I love that scene. It shows that Lexie has several layers, and steps up for herself when people try to size her up. I understand Meredith’s aversion towards Lexie, but the asshole here is her dad. Not Lex.
@@hussainmartins5985 I agree she shouldn't have said anything to Lexie, it wasn't her place at all, but I meant the biggest asshole in general, not just this situation, is her dad. Not Lexie or Meredith
@@TheYouy89 I mean, if your wife cheated on you and took your kid halfway across the country, you’d be a pretty big mess, too. Personally, I got to say Ellis is the problem.
@@TheYouy89 But yet Meredith would still defend Ellis, and yeah both Ellis and Thatcher are at fault why Meredith has issues with family, but it still doesn't give her an excuse to be an asshole.
@@bizzarebanana3041 yes. Meredith has a hard life, we get it. Guess what? She's not the only one. That doesn't give her a license to take it out on Lexie.
for real, the audacity she has to imply that lexie is not keeping a good enough eye on her father by telling her to do better? she should mind her own business especially if she didnt want anything to do with lexie like she proclaimed
@@bizzarebanana3041 that doesn't mean Meredith gets to treat Lexie like crap. There were lots of ways Meredith could have handled the situation better. Lexie may have pushed too far, but Meredith was repeatedly demanding, rude and a downright bitch to Lexie on several occasions even when Lexie hadn't done anything(her reaction to Lexie and Alex comes to mind). Stop trying to make excuses for Meredith's behavior. We all have trauma in our lives. That doesn't give us a pass to treat people like crap whenever we feel like it.
Maggie didn’t have it easy Meredith realised she spent so much time not accepting Lexie as family and when she died she spent so much time not liking her and didn’t up loving her she loved her too late she didn’t want that to happen with her and maggie
@@meliiina_4647 true, i know!! But can't you understand Meredith but not wanting to be with Lexie?!! Someone who reminds her that she does have a family??? That's my only point
Hannah Ruth looking at Lexie reminded her of the father she never had, the mother she never had and childhood she never had. It would be pretty hard to look at her wouldn’t it?
And everytime lexie looks at meredith she sees her mother's death but she never victimised meredith for something she couldn't help so what gives meredith any right to victimize lexie?
@@thundercookie1014 I don't remember the exact sequence but I think Lexie's mom was admitted in the hospital and Mer was one of her doctors. Lexie's mom then died in surgery so.. that's why and before you say that it wasn't Mer's fault, I know it isn't just like how none of what happened to Mer was Lexie's fault so you can't blame Lexie was finally getting angry with the way Mer was treating her
@@LilBitJassy nope, no and no. Meredith acted like she knew better everyone else and had it worse than everyone else. She also divide herself and Christina from everybody else because they are "better" not like others. She didn't want to know lexie at all and here she thought that she can tell her smth like she did. She didn't want other put noise in her business and yet she did it herself. She was very arrogant here and kinda hypocritical.
@@bizzarebanana3041 I view this situation differently. When you're having a troubles with your parent (or any other member of the family) and you're trying to do every thing you can to make it okay, some one works to you and say what Meredith said with fake caring, it's irritating to say at least, disrespectful and hypocritical from Meredith. She didn't even try to help, she just pointed put how much lexie was failing. And when lexie wanted to know her and help her, she pushed her away but now for some reasons thinks that she can talk to lexie like that.
@@lenakataeva7525 it’s understandable that Meredith pushed her away though? Her father literally chose Lexie over her and abandoned Meredith, while that’s not Lexie’s fault you would understand why Meredith isn’t just gonna immediately accept Lexie into her life
Meredith: you should check a better eye on him. Lexie: is dealing with her mother's death, helping his sister after giving birth, is treated like a bag of crap by her residents who are supposed to teach her stuff but they don't cause they are too busy licking each other's genitalia 24/7 a day (seriously they just can't stop screwing each other), is practicing medicine on herself because no one will teach her, compromising her health and career if anyone finds out, has no place to leave and is forced by the circumstances to steal from the hospital to keep O'Malley's cry baby ass shut, feels lonely because Meredith refuses to talk to her unless is to insult her like she does here, not to mention that the time she's not at the hospital working and studying a the same she's dealing with his grieving alcoholic father that calls her "slut" for being a good as hell daughter when she doesn't have to. Meredith: okay but did I mention that he walked away from me when I was a child? Yes girl, like a fucking hundred times. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOUR EGOCENTRIC SKINNY ASS.
