I Should Have Said This Years Ago. The Crockers Have Gone Too Far.

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  • @isaacturnerit
    @isaacturnerit Рік тому +1045

    I’m sorry you had to go thru all this. I am glad you and Ember are with me now. Cyber bullying only seems to be a rallying problem when someone gets hurt like life with Lee. If we all stand up when we see it happening even if it’s with our own friends and loved ones we can stop things before someone else gets hurt. Bullies are not allowed around me or my family nor the people that associate with them.

    • @alexfreer8892
      @alexfreer8892 Рік тому +82

      ❤. As I have said before. A wonderful human being you are.

    • @anna7118
      @anna7118 Рік тому +81

      Love to both you and Jaylena! Your love and care for Jaylena shines through the videos just as her love for you does. She needed someone like you in her life to help her find herself and not get lost again in being who another person wants her to be. I have watched her for years (through much of the time covered by the back story she shared here) and can see her growth as a person over the years and especially since she has come to Oregon.

    • @brendachristian-miller2157
      @brendachristian-miller2157 Рік тому +70

      So much respect for you and your precious family Isaac.

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 Рік тому +95

      LOOK 👀 BRO U HAVE MY RESPECT ✊🏻! Jaylena can tell ya that I was the tail end of one of his cyber bullying vids. He’s darn lucky I didn’t take him to court and sue him totally outta his pants. I even talked to my attorney about it and he said let’s see if anymore is said first. But Issac Ember is precious and I’ve saw How you treat Jaylena & Ember and bro you have my total respect ✊🏻.
      Y’all keep doing what you do you’re doing a wonderful job. U guys do your own thing & dust your shoes 👞 👠 off of them drama creators and move forward. U have my full support. Peace ✌🏻

    • @Bobslady21305
      @Bobslady21305 Рік тому +76

      ISSAC I’m so happy you n Jaylena have found each other. As many others I’m a long time viewer of Jaylena n I’ll never forget the glow from all the love from the gang at Bus Land on her bday. She was just so free n happy even after your deck broke lol. I could watch that video over and over cuz I knew she found a home and community where she was loved n respected n it was something I never saw in her before. Thank you Issac for taking care of her n helping her heal. I love you both u know I’m one of those UA-cam mama bears when it comes to u guys n hate to see anyone hurting you. Can’t wait to see the reunion video. I know how much you miss your ladies. God bless much love and respect ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @janettferrer5876
    @janettferrer5876 Рік тому +145

    Sweetheart you don’t need to explain anything… life goes on your happy, God has blessed you with a wonderful family 😇🙏💕 😊

  • @peggymcclister1478
    @peggymcclister1478 Рік тому +10

    You don't let them do that to you Jason Crocker is not worth it he is sorry excuse to be called a man

  • @smm1583
    @smm1583 Рік тому +58

    Glad you spoke up for yourself, I think a lot of people don't realize how tramatic narcissist abuse can be until they've actually experienced it for themselves. Figuring out how to heal from it is quite a process.

  • @kellysexton722
    @kellysexton722 Рік тому +72

    Team Jaylena! You have a wonderful partner and beautiful daughter. Proud of ya Jaylena!!

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro Рік тому +5

      #TEAMEMBERSPARENTS 😜💁🏼‍♀️

    • @lindamaskus5142
      @lindamaskus5142 Рік тому

      @@FRAMILY860 what are you talking about?? You are a C groupie, so pedal your crap somewhere else!

  • @kellyslifeadventures274
    @kellyslifeadventures274 Рік тому +81

    Glad you stood up for yourself Jaylena! You handled it perfectly. Safe travels back to Issac and Oregon.

  • @kimcharper9153
    @kimcharper9153 Рік тому +14

    It's a soul-shattering experience: falling for a narcissist. I'm very proud of you for getting out of it alive! ❣️
    The following quote from Edmund Burke has made me voice for myself as well as others. I hope you enjoy it...
    "The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
    You DID something about it. You are my hero today, darlin'. 😍🤩😍

  • @anniest8803
    @anniest8803 Рік тому +41

    Some of us who have been in your position suspected the issues but just didn’t have your spoken truth. Congratulations on finding your way and speaking it! That’s a difficult yet wonderful accomplishment. It’s great to see you happy & enjoying your precious baby girl. I admire you so much for how well you handled not getting down in the dirt with them. You did a great job of sharing on this video.

  • @ahernandez4216
    @ahernandez4216 Рік тому +46

    We got you girl!! Stay strong and true to yourself.
    Your integrity speaks volumes.

  • @marymcintyre3006
    @marymcintyre3006 Рік тому +65

    You go girl! I didn't stand up for myself and could recognize the narcissist in Jason when I watched that channel. You are stronger than I was (or still am). Congratulations to you on your strength, and precious Ember and the life you're making with Isaac.

