I am a 5/1 Projector and have always said, people fall in love with the idea of me, think I am their soul mate or savior, but nobody ever actually sees ME or loves me for me. I have been lost in my journey most of my life seeing I always needed an invitation. I am now stepping into divine alignment, spiritual path, and learning a lot about the metaphysical world, universe, and human design. I am fascinated and am eager to learn more and put it all into action!!
As a 5/1 Manifestor I have come to realize most people in my life will think really highly of me UNTIL I don’t do what they want or I say something they don’t want to hear. Leading them to believe that I’m a “selfish” person and them no longer liking me. I’ve learned not to take it personal but sometimes I do wish people would actually understand me better.
Totally relate with a lil turn being 5/1 Peojektor. I feel like people value me as long as I do something for them ... but in the Instant I more care about myself ... they stop valuing me.
I think this is a great point that leads me to think about two KEY things for anyone with line 1 (specifically 5/1s in my experience) what you say needs to be said in the right timing. Maybe at the time when those projections switches you offered a solution or shared something they were not ready or open to hear/see because the timing was wrong? Just reflect on it, but let it go. Rejection always hurts, so celebrate those who project positively, and at the same time try remaining neutral when assessing the switches in projections. It is not you, it is them.
@@gabriellandino OOh I love this insight, hope it is ok if I use this in talking about the Projector field. I am now looking back and every switch with a line 5 person does feel like a new era, or for me as a Projector as an "expired invitation".
5/2 Reflector here and you have truly hit the nail on the head regarding the projection field. Similar to your husband, people see me as a light, not understanding they are actually only looking into their own light. And I FEEL that excitement coming from them and as it moves through me it then is further projected back towards them (mirrored and amplified). It’s fascinating and beautiful and soul filling. I’ve been quite fortunate to be completely invisible to those unwilling to look at themselves that closely, and thus tend to gravitate toward/be pulled forth by the most truly amazing humans. BUT…….. there are of course negatives. Expectations. Pulling. Negative projections. Lack of understanding. Invisibility. Lack of tethering to pretty much anything (other than my own inner world). So alone time is absolutely everything for me. Which with 3 children… lol. But the flip side is we SEE/FEEL people for who they are and tbh I’m rarely disappointed bc each of us is so special and unique that it’s impossible not to be forever surprised and (usually for me) delighted by their special sauce (again, important to cultivate a healthy circle and have some energetic boundaries). Much love!
The faith of 5 profile is so alienating sometimes and so exhausting from ducking all other people's projections. It's like they put you in a role that you didn't sign up for and the massive wrath that goes along when you don't perform according to their sick expectations. Because 5 profile have practical solutions they at times are also projected on men who have mama's boy complex and the massive unconscious resentment are projected on their way when the 5 profile doesn't behave like the mother energy. So 5 profile , do yourself a favor and be very discerning who you live and surround yourself with!
Same here. I’m a 5/1 Manifestor and it’s very lonely. The same with me. They love me at first but then they think I’m a narcissist when I talk about others crossing my boundaries.
I am recording a new season of my podcast and will have a chat with a Manifestor who has a very very good way to "reframe" the whole relationships with others - on a couple of words he said, Manifestor's aura is repelling for a reason. It protects us from incorrect people. I love that.
As a 5/1 projector, I have the most trouble with the "damsel in distress dynamic" as I call it. I want to help people, and people look for a savior. I feel bad when it goes sideways after.
Thank you, from an Emotional Projector 5/1... absolutely what I have found is I am the flavour, until I do not agree to do something, or if something doesn't resonate with me....then the switch comes!!! Love and Blessings to you 🙏💜
Hi Carrie, thank you for your warm words, I feel so validated and empowered with comments like that, so grateful. I think line 5 and a Projector is a combination that requires even more empowering yourself as a Projector, so the "switches" do not feed into the build up of resentlemt and bitterness. But remember your design is perfect for you so I think it is really all about the journey of mastering the lifetime with these energies in the quest to find that self-recognition and empower yourself to the full potential x
@@thejuliettestapleton Absolutely, from many years of life experiences I Am now empowered and I recognise my own value and worth....it took some time, however after discovering Human Design all took on a greater ease and I don't sweat it these days I Trust that the right Community and people who resonate with me, along with the right location will come at the right time! Keep up your fabulousness! X 🙏😘
Makes it hard to be one’s own authentic self when that constantly happens. I’m at a phase in my life where I want to stop hiding all my views and different parts of myself. Now I see why all my life I seemed to instinctively feel that might not be a good idea . We probably should let our real selves show but it’s hard to. At least learning about this projection tendency lets us prepare for the possibility ( while keeping in mind there’s also a possibility that it will be a good projection, not just the bad ones lol) so it won’t sting so bad when a bad one comes our way . We’ll just realize it might be a mirror of their own shadow . I’ll still look at myself to make sure there’s not something I need to work on but this knowledge helps me see when it’s not me as well .