Lexie had it bad, people always hate her for trying to force herself on Meredith but I truly believe that she thought Meredith would be a support system which is something she didn’t have. She thought wrong because Meredith constantly blamed her for crap that wasn’t her fault
Why I love Lexie she is a breath of fresh air who stands up for here self she isn’t stuck up or egotistical or tries to be the center of attention and does her best at her job and doesn’t go around drowning people In her problems like Meredith and izzie and constantly getting jealous on who Derek is with which is why I hate them and can’t stand them
Meredith always blames everyone else for how her parents turned out or how they treated her she ever think maybe she just had really crap parents who didn’t care?! She is such a child at times it’s annoying they way she spoke to Lexie her was out of order.
Idk why people are crapping on Lexie she’s one of the characters in the show they helped mer mellow out and become more accepting if there was no Lexie I don’t think there would be an Amelia or Maggie. Lexie did not know Meredith even existed for years. When her other sister showed up to the hospital pregnant the mom told Meredith none of the daughters know about her existence. When she found out she wanted to find out about her sister I think that’s normal to be curious about family you never even knew you had for 20 plus years. Meredith blames them because they had relatively good lives and her childhood sucked but she can’t blame all of that on Lexie her mom cheated and took her away and of course her dad sucked for not reaching out but that has nothing to do with Lexie. Meredith put her though the ringer and was being all hot and cold with her. After someone says they want nothing to do with you what right do they have to judge you about your own dad who they know nothing about? She sounded down right condescending. This was one of the few times in the show Lexie even confronted her all the other times she just walked about when Meredith told her she hated her. I just really do not get what all the hate is for. Lexie was a good addition to the cast during those few seasons.
@@omarcogle1965 she doesn’t have to though . In her eyes , he WASN’T her father .. he was just somebody who poured her cereal in the mornings until he was gone . Richard Webber was her father figure .
@@ajaiachamberlin9133 I get that, but that was Ellis fault why Meredith didn't have a relationship with Thatcher. She f**ked up that relationship, the only problem I have is how Meredith came at Lexie about it, saying she should keep a better eye on him, Lexie checked her real quick.
I eventually loved how Meredith and Lexi’s relationship developed into a sisterly bond but I will forever maintain that Lexi had no right to try to force Meredith into being her sister. All Meredith wanted was for Lexi to leave her alone. She didn’t mind teaching her because it was her job but that was never enough for Lexi. She continued to push against Meredith’s clearly established boundaries and everyone acted as if Meredith was in the wrong for being annoyed with Lexi’s persistence. Meredith didn’t owe Lexi anything especially living up to her fantasy of what her big sister would be like. That right there shows you how ridiculous Lexi was. Here’s this woman who your father abandoned, and yes Ellis left and took Meredith but thatcher could have fought. Ellis was a suicidal workaholic that gave her second child up for adoption. I’m sure he could have gotten at minimum shared custody. This woman your father abandoned who had a mother that also didn’t know how to love her and you think she’s supposed to welcome the idea of the little sister that her father cared enough to actually be there for. If Lexi didn’t push Meredith to be more than her teacher Meredith wouldn’t have gone out of her way to hurt Lexi.
