I think men should be helped financially by their wives. So they can retire early. Telling someone's daughter to stay at home is a burden to the man. And there are rich men who are financially abusive and reckless with their lives. If he is happy he will give you money if he is not then he will degrade you. It's better for the wife to work and keep the money as pocket money then. And even when the husband dies at least the wife has her own money. Because some inlaws are wicked they will take everything your husband bought.
Somebody's son can not even dream of saying i should resign because he met me working on a rig and he knows I love my job and profession just like he does his. We talked about it before we got married and my family told him too.
Hmmm… can we take a moment to talk about the death of a woman’s career when she unfortunately has a special needs child? Especially when the family relocates abroad and she has to become the primary caregiver? The husband works but lacks the motivation to earn more than the minimum wage, while the wife wants to go back to school so as to better her lot in life. Would sending the child that has special needs back home to family be a better option? Please Aunty Flo weigh in on this matter. Soon to be 40 year old and utterly lost. God bless you ma’am
Can he provide me with all these experiences like yours in this video? Will I not resent him if he doesn't meet all of my tastes, that might even change with time? Sometimes in life we also want to be able to accomplish some things by effort and not be gifted them. I think I would prefer blaming myself if I don't meet my desires than blaming another human being. Except I don't fancy my job, but for all these reasons I'll pleasantly say "No, thank you"....😅
Being financially independent should be a must for every woman. That is one of your many powers , can't rely on someone else's pockets for all your needs and desires.
@@anthonywilly8756 all the more important. Many women are stuck in bad marriages because they are financially dependent on the man who use money to abuse them. Every woman must have a handywork. MUST!!
@@anthonywilly8756What makes you think she's single? Did they use marriage to swear for you? I'm sure people like you don't even know what marriage means, otherwise you will support your wife's dreams
I’m newly married & working while my husband stays home to look after our infant son because we relocated abroad for my new job. I’m very much interested to see a video on the different conversations & topics that you & your husband discussed before you got married.
I cannot quit my job for no one. Like you said this should be discussed even before going into marriage. I don't care id hubby is rich..You are a super industrious woman Flo!❤
I love that you are facing your career and your dynamics works for you. Sometimes it’s hard and very difficult cos every family dynamics, situation etc is different and women have to step down and care for the kids for a little especially when they are younger. When this has to happen, the parent with the higher earning power, job in demand and experience takes the lead and as kids grow, the woman who decided to slow her own career can ease back into a full time career. While doing this, make sure you are retraining or getting some type of certifications as a boost for your come back.
We keep adapting as we live life. I've had to adapt a lot too. I used many nannies. Staying home is not always the only solution. And for someone like me that can't stay at home, I will always explore numerous other options first. The thing is that in addition to the Mum guilt we feel, if a bad partner adds to that with their bad mouth, we would be defeated. But a loving partner will be brainstorming with you to find another solution if you really do not want to stay home. My own Mum left us to go to school and my Dad took care of us while still working. This was in the 70s ooo. In a lot of cases, nobody needs to stay home. It's not written on stone that it is only women that can take care of children. Everybody needs to step up.
Our in-law is a supportive hubby so we know that this will never be an option for you. The fact that you are representing African women in this special field is a great honour. May God continue to bless you and always keep you safe.🙏🏾
Flo, thanks you for the video. Please we want to know the different conversations you had before marriage. I love seeing you free to do your job as a petroleum engineer and yet enjoying your marriage and children. You're a true inspiration.
I really consider you to be such a brave woman. You’re a true example of a Virtuous Woman! Keep doing you! All your efforts are definitely yielding fruit. And you’re blessed to have such good children who are not stressing you and your husband out! That alone makes it all worth it.
This is MASSIVE thank you for taking me to work with you adi'm blown away!!!! May GOD bless your hustles!!!!!! Am proud of you nne! Am sure your hubby do ❤❤❤
Sis discuss with husband ,NEVER QUIT YOUR JOB, TALK TO YOUR SUPERVISORS TO SEE IF YOUR SCHEDULE CAN BE FLEXIBLE, SO YOU MAKE TIME FOR FAMILY, ALMIGHTY BLESS YOU, PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
So Happy to See you Flo. Exciting to see the Flame is still there between you & your Hubby. I married My Delta Ibo husband when I was 20, we have been married for 34 years, the flame dun burn out ohhh. We Will be happy to see you in your Spanish Beachfront home. ❤ 🖤 💚👍🏼
Thank you so much for this video. It’s a source of inspiration and motivation for me. I travel 16 hours by plane ✈️ to work and return home after a few months.
