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  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  4 роки тому +1345

    Thank you so much for supporting us and going helping us grow as content creators! To 2 years of #DEFININGLOVE 🍾 🍾 !
    #RoadTo100K

    • @nolwazisibiya9369
      @nolwazisibiya9369 4 роки тому +8

      My inspiration.... God grant you strength and ukubekezela♥️♥️ I love your union

    • @bongztainmentclex508
      @bongztainmentclex508 4 роки тому +5

      Brillian work indeed,we love your work.Can you guys also invite Teko Modise and his Wife

    • @nontobekonene1299
      @nontobekonene1299 4 роки тому +2

      Nna I'm ready for my soul mate... Kanti when are yall gonna start with the match making thingy 😒

    • @rethabilemakofane5788
      @rethabilemakofane5788 4 роки тому +1

      This is beautiful ♥️🥺

    • @merveillenohra6767
      @merveillenohra6767 4 роки тому +2

      I’m really crying 😭😭❤️

  • @tlangieym963
    @tlangieym963 4 роки тому +1615

    A man who honors his woman's father even in his resting place ❤️👑

    • @mfundomthembu9526
      @mfundomthembu9526 4 роки тому +33

      That touched me. 😭

    • @nyambi_m
      @nyambi_m 4 роки тому +20

      That brought tears to my eyes

    • @ElyonG257
      @ElyonG257 4 роки тому +14

      He’s a king❤️

    • @s3ipAtyMmm
      @s3ipAtyMmm 4 роки тому +19

      And that's how you know you got a REAL ONE!

    • @sun-801
      @sun-801 4 роки тому +5

      Can't match that 👏🏽👏🏽♥️

  • @Latiflyyy
    @Latiflyyy 4 роки тому +2419

    If you're reading this, I pray that God blesses you with this kind of love. ❤🌹🙇

  • @upilematululu8292
    @upilematululu8292 3 роки тому +562

    12 years later and they still talk about each other like the first day they saw each other 🥺

  • @MsFrothyDreamer
    @MsFrothyDreamer 3 роки тому +1983

    Whoever is reading this, I pray that you find someone who pays attention to you and notices things that you thought no one ever would. I pray they dig deeper than your physical appearance and get to know your soul. I pray that they uncover every scar you hide and want to understand where they came from. I pray they love you for you 🥺❤

  • @kearabetswenkwinika8430
    @kearabetswenkwinika8430 4 роки тому +605

    I cried when she was talking about him cleaning the grave no ways this Priddy is just everything

  • @tlangieym963
    @tlangieym963 4 роки тому +1691

    How many of us already know how they got together but we're here blushing as if we don't?

  • @Elle-uj7wn
    @Elle-uj7wn 3 роки тому +375

    After seeing this.......I refuse to settle for less!😭

  • @sandisiwenkole4939
    @sandisiwenkole4939 2 роки тому +543

    A year later I’m still here reminding myself that it’s all possible and true love does exist

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  4 роки тому +824

    Here with the Register ❤️ It's good to be back family!

  • @phindilentshiba
    @phindilentshiba 4 роки тому +704

    I’m convinced I’m not asking for too much, the kind of love I want exists. ❤️

    • @MsOwam
      @MsOwam 3 роки тому +7

      You're not asking for too much at all. You deserve it all and its out there

    • @Sir.Bennie
      @Sir.Bennie 3 роки тому +7

      Yoo Phindie, I want to be your official boy

    • @zeezandile2988
      @zeezandile2988 3 роки тому +3

      Girl😍

    • @Phronesis7
      @Phronesis7 3 роки тому +2

      I agree

    • @hlumisasaffa1475
      @hlumisasaffa1475 3 роки тому +2

      jonga, my sentiments exactly!!! and it if it is not, nah bruh...angiyifuni.

