Brijet & Andre: Abstinence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder | Family or Fiance S3 E5 | Full Episode | OWN

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  • Brijet and Andre may live thousands of miles apart, but after three months of dating, they are ready to get married. However, Brijet's family feel that they don't even know her anymore and worry she has lost herself, and her values in this relationship. (Original air date: October 8, 2022)
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  • @khantsemahlatsi9175
    @khantsemahlatsi9175 21 день тому +362

    I wish Iyanla was there to tell her family off, they were vile.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 21 день тому +12

      Yeeeesss!!

    • @getjazzywithkeisha9993
      @getjazzywithkeisha9993 19 днів тому +1

      Yess!

    • @22221mm
      @22221mm 19 днів тому +4

      That would be amazinggg. Iylana showing up just in the right moment.

    • @ah4038
      @ah4038 19 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @latishahenderson1622
      @latishahenderson1622 18 днів тому +15

      She would have said to that the mother that she was Out Of Order!!!!

  • @bridgettemurray1518
    @bridgettemurray1518 21 день тому +1024

    Brijet family acts like they’re perfect. They’re truly controlling.

    • @missprizzy1
      @missprizzy1 21 день тому +37

      Annoying AF and hella dramatic

    • @AprilHubbert
      @AprilHubbert 21 день тому +19

      Horrible. I was trying to see but did the sister have a ring on? She mentioned children

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 21 день тому +18

      They are controlling and mentally and emotionally abusive. Shes going to have to choose and unfortunately it’s not going to be her family. And I think that would be what’s best for her. I hope she moved with her husband

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 21 день тому +9

      @@AprilHubbertshe need but she never said anything about a husband. I think she’s jealous of her sister. I’m only saying this based off experience because my sister is jealous of me. For example she’s in a relationship with an ex that I gave my virginity to. She’s also jealous of my sorry bd. Example he was buying me shoes as a surprise he was with her and she picked out the UGLIEST pair of tennis shoes. They didn’t even have shoestring’s. I’m 42 now I was in my early 30’s then. I love her with all my heart we are best friends at this point but I hope she deals with that issue of hers with god. I’m not in competition with anyone because I know I’m highly favored by god. So I get attacked emotionally by my family. I just pray about it and moved on

    • @missprizzy1
      @missprizzy1 21 день тому +16

      @@Passion85031 I agree her mom kept staring at her looking so evil her brother and sister chile please

  • @ItzGood-dn3jx
    @ItzGood-dn3jx 21 день тому +825

    The bride’s family is SO manipulative.. I hope she marries Andre and has no contact with them.

    • @NikkiRich174
      @NikkiRich174 21 день тому +27

      Way Too Controlling And Condescending

    • @tracicash7763
      @tracicash7763 21 день тому +7

      I agree

    • @NDB82
      @NDB82 21 день тому +64

      They did elope in Mexico. The wedding video is gorgeous and somewhere on UA-cam.

    • @Teenie-mg8xn
      @Teenie-mg8xn 21 день тому +6

      Andre and his best friend looks like they're on the DL and she's his cover-up..seen it to many times.

    • @BR-pw7lg
      @BR-pw7lg 21 день тому +3

      @@NDB82 That’s awesome news. What’s the link? Thanks.

  • @just_dev1981
    @just_dev1981 21 день тому +797

    Her family is sickening! They blamed her for being SA'd and her mother sitting there with a cross around her neck is infuriating!

    • @leahlinki5683
      @leahlinki5683 21 день тому +51

      Not only sickening and infuriating, but also abusive!

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 21 день тому +4

      Amen

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 21 день тому +4

      @@leahlinki5683 amen

    • @BrownSugarNCurls
      @BrownSugarNCurls 21 день тому +32

      Her mom is extremely judgmental. The fact that she clearly expresses why she doesn’t share with her and it falls on deaf ears is wild.

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 21 день тому

      @@BrownSugarNCurls that’s within her christian “values” I know she can’t wait to get to heaven 😂😂😂

  • @Life.Love.Locs.
    @Life.Love.Locs. 21 день тому +1037

    I can understand the mother not wanting them to sleep together in HER house. But you're in a whole new house trying to impose your rules on two grown adults?!

    • @tamikabennett3023
      @tamikabennett3023 21 день тому +57

      Right. That is their "house" for 3 days. Controlling

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 21 день тому +51

      Yes, they're taking it toooo far

    • @cwhatic4u270
      @cwhatic4u270 21 день тому

      Christians feels this way, but God said, if a man lay with a woman he is her husband not wanting baby daddies. We have enough of those.

    • @BingingInPeace-ev3bp
      @BingingInPeace-ev3bp 21 день тому +33

      Right. It’s wild. It’s crazy how norms have changed. It definitely wouldn’t be something I would do in my family home but my family would never fix their mouths to talk about my bedroom companion outside the house but also, my family is afraid of me 😂

    • @thed-verse6171
      @thed-verse6171 21 день тому +12

      Yes she takes it too far!

  • @fullyshannon
    @fullyshannon 21 день тому +516

    celibacy and intimacy are two different things. You can be intimate without physical intercourse.