Awwww😅, this is truly an adventure, at 13:00, I so love the rest room fittings, so cute. The house keeping art of deco is on point 😊. Makes your journey a memorable one
I did miss you Aunty Flo. Super woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 It's 2:18 AM here in the U.K., right after the Hallelujah Challenge. I saw your notification and knew I had to check it out before heading to bed. That beach house has to become a reality, and I'm first in line! You inspire me so much, ma'am
❤I zuru ezu na nwanyi. You are complete. This is just the kind of life I desired growing up and I was trained as an Electrical/Electronics engineer too. Well, I don't know. Maybe the convo I didn't have was a cause , or Nigeria happened. Keep representing, darling. I love you dearly.
You are very inspiring Flo. I looooove this video and I especially like what you said about one's job being certain of a salary for your time (sure banker) as against UA-cam that may trickle in. Why did I think you were based in Canada? Thanks for showing us around. ❤
You're such a spectacular person. Many other people with your experience, talent and opportunities would be so pretentious. Even me o! I learn a lot from you.
Wow! very inspiring. Thank God too for an understanding and supportive husband. This is what a good and happy marriage should be. Taking care of the home front and still accomplishing your career dreams makes you happy and the family happy too. BALANCE!
Please ma,I will like to hear the discussion ooo Aunty, if you leave content creation, how do you want us to learn from you, especially people like us that dream big but with no support Pls don't leave us You don't know how happy I am watching all your videos By the way, I'm number 1 in the queue for the beach front house
Thanks you so much. I smiled from start to the end watching your work lifestyle. Your kids have grown. So inspiring and looks adventurous too. My favourite part of the vessel is the gym.
Honestly, I didn’t want the video to finish cos I was really enjoying it. I love your job ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Husband no go divorce me hence you contribute to the family needs. Though staying away from the family isn’t easy. Understand from both side is highly needed to get the peace rolling 😊
The view ke????? My heart skipped a bit when that propeller stopped in the air. 9:36 Can you imagine? With all this your up and down movements, who needs to pay for a rollercoaster ride😮 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Awww Onye you sure pay attention to detail. And that's a special skill. ❤❤❤ That propeller "stopping" is merely an optical illusion. Look up wagon-wheel effect for more infor on why it looked like it stopped when in fact it didn't.
Ladies, what will you do if somebody's son tells you to quit your job?
I think men should be helped financially by their wives. So they can retire early. Telling someone's daughter to stay at home is a burden to the man. And there are rich men who are financially abusive and reckless with their lives. If he is happy he will give you money if he is not then he will degrade you. It's better for the wife to work and keep the money as pocket money then. And even when the husband dies at least the wife has her own money. Because some inlaws are wicked they will take everything your husband bought.
Somebody's son can not even dream of saying i should resign because he met me working on a rig and he knows I love my job and profession just like he does his.
We talked about it before we got married and my family told him too.
Hmmm… can we take a moment to talk about the death of a woman’s career when she unfortunately has a special needs child? Especially when the family relocates abroad and she has to become the primary caregiver? The husband works but lacks the motivation to earn more than the minimum wage, while the wife wants to go back to school so as to better her lot in life. Would sending the child that has special needs back home to family be a better option? Please Aunty Flo weigh in on this matter. Soon to be 40 year old and utterly lost. God bless you ma’am
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't quit....
Can he provide me with all these experiences like yours in this video? Will I not resent him if he doesn't meet all of my tastes, that might even change with time?
Sometimes in life we also want to be able to accomplish some things by effort and not be gifted them.
I think I would prefer blaming myself if I don't meet my desires than blaming another human being.
Except I don't fancy my job, but for all these reasons I'll pleasantly say "No, thank you"....😅
Being financially independent should be a must for every woman. That is one of your many powers , can't rely on someone else's pockets for all your needs and desires.