  • @pkfam6275
    @pkfam6275 Рік тому +12

    Jaylena Honey, I am an old lady (65ish). You are an amazing young lady. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NEVER SIGN THOSE PAPERS!
    I really messed up with my ex. (Lost $500,000) because he threatened me with all kinds of things. So I did . I have regretted it every day. Please don't give him any help acquiring ya'lls property. It's NOT his it belongs to you as well as him. Don't give him what YOUR children are a part of. (because of you) . Hang in there Sweetheart. You got this. I support you just as I would my own daughter.🤗

  • @davetate2932
    @davetate2932 Рік тому +16

    So proud of you for finally stepping up to show the truth and that you were not the blame GOD BLESS YOU GIRL

  • @loufarbus2330
    @loufarbus2330 Рік тому +190

    Good for you sister. You have class and integrity and nothing to explain yourself for. Those of us who watched you on your original channel saw it all for ourselves. You've blossomed since you removed yourself from that toxicity and I for one applaud you for having the strength to do it.

    • @territn8871
      @territn8871 Рік тому +13

      Amen! I do too. And Jaylena is a stronger woman now. I'm so proud of her for the life she's built with a great man that loves her! And the two of them are so in love with each other that they were blessed with a beautiful baby daughter! Their love for each other gets stronger every day!

    • @bryansloesshillshomestead4523
      @bryansloesshillshomestead4523 Рік тому +7

      Lou Farbus, those of us who watched the original channel have definitely seen it first hand. This girl has nothing to explain for herself as you said. I couldn't have said it any better myself. I hope she lets this pass and understands that people know with out being told as you and I both did.

    • @brenda9140
      @brenda9140 Рік тому +8

      The fact that she can talk about it if she wants, without getting bent out of shape, is a big sign that she is emotionally healing. But it is nice that you care, Bryan.

    • @carolschober8028
      @carolschober8028 Рік тому +1

      @@bryansloesshillshomestead4523 Very tried ❤

  • @celestialrvliving
    @celestialrvliving Рік тому +92

    You’re right, and I was so glad to see you escape that situation/relationship. Your life today is a world of difference. Blessings

  • @sherryhowell9156
    @sherryhowell9156 Рік тому +15

    So sorry your past is haunting you. I unsubscribed from all the Crockers probably 2years or more ago. Got tired of the bad mouthing and rudeness to their followers and certain UA-cam's. You have a good relationship and lovely daughter. Be proud of yourself for turning yourself around. Good luck and ignore the Crockers.

  • @susanknight8961
    @susanknight8961 Рік тому +21

    It’s been along time since I watched you. I’m so proud of you. I believe you and I’m so glad you stood up. I always had a feeling that that’s abuse was going on. It’s nice to see you happy. God bless

  • @hillbillyvagabond1011
    @hillbillyvagabond1011 Рік тому +105

    I watched them before you left because of you. You have my 100% support love and prayers!! I am so very glad you were able to get out of that situation. Give sweet Ember all the love

    • @karenminckler4198
      @karenminckler4198 Рік тому +11

      Agree and I will continue to follow her. I am so happy she found a wonderful man that treats her really good. And they have a beautiful little girl.

    • @kerry17
      @kerry17 Рік тому +6

      Same here. I've watched Jaylena about the time she wanted her bed and I've been following her since and I couldn't be more proud for her than now. Jaylena you are such a beautiful gorgeous woman and soul. I'm happy for you my ladybug. Stay cool. Love ya. Later gator

    • @usagirl4188
      @usagirl4188 Рік тому +1

      @@kerry17 Kerry that video of her wanting her bed was so so bad . Shows the extreme measures they will go to .

  • @rrhutching
    @rrhutching Рік тому +48

    I have not watched their last videos about being mad at each other, I feel family drama should be kept off public forums. I am done with their channels. You are so real and we love you guys and you are blessed in your relationship now! Love you and Issac and that precious baby Ember.

  • @MsVC-cs8ks
    @MsVC-cs8ks Рік тому +34

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I'm so glad that you found the strength to get out of that situation and stand up for yourself.
    As you stated, all of that led you to fulfill at least one of your dreams and create this wonderful family. Three cheers for Isaac, that you were able to draw in and allow love into your life is a blessing.
    Stay strong Jaylena, and God bless.

  • @melonie9605
    @melonie9605 Рік тому +26

    You don't owe him any favors. You don't owe your subscribers an explanation either. You've held your head high through all of this, and haven't stooped to their level. But be proud that you've said your peace and stood up for yourself, and have moved on. ❤️

  • @catieandthebopeeps
    @catieandthebopeeps Рік тому +184

    Much love Jaylena! ❤ Your vibration is just so high and so beautiful - I’m so glad you were able to escape a toxic environment.

  • @peteletko9416
    @peteletko9416 Рік тому +14

    I watched how he treated Dutch, the Sawyers, Kevin @Hidden Heights Farms. He USED THEM ! He's a case for a Couch a Psychopath ! Thank God I NEVER SENT MONEY ! Canceled them LONG AGO !

  • @markholmes1346
    @markholmes1346 Рік тому +15

    I remember when you were in that place! You look so much better and you are shining now, I’m happy for you and your family! ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @katefinnegan8129
    @katefinnegan8129 Рік тому +22

    Wow Jaylena. I didn’t know you went through all of that. I’m sure what you said was only the tip of the iceberg. Stay strong girl. You have a great man now. Keep loving your little family and don’t look back. You deserve nothing but the best in life. I’ll keep you in my prayers.