A 3/5 Projector here... Interesting points you are making... From your explanation, it makes better sense why people approach me. Some I can help, some I can't, and some don't deserve my time. On the Projector front, I find myself more optimal when one-on-one with an individual. I have backed off being a "group" guy, which is a not-self habit from my former self.
Thank you, yes I have the same experience as a Projector, even in my group program I structure it more as a hybrid with private mentorship. I just cannot focus on more than one person at any time, and I love it. I appreciate you taking your time watching this video, the Projection Field is a topic that fascinates me, this video was the start of it and it continues being my area of a lot of contemplation, especially that most people in my life have it in their design.
I’m a 5/1 Sacral MG, my dad is a 2/5 mental projector, my mom is a 5/2 sacral MG. Both my brothers are 4/6 (a sacral generator and splenic projector). I’m the only 1 investigating wtf is up with my family 😂 literally. The only 1. And I appear to be the least earthly successful. I actually have more 3 lines in my design. I resonate very much with your interpretation. I’ve been with 5/1’s also, and the same has happened with them, even as a 5/1. I often don’t feel very seen. People put me on a pedestal too quickly, I don’t trust them. People cut me down too quickly, I don’t trust them. I’ve learned that what others think of me really has very little to do with me at all, especially as a quad left angle. Sometimes I don’t even WANT to say certain things to people that I know they won’t like; but there is a gut response I have to say it. Like it’s my job or something. I don’t have that with everyone. It’s only certain people or situations, if presented with something to respond to, I do. But I know when I do it’ll cut deep and they prob won’t want to talk to me after. 😂 or they’ll paint me black. So, I am careful about what I say and to whom.
Thank you so much for sharing, this feed right into the main strategy for line 5 - wait until the timing is right to speak, when you are invited to share, even if you are responding the urge to "fix" or "offers a solution" which seems what you are describing can be ill-timed and hence there is friction. I think being aware of the mechanics of the projection field, you can take a stance where you share only when you feel that the sharing will add value to your relationships, and just because you have the solution and you see it (which is your gift) - you are not for everyone and your solutions must be kept for the most aligned scenarios. It is not about downplaying your gifts and your vision. It is about understanding the power of your voice and that this power can be too much and not everyone deserves to experience it. (As a Projector, I find there is a similar thing about offering our opinion, and it is a huge learning curve to follow the "wait for the invitation" strategy. But now I see that actually not offering opinion when it is not asked for is where I allow myself to stay in my power - those who recognise my value do ask and they listen and take it on board. It pays off not to budge in with your 2 cents for me, and it made my own sense of self-value strengthen a lot. I no longer need to "trust" people. I know that I will speak in the right time for the benefit of everyone involved but only when energetically they are open to receive. I think line 5 strategy is very similar to a Projector strategy - even if your Type is not a Projector.) These are just my personal insights and perspectives 😇🙏
@@thejuliettestapleton thanks for your reply. I read my message back and I think I conveyed some things that required differed words. I should have said I trust people to be themselves, but I don’t easily trust peoples intent with me until I see over the course of time they truly are interested in me as a person, not what I can do for them. I definitely reserve what I say for the purpose of conserving my own energy these days because I’m starting to really see the value in all I’ve acquired. I’ve spent a lifetime being unwell/sick and I had to fight to find my own answers and advocate. It often feels like I don’t have enough knowledge but actually it’s like I’ve been thru two masters programs. It cost me my time and my life. Now when people come to me for my advice, I don’t give it freely. It does feel empowering to do that. If there is a mutual exchange, then ok. If there is value in the form of money being given to me, then ok. There’s always times I do unconditionally give to those I feel need it AND can value it. And then I let it go. I never expect to see a tree or it’s fruit from the the seeds I plant. I’m happy just knowing it’s possible they’ll find the water and sunlight for the seed and grow in the direction that feels best for them. Thanks again for the reminder about the projection field too! I definitely have learned to wait for the invite in many cases, or to at least ask if others want my insight. Often, I simply share my experiences as a way to say… this is what I did. It may not work for everyone, but this is what worked for me and here’s why. I have the lax of individualism tho 😂 which is so helpful to know I really don’t have to do anything except for share the truth of my experience. Thank you for being a sounding board for me in this moment! And for having the space here and the content to respond to 🧡
My experience with ppl who have a 5 in their profile is that no matter how much i try to get behind the curtains and understand them for who they are - they keep up secrets about themselves and don't seem to want to drop their masks. There is a certain self-sabotaging vibe about that behavior. I'm a 4/6, i love to understand ppls genuine desires and needs. But being on the receiving end, accepting gifts and energy doesn’t seem natural to 5s. As if they make themselves the pressure to be always the giving and performing ones.
