro

  • @issapolanco
    @issapolanco Рік тому

    This is great! Thank you

  • @sue-anneastman3502
    @sue-anneastman3502 Рік тому

    Thank you for this checklist.

  • @janelle_beans
    @janelle_beans Рік тому +3

    You’ve literally described pretty much all of my adult life in one checklist, thaaaaanks. 😅 (I’ve also struggled with developing any sort of hygiene routine in childhood since I didn’t have the care I needed from my parents and would go 1-2 weeks without a shower on a normal basis until I realized how greasy my hair was).

  • @byamboy
    @byamboy Рік тому

    This was awesome and accurate! Thank you!!!!

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Рік тому

    These were some great indicators to look out for. Another great video as always ❤️

  • @Blueline3691
    @Blueline3691 Рік тому

    Useful vid, thanks

  • @diestos
    @diestos Рік тому +4

    It’s been now a couple of years since I discovered Dr Tracey, I’m so grateful to come accross her, she has helpedme understand so much about my own health, and I think she has contributed to me getting better. ❤

  • @salmavian6612
    @salmavian6612 Рік тому

    I am from Egypt and I do love you ❤️
    Thanks for making our lives better

  • @nicoler9522
    @nicoler9522 Місяць тому

    Feeling this so much. I speak to a counselor but couldn't get an appointment until next week. I ended up calling a line for help through work today. I didn't go to work yesterday because of anxiety. Today I got up, got showered, then froze. Couldn't do it. So I'm home scrolling mental health videos. I'm trying to find a psychiatrist for an assessment and diagnosis

  • @harvelle1
    @harvelle1 Рік тому

    Wow! Thank you Doc! Very informative. I have passed this on.

  • @210kvngjaymusik
    @210kvngjaymusik Рік тому

    I can't stress enough how much I didn't know I needed this channel.

  • @mrseniorfloofypants1264
    @mrseniorfloofypants1264 Рік тому

    This was a really good video!

  • @sekenamcmurren2217
    @sekenamcmurren2217 Рік тому

    Thank you Dr.Marks!👩

  • @curtkeisler7623
    @curtkeisler7623 Рік тому

    Thank you Dr Tracy. You're the best!

  • @michaelneedssleep
    @michaelneedssleep Рік тому +1

    7/7 varying at different points in my life, but there have absolutely been times when it was all seven. I’m grateful to have access to treatment via therapy and a psychiatrist, I know not everyone does.

  • @DonnyNoMarie
    @DonnyNoMarie Рік тому

    Great vid! Very informative!

  • @cside2426
    @cside2426 Рік тому

    Thanks Dr. Marks. This video confirm to me that a sabbatical was warrented. Your points on losing track of time, isolation, exhaustion hit home. Awesome information. 👍🏽

    • @DisabilitysAREabilities
      @DisabilitysAREabilities Рік тому

      Another one lost souls being scampered anyone can
      Tell you it’s from the bullshit of covid..3 months between Epstein island and covid you do the math…clog up the courts genius
      ❤️

  • @mariella2884
    @mariella2884 Рік тому

    I am currently working through some trauma and being in tuned with my MH has allowed me to see how many times I've experienced these symptoms over time.

  • @CWR1O1
    @CWR1O1 7 місяців тому

    I had a really bad day today but this video helped me get more motivated to stop my self from doing these things

  • @mlboldon
    @mlboldon Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing 💜💜💜

  • @a.j.lilianmenashe5581
    @a.j.lilianmenashe5581 Рік тому +1

    Sadly I check off all symptoms. I new I had a crap couple of years, but I didn’t know how deeply significant this was!

  • @lpscutecollie3932
    @lpscutecollie3932 Рік тому

    I know full well that I don't have any form of depression, but I do understand this, likely because I have a victim mindset that causes me to be sullen and feel sad even when I should feel overwhelming joy.
    During the summer, I had a large personal project. I thought that seeing the mess I'd made of my room would motivate me to complete the project because I told myself I couldn't clean until I got it done. Instead I didn't want to complete the project because everything around me was untidy. When I'm obligated to care for myself I still zone out for long periods. Hopefully going to see a therapist for my actual mental issues, so I'll bring it up. Thank you.

  • @studiosandi
    @studiosandi Рік тому

    Thank you for making these videos. You are helping to make the world a happier place😘

  • @cutiepiebb
    @cutiepiebb Рік тому

    I love you Dr. Marks 🥺

  • @RR-kz4hq
    @RR-kz4hq Рік тому

    I needed this

  • @MsTrish3520
    @MsTrish3520 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video.

  • @mikek7660
    @mikek7660 Рік тому

    Great video. Thank you

  • @LynneLaRochelle
    @LynneLaRochelle Рік тому

    Welp. I really needed an intervention during my early twenties, apparently. These videos are great - very informative and clear.

  • @fjp9
    @fjp9 Рік тому +2

    i have over 40,000 unread emails. it’s been a process clearing them out and feels like it won’t ever end. i’ve thought about just selecting and deleting them all but then wonder if there might be 1 really important one.

  • @shalondawilliamslynard
    @shalondawilliamslynard Рік тому

    This is good information. Thanks

  • @BD_MEDIA.
    @BD_MEDIA. Рік тому

    Thank you, Tracy! Thank you!

  • @jameseclipts9686
    @jameseclipts9686 Рік тому +2

    I can relate to every one of these in some way at some point or another.. it's so damn hard to get passed the zero motivation to take the steps to get batter tho. On top of being a single parent and health insurance that can even cover mental health being almost impossible to find, it really seems easier to just push thru the bad days and wait for the days that aren't as rough to get thru. Sometimes that numbness and depersonalization subsides for a day or two. Always sinks back in tho and locks me in my head again

  • @ViperStruck1
    @ViperStruck1 Рік тому

    Thank you Doctor Tracey Mark's for helping people 👍😎

  • @gianasantarossa8018
    @gianasantarossa8018 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. I really need to get things together.