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 21 день тому +36

      Absolutely, where do Brijet's family live, on the moon??? 😢

    • @yahira6928
      @yahira6928 21 день тому +23

      Correct, it's insane that adults haven't learned that

    • @MissAnony1
      @MissAnony1 21 день тому +9

      Very good point. Poignant 😊

    • @pheoliasmith4325
      @pheoliasmith4325 19 днів тому +2

      You’re absolutely right!

    • @alphasweetheart
      @alphasweetheart 18 днів тому +3

      Correct they acting so weird the fact that her was like I will leave the house if they in the same room 😂😂😂 bye 👋

  • @fjones5890
    @fjones5890 21 день тому +354

    Bride’s sister weaponizing their dead father against her was very low. She brings him up and throws his memory in her face to hurt her😢

    • @BeautifulSamaria
      @BeautifulSamaria 21 день тому +8

      I agree!!

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 21 день тому +32

      I was honestly disgusted by the sister. Whether older or younger, it was not her place to speak to her sister like that.

    • @chelee8804
      @chelee8804 20 днів тому +3

      Selfish!

    • @yinkaajose
      @yinkaajose 20 днів тому +9

      yup! manipulative behaviour at its finest. i hope they go through this comment section and realise their behaviour was not it.

  • @traumaqueeen
    @traumaqueeen 21 день тому +747

    The bride's family complaining about her, after the therapy session is crazy. The brother saying that she is dragging them down to her level, after the therapy session is wild. Wtf is going on in that family.

    • @Life.Love.Locs.
      @Life.Love.Locs. 21 день тому +142

      It's so weird, even the sister walking out like girl... why are you making it about you? Where is the empathy for your sister??? Like they didn't just hear that she went through trauma?!

    • @jessicatobias9371
      @jessicatobias9371 21 день тому +52

      Narcissist

    • @danadane5497
      @danadane5497 21 день тому +99

      The father even in death has sole control over them.

    • @erikabush9222
      @erikabush9222 21 день тому +55

      I totally agree
      I hope she goes no contact with her family..
      The way they turned on her she told them she's been raped..
      That is so hurtful of her family..

    • @sheasapp73
      @sheasapp73 21 день тому

      The brides family is beyond strange especially that fat sister.. she crying, walking out, making it about her is so weird... she has to walk away from that crazy crew and heal so that she can be happy.
      Her family is truly weird!

  • @Daniellehiu
    @Daniellehiu 21 день тому +278

    The way I tripped over my dog running to the comments to see if I was thinking the same thing as everyone else🏃🏾‍♀️I was. Her family is a trip.

    • @alicia_m
      @alicia_m 20 днів тому +1

      Same💯💯

    • @tracywilliams7575
      @tracywilliams7575 19 днів тому +5

      Girl me too! I said let me hurry up and see cause I KNOW I’m not tripping! Her family is the reason she’s rushing into any relationship outside of them!

    • @breannamcknight8392
      @breannamcknight8392 17 днів тому

      Exact same! 😅 Girl, run!!!!

    • @ronna_da_ruler
      @ronna_da_ruler 17 днів тому

      Nasty work

    • @danadavis6749
      @danadavis6749 17 днів тому +4

      Literally flew to the comments lol! That’s just crazy! It’s giving cult or another form of control like what in the brainwashed is really going on!? I’m proud of the bride! Good for her

  • @rejee2242
    @rejee2242 21 день тому +265

    Brijets family is the kind of ppl you find out have some nasty skeletons. When you try so hard to be perfect you always fall. It's OK to have morals and values but give grace.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 21 день тому +15

      💯💯💯 especially the sister. I couldn’t believe how “holier than thou” she acted!

    • @lookinatyoulookinatme1600
      @lookinatyoulookinatme1600 21 день тому +13

      If I could give this comment 1,00,000,000,000 likes I definitely would.

    • @user-xb5xv2wu2t
      @user-xb5xv2wu2t 10 днів тому

      Probably freaks and scammers..

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 5 годин тому +1

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @Swazie_
    @Swazie_ 21 день тому +246

    The bride’s family is acting like their father was God! They really need individual therapy. The couple seems like they are each other’s safe space❤

  • @ItzGood-dn3jx
    @ItzGood-dn3jx 21 день тому +376

    That sister is just jealous

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 21 день тому +25

      Glad you called it! 👍🏾👏🏾

    • @fjones5890
      @fjones5890 21 день тому +70

      She had two tantrums on tv then tried to blame her sister 😂. Jealous, Unhinged and delusional.

    • @chayegr
      @chayegr 21 день тому +18

      yea her sister is prettier more loving understanding and more intelligent it seems u are correct

    • @leahlinki5683
      @leahlinki5683 21 день тому +35

      The sister has no right to speak on behalf of the late father! It's very manipulative!

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 21 день тому +24

      It's not that she's prettier it's that her behavior and character shows up ugly as opposed to Bridget shows up aware, loving, giving, etc. Her sister shows up as manipulative, controlling by trying to insert herself and her opinion in places where it's completely unnecessary, begrudging and just plain unloving towards her sister. It's seems like she needs their to be a wedge between her mother and her sister in order for her to stay in her mother's good graces.

