I find it hard to believe that an ER wouldn't treat someone just cause they're a minor without a parent - is it not still an emergency? like treat now and ask questions later?
That Mom who is Mom 2.0 to her kid's friends. She warms my heart. I feel such things about that post, as a kid who has parents who love her very much, but had to be her parents' parent. It's really hard as a kid to have family which will not look after you or themselves. You can have everything, but if they're not managing things or teaching you life skills and structure, you can still feel unwanted or unseen. Sometimes you just need a mom or a dad to set you on the right path when you are lost. I was very fortunate to have that in my aunt and uncle, and I can't imagine what my childhood would have been without them.
I disowned my mother because she was never in my life, was the reason I almost died at 1 and ditched me on my graduation day. She is no longer my mom. She is only to me as the women who carried me for 9 months
A cousin of mine disowned his mother and the rest of her family due to her/ then abandoning him at a young age and make him live with estranged family. (Adopted by my aunt who is a sweetheart!) when he turned 18, she came back and want him in her life but that was due to him having his Stimulus Checks and his US treasury checks due to disability. He doesn’t even talk to no body from her side and threaten to call the cops on her since he knows she has warrants of arrest. Haven’t spoken to her 3 years now and good for him.
I parted ways from both my parents long ago. My father was a self-involved narcissist, but at least he was consistently horrible. My mother was wildly unstable and abusive. When I was 8 she told me of a day the prior week when she'd lost her mind and stood over me with a gun for 5 hours while I slept, trying to nerve herself up into "shooting me in the head and then shooting herself". I spent the next 8 years in constant terror of getting killed in my sleep, and had chronic insomnia and paranoia for the next 30 years. The paranoia is still there, but at least now I can sleep soundly again.
I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrific thing. I hope you find ways to lessen your paranoia, but thank God you can sleep normally again. I wish you luck and happiness.
@@maggiem6209 My wife is a computer and hardware genius, and set up cameras all around our house exterior with a huge screen on the wall next to my computer. Now I don’t go outside several times a night when I hear weird noises. My dogs also help keep me calm. Thanks!
@@typichank1250 I'm doing pretty well these days, thanks. It's odd, because I was subject to rather extreme physical abuse during childhood, but this event, which didn't involve any hitting, probably did more damage than the physical stuff. But it's been 10 years now that I've been able to sleep through the night soundly, and that's awesome. I'm still paranoid and my nightstand has a slew of weapons on it (I collect various types and have extensive combat training), but my wife loves me as I am and doesn't give me grief over it. Medication has helped as well, and I did about a year of therapy. I appreciate the well-wishes of people who care enough to send a kind word to complete strangers. You're awesome!
My Dad disowned his parents. It's a VERY long story, but the straw that broke the camel's back was when my Grandma shot my Grandpa in the hand (only in the hand because he moved just in time) and Grandpa lied that he accidentally shot himself. Dad had to cut his Dad out because if the man would take a bullet for his wife, imagine what else she could get him to do. I'm super sad that Grandpa passed before Grandma because I only saw them until age 4 and never got to know my Grandpa. And yes, they were co-dependent AF.
You can do something, CALL CPS!! If you know your sibling is being abused, at the very least call 911; a broken tail bone is serious, get help for your brother!!😔rekwife
For the family that disowned their child because she was gay. - 1 Timothy 5:8 Anyone who does not provide for their relatives and especially their own household has denied the faith and is worse than the non-believer. So by their own logic... I wish more people actually read the religious texts (all of them) rather than just taking them by what society/others tell them. It really is quite pathetic.
I agree a 100%, I’m muslim but I always see other muslims disowning or hating their childeren for being gay. Meanwhile being gay or having these feelings aren’t a sin. It only becomes a sin when you practise. Even if your child or anyone you know commits a sin you shouldn’t hate or disown them because we’re all sinners!
With what little I know about christianity from what I remember is that all sin is equal but some actions are worse than others and deserve the proportional punishment...so where does two or more people of appropriate ages and of sound mind to consent into a loving equal relationship with each other is said as a sin?
17:07 As a Christian bro this physically angers me. Like what Bible, what chapter, what verse, tells you to stop loving people because of their sexuality. People like them is what gives Christianity bad reps😒😤
Easily the part that annoys me the most regarding these people is the total reverse of what they are supposed to do. As a Christian myself, I understand that a Christian is only meant to be harsh on other Christians since they are expected to follow Biblical morality but not those who aren't Christians since they aren't expected to. Paul was super nice and gentle to almost all secular people despite how wildly they disobeyed the Bible but once told a group of so-called Christians to go cut their balls off for claiming that circumcision was a requirement of salvation, but modern day "Christians" do this in reverse and forgiveness/unconditional love is all but forgotten when they interact with someone who doesn't believe exactly what they do.
I am religious and am pondering the thought of becoming a parent one day. No matter what my kids and I end up disagreeing upon, disowning them is NOT on the table. The only way I would cut ties would be if the situation was genuinely unsalvageable (as in they are a violent threat to others). There will be no world in which I pretend I don't have a child anymore
My birth father disowned me before i was born.mom disowned me after she divorced my bio dad. Why? In dad's case,born on thursday,his at the time bowling night Mom?i look identical to my dad,and she could not face me
wtf kind of hospital doesnt treat without parents consent? isnt it a thing that they get someone to make the decision when there's no parent, otherwise kids are just gunna die
Similar thing happened to me, though it was with my ex GF and her mom and sister (the father and brother were awesome tho). She and her mom tried to shove Christianity down my throat despite me already being Christian. Problem was, I wasn’t Christian enough for them, and that would eventually lead to her breaking up with me. Now to the point, I used to be a witch WAY BACK in 2018 but then got into the Bible. She and her family pushed me back out of Christianity and back into witchcraft. Never looked back.
I got disowned, not by my mother, by my older siblings. My housemate had a severe mental break and told my older siblings things about me that were completely untrue and, instead of asking me, they disowned me and called me the most horrible names. Kinda out things into perspective and I've never been happier, as I do things to make me happy, and not them. It's a long long story, but at least in the end there was a silver lining
I was going to be given up for adoption. My mum said that she couldn’t take care of me at the time and gave me to a doctor for a week. After this, she realized that she didn’t want to give me up and kept me. For some odd reason, my heart still breaks when I hear the story. I was so close to be given up🥲
Well not technically disowned but seems to fit the theme. Never felt close to my mother (why? She said it's because when I was born/dead I didn't get to feel her warmth or some shit) and because of this we grew up arguing, fighting, and etc but most importantly never feeling close. Now after turning 14(i think) some of the things get even more intense some improve. But recently after being, what I later found out had been going on since before junior year, emotionally manipulated for years I got manipulated into buying her a car (a classic mustang worth 70k) we argue and I explained she didn't deserve the car after being not a good mother. And she argued she deserved using my inheritance(she spent hers years ago) to buy the car I rebuttal saying something along the lines of “you have used me for so long that you're not getting a penny more. I'm setting up accounts for my brothers and I'm not going to buy you another car(she asked for another one bold face no embarrassment or hesitancy), remodel the house or even keep talking with you when I get the money”. To that she said she's ok with never seeing me as long as I give her the money for my brothers
Do not give her money for your brothers. They are her responsibility, not yours. If you feel compelled to help your brothers out financially, don't give them cash. Mom will take the cash and use it however she pleases. Instead, pay for whatever you agree to. Pay the bill yourself. Buy the groceries yourself. Gas up the car yourself. And only if you would have done these things for them anyway.
@@spooniesarah privately I'm considering setting aside 750k each. In a trust to pay for college, housing, etc but with strict restrictions and the inability for anything to be used for my mothers WANTS. Reason being Is she has also said she might buy another mustang and a big house because I'm apparently going to help. Of course, she won't know until I've already cut contact and hopefully she understand why
@@ricotrejo4125 she won't understand but that's her problem. You haven't made any promises to her, so her decision to buy expensive things thinking you're gonna be helping out is entirely her own stupidity.
