A man who can only see things his own way is easy to trap. A man who can see things everyone's way without changing his way is nearly impossible to trap.
This has literally been my prayer for the past year… I’ve found some beautiful women to share friendships with, but unfortunately I’m the age where they all have young children to take care of and time for friendships takes the backburner as their family and spouses take what little free time they have. It’s been tough, but I’m still praying and waiting. I understand these people afterwords have a high potential for deep friendships later on in life, but it kinda sucks it can’t be right now… 💔💔❤️
a BIG THANK YOU ! Uncle Timmy was born in 75, like my mother. I needed to listen a conversation between 2 mature men, with full vulnerability, AND masculinity. I'm mixed (about ethnicity), so i can find myself in both of you at some points. Finally (but not least) beeing men of God is secure, there's wisdom here, and we can pray with you at the end. 2 Different bodies, but the same GOD in your hearts, amazing. I just came back from the wilderness, i need friends, i need deeeep relationships. i need to receive and i need to giiiiiiiiive ! So thank you, it's a " LETS GET IT " season ! Bless yall, Preston Morrisson, Tim Ross, Pillar Church, the Basement Podcast, BSIDE. Julie, from Paris, France.
Lately The Lord Jesus has convicted me on my isolation stronghold. It has been a battle learning about what fellowship and communion looks like in Christ. This was the nail in the coffin of my insecurities.
paused in the middle of this episode MULTIPLE TIMES, to put in the work and reach out to people, to make the plan, buy the plane ticket, SHOW UP, and open the door. Y'all were on FIRE with the Holy Spirit tonight!! I was so blessed by this conversation. Thank you for giving me the courage to step into obedience and let God have His way and work through these relationships for His glory. Life abundantly and to the fullest, means full of everything. No holds barred. Praying God moves through the relationships and steps of faith taken by the people watching this. We wait on You Lord, in fervent expectation for how you will move mountains through these relationships and put the devil on defense by the love born between brothers and sisters tonight. We receive it, we declare it!! In Your HOLY Name, AMEN AND HALLELUJAH!!!
This was beautiful to see and much needed. This is completely what I am going through, and I am grateful this has encouraged my heart to pursue real authentic connections. ❤
I have experienced that emotional intimacy is the foundation of true authentic friendship, and everyone does not know how to achieve this level of vulnerability because intimacy requires sacrifice to have a true "friend-mate". Thank you both so much for sharing your journey of friendship and the challenges and joys in the process.
Lord Jesus break down this walls I've built in and around me heal my soul lord give me real authentic friendships give me what Tim n Preston 💯 have in your name Jesus do it.Lord have mercy it is not good for I to be ALONE.
Thank you for sharing your friendship story. It is truly a model that God is using to help brothers in Christ forge meaningful friendships that are rooted in Christ. May God truly bless you both.
Hi Tim and Preston. I hope to one day meet you both. Preston I listen to your postcast every week and stay through to the end. God always have a message from you to me. You are a big brother to me. I'll tell you something God speaks through you and I hear the message loud. Thank you for being God's friend and messanger. I love you and tim ..I dont normally comment under post but I had to let you know.. may God continue to guide you both..❤
This conversation is so much needed not just for me but people I know. Thank God for you two obedient Men of God for obeying the Holy Spirit on addressing this topic
Beautiful and well said episode! Definitely well needed. Been in isolation for too long and have painted a picture that no one wants to be friends with a single mom since my priorities are different. Thank you!♥️
Thank you both for this! I needed this today. As you both were talking the Lord spoke to me about a root cause of some of my struggles is me being afraid. Thank you both!
This is like going to my uncles house and just soak in to the massive God given wisdom. Uncle Timmy and Preston,enough of the isolation I've been in becauseof fear or rejection.Am going to get myself a friend if not some Friends😊😊..
-Know not them. They are not your friends nor your family. -They are a thorn that you have shared blood with, and nothing more. -If they should repent, welcome them to the kingdom with open arms. -Until then, share the news often to keep them at distance; and to bring them near.
I genuinely needed to hear someone else say this. My heart has been heavy about this for a while. I’ve been cut off many times just because my friends got into relationships. And it needs to be said. Thank yall!
Please pray for me to find a friend, my best friend died 5 years ago. I’ve made a commitment to participate in a focused prayer meeting on Tuesday evenings and am hoping to find someone there. 5:29
Em lágrimas. Eu me via nesse lugar de não ser digna de ter isso, querendo muito mas não acreditando que teria. Deus falou comigo de forma profunda, obrigada por isso. Deus é bom!