  • @erikabush9222
    @erikabush9222 21 день тому +253

    Tracy is the real MVP in this episode for real..
    This was so healing for real..
    When she said your family is with Andre and in StLouis..
    Real Facts

  • @user-sf5gp6rp9v
    @user-sf5gp6rp9v 21 день тому +247

    The fact that the bride's mom said her daughter used to be compliant said it all.

  • @ashleyburson3729
    @ashleyburson3729 21 день тому +166

    That sister wanted someone to run after her so bad! The entire family is toxic!

  • @AprilHubbert
    @AprilHubbert 21 день тому +404

    First of all they need to get out of their bedroom. There is a thin line between close family and family controlling your life. They did not come to support her

    • @missprizzy1
      @missprizzy1 21 день тому +13

      Okay! Mind your business

    • @sweetthang3257
      @sweetthang3257 21 день тому +4

      Agreed.

    • @Fuccupayme
      @Fuccupayme 21 день тому

      I agree 💯

    • @angel_thecloser
      @angel_thecloser 20 днів тому +4

      Exactly I mean the mom treated her as if she is a child. There is not a healthy boundary

  • @DD-zi2lx
    @DD-zi2lx 21 день тому +79

    God definitely sent him for her because he is her peace and protection. This is the first couple I actually liked together on this show. I hope they are married and happy by now.

    • @patsym3679
      @patsym3679 18 днів тому +3

      Yes, such a lovely calm couple!

  • @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments
    @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments 21 день тому +257

    WOW the brides family needs sooooo much therapy its insane Bridjet is already in the steps of healing good for her !

  • @ItsMike81
    @ItsMike81 21 день тому +182

    The way her family is policing her body with her fiancé is crazy.

    • @londiwethwala7470
      @londiwethwala7470 21 день тому +13

      I would be interested in knowing the sister’s history

    • @aignerbarlow1712
      @aignerbarlow1712 20 днів тому +7

      Right but didn't care & blamed her for being SA'd like they are a joke.

    • @lillithsternin7428
      @lillithsternin7428 15 днів тому

      So crazy! The way they talked about the sleeping arrangements and made that such a priority over her happiness over everything was so crazy.

  • @lovingme974
    @lovingme974 21 день тому +241

    Her mother deflecting while her daughter is breaking down in tears is insane.

    • @BrittaniMeShay
      @BrittaniMeShay 21 день тому +5

      Literally!!!

    • @toschajeffries8833
      @toschajeffries8833 21 день тому

      You seen the movie Precious? You remember when Monique got mad at her daughter because her lousy boyfriend raped her? The mother reminds me of that scene like she jealous of her own daughter probably because the father molested her and she knew.

  • @noluthandomnisi4214
    @noluthandomnisi4214 21 день тому +46

    Andre really loves this woman inspite her family trying to break her, props to him for standing by his woman

  • @chrissyjoesph6641
    @chrissyjoesph6641 21 день тому +70

    Brijet I hope you read this, you are like this ray of sunshine in the midst of this darkness. God didn't bring you out of this to delay your Joy and happiness. Please Go walk in your freedom ❤❤❤

    • @p9782
      @p9782 3 дні тому +1

      She sure is and beautiful too!

  • @toniconway6401
    @toniconway6401 21 день тому +106

    The amount of coldness and self righteousness her family exhibits is overwhelming, if I was her I would move across country too.

    • @alicia_m
      @alicia_m 20 днів тому +3

      Girl, another planet.

  • @earthastewart8571
    @earthastewart8571 21 день тому +309

    OMG her family is so selfish and toxic. She was abused and they were so cold to her emotions. The discussion after her opening up infuriated me her family should be ashamed of themselves.

  • @philizeed8938
    @philizeed8938 21 день тому +149

    Brijet`s brother is a piece of work !!

    • @chayegr
      @chayegr 21 день тому +36

      O M G he is the WORST imo cause he can step up and be on her side (the right side) but he's a coward and hateful

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc 21 день тому +21

      Spicy 🌶️

    • @tpattillo9376
      @tpattillo9376 21 день тому +18

      I think they all have been manipulated by the mother.

    • @malyroberts4054
      @malyroberts4054 20 днів тому +26

      The kind of person who has a ton of relationship advice and critics but has never had a girlfriend or partner for more than 3 days 🙄

    • @Aquaria2291
      @Aquaria2291 20 днів тому

      I think he's 🌈 and in the closet. 😭

  • @Mrs_ToniChilds
    @Mrs_ToniChilds 21 день тому +130

    Brijets family is the shining example of narcissistics and reminds me so much of my own. Points the finger and takes no accountability for their actions. I intentionally moved away from home to a different state in order to find my peace! It was the best decision that I ever made.

    • @alicia_m
      @alicia_m 20 днів тому +1

      You wrote about my life.

    • @guerlinemacean3684
      @guerlinemacean3684 16 днів тому

      Indeed perfect narcissistic family and glad Brijet finding her way out.
      I did the same from my mother years ago..move to another state, kept less contact and void her negative remarks..