Remember we are talking from the prospect of Marriage. Not as a single lady.
@@anthonywilly8756 all the more important. Many women are stuck in bad marriages because they are financially dependent on the man who use money to abuse them. Every woman must have a handywork. MUST!!
Very very true oh!
@@anthonywilly8756What makes you think she's single? Did they use marriage to swear for you? I'm sure people like you don't even know what marriage means, otherwise you will support your wife's dreams
I gree.
Sis Chi please don't quit o, you are an inspiration to upcoming girls who want to be like you
I’m newly married & working while my husband stays home to look after our infant son because we relocated abroad for my new job. I’m very much interested to see a video on the different conversations & topics that you & your husband discussed before you got married.
@@itzfonzx3719 keep up with the team work. 🙌
I cannot quit my job for no one. Like you said this should be discussed even before going into marriage. I don't care id hubby is rich..You are a super industrious woman Flo!❤
I affirm and claim the beach front property along with you, this is also my dream for my retirement by next year IJN, Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I love that you are facing your career and your dynamics works for you. Sometimes it’s hard and very difficult cos every family dynamics, situation etc is different and women have to step down and care for the kids for a little especially when they are younger. When this has to happen, the parent with the higher earning power, job in demand and experience takes the lead and as kids grow, the woman who decided to slow her own career can ease back into a full time career. While doing this, make sure you are retraining or getting some type of certifications as a boost for your come back.
We keep adapting as we live life. I've had to adapt a lot too. I used many nannies. Staying home is not always the only solution. And for someone like me that can't stay at home, I will always explore numerous other options first. The thing is that in addition to the Mum guilt we feel, if a bad partner adds to that with their bad mouth, we would be defeated. But a loving partner will be brainstorming with you to find another solution if you really do not want to stay home.
My own Mum left us to go to school and my Dad took care of us while still working. This was in the 70s ooo. In a lot of cases, nobody needs to stay home. It's not written on stone that it is only women that can take care of children. Everybody needs to step up.
Our in-law is a supportive hubby so we know that this will never be an option for you. The fact that you are representing African women in this special field is a great honour. May God continue to bless you and always keep you safe.🙏🏾
Amen, thank you!
WOW. JUST WOW. You are an 'It girl'. Female engineer working offshore is amazing.💕💕
I like Flo, because you're so real. That's a rare gem we rarely find around on the Internet
May the Lord go with you and comfort your family in your absence. You are one tough lady in your chosen career.
Nene is so grown.
She is so pretty
I am here in line for the beach house vacation 😂. Please no one should argue with me. The line starts here and every other person is behind me 😂😂😂❤❤
Flo, thanks you for the video. Please we want to know the different conversations you had before marriage. I love seeing you free to do your job as a petroleum engineer and yet enjoying your marriage and children. You're a true inspiration.
Thank you! ❤❤❤ We have uploaded some of those videos. You've probably seen them.
I really consider you to be such a brave woman. You’re a true example of a Virtuous Woman! Keep doing you! All your efforts are definitely yielding fruit. And you’re blessed to have such good children who are not stressing you and your husband out! That alone makes it all worth it.
Wow! Ada Igbo! So proud of you. Welcome! ❤
The kids are all grownup. I really wanted to see Kam Kam’s face. You are so freaking hardworking. You inspire me.
Thank you ❤❤❤ Kam Kam showed face in this one👇
ua-cam.com/video/oIAgUT31FOQ/v-deo.html
Thanks for sharing the clip of the Vessel.I am reminiscing on my years Offshore ,many years ago.❤❤❤❤Love it.
Flo, that North sea is really dangerous. May the Lord keep you safe in Jesus name. Amen.
Amen!
This is MASSIVE thank you for taking me to work with you adi'm blown away!!!! May GOD bless your hustles!!!!!! Am proud of you nne!
Am sure your hubby do ❤❤❤
Thank you. ❤
Sis discuss with husband ,NEVER QUIT YOUR JOB, TALK TO YOUR SUPERVISORS TO SEE IF YOUR SCHEDULE CAN BE FLEXIBLE, SO YOU MAKE TIME FOR FAMILY, ALMIGHTY BLESS YOU, PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Thanks for the exposure
It is so nice to have you back FLO, you were missed
You're so industrious, fearless and strong ❤❤❤
Wow! Thank you for taking us on a tour inside the vessel. I enjoyed every bit of it. May God keep and preserve you as you're there.