  • @terajarvie4368
    @terajarvie4368 Рік тому +97

    Everything I've seen from just the time of you from when you had your van. I'm very thankful that you are still here with us and that you have shared your climb up this mountain with us.
    Your true followers that have been with you on this journey, can tell how genuine you are and how strong of a spirit you have in you.
    With or without a UA-cam you would and are an absolute astounding person. Keep that fire in you woman and stay and grow as the good woman that you are. 💞🌞🥰🌻🌈 I love how beautiful your life is turning out. We are here for you!!!! 🌞🌈🌻🥰 And I thank God has got you to where you are right now in your life, and may God continue to bless you and yours. 💞

  • @AR-dm7ze
    @AR-dm7ze Рік тому +57

    Jaylena, I went through exactly what you described here and reacted to it the very same way that you did (trying to make it work and same attitude about divorce etc.). I even learned something about myself from listening to your message. Smile, breathe, love and continue to heal. I listen to videos on healing from a toxic marriage. He passed away since we split and it doesn't bring the healing that you would think it might. I stay alone (no relationship) because The Peace and my health are so valuable. I'm so happy that you found your new way and happiness. Continue to smile more every day and be blessed.

    • @connierifenburg9758
      @connierifenburg9758 Рік тому +5

      A R See my post, it is like your story and Jaylena’s story. I reacted like you and she has by staying away from toxic people. I never remarried (married @18 divorced at 21) and I remain alone now at 71. I hope your story ends more like Jaylena’s.

  • @michellecrowley9537
    @michellecrowley9537 Рік тому +8

    You’re a very strong woman Jaylena, never forget that! In fact, to survive the abuse of a narcissist, we are actually the strongest of the strong. Keep on living your life for your daughter and yourself, everyone else second. ❤💪🏼

  • @joshuatetreault4730
    @joshuatetreault4730 Рік тому +4

    A narcissist CAN show empathy. They just can’t show empathy when THEY are the reason for your pain.

  • @ilenepayne
    @ilenepayne Рік тому +29

    Yes Girl! Speak out LOUD AND PROUD. You have come a long way. The strong mama bear that you are. You are on a greater journey way past that drama. More blessings and love to you and your beautiful family! 🫶🏽💜🫶🏽

  • @CustomPortraitArtist
    @CustomPortraitArtist Рік тому +109

    Jaylena, thank you for posting this! ❤ I’m so glad to hear your truth! You go girl! You’re right about the common denominator. The list of people he has offended, abused and defamed is long! Thank you for being a voice of truth. The list needs to stop!

    • @mszbdog1
      @mszbdog1 Рік тому +1

      Agree. They make me SICK!!!
      I believe they completely screwed over Dutch.

    • @bebs428dlj9
      @bebs428dlj9 Рік тому +2

      Her “truth” operative word

    • @CustomPortraitArtist
      @CustomPortraitArtist Рік тому +13

      @@bebs428dlj9 history proves a lot about him and jaylena’s ‘truth’ is proven to be more of the truth then his story or bubbas story. That family is severely deranged!

    • @CustomPortraitArtist
      @CustomPortraitArtist Рік тому +16

      FYI - I was the person that ruffled his feathers telling him he’s an ‘I’ Guy. This makes me chuckle that it apparently bothered him soooo much because he made a video about me calling him out as an ‘I’ Guy…. He knows it’s the truth and that hurts him.

    • @catherinegrace2366
      @catherinegrace2366 Рік тому

      @@CustomPortraitArtist he’s a bozo. I’m glad you got under his skin. 😂

  • @SamanthaROlmsted
    @SamanthaROlmsted Рік тому +162

    Ugh I can’t believe you are still having to deal with this so many years later! I’m so happy to have met you and to call you such a good friend! ❤ I’ve watched you grow and move on so beautifully and build such a wonderful life that is something to be truly proud of ❤

    • @LeaveHerWild
      @LeaveHerWild  Рік тому +54

      You came into my life at such a pivotal time and I don’t think that was a coincidence. So grateful for our friendship ❤️

    • @peggsargent132
      @peggsargent132 Рік тому +12

      Amen

    • @chengcalaycay5054
      @chengcalaycay5054 Рік тому +14

      Huge respect for the friendship you and Jaylena have. I love you guys. ❤️🙏

    • @simplymeconnie4003
      @simplymeconnie4003 Рік тому +28

      I know why. Jaylena is truly happy, a Mom, living her best life. Narcissists don't like people being happy.

    • @usagirl4188
      @usagirl4188 Рік тому +13

      A BIG AMEN

  • @cinandrews
    @cinandrews Рік тому +48

    Get a lawyer, settle the property, cut that last tie, and never look back. I have been with you all from the beginning. I watched you break free and start to heal and have a wonderful family. Keep on moving forward girl. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are smart. You are empowered.❤️

    • @darlaballenger2357
      @darlaballenger2357 Рік тому +5

      ❤️❤️❤️ 💪💪💪 keep healing but do cut that last tie.

    • @Sessionsjc
      @Sessionsjc Рік тому +8

      Agree. The fact that he's willing to pay her makes me think he's trying to trick her into signing property rights away. I'd lawyer up and have them review the divorce settlement around the property ownership and sale.

    • @jgjg3848
      @jgjg3848 Рік тому +8

      @@Sessionsjc Yep, offering $5k to not have to drive to Texas? I smell a fraudulent liar.