Meredith was so clearly out of line. People call Lexie a hypocrite, that she's pushy and unrelenting, and that's true. But in this instance, at the start of their relationship, Meredith was completely at fault. Thatcher abandoned her and her mother for Lexie and Susan, and that's okay for her to be bitter about, to be angry. But the person she should be angry at is Thatcher, not Lexie. She of all people understands deeply what it feels like to have problems with your parents. Ellis always blamed Meredith for derailing her career, for Richard leaving her -- she should at least have some empathy for Lexie now that Thatcher is an abusive alcoholic. Meredith also understands what it feels like to be a caretaker. She was frustrated and angry with having to deal with her mother's affairs, but she has no sense of sympathy for Lexie having to deal with the same burden she had to. She was lucky to have the guidance and comfort of her friends and of Richard, whereas Lexie practically has no one due to Thatcher's incapacitation. Molly has moved away and her mother is dead, and she has her intern friends, but it's clear she doesn't want to disclose such an issue to them. Meredith was being so obnoxious blaming Lexie for Thatcher's behaviour. No one ever told her that Ellis was "charming" when she had Alzheimer’s. Ellis didn't choose to be sick, and Thatcher didn't choose to lose Susan either, but he chose to drink, knowing he treated Lexie like crap when he was drunk. Meredith saying that Thatcher was a charming drunk to Lexie is so deeply disturbing and just plain mean. And it's so ridiculous how the writers made sure Meredith got comforted by Richard after this confrontation, because she needed it to see how awful she was behaving by saying this to Lexie.
i absolutely love lexie in this scene because the level of entitlement meredith has in this scene is appalling. if she did not want to accept lexie as her sister then meredith had no right to tell lexie how she needs to "keep a better eye on" her father. people calling lexie ungrateful should really look into how insensitive meredith acted towards her, if meredith wanted to remain as her superior at the hospital that is exactly how she should have acted in this scenario instead of acting like an entitled aunt and taunting lexie about her father who is an alcoholic.
Esta es mi escena favorita de Lexie en general, poniendo a Meredith en su lugar. Porque nos la querían vender como una buena protagonista, pero para mí las auténticas protagonistas eran Izzie y Lexie...
Yo siempre noté a Merediht con menos personalidad que todos , muy pocas veces tenía respuestas inteligentes como Izzie , Bayley , Lexie ..... christina , era la protagonista pero sólo destacaba por sus monólogos finales , para mí la serie debió llamarse Seatle Memorial's Anatomy ... por que muchos " secundarios " se robaron la serie
Idk why y’all keep saying “ Meredith was in the wrong during that situation “. How would YOU feel if your “ father “ left you , didn’t even try to contact you , and just got a new family . Y’all judge too quickly because I know for a FACT that more then HALF of you all would react the same way .
That blame also goes on Ellis as well, she took Meredith and up and left Thatcher, so yeah he should've fought for custody instead of seeing her 20 years later, but he's not the only one at fault. That being said, it still doesn't give Meredith the right to talk down to Lexie like she knows better.
@@omarcogle1965 yes , the blame is on the shoulders of Ellis and Thatcher . But some people don’t understand that Meredith didn’t HAVE to be nice to Lexie at all , tbh , she could’ve been way more rude then she was . I feel like people feel like they’re entitled enough to try tell her that she can’t act or think a certain way towards her fathers new family , the new family that she wasn’t even included in . And Ellis should’ve been a better mother and made better decisions for her daughter , one being , making sure she had a stable enough relationship with her father if she didn’t have one with her mother .
@@ajaiachamberlin9133 Don't forget, Ellis tried to kill herself, and had she succeeded in doing that, she would've left Meredit all alone, who does that? Also Meredith had told Alex not to date Lexie, and for someone who didn't want to know Lexie, who is she to say who Alex can't or can date?
Because Meredith spends all this time spurning Lexie, pushing her away, and now wants to lecture Lexie about a situation she knows nothing about. Meredith cannot have it both ways. If wants nothing to do with Lexie, okay, but she doesn't get to talk down to her and tell her what she did wrong when she knows nothing about the situation.
It's understandable that Meredith doesn't want to get to know Lexi. Lexi is the living reminder of Mer's dad, who left her. It's pretty reasonable that she would resent Lexi for getting love while she didn't even if that is not Lexi's fault. However, since Mer wants nothing to do with Lexi, she has no right to tell Lexi to do better at taking care of Thatcher. So good on Lexi for standing up to Meredith and putting her in her place.