Amen! Thanks Udy.
I realy missed your lovely videos, was watching the old ones, so glad you made this video. 🥰🥰
Sis Flo,You are simply amazing. You're an inspiration to women. Keep doing the good work.
I love you so much. You've really inspired me a lot. ❤❤
Stay safe. 🙏🏽
So Happy to See you Flo. Exciting to see the Flame is still there between you & your Hubby.
I married My Delta Ibo husband when I was 20, we have been married for 34 years, the flame dun burn out ohhh.
We Will be happy to see you in your Spanish Beachfront home.
❤ 🖤 💚👍🏼
Please share the conversations you had before marriage. There will be a lot to learn.
Great to know what are entails in those conversations
Your job is really an adventure! Welcome back madam Flo!
You're a hard working woman. May Almighty God continue to bless and keep your family ! Blessings Always !
Amen, thank you. ❤
Thank you so much for this video. It’s a source of inspiration and motivation for me. I travel 16 hours by plane ✈️ to work and return home after a few months.
Your best video to date. Nice contrast between home and work.
Very Very interesting content. Pushing the boundaries of women at work. Thanks.
Thankyou for the glimpse into offshore living.
I always love your Offshore videos. You are indeed motivating other women to be hardworking.
I love when you make videos like this; I love it when you are out in the ocean.
❤❤❤
Good to see you again, have a safe trip.
Awe Welcome back!!! No time to watch the video in entirety yet but so happy to see this Flo C post pop up!!!!!u were surely missed!!!!
It’s good to see you again aunty ❤ hardworking woman, I admire you Nne
Awwww😅, this is truly an adventure, at 13:00, I so love the rest room fittings, so cute. The house keeping art of deco is on point 😊. Makes your journey a memorable one
Yes o.
Well-done super woman . God will continue to protect and uplift you in Jesus name.
Well Done Flo Chi, your Daughter's hair is beautiful.
You are such an inspiration to us women thank you so much ❤❤
Aunty Flo welcome back! Yes we would love to hear that conversation, some of us can learn from it.
Wow this is so amazing and so lovely sister ❤️
I did miss you Aunty Flo.
Super woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It's 2:18 AM here in the U.K., right after the Hallelujah Challenge. I saw your notification and knew I had to check it out before heading to bed. That beach house has to become a reality, and I'm first in line! You inspire me so much, ma'am
Aww Ifeoma. ❤😘
Wow this is like a movie, I so much enjoyed it
May the Lord preserve you Aunt Flo❤❤
You're beautiful inside out. God's blessings from Ireland. First time commenting, but i have been following for years.
I enjoyed it! You are doing well ma and inspiring ❤
❤I zuru ezu na nwanyi. You are complete. This is just the kind of life I desired growing up and I was trained as an Electrical/Electronics engineer too. Well, I don't know. Maybe the convo I didn't have was a cause , or Nigeria happened.
Keep representing, darling.
I love you dearly.
❤❤❤
Great job. Keep up the good work👍🏽
What a beautiful daughter you've got ❤, I love the corn rows you made for her, so simple and fine ❤
Thanks. ❤
Well-done Aunty Flo
Flo nwaanyị oma🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 welcome back. Please make a video about important conversations to have before marriage.
really enjoy this vlog..
Good job Engr Flo! Biko if vacancy for instrumentation and control system, I am readily available. Nwa nne di n'mba. Remain blessed.
So lovely and speechless, thank you for sharing.
You are very inspiring Flo. I looooove this video and I especially like what you said about one's job being certain of a salary for your time (sure banker) as against UA-cam that may trickle in. Why did I think you were based in Canada? Thanks for showing us around. ❤
Glad to have you back ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Totally enjoyed the video. And yes would like to hear the conversations 😊
You are really a strong 💪🏼 woman
You're such a spectacular person. Many other people with your experience, talent and opportunities would be so pretentious. Even me o! I learn a lot from you.