I think you're an anomaly because I keep putting myself out there and no one is biting. Even in small group, years in and others are not being vulnerable. It makes me want to stop trying. This has helped me continue to keep trying! 💪 I am on friendship apps and asking people to help match me up 😂 Doing all the work and being the friend first etc. I was even worried I was idolizing it. ❤🙏
They’re not the anomaly, you are!! God saw something so special in you that he chose to block those temporary friendships that weren’t going to steward your heart properly. Until God sends the divine friendship(s) you need, continue to take delight in his desires for you! 🙏🏽❤️
This is so good. I have had to take a hard look at my friendships and the part I have played because of my brokenness. Oooof, I am grateful for God's goodness to reveal the ugly to me and to still bless me with what and who I need. I am 38 and just now learning, realizing, and open to valuing the beauty of healthy friendship and being a healthy counterpart... this is sobering and convicting! Thank you!!!
Thank you for this message. Does it have to be aChristian friend or can it be someone who does not completely trust in The Lord. Does it only have to be male to male friendships or can it be a male and a woman other than your wife. I wish you would have addressed this too.
How do you do this when the single friend or brother closer than anything, betrays you…when you have no one literally to talk to. How does one make friends and trust them…? My heart hurts
A man who can only see things his own way is easy to trap. A man who can see things everyone's way without changing his way is nearly impossible to trap.
imma quote you one day
This has literally been my prayer for the past year… I’ve found some beautiful women to share friendships with, but unfortunately I’m the age where they all have young children to take care of and time for friendships takes the backburner as their family and spouses take what little free time they have. It’s been tough, but I’m still praying and waiting. I understand these people afterwords have a high potential for deep friendships later on in life, but it kinda sucks it can’t be right now… 💔💔❤️
You have no idea how glad you two having a conversation makes me.
ditto
My absolute 2 FAVORITE brothers in Christ!!!! My day just got right!!!❤❤❤
AMEN!!!
a BIG THANK YOU !
Uncle Timmy was born in 75, like my mother.
I needed to listen a conversation between 2 mature men, with full vulnerability,
AND masculinity.
I'm mixed (about ethnicity), so i can find myself in both of you at some points.
Finally (but not least) beeing men of God is secure, there's wisdom here,
and we can pray with you at the end.
2 Different bodies, but the same GOD in your hearts, amazing.
I just came back from the wilderness, i need friends, i need deeeep relationships.
i need to receive and i need to giiiiiiiiive !
So thank you, it's a " LETS GET IT " season !
Bless yall, Preston Morrisson, Tim Ross, Pillar Church, the Basement Podcast, BSIDE.
Julie, from Paris, France.
the leader’s CUT?? SINGULAR??!??!??!??
this episode sliced me to ribbons.
Was listening to this got into a store and saw something right on the shelve "Life is better with friends."
love it
Lately The Lord Jesus has convicted me on my isolation stronghold. It has been a battle learning about what fellowship and communion looks like in Christ. This was the nail in the coffin of my insecurities.
paused in the middle of this episode MULTIPLE TIMES, to put in the work and reach out to people, to make the plan, buy the plane ticket, SHOW UP, and open the door. Y'all were on FIRE with the Holy Spirit tonight!! I was so blessed by this conversation. Thank you for giving me the courage to step into obedience and let God have His way and work through these relationships for His glory. Life abundantly and to the fullest, means full of everything. No holds barred. Praying God moves through the relationships and steps of faith taken by the people watching this. We wait on You Lord, in fervent expectation for how you will move mountains through these relationships and put the devil on defense by the love born between brothers and sisters tonight. We receive it, we declare it!! In Your HOLY Name, AMEN AND HALLELUJAH!!!
This was beautiful to see and much needed. This is completely what I am going through, and I am grateful this has encouraged my heart to pursue real authentic connections. ❤
This is good because this is me and have been me ! That isolation part 🤯
I have experienced that emotional intimacy is the foundation of true authentic friendship, and everyone does not know how to achieve this level of vulnerability because intimacy requires sacrifice to have a true "friend-mate". Thank you both so much for sharing your journey of friendship and the challenges and joys in the process.
Lord Jesus break down this walls I've built in and around me heal my soul lord give me real authentic friendships give me what Tim n Preston 💯 have in your name Jesus do it.Lord have mercy it is not good for I to be ALONE.
This was a such a blessing. I prayed for this today . Thank u
Thank you for sharing your friendship story. It is truly a model that God is using to help brothers in Christ forge meaningful friendships that are rooted in Christ. May God truly bless you both.
Let's go twinzzzzzzz💯
You guys don’t know how much I needed this. Thank you so much.
Hi Tim and Preston. I hope to one day meet you both.