I'm a 5/1 and your wording might be a bit odd. What do you mean "no matter how much you try"? I think when someone tries too hard to get to know someone, it just tends not to work, regardless of profile. a 5/1 will let you in.. not by inviting you into "their personal private life" (this is not a personal but transpersonal profile) but by letting ourselves be comfortable enough to show our heretic, unusual personality while you are part of the audience, so to speak. Otherwise you're just triggering our paranoia from having to constantly deal with people idealizing us and sometimes being nosy to "know more" about us
Hi, 5/1 here. Could be also that they're avoiding the pain of the eventual other shoe drop which is almost always guaranteed. We get open and vulnerable and it gets thrown back at us in the worst way...
I am a 5/1 emotional Generator and I really appreciate this video. I have learned to really share only when asked, a lot like a projector. I recently did the human design chart for my business and found out that it’s a projector, lol so that means I really need to wait to be invited and that has been what has worked in the business. It is very frustrating when there are no invitations, or no questions to answer. My solution has been to connect to the heart and be in my emotions and share from that truth. And the right people resonate with that.❤❤
Your video was very very helpful! Im a 3/5 splenic projector and i find myself in this situation very often; one of the topics with some 'friends' was me telling them: you are not seeing 'me' (and this sentence applies for so many situations); it is such an experience to live this 5 line. Also i have found important for myself to learn how to love people and not be attached to anyone because i never know when the coin is going to flip and all of a sudden the relationship changes. Knowing that this is our purpose, bringing this projection into others is helpful for me to not take it personally. But it can hurt; although it can also make us very wise. ❤ (Sorry english is not my first language either and i find it hard to explain myself 😆 hope it was clear)
haha Thank you, I wish I could take credit for it, but truly it is just a beautification setting on Zoom that makes me look more polished and probably 20 years younger than I am :)
People do project on me that I can help them, but I feel like typically I can... until I get overwhelmed... and then I'll completely disappear until I can handle life again. (Which is also written in my chart that I'll do based on my lines, I don't remember which main gate)
Ive found being a 5/1 splenic projecter that im looked at for answers, to solve peoples problems, especially the saviour part is bang on. Then not being able to deliver the illusion they created in their head, the disappointment that follows isnt very nice 🙂 hope this helps
As a 2/5 Emotional ManiGen, it took me until I discovered HD to understand why people (Family, friends, coworkers) would love me in the beginning, then if I don't meet their expectations of me, they would treat me as if I am the most miserable person in the world. When I started researching exactly what the projection field was, ONLY then did i understand why that was. So now I try to keep my distance from people who feel like they I'm their savior, keep conversations as positive and simple as possible. I'm still learning though, just trying to live my design.
Thank you for sharing I am a long term astrologer recently 10 years ago involved in human design I’m a 6/2 Manifestor dating a 3/5 generator I have found that he projects on to me his own self judgement it’s frustrating for me especially when I’m just informing my needs in the relationship
This was helpful . Someone close to me projects on me all the time and it’s hurtful . I find myself wondering how can I make it so the people I love don’t project on me ? How can I make it so it doesn’t hurt so much when it happens? I’m a 5/1 . I’m grateful for people like you who study this stuff . Seems like not everyone understands why we do read about and study this stuff but when you see it actually working in your life and clarifying things you’ve been struggling with all your life …. Well …. My ears tend to perk up lol
You're not supposed to stop people from projecting on you. It's literally your job to help the collective 🥰 if you stop, then how will they see their reflection in others? Instead be content with your way of contribution and know that it has nothing to do with you personally, learn about boundaries and you'll be fine 😊 good luck
Projections cannot be stopped, these are just mechanics in auric interactions. But you can manage your boundaries and "grow thicker skin". In other words (more aligned), learn to see projections for what they are and try to not take them personally. It is not you they are upset with. It is all about their own hopes and disappointments. You are just a "mirror" for those feelings for them. This is why line 5 is here "for strangers" - the closed ones tend to fall into negative projections often. And once projection switched it is almost impossible to turn back, on the energetics level. I know from my own life, the 5/1's I used to adore and then something minor happened, but I got triggered and since I cannot even make myself to look at them. It is an awful feeling, but so powerful...