  • @dimphosekonya98
    @dimphosekonya98 3 роки тому +360

    I cried because I believe God makes the perfect partner for all of us and I believe u will never depart this earth without meeting your other significant other

    • @pertuniarameetse8805
      @pertuniarameetse8805 3 роки тому +2

      Amen🥰

    • @asadndlovu01
      @asadndlovu01 3 роки тому +1

      I'm praying u are my perfect partner

    • @ntombzamantungwakhumalo2026
      @ntombzamantungwakhumalo2026 3 роки тому +3

      Oh he definitely does! I am a witness to it in my own life. The kind of love I deserve, I have received and keep receiving on a daily, from kind-hearted loving man. All in God's time. Trust him!🤞🏽♥️

    • @YHWHs_D
      @YHWHs_D 3 роки тому +3

      Sometimes we are called to be single, so that we can have a intimate relationship with God, Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit before anyone else !✝️🥺❤️✨

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 3 роки тому

      Except...most will never experience love. Not a sliver of it.

  • @morongoamasebe8030
    @morongoamasebe8030 3 роки тому +917

    I will NEVER get tired of hearing this story!

  • @kefilweshongoane2530
    @kefilweshongoane2530 4 роки тому +791

    Does anyone else find Bontle's laugh very cute? 😂

  • @nosiphonosipho2363
    @nosiphonosipho2363 4 роки тому +690

    I pray for this kind of a relationship in future in the name of the father the son and the holy spirit amen😭😭😭

  • @nokwandagumede505
    @nokwandagumede505 4 роки тому +186

    I thought people are exaggerating with the cries but when Bontle read her letter, I cried real tears 😭🥺

    • @andiswazoe6743
      @andiswazoe6743 3 роки тому +1

      Damn mjitha 🥺😭😭😭so cute! I need a dawg too🥺😭

  • @modestaavula295
    @modestaavula295 3 роки тому +523

    This man 😭😭😍 so attentive towards the thought of wiping off her tears without her make up getting ruined ( he kept tapping lol instead of just wiping the tears😂) 😭😭😭 it's the small damn things 😭😍🙏

  • @amoramoleko8581
    @amoramoleko8581 4 роки тому +161

    This man is manly but intouch with his emotions. Raised well. Sweet man indeed. Plus wife is beautiful at the same time. Thank you Lord for their marriage

  • @nae2078
    @nae2078 4 роки тому +179

    “You are how I know God exists” 🥺

  • @dianakhumalo6905
    @dianakhumalo6905 3 роки тому +226

    These people have been together for 12 years but they're so inlove that it seems like a 3 month old relationship

  • @Briana.Nothando
    @Briana.Nothando 10 місяців тому +38

    3 years later I've come back to this beautiful video 😔❤

  • @dennisngango3527
    @dennisngango3527 4 роки тому +277

    Im so proud of this video & grateful to create such with my Team 🙌🏿😭🔥🔥🔥

  • @KayYarms
    @KayYarms 4 роки тому +1558

    My little heart. 🥺❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 роки тому +16

      🥺🥺❤

    • @yolandazandile2845
      @yolandazandile2845 3 роки тому +18

      You guys make love look much easier and more real😪🌼

    • @asabelesabelo1060
      @asabelesabelo1060 3 роки тому +8

      @@yolandazandile2845 love is not hard, love is beautiful its that one thing that is beyond just a feeling, it is more real than most real things, it is that one thing that actions have limitations for expression of what it is. love is beautiful.

    • @asabelesabelo1060
      @asabelesabelo1060 3 роки тому +4

      It is the only entity that survives all evolutions and pandemics. It makes us vulnerable yet stronger at the same time. It makes you want to do the impossible. love is love. I believe we are all meant to love at some point in life; if we are made in the image of love, then how can we love.

    • @kesegofetsesanctitykoma2425
      @kesegofetsesanctitykoma2425 3 роки тому +9

      I literally cried yoh😢they are so beautiful

  • @rakgadim.mohlala1324
    @rakgadim.mohlala1324 3 роки тому +352

    “To meet a beautiful woman is one thing, but to meet your best friend in the most beautiful of women is something entirely apart.”.... The Duke of Hastings

  • @sekoaib
    @sekoaib 3 роки тому +721

    Priddy Ugly was brought up well and that makes him such a gentleman. I mean Bontle had self esteem issues and I'm sure he picked that up, like most guys do, instead of using it against her, he nurtured her, cared for her, groomed her and loved her until she became strong and confident. Thank you to his father

