Bontle Modiselle on Upside of Failure with Relebogile Mabotja

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  • Опубліковано 30 сер 2023
  • Relebogile Mabotja speaks to South African actress, television presenter, radio personality, dancer, choreographer, singer and model Bontle Modiselle-Moloi about the failures she has experienced in her life and how she continues to persevere.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 114

  • @sanelezulu4407
    @sanelezulu4407 10 місяців тому +18

    Relebogile you were called for what you do, Bontle We Love You.

  • @mmachauke
    @mmachauke 11 місяців тому +63

    God bless the Modiselle sisters. Bontle, thank you for courageously telling your honest account of what you thought “failure” was. In sharing your story, you have touched so many people’s lives. I pray that God continues blessing you with the beauty and grace that you are. That message from one of the 702 listeners: You are the hero that everyone needs, daily.

  • @neom645
    @neom645 10 місяців тому +14

    I feel like you've cut Bontle so many times thle. Cant they extend your time 😢.
    Strength to you Bontle, i understand how you feel about the death of your dad. The “if onlys“, they cut very deep. Receive your healing sis

  • @rosiewilliams4595
    @rosiewilliams4595 7 місяців тому +5

    Guys u never what people are going through so just be kind at all times 🙏🏽❤

  • @platt690
    @platt690 7 місяців тому +8

    I struggle with mental health and have thoughts of ending it all, and hearing this story has been hard because my biggest fear is leaving my family in so much pain... Sometimes when you're in that moment you can't think of anything else, except for ending it all, somehow you're convinced that everyone will be better off without you...
    I'm really sorry that you all had to go through that.. and I'm sorry for everyone who suffers from horrible thoughts... 😔 🙏🏽

  • @nosiphongubo9487
    @nosiphongubo9487 7 місяців тому +4

    I didn't know about her dad's loss. The power of true vulnerability it allows people to see you and relate with you. ❤ Duduzeka sisi

  • @tshiditr9362
    @tshiditr9362 8 місяців тому +7

    I didn't know that Bontle went through so much and it is so kind of her to share.

  • @nikiwejentu9565
    @nikiwejentu9565 7 місяців тому +5

    she articulates herself so well.

  • @Bazet465
    @Bazet465 10 місяців тому +17

    🫂😍love you Bontle you’re an Angel and you didn’t take your Dad away from your family it’s was Gods timing❤️….

  • @patrickphahlamohlaka5850
    @patrickphahlamohlaka5850 10 місяців тому +13

    Woooow 🎉 she carries light I mean u can tell that she's gifted

  • @mownas_lifestory30
    @mownas_lifestory30 6 місяців тому +5

    I’m only 18, but the way Bontle engages and how responsive she is is EXTREMELY POWERFUL ❤️

  • @Smart-LearnerThandi
    @Smart-LearnerThandi 10 місяців тому +15

    It’s this side of you Bontle that just revealed the amazing person in you. It takes strength …. May peace be with you.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 10 місяців тому +7

    Oh bathong Bontle got me bawling 😭 . Askies mama. Jo! I cannot imagine! It’s incredible how that impacted what amazing women you have all turned out to be. Kudos to mum head a family in the aftermath. We serve a miracle working God!

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 10 місяців тому +6

    I have heard her tell this story before and it is always so emotional for her, I can feel your pain Bontle❤

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 11 місяців тому +12

    I absolutely love Bontle. So sorry she had to go through it.

  • @charlottelisewilliams
    @charlottelisewilliams 10 місяців тому +6

    Didn't know this about their father wow...may God heal them amen!❤

  • @tsholofelomatlala8105
    @tsholofelomatlala8105 11 місяців тому +12

    My favorite segment, this was so triggering but it's the truth and reality that needs to be told.
    Strength to you Bontle 🙏🏾❤️🕯️

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 10 місяців тому +6

    Bontle,your daughter is super cute 😍.I'm so sorry sbt yr dad sis😢.