@@spooniesarah she should considering I've already called her out. I've face to face told her buying her dream car was stupid and that she didn't deserve it
12:00 I know people are probably being very sympathetic to this guy but let's also keep in mind that most selfish and mean people tend to be oblivious to the pain and hurt they cause twords family who love them.... This guy may not be the innocent or the victim of this story.
The fact he stayed super vague with just him saying his Dad kicked him out, kinda makes it seem like he's the problem. It reminds me of my brother, he acts like he is so unaware and lost...but will turn around and break stuff, blame his situation on the rest of the family or God, etc. People not living in the same house as him would always be sympathetic and think the rest of us were the issue...after all, "he is being so polite, how can he be a problem?"
I disowned my father because of what he did to my siblings and I during our youth. He harassed mom in her workplaces so she can be fired, let us with his maniatic mother to brainwash us that our mom "never loved us". Mom never changed her number for over 10 years so he could have a way to contact us after we moved to another district in the same city. But he never called or texted. Then we heard that he had other daughter with his third wife and named her with my same name. Technically, he is replacing us with new children. I just remember birthdays, new years, hollidays waiting his call. The three of us always expecting. And that call never happened and we would be sad all day. Sadness change into anger and resentment and then... nothing. How can you get mad with someone that never existed in thw first place? Thinking back, it still hurts at 27 years.
@@sws212 its literally not his or his dad's fault that he's got schizophrenia so bad.... y'all legitimately don't know how bad it is, and even with him not taking the medication that probably isn't his fault either. His dad needed professional help in another state.
@@blackavar5723 Don't try and turn this around on him, he's right. The father is not to blame for being schizo, however the son is a moron for basically abetting his insanity and refusing to have him institutionalized. He even said so himself, that man is a serious threat to society and his own family.
@@blackavar5723 You really thought you did something here. It's not that deep man, and I misinterpreted everything. Love how you need no excuse to go on another moral power trip. We can acknowledge the father is struggling while accepting that (in the context of the story) he cannot be a fully functioning member of society and is a danger to his family. tabora_ was right in that he needed serious professional help, but you can only do so much if he isn't willing to accept any form of assistance.
12:11 I can't imagine how much love it took for her to do that and be so selfless. I hope that she still participates in her daughter's life as much as possible. 💝 The thought of losing my boys makes my chest feel as though it is caving in. I would be un-alive.
my dad has technically disowned me as we're not on speaking terms, we're civil when we have to talk but he never makes an effort to reach out so in turn i make no effort back he never wanted to be a parent and never tried to be one
I disowned my mom because she reeked havoc on my life for 19 years, and after i got married she started trying to manipulate my wife and i into basically providing for all of her needs (groceries, meds, doctor appointments) whike she sucks money off the government. She becamr less and less grateful, until the point where if we couldnt do what she wanted when we wanted, shed tey guilting us. She did the same to my sister and her husband. We cut ties with her, and i havent seen or spoken to her in coming up on 3 years. I dont miss her
12:52 genuinely feeling bad for this woman. Given the stated circumstances she probably did the right thing, but I won’t even try to put into words how difficult and painful this must have been for her. Glad the daughter is doing well and has a home where she’s loved, but I hope the mother can get up on her feet and perhaps become a part of her daughter’s life one day
With the ones in the POV of the parents, it seems like the parents are the cause of their kids’ problems and rather than parent, they disown them. The mom spoiled her kids so rather than stop spoiling them and teach them gratitude, she ditches them. The father whose daughters were brainwashed rather than recognize that they’re victims of parental alienation and fight for them, he leaves them $1 in his will for them (basically proving all of his ex’s lies). The father whose his 9-year-old out no longer wants to be part of his family and the father whose teenager called his mom a count, rather than realizing they are being brats for their ages and lack the understanding of the impact of their words and teach them they kick them out. In the case of the 9-year-old while it may be the dad’s attempt to teach the impact, it was extreme and a simple talking and grounding could have solved it.
My dad supposedly disowned me for calling him out on his years of bullshit. He lived with his mistress while still being involved with my mom, put her kids before his own (for example, buying them brand new phones and tried to pawn their old ones on us), ditched my wedding because said mistress was kicked out for showing up despite being told she wasn't invited then going on to walk his step daughter down the aisle on top of paying for her entire wedding (I paid for mine on my own), the icing on the cake was that he allowed his other step daughter to abuse my brother and have her husband molest him! I called him out on all of this and he told me to stop living in the past, even though he still pulls crap like this today and lives in the past too.
This happened to my ex husband who is French. We were living in France and he was working in a government job. I am from Canada and we decided to leave France for Canada. My ex father in law did not like our decision and disowned his son for that.
My mom was never around and my dad has a horrible temper problem and refuses to acknowledge how deeply he has hurt my sister and I. I do genuinely believes he loves us it's just that he doesn't want to admit to what a failure he was. He always gave us stuff and vacations as a way of showing love and I don't think he gets that I remember traumatizing experiences from nearly every vacation we went on that he caused and those are what stick out in my mind. Money can't fix the way he's hurt me but I'm willing to still talk to him because he still gives me money and I don't want to risk losing it. He has to initiate all conversation, though. If getting money for emotional damages is a perfectly legal avenue then I am simply collecting what I'm owed.
5:06 no man you’re not a degenerate you’re probably one of the most experienced people I’ve heard of you volunteered at a church every week you went to the Middle East for two years and volunteered you got your master degrees in Harvard you’re not a degenerate or an under achiever you did what most people wouldn’t do so don’t call yourself that hope things get better for you in the future my friend
My mother disowned me 6 months before she died. I had had ENOUGH of her covert narcissim and constant criticism and called her out on it. Then she tried to gaslight me about some jewelry that she said she did not get. I laughed and told her "of course you received that jewelry" The she raged at me in a different language and the only thing I understood was that she said she hopes I end up homeless. I have G.E.R.D. and had to go throw from the huge amount of acid. I had to hang up to get to bathroom. Here came the silent teatment again. After a few hoovers neither one of contacted each other. She died in hospice and no one in the family bothered to tell me. They were coddling her for years to get my inheritance and they got it and now none of us are in contact.
My parents disowned my older sister because she was a manipulative pathological liar not only that she would actively buy drugs and hide them in our house she would steal from me and my other sister, steal from our parents, make false police reports (and has almost gotten us taken away by CPS), has gotten arrested for lying to the police, has gotten into a fight and put a girl into the hospital, dropped out of school, and then her and her boyfriend broke into our house when my parents weren’t home I caught them and told them to leave they refused and then her boyfriend threatened to kill me (she stood there and laughed) and then he proceeded to threaten and kill the rest of our family (she also stood there) My father wants to take her back in tho and I’m mad about it but my mom won’t let him and has told said sister that she isn’t allowed back
All of this reminds me of an old saying. Every child deserves to have parents, but not every parent deserves to have a child. If you're a nutcase or you're not financially stable, please keep your legs closed. Not only will you be better off but you won't be bringing an unwilling participant into your mess of a life.
The second actual response from a parent felt kind of... I’m not sure. The kid only wanted to be in the family because he was a dependent, nothing was reconciled. He probably would’ve rather been in a different family.
My birth mom remarried and, one by one, her new husband created arguments with each relative and birth mom no longer talks with each of us, including her kids and sister (who was her best friend). She lies about her kids in order to save face in public. I don't think anyone believes her anymore. Thank God for my wonderful stepmom. I named my daughter after her. Birth mom has never met my kids. It's better this way.
My ex-aunt has been disowned by her parents, sister and children, and her partner's daughter refuses to speak to him because of her. She hasn't figured out the common denominator yet. Spoiler: it's because she was majorly manipulative and abusive. If either of her kids messed up, she'd make both of them sit on the sofa and wait for her partner to get home, regardless of how long it took, sometime hours, and they would then have to lie on the floor while he beat their backs with belts. One of the kids had ADHD and the other had autism, so of course their 'misdeeds' would include any neurodivergent behaviour too. Both kids eventually got taken into care after _she_ called the police on the younger one. She also repeatedly manipulated her older son, who stayed in contact with her much longer, into trying to sue our grandmother, and into cheating my mother out of loaned money, but thats a much milder offense, by comparison.