    • @hattiebailey9464
      @hattiebailey9464 Рік тому +2

      Yes, you are smart,!!!

  • @charlotteb6808
    @charlotteb6808 Рік тому +37

    Stand tall Jaylena! Wonderfully said about the past and how you are healing from it. Stay close and keep building what you have with Issac and Ember you are heading into a wonderful life filled with love and adventure. Just what you were made for! Stay strong

  • @sidneywaddell7765
    @sidneywaddell7765 Рік тому +107

    Jaylena I hate to say this but I always thought you looked unhappy on the Crockers. You and your little family make me smile. You can see the respect you and Isaac have for each other. I’m in subscribing the Crockers right now! It’s been weird watching them any way! They do act very fake! Live your life forward and try not to pay attention to the past! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tonyahenry5158
      @tonyahenry5158 Рік тому +2

      I'm happy your in a better place

    • @josephknowles5114
      @josephknowles5114 Рік тому +7

      Your a brave and beautiful soul,why explain when it is quiet obvious what they are,the trail they leave behind them is the bigger proof.

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th Рік тому

      Are you simple or what all you tubers are money beggars to worthless and incompetent to get a real job.

    • @evelynholmes7105
      @evelynholmes7105 Рік тому +3

      My thoughts too it's like they are acting

  • @timwooddell3692
    @timwooddell3692 Рік тому +17

    You go girl, I applaud you for your courage and opening up about what you endured.
    It's true, things happen for a reason and that's why you're where you are today.
    I'm proud of the strong level headed person you've become and for standing up for yourself.

  • @serendipitybuslife
    @serendipitybuslife Рік тому +7

    Thanks for telling your story, it really shows how much you’ve grown and learned from the experience. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and I’m so glad you have the inner strength to shine your light for the world brighter than ever! Heal it to feel it

  • @brendahaire8824
    @brendahaire8824 Рік тому +27

    Glad that you have a peace of mind now and you have a beautiful little family

  • @pannis72
    @pannis72 Рік тому +55

    I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself. Things happen for a reason and God sent Issac to you. You deserve the BEST Jaylena❤

  • @lacycooper417
    @lacycooper417 Рік тому +6

    Jaylena, I'm so happy you got away from that liar. Don't back down on the property in Texas. You worked your ass off. Love you sweet girl ❤️ Keep your head up.

  • @debraholmes-swearinger2447
    @debraholmes-swearinger2447 Рік тому +43

    Good for you Jaylena, it's great to see you stick up for yourself. You do have to get to the point of protecting yourself. Many of us just went along with those narcissistic ex's to just get by. Bullying has to be stopped. Unanswered prayers are Gods way of protecting us. Have a wonderful life with Issac and Ember and teach her from a young age to always avoid people like that.

  • @shelleymccrory-martines9906
    @shelleymccrory-martines9906 Рік тому +54

    Hi Jaylena. As you know I’ve been following you since Terrell in the camper trailer. After all you went through…You did the right thing years ago by getting out. I supported you then and still do now. Your life now with your family is the Happiest you have ever been and it shows. I am Excited to continue on yours, Isaac and Embers journey in life. Always Stay Positive and Happy.
    Much Love ❤️ from Dallas

  • @thruanaquarianseyes8187
    @thruanaquarianseyes8187 Рік тому +32

    Healing is allowing the tears to fall as the memory energies are purged out. By the end I saw your eyes Sparkle you released a big load by saying and standing in your TRUTHS. Bless you Jalena and your beautiful family you and Isaac have created. LEAVE HER WILD. Live Long and Prosper
    From Australia 💛💜💙💚💛🧡❤️

  • @karenball9482
    @karenball9482 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for being so real. I unsubscribe when I feel the negativity and didn't feel things were open. You have made me understand how I feel. I see that negativity is bullying and for whatever reason this old woman didn't put that together until now.

  • @caramc5013
    @caramc5013 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for taking the time to explain things. I am glad to see you doing well. It's tough to get past the damage an abusive situation can create. Hang in there. Don't ever let it destroy or get in the way of what you have now. God Bless and keep you safe.

  • @donnavanfossen7146
    @donnavanfossen7146 Рік тому +16

    Watched your video and both the Crockers. Thank you for your grace and truth. So happy you have come through the storm and found yourself. Never give up. You have given me the strength to make changes in my own situation. God Bless you and yours.

  • @sharivanpelt5188
    @sharivanpelt5188 Рік тому +67

    I wondered how long it would take to get to you. I'm so proud of you for getting away from him when you did!

  • @shirlymullis1699
    @shirlymullis1699 Рік тому +8

    Your talking about how Jason is with animals, he's letting a bunch of the animals they have die off and all he says is oh well it's a working farm and animals die!!! They leave them there without food and water since Jarod has left. Some have said they were going to call animal humane society on him. You could verify this cruelty. Glad for you that you had the sanity to have run for the hills. You have a Beautiful family now, Treasure it.

  • @julih2674
    @julih2674 Рік тому +27

    I watched long before the ranch. I saw a change in your eyes there. Like you were smothering. The morning journal you tried, the little decorations… Saw it all taken over. Then, followed your journey, remodels, art - your van travels… to Issac and now Ember. Sweetie, you have become an amazing woman, mother … so proud. You keep takin the high road, you’ll be good. I will soon be 70 been thru a lot. Proud of you.

