Thank you spencer!!! It’s was the first day of school today and I was so uncomfortable with the clothes I was wearing. Because I’m overweight and my mom always annoys me about it. I’m really insecure. If u wanna make fun of it go for it. It’s fine
Just btw, your weight determines NOTHING about your looks. I’m almost positive your still really good looking despite this. I have friends that are underweight and are super insecure about it lol, so obviously everybody’s got their own problems. Just love yourself! Easier said than done and super cringy ik, but I wish I’d been following this advice through middle school bc I would’ve been a lot less insecure lol. But anyways, your ❤️beutiful❤️
weight does not affect your looks (most of the time) coming from a guy i think a bunch of "over the average weight" girls can be waaaayyy hotter than just the "normal" weight girls just my take tho can't speak for all
I can understand but after a while I found videos on UA-cam of girls size plus and they looked great! Cutes and beautifuls, confidentes and so lively and very positive. Skinny should not be the definition of beauty, with the right clothes and color who corresponding to your body shape and your personality can change everything, you felt pretty if you wear stuff that you like and felt confortable. And be confident and sure of yourself loving you actually is attractive to other people.
@@trips347 uhm, no. this comment is basically saying, "lose the weight if you're insecure, it isn't THAT hard." first of all, it's hard, 2nd of all metabolism is a huge factor in weight, 3rd of all you aren't helping. you have good intentions, and i'm not trying to be rude.
Spencer, Tysm. I am so insecure about my body and I found out that we have to start using the changing rooms again this year and bc I’m so insecure, I just don’t wanna do pe at this point- but ty for making me feel better
I love you so much I am 11 years old little girl and there’s so much you’ve done to change my life to help me do better to help me feel more confident I love you so much you’re one of my favorites
Bro middle school is a lot and I have a ton of like really pretty friends...my first year of middle school I was literally so insecure I wore only sweatshirts and jeans lol, but after watching ur videos I’ve gained a ton more confidence before school. Thanks!
@@armanielise5514 what are they? For guys I mean. Like aside from looks, what does a guy want in a woman? There are answers, but I doubt you know them. But let's see...
@@robertpaul50n I mean im sure personally lol, probably (if the guy is looking for a long term thing) good with kids, and alike him? Not sure if that’s with all guys but that’s what would assume lol
@@armanielise5514 actually, you did a lot better than I thought you'd do. Likes kids, wants kids, is good with kids, that quality is worth more than all others. A woman that is alike him (I assume you mean she has similar interests), no that doesnt matter. Men dont expect their women to share their interest since so few do. Aside from that, humility, femininity, loyalty. A woman with these characteristics can get a good man even if she looks below average.
i’m australia and we are on our summer break right now, we start back at school on the 30th of jan and i am starting year 7, we have 2 schools not a heap of different ones like americans, we have primary school which is prep (kinda like kinder) - year 6 and then highschool is year 7-12, so i am going to a new school with a heap of friends already made so this will really help me on the first day! But we dont wear free dress lol, we have uniform
Spencer I just had this random thought, i know this bussness that does active wear and lots of clothes and i think u would rlly like them. It is called Bohemian Traders❤️
Spencer could you please do some more tips!! pls i love your videos and i really need your advice to help me gain confidence for going back to school, i would really appreciate it! ❤❤
the thing about hot being a mindset is 100% true, theres this guy in one of my classes and honestly hes not even that cute BUT the way he carries himself (not too cocky but just confident) makes him really attractive.
It's true for guys, but not for girls. Ever seen the QB dating the 300 pound land whale of the school because "she has a hot attitude". Nah, they just fuck the head cheerleader because shes ACTUALLY hot.
ty for the advice! i recently just found out that a guy at my school thinks i’m “hot” but also “b!tchy.” and, apparently lots of other people at school think im b!tchy too, so i really need to gain my confidence back before school
I need Spencer by my side 24/7 as my freaking wing man! Like this is a NEED. Her advice is all over my fyp and it’s giving me good vibes. Also like, I know being hot isn’t about appearance. Have you seen Thomas Brodie sangster, he’s hot amd not just cause his appearance bro has the personality of my dreams. Same with Spencer like girl is living the dream and because of her I can live the dream too!!
Who else really want Spencer as their best friend? Like, girl, i don’t need to feel insecure if this girly is by my side.👏🏻
Sameeeee
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No bc that’s actually true
I'm officially adopting Spencer as my new older sister. This girl is everything you need in a girl best friend or older sister!
Same!