Just popped into my feed. I'm a 5/1 Reflector. Interesting description about the cosmic mirror. Between profile and aura, I don't feel like people take the time to know 'me'. Though I can sense and reflect the other in a powerful way. Thanks for doing a dive on the projection field.
5/1 generator. I have learned to say NO to things that don't feel like they are for me. I remind myself there are other people who can help and if I help when I don't have the ability to then I am taking away the right person's opportunity. Not everyone needs my help specifically. I would rather disappoint someone by saying no than by being the wrong person for the job.
Elon Musk is 3/5 MG... just to throw it out there. I'm a 5/1 MG.... your asking about how often I become fascinated by people... very, very rarely. But I am fascinated by Elon. I'm also impressed by you. I just came across you the other day, actually because of AI. I talk to AI quite a bit, and was asking something in depth about HD, and it suggested your website. I really like the high quality, royal/nobel look. The colors, fonts, design, lay out, it's all immaculate. I'm looking forward to learning more from you.
I'm a 5/2 and I hate it. No one sees me and they will always blame me for things not working out the way they wanted. It misses me off. I enjoy living in hermit mode just to avoid the projections.
@@ToushiDiabloprojection field works both ways, others can't see you, but you're also projecting a lot on the world. Human Design is about one thing, which is teaching you to love yourself. The further I go, the more I embrace myself, the more I am thankful for all the things I used to hate, for all the years of suffering, even for illness, it is all harsh grace.
I am a 3/5 MG. I find my profile so challenging. I want to hide because I am tired of the expectations of people and then having to live with their disappointment. I have a feeling that no one really knows me.
Very interesting. Thank you 🙏🏻 I just subscribed. Really liked your video and insights. Would you say that when a reflector encounters a line 5 they also don't see the real person and also only see a projection?
Hi Maria, I do not think we should mix the reflector type and the projection field mechanics. We all project at line 5, whatever our energy type is. Line 5 lives in the world of projections (as well as line 2, but in a different way). And there is so many other factors, including conditioning that would affect a certain way a reflector would explore and digest their experience with line 5s in their lives, too.
I’m also a 1/3 but my undefined centers (Solar plexus, ego, G, and head) each have only one gate activated (completely open ajna), and most of those gates are line 2 and line 5 (G has hanging 7.6 only). I decided to look into this since the undefined centers energies are going to funnel through these gates that have this projection energy. Does that mean others will project onto me through these gates? I’m already amplifying the energy through the undefined centers, but I’m then also projecting back to the person whose energy I’m amplifying? I need to reflect on this more. Thanks for sharing.
3/5 emotional generator.Im not practical at all,and as i understand it.If have solutions they fix problems not in "reality" but in individuals in one-on-one interaction most of which with strangers on the street
Heey, "practical" solutions would be more obvious when you have line 5 as a personality line, but as an expert in 3/5s (ALL my family and my best friend are 3/5s) I would say you are a freat "fixer". You look for innovative solutions. You may not consciously regard them as practical, but you are great at solving life puzzles with quick fixes.
Etes vous réconcilier avec votre beau frère ? Vous savez que ce n est pas lui , c est le champ de projection En tant que 5/1 c est dur d etre rejeté...
I am a 5/1 Projector and have always said, people fall in love with the idea of me, think I am their soul mate or savior, but nobody ever actually sees ME or loves me for me. I have been lost in my journey most of my life seeing I always needed an invitation. I am now stepping into divine alignment, spiritual path, and learning a lot about the metaphysical world, universe, and human design. I am fascinated and am eager to learn more and put it all into action!!
Same here!
I can so relate and empathize with this.
As a 5/1 Manifestor I have come to realize most people in my life will think really highly of me UNTIL I don’t do what they want or I say something they don’t want to hear. Leading them to believe that I’m a “selfish” person and them no longer liking me. I’ve learned not to take it personal but sometimes I do wish people would actually understand me better.
Totally relate - I am a 5:1 manifestor myself!
Totally relate with a lil turn being 5/1 Peojektor. I feel like people value me as long as I do something for them ... but in the Instant I more care about myself ... they stop valuing me.