  • @thndythemedtech2143
    @thndythemedtech2143 10 місяців тому +36

    My brother committed suicide last year. First thought that I had was regret and feeling like I failed him. Fortunately for me I was able to come into terms with the reality very quickly and I thank God for that
    Now I’m in a better space
    I feel like I have over come that situation
    Only God can carry you through that

    • @graciousmkhonto9349
      @graciousmkhonto9349 10 місяців тому +2

      My brother committed suicide last year as well. I have accepted that life doesn't always go our way and loss is one thing guaranteed in this lifetime 💔

    • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
      @dancinginthepurplereign4126 10 місяців тому +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My cousin brother committed suicide last year. Around the same week as Ricky Rick.
      He was a kind man and didn't deserve to die alone. It is still very shocking. I just wish I could do something about it.
      😊

  • @nqobilemncube9123
    @nqobilemncube9123 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for being so vulnerable with us ❤ sending you lots of love. This was worth it. You've spoken to the soul. May God continue blessing you with all your heart desires ❤

  • @connieramontsho7022
    @connieramontsho7022 10 місяців тому +4

    What an inspirational woman❤. Did I mention the welling I did as I was watching. Blessings to you Bontle

  • @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn
    @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn 10 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful woman Bontle is❤️. I love her voice 😍👌🏾

  • @thandekamdlovu5212
    @thandekamdlovu5212 10 місяців тому +3

    She is such a warrior,may God bless her.

  • @botlemooa8502
    @botlemooa8502 10 місяців тому +3

    Oh Bontle, i am so so sorry ausi. Your tears, your pain, your family's pain...i hope you all completely heal. Sending lots of hugs to you sisi.

  • @phumie2byn907
    @phumie2byn907 10 місяців тому +5

    She has such a beautiful voice❤

  • @esterasheela
    @esterasheela 7 місяців тому +3

    Love you Bontle ❤

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele 10 місяців тому +21

    This was a really beautiful interview, it made me view Bontle in a different light. She is so much power. ❤
    In addition, can Relebogile please allow the guests to finish their lines, there were so many times when Bontle had something to say and Relebogile jumped in then the topic changed. This is coming from a good place as I am a huge fan of this segment.

    • @pearlbontsi6949
      @pearlbontsi6949 10 місяців тому +4

      😢😢true Relebogile would chip in and share her experience rather than allowing the guest to finish their lines and then she'd change the subject. That pained me😂

  • @YolaGolimpi
    @YolaGolimpi 10 місяців тому +15

    Don't disturb the guest, allow them to finish speak and share their story! It's really annoying

    • @Dizzy12346
      @Dizzy12346 6 місяців тому

      Thought so too . 🥺

  • @Ngoanana21
    @Ngoanana21 10 місяців тому +11

    " I don't want to perform myself..." that is so powerful and relatable to me as a mom.

  • @SuperNomathamsanqa
    @SuperNomathamsanqa 10 місяців тому +12

    Bontle triggered me after having lost my daughter In Utero when she did a dance mob in Sandton in 2019. I have never cried like I did, the incapability she speaks of is something I have had to carry for the rest of my life. My uncle subsequently also committed suicide. All the things being discussed on this episode are gut wrenching. I am alive and thankful for therapy. I am so happy things worked out for her.

    • @thandekamdlovu5212
      @thandekamdlovu5212 10 місяців тому +2

      I’m so sorry to hear about all the painful experience that you had to go through Thami, may God continue to comfort you.

    • @selaeloshadi4653
      @selaeloshadi4653 10 місяців тому +1

      😢😢 really sorry

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele 10 місяців тому +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Sending Bontle so much love and light

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork 10 місяців тому +12

    Relebogile, please don’t cut off guests hle. Allow them to complete their answers.😢

  • @milicentsiba
    @milicentsiba 7 місяців тому +3

    Yho I just listened & I can really resonate with her so much my father did the same & my mom also was the one that found him, I don't wanna lie, I don't think uu ever heal from losing a loved one to suicide there's just always a big WHY what went wrong! (to those who don't leave letters) You really learn to live w the pain!