@@cheryl9998 Now I'm on season 10 It is still good, but some of my favourite character are died, some are leaving The vibe of show has changed. This will be my last season of Grey's . I don't want to watch washed out versions of Grey's anatomy.
I don’t feel bad for her, i never liked Lexi, she shows up and forces herself on Meredith, not for one second thinking how tough it be for her to constantly be reminded of her dad abandoning her, leaving her to basically raise herself.
Lexie didn’t even know about meredith so she didn’t know it was gonna be hard for meredith, plus Lexie’s mom died, it isn’t wrong for someone to try to get to know their sibling, meredith is the rude one
moonbabe that’s not true, Lexie is the one who walked up to Meredith and say hi I’m your sister. Meredith is the one who didn’t know about Lexi. Once she introduces herself Meredith makes it clear she didn’t wanna know her and yet Lexi continues to push herself into her life. Yea it’s not wrong for her to want to know her sibling but she went about it the wrong way.
Dacatzmeow _ yes but I’m saying she didn’t know what kind of person meredith was, she didn’t know meredith would be closed off to meeting lexie, and lexie just wanted closure after her moms death, and if she didn’t ever push, meredith and her wouldn’t have been close, now meredith loves lexie even if she’s dead
But it was actually Meredith’s fault for sticking her nose in other people’s business but when they try and reach out to her, she says it’s none of her business. Mer is a bitch sometimes and you can’t just blame it all on the trauma. People seem to forget that Ellis cheated on Thatcher and TOOK Meredith across the country and just left. So it’s not Thatcher’s fault either before you start defending her by saying how “Lexie reminded her of the childhood she never had.” Just don’t be a bitch. It’s not that hard.
I love that scene. It shows that Lexie has several layers, and steps up for herself when people try to size her up. I understand Meredith’s aversion towards Lexie, but the asshole here is her dad. Not Lex.
Nope. The REAL asshole here is Meredith for interjecting and entering her irrelevant self into a situation that had nothing to do with her.
@@hussainmartins5985 I agree she shouldn't have said anything to Lexie, it wasn't her place at all, but I meant the biggest asshole in general, not just this situation, is her dad. Not Lexie or Meredith
@@TheYouy89 I mean, if your wife cheated on you and took your kid halfway across the country, you’d be a pretty big mess, too. Personally, I got to say Ellis is the problem.
@@lilyralynxx007 oh Ellis is definitely the problem😂no doubt about it.
@@TheYouy89 But yet Meredith would still defend Ellis, and yeah both Ellis and Thatcher are at fault why Meredith has issues with family, but it still doesn't give her an excuse to be an asshole.
I just wanted to hug her so much. You can really feel the raw emotion in that scene.
Mer was in the wrong here. She didn't need to punish Lexie when their father is the problem, not Lexie.
no
@@bizzarebanana3041 yes. Meredith has a hard life, we get it. Guess what? She's not the only one. That doesn't give her a license to take it out on Lexie.
for real, the audacity she has to imply that lexie is not keeping a good enough eye on her father by telling her to do better? she should mind her own business especially if she didnt want anything to do with lexie like she proclaimed
@@fandomking8939 but you can’t expect Meredith to just accept Lexie
@@bizzarebanana3041 that doesn't mean Meredith gets to treat Lexie like crap. There were lots of ways Meredith could have handled the situation better. Lexie may have pushed too far, but Meredith was repeatedly demanding, rude and a downright bitch to Lexie on several occasions even when Lexie hadn't done anything(her reaction to Lexie and Alex comes to mind). Stop trying to make excuses for Meredith's behavior. We all have trauma in our lives. That doesn't give us a pass to treat people like crap whenever we feel like it.
Maggie has it so easy. Lexi had to fight for Meredith’s love
Maggie just got it
Maggie didn’t just get it. also Mer learnt from Lexie about having a sister.