My parents disowned my sister twice , first time she had a massive new years eve party in 2000 and built a massive bonfire using my bedroom furniture, the sofas from the den, and a table thats been in the family for 8 generations her friends broke it, after this my parents when she was released from jail packed a book bag with her toiletries, 3 days worth of cloths and 100$ and a grey hound bus ticket, and told her she was no longer their daughter and kicked her out for disrespecting their house, me, and many many other things , she stayed at a friends and tried to break into the house but the doors were reinforced and the locks change, the 2end time was when she lied to my moms parents and had me banned from Christmas and my birthday canceled, she got her ex bf and a friend to come in and steal all the high end gifts while everyone was eating breakfast but was caught by a cousin who wanted to play his new gameboy , she was then on the run but was caught 8 hours later , everything was returned my grandparents were horrified and screamed at how disappointed they were but she gave no emotion but was most likely pissed that she was caught , the friend told police that the pain was that They would load up n leave to a friends house in mobile Alabama and call to say they were chasing me and pawn off everything to buy drugs and beer to party
It actually happened, at least once. I don't exactly recall the name, but there was this dude that wanted to live his dream of becoming a baseball pro through his sons, and obsessed on this to the point of abusing them during training. Eldest son got away from him, so he came down even harder on the youngest. Eventually the youngest snapped and shot him dead. Everyone, even the guy's parents and siblings, defended the youngest son during the murder trial.
Not the parent (because my son is a year and a half old lol) but I disowned my birth mom, almost out of my grandparents grasp and my aunt after years of mental abuse. Can’t disown my grandparents because they helped co-sign on my car and they can legally get it towed if I don’t comply. TL:DR mom was an emotionally abusive asshole who contributed to my mental health issues and eating disorders. Grandparents beat and choked me. My grandparents were not saints, the opposite actually, they however had health care professionals wrapped around their finger and I was told in a few psychiatric wards they loved me and I had no reason to be depressed. I was beat sometimes to welting, screamed at, hair pulled, belittled and I was constantly compared to other people. Never pretty enough, never smart enough, never talented enough etc. during my mental health decline in middle school and high school they got increasingly aggressive in their punishments and would wipe me with a belt bare assed for any breakdowns. I was a teenager, my grandpa made me pull my pants down and bend over. I was told I was possessed and right before I tried overdosing on everything I could get my hands on my grandpa stuffed a dirty rag down my throat and choked me while telling me no one was around and no one would ever believe me. Then he repeated no ones around over and over while continuing to choke me because I was pulling out my hair in stress and he thought I flipped out my grandma. (Never did, she wasn’t even home) My mom and my first memories with her are waking up to my dad dry humping me in my/his(?) sleep. He was a serial cheater on my mom and she got pregnant when I was 3 out of desperation to keep him. He left and she was now single and a mom of 2 by age 20. Fast forward while I was 4/5 (a few memories pre kindergarten) and she would constantly leave us alone in the house to see her new boyfriend. (Boyfriends? I know she had a few of them, one even had a restraining order placed on him because he beat her) I was four and left alone with a newborn baby sister. She even dragged me out in nothing but a shirt and underwear to meet one of the guys once and I just remember looking back terrified my baby sister was left home alone on our bed. Kindergarten starts and aside from school lunch we are barely fed, medically malnourished. I remember begging for food but I was too young to understand to get it for myself. Our fridge was maggot infested and the area around it was covered in old trash bags, fleas and maggots. My grandparents (who in their own way were abusive and helped lead to my self-worth issues and mental health struggles, my grandma did not want us but my grandpa threatened divorce if she wouldn’t step in, so I think she resented us for having to parent past her time. She would of been in her early forties then because they were both teen moms) stepped in and got custody of us because my now 3 year absent paternal grandparents decided they wanted full custody. And if they went to court, they’d get us and we’d never see the family we had grown up around again. So my grandpa lied to my mom, they admitted to never having the intent to let us live with her again years later. But at the time, they told her as soon as she got her life back together she’d have custody again. Because if she didn’t she could say goodbye to ever seeing us again. By that time, both my sister and I were in the hospital with severe pneumonia because us getting the common cold and lack of care eventually lead to us being severely dehydrated and sick, she finally signed over custody and no one mentioned to me, a 6 year old, fully capable of understanding on at least a small scale that my grandparents were going to take care of us now, or why my mother dropped us at their house with no goodbye and never called or visited. She would eventually come around a few times and within a year met her now husband and just a year later had my step-brother. So fast forward over the years, coupled with rarely seeing or hearing from her. The times I do she constantly goes on and on how abusive my grandparents were (they definitely were, but I was a child and didn’t need to hear about how they abused her too.) how they lied to her, how she loved me oh so much and wanted so badly to have a relationship and protect us. All while ghosting us constantly and taking our step bro to amusement parks, vacations, the movies, etc. The few times she set up a time to come get us (grandparents pay for everything including food of course) she never even called to say they weren’t going to pick us up and would go without us. I never could understand how in her mind she wasn’t a mother just because we didn’t live with her anymore. So the gaslighting, mental abuse on how she loves me but can’t have a relationship because she’s not legally my mom anymore goes on to age 12. Where shit hits the fucking fan. I was going through a small chunk baby fat stage and she never fed us enough food. Im serious. She barley fed us when we visited. She forced us to watch cooking shows all day but wouldn’t let us eat past a small meal. I was already dealing with depression and self harm at the time, but it spiraled after I ate a few cans of Vienna sausages at night. Cue full on screaming fit that I was fat, I was going to be a fat ass for the rest of my life, that I was a liar because the one can of bbq Vienna sausages went missing and (despite the fact that’s nasty and you could see my can stash in the trash) she refused to believe me when I said I didn’t eat that can. That maybe my brother had or her husband took it to work. She then said the thing that has haunted me for a decade now. “You’re fat and no one is ever going to love you? Do you want to look like your grandma? Do you want to die alone and fat?” I called my grandparents and they immediately came and picked us up. Then berated me for causing a scene. I ended up getting sick from the stress and didn’t eat. I didn’t have a scale but had felt like after a few days that I had lost weight. So I just, stopped eating breakfast, lunch, snacks and only ate a small plate for dinner. Eventually it turned into purging everything I would eat because I was afraid of the weight gain that would come from it. I hadn’t spoken to her in 3 years by the time I tried to commit die. And I’m still very angry that while I was doped up and hallucinating in the ICU my grandparents called them to visit me. They decided I’d try to live with the person that gave me anorexia and bulimia and helped contribute to my MDD, PTSD, separation anxiety, and borderline personality disorder because she let me go live with the very same people who abused her, without my consent because my grandparents were convinced I was possessed since I self harmed and tried to off myself despite being prayed about. So I stayed there a total of 3 days before I drew a picture of my interpretation of depression (cloudy mind with bad thoughts and shadow people surrounding whispering in those thoughts, it’s a form of coping, they omitted the fact that I then drew the same picture, but with a flowery mind and happy thoughts surrounding it) before they called the cops on me because they feared for their life. Soooo once again I was back in the psych ward and my grandparents realized it was a horrible idea. I was put on state ordered daily therapy and had to gain 20 pounds to leave. Then all the drugs I was put on made me gain another 25, spiraling my depression into binge eating. I got out as soon as I could, stopped the meds, stopped blaming the fact that I was mentally ill on the reason why everyone in my family thought I was selfish (true story, when the nurse left the room my grandma held up the phone and my aunt called me a selfish bitch for trying to kill myself for attention, I swallowed 500 aspirins and everything else in the house, I coded, I was life flighted with no chance of surviving the flight to an icu in another state. I was in and out of a hallucination riddled coma for 5 days) and would never amount to anything. Going on 5 years with my partner now. I still struggle a lot with the thoughts that I will never be good enough. Fuck them. Fuck my toxic ass family.