  • @siwemayongo8124
    @siwemayongo8124 10 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤what a beautiful soul, thank you Bontle for sharing

  • @zuzilezungu5899
    @zuzilezungu5899 28 днів тому

    Hugs and love to you, Nana❤❤

  • @nalediebiditse8015
    @nalediebiditse8015 10 місяців тому +6

    It was really hard to watch this🥲
    Sending you hugs and may God sooth you where it hurts the most ❤️

  • @user-tg6qv9yr3o
    @user-tg6qv9yr3o 7 місяців тому

    She is true reflection of her name. Thank you for sharing yourself with us

  • @nonkumonkoe
    @nonkumonkoe 10 місяців тому +2

    This was so beautiful love Bontle ❤️

  • @fhaturamaswiela3438
    @fhaturamaswiela3438 10 місяців тому +4

    - Oh she’s so Smart

  • @user-tp4gj2rg3d
    @user-tp4gj2rg3d 10 місяців тому

    beautifull ladies in the studio, I love you both very much. To you Bontle keep rising and shining like the bright star you are and nothing can stop you. I love your content very much. Thank you Relebogile for always given Us your best,keep it up.

  • @_ruddie
    @_ruddie 10 місяців тому +3

    Love and Light to you Bontle and your Sisters❤

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu
    @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu 10 місяців тому +1

    Loving you so much. Bontle❤❤❤

  • @zimasancoliwe
    @zimasancoliwe 10 місяців тому +4

    I am so sorry she had experienced it. ❤It was never your fault Bontle. You saw it and it was never your fault❤❤

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 10 місяців тому +4

    Please have Bontle on unpacked!

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe 10 місяців тому +1

    Sending you Bontle all my love, strength to you nana ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 10 місяців тому

    Im in tears.....

  • @thuliradebe8461
    @thuliradebe8461 10 місяців тому +2

    I love you Bontle ❤

  • @liseboleahtaeli4665
    @liseboleahtaeli4665 10 місяців тому

    How i love this beautiful soul Mamoloi

  • @dineomhlari1038
    @dineomhlari1038 6 місяців тому

    oh how i love this lady❤

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 7 місяців тому +2

    This really became about Relebogile.. so many amazing moments were lost😏😥.

  • @mbalizondi869
    @mbalizondi869 5 місяців тому

    💔💔💔It's so sad. So sorry Bontle that you had to go through such a trauma at such a young age!

  • @lufunomphaphuli
    @lufunomphaphuli 10 місяців тому +1

    Sending love and light❤

  • @boitshepodiketane1351
    @boitshepodiketane1351 10 місяців тому +1

    I love Bontle man❤❤❤

  • @RonealTjiane
    @RonealTjiane 10 місяців тому +1

    She’s just humble which is a bonus🥹🥹❤️

  • @doremi131
    @doremi131 10 місяців тому +1

    Relebogile Mabotja, you are glowing girl. wow

  • @vfabach2874
    @vfabach2874 11 місяців тому +1

    Ohhh Bontle ❤

  • @goitseonebodumele3270
    @goitseonebodumele3270 7 місяців тому +1

    I wanted to hear talk about her struggle with motherhood you cut her short😢😢

  • @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh
    @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh 10 місяців тому

    Blew my mind wow

  • @EugenMazinyani
    @EugenMazinyani 10 місяців тому +2

    Hugs my love and it's not your fault....I am sorry u had to witness all that

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 10 місяців тому +1

    Just want to hug her.

  • @life_asthepooh8804
    @life_asthepooh8804 10 місяців тому

    I love you bontle ❤️❤️

  • @lindokuhlemolefe471
    @lindokuhlemolefe471 10 місяців тому

    we love you bontle ❤

  • @olivialivv5566
    @olivialivv5566 3 місяці тому

    love you Bontle

  • @xihlamarisomayimele5164
    @xihlamarisomayimele5164 10 місяців тому

    I love you Bontle❤❤

  • @simplyjaja3087
    @simplyjaja3087 10 місяців тому +2

    No child deserves that, that sight nor such guilt ❤ God help those who are triggered ❤

  • @Amogelang_matjila
    @Amogelang_matjila 6 місяців тому

    May the Lord God bless you bontle and your family and also help you to pass through this situation and heal from it I love you so much

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe 10 місяців тому +4

    Her father was sooo cruel for doing this to her kids especially after what she shared with them, wounding her forever 😭😭💔💔💔