The thing is, is that Meredith was the vulnerable one in the situation with Lexie and in the situation with Maggie, Maggie was the vulnerable one
Maggie didn’t have it easy Meredith realised she spent so much time not accepting Lexie as family and when she died she spent so much time not liking her and didn’t up loving her she loved her too late she didn’t want that to happen with her and maggie
Meredith didn't even try to have a relationship with her other half sister, Molly.
maggie did not have it easy... why does everyone forget how horrible meredith was to her in the beginning
i so so so LOVE how Lexie put Mer in her place
no
@@bizzarebanana3041 shut uuuppo
Poor Lexie. :(
Your username and profile is Kara Danvers and the actress who played Lexie plays Kara's sister lol
@@Hi-gg8rp ok and
@@annaededon and that's a fact and my comment and if you can't handle that, I am obviously not the problem, *you are*
@@Hi-gg8rp why would I be the problem, literally everyone knows that chyler was on greys and supergirl. Why point out an obvious fact.
@@annaededon any fact can be an an "obvious fact" to anyone because *they* know about it but I just said it for fun-
I have such a soft spot for Lexie
Yess Lexie! Stand up to her she has no right to talk to you like that she may have not of had a dad but all Lexie had was a drunk
??? Meredith wasn't rude, and didn't know the situation...
@@desisarod if you don't know the situation you shut your mouth and stay quiet.
@@meliiina_4647 ??? If you abandon someone you shut your mouth and don't be a hypocrite
@@desisarod it was Thatcher, not Lexie- and he was kicked out by Ellis, but no one calls her crap out.
@@meliiina_4647 true, i know!! But can't you understand Meredith but not wanting to be with Lexie?!! Someone who reminds her that she does have a family??? That's my only point
Oh dear God, that was pretty intense to watch.
More like Lexie Slay
Well done Lexie! Meredith tries to act so much better than everyone else sometimes
Hannah Ruth looking at Lexie reminded her of the father she never had, the mother she never had and childhood she never had. It would be pretty hard to look at her wouldn’t it?
And everytime lexie looks at meredith she sees her mother's death but she never victimised meredith for something she couldn't help so what gives meredith any right to victimize lexie?
Sharda Ramlakhan how could she see her mother’s death? That doesn’t make any sense.
@@thundercookie1014 I don't remember the exact sequence but I think Lexie's mom was admitted in the hospital and Mer was one of her doctors. Lexie's mom then died in surgery so.. that's why
and before you say that it wasn't Mer's fault, I know it isn't just like how none of what happened to Mer was Lexie's fault so you can't blame Lexie was finally getting angry with the way Mer was treating her
I think that this is just a show and y'all should relax 😂
This was the scene I started to love Lexie
Meredith had no business to talk like that to Lexie.
she had every business to talk to lexie like that.
@@LilBitJassy nope, no and no. Meredith acted like she knew better everyone else and had it worse than everyone else. She also divide herself and Christina from everybody else because they are "better" not like others. She didn't want to know lexie at all and here she thought that she can tell her smth like she did. She didn't want other put noise in her business and yet she did it herself. She was very arrogant here and kinda hypocritical.
@@lenakataeva7525 no she wasnt, lexie was being unhelpful when meredith really didnt want anything to do with her dad
@@bizzarebanana3041 I view this situation differently. When you're having a troubles with your parent (or any other member of the family) and you're trying to do every thing you can to make it okay, some one works to you and say what Meredith said with fake caring, it's irritating to say at least, disrespectful and hypocritical from Meredith. She didn't even try to help, she just pointed put how much lexie was failing. And when lexie wanted to know her and help her, she pushed her away but now for some reasons thinks that she can talk to lexie like that.
@@lenakataeva7525 it’s understandable that Meredith pushed her away though? Her father literally chose Lexie over her and abandoned Meredith, while that’s not Lexie’s fault you would understand why Meredith isn’t just gonna immediately accept Lexie into her life
This scene made me love lexi more than I thought I could ❤️❤️
Meredith: you should check a better eye on him.
