Many people say that there's issues in every family. It makes me feel like an exception. On both sides of my family there are zero people that would make reunions or weddings awkward or unpleasant. And my dad's side of the family is huge. He had 11 siblings. They still get together every year for a weekend. At least the ones that are still able to, because of old age.
Imagine showing up to a wedding and sitting across from you is a picture of the deceased person looking and smiling at you. I don't know what to think but probably look all over the place except at the photo lol.
As adults I think the daughter is being unrealistic. One thing is wanting your mom to sit next to the picture and another thing is having your step dad sit away from your mom. It doesn’t matter if you like your stepdad or not, if the step dad is the moms plus one then he should be able to sit next to his wife
I agree, the daughter probably also knew her mother didn't have a good relationship with her father, hence the divorce. Having a picture of your father is fine, but to force your mother to sit next to it despite knowing her feelings about it, and then also telling her her new husband had to sit somewhere else is just petty Like yes, it's your wedding, but you also have to take into account the audiences comfort so they can properly enjoy it and congratulate you
My friend's daughter did that. She had a board up with pictures of all her and the groom's loved ones who had passed. At first I didn't know she had planned to do that. Her grandparents used to live next door to my family when I was a kid, and as I was going through things in my parents' house I found a picture of her grandparents. One day I noticed she was over at my friend's house for a visit so I went over to see if she wanted it and that is when I found out about the plan for the memory board. So she was so thrilled that I had found the picture when I did.
only at 6:45 mark, but my theory is Mother was either seeing current husband before or very soon after her divorce. And the daughter believes he's the reason her parents split, which lead to her fathers spiral down and untimely death. /shrugs
I'm with Joe. We kicked my grandfather's cheatin' a$$ out the family too. He basically grew old, became blind, shat himself, and burned alive in his house due to an electrical fire alone. Of course everyone in our family who didn't know the haneous things he did to us gave us sh*t for not taking care of him. Like bro, he literally fought the male caretakers and s*xually harrassed every female caretaker we hired until literally no one could be around him anymore. Dude needed to go.
5:37 some people just hate the idea of a step parent all together- I thought I’d hate either of my parents remarrying. My dad passed n now I’m like “ SOMEONE NICE AND OLD PLEASE MARRY MY MOM” lol I don’t have life cause of her- n I’m not gunna up n leave my mom like a jerk 🙅🏽♂️ ( I say with all respect I love my mom, but I’m tryna grow up 😂) also my mom being here helps but I still gotta push myself
IMO... if BRIDE is paying for her wedding.... then she should have it the way she wants. it is up to mom to go or not go. If MOM AND STEP DAD are paying, then she should shut up and say thank you and compromise. Maybe say " mom can you sit next to dad picture and then step dad next to you on the other side.
At 9:29 so maybe they did talk about it (knowing JKN, they'll get off topic the next minute). Its hard to get the whole fam to agree on one thing. If her side of the fam got involved and he was still not invited. He really must've done something bad (based on 3:25). Bandwagon is a real thing but its hard to not put yourself in another shoes.
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In the article, the mom is NTA. The daughter(bride) has to deal with her own issues and come to terms with the fact that her dad wasn't perfect, and her parents divorced for a reason.
The mom’s story is biased and regardless of whether he was perfect or the reason that they divorced, he is still her dad. If what the mom said is true, she already compromised by inviting him to the wedding in the first place. To the daughter, this is her night. To the mom, this is one night. Either way, they’re both a**h**es for not settling this conflict earlier.
Why doesnt the new husband just stay home? Good question. It could be that the other side aka former inlaws to the mom, might hate the mom for "setting the deceased dad onto the alcoholic path" and not having someone on your side there suckkkkkkkkkkkkkkssssssssssss
They are both the a-holes. The mom is going to miss out in one of the most important days of her daughter’s life. And the daughter is being petty with the pic. Both are going to ruin their relationship. Then when the daughter stars having grandchildren and the mom is not allowed to be around them I hope missing out on the wedding was worth it. Can’t say much because there is always 3 sides of the story and we only have 1.
The daughter is also being petty at wanting the step dad sit away from the mom. Doesn’t matter if you like him or not, he’s who is now making your mom happy
If you wait till your kids agree for you to remarry then you will always stay alone. How do we know if it’s not about the boyfriend but simply because she didn’t want her to remarry? I have known grown people in their 40s and 50s still complaining about their parents remarrying
yeah I’m just empathizing with the daughter. Her mom married him knowing how she felt. She can’t force her daughter to like him. She at least didn’t exclude him from the wedding by not inviting
@@21ventura that's childish. I went to a wedding where my wife was part of the bridal party. I was not. I sat at a different table and wasn't in any of the pictures. I was nowhere near miserable. In fact I had a blast. The mother is being childish and selfish. Maybe I am different but I personally wouldn't marry someone who my child doesn't get along with.
Ryan starting to take over the characteristics of Joe that he hates😂😂 from 9:17 to Joe sitting the exact same 9:20 🤣🤣
Many people say that there's issues in every family. It makes me feel like an exception. On both sides of my family there are zero people that would make reunions or weddings awkward or unpleasant. And my dad's side of the family is huge. He had 11 siblings. They still get together every year for a weekend. At least the ones that are still able to, because of old age.
That's actually amazing your family is blessed
@@tumi881 Right. And my parents are nearing 80 and still together in love. That doesn't happen much anymore either.
You're a huge outlier but that's a good thing, happy for you :). Drama is never fun
nick hit on the nail on the head when he said shit always happens before and during weddings lmao ! that’s SO true 😅
Imagine showing up to a wedding and sitting across from you is a picture of the deceased person looking and smiling at you. I don't know what to think but probably look all over the place except at the photo lol.