I had a mum 2.0 from when I was really little (maybe 2 or 3) to when that family moved away and another one from 11-15 (will call her mum 3.0). I was always there and constantly felt like part of the family (with both mums). When I was little, I didn’t want to go home to my real house/family and I grew up thinking that mum 2.0s kids were my actual siblings since I spent more time with them than my real ones. My real mum still makes fun of me for this until I ask her how long she left me there that I started believing they were my real family
I disowed my oldest sister cause she a liar and a thief. Only our mom would push for a relationship between us but once she died, no contact and blocked her. She tried to reach out when i caught the rona, but never responded to her.
4:07 One of the many reason why you should only be allowed to get artificial insemination done if you vigorously prove yourself to be of sound mind, ample income, and are currently married AND cohabitating with your spouse, with severe penalties for skirting said requirements. Alleviate the suffering of a child who already exists through adoption instead of burdening the taxpayer and your own family by adding purposefully creating another mouth that society will have to feed for you.
I think that first guy's family including himself is all some a holes. Why would you let him attempt to murder someone with intentions to murder countless others and not have him arrested or forcibly committed. He's a huge danger to everyone and best help to society would've been to have him forcibly held to maintaining his medical treatment and put him on someone's radar
My father been disowned by my sister and most of our family only me and his parents keep in contact ... why because he remarried and "forgot about his family " and was gone for 6 years
I'm waiting for the youngest in my Sibling Group to move out of my mother's house from me to disown her and the reason why I'm disowning my mother is because I am tired of the narcissistic and manipulative ways she's tried over and over again to control my whole entire adult life ever since I turned eighteen and I am 20 now she has done nothing but put input on what she thinks I'm doing wrong and what I should be doing if she was me and it goes there's a list multiple abuse as a child it's it's the reason for why I'm in therapy she's the reason I go to therapy along with my dad but I'm not ready to disown him yet I will sooner or later when I get done with it but I have answers on you to find First
My parents never disowned me because that would have meant noticing me and also would have been too much work. Turns out you can ignore a child and treat them like they don't exist are aren't worth anything without going through the hassle of throwing them out. I was an unplanned and therefore unwelcome child and was treated as such. I had no friends, was bullied and outcast at school, and my teacher didn't like me either because I was such a pathetic, contemptible child. So why waste compassion on someone so worthless? Plus I was way too smart for my own good. I had a very cold childhood from which I am still thawing out at the age of 48. Very little warmth or light reaches my frozen, distant heart. I can't get really close to people because I have never been. Even my beloved best friends are not truly close to me. On the outside I am a funny, bright person but on the inside I am as cold as the interstellar void. And I don't know what to do about that.
I did . I don’t speak to my son . He hit me . He has anger problems, he refuses to take accountability for himself & he’s a shitty parent & keeps reproducing children that he doesn’t take care of. He’s a habitual liar and is always extra . So i choose not to allow him into my life or house . He’s got no respect, no integrity, and no intentions on getting help for himself. He’s negative and I don’t need that In my life .
17:17 Seems like those Christian parents forgot that in Luke 6:37 it says "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; For those that are filled with the Holy Spirit the truth of God is revealed to them."
That was a different compilation. most of the time when a pedo member pops up the family is completely unaware or on the lesser % the family knows and ignores it or participates
My mom disowned my step sister about ten years ago when she caught her in our driveway with a needle of some drug in her arm and a shit ton of other drugs in the car. I don't remember any of this, but evertime my mom brings my sister up she gets so upset about all of it. I can't stand sister either, she's just the complete opposite to me, and her whole life goal of drug use boils my blood.
Yeah the kid hitchhiked 300 miles barefoot, I bet everyone took pity on him, he lost his house and parents for swearing once. There's no good reason parents disown their children, you can tell because everything upvoted is children talking about their abuse and the first parent kicked out their kid for SWEARING. I don't know how angry the rest of these are gonna make me. I don't wanna hear parents batching about swear words like a kid going through a normal phase in their childhood and accidentally offending somebody means they deserve to lose any ability to survive.
sorry to be that person, but i hate coming to video thinking the answers would be from the parents' pov, as it should be. i thought there would only be a few replies about "it's the other way around, i disowned my parents instead" and it turns out that 90% of the video was just that. yay.
The one with the nine year old kid is messed up, it's a kid, kids that young don't always understand the consequences of their actions, sounds like the parent was the issue
“parents who has disowned there children why?” *first response* “i’m not a parent but…..”
That’s Reddit in a nutshell, and these comments are frequently amongst the top rated.
Honestly, that's one of the most irritating aspects of Reddit and the internet in general. (for me, anyways)
Followed by a "sure that happened" story equally not on topic.
‘Not (been) disowned, but…’
Another annoying redditor thing: Any version of "this is gonna get buried", "late to the party", etc... like shut up and get to storytelling. 🙄
I find it hard to believe that an ER wouldn't treat someone just cause they're a minor without a parent - is it not still an emergency? like treat now and ask questions later?
Pretty much what I'm thinking. I doubt the hospital is even going to really be aware of age give their priority is saving your life first
@@scorch2155 Depends on the country. Some of them have extremely draconian laws around parental consent and minors.
That Mom who is Mom 2.0 to her kid's friends. She warms my heart. I feel such things about that post, as a kid who has parents who love her very much, but had to be her parents' parent. It's really hard as a kid to have family which will not look after you or themselves. You can have everything, but if they're not managing things or teaching you life skills and structure, you can still feel unwanted or unseen. Sometimes you just need a mom or a dad to set you on the right path when you are lost. I was very fortunate to have that in my aunt and uncle, and I can't imagine what my childhood would have been without them.
I feel the same way about Mom 2.0. Some people are better parents to a child than the child's shitty biological parents could ever dream of being.
I disowned my mother because she was never in my life, was the reason I almost died at 1 and ditched me on my graduation day. She is no longer my mom. She is only to me as the women who carried me for 9 months
I'm very sorry you have to go through this. My daughter hasn't spoke to me in 4 years. I brake's me a little everyday...
@@theresaoneill6525 well consider me your internet daughter from here on out
@@donnagregory1053 thank you very much for that. It actually does mean a lot..👩👧
@@theresaoneill6525 your so very welcome 😊
@@donnagregory1053 both of you are under arrest for being wholesome. 🥺
My mother in law disowned my husband, on our wedding day. She disapproved of our marriage.
Good riddance. Enjoy your marriage ❤️
Good riddance.
Sounds like the trash took itself out that day
I'm willing to bet she is gonna come back as soon as you guys have a child
I hope you have a long and happy marriage. Screw her.
A cousin of mine disowned his mother and the rest of her family due to her/ then abandoning him at a young age and make him live with estranged family. (Adopted by my aunt who is a sweetheart!) when he turned 18, she came back and want him in her life but that was due to him having his Stimulus Checks and his US treasury checks due to disability. He doesn’t even talk to no body from her side and threaten to call the cops on her since he knows she has warrants of arrest. Haven’t spoken to her 3 years now and good for him.
I parted ways from both my parents long ago. My father was a self-involved narcissist, but at least he was consistently horrible. My mother was wildly unstable and abusive. When I was 8 she told me of a day the prior week when she'd lost her mind and stood over me with a gun for 5 hours while I slept, trying to nerve herself up into "shooting me in the head and then shooting herself". I spent the next 8 years in constant terror of getting killed in my sleep, and had chronic insomnia and paranoia for the next 30 years. The paranoia is still there, but at least now I can sleep soundly again.
I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrific thing. I hope you find ways to lessen your paranoia, but thank God you can sleep normally again. I wish you luck and happiness.
what the fuck. The worst mother ever who does that? She doesn't have the right to callherslef a human being.
That's vile and disgusting! I'm very sure there's a warm and I mean WARM place for them
I hope your doing fine now
@@maggiem6209 My wife is a computer and hardware genius, and set up cameras all around our house exterior with a huge screen on the wall next to my computer. Now I don’t go outside several times a night when I hear weird noises. My dogs also help keep me calm. Thanks!