Lexie: is dealing with her mother's death, helping his sister after giving birth, is treated like a bag of crap by her residents who are supposed to teach her stuff but they don't cause they are too busy licking each other's genitalia 24/7 a day (seriously they just can't stop screwing each other), is practicing medicine on herself because no one will teach her, compromising her health and career if anyone finds out, has no place to leave and is forced by the circumstances to steal from the hospital to keep O'Malley's cry baby ass shut, feels lonely because Meredith refuses to talk to her unless is to insult her like she does here, not to mention that the time she's not at the hospital working and studying a the same she's dealing with his grieving alcoholic father that calls her "slut" for being a good as hell daughter when she doesn't have to.
Meredith: okay but did I mention that he walked away from me when I was a child?
Yes girl, like a fucking hundred times. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOUR EGOCENTRIC SKINNY ASS.
Period!
Lexie had it bad, people always hate her for trying to force herself on Meredith but I truly believe that she thought Meredith would be a support system which is something she didn’t have. She thought wrong because Meredith constantly blamed her for crap that wasn’t her fault
Why I love Lexie she is a breath of fresh air who stands up for here self she isn’t stuck up or egotistical or tries to be the center of attention and does her best at her job and doesn’t go around drowning people In her problems like Meredith and izzie and constantly getting jealous on who Derek is with which is why I hate them and can’t stand them
Meredith always blames everyone else for how her parents turned out or how they treated her she ever think maybe she just had really crap parents who didn’t care?! She is such a child at times it’s annoying they way she spoke to Lexie her was out of order.
richard's face tho
The way she turns around like 'oh you're gonna give me some lame reason'. :#
Idk why people are crapping on Lexie she’s one of the characters in the show they helped mer mellow out and become more accepting if there was no Lexie I don’t think there would be an Amelia or Maggie. Lexie did not know Meredith even existed for years. When her other sister showed up to the hospital pregnant the mom told Meredith none of the daughters know about her existence. When she found out she wanted to find out about her sister I think that’s normal to be curious about family you never even knew you had for 20 plus years. Meredith blames them because they had relatively good lives and her childhood sucked but she can’t blame all of that on Lexie her mom cheated and took her away and of course her dad sucked for not reaching out but that has nothing to do with Lexie. Meredith put her though the ringer and was being all hot and cold with her. After someone says they want nothing to do with you what right do they have to judge you about your own dad who they know nothing about? She sounded down right condescending. This was one of the few times in the show Lexie even confronted her all the other times she just walked about when Meredith told her she hated her. I just really do not get what all the hate is for. Lexie was a good addition to the cast during those few seasons.
Ate and left no crumbs
Anyone notice that Meredith said "Your Dad was in the E.R..."
Well duh Lexi grew up with their dad unlike Meredith
Meredith doesn't acknowledge Thatcher as her dad, even though he's her birth dad.
@@omarcogle1965 she doesn’t have to though . In her eyes , he WASN’T her father .. he was just somebody who poured her cereal in the mornings until he was gone . Richard Webber was her father figure .
@@ajaiachamberlin9133 I get that, but that was Ellis fault why Meredith didn't have a relationship with Thatcher. She f**ked up that relationship, the only problem I have is how Meredith came at Lexie about it, saying she should keep a better eye on him, Lexie checked her real quick.
Honestly Lexi’s scenes are some of my favorite
And then later on she asks Meredith to save him by giving her a piece of her liver….. 🙄
Bottom line is he’s a grown man and she can’t control him as his child.
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I eventually loved how Meredith and Lexi’s relationship developed into a sisterly bond but I will forever maintain that Lexi had no right to try to force Meredith into being her sister. All Meredith wanted was for Lexi to leave her alone. She didn’t mind teaching her because it was her job but that was never enough for Lexi. She continued to push against Meredith’s clearly established boundaries and everyone acted as if Meredith was in the wrong for being annoyed with Lexi’s persistence. Meredith didn’t owe Lexi anything especially living up to her fantasy of what her big sister would be like. That right there shows you how ridiculous Lexi was. Here’s this woman who your father abandoned, and yes Ellis left and took Meredith but thatcher could have fought. Ellis was a suicidal workaholic that gave her second child up for adoption. I’m sure he could have gotten at minimum shared custody. This woman your father abandoned who had a mother that also didn’t know how to love her and you think she’s supposed to welcome the idea of the little sister that her father cared enough to actually be there for. If Lexi didn’t push Meredith to be more than her teacher Meredith wouldn’t have gone out of her way to hurt Lexi.