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th Рік тому

      Really 70 and you are going to praise a child raising a child in a bus on welfare.

    • @julih2674
      @julih2674 Рік тому +3

      @@Arthur-vv8th Yes. I prefer to see good in people who try to better their situation and not be bitter and judgmental.

  • @wendyjo9267
    @wendyjo9267 Рік тому +37

    So proud of and happy for you! I found you thru the other channel. I stopped watching when you left because I could see what he was. I was married to someone like that for over 20 years. The damage caused is incredibly painful. Love that you’re healing and putting yourself first such a strong woman you are!❤.

  • @SonomaMom2
    @SonomaMom2 Рік тому +92

    And one more thing Jaylena….DO NOT walk away from that property unless you get a portion of the proceeds. He needs to PAY you for your equity! He is trying to take what’s yours. He owes you, big time! Stand firm for your family!

    • @jgarcia7092
      @jgarcia7092 Рік тому +30

      I agree a thousand percent jaylena don't let them steal more from you than they already have. Even if you take that money and just put it in a savings for Ember's future. Or donate it to a battered women's shelter. Make them pay🤑🤑🤑

    • @GoodStuffForeverMore
      @GoodStuffForeverMore Рік тому +14

      Totally agree! Get what you were owed Jaylena.

    • @crystalQHHT
      @crystalQHHT Рік тому +7

      I agree with this!!!

    • @jgarcia7092
      @jgarcia7092 Рік тому +22

      @@chava2421 did you listen to the video she thought there was a hope of reconciliation. Because he played her like a fiddle. And it wasn't about money considering she signed away everything on her divorce. She left with nothing. Go to the ex's channel and ask him why he didn't just pay for a divorce lawyer oh wait it's because HE did it himself cuz he thought he knew everything. Well it turns out he didn't know and it's his fault that she needs to sign. And if you would listen HE told her she didn't need her to sign and she was okay with it she said fine go do it yourself. He was the one that offered her a low ball amount. Because he knew 1. she needs to sign it. And 2. he knows she is entitled to some money. And if he's offering her three or five grand your darn straight it's a lot more than that. It's pretty obvious he's trying to swindle her out of money she's rightfully due.

    • @SonomaMom2
      @SonomaMom2 Рік тому +11

      @@chava2421 She went back because he asked her too…. After Melissa left him. Remember?

  • @sharonbyrd4322
    @sharonbyrd4322 Рік тому +10

    I’ve watched you since the ranch in Texas. I’m sorry you had to deal with all this. But, very proud of you for stepping up and shedding light on things. Most of us knew some but I for one definitely wasn’t expecting what you shared.
    Keep your head up and be proud of who you are! God Bless you and your family.

  • @shirleygibson3272
    @shirleygibson3272 Рік тому +35

    Much love and respect for you,so proud of you for standing up for yourself. You’re a beautiful person inside and out. Big hugs my friend. ❤😊

  • @debrafelix4419
    @debrafelix4419 Рік тому +20

    Jaylena I'm proud of you your a lot happier God bless you always and safe travels 🙏❤️🥰🥰🥰

  • @jent1437
    @jent1437 Рік тому +42

    I used to watch you on that channel and omg the difference in you now, you seem alive, your eyes are shining and the smile u have now is just fantastic, please don’t sign anything without an attorney, but please get what you deserve, don’t let him take anything else from you like he did for years, now is the time to stand up to this bully, much love to u and your little family from uk 🇬🇧

  • @karenthegoodkind
    @karenthegoodkind Рік тому +5

    Good for you Jaylena! God bless you, Isaac and Ember.

  • @dianesisneros8811
    @dianesisneros8811 Рік тому +17

    Love you Jaylena. Praying for complete healing in your life.

  • @jeannettaboyden2298
    @jeannettaboyden2298 Рік тому +43

    Jaylena.... I am so proud of you. When you went to Oklahoma just before buying the van.... I wrote a scathing comment in great detail about Jason. I so admired your willingness to take the high road during that time. I've literally watched you re-create a new life for yourself and I love what has happened because of it. You have ever right to be proud of yourself for purging such pain from the life you had with Jason. It has been obvious that both he and Jared have seriously unhealed wounds that they project their pain on others. I hope this is Jared's and Danielle's wake up call to do as you have done.

  • @georgiamcentyre1000
    @georgiamcentyre1000 Рік тому +3

    Love you!! Your a beautiful soul, a beautiful mom, a beautiful friend! People that are empty on the inside want to suffocate your shine and your light to make themselves feel whole…your living your truth and that’s all that matters

  • @fiona8452
    @fiona8452 Рік тому +10

    WELL DONE JAYLENA ❤ WE LOVE YOUR LITTLE FAMILY 🙏🏻✌🏼💚 Thank the good lord you and Isaac found each other ❤

  • @SSrominRuby
    @SSrominRuby Рік тому +17

    I have watched you for a long time. So glad you are finally standing up for yourself. ❤️❤️

  • @wandahenry3062SliceofPEI
    @wandahenry3062SliceofPEI Рік тому +15

    Hugs Jaylena You are a strong woman You Deserve the truth to be out there You are Free From the chaos and bullying . I’m happy for you And Isaac and Ember keep keeping on Live your Best Life The Rest of your Life You are a beautiful soul 🥰

  • @colleenrumsey9348
    @colleenrumsey9348 Рік тому +11

    I quit watching them because I could see that they had to many problems with other you tubers. And I believe it was Jason running other people down. Not the other way around. I'm glad you are speaking up and confirming my thoughts on this matter. Thank you.