@@typichank1250 I'm doing pretty well these days, thanks. It's odd, because I was subject to rather extreme physical abuse during childhood, but this event, which didn't involve any hitting, probably did more damage than the physical stuff. But it's been 10 years now that I've been able to sleep through the night soundly, and that's awesome. I'm still paranoid and my nightstand has a slew of weapons on it (I collect various types and have extensive combat training), but my wife loves me as I am and doesn't give me grief over it. Medication has helped as well, and I did about a year of therapy. I appreciate the well-wishes of people who care enough to send a kind word to complete strangers. You're awesome!
My Dad disowned his parents. It's a VERY long story, but the straw that broke the camel's back was when my Grandma shot my Grandpa in the hand (only in the hand because he moved just in time) and Grandpa lied that he accidentally shot himself. Dad had to cut his Dad out because if the man would take a bullet for his wife, imagine what else she could get him to do. I'm super sad that Grandpa passed before Grandma because I only saw them until age 4 and never got to know my Grandpa. And yes, they were co-dependent AF.
If they were so codependent then why did she shoot him??
@@katelynderbidge3166 Do you not know what codependency means?
You can do something, CALL CPS!! If you know your sibling is being abused, at the very least call 911; a broken tail bone is serious, get help for your brother!!😔rekwife
I just commented this too. I'm sad to see not enough people have commented this too but instead just post their bad story like what!?
For the family that disowned their child because she was gay. - 1 Timothy 5:8 Anyone who does not provide for their relatives and especially their own household has denied the faith and is worse than the non-believer.
So by their own logic...
I wish more people actually read the religious texts (all of them) rather than just taking them by what society/others tell them. It really is quite pathetic.
I agree a 100%, I’m muslim but I always see other muslims disowning or hating their childeren for being gay. Meanwhile being gay or having these feelings aren’t a sin. It only becomes a sin when you practise. Even if your child or anyone you know commits a sin you shouldn’t hate or disown them because we’re all sinners!
Remember, if you don't sin.. Jesus died for nothing! (This is a joke, don't come after me)
With what little I know about christianity from what I remember is that all sin is equal but some actions are worse than others and deserve the proportional punishment...so where does two or more people of appropriate ages and of sound mind to consent into a loving equal relationship with each other is said as a sin?
Got disowned by biofather for coming out as trans. Got a bombass stepdad who's 100* the dad biodad could ever be.
Dahm
Thats awful :/ im glad your stepdad is there for you tho
good for you! I hope thing the transition goes well
Me
More power to you
17:07
As a Christian bro this physically angers me. Like what Bible, what chapter, what verse, tells you to stop loving people because of their sexuality. People like them is what gives Christianity bad reps😒😤
Easily the part that annoys me the most regarding these people is the total reverse of what they are supposed to do. As a Christian myself, I understand that a Christian is only meant to be harsh on other Christians since they are expected to follow Biblical morality but not those who aren't Christians since they aren't expected to.
Paul was super nice and gentle to almost all secular people despite how wildly they disobeyed the Bible but once told a group of so-called Christians to go cut their balls off for claiming that circumcision was a requirement of salvation, but modern day "Christians" do this in reverse and forgiveness/unconditional love is all but forgotten when they interact with someone who doesn't believe exactly what they do.
I am religious and am pondering the thought of becoming a parent one day. No matter what my kids and I end up disagreeing upon, disowning them is NOT on the table. The only way I would cut ties would be if the situation was genuinely unsalvageable (as in they are a violent threat to others). There will be no world in which I pretend I don't have a child anymore
"You have a friend who's parents have heard about you and hurt for you"
Nah my friends are just as neglected as I am if not worse
Then I guess you're each other's family, then.
My birth father disowned me before i was born.mom disowned me after she divorced my bio dad.
Why? In dad's case,born on thursday,his at the time bowling night
Mom?i look identical to my dad,and she could not face me
Those are some asshole excuses with asshole parents. You deserve better and I hope you are in a good place and living your best life.
@@itsrainingrhinkona yep.dad got a total of ,wait for it...23 kids with my mom.mom had..erm..issues
Your dad only has one rule, don't ruin bowling night.
Also which number of you of the 23 kids are you? I'm curious.
Sad it happened to you
@@rochellethundercloud346 23 kids?? Was she pregnant 24/7?
Wow
wtf kind of hospital doesnt treat without parents consent? isnt it a thing that they get someone to make the decision when there's no parent, otherwise kids are just gunna die
Yeah I thought that they had a hospital lawyer get temporary guardianship if there was no parent.
the parent could sue. but the person was 16 and you normally dont need parental consent at that age so i dont understand
Simple humans are cowards, and that doesn’t exclude doctors. They just need someone that takes the responsibility if something goes wrong
"The irony is I'd grow up to practice nature spiritualism and witchcraft."
Is that irony or just self fulfilling prophecy?
Similar thing happened to me, though it was with my ex GF and her mom and sister (the father and brother were awesome tho). She and her mom tried to shove Christianity down my throat despite me already being Christian. Problem was, I wasn’t Christian enough for them, and that would eventually lead to her breaking up with me. Now to the point, I used to be a witch WAY BACK in 2018 but then got into the Bible. She and her family pushed me back out of Christianity and back into witchcraft. Never looked back.
>asks parents
>%99 of answers not parents
I got disowned, not by my mother, by my older siblings. My housemate had a severe mental break and told my older siblings things about me that were completely untrue and, instead of asking me, they disowned me and called me the most horrible names. Kinda out things into perspective and I've never been happier, as I do things to make me happy, and not them. It's a long long story, but at least in the end there was a silver lining
Dear god the story about the dad off his meds.
Right started off strong lol
16:06 Wrong, I can safely disown a child who becomes a flat-earther, or worshiper of the holy space pasta monster, or becomes antivaxer.
All of you people who disowned there parents I hope you don't repeat the same mistakes when you become parents
I like how none of these damn responses are from parents
Only true meme lords know what the thumbnail is
"You an A-cup? Why not A+ cup?"
@WASDLeftClick why not the sigma variant?
I was going to be given up for adoption. My mum said that she couldn’t take care of me at the time and gave me to a doctor for a week. After this, she realized that she didn’t want to give me up and kept me. For some odd reason, my heart still breaks when I hear the story. I was so close to be given up🥲
Well not technically disowned but seems to fit the theme. Never felt close to my mother (why? She said it's because when I was born/dead I didn't get to feel her warmth or some shit) and because of this we grew up arguing, fighting, and etc but most importantly never feeling close. Now after turning 14(i think) some of the things get even more intense some improve. But recently after being, what I later found out had been going on since before junior year, emotionally manipulated for years I got manipulated into buying her a car (a classic mustang worth 70k) we argue and I explained she didn't deserve the car after being not a good mother. And she argued she deserved using my inheritance(she spent hers years ago) to buy the car I rebuttal saying something along the lines of “you have used me for so long that you're not getting a penny more. I'm setting up accounts for my brothers and I'm not going to buy you another car(she asked for another one bold face no embarrassment or hesitancy), remodel the house or even keep talking with you when I get the money”. To that she said she's ok with never seeing me as long as I give her the money for my brothers
Oh hell no don't give it
Do not give her money for your brothers. They are her responsibility, not yours. If you feel compelled to help your brothers out financially, don't give them cash. Mom will take the cash and use it however she pleases. Instead, pay for whatever you agree to. Pay the bill yourself. Buy the groceries yourself. Gas up the car yourself. And only if you would have done these things for them anyway.
@@spooniesarah privately I'm considering setting aside 750k each. In a trust to pay for college, housing, etc but with strict restrictions and the inability for anything to be used for my mothers WANTS. Reason being Is she has also said she might buy another mustang and a big house because I'm apparently going to help. Of course, she won't know until I've already cut contact and hopefully she understand why
@@ricotrejo4125 she won't understand but that's her problem. You haven't made any promises to her, so her decision to buy expensive things thinking you're gonna be helping out is entirely her own stupidity.