  • @ayanda4517
    @ayanda4517 4 роки тому +183

    He said "Your make up looks pretty"and also acknowledged her beauty on days when she doesn't love herself, basically admired her womanhood. Not many men can amount to that level of maturity especially Priddy's age, most trash talk women and tell them how to be while feeding on their insecurities

  • @rejoicesibanda1756
    @rejoicesibanda1756 4 роки тому +377

    Bontles letter, got me in tears 😭❤️.
    A man that honours his womans father even at his grave😩❤️.
    The way Priddy sealed everything with a kiss on her forehead💯❤️. This what I call love with no boundaries

    • @zanelemkhonto122
      @zanelemkhonto122 4 роки тому +10

      That touched me too and visiting and cleaning his Grave.. The Respect wooow

    • @busisalutu7384
      @busisalutu7384 3 роки тому +3

      Got me in tears more

  • @sips_mkutukana
    @sips_mkutukana 4 роки тому +213

    Almost looks like they’ve been in love for a few days, yet it’s been 12 years. Their love is so beautiful 😍😍

  • @Neliswa_Nelli
    @Neliswa_Nelli 6 місяців тому +109

    2024 I'm here crying 😭😭😭

  • @ThandekaPalesa
    @ThandekaPalesa 4 роки тому +595

    We all chopping onions angisho guys?😭😢🥺❤️

  • @MonaeunderscoreZa
    @MonaeunderscoreZa 4 роки тому +294

    Dennis 😭😭😭will remind you that you're single but don't settle for less!!!

  • @selaht6541
    @selaht6541 4 роки тому +226

    So love does exist after all...

  • @zamokuhlemtotoshe3701
    @zamokuhlemtotoshe3701 3 роки тому +277

    I envy Afrika(their daughter) for having to be raised in such a respectful,loving,cray-cray yet so gentle and everything beautiful environment...I pray n hope the day she grows up to watch this she would know not to settle for anything less than the love her parents exposed her to...Becos WOOOOOOW this LOVE....Shuuu

  • @oratilemashishi1164
    @oratilemashishi1164 4 роки тому +581

    I actually don't mind hearing their "how we met" story on all their interviews. ☺😥❤

    • @preciouskapenya1282
      @preciouskapenya1282 4 роки тому +6

      I know right? Beautiful story

    • @kgontsemadiba9785
      @kgontsemadiba9785 4 роки тому +3

      Same same 😭❤️

    • @phophiadelaide9773
      @phophiadelaide9773 4 роки тому +3

      Same❤❤

    • @q.7628
      @q.7628 4 роки тому +3

      And don't u just like how Bontle makes as if she is unsure of certain things but she been telling the story!

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 3 роки тому +332

    "you're the reason I know God exists" WOW. powerful words right there. if my love is not like that I don't want it

  • @dineon6192
    @dineon6192 4 роки тому +80

    "I got you dawg. If we gotta light more candles, if we gotta kneel down and pray, we're doing it".😭❤

  • @Jen-qy4ol
    @Jen-qy4ol 3 роки тому +329

    It's just something refreshing about seeing a man express his emotion through crying. 💛

  • @tebogomononyane8594
    @tebogomononyane8594 4 роки тому +152

    I’m not a sucker for love but Bontle and Priddy had me crying bathong. 🥺🥰
    Such a lovely couple.

    • @kwenapoopedi2402
      @kwenapoopedi2402 4 роки тому +2

      Ungly tears for that matter 😩😩😩...My roommate thought someone died😂😂😂😂

    • @boitumelomokoena7569
      @boitumelomokoena7569 4 роки тому

      I tried so hard to hold myself, Botle bo bo kana ❤️❤️

  • @sabamasaya2064
    @sabamasaya2064 4 роки тому +162

    Why did a tear escape my eye when she mentioned him not judging their family history?😭

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 4 роки тому +519

    12 years lona I can’t even get to 12 months chile 😂😂💀💀🥲🥲

  • @lexioko
    @lexioko 2 роки тому +133

    I’ve watched this an unhealthy number of times. I needed this representation of love that’s not necessarily perfect, but real. It exists, this is my reminder.