I think this is a great point that leads me to think about two KEY things for anyone with line 1 (specifically 5/1s in my experience) what you say needs to be said in the right timing. Maybe at the time when those projections switches you offered a solution or shared something they were not ready or open to hear/see because the timing was wrong? Just reflect on it, but let it go. Rejection always hurts, so celebrate those who project positively, and at the same time try remaining neutral when assessing the switches in projections. It is not you, it is them.
Same! Dealing with this once again but it’s a observable thing over the years. Normally marks the end of a cycle and beginning of a new one
@@gabriellandino OOh I love this insight, hope it is ok if I use this in talking about the Projector field. I am now looking back and every switch with a line 5 person does feel like a new era, or for me as a Projector as an "expired invitation".
5/2 Reflector here and you have truly hit the nail on the head regarding the projection field. Similar to your husband, people see me as a light, not understanding they are actually only looking into their own light. And I FEEL that excitement coming from them and as it moves through me it then is further projected back towards them (mirrored and amplified). It’s fascinating and beautiful and soul filling. I’ve been quite fortunate to be completely invisible to those unwilling to look at themselves that closely, and thus tend to gravitate toward/be pulled forth by the most truly amazing humans. BUT…….. there are of course negatives. Expectations. Pulling. Negative projections. Lack of understanding. Invisibility. Lack of tethering to pretty much anything (other than my own inner world). So alone time is absolutely everything for me. Which with 3 children… lol. But the flip side is we SEE/FEEL people for who they are and tbh I’m rarely disappointed bc each of us is so special and unique that it’s impossible not to be forever surprised and (usually for me) delighted by their special sauce (again, important to cultivate a healthy circle and have some energetic boundaries). Much love!
The faith of 5 profile is so alienating sometimes and so exhausting from ducking all other people's projections.
It's like they put you in a role that you didn't sign up for and the massive wrath that goes along when you don't perform according to their sick expectations.
Because 5 profile have practical solutions they at times are also projected on men who have mama's boy complex and the massive unconscious resentment are projected on their way when the 5 profile doesn't behave like the mother energy.
So 5 profile , do yourself a favor and be very discerning who you live and surround yourself with!
Same here. I’m a 5/1 Manifestor and it’s very lonely. The same with me. They love me at first but then they think I’m a narcissist when I talk about others crossing my boundaries.
I am recording a new season of my podcast and will have a chat with a Manifestor who has a very very good way to "reframe" the whole relationships with others - on a couple of words he said, Manifestor's aura is repelling for a reason. It protects us from incorrect people. I love that.
I'm a 3/5 mental projector. I just read the blog, thank you! Now I get the expectations that are projected onto me 😀
As a 5/1 projector, I have the most trouble with the "damsel in distress dynamic" as I call it. I want to help people, and people look for a savior. I feel bad when it goes sideways after.
Thank you, from an Emotional Projector 5/1... absolutely what I have found is I am the flavour, until I do not agree to do something, or if something doesn't resonate with me....then the switch comes!!!
Love and Blessings to you 🙏💜
Hi Carrie, thank you for your warm words, I feel so validated and empowered with comments like that, so grateful. I think line 5 and a Projector is a combination that requires even more empowering yourself as a Projector, so the "switches" do not feed into the build up of resentlemt and bitterness. But remember your design is perfect for you so I think it is really all about the journey of mastering the lifetime with these energies in the quest to find that self-recognition and empower yourself to the full potential x
@@thejuliettestapleton Absolutely, from many years of life experiences I Am now empowered and I recognise my own value and worth....it took some time, however after discovering Human Design all took on a greater ease and I don't sweat it these days
I Trust that the right Community and people who resonate with me, along with the right location will come at the right time!
Keep up your fabulousness! X 🙏😘
Makes it hard to be one’s own authentic self when that constantly happens. I’m at a phase in my life where I want to stop hiding all my views and different parts of myself. Now I see why all my life I seemed to instinctively feel that might not be a good idea . We probably should let our real selves show but it’s hard to. At least learning about this projection tendency lets us prepare for the possibility ( while keeping in mind there’s also a possibility that it will be a good projection, not just the bad ones lol) so it won’t sting so bad when a bad one comes our way . We’ll just realize it might be a mirror of their own shadow . I’ll still look at myself to make sure there’s not something I need to work on but this knowledge helps me see when it’s not me as well .