    • @guerlinemacean3684
      @guerlinemacean3684 16 днів тому

      ​@@alicia_mindeed

  • @rastaflowerchild7401
    @rastaflowerchild7401 21 день тому +39

    That sister of the bride and the entire family are such a dark cloud to the bride’s light! She has such a beautiful soul and I feel like they’re trying to dim her light. I’m so glad she found her fiancé!

  • @bridgetmotivates4024
    @bridgetmotivates4024 21 день тому +55

    I think this was the WILDEST episode I have watched yet. I am rooting for the couple and hope they eventually got married. Hurt people hurt people.

    • @emeliaskoog2882
      @emeliaskoog2882 21 день тому +1

      Yes, the wildest episode. It's hard to imagine 3 more unreasonable people!

  • @brooklynmeyo7944
    @brooklynmeyo7944 21 день тому +194

    Brijet's family have some serious pack mentality going on. Even after the family therapy session, somehow, they still managed to blame Brijet. Brijet remained respectful. I can see why she prefers to move.

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 21 день тому +16

      Its sick, this cant be the sister she was staying with before. They all hate her.

    • @jahneltimaitre2125
      @jahneltimaitre2125 21 день тому +10

      ​@Magique88888 I agree,I see more jealousy.

    • @brooklynmeyo7944
      @brooklynmeyo7944 21 день тому +16

      @Magique88888 remember when her family first walked up to the house the mom said in the voice over "Brijet was a very compliant child." That struck me as the thing that would be a challenge. Compliant meaning someone that followed her program without pushback. Then they acted like it was because Brijet may not be able to function without help. They have actively tried to keep her down while telling her it's for her own good.

    • @sweetthang3257
      @sweetthang3257 20 днів тому +5

      @@brooklynmeyo7944 When in all actuality the family cannot function without her

    • @chelee8804
      @chelee8804 20 днів тому +5

      I wouldn’t be shocked if the mom & sister are SA victims as well.

  • @zaynad1034
    @zaynad1034 21 день тому +86

    She cares too much about what people think of her, especially her family. Glad she overcame that 👏🏾

  • @elaine21bok
    @elaine21bok 21 день тому +92

    Andre is such an allie, girl you cannot do better than that❤, it is a big part of your healing, trust me... He challenged your family with truth to break down those fony walls you've been surrounded by.

  • @k.denise7053
    @k.denise7053 21 день тому +99

    "People are behaving toward us the way they are behaving toward themselves." Well said, so very true, and my biggest takeaway from this episode. Thank you.

    • @janinebettis3296
      @janinebettis3296 21 день тому +3

      I just screenshotted your comment. I’m listening instead of watching the episode and I missed that. Thanks for posting. I need to remember this!❤

  • @phoebe_ouma
    @phoebe_ouma 21 день тому +173

    These people are acting like sleeping in the same bed is so terrible, Brijets family is something else.

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 21 день тому +2

      It is for them.

    • @shalbec3232
      @shalbec3232 21 день тому +1

      It bad if you aren't married to the person but her family is toxic and mean they are too controlling and i'm mad it not even me🙄

  • @QueenSugar72
    @QueenSugar72 21 день тому +153

    Brijet's mom was out of line. She is a grown woman not a little girl. If they were at her house of course she could state what's going down but they are not! And her sister sticking her big head in the room! Girl bye!

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 21 день тому +21

      Not her “BIG HEAD” 😂😂😂

    • @Erisworld_
      @Erisworld_ 21 день тому +24

      Yeah her sister pissed me off with that. It’s like…”Why are you here?? This has nothing to do with you!!”. But that looks like it’s a family dynamic.

  • @jennievivi
    @jennievivi 21 день тому +212

    The brides family are rigid and full of them selves. Their way of living is not the only way. They will loose their daughter if they don't treat her like the grown woman she is.

    • @jennievivi
      @jennievivi 21 день тому +10

      No sorry, they are plain horrible.

  • @jessicafrye6862
    @jessicafrye6862 21 день тому +51

    I’m glad the bride was able to stand up to her mom at dinner.

  • @smilesnkissesonly52
    @smilesnkissesonly52 21 день тому +138

    Brijet's family is very toxic and manipulative.... with her mother as the pack leader🤷

    • @priscillak88
      @priscillak88 21 день тому +12

      The way she said Andre caused the issues for them after meeting with a therapist blew my mind. Your DAUGHTER talked about the family and specific instances in her life before Andre. Miserable set of people if I’ve ever seen it.

    • @dearfuturegrandbabies
      @dearfuturegrandbabies 21 день тому +12

      I need her dad phone records because I know he had a girlfriend on the side!!!! This lady is weird

    • @lizslusher6345
      @lizslusher6345 21 день тому +3

      @@dearfuturegrandbabiesI’m dying with laughter 😅😅😂😂this comment

    • @brigittebailey5501
      @brigittebailey5501 21 день тому +1

      Agreed!!