  • @sunshinesisterofsass9550
    @sunshinesisterofsass9550 Рік тому +8

    Standing up for the right thing is many times very difficult! Proud of your strength

  • @elenalemanski155
    @elenalemanski155 Рік тому +24

    For you to finally speak your truth makes me so happy! The day you finally left him I was praising you behind the scenes.
    You have grown so much and you and Isaac are meant to be! He’s a great guy and you made a beautiful little girl from this blessing! ❤️

  • @paula...sister1of12
    @paula...sister1of12 Рік тому +39

    Wow this brought tears to my eyes. Anyone that has been through this knows what you are talking about. They make you feel worthless. I knew when I watched you back then that you were emotionally abused. I lived it or twenty years. I am so happy you have moved on and have Issac and Ember. God bless and always stand up for yourself even when other people don’t like it.

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 Рік тому +3

      💯 I noticed the little things as well. I’ve been there. What I didn’t notice in the beginning of my last relationship I know notice instantly.

  • @morethanmeetstheeye1355
    @morethanmeetstheeye1355 Рік тому +6

    Your video popped up in my feed in a random way.
    Your message is powerful and may help other women take back their own power.
    When I was very young …23… I left my abusive spouse. Verbally, emotionally, digs, blaming me for his behaviors “look what you made me do!”, “why can’t you do anything right ?!”
    I, too, stayed. Then left, then went back “bc I had made a vow before god”.
    Nothing ever changed. I was stuck, in what happens all too often, the space of “but I luvvvvv him”.
    Shortening this, I left when my boys were 25 and 9 mos old respectively .
    They are now grown men and, thankfully, have no memories of those two long and frenetic years.
    I’m very glad your video appeared in my feed!
    Many have left their stories here; hopefully our messages reach you and raise you up.

  • @NinthElement
    @NinthElement Рік тому +37

    Let go and let the LOVE flow in. You have a beautiful life and a wonderful family that cares so much about you, Ember and Isaac. I am proud of you for standing up for yourself. Much love and respect. Cheers!

  • @darlenemiller6856
    @darlenemiller6856 Рік тому +122

    I have been watching you since you were with Jason. I quit watching him when you left. I disliked the way you were treated by them. It was really obvious that it was a toxic situation for you. Leaving was the best thing you could have done for you.
    I have watched you grow and become stronger since you moved to Oregon. I love watching you, Isaac, and Ember. You are a beautiful, strong, hard working person. Keep up what you are doing. ❤

    • @caroldalrymple6421
      @caroldalrymple6421 Рік тому +15

      That's when I stopped watching too. I only watch Jaylena

    • @debbietorres9661
      @debbietorres9661 Рік тому +16

      Me, too! He was very cruel by what he said on the video about your leaving and his brother crossed the line by attacking each and every comment that were truthful about how mean he was. Both brothers acted horribly. My opinion is they only acted better to fool people into supporting their videos. You have moved on and have a better life and there is no valid reason for them to ever mention you again.

    • @mollydolly869
      @mollydolly869 Рік тому +9

      Darlene…you saved me a lot of typing. Was gonna say the same thing. Unsubbed those guys before the divorce because I saw how Jaylena was treated. Love seeing her blessed with a family, growth, and strength.

    • @catherinegrace2366
      @catherinegrace2366 Рік тому +5

      ✋🏻 Same! I’m throwing my name in this as well.

    • @jeanmariesayre1378
      @jeanmariesayre1378 Рік тому +2

      Toxic is the right term and you go girl you chose the high road and it looks good on you

  • @myrnaedmisten599
    @myrnaedmisten599 Рік тому +20

    Oh Jaylena, After this telling of your story I hope you can turn completely toward your wonderful new life with Isaac and Baby Ember and let all this sickness reap its rewards. I think you are very brave. You have a wisdom that only comes through living through hard things and I do hope this will be the end of giving that any headspace. Blessings on you. ❤️

  • @sandim7315
    @sandim7315 Рік тому +3

    I’m so glad you’re strong enough to defend yourself! You are loved and highly respected. Our household loves watching you because you’re an inspiration & such a positive light in this world. Sending you lots of love & prayers of protection from anyone who comes against you💗

  • @DavidSSmith-bk6vv
    @DavidSSmith-bk6vv Рік тому +21

    Thank you for making this video, it explains so much and I have been a fan of both channels since you were in Texas and when Jason first went to Oklahoma. Glad to know your doing well and this channel proves you do have what it takes to make it. Best Wishes to you and yours.