A 3/5 Projector here... Interesting points you are making... From your explanation, it makes better sense why people approach me. Some I can help, some I can't, and some don't deserve my time. On the Projector front, I find myself more optimal when one-on-one with an individual. I have backed off being a "group" guy, which is a not-self habit from my former self.
Thank you, yes I have the same experience as a Projector, even in my group program I structure it more as a hybrid with private mentorship. I just cannot focus on more than one person at any time, and I love it.
I appreciate you taking your time watching this video, the Projection Field is a topic that fascinates me, this video was the start of it and it continues being my area of a lot of contemplation, especially that most people in my life have it in their design.
That switch also comes from that wrong initial super positive projection. I’m a 5/1 projector, and the constant disappointment “I” cause is exhausting
I’m a 5/1 Sacral MG, my dad is a 2/5 mental projector, my mom is a 5/2 sacral MG. Both my brothers are 4/6 (a sacral generator and splenic projector).
I’m the only 1 investigating wtf is up with my family 😂 literally. The only 1. And I appear to be the least earthly successful. I actually have more 3 lines in my design. I resonate very much with your interpretation. I’ve been with 5/1’s also, and the same has happened with them, even as a 5/1. I often don’t feel very seen. People put me on a pedestal too quickly, I don’t trust them. People cut me down too quickly, I don’t trust them. I’ve learned that what others think of me really has very little to do with me at all, especially as a quad left angle. Sometimes I don’t even WANT to say certain things to people that I know they won’t like; but there is a gut response I have to say it. Like it’s my job or something. I don’t have that with everyone. It’s only certain people or situations, if presented with something to respond to, I do. But I know when I do it’ll cut deep and they prob won’t want to talk to me after. 😂 or they’ll paint me black. So, I am careful about what I say and to whom.
Thank you so much for sharing, this feed right into the main strategy for line 5 - wait until the timing is right to speak, when you are invited to share, even if you are responding the urge to "fix" or "offers a solution" which seems what you are describing can be ill-timed and hence there is friction. I think being aware of the mechanics of the projection field, you can take a stance where you share only when you feel that the sharing will add value to your relationships, and just because you have the solution and you see it (which is your gift) - you are not for everyone and your solutions must be kept for the most aligned scenarios. It is not about downplaying your gifts and your vision. It is about understanding the power of your voice and that this power can be too much and not everyone deserves to experience it.
(As a Projector, I find there is a similar thing about offering our opinion, and it is a huge learning curve to follow the "wait for the invitation" strategy. But now I see that actually not offering opinion when it is not asked for is where I allow myself to stay in my power - those who recognise my value do ask and they listen and take it on board. It pays off not to budge in with your 2 cents for me, and it made my own sense of self-value strengthen a lot. I no longer need to "trust" people. I know that I will speak in the right time for the benefit of everyone involved but only when energetically they are open to receive. I think line 5 strategy is very similar to a Projector strategy - even if your Type is not a Projector.) These are just my personal insights and perspectives 😇🙏
@@thejuliettestapleton thanks for your reply. I read my message back and I think I conveyed some things that required differed words. I should have said I trust people to be themselves, but I don’t easily trust peoples intent with me until I see over the course of time they truly are interested in me as a person, not what I can do for them. I definitely reserve what I say for the purpose of conserving my own energy these days because I’m starting to really see the value in all I’ve acquired. I’ve spent a lifetime being unwell/sick and I had to fight to find my own answers and advocate. It often feels like I don’t have enough knowledge but actually it’s like I’ve been thru two masters programs. It cost me my time and my life. Now when people come to me for my advice, I don’t give it freely. It does feel empowering to do that. If there is a mutual exchange, then ok. If there is value in the form of money being given to me, then ok. There’s always times I do unconditionally give to those I feel need it AND can value it. And then I let it go. I never expect to see a tree or it’s fruit from the the seeds I plant. I’m happy just knowing it’s possible they’ll find the water and sunlight for the seed and grow in the direction that feels best for them.
Thanks again for the reminder about the projection field too! I definitely have learned to wait for the invite in many cases, or to at least ask if others want my insight. Often, I simply share my experiences as a way to say… this is what I did. It may not work for everyone, but this is what worked for me and here’s why. I have the lax of individualism tho 😂 which is so helpful to know I really don’t have to do anything except for share the truth of my experience.
Thank you for being a sounding board for me in this moment! And for having the space here and the content to respond to 🧡
@@jlynnmenzel You are so welcome and thank you for sharing, it is fascinating to hear your perspective on these things
My experience with ppl who have a 5 in their profile is that no matter how much i try to get behind the curtains and understand them for who they are - they keep up secrets about themselves and don't seem to want to drop their masks. There is a certain self-sabotaging vibe about that behavior.