    • @monicamei_
      @monicamei_ 2 роки тому +5

      You and I both. I will keep using this as a reminder for as long as I need to.

  • @nthabimakuwa7853
    @nthabimakuwa7853 4 роки тому +131

    When she said, " you taught me how to always keep my cup filled so that I have a place to give from " ..had to play that over and over again yesssss !!!❤

  • @eulliechilliephephenyane1192
    @eulliechilliephephenyane1192 4 роки тому +200

    It's the little things...the way they are in sync with each other. The way they kiss and look at one another. When Botle cried... he cries. And it feels so sincere and heart warming. You can tell they're real friends before any other thing.. It's so amazing and rare to witness. Thank you for this Dennis 😍😊

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 роки тому +4

      You're welcome❤

  • @vuyophandle1903
    @vuyophandle1903 4 роки тому +68

    Wow. Priddy Ugly even cleans Bontle's Dad's grave. That's deep bro.

    • @kebabs5722
      @kebabs5722 3 роки тому +1

      That's real love there hey

  • @MissElleSishi
    @MissElleSishi 3 роки тому +146

    "You are how I know God exists"... guys I'm full shem! Absolutely heart warming

  • @kimberleymahachi3560
    @kimberleymahachi3560 3 роки тому +96

    I love how he keeps wiping her own tears and leaving his to flow😭

  • @karabomotaung24
    @karabomotaung24 3 роки тому +339

    I stopped in the middle to take a breather because I just couldn't believe how beautiful this is😳

  • @Firefly0978
    @Firefly0978 3 роки тому +212

    12 years later and the way they talk about each other still sounds as pure as the time they are describing🥺❤️

  • @primrosedube5290
    @primrosedube5290 3 роки тому +217

    when you watching this kind of love, you just realise that you are not even half way in love

  • @nomzekelomdloyiya620
    @nomzekelomdloyiya620 4 роки тому +174

    Why am I crying? These two share something really special.

  • @mphobubbly
    @mphobubbly 4 роки тому +447

    Bathong team?? Every episode we must cry magenge?? No guys! This is so beautiful man! 100K lets goooo!!! Absolutely loved this. Thank you!

  • @relebeletsemofama3530
    @relebeletsemofama3530 3 роки тому +126

    After watching this I can proudly say "true love does exist" I just haven't met my match yet😢🥺❣️

  • @leddyKerinaNadia
    @leddyKerinaNadia 3 роки тому +153

    Where are men who are soo open about how they feel like this one found?

  • @khuthadzomudau2892
    @khuthadzomudau2892 4 роки тому +107

    😭😭Cried with them, laughed with them and felt all the love with them. This was deep ❤️😭

  • @thabisomolefe7430
    @thabisomolefe7430 3 роки тому +219

    This relationship will be protected and sustained in Jusus Name.

  • @DK1MM
    @DK1MM 4 роки тому +138

    It’s stories like these that makes me keep believing in the existence of true love 🥰

  • @trishianheera5643
    @trishianheera5643 3 роки тому +133

    I shall be featured oneday on Defining. Mark my words!

  • @beeemabulatwelve1335
    @beeemabulatwelve1335 4 роки тому +47

    I love how he is not afraid to show his emotional side

  • @nonkululekonkulemthombeni1750
    @nonkululekonkulemthombeni1750 3 роки тому +147

    Bontle's laughter 😍😍😍 God I know I'm not asking for too much! Everyone deserves this kind of love!