  • @hazelmabuza806
    @hazelmabuza806 11 місяців тому +4

    She is one of my favorite 😍

  • @dudunkuna7439
    @dudunkuna7439 10 місяців тому +4

    Can relate in so many ways. The ppd and blaming one’s self for your parents death. Thank you Bontle

  • @amandanxala2580
    @amandanxala2580 10 місяців тому +1

    😢Bontle❤

  • @thandonm
    @thandonm 7 місяців тому

    The time is ALWAYS so short 😢 aaaah Bontle 😢😢😢

  • @janempete7771
    @janempete7771 10 місяців тому

    Bontle❤🤗

  • @dikgalevictoria3016
    @dikgalevictoria3016 10 місяців тому +1

    When she was about to cry and then cried, and said "guys im so sorry"..felt like i could get inside the screen and hug her😢❤
    She's so sweet and real. A beautiful soul indeed

  • @janemore657
    @janemore657 7 місяців тому

    I love both these beautiful women.

  • @lebopeku6940
    @lebopeku6940 10 місяців тому

    Ke morate thata Bontle❤

  • @nomvulaloverson572
    @nomvulaloverson572 10 місяців тому

    Sorry love made me cry u been through alot

  • @MitchellMolala-wv3iy
    @MitchellMolala-wv3iy 10 місяців тому +1

    Very painful 😭😭😭😭

  • @selaeloshadi4653
    @selaeloshadi4653 10 місяців тому +1

    This is painful I can't 😢

  • @11071991tawanda
    @11071991tawanda 10 місяців тому

    Word is From 27:54 to the End. I have always loved this Woman.....

  • @sandagcadinja8045
    @sandagcadinja8045 3 місяці тому

    Bontle ❤

  • @kemmonyemakoma7406
    @kemmonyemakoma7406 10 місяців тому

    😢yooh Bontle

  • @IAmChosen9925
    @IAmChosen9925 10 місяців тому

    Relebogile is my hero haikabi 🥺❤️

  • @busisiwemdluli439
    @busisiwemdluli439 10 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay 10 місяців тому

    @Riri .. You look so gorgeous with make up ..❤

  • @karaboteffo6676
    @karaboteffo6676 10 місяців тому

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mayleencray1597
    @mayleencray1597 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu
    @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali15 10 місяців тому

    Bontle... The moment, ngavele ngakhala.

  • @kwenamabye7871
    @kwenamabye7871 10 місяців тому

  • @sedzaninemudivhiso1906
    @sedzaninemudivhiso1906 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤😢

  • @boitumelobuthelezi8960
    @boitumelobuthelezi8960 10 місяців тому

    Yoh😢 this has triggered me so much 😢

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe 10 місяців тому +12

    Refiloe keeps interrupting her guests and telling long stories before asking questions. Immediately when she tries to talk, she interupts. We want to hear her tell her story not the interviewer.

  • @mahlodinorah487
    @mahlodinorah487 10 місяців тому

    The afternoon I cut my seven years dradlocks, I cried like smbody died. It's not just smthing that one will do n just say I did it. It's like a part of you been ripped off even when cutting them off was not a must, I choose to cut them off bcos I just needed o see a changed me. But it wasn't easy

  • @goodnessmosehla8362
    @goodnessmosehla8362 10 місяців тому +2

    "Bathong ba modimo"😂😂😂😂

  • @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz
    @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz Місяць тому

    This triggered me so much my dad also took his liffe infront of me

  • @princessmaphalla6195
    @princessmaphalla6195 7 місяців тому

    Askies mama😢

  • @masechabamdaka785
    @masechabamdaka785 10 місяців тому

    🫂🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽Bontle🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💔

  • @blaqbee03
    @blaqbee03 10 місяців тому +9

    The interruptions are so cringe from Relebogile. Let the guest tell her story instead of telling us about you hawu..

  • @brokecreole
    @brokecreole 10 місяців тому +3

    this is so difficult to listen to.

  • @agnesmacharia6055
    @agnesmacharia6055 7 місяців тому

    She's from south Africa or something