    • @GoddessoftheDivine80
      @GoddessoftheDivine80 7 днів тому

      ​@@dearfuturegrandbabies😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Sewcializewithlexx
    @Sewcializewithlexx 21 день тому +51

    her family is WILD!!!!!! I am honestly FLOORED! I pray continued blessing and healing for her and this new chapter of marriage

    • @BrownSugarNCurls
      @BrownSugarNCurls 21 день тому +6

      Super wild! The whole interaction with the psychologist was fake too. Especially the mom’s apology. Right after the session they went to bashing her. I was like oh word?! 😮 Im so proud of her for standing up for herself in that moment.

  • @Magique88888
    @Magique88888 21 день тому +96

    Her mother does not like her and does not like that her fiancé sees through her and wants her to heal. Her family wants the unhealed version of her because its easier to control. Sad the family sat there and talked about her like she was evil after that. This family is evil and certified nuts.

    • @BrittaniMeShay
      @BrittaniMeShay 21 день тому +13

      The discussion her family had after she walked away was absolutely DISGUSTING! I couldn’t believe it! No one hugged her as she was crying or spoke up as she poured her heart out but had a million things to say when she left.

  • @yolandam843
    @yolandam843 21 день тому +54

    The therapist is spot on..about they're trying to control you girl!

  • @Kweenyoyo
    @Kweenyoyo 21 день тому +78

    I wish i could hug Brijet after hearing her story, and my heart broke that her family couldn't even hold space for her. I hope that she cut off all contact.

  • @fjones5890
    @fjones5890 21 день тому +241

    “12 Saturday nights” was so savage 😂😂😂

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 21 день тому +5

      AF lol

    • @blaqdiva35
      @blaqdiva35 21 день тому +4

      Facts

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 21 день тому +23

      Tracy is a straight shooter with no chaser 😂😂😂😂😂!

    • @NikkiRich174
      @NikkiRich174 21 день тому +15

      Loved It & Will Be Using It To Describe My Summers ☀️ 😅

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 21 день тому +1

      😂😂

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555 21 день тому +148

    I am glad Tracy didnt push her to be cool with her family. Some ppl loves to hit " that's your family though." They the worse one

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 21 день тому +4

      Yep👍🏾

    • @83ttaylor
      @83ttaylor 21 день тому +2

      I agree

    • @jahneltimaitre2125
      @jahneltimaitre2125 21 день тому +11

      Ikr,family isn't always blood.this episode is boiling my blood

    • @naturallydope6971
      @naturallydope6971 21 день тому +2

      Very true

    • @SthandwaM
      @SthandwaM 21 день тому +9

      Exactly! I used to be one of those, because I couldn't fathom not having a relationship with my parents and siblings. The older I've gotten, the more I realise not every family deserves that energy or respect.

  • @cocobrown1031
    @cocobrown1031 21 день тому +58

    I’ve been screaming at this phone since Brijit family arrived. This is crazy!! They are grown!!!!

    • @83ttaylor
      @83ttaylor 21 день тому +1

      ‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 21 день тому +1

      Red flags!!

    • @missj8145
      @missj8145 20 днів тому

      Her family is terrible.

  • @toniconway6401
    @toniconway6401 21 день тому +44

    Sooo refreshing to hear Andre have brijet’s back I love it

  • @just_dev1981
    @just_dev1981 21 день тому +229

    Brejit's family is so judgemental and holier than thou. They want her and Andre to fit in some perfect little box that have made and are afraid of letting her go and make her own life elsewhere.

    • @tracicash7763
      @tracicash7763 21 день тому +7

      They treat this poor woman like a child and simp. Go with Andre.

    • @TishaGrant-vt8pp
      @TishaGrant-vt8pp 21 день тому

      Them is so f**king disrespectful in my eyes they don't know their okace

  • @temagee
    @temagee 21 день тому +47

    I’m glad she decided not to let them hold their blessings over her head

  • @fredalenny7636
    @fredalenny7636 21 день тому +118

    She should just elope. Her family will never give their blessings. Their toxicity is too deep

    • @TaylorL.X.K
      @TaylorL.X.K 19 днів тому +4

      They did it. The video is UA-cam. ❤️

    • @fredalenny7636
      @fredalenny7636 19 днів тому +1

      ​@@TaylorL.X.K Wow! Thanks for letting me know. I have just seen it. So happy for them

  • @elaine21bok
    @elaine21bok 21 день тому +50

    The sister is modeling the dad which sounds like he was a tyrant of the family, the unspoken truth about the situation, portraying perfection to the outside world at the expense of the family. This stuff is common in the "born-again" society, unfortunately.

    • @Faithfullfertilitytv
      @Faithfullfertilitytv 21 день тому +3

      We're not a society. We're Christ's bride and only HE is perfect.

  • @Daniellehiu
    @Daniellehiu 21 день тому +42

    You don't want them to sleep together or even in the same room, but you're complaining that you don't see the passion?? 🤔 Make it make sense.

    • @TammyJFox
      @TammyJFox 21 день тому

      Exactly

    • @user-sc5bz1kg2i
      @user-sc5bz1kg2i 16 днів тому

      Yes!!!!! I'm glad I wasn't the only one who caught that! Makes no damn sense!

  • @ms.frazier5765
    @ms.frazier5765 21 день тому +88

    So happy she's getting away from her family. They are hard hearted and exacting. Must be exausting.