SAME
Me too
Me too
Agreed ❤️
she’s right. i mean looking back, half of my crushes weren’t that good looking, it’s just that there confidence made them so insanely attractive
Well said. The people I like the most weren't drop-dead gorgeous, but their personality was.
this is powerful like confidence is soooo attractive and yet ppl still act like physical appearance is more important ?
girl ur skin is so glowinggg i could never
yes girl you could i bet ! no skin is perfect but glowy skin is so achievable
Thank you spencer!!! It’s was the first day of school today and I was so uncomfortable with the clothes I was wearing. Because I’m overweight and my mom always annoys me about it. I’m really insecure. If u wanna make fun of it go for it. It’s fine
Just btw, your weight determines NOTHING about your looks. I’m almost positive your still really good looking despite this. I have friends that are underweight and are super insecure about it lol, so obviously everybody’s got their own problems. Just love yourself! Easier said than done and super cringy ik, but I wish I’d been following this advice through middle school bc I would’ve been a lot less insecure lol. But anyways, your ❤️beutiful❤️
weight does not affect your looks (most of the time) coming from a guy i think a bunch of "over the average weight" girls can be waaaayyy hotter than just the "normal" weight girls just my take tho can't speak for all
Then lose the weight?
I can understand but after a while I found videos on UA-cam of girls size plus and they looked great! Cutes and beautifuls, confidentes and so lively and very positive. Skinny should not be the definition of beauty, with the right clothes and color who corresponding to your body shape and your personality can change everything, you felt pretty if you wear stuff that you like and felt confortable. And be confident and sure of yourself loving you actually is attractive to other people.
@@trips347 uhm, no. this comment is basically saying, "lose the weight if you're insecure, it isn't THAT hard." first of all, it's hard, 2nd of all metabolism is a huge factor in weight, 3rd of all you aren't helping. you have good intentions, and i'm not trying to be rude.
Your eyes are literally so gorgeous!!!
All body and mind, the “secret”, positive reinforcement feedback loop, etc, etc.
Bullshit in short
I’m excited because I met my teacher and my BFFs are in my class and this is really good confidence. Tomorrow’s the first day of school.
Dude, she'd honestly be such a good friend 😭💗
Spencer, Tysm. I am so insecure about my body and I found out that we have to start using the changing rooms again this year and bc I’m so insecure, I just don’t wanna do pe at this point- but ty for making me feel better
I love you so much I am 11 years old little girl and there’s so much you’ve done to change my life to help me do better to help me feel more confident I love you so much you’re one of my favorites
I wish I had a friend like Spencer growing up 😢it would've helped me mentally all my life.
Ok but why is Spencer so pretty and an amazing influencer!?
OMG THIS VIDEO IS LITERALLY MEANT FOR ME
Bro middle school is a lot and I have a ton of like really pretty friends...my first year of middle school I was literally so insecure I wore only sweatshirts and jeans lol, but after watching ur videos I’ve gained a ton more confidence before school. Thanks!
I love her vids so much. They give me so much confidence. Thank you Spencer 🥰
yes i totally believe this, also confidents. like i feel like as long as your confident your hot 😎
Nah, it's about looks.
@@robertpaul50n lol- i mean looks have a part for sure but like there r other things 😂
@@armanielise5514 what are they? For guys I mean.
Like aside from looks, what does a guy want in a woman?
There are answers, but I doubt you know them. But let's see...
@@robertpaul50n I mean im sure personally lol, probably (if the guy is looking for a long term thing) good with kids, and alike him? Not sure if that’s with all guys but that’s what would assume lol
@@armanielise5514 actually, you did a lot better than I thought you'd do.
Likes kids, wants kids, is good with kids, that quality is worth more than all others.
A woman that is alike him (I assume you mean she has similar interests), no that doesnt matter. Men dont expect their women to share their interest since so few do.
Aside from that, humility, femininity, loyalty. A woman with these characteristics can get a good man even if she looks below average.
This make me so happy and make me so much more confident 🤍😭
Beautiful msg from a beautiful soul
I am the oldest in my family, and you are my older sister! ♥️♥️ I love you so much
i love her omg she’s so funny 🤍
Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you! Love you
i literally start year 10 tomorrow ahhhhh
I start year 8 2morrow and I really don't want to I'm so nervous😭😭😭
10 including kinder meaning Freshman or grade 10 meaning Sophomore?
@@nutella_odella5367 Same I'm sooo scared 😭
@@loki-oq6gm I have finished my first day, I'm so relieved!!! If you have had your's I hope it went well!!!!!🤗💗
@@its_melodystar not trying to be rude, but not everyone lives in the same country, with the same school system 😁
U hv just earned a new subscriber 🎉
Congrats Spencer 👏❤
Thank u darling u always give off big sis vibes xx
You are so positive
We 👏 Need 👏 More 👏 People 👏 Like 👏 This 👏
Thank you you really help me with self-confidence
You NEED to do more back to school tips PLEASE ❤❤❤❤❤
You give me a self confidence boost 😊 thank you spencer
SPENCER UR SKIN IS STUNNING
YOUR GORGEOUS OMG
Bro‼️ I LOVE her soo much ❤️♾️
Tysm❤
i’m australia and we are on our summer break right now, we start back at school on the 30th of jan and i am starting year 7, we have 2 schools not a heap of different ones like americans, we have primary school which is prep (kinda like kinder) - year 6 and then highschool is year 7-12, so i am going to a new school with a heap of friends already made so this will really help me on the first day! But we dont wear free dress lol, we have uniform
Spencer I just had this random thought, i know this bussness that does active wear and lots of clothes and i think u would rlly like them. It is called Bohemian Traders❤️
Thank you so much, I needed this confidence booster❤
Honestly Spencer u make my day better!!!!