I'm a 4/6, i love to understand ppls genuine desires and needs. But being on the receiving end, accepting gifts and energy doesn’t seem natural to 5s. As if they make themselves the pressure to be always the giving and performing ones.
I'm a 5/1 and your wording might be a bit odd. What do you mean "no matter how much you try"? I think when someone tries too hard to get to know someone, it just tends not to work, regardless of profile. a 5/1 will let you in.. not by inviting you into "their personal private life" (this is not a personal but transpersonal profile) but by letting ourselves be comfortable enough to show our heretic, unusual personality while you are part of the audience, so to speak. Otherwise you're just triggering our paranoia from having to constantly deal with people idealizing us and sometimes being nosy to "know more" about us
Hi, 5/1 here. Could be also that they're avoiding the pain of the eventual other shoe drop which is almost always guaranteed. We get open and vulnerable and it gets thrown back at us in the worst way...
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I am a 5/1 emotional Generator and I really appreciate this video. I have learned to really share only when asked, a lot like a projector. I recently did the human design chart for my business and found out that it’s a projector, lol so that means I really need to wait to be invited and that has been what has worked in the business. It is very frustrating when there are no invitations, or no questions to answer. My solution has been to connect to the heart and be in my emotions and share from that truth. And the right people resonate with that.❤❤
Your video was very very helpful! Im a 3/5 splenic projector and i find myself in this situation very often; one of the topics with some 'friends' was me telling them: you are not seeing 'me' (and this sentence applies for so many situations); it is such an experience to live this 5 line. Also i have found important for myself to learn how to love people and not be attached to anyone because i never know when the coin is going to flip and all of a sudden the relationship changes. Knowing that this is our purpose, bringing this projection into others is helpful for me to not take it personally. But it can hurt; although it can also make us very wise. ❤ (Sorry english is not my first language either and i find it hard to explain myself 😆 hope it was clear)
Very interesting take on projection. I'm a 2/5 Splenic Projector, so I totally get your message.
Me 2
thanks for sharing Juliette. It's beside the point but I am baffled by your beautiful skin and your overall beauty. x
haha Thank you, I wish I could take credit for it, but truly it is just a beautification setting on Zoom that makes me look more polished and probably 20 years younger than I am :)
People do project on me that I can help them, but I feel like typically I can... until I get overwhelmed... and then I'll completely disappear until I can handle life again. (Which is also written in my chart that I'll do based on my lines, I don't remember which main gate)
Ive found being a 5/1 splenic projecter that im looked at for answers, to solve peoples problems, especially the saviour part is bang on. Then not being able to deliver the illusion they created in their head, the disappointment that follows isnt very nice 🙂 hope this helps
As a 2/5 Emotional ManiGen, it took me until I discovered HD to understand why people (Family, friends, coworkers) would love me in the beginning, then if I don't meet their expectations of me, they would treat me as if I am the most miserable person in the world. When I started researching exactly what the projection field was, ONLY then did i understand why that was. So now I try to keep my distance from people who feel like they I'm their savior, keep conversations as positive and simple as possible. I'm still learning though, just trying to live my design.
Thank you for sharing
I am a long term astrologer recently 10 years ago involved in human design I’m a 6/2 Manifestor dating a 3/5 generator
I have found that he projects on to me his own self judgement it’s frustrating for me especially when I’m just informing my needs in the relationship
You are amazing. Thank you so much for explaining the projection fields! 3/5 generator here 😊 Subscribed and excited to watch more of your videos.
Aaah thank you, you made my day x❤️
This was helpful . Someone close to me projects on me all the time and it’s hurtful . I find myself wondering how can I make it so the people I love don’t project on me ? How can I make it so it doesn’t hurt so much when it happens? I’m a 5/1 . I’m grateful for people like you who study this stuff . Seems like not everyone understands why we do read about and study this stuff but when you see it actually working in your life and clarifying things you’ve been struggling with all your life …. Well …. My ears tend to perk up lol
You're not supposed to stop people from projecting on you. It's literally your job to help the collective 🥰 if you stop, then how will they see their reflection in others? Instead be content with your way of contribution and know that it has nothing to do with you personally, learn about boundaries and you'll be fine 😊 good luck
Projections cannot be stopped, these are just mechanics in auric interactions. But you can manage your boundaries and "grow thicker skin".