  • @nesawest7506
    @nesawest7506 21 день тому +14

    That groom was real asf😂😂😂ive been waiting for someone to put a family in their place.

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 21 день тому +41

    This lady mama act like God comes over to the house for some greens on a Sunday...the camera tried to shift away from her and she just kept going and going and going...Brijet deserves an a round of applause

  • @christaarmstead1989
    @christaarmstead1989 21 день тому +36

    Omg this woman was so brave im so proud of her and please marry that man that loves you Sis we hear you we see you Queen

  • @sojournertrust7796
    @sojournertrust7796 21 день тому +26

    In every family there is a disruptor, the one who exposes the family traumas and secrets. But unfortunately not everyone in the family always see it as an opportunity to do the work..........PERSONAL HEALING.😔. Brijet got the insight what she need for her own healing. Good for her.

  • @iriatanee386
    @iriatanee386 21 день тому +17

    Brijet was so strong, beautiful, and assertive respectfully!!! She deserves love and a real family to embrace her

  • @TapiTTwala
    @TapiTTwala 21 день тому +45

    This is the most powerful episode I have ever seen.

    • @p9782
      @p9782 3 дні тому

      Very powerful, love this show!!! And Tracy too!

  • @JessTalkingBooks
    @JessTalkingBooks 21 день тому +47

    Is the bride an affair baby? Or outside marriage? Because it feels like they're torturing her on purpose.

    • @oliviamckin
      @oliviamckin 19 днів тому +10

      I think the mother lives through her or sees herself in there and hates the reflection. Her family doesn’t want the chains broken and you can see she’s being set free. They don’t see the bride as an individual person or appreciate her as such.

    • @JessTalkingBooks
      @JessTalkingBooks 19 днів тому +6

      @@oliviamckin this is also true. They think of her as decoration, not a person. Just feels like there's more to the story with her place in the family. Like maybe she was born or conceived before marriage. Very Phaedra Parks math moment. Because she wasn't as perfect as expected and is trying to clean her sin/reputation through daughter.

    • @veeedgee
      @veeedgee 7 днів тому

      !!!!!

    • @JessTalkingBooks
      @JessTalkingBooks 7 днів тому

      @@veeedgee it felt so pointed in the treatment. And often there's reasons why. Not necessarily good ones.

    • @edevents7918
      @edevents7918 День тому

      She’s a middle child

  • @jennievivi
    @jennievivi 21 день тому +74

    The bride and the mother in law looks so much alike!

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 21 день тому +14

      Right!! The groom got another version of his mom! I love how his mom communicates btw…

    • @jennievivi
      @jennievivi 21 день тому +9

      @@KnowWhat Me too. She seems to be wise.

    • @sheilan6959
      @sheilan6959 21 день тому +5

      The couple look like siblings.

  • @tammykinstrue9849
    @tammykinstrue9849 21 день тому +31

    Something tells me that the mother was not a virgin on her wedding night either, was made to feel badly about that, and wanted to use her daughters' intact hymens to atone for that. Very obvious projection and vicarious living was going on there.

    • @LykzLybra78
      @LykzLybra78 21 день тому +6

      She was probably forced to marry him because they had already slept together. Might’ve been pregnant and that’s why she’s so bitter towards Brijet.

  • @dila3390
    @dila3390 21 день тому +58

    The way brijets family treated her after her sa is so horrible. Her family is incredibly toxic, selfish, manipulative and unwilling to change, she needs to cut them out of her life expeditiously.

  • @Ladonn10
    @Ladonn10 21 день тому +29

    They cut out what Andre said to the sister. That's why she got up from the table. He mentioned her having a child out wedlock. I've seen this episode a couple weeks ago.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 21 день тому +1

      Daaaamn

    • @TammyJFox
      @TammyJFox 21 день тому +9

      Even the more why the sister is bitter and can't be happy for her sister

    • @brigittebailey5501
      @brigittebailey5501 21 день тому +17

      Now that adds some clarity as to why she was so upset-she got called out on her own stuff!!!

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555 21 день тому +75

    Well 😢 the mental session. She been bullied by her whole DELUSIONAL family. Rip but the dad was the ring leader. Please take care of her Andre. I am the black sheep in my family too.

  • @ohrheeco
    @ohrheeco 21 день тому +31

    Her family was so stuck on their Father's presence that they fail to live in his legacy.

    • @Aquaria2291
      @Aquaria2291 20 днів тому +5

      I think this is exactly his legacy.
      I think he was exactly as controlling, judgmental and manipulative as the family he left behind.

    • @billymoeng209
      @billymoeng209 2 дні тому

      I think the father was THEE problem.