Except when she didn't care anymore that's when meredith welcomed her.
Meredith was so clearly out of line. People call Lexie a hypocrite, that she's pushy and unrelenting, and that's true. But in this instance, at the start of their relationship, Meredith was completely at fault.
Thatcher abandoned her and her mother for Lexie and Susan, and that's okay for her to be bitter about, to be angry. But the person she should be angry at is Thatcher, not Lexie. She of all people understands deeply what it feels like to have problems with your parents. Ellis always blamed Meredith for derailing her career, for Richard leaving her -- she should at least have some empathy for Lexie now that Thatcher is an abusive alcoholic.
Meredith also understands what it feels like to be a caretaker. She was frustrated and angry with having to deal with her mother's affairs, but she has no sense of sympathy for Lexie having to deal with the same burden she had to. She was lucky to have the guidance and comfort of her friends and of Richard, whereas Lexie practically has no one due to Thatcher's incapacitation. Molly has moved away and her mother is dead, and she has her intern friends, but it's clear she doesn't want to disclose such an issue to them.
Meredith was being so obnoxious blaming Lexie for Thatcher's behaviour. No one ever told her that Ellis was "charming" when she had Alzheimer’s. Ellis didn't choose to be sick, and Thatcher didn't choose to lose Susan either, but he chose to drink, knowing he treated Lexie like crap when he was drunk. Meredith saying that Thatcher was a charming drunk to Lexie is so deeply disturbing and just plain mean. And it's so ridiculous how the writers made sure Meredith got comforted by Richard after this confrontation, because she needed it to see how awful she was behaving by saying this to Lexie.
One of the things I love about Lexie is that she told Meredith how to be a sister.
So when meredith said you should keep a better eye on thatcher it's was wrong it's just as simple saying take care of him was that so wrong.
Anyone know what season and episode this is
i absolutely love lexie in this scene because the level of entitlement meredith has in this scene is appalling. if she did not want to accept lexie as her sister then meredith had no right to tell lexie how she needs to "keep a better eye on" her father. people calling lexie ungrateful should really look into how insensitive meredith acted towards her, if meredith wanted to remain as her superior at the hospital that is exactly how she should have acted in this scenario instead of acting like an entitled aunt and taunting lexie about her father who is an alcoholic.
Esta es mi escena favorita de Lexie en general, poniendo a Meredith en su lugar. Porque nos la querían vender como una buena protagonista, pero para mí las auténticas protagonistas eran Izzie y Lexie...
Yo siempre noté a Merediht con menos personalidad que todos , muy pocas veces tenía respuestas inteligentes como Izzie , Bayley , Lexie ..... christina , era la protagonista pero sólo destacaba por sus monólogos finales , para mí la serie debió llamarse Seatle Memorial's Anatomy ... por que muchos " secundarios " se robaron la serie
Idk why y’all keep saying “ Meredith was in the wrong during that situation “. How would YOU feel if your “ father “ left you , didn’t even try to contact you , and just got a new family . Y’all judge too quickly because I know for a FACT that more then HALF of you all would react the same way .
That blame also goes on Ellis as well, she took Meredith and up and left Thatcher, so yeah he should've fought for custody instead of seeing her 20 years later, but he's not the only one at fault. That being said, it still doesn't give Meredith the right to talk down to Lexie like she knows better.
@@omarcogle1965 yes , the blame is on the shoulders of Ellis and Thatcher . But some people don’t understand that Meredith didn’t HAVE to be nice to Lexie at all , tbh , she could’ve been way more rude then she was . I feel like people feel like they’re entitled enough to try tell her that she can’t act or think a certain way towards her fathers new family , the new family that she wasn’t even included in . And Ellis should’ve been a better mother and made better decisions for her daughter , one being , making sure she had a stable enough relationship with her father if she didn’t have one with her mother .