In other words (more aligned), learn to see projections for what they are and try to not take them personally. It is not you they are upset with. It is all about their own hopes and disappointments. You are just a "mirror" for those feelings for them. This is why line 5 is here "for strangers" - the closed ones tend to fall into negative projections often. And once projection switched it is almost impossible to turn back, on the energetics level.
I know from my own life, the 5/1's I used to adore and then something minor happened, but I got triggered and since I cannot even make myself to look at them. It is an awful feeling, but so powerful...
5/2 mental projector. Soooo interesting but I do wish I could understand how to get my emotions under control better
Just popped into my feed. I'm a 5/1 Reflector. Interesting description about the cosmic mirror. Between profile and aura, I don't feel like people take the time to know 'me'. Though I can sense and reflect the other in a powerful way.
Thanks for doing a dive on the projection field.
I really love the way you communicated this. Thanks for the nice video!
5/1 generator. I have learned to say NO to things that don't feel like they are for me. I remind myself there are other people who can help and if I help when I don't have the ability to then I am taking away the right person's opportunity. Not everyone needs my help specifically. I would rather disappoint someone by saying no than by being the wrong person for the job.
Elon Musk is 3/5 MG... just to throw it out there.
I'm a 5/1 MG.... your asking about how often I become fascinated by people... very, very rarely. But I am fascinated by Elon.
I'm also impressed by you. I just came across you the other day, actually because of AI. I talk to AI quite a bit, and was asking something in depth about HD, and it suggested your website. I really like the high quality, royal/nobel look. The colors, fonts, design, lay out, it's all immaculate. I'm looking forward to learning more from you.
I'm a 5/2.. the 5 is just a projection, but when you have both projection lines, it's a hall of mirrors, I'm the wizard of oz basically.. wild.
Wow wow wow
I'm a 5/2 and I hate it. No one sees me and they will always blame me for things not working out the way they wanted. It misses me off. I enjoy living in hermit mode just to avoid the projections.
@@ToushiDiabloprojection field works both ways, others can't see you, but you're also projecting a lot on the world. Human Design is about one thing, which is teaching you to love yourself. The further I go, the more I embrace myself, the more I am thankful for all the things I used to hate, for all the years of suffering, even for illness, it is all harsh grace.
I am a 3/5 MG. I find my profile so challenging. I want to hide because I am tired of the expectations of people and then having to live with their disappointment. I have a feeling that no one really knows me.
I'm a 2/5 splenic projector
Very interesting. Thank you 🙏🏻 I just subscribed. Really liked your video and insights.
Would you say that when a reflector encounters a line 5 they also don't see the real person and also only see a projection?
Hi Maria, I do not think we should mix the reflector type and the projection field mechanics. We all project at line 5, whatever our energy type is. Line 5 lives in the world of projections (as well as line 2, but in a different way). And there is so many other factors, including conditioning that would affect a certain way a reflector would explore and digest their experience with line 5s in their lives, too.
@@thejuliettestapleton Thank you, Juliette 🌸
I’m also a 1/3 but my undefined centers (Solar plexus, ego, G, and head) each have only one gate activated (completely open ajna), and most of those gates are line 2 and line 5 (G has hanging 7.6 only). I decided to look into this since the undefined centers energies are going to funnel through these gates that have this projection energy. Does that mean others will project onto me through these gates? I’m already amplifying the energy through the undefined centers, but I’m then also projecting back to the person whose energy I’m amplifying? I need to reflect on this more. Thanks for sharing.
3/5 emotional generator.Im not practical at all,and as i understand it.If have solutions they fix problems not in "reality" but in individuals in one-on-one interaction most of which with strangers on the street
Heey, "practical" solutions would be more obvious when you have line 5 as a personality line, but as an expert in 3/5s (ALL my family and my best friend are 3/5s) I would say you are a freat "fixer". You look for innovative solutions. You may not consciously regard them as practical, but you are great at solving life puzzles with quick fixes.
@@thejuliettestapleton Thank you clearing that.Yes actually i do have practical innovative solutions,but i only have them.😆😆
Indeed. Human design is just a blueprint, it does not mean you follow it. We are all floating in a Not-self world ❤️
What is the blueprint marketing?
Well I'm born and raised in Texas and I still Google words that I think I know what it is. No matter how simple the word. (I'm a 3/5 SP project lol)
Etes vous réconcilier avec votre beau frère ? Vous savez que ce n est pas lui , c est le champ de projection
En tant que 5/1 c est dur d etre rejeté...