    • @km4336
      @km4336 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

  • @diinasheehama8068
    @diinasheehama8068 4 роки тому +106

    Her laughter is everything ❤️😂,

  • @riritsitsa
    @riritsitsa 11 місяців тому +15

    2024 and there is still no love like this❤❤

  • @ngcwele_n6769
    @ngcwele_n6769 4 роки тому +94

    just realized that I deserve so much more than what I'm settling for 😭❤️, this is beautiful 😭❤️🥺

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 роки тому +5

      I see facts🙌🏿🥺🔥🔥

  • @nolwazisibiya9369
    @nolwazisibiya9369 4 роки тому +58

    I cried so hard when she said "you cleaned my father's grave... He brought flowers for her mom

  • @khothatsomotloung2018
    @khothatsomotloung2018 3 роки тому +527

    🥺😍 argh man , “you take flowers to my father’s grave, you dream of him, how could I not believe he chose you for me”
    Everything y’all said was beautiful ♥️

  • @missprettyschannel
    @missprettyschannel 3 роки тому +89

    They are living proof that LOVE and SOULMATES are real and still exist!!!!♡︎

  • @karabolepepe4217
    @karabolepepe4217 4 роки тому +123

    It's how giddy Bontle is when she talks about Ricardo 🥺

  • @musawenkosimkandla4339
    @musawenkosimkandla4339 4 роки тому +46

    You cannot fake this👌. This is what happens when you marry your best friend❤

  • @celiwemalindi
    @celiwemalindi 4 роки тому +222

    Why am I always feeling shy when watching people express love to each other.

  • @khanyisilemakhubane9098
    @khanyisilemakhubane9098 3 роки тому +171

    Their love is so organic like I’m literally in years😭❤️

  • @pksimom2429
    @pksimom2429 4 роки тому +170

    This episode was perfect! Nothing short of perfection!
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @reitumetsemakgatho9537
    @reitumetsemakgatho9537 4 роки тому +76

    Nkare Defining is on a mission to show me how single I really am😭😭 Loved the video!!

  • @phiwedlaminii
    @phiwedlaminii 3 роки тому +181

    "You became the man in our home, you bought my mom flowers" jho ha a🥺😭❤️

  • @Busie_
    @Busie_ 2 роки тому +70

    A year later I am still here
    This story is beautiful ❤️😭

  • @iamsimimsez146
    @iamsimimsez146 4 роки тому +38

    The way Bontle talks about him... Like she blushes so much when talking about her husband

  • @novac_abby7848
    @novac_abby7848 4 роки тому +136

    “You brought flowers to my father’s grave you clean it you talk to him”🥺❤️🤲🏼

  • @mmaronamatshe5226
    @mmaronamatshe5226 4 роки тому +910

    The 37 people who gave a thumbs down. Is everything okay at home bathong 😭😭😂😂😂

  • @ed-lynndube9441
    @ed-lynndube9441 3 роки тому +142

    I should be studying for my exams but I decided to take a short break and watch this...best decision of my life. I'm so inspired by these two really. The love and respect they have for each other is just beautiful to watch. This episode didn't seem rehearsed like some couples, you could tell the words they shared were straight from the heart. Now I have a rough idea of the love I want and I'm not willing to settle for anything less than what I deserve. I won't just jump at the first guy who takes interest in me. I'm willing to wait until God brings me a person who loves me, respects me, cares for me, nurtures me and picks me up in the same way I'll try my best to do him. I really needed to watch this. It was so beautiful I literally cried. The way they're so comfortable with each other... Wow!!!

  • @Tshepang_langa
    @Tshepang_langa 4 роки тому +170

    I can’t imagine a sad Bontle. She’s always laughing and I love that for her

  • @anelesibanda5807
    @anelesibanda5807 4 роки тому +39

    I'm back again. I've accepted it. I'll cry each time I re-watch it.

  • @SandraMotlalepula
    @SandraMotlalepula 4 роки тому +82

    I enjoyed this so much. How I wish to see Nozibele Mayaba and Skumbuzo on this.