@@spooniesarah she should considering I've already called her out. I've face to face told her buying her dream car was stupid and that she didn't deserve it
12:00
I know people are probably being very sympathetic to this guy but let's also keep in mind that most selfish and mean people tend to be oblivious to the pain and hurt they cause twords family who love them.... This guy may not be the innocent or the victim of this story.
The fact he stayed super vague with just him saying his Dad kicked him out, kinda makes it seem like he's the problem.
It reminds me of my brother, he acts like he is so unaware and lost...but will turn around and break stuff, blame his situation on the rest of the family or God, etc. People not living in the same house as him would always be sympathetic and think the rest of us were the issue...after all, "he is being so polite, how can he be a problem?"
I disowned my father because of what he did to my siblings and I during our youth. He harassed mom in her workplaces so she can be fired, let us with his maniatic mother to brainwash us that our mom "never loved us". Mom never changed her number for over 10 years so he could have a way to contact us after we moved to another district in the same city. But he never called or texted. Then we heard that he had other daughter with his third wife and named her with my same name. Technically, he is replacing us with new children.
I just remember birthdays, new years, hollidays waiting his call. The three of us always expecting. And that call never happened and we would be sad all day. Sadness change into anger and resentment and then... nothing. How can you get mad with someone that never existed in thw first place? Thinking back, it still hurts at 27 years.
one story in and Im already speechless. this should be a good one
8:47 Are you kidding? Still out there in the cold? I bet his Tonton froze before he reached the first marker!
then he'll see you in hell
Hey! Never tell him the odds!
The first guy had no business talking.
Dad in the first story should be in jail or a ward. First guy was stupid for even trying to put up with that shit.
@@sws212 its literally not his or his dad's fault that he's got schizophrenia so bad.... y'all legitimately don't know how bad it is, and even with him not taking the medication that probably isn't his fault either. His dad needed professional help in another state.
@@blackavar5723 Don't try and turn this around on him, he's right. The father is not to blame for being schizo, however the son is a moron for basically abetting his insanity and refusing to have him institutionalized. He even said so himself, that man is a serious threat to society and his own family.
@@blackavar5723 You really thought you did something here. It's not that deep man, and I misinterpreted everything. Love how you need no excuse to go on another moral power trip. We can acknowledge the father is struggling while accepting that (in the context of the story) he cannot be a fully functioning member of society and is a danger to his family. tabora_ was right in that he needed serious professional help, but you can only do so much if he isn't willing to accept any form of assistance.
9:50 I’m tearing up at the mom 2.0 thing
12:11 I can't imagine how much love it took for her to do that and be so selfless. I hope that she still participates in her daughter's life as much as possible. 💝 The thought of losing my boys makes my chest feel as though it is caving in. I would be un-alive.
my dad has technically disowned me as we're not on speaking terms, we're civil when we have to talk but he never makes an effort to reach out so in turn i make no effort back
he never wanted to be a parent and never tried to be one
As predicted, thread starts with the obligatory "Not the parent...".
I disowned my mom because she reeked havoc on my life for 19 years, and after i got married she started trying to manipulate my wife and i into basically providing for all of her needs (groceries, meds, doctor appointments) whike she sucks money off the government. She becamr less and less grateful, until the point where if we couldnt do what she wanted when we wanted, shed tey guilting us. She did the same to my sister and her husband. We cut ties with her, and i havent seen or spoken to her in coming up on 3 years. I dont miss her
Gotta love how the first reply was completely answering a different question
8:47 you made a valuable decision, my friend, Because I had a bad feeling about that.
12:52 genuinely feeling bad for this woman. Given the stated circumstances she probably did the right thing, but I won’t even try to put into words how difficult and painful this must have been for her. Glad the daughter is doing well and has a home where she’s loved, but I hope the mother can get up on her feet and perhaps become a part of her daughter’s life one day
With the ones in the POV of the parents, it seems like the parents are the cause of their kids’ problems and rather than parent, they disown them. The mom spoiled her kids so rather than stop spoiling them and teach them gratitude, she ditches them. The father whose daughters were brainwashed rather than recognize that they’re victims of parental alienation and fight for them, he leaves them $1 in his will for them (basically proving all of his ex’s lies). The father whose his 9-year-old out no longer wants to be part of his family and the father whose teenager called his mom a count, rather than realizing they are being brats for their ages and lack the understanding of the impact of their words and teach them they kick them out. In the case of the 9-year-old while it may be the dad’s attempt to teach the impact, it was extreme and a simple talking and grounding could have solved it.
My dad supposedly disowned me for calling him out on his years of bullshit. He lived with his mistress while still being involved with my mom, put her kids before his own (for example, buying them brand new phones and tried to pawn their old ones on us), ditched my wedding because said mistress was kicked out for showing up despite being told she wasn't invited then going on to walk his step daughter down the aisle on top of paying for her entire wedding (I paid for mine on my own), the icing on the cake was that he allowed his other step daughter to abuse my brother and have her husband molest him! I called him out on all of this and he told me to stop living in the past, even though he still pulls crap like this today and lives in the past too.
Tom's story it the most Alabama thing I've ever heard in my life
Disowned my dad because he is abusive and manipulative, He caused me and my mum trauma and he took everything my mum had
"Viking temperment" wow that's the 1st time I've head that
The mom running out on her three kids with a secret boyfriend because they were spoiled, did it to herself and couldnt be arsed to fix it. imo.
2:44 haaa yeeahh? you call me a witch?! THEN I'LL BE A WITCH!!
i feel like if u have a rough backstory ur either gonna fail in life, or be a complete sucsess in life
That first parent was literally Lews Therin Telamon. Holy shit.
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This happened to my ex husband who is French. We were living in France and he was working in a government job. I am from Canada and we decided to leave France for Canada. My ex father in law did not like our decision and disowned his son for that.
My mom was never around and my dad has a horrible temper problem and refuses to acknowledge how deeply he has hurt my sister and I. I do genuinely believes he loves us it's just that he doesn't want to admit to what a failure he was. He always gave us stuff and vacations as a way of showing love and I don't think he gets that I remember traumatizing experiences from nearly every vacation we went on that he caused and those are what stick out in my mind. Money can't fix the way he's hurt me but I'm willing to still talk to him because he still gives me money and I don't want to risk losing it. He has to initiate all conversation, though. If getting money for emotional damages is a perfectly legal avenue then I am simply collecting what I'm owed.
5:06 no man you’re not a degenerate you’re probably one of the most experienced people I’ve heard of you volunteered at a church every week you went to the Middle East for two years and volunteered you got your master degrees in Harvard you’re not a degenerate or an under achiever you did what most people wouldn’t do so don’t call yourself that hope things get better for you in the future my friend
My mother disowned me 6 months before she died. I had had ENOUGH of her covert narcissim and constant criticism and called her out on it. Then she tried to gaslight me about some jewelry that she said she did not get. I laughed and told her "of course you received that jewelry" The she raged at me in a different language and the only thing I understood was that she said she hopes I end up homeless. I have G.E.R.D. and had to go throw from the huge amount of acid. I had to hang up to get to bathroom. Here came the silent teatment again. After a few hoovers neither one of contacted each other. She died in hospice and no one in the family bothered to tell me. They were coddling her for years to get my inheritance and they got it and now none of us are in contact.
My parents disowned my older sister because she was a manipulative pathological liar not only that she would actively buy drugs and hide them in our house she would steal from me and my other sister, steal from our parents, make false police reports (and has almost gotten us taken away by CPS), has gotten arrested for lying to the police, has gotten into a fight and put a girl into the hospital, dropped out of school, and then her and her boyfriend broke into our house when my parents weren’t home I caught them and told them to leave they refused and then her boyfriend threatened to kill me (she stood there and laughed) and then he proceeded to threaten and kill the rest of our family (she also stood there)
My father wants to take her back in tho and I’m mad about it but my mom won’t let him and has told said sister that she isn’t allowed back
All of this reminds me of an old saying. Every child deserves to have parents, but not every parent deserves to have a child. If you're a nutcase or you're not financially stable, please keep your legs closed. Not only will you be better off but you won't be bringing an unwilling participant into your mess of a life.