  • @Shannderiv-hy5qw
    @Shannderiv-hy5qw 21 день тому +26

    Brijet's family trggered my nerves so bad. So they want her to protect her father's name and not speak on what he and the rest of them did to her, but continue to live in pain? GTFOH. That family is so BEYOND toxic and judgemental. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @nubiameryhor369
    @nubiameryhor369 21 день тому +38

    ❤ I wish Andre's family gonna be the loving family Bridget need. I wish them all the very best❤. Bridget family need a lot of healing because they're very low on selfesteem and self-love journey

  • @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments
    @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments 21 день тому +139

    These are grown adults they can sleep where they want theyve already chossen to be celibate the fam needs to fall back and grow up these aren't kids

  • @mekas2008
    @mekas2008 21 день тому +51

    Her family need help especially her mother. The sister and brother are so brainwashed till it's a shame. Yall don't need their blessing, live your life and they can kick rocks with open tor shoes on.

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 21 день тому +46

    I hate that they paused the wedding. I hope Brijet doesn’t slow her family to continue to talk her out of building her own life. Poor Andre

    • @Aquaria2291
      @Aquaria2291 20 днів тому +5

      They did get married, they eloped in Tulum. She was a beautiful bride.
      Thank God. 😂

    • @CoffeeCrazy
      @CoffeeCrazy 5 днів тому

      @@Aquaria2291 If this is true, I pray she does not bring family baggage to the marriage. That family is horrible. lol

  • @smilesnkissesonly52
    @smilesnkissesonly52 21 день тому +71

    This was a great episode!.... Brijet's family wanted to further manipulate her by "sticking it to her" during the blessing ceremony.... I'm glad she cancelled it and took her power back!

  • @Healingwaters
    @Healingwaters 21 день тому +26

    That family is selfish, egotistical, and down right controlling. God Bless Brigette. Im glad shes finding her voice.

  • @XC20248
    @XC20248 21 день тому +105

    Always wanted to see this episode. A display of enmeshment/lack of boundaries. Brijet's family was hmmm...esp the sister is the typical holier than thou hypocrite.
    Edit: Her family is crazy

  • @LeshaFBaby
    @LeshaFBaby 21 день тому +22

    Her family annoyed tf outta me...its always a sister that does the most as well. She was explaining her trauma and her sister walks out denying it, girl bye!!! I see why she latched on to him and wants to be far away from them..glad she has someone to love her

  • @ljackson24
    @ljackson24 21 день тому +20

    Am I the only one who peeped how the sister looked at her when she walked into the blessing ceremony? 👀

    • @LykzLybra78
      @LykzLybra78 21 день тому +10

      She’s definitely jealous of Brijet.

    • @jennievivi
      @jennievivi 21 день тому +8

      @@ljackson24 I noticed to. She's so jealous of her.

    • @TammyJFox
      @TammyJFox 21 день тому +8

      I noticed it too the evil side eye of anger. She does not speak like she has a life of her own. It's mommy said this and daddy diid this. How old are you here? She's running of the set like a child. She needs a pacifier. If she doesn't get some therapy to address that pain, then all she is going to become is bitter. She cannot be happy for your sister, her brother and mother are the same, so sad.

  • @trublkbelle
    @trublkbelle 21 день тому +17

    Her family is crazzzzzzy. Girl go make a life with her your husband and leave those people behind. They are toxic

  • @shaunabee
    @shaunabee 21 день тому +28

    Her family is nuts!

  • @erikabush9222
    @erikabush9222 21 день тому +23

    Break free girl
    Break free girl

  • @user-yv6ry2lc1t
    @user-yv6ry2lc1t 21 день тому +30

    Brijet sister keeps making it about her, but no one ever mentioned her childhood. It's because of her reactions I put it together but Brijet only spoke about her. I love them together and I will give my blessing in leu of her toxic family.

    • @dememurphy7859
      @dememurphy7859 21 день тому +6

      That's how you could tell she has issues!! She was so worried about her stuff coming out & how she looked on TV to the world she ended up looking crazy anyway!!

    • @auntbee1776
      @auntbee1776 19 днів тому +4

      I don’t understand what her problem was she seems jealous of brijet and the brother will live in the moms house until he’s 40 with his virginity saved and secured 😑

  • @WewSxbrt
    @WewSxbrt 21 день тому +101

    Andre and Brijet definitely give sibling friendship than romance at least they have a spiritual bond

    • @LaCreshiaify
      @LaCreshiaify 21 день тому +41

      I definitely disagree with this. They were trying to show respect to her religiously conservative family. I see the spark, chemistry, and closeness. They way her fiance stood up for her was very affectionate

    • @Justine2U
      @Justine2U 21 день тому

      Oh absolutely not. They give lovers, they’re just surrounded by judgmental, obnoxious Christians.

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 21 день тому +20

      I feel like they were not comfortable showing PDA because of their families….especially the bride’s family

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 21 день тому

      He’s giving 🏳️‍🌈

    • @p9782
      @p9782 3 дні тому

      ​@@helena3631right, but I hope not. His brother definitely seems that way moreso than him. But I see what you mean, I just hope not for Brijett's sake.

  • @tobemeis2bfree
    @tobemeis2bfree 21 день тому +14

    Her family is so perfect in their own minds that they’re no earthly good

  • @ukbluebell09
    @ukbluebell09 21 день тому +28

    Brijet needs to cut ties with her family for now because they didn't enter into this process with a clear heart and pure intentions and you don't want bad-mindedness "blessing" your marriage.