    • @bendaves77
      @bendaves77 Рік тому

      I wouldn't watch another one of Jason's videos ever. Doing so your giving money to a pos

  • @retrieversrock8797
    @retrieversrock8797 Рік тому +15

    You rock the free world! Life lessons are so hard but you do come out the other side. Put the lesson in your tool box and that is how you become wiser as you get older. Here is my favorite quote for you, "There’s a reason the rear view mirror is so small and the windshield is so large. Where you’re headed is more important than where you’ve been." 💗💗💗 Much love....

  • @sharonc.cooper9367
    @sharonc.cooper9367 Рік тому +21

    I'm very proud of you Jaylena and you have such a better life now. Stay strong girl.

  • @jaylenefry36
    @jaylenefry36 Рік тому +6

    I'm proud of you Jaylena, you're such an intelligent, lovely, beautiful woman!!! Kudos to you 😘😘😘❤❤❤

  • @jeanner62901
    @jeanner62901 Рік тому +1

    God Bless You! Thank you for sharing!

  • @sinbads.4189
    @sinbads.4189 Рік тому +17

    Oh, Jaylena! I just can't help but see with every video you share what a grand door the good Lord opened for you. You have Issac and Ember and the freedom to do anything your heart desires. Talk about blessings, galore 🙂 I think God did indeed answer your prayers. He knew then and knows now what is best for you. God bless you ☺️

  • @jonnaguinn-brandt5197
    @jonnaguinn-brandt5197 Рік тому +13

    Girl, your growth is beautiful. Speaking your truth, equals healing. Keep shining

  • @betty6229
    @betty6229 Рік тому +5

    Thank God for new chapter, new day, a new life, and happiness that comes.
    Heard when one door closes another one opens. Just in time, congratulations 🎊

  • @elizza716
    @elizza716 Рік тому +64

    Thank you for speaking up and for apologizing to Dutch (and others)! SO many people helped Jason and he crapped all over them. I commented on Jason’s video when he sold his original OK property and talked about how he was finally happy and sorry that he hadn’t been the nicest to the OK people, that if he was truly trying to mend fences he should give some of the profits to Dutch and Bo. He talks a good game but you never see any action. Just like now when he says he’s paid Jared and everything is fine and then Jared comes back and says he’s only seen a portion of the money and doesn’t expect to see any more. YOU and Jared (and others) need to speak out about Jason and let people know the truth! Dutch, Hidden Heights, The Sawyers and others just say things like “we agree to disagree” or “we just aren’t friends” and never tell what jason is REALLY like. He needs to be exposed! I’m sure that things with Danielle will turn sour at some point and Jason will blame it on her or others just he’s done with everyone else. SOOOO glad you are out of that and happy! SO glad you didn’t have kids with him…you infertility issues, at the time, were truly a blessing from God!❤

    • @gailmaree7719
      @gailmaree7719 Рік тому +16

      Danielle is the female version of Jason. She enables him and covers for his lies.

    • @T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan
      @T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan Рік тому +20

      Danielle is already starting to show that things are not going well. She's physically changed so much already from the stress. She has the same look in her eyes that our Jaylena had in her's during the last yrs with Jason. So thankful Jaylena got away. Hopefully Dan will save herself too.

    • @simplycrochet1430
      @simplycrochet1430 Рік тому +10

      @@T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan 100% Agree. Danielle is not the same girl. Pray that wedding / children don’t ever happen. Jason’s parents or brothers aren’t even talking to him. He needs to stop lying about everything and airing on YT. I agree with what Jaylena said, Jason is all about YT content. So hope Danielle is up to that for years to come.

    • @margiebrown7436
      @margiebrown7436 Рік тому +13

      Yes, after the community thing I predicted the split between brothers, I also believe that his girlfriend will be the next and yes… he will blame it on her.

    • @Bobslady21305
      @Bobslady21305 Рік тому +4

      @@T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan
      Yes I can c a change in her n Jason is making more n more digs towards her just like he did to Jaylena but u know he’s “JK”. I would feel sorry for her except 1st cuz even after Jaylena made this video they BOTH made Jaylena look bad n I was like B*TCH u don’t even know her why r u in her business n 2nd it’s not like pple didn’t warn her. I was invited to Gratis Cosas Ranch UA-cam channel n they all call out the BS. Even blamed a member for vandalizing the rain catchment water tote instead of taking responsibility for building it poorly. The lies just never end 😞

  • @aprilcoulter-latorre6913
    @aprilcoulter-latorre6913 Рік тому +63

    YOU are a Queen. I saw Jason’s video before yours and he’s an expert narcissistic. Isn’t it amazing and wonderful where you are in your life now! Girl, you’ve got this! Love is on every point of your star! Shine and shine and shine! ❤

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th Рік тому

      Sorry queens don't raise children in a bus on welfare, because their unemployable.

  • @jennibluesky1652
    @jennibluesky1652 Рік тому +11

    Jaylena, what an intelligent strong woman you have become. We live and learn from our experiences, thank God you did learn and moved on! You are an amazing Mom and God bless you three beautiful souls! 🥰😇

  • @MarySmith-dh4ly
    @MarySmith-dh4ly Рік тому +5

    I'm so happy for you to be able to recognize what was done to you. Healing does take time.
    So happy you have your little family life now.
    Love, Peace and Happiness! ❤️

  • @debbiehadden4241
    @debbiehadden4241 Рік тому +2

    Prayers for you to stay strong and don’t allow anyone to control you or bully you, bless you

  • @bossgrandma3487
    @bossgrandma3487 Рік тому +61

    yea for you!! As a very old lady who has been around that corner a few times I know what you are speaking about and you are a wonderful mom and you are healing. What you are doing right now, speaking out, It is important for your well being . Much respect sister.