Pretentious for what kwanu? Earthly achievements that can end in a twinkle of an eye? That's at best delusional. 😂
Wow! very inspiring. Thank God too for an understanding and supportive husband. This is what a good and happy marriage should be. Taking care of the home front and still accomplishing your career dreams makes you happy and the family happy too. BALANCE!
I missed you Mama Flo, I'm happy to see your vlog your content is always interesting and brings joy❤
You are welcome to Norway. ❤
Please ma,I will like to hear the discussion ooo
Aunty, if you leave content creation, how do you want us to learn from you, especially people like us that dream big but with no support
Pls don't leave us
You don't know how happy I am watching all your videos
By the way, I'm number 1 in the queue for the beach front house
Aww Vickie. I also enjoy hanging out with my people here. I will try. 🙏❤
Thanks you so much. I smiled from start to the end watching your work lifestyle. Your kids have grown. So inspiring and looks adventurous too. My favourite part of the vessel is the gym.
Thought Flo left UA-cam haven't seen her channel in a long time!!❤🙏🌍.
Well done, in the queue to visit o, God will daily strengthen you
You're a huge source of inspiration to me aunty Flo, God bless you abundantly
Flo your work life is interesting..welldone
It's good to see you again. Interesting video too. Wish you more strength to own that beach house ❤
This was really beautiful to watch!!
Than you for sharing this
Flo baby, you are sacrificing so much, you will definitely reap so much more 🙏. Journey mercies.
Amen! Thank you. ❤
Welcome back aunty Flo, we have missed you o. Thanks for sharing words of wisdom. 💖💖🙏🏾
Aunty Flo!!!! Is good to see you after awhile!!! I am here pressing the Calculator with you... At the beach house
Please follow me press o. 😅😂
Very informative video.
Helloo Flo❤❤❤❤❤ missed you mainly because you make me laugh so much! I love your videos!!! ❤❤❤❤
Honestly, I didn’t want the video to finish cos I was really enjoying it.
I love your job ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Husband no go divorce me hence you contribute to the family needs. Though staying away from the family isn’t easy. Understand from both side is highly needed to get the peace rolling 😊
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I've missed you nne ❤. Welcome
Welcome back Ma❤, is not easy ooh well done. I can't wait to hear the conversation 😂😂
Always love your work videos. It's an adventure indeed. 🎉
I am interested in that conversation.
I always enjoy your offshore videos. I admire your job and your work ethics. I'm interested in that convo between you and hubby before marriage.😂
Please Share your pre-marital discussions with hubby. I’ve been married 18 years but always open to learning.
Nne please we need more of this videos from north see please.
Nice vlog enjoyed watching
I am so inspired.. Thank you. We, your online in-laws, will never allow such division to happen😊
God bless my sister for creating this video for many married women to see and learn from you I believe it wll help alot of women outside their
Madam Flo,the great lady created by Great God.
Welcome back from work.
🙏God will always be your strength in Jesus Name Amen.
Amen! Thank you. ❤
Namesake i like the one you said ""if somebody's son tells you that you won't work na divorce straight "".
I am there already Flo nwanyioma. God is your strength ❤
I love you madam. This is what I’ve been praying for. career fulfillment and independence. I love what you do. Gods protection over you and yours
Interesting to watch! Keep doing you ma
So interesting to watch ❤
Good morning, Aunty Flo. I have not even watched halfway, and I love the video already. Thank you.
🎉 fabulous sister Flo Chi you are living the best life
Enjoy your lovely work , looks like an adventure 😍👍👍
It is! Thank you.
@@FloChinyere Thank you sister 🥰 for inspiring us all
Your job is a real adventure
The view ke????? My heart skipped a bit when that propeller stopped in the air. 9:36
Can you imagine? With all this your up and down movements, who needs to pay for a rollercoaster ride😮
😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Awww Onye you sure pay attention to detail. And that's a special skill. ❤❤❤ That propeller "stopping" is merely an optical illusion. Look up wagon-wheel effect for more infor on why it looked like it stopped when in fact it didn't.
@@FloChinyere thanks for the info 👍
Good evening sister Florence: nice to hear you came to our country🇳🇴:
Bergen and Kristensund: are both nice place❤️👍🏾