  • @camillelittler4284
    @camillelittler4284 21 день тому +21

    Using loved ones who have passed on as a manipulative tactic “on behalf of my dad”.
    Express that has your own opinion.
    And the to state that she cannot confide in her fiancee about her issues with her family is wild.

    • @lizslusher6345
      @lizslusher6345 21 день тому

      And her saying on behalf of her dad… isn’t that not everyone else’s dad as well…how can you speak for him? Everybody’s relationship with their dad is different. Whether you are siblings or not sheesh…the audacity for me.

  • @shirokuriah
    @shirokuriah 21 день тому +21

    First of all how can two.people be this gorgeous, beautiful and they love the Lord ❤ i mean how Andre was treating Bree just elegant... Like they are the perfect couple and then to have their family not acknowledge this is very unfortunate...

  • @reneerenee5073
    @reneerenee5073 21 день тому +19

    The bride made me proud.❤❤❤❤

  • @tedthajohnson6077
    @tedthajohnson6077 21 день тому +33

    It’s none of the mom’s business where this grown woman sleeps as long as it’s not in her house

  • @invadingminds
    @invadingminds 21 день тому +18

    That sweet soul needs to enjoy her new life and leave them in the dust. Sometimes you have to leave ppl where they are so that you can continue to heal and keep your peace. That "mom" only apologized because she's on tv, she didn't mean it at all.

  • @americuswatt645
    @americuswatt645 21 день тому +16

    This is the worst family ever.. what kind of mother would say those types of things to her daughter after what happened to her. Run girl and never look back... that is not love at all

  • @jazzydlite
    @jazzydlite 21 день тому +10

    They eloped a year ago 💜. There is a video on YT. I Pray for this couple and he hope continues to cover her! Im glad she found her path to healing. God loves us all even in our imperfection! Thankful for Grace

    • @brigittebailey5501
      @brigittebailey5501 21 день тому +1

      So glad to read this! I was hoping they got married and moved on with their lives.

  • @batteleyyachtlife9957
    @batteleyyachtlife9957 21 день тому +62

    These two are beautiful!

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 21 день тому +2

      Agreed. Thinking the same

  • @SthandwaM
    @SthandwaM 21 день тому +9

    The sister stomping off while Brijit was pouring her heart out was selfish. She clearly expected the world to stop for her. I'm sooo glad no one paid attention.

  • @queen4c414
    @queen4c414 21 день тому +15

    I’m glad they took the blessing ceremony away.

  • @amulen-lalafwirsiy7134
    @amulen-lalafwirsiy7134 21 день тому +14

    “Blind loyalty is toxic,” says the sister who ignores her sister’s SA and shames her in the name of their deceased father lol yikes

    • @guerlinemacean3684
      @guerlinemacean3684 16 днів тому

      Terrible. She should be ashamed of herself. What about the part she hopes her kids don't see this video. 🤔

  • @gi-gijay4114
    @gi-gijay4114 21 день тому +30

    Her brother looks like a cartoon character.

  • @efigreen3311
    @efigreen3311 21 день тому +36

    What am I missing?? How Brijet expose her family by telling her story of SA??! Is it editing? Mama gonna have to cleave and leave!

    • @BeautifulSamaria
      @BeautifulSamaria 21 день тому +3

      I'm confused too. There's more that's not being mentioned.

    • @fp8237
      @fp8237 21 день тому +10

      The shame of her being raped it's too much for them they don't want to be judged by the public or their church etc even though it's her story and her life.

  • @patricep.9382
    @patricep.9382 21 день тому +103

    Bridget's family is sounding fake, controlling and pathetic.
    Their father wants his daughter to be happy, relax.

    • @tgber8126
      @tgber8126 21 день тому +5

      They r saying that coz the dead can't talk they're horrible

    • @mrsthang3783
      @mrsthang3783 21 день тому +9

      That mother is controlling honey Chile….You see how brijet brother walking round looking like one of the Jackson 5 honey he bet not cut that Afro she will disown him

    • @shawnee0718
      @shawnee0718 21 день тому +4

      ​@@mrsthang3783😂😂😂😂😂 you are wrong for that.

    • @lizslusher6345
      @lizslusher6345 21 день тому +2

      @@mrsthang3783this hilarious 🤣🤣

    • @naturallymoi8171
      @naturallymoi8171 20 днів тому

      ​@@mrsthang3783wait a minute 😂😂😂😂

  • @abeaut81
    @abeaut81 21 день тому +6

    For her Mother not to even hug her child while she wept about the abuse she suffered, says all you need to know!

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc 21 день тому +12

    Her sister has some kind of hero, father thing where her father could do no wrong. If my father was here …well, he’s not there, your father has gone on and you still have to live on earth cut it out.

  • @JanellFrazier
    @JanellFrazier 21 день тому +20

    The issue I have is they should have never let their family be so invested in “if they sleep together or not”. Like it’s really none of anyone’s business and it should have been put that way at the beginning.

  • @NFLWifeClub
    @NFLWifeClub 21 день тому +20

    Brijet’s family is nuts! She has a beautiful soul! I hope Brijet will focus on herself, not her dysfunctional, jealous family. There's nothing in California keeping her there!