I like how it's supposed to be from the prospective of parents, but you don't hear from an actual parent until 5 minutes in.
The second actual response from a parent felt kind of... I’m not sure. The kid only wanted to be in the family because he was a dependent, nothing was reconciled. He probably would’ve rather been in a different family.
Yeah, the kid was literally 8, wtf
He probably had a good reason to say he didn't want to be in the family
There is no real "treatment" for a broken tailbone except ice in most cases. I had one. Had to go to work anyway. Gotta pay rent.
My birth mom remarried and, one by one, her new husband created arguments with each relative and birth mom no longer talks with each of us, including her kids and sister (who was her best friend). She lies about her kids in order to save face in public. I don't think anyone believes her anymore.
Thank God for my wonderful stepmom. I named my daughter after her. Birth mom has never met my kids. It's better this way.
My ex-aunt has been disowned by her parents, sister and children, and her partner's daughter refuses to speak to him because of her. She hasn't figured out the common denominator yet.
Spoiler: it's because she was majorly manipulative and abusive. If either of her kids messed up, she'd make both of them sit on the sofa and wait for her partner to get home, regardless of how long it took, sometime hours, and they would then have to lie on the floor while he beat their backs with belts. One of the kids had ADHD and the other had autism, so of course their 'misdeeds' would include any neurodivergent behaviour too. Both kids eventually got taken into care after _she_ called the police on the younger one.
She also repeatedly manipulated her older son, who stayed in contact with her much longer, into trying to sue our grandmother, and into cheating my mother out of loaned money, but thats a much milder offense, by comparison.
My parents disowned my sister twice , first time she had a massive new years eve party in 2000 and built a massive bonfire using my bedroom furniture, the sofas from the den, and a table thats been in the family for 8 generations her friends broke it, after this my parents when she was released from jail packed a book bag with her toiletries, 3 days worth of cloths and 100$ and a grey hound bus ticket, and told her she was no longer their daughter and kicked her out for disrespecting their house, me, and many many other things , she stayed at a friends and tried to break into the house but the doors were reinforced and the locks change, the 2end time was when she lied to my moms parents and had me banned from Christmas and my birthday canceled, she got her ex bf and a friend to come in and steal all the high end gifts while everyone was eating breakfast but was caught by a cousin who wanted to play his new gameboy , she was then on the run but was caught 8 hours later , everything was returned my grandparents were horrified and screamed at how disappointed they were but she gave no emotion but was most likely pissed that she was caught , the friend told police that the pain was that They would load up n leave to a friends house in mobile Alabama and call to say they were chasing me and pawn off everything to buy drugs and beer to party
Only buying stuff for a child is not caring. A child which doesnt know better isnt the fault..
At some point you’d think the abused children would just kill their parents in the night to be free of them.
Nah its easy and noth wearth it
It actually happened, at least once. I don't exactly recall the name, but there was this dude that wanted to live his dream of becoming a baseball pro through his sons, and obsessed on this to the point of abusing them during training. Eldest son got away from him, so he came down even harder on the youngest. Eventually the youngest snapped and shot him dead. Everyone, even the guy's parents and siblings, defended the youngest son during the murder trial.
@@blackavar5723 like I sead its yust not wearth it
I wanted to do that to my abusive grandma but people would have hated me
Not the parent (because my son is a year and a half old lol) but I disowned my birth mom, almost out of my grandparents grasp and my aunt after years of mental abuse.
Can’t disown my grandparents because they helped co-sign on my car and they can legally get it towed if I don’t comply.
TL:DR mom was an emotionally abusive asshole who contributed to my mental health issues and eating disorders. Grandparents beat and choked me.
My grandparents were not saints, the opposite actually, they however had health care professionals wrapped around their finger and I was told in a few psychiatric wards they loved me and I had no reason to be depressed. I was beat sometimes to welting, screamed at, hair pulled, belittled and I was constantly compared to other people. Never pretty enough, never smart enough, never talented enough etc. during my mental health decline in middle school and high school they got increasingly aggressive in their punishments and would wipe me with a belt bare assed for any breakdowns. I was a teenager, my grandpa made me pull my pants down and bend over. I was told I was possessed and right before I tried overdosing on everything I could get my hands on my grandpa stuffed a dirty rag down my throat and choked me while telling me no one was around and no one would ever believe me.
Then he repeated no ones around over and over while continuing to choke me because I was pulling out my hair in stress and he thought I flipped out my grandma. (Never did, she wasn’t even home)
My mom and my first memories with her are waking up to my dad dry humping me in my/his(?) sleep. He was a serial cheater on my mom and she got pregnant when I was 3 out of desperation to keep him. He left and she was now single and a mom of 2 by age 20. Fast forward while I was 4/5 (a few memories pre kindergarten) and she would constantly leave us alone in the house to see her new boyfriend. (Boyfriends? I know she had a few of them, one even had a restraining order placed on him because he beat her) I was four and left alone with a newborn baby sister. She even dragged me out in nothing but a shirt and underwear to meet one of the guys once and I just remember looking back terrified my baby sister was left home alone on our bed.
Kindergarten starts and aside from school lunch we are barely fed, medically malnourished. I remember begging for food but I was too young to understand to get it for myself. Our fridge was maggot infested and the area around it was covered in old trash bags, fleas and maggots. My grandparents (who in their own way were abusive and helped lead to my self-worth issues and mental health struggles, my grandma did not want us but my grandpa threatened divorce if she wouldn’t step in, so I think she resented us for having to parent past her time. She would of been in her early forties then because they were both teen moms) stepped in and got custody of us because my now 3 year absent paternal grandparents decided they wanted full custody. And if they went to court, they’d get us and we’d never see the family we had grown up around again.
So my grandpa lied to my mom, they admitted to never having the intent to let us live with her again years later. But at the time, they told her as soon as she got her life back together she’d have custody again. Because if she didn’t she could say goodbye to ever seeing us again. By that time, both my sister and I were in the hospital with severe pneumonia because us getting the common cold and lack of care eventually lead to us being severely dehydrated and sick, she finally signed over custody and no one mentioned to me, a 6 year old, fully capable of understanding on at least a small scale that my grandparents were going to take care of us now, or why my mother dropped us at their house with no goodbye and never called or visited.
She would eventually come around a few times and within a year met her now husband and just a year later had my step-brother.
So fast forward over the years, coupled with rarely seeing or hearing from her. The times I do she constantly goes on and on how abusive my grandparents were (they definitely were, but I was a child and didn’t need to hear about how they abused her too.) how they lied to her, how she loved me oh so much and wanted so badly to have a relationship and protect us. All while ghosting us constantly and taking our step bro to amusement parks, vacations, the movies, etc. The few times she set up a time to come get us (grandparents pay for everything including food of course) she never even called to say they weren’t going to pick us up and would go without us. I never could understand how in her mind she wasn’t a mother just because we didn’t live with her anymore.
So the gaslighting, mental abuse on how she loves me but can’t have a relationship because she’s not legally my mom anymore goes on to age 12. Where shit hits the fucking fan. I was going through a small chunk baby fat stage and she never fed us enough food. Im serious. She barley fed us when we visited. She forced us to watch cooking shows all day but wouldn’t let us eat past a small meal. I was already dealing with depression and self harm at the time, but it spiraled after I ate a few cans of Vienna sausages at night. Cue full on screaming fit that I was fat, I was going to be a fat ass for the rest of my life, that I was a liar because the one can of bbq Vienna sausages went missing and (despite the fact that’s nasty and you could see my can stash in the trash) she refused to believe me when I said I didn’t eat that can. That maybe my brother had or her husband took it to work. She then said the thing that has haunted me for a decade now. “You’re fat and no one is ever going to love you? Do you want to look like your grandma? Do you want to die alone and fat?”