  • @medusaaf54
    @medusaaf54 3 роки тому +30

    Even the music stopped when she said he comes to her father’s grave and cleans it 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mamellonyapotse3114
    @mamellonyapotse3114 4 роки тому +54

    Am I the only one who shed a tear when Bontle read her letter 😭❤️

  • @mosamaloka5961
    @mosamaloka5961 4 роки тому +125

    Someone said they CRODE on twitter😭😭😭 i crode too. I CROOODE‼️🥺

    • @ashleygare1226
      @ashleygare1226 3 роки тому +3

      Babe listen I am croodingg😭😭please I cannot, I am croodeddinggg❤️

    • @neo59978
      @neo59978 3 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂yooohh

  • @amandankambule4091
    @amandankambule4091 4 роки тому +105

    It's him fanning her eyes so tears won't drop down and ruin her make up. This is so beautiful ❤️

  • @mutsawashekanyongo8994
    @mutsawashekanyongo8994 Рік тому +27

    2023 I'm here....still can't get over these two😊.❤

  • @amahledlamini5761
    @amahledlamini5761 4 роки тому +55

    "I love you on days where you don't love yourself the most"😭😭❤️

  • @ChristianZiya
    @ChristianZiya 3 роки тому +318

    “You cleaned my father’s grave” 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ such pure and genuine love and friendship!!!

    • @mla-y6y
      @mla-y6y 3 роки тому +6

      This man is surely raised by a queen, this is lovely.

    • @mla-y6y
      @mla-y6y 3 роки тому +1

      This man is surely raised by a queen, this is lovely.

    • @Makhosazana_
      @Makhosazana_ 3 роки тому

      Yoh , I love u guys .

  • @tshepang_gm
    @tshepang_gm 4 роки тому +98

    Wow, 14 years later and she’s still blushing like that... lorato le lentle

  • @aphiwemdluli4414
    @aphiwemdluli4414 3 роки тому +77

    This was so genuine and intimate that at some point I felt that this was too private for us to watch. So beautiful.

  • @mphahlele6060
    @mphahlele6060 4 роки тому +91

    😂😂Bontle laughs so hard 🤣

  • @Elissa.Ndlovu
    @Elissa.Ndlovu 3 роки тому +80

    Her laughter is so contagious 😂❤️

  • @emihletshangela6835
    @emihletshangela6835 4 роки тому +13

    You can feel how spiritually and emotionally connected they are 🥺🥺😍😍😍
    “I see God through you” haybo bazalwane 😩😩🔥🔥🔥🔥😭

  • @mumbss7599
    @mumbss7599 3 роки тому +133

    I come back every month to watch this particular episode and yeah I cry every single time because this kind of expression of love from these two individuals is beyond beautiful 🥺 ugh thank you for sharing this episode with us 🥺

    • @PreciousDimpho
      @PreciousDimpho 3 роки тому +1

      No because Same. 😭❤️

    • @mumbss7599
      @mumbss7599 3 роки тому +1

      @@PreciousDimpho it was and still the most beautiful thing to watch

    • @tlamelopalesa
      @tlamelopalesa 3 роки тому +1

      Same yoh 🥺🥺

  • @BeyondTheChats
    @BeyondTheChats 4 роки тому +40

    I read comments while watching and i saw a lot of people were saying they were crying. I told myself i won't cry but as soon as Bontle started crying i wiped a tear😭😭💜

  • @kganya_s
    @kganya_s 4 роки тому +78

    The way Bontle looks at Priddy and the way He receives/react to her eye contact maaan!!!❤️❤️🕯🕯🕯

  • @leratomotaung499
    @leratomotaung499 4 роки тому +53

    There is something so beautiful about love devoid of pretenses and games. Imagine someone just deciding to love you nakedly and vulnerably . Imagine doing the same because you know your love is safe with them.
    Andilile mntkbw.Yeyi, I have cried for these episodes before but never like this.

  • @angie1carol654
    @angie1carol654 Рік тому +11

    I come back to this video every year because the purity and love in this relationship is just beautiful ❤

  • @makhosazanandlovu1218
    @makhosazanandlovu1218 4 роки тому +14

    if a man cant love me like this then ill forever be kwa know your worth.their love for one another is so mutual its unbreakable

  • @mahlakuramalepe
    @mahlakuramalepe 4 роки тому +59

    Priddy is so shy.. What a lovely couple 😍their chemistry is out of this world❤️

  • @gracious2869
    @gracious2869 4 роки тому +91

    I have listened to their story so many times and every damn time it’s like the first time hearing it 😍🥰🥰.Love is so beautiful 🙏🏿❤️
    It’s always Bontle’s laughter for me😀😂