It's just a picture tho lol not like you're sitting next to a zombie
I always expect these to go the way it does on Steve and Nikki's podcast, but Joe exists😂
What is the name of Steve and Nikki's podcast? I couldn't find it.
@SangHTX search Nikki Limo it'll come up.
@@SangHTX It is STDTY.
@@SangHTX It is called "STDTY". It's on Nikki's channel.
@@SangHTX "STDTY" It's on Nikki's channel.
As adults I think the daughter is being unrealistic. One thing is wanting your mom to sit next to the picture and another thing is having your step dad sit away from your mom. It doesn’t matter if you like your stepdad or not, if the step dad is the moms plus one then he should be able to sit next to his wife
I agree, the daughter probably also knew her mother didn't have a good relationship with her father, hence the divorce. Having a picture of your father is fine, but to force your mother to sit next to it despite knowing her feelings about it, and then also telling her her new husband had to sit somewhere else is just petty
Like yes, it's your wedding, but you also have to take into account the audiences comfort so they can properly enjoy it and congratulate you
And I thought double news was crazy, but double family??? that's a wild dude in Anthony's family
As the new husband of the mother I’d be okay with just not going Lol
Right! There's probably a few places he'd rather be than at that ticking time bomb of an event
Yes, Joe, many people put a photo of a loved ones parent that has passed in the aisle seat during the wedding and then at the reception.
My friend's daughter did that. She had a board up with pictures of all her and the groom's loved ones who had passed. At first I didn't know she had planned to do that. Her grandparents used to live next door to my family when I was a kid, and as I was going through things in my parents' house I found a picture of her grandparents. One day I noticed she was over at my friend's house for a visit so I went over to see if she wanted it and that is when I found out about the plan for the memory board. So she was so thrilled that I had found the picture when I did.
@bethnichols2875 that's amazing
Anthony with his own (Unc) AITA 😅
only at 6:45 mark, but my theory is Mother was either seeing current husband before or very soon after her divorce. And the daughter believes he's the reason her parents split, which lead to her fathers spiral down and untimely death. /shrugs
I'm with Joe. We kicked my grandfather's cheatin' a$$ out the family too. He basically grew old, became blind, shat himself, and burned alive in his house due to an electrical fire alone. Of course everyone in our family who didn't know the haneous things he did to us gave us sh*t for not taking care of him. Like bro, he literally fought the male caretakers and s*xually harrassed every female caretaker we hired until literally no one could be around him anymore. Dude needed to go.
5:37 some people just hate the idea of a step parent all together- I thought I’d hate either of my parents remarrying. My dad passed n now I’m like “ SOMEONE NICE AND OLD PLEASE MARRY MY MOM” lol I don’t have life cause of her- n I’m not gunna up n leave my mom like a jerk 🙅🏽♂️ ( I say with all respect I love my mom, but I’m tryna grow up 😂) also my mom being here helps but I still gotta push myself
Im white and found out i was a half sibling. I was okay with it but once my older siblings knew i knew, they treated me completely differently.
IMO... if BRIDE is paying for her wedding.... then she should have it the way she wants. it is up to mom to go or not go. If MOM AND STEP DAD are paying, then she should shut up and say thank you and compromise. Maybe say " mom can you sit next to dad picture and then step dad next to you on the other side.
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At 9:29 so maybe they did talk about it (knowing JKN, they'll get off topic the next minute). Its hard to get the whole fam to agree on one thing. If her side of the fam got involved and he was still not invited. He really must've done something bad (based on 3:25). Bandwagon is a real thing but its hard to not put yourself in another shoes.
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This is very honorable I think.
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Her wedding her decision lol
yeah, and the mom understands and thats why shes not going lilbro
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In the article, the mom is NTA. The daughter(bride) has to deal with her own issues and come to terms with the fact that her dad wasn't perfect, and her parents divorced for a reason.
The mom’s story is biased and regardless of whether he was perfect or the reason that they divorced, he is still her dad. If what the mom said is true, she already compromised by inviting him to the wedding in the first place. To the daughter, this is her night. To the mom, this is one night. Either way, they’re both a**h**es for not settling this conflict earlier.
Why doesnt the new husband just stay home? Good question. It could be that the other side aka former inlaws to the mom, might hate the mom for "setting the deceased dad onto the alcoholic path" and not having someone on your side there suckkkkkkkkkkkkkkssssssssssss
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They are both the a-holes. The mom is going to miss out in one of the most important days of her daughter’s life. And the daughter is being petty with the pic. Both are going to ruin their relationship. Then when the daughter stars having grandchildren and the mom is not allowed to be around them I hope missing out on the wedding was worth it. Can’t say much because there is always 3 sides of the story and we only have 1.
The daughter is also being petty at wanting the step dad sit away from the mom. Doesn’t matter if you like him or not, he’s who is now making your mom happy
@ yup! That’s why they are both the a holes. But also we don’t know the entire story
She married her boyfriend even though her daughter didn’t get along with him. She chose him over her.
If you wait till your kids agree for you to remarry then you will always stay alone. How do we know if it’s not about the boyfriend but simply because she didn’t want her to remarry? I have known grown people in their 40s and 50s still complaining about their parents remarrying
yeah I’m just empathizing with the daughter.
Her mom married him knowing how she felt. She can’t force her daughter to like him. She at least didn’t exclude him from the wedding by not inviting
@ she didn’t exclude him because she would be happy seeing him be miserable sitting away from his wife
@@21ventura that's childish. I went to a wedding where my wife was part of the bridal party. I was not. I sat at a different table and wasn't in any of the pictures. I was nowhere near miserable. In fact I had a blast. The mother is being childish and selfish. Maybe I am different but I personally wouldn't marry someone who my child doesn't get along with.