I called my grandparents and they immediately came and picked us up. Then berated me for causing a scene. I ended up getting sick from the stress and didn’t eat. I didn’t have a scale but had felt like after a few days that I had lost weight. So I just, stopped eating breakfast, lunch, snacks and only ate a small plate for dinner. Eventually it turned into purging everything I would eat because I was afraid of the weight gain that would come from it.
I hadn’t spoken to her in 3 years by the time I tried to commit die. And I’m still very angry that while I was doped up and hallucinating in the ICU my grandparents called them to visit me. They decided I’d try to live with the person that gave me anorexia and bulimia and helped contribute to my MDD, PTSD, separation anxiety, and borderline personality disorder because she let me go live with the very same people who abused her, without my consent because my grandparents were convinced I was possessed since I self harmed and tried to off myself despite being prayed about.
So I stayed there a total of 3 days before I drew a picture of my interpretation of depression (cloudy mind with bad thoughts and shadow people surrounding whispering in those thoughts, it’s a form of coping, they omitted the fact that I then drew the same picture, but with a flowery mind and happy thoughts surrounding it) before they called the cops on me because they feared for their life. Soooo once again I was back in the psych ward and my grandparents realized it was a horrible idea. I was put on state ordered daily therapy and had to gain 20 pounds to leave. Then all the drugs I was put on made me gain another 25, spiraling my depression into binge eating.
I got out as soon as I could, stopped the meds, stopped blaming the fact that I was mentally ill on the reason why everyone in my family thought I was selfish (true story, when the nurse left the room my grandma held up the phone and my aunt called me a selfish bitch for trying to kill myself for attention, I swallowed 500 aspirins and everything else in the house, I coded, I was life flighted with no chance of surviving the flight to an icu in another state. I was in and out of a hallucination riddled coma for 5 days) and would never amount to anything.
Going on 5 years with my partner now. I still struggle a lot with the thoughts that I will never be good enough. Fuck them. Fuck my toxic ass family.
Damn. That is one wild and sad story. Glad you moved away from them.
Abusive grandparents are the reason why I say “Respect your elders…unless they don’t respect you.”
That knife under your pillow wouldnt do shit
I had a mum 2.0 from when I was really little (maybe 2 or 3) to when that family moved away and another one from 11-15 (will call her mum 3.0). I was always there and constantly felt like part of the family (with both mums). When I was little, I didn’t want to go home to my real house/family and I grew up thinking that mum 2.0s kids were my actual siblings since I spent more time with them than my real ones. My real mum still makes fun of me for this until I ask her how long she left me there that I started believing they were my real family
Disowning at 8? 13? That’s pretty fucked up seems more like failed parenting to me.
8:43 I don’t agree with your son but revenge of the sith is the best
8:44 but…Jar-Jar! You did the right thing.
Parents at 17:07 actually have a point
Remember parent, the odds of patricide is low but never zero.
I disowed my oldest sister cause she a liar and a thief. Only our mom would push for a relationship between us but once she died, no contact and blocked her.
She tried to reach out when i caught the rona, but never responded to her.
Idk if the ER story is in the US, but if it is, ERs can not and do not refuse to treat patients who are on death's door.
4:07 One of the many reason why you should only be allowed to get artificial insemination done if you vigorously prove yourself to be of sound mind, ample income, and are currently married AND cohabitating with your spouse, with severe penalties for skirting said requirements. Alleviate the suffering of a child who already exists through adoption instead of burdening the taxpayer and your own family by adding purposefully creating another mouth that society will have to feed for you.
I think that first guy's family including himself is all some a holes. Why would you let him attempt to murder someone with intentions to murder countless others and not have him arrested or forcibly committed. He's a huge danger to everyone and best help to society would've been to have him forcibly held to maintaining his medical treatment and put him on someone's radar
My father been disowned by my sister and most of our family only me and his parents keep in contact ... why because he remarried and "forgot about his family " and was gone for 6 years
I'm waiting for the youngest in my Sibling Group to move out of my mother's house from me to disown her and the reason why I'm disowning my mother is because I am tired of the narcissistic and manipulative ways she's tried over and over again to control my whole entire adult life ever since I turned eighteen and I am 20 now she has done nothing but put input on what she thinks I'm doing wrong and what I should be doing if she was me and it goes there's a list multiple abuse as a child it's it's the reason for why I'm in therapy she's the reason I go to therapy along with my dad but I'm not ready to disown him yet I will sooner or later when I get done with it but I have answers on you to find First
My parents never disowned me because that would have meant noticing me and also would have been too much work. Turns out you can ignore a child and treat them like they don't exist are aren't worth anything without going through the hassle of throwing them out. I was an unplanned and therefore unwelcome child and was treated as such. I had no friends, was bullied and outcast at school, and my teacher didn't like me either because I was such a pathetic, contemptible child. So why waste compassion on someone so worthless? Plus I was way too smart for my own good. I had a very cold childhood from which I am still thawing out at the age of 48. Very little warmth or light reaches my frozen, distant heart. I can't get really close to people because I have never been. Even my beloved best friends are not truly close to me. On the outside I am a funny, bright person but on the inside I am as cold as the interstellar void. And I don't know what to do about that.
I don't know what I can do about my brother's broken back that my mum won't take him to the doctor for... CALL SOCIAL SERVICES!!!!
I did . I don’t speak to my son . He hit me . He has anger problems, he refuses to take accountability for himself & he’s a shitty parent & keeps reproducing children that he doesn’t take care of. He’s a habitual liar and is always extra . So i choose not to allow him into my life or house . He’s got no respect, no integrity, and no intentions on getting help for himself. He’s negative and I don’t need that In my life .
17:17
Seems like those Christian parents forgot that in Luke 6:37 it says "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; For those that are filled with the Holy Spirit the truth of God is revealed to them."
Nah those parents actually have a good point. Homosexuality is completely unnatural
I expected a lot more “my kid turned out to be a pedo”
That was a different compilation. most of the time when a pedo member pops up the family is completely unaware or on the lesser % the family knows and ignores it or participates
19:50 - Considering how terrible forest fires can be, should you not have gotten your a$$ beat?
Yeah they almost set a forest on fire and thought that they shouldn't get punished.
My mom disowned my step sister about ten years ago when she caught her in our driveway with a needle of some drug in her arm and a shit ton of other drugs in the car. I don't remember any of this, but evertime my mom brings my sister up she gets so upset about all of it. I can't stand sister either, she's just the complete opposite to me, and her whole life goal of drug use boils my blood.
Yeah the kid hitchhiked 300 miles barefoot, I bet everyone took pity on him, he lost his house and parents for swearing once. There's no good reason parents disown their children, you can tell because everything upvoted is children talking about their abuse and the first parent kicked out their kid for SWEARING. I don't know how angry the rest of these are gonna make me. I don't wanna hear parents batching about swear words like a kid going through a normal phase in their childhood and accidentally offending somebody means they deserve to lose any ability to survive.
I know someone who disowned his parents because they created him to get money like child support or something.
Basically every city kid
24:23 not really anymore now that its on youtube.
The one at 22:18 seema like matilda but with an easier life
sorry to be that person, but i hate coming to video thinking the answers would be from the parents' pov, as it should be.
i thought there would only be a few replies about "it's the other way around, i disowned my parents instead" and it turns out that 90% of the video was just that. yay.
8:44 Damn.
Anyone who would choose a boyfriend or girlfriend over their child is disgusting.
If I ever have kids I couldn’t disown them
What was the swear word that was censored in the dad with a sickle story
2:57 if they were so religious, then why did they attempt an abortion of all things?
The one with the nine year old kid is messed up, it's a kid, kids that young don't always understand the consequences of their actions, sounds like the parent was the issue
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Its good how only like 5 of these are actually parents disowning their kids
7:52 Wtf
Who the hell disowns their 8-9 year old son?!
When I first read the title I read disowned as drowned
Having to have parental consent to give medical treatment is buuuuulllshit.
Shit. This is so depressing :(