    • @ruthfore8249
      @ruthfore8249 Рік тому +3

      Amen, good vibes!! Bless you boss Grammy

    • @donnalutheran6335
      @donnalutheran6335 Рік тому +2

      I'm a grandma too . The good Lord spared me from some of the hurts she is going through. I'd like to get my arms around her and give her a great big grandma hug.

  • @HughMadBro
    @HughMadBro Рік тому +82

    Praying for you & your family ❤️ Ember is your greatest blessing! Idk why they keep dragging you into their stuff, you've moved on long ago & walked away with grace. Live your truth baby girl, you got this :D
    & we got you, Ember & Issac regardless!
    & I want to edit in for those of you just viewing & not commenting because these comments are watched & you may be here to watch, look at whom the common denominator is 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @juniperwildflowers
    @juniperwildflowers Рік тому +24

    Never blame yourself for someone else's behavior, especially when you were stuck in an abusive situation. This sounds exactly like what my own family did to me. I wish I could go back and stop them, but the truth is, we did the best we could with what we knew and what we had at the time. It's so wonderful you got out and I hope you get nothing but peace from now on!

  • @jrreed3360
    @jrreed3360 Рік тому +13

    I wish I could give this video 1,000,000,000 thumbs up! Hats off to you. hopefully he has changed for his new relationship but as a father of three daughters I don't think guys like that change. Glad you made it out and been so blessed with Isaac an the BABY GIRL!

  • @dawnafletcher3028
    @dawnafletcher3028 Рік тому +12

    I never seen you so happy since you left that situation and you started healing and discovering your true self.

  • @ruthfore8249
    @ruthfore8249 Рік тому +19

    I am so very proud of you for all standing up for yourself!!!! You know what I think of you!! You are my sweet girl ❤️ I cried with you but am so happy you answered to the accusations!!!

  • @m.g.nichols9057
    @m.g.nichols9057 Рік тому +7

    My heart goes out to you. You deserve peace and happiness.

  • @avenstrand8432
    @avenstrand8432 Рік тому +1

    Bless you, so proud of your strength and courage--spread your wings and fly -- keeping you in my prayers ❤️

  • @chrissnyder5584
    @chrissnyder5584 Рік тому +77

    Much love and empathy to you, Jaylena. I was married to a narcissistic, drug addicted, pathological liar who ultimately kick me and my daughter out of the house so he could move in his 15 year old girlfriend, who happened to be my daughter's babysitter. 25 years later, I'm still healing. Thank God for unanswered prayers, indeed. I am married to the most incredible man now. So glad you are on that path.

    • @lovetruthgardeninghomeopath
      @lovetruthgardeninghomeopath Рік тому +6

      Most of us seem to have a Jerry Springer type of story. We live in some messed up times, that's for sure. Or maybe people have always been severely messed up, we just have a higher level of consciousness these days. 🤷‍♀️
      God bless you in your happier and healthier marriage! 🙏💗✌️

  • @genevievegreene1595
    @genevievegreene1595 Рік тому +25

    Good for you standing up and speaking up for yourself.
    I don't watch any of their videos either.
    None of that mud can ever stick to you no matter how hard they drag.
    Have a safe trip back to Oregon and Isaac. He will think Ember has got so big that he wants to go along on the next trip.

  • @csmladybug2409
    @csmladybug2409 Рік тому +6

    Congratulations! You did the right thing and are on the road to recovery. I wish you well, my prayers are with you and your family.💖. You are a class act! And......... your baby is beautiful!

  • @celiadunigan3186
    @celiadunigan3186 Рік тому +2

    I'm sorry you went through that. Stay strong and I'm sending prayers for you and your family.

  • @LindaLesto
    @LindaLesto Рік тому +119

    You never need to explain yourself Jaylena, I am soooo sorry they are putting you through this- you are strong and beautiful and such an incredible Mother- I admire you and Issac and all you are accomplishing - I also admire that you are apologizing to the people who may have been hurt while you were with this POS- I think you are a wonderful UA-camr because you are genuine, loving, brave and honest ❤

  • @casaducos
    @casaducos Рік тому +7

    As a person with a million lawyers -
    Speak with him through lawyers let your lawyer handle it - open your bus let that air out and forget him

  • @anneamcgrath
    @anneamcgrath Рік тому +2

    Such a great job, Jaylena, your healing, your wonderful family. Your testimony is full of integrity. You are a very good soul, twill never change. Respect! Dust it off now and continue down your beautiful road. 🌺🌸🌷

  • @dordanitz4607
    @dordanitz4607 Рік тому +2

    So glad you spoke out your truth.... stopped watching him a long time ago... clearly something was not right

  • @gaylerichards7409
    @gaylerichards7409 Рік тому +19

    Jaylena, thank you for being so brave and putting this video out. I have always admired you and will continue to. I used to see the sadness in your eyes before but now know you and your new life are going the right way. Bless you, Ember and Isaac.