Preston I listen to your postcast every week and stay through to the end. God always have a message from you to me. You are a big brother to me. I'll tell you something God speaks through you and I hear the message loud. Thank you for being God's friend and messanger. I love you and tim
..I dont normally comment under post but I had to let you know.. may God continue to guide you both..❤
Sheeeesh... This is too good😮💨🔥
This was the confirmation I needed!!! Yesss I just text her and I am not gonna be scared to let her see my scars
I just love seeing these two have conversations! Could watch them for hours 🤍
This conversation is so much needed not just for me but people I know. Thank God for you two obedient Men of God for obeying the Holy Spirit on addressing this topic
Thank y’all for giving me hope that what y’all have is possible for me and the body of Christ
Beautiful and well said episode! Definitely well needed. Been in isolation for too long and have painted a picture that no one wants to be friends with a single mom since my priorities are different. Thank you!♥️
We all need brotherhood/sisterhood/community in our lives, keep each other accountable.
Thank you Jesus that I too have the kind of friendship with my best friend/sister of 34 years.
Thank you both for this! I needed this today. As you both were talking the Lord spoke to me about a root cause of some of my struggles is me being afraid. Thank you both!
This is so warranted and needed!!
I am OBSESSED with the his friendship! It’s just so edifying ALWAYS! I can only IMAGINE the WORK! Love this! ❤
So good❤❤❤ Love you guys!
❤❤❤ I love these men of God.
This is like going to my uncles house and just soak in to the massive God given wisdom. Uncle Timmy and Preston,enough of the isolation I've been in becauseof fear or rejection.Am going to get myself a friend if not some Friends😊😊..
It’s the way they were looking at the camera at 2:21 I knew it was about to get serious. Had me like 🙇🏾♀️
Yes it is not only a marital point !💪🏻
-Know not them. They are not your friends nor your family.
-They are a thorn that you have shared blood with, and nothing more.
-If they should repent, welcome them to the kingdom with open arms.
-Until then, share the news often to keep them at distance; and to bring them near.
this couldnt be more on time
I genuinely needed to hear someone else say this. My heart has been heavy about this for a while. I’ve been cut off many times just because my friends got into relationships. And it needs to be said. Thank yall!
Thank you for sharing
A Word in Due Season🔥🔥🔥
Please pray for me to find a friend, my best friend died 5 years ago. I’ve made a commitment to participate in a focused prayer meeting on Tuesday evenings and am hoping to find someone there. 5:29
ohhhhhh this converstation!!! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
Em lágrimas. Eu me via nesse lugar de não ser digna de ter isso, querendo muito mas não acreditando que teria. Deus falou comigo de forma profunda, obrigada por isso. Deus é bom!
Loved listening to this conversation. Thank you for sharing it. ❤
straight facts about that screen door. great metaphor
This conversation was beautiful ❤
Straight facts the first sentence.
Insta liked and clicked on this
I think you're an anomaly because I keep putting myself out there and no one is biting. Even in small group, years in and others are not being vulnerable. It makes me want to stop trying. This has helped me continue to keep trying! 💪 I am on friendship apps and asking people to help match me up 😂 Doing all the work and being the friend first etc. I was even worried I was idolizing it. ❤🙏
They’re not the anomaly, you are!! God saw something so special in you that he chose to block those temporary friendships that weren’t going to steward your heart properly. Until God sends the divine friendship(s) you need, continue to take delight in his desires for you! 🙏🏽❤️
good conversation
This is so good. I have had to take a hard look at my friendships and the part I have played because of my brokenness. Oooof, I am grateful for God's goodness to reveal the ugly to me and to still bless me with what and who I need. I am 38 and just now learning, realizing, and open to valuing the beauty of healthy friendship and being a healthy counterpart... this is sobering and convicting! Thank you!!!
Wow Wow Wow 😀🙌🏾🎱❤️
🗡️ OUT THE GATE- 1. Afraid to go first
💙💪🏾💙
Come on, +1 into a x10! Periodt!
I've been praying for a best friend twin in Jesus and still haven't found them
😢
Man !!!! Talk heavy am 56 and I think like that “ its too late “ or “ I won’t find it “🤦♂️
Once there is life, it's never too late
Thank you for this message. Does it have to be aChristian friend or can it be someone who does not completely trust in The Lord. Does it only have to be male to male friendships or can it be a male and a woman other than your wife. I wish you would have addressed this too.
🤓👍♥️
The way y'all even laugh the same is evident lol
How do you do this when the single friend or brother closer than anything, betrays you…when you have no one literally to talk to. How does one make friends and trust them…? My heart hurts
Im sorry but Fish in the sea sent me 😂😂😂
I'm not fine. I'm losing my mind. Plz help
Replay law of communication 😂😂😂 am I right please tell me if I'm right I need to know your the mathematician 😂😂😂