I got my braces on today and was feeling a little insecure about going to school
Thanks for boosting my confidence!
Good luck at school! I'm sure you look great with ur new braces 👍
@@JL2502-QT thanks! :)
As a dude, I can confirm that it has a lot less to do with looks and a lot more to do with how you carry yourself.
The "rizz" as to how gen z call it
your like the big sister everyone needs
So adorable and smart
I find it funny that I go back to school in two days and this pops up love you Spencer!❤️❤️
Spencer could you please do some more tips!! pls i love your videos and i really need your advice to help me gain confidence for going back to school, i would really appreciate it! ❤❤
Omggg you're a life saver 🥺🥺
Omg! Thankyou so much!!!
I love this girl she doesn't really help me bit I love how she tries
more of these NEEDD
I’m a dude and this helps me so much more
Girl I needed this I’m so insecure so I needed this video
Thank you so much for this video! You don't know how much it helped me
The thing about being hot is kinda true because once i started becoming more confident people started noticing me more
just started highschool and everyone is so PRETTY
She is the older sister everyone dreams of having❤
First one actually hit different ❤😂
I strive to have this kind of confidence
I start school in just 2 days! Finally starting my summer glowup and I really needed this! THANK YOUU!!!!!! ❤❤❤
I started school before I saw this, but that was me anyway since I began watching Spencer’s videos
thanks so much i was so shy an you make me confedt i love you so much
You made my day
Your friends are so lucky to have you ❤️❤️ I wish I had a friend like you
the thing about hot being a mindset is 100% true, theres this guy in one of my classes and honestly hes not even that cute BUT the way he carries himself (not too cocky but just confident) makes him really attractive.
It's true for guys, but not for girls. Ever seen the QB dating the 300 pound land whale of the school because "she has a hot attitude". Nah, they just fuck the head cheerleader because shes ACTUALLY hot.
Thanks for the tips,queen!luv u girl!!!
This made me so much better 😭
ty for the advice! i recently just found out that a guy at my school thinks i’m “hot” but also “b!tchy.” and, apparently lots of other people at school think im b!tchy too, so i really need to gain my confidence back before school
Girl your the best
i found this video two years ago and spencer taught me that being hot is in your mind, every day i tell myself how hot i am and that i am enough! ❤
Easy to say when your in shape
Can we just talk about how Spencer looks 24/7 beautiful, even after wiping her makeup off ( I don't think she even does wear makeup)
Can we all just take a moment to realize how kind Beautiful and helpful she is ❤️
Yass gurlll thanks I done school but its actually tips not only bout school its life too
once a boy said l was a 5 and l lost so so much of my confidence but know that l have watched this it makes me feel so much better about myself
Thank you I really needed this 😂😂😂
Also everyone is 20% more attractive and pretty then they think x
Truly spoken as somebody who is conventionally attractive.
See ur videos have gave me so much confidence i apricietted a lot!! Tysm for inspiring everyone!!
I start school tomorrow and I am already feeling confident!
I LOVE YOU!!!! REALLY DEADLY NEEDED THIS!!!!!!
Spencer👏🏻is👏🏻so👏🏻beautiful.👏🏻🫶🫶🫶
This girl make feels me happy about my Body and she like my friend on UA-cam 😊😊
I need a friend like you. I always feel bad about myself because of acne or my friends are prettier.
I’m going into my freshman year of high school and thank you so much for posting this
Thank youuu^^
I need Spencer by my side 24/7 as my freaking wing man! Like this is a NEED. Her advice is all over my fyp and it’s giving me good vibes. Also like, I know being hot isn’t about appearance. Have you seen Thomas Brodie sangster, he’s hot amd not just cause his appearance bro has the personality of my dreams. Same with Spencer like girl is living the dream and because of her I can live the dream too!!
my new fall scent is white pumpkin and chai from bath and body works and its super fally and light
Tysm, I really really needed this😭……. Luv yea
i want spence as my mom 😭💞
Smell part is pretty important yes
Thank you for making these kind of videos ❤️ you really helped me with a eating disorder
omg thanks i really needed that 🙂
Thx for tips just going into year 5
Gurl your so smart an so freaking pretty like wow ur gorgeous thx for all the help❤❤
Call ppl Chica,Boo boo, Pookie, and bbg (beautiful baby girl) BE DIFFERENT!!! You will stand out and GLOWWWW!!!! Ty for ur time, Chica 😜
I want her to be my sister because she made me feel less insecure ❤❤😊😊
luv the tips thx
That last minute "smell good" part... ROFL!!! I'm done.
you have the most beautiful eyes
slaying!!
Aye sir captain barbosa!!
You are so amazing girl
You have made me so much more confident in myself⭐ tysmm