@@ajaiachamberlin9133 Don't forget, Ellis tried to kill herself, and had she succeeded in doing that, she would've left Meredit all alone, who does that? Also Meredith had told Alex not to date Lexie, and for someone who didn't want to know Lexie, who is she to say who Alex can't or can date?
Because Meredith spends all this time spurning Lexie, pushing her away, and now wants to lecture Lexie about a situation she knows nothing about. Meredith cannot have it both ways. If wants nothing to do with Lexie, okay, but she doesn't get to talk down to her and tell her what she did wrong when she knows nothing about the situation.
omg stfu no matter how bad she grew up she was still in the wrong so i don’t wanna hear that
I would have told Meredith "How did keeping and eye on your Mom work out?"
When did meradith want her to keep an eye on him lexi is at the hospital all day and on call meradith should have helped her out
meredith is are the hospital all day too. it’s not her responsibility to help watch over the man who literally abandoned her when she was 5
@@nial1081 I know that but she's expecting Lexi to do it when Lexi works all day she has no place to give lexi a lecture about looking after her dad
It's understandable that Meredith doesn't want to get to know Lexi. Lexi is the living reminder of Mer's dad, who left her. It's pretty reasonable that she would resent Lexi for getting love while she didn't even if that is not Lexi's fault.
However, since Mer wants nothing to do with Lexi, she has no right to tell Lexi to do better at taking care of Thatcher.
So good on Lexi for standing up to Meredith and putting her in her place.
It’s all Richard’s fault.
Can someone tell me at which season i should stop watching Grey's anatomy
I'm on season 4
Why do you want to stop watching Grey's Anatomy?
@@cheryl9998 Now I'm on season 10
It is still good, but some of my favourite character are died, some are leaving
The vibe of show has changed.
This will be my last season of Grey's .
I don't want to watch washed out versions of Grey's anatomy.
@@dillydolly176 yea, I know what you mean :/ I stoped watching in like season 7
@@cheryl9998 i urge u to watch season 8
It was the best season of Grey's anatomy
I don’t feel bad for her, i never liked Lexi, she shows up and forces herself on Meredith, not for one second thinking how tough it be for her to constantly be reminded of her dad abandoning her, leaving her to basically raise herself.
Lexie didn’t even know about meredith so she didn’t know it was gonna be hard for meredith, plus Lexie’s mom died, it isn’t wrong for someone to try to get to know their sibling, meredith is the rude one
moonbabe that’s not true, Lexie is the one who walked up to Meredith and say hi I’m your sister. Meredith is the one who didn’t know about Lexi. Once she introduces herself Meredith makes it clear she didn’t wanna know her and yet Lexi continues to push herself into her life. Yea it’s not wrong for her to want to know her sibling but she went about it the wrong way.
I think maggie was the one who wanted meredith to accept her at once.. Lexie waited for meredith to accept her as a sister..
Dacatzmeow _ yes but I’m saying she didn’t know what kind of person meredith was, she didn’t know meredith would be closed off to meeting lexie, and lexie just wanted closure after her moms death, and if she didn’t ever push, meredith and her wouldn’t have been close, now meredith loves lexie even if she’s dead
Yes but
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I always hated this. Meredith had *no* right.
Lexie pissed me off so much in this scene yikes
how did she piss u off when she made a good ass point?
But it was actually Meredith’s fault for sticking her nose in other people’s business but when they try and reach out to her, she says it’s none of her business. Mer is a bitch sometimes and you can’t just blame it all on the trauma. People seem to forget that Ellis cheated on Thatcher and TOOK Meredith across the country and just left. So it’s not Thatcher’s fault either before you start defending her by saying how “Lexie reminded her of the childhood she never had.” Just don’t be a bitch. It’s not that hard.
Puppy Lover say this again for the ones in the back. like we know Thatcher wasn’t a good father, but Ellis wasn’t a good wife or mother.
Meredith literally started it but okay.
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