Because of her "put downs", I did good for myself, to proof to her that I wasn't less then. Once I realized that it is what it is, I went away for good (keeping limited contact). Thanks to my financial standing, I was able to go as far away as I could, so I moved to another continent.
My narc mother was overt. I always knew something was wrong with our relationship. Couldn't quite put my finger on it. She died, & about 7 years later I found out what the problem was. She was a narc. I'm 50 now myself. I happened to look up to see if my 1st bf was a narc. They're both checking off boxes for this personality disorder. He was more covert. Like my dad. 😟
Ditto 😢 I found out who she really was when I turned 50 a couple of years ago and she didn’t like my choice of partner! I didn’t know that the person who gave birth to me could be so vile and evil towards me and then ostracised me! I had to have some therapy and I will continue to heal going forward 😊
My mother is my biggest hater and the older I get the less I care about her. She has everyone else thinking we have a good relationship but treats me like her enemy. I’ve contemplated many times cutting all contact. I don’t notice when we don’t talk because We not close so idk what to do Childhood was horrible
Same, it may take a while but if she is noticeably hurting you by being disingenuous you may have to cut all contact. I cut all contact and I’ve never felt so free and valued. Don’t let her pull you down, you deserve better
Men I dated tried hard not to disrespect my mother, when I vented to them how she was starting trouble between us. I've had a few to defend her & take her side. Mainly because I've dated a lot of narcs, these ppl stick together automatically without even knowing each other. It would have been nice to at least have1 person on my side. A cousin told me he noticed she treats my brother better than me. Usually if someone said something like that. She'd explode & say they were being manipulative & trying to come between us. @@reginapolo3357
@reginapolo3357 Please don't be angry with him, Test that spirit on your mother My mother came to my job, home when I was married and witchcraft came in like a flood Even started dating my EX, Ask GOD for Discernment
Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I learned about narcissistic behavior in family therapy. The woman in the beginning video is 100% right. I also learned in therapy about the Cain & Able effect. That’s where the narcissistic mother will pit one sibling over the other. My mother made it clear my sister was her favorite. This caused friction between my sister and myself. After many years, my sister and I know longer speak. My sister is cut from the same cloth as our mother. The common characteristics of those two are greed, slanderous remarks behind one’s back and selfishness. They don’t live and aren’t capable. My mother’s childhood was bad and so was mine. Pure evil is narcissism.
Been no contact with my narc mother since a few years now. Moved to a different continent far away to get away from my narc family . I remember as a child how my mother would come into my room and broke open my lock of my diary just to read everything. She even went as far as tearing my beloved posters off the wall and throwing my clothes out of the cupboard during one of her narcissistic fits. My life was a nightmare from the age of 8 years old after my fathers death. My narc mother never even gave me time to grieve his death and she was already bringing home scumbag boyfriends, one of who physically hit me and my step father she married when I was 13. I was also abused by my step father and no one believed me. I’m thankful to God everyday that I managed to leave my country of birth to live 1000s of miles away where the narc mother and flying monkeys can’t get to me.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can't imagine a child going through abuse there's not much you can do at all, I'm always praying for children that are suffering, this world is full of evil. I'm glad you recognized what they are, I hope you can cope with life and I hope you are happy.
Not only mothers, but sisters are the same way as well!
Because of her "put downs", I did good for myself, to proof to her that I wasn't less then. Once I realized that it is what it is, I went away for good (keeping limited contact). Thanks to my financial standing, I was able to go as far away as I could, so I moved to another continent.
I got to know at 40. I can relate. Hugs
My mother was a covert narcissist, but I did not know this until I was in my 50s of what she really was. She was hell on wheels.
My narc mother was overt. I always knew something was wrong with our relationship. Couldn't quite put my finger on it. She died, & about 7 years later I found out what the problem was. She was a narc. I'm 50 now myself. I happened to look up to see if my 1st bf was a narc. They're both checking off boxes for this personality disorder. He was more covert. Like my dad. 😟
Ditto 😢 I found out who she really was when I turned 50 a couple of years ago and she didn’t like my choice of partner!
I didn’t know that the person who gave birth to me could be so vile and evil towards me and then ostracised me!
I had to have some therapy and I will continue to heal going forward 😊
My mother is my biggest hater and the older I get the less I care about her. She has everyone else thinking we have a good relationship but treats me like her enemy. I’ve contemplated many times cutting all contact. I don’t notice when we don’t talk because We not close so idk what to do
Childhood was horrible
@@aunaturaleniece2749 sorry to hear that. For so many it takes years to realize that there is nothing you can do. Stay strong.
@ thank you 💕
Same, it may take a while but if she is noticeably hurting you by being disingenuous you may have to cut all contact. I cut all contact and I’ve never felt so free and valued. Don’t let her pull you down, you deserve better
She's a mother. Her daughter and unborn child is all she has. That's her immediate family now.
I can relate to this narrative !
I had a narc mother. She had me so upset. I talked about seeing a Dr. She talked me out of it. 😢
See them anyway
@anitragilmore3239 that's right. I was listening to the letter & saying, her mom's not that bad. She "let" her daughter get on medication.
@@anitragilmore3239I’m not seeing someone that hurts me so deep. I’m healing.
I'm The only child
I as well. Dangerous water's
Me too
Good for you
Me too❤
good for you
Prophetess told me years ago my mother was jealous of me 😮
And witchcraft is a control system
Narcissist are wicked ❤❤❤❤
I had a gentelman friend that told me that he felt my mother was jelous of me. I got mad at him.
Men I dated tried hard not to disrespect my mother, when I vented to them how she was starting trouble between us. I've had a few to defend her & take her side. Mainly because I've dated a lot of narcs, these ppl stick together automatically without even knowing each other. It would have been nice to at least have1 person on my side. A cousin told me he noticed she treats my brother better than me. Usually if someone said something like that. She'd explode & say they were being manipulative & trying to come between us. @@reginapolo3357
@reginapolo3357 Please don't be angry with him, Test that spirit on your mother
My mother came to my job, home when I was married and witchcraft came in like a flood
Even started dating my EX, Ask GOD for Discernment
A therapist said my Mother was a Narcissist. I am not sure but she was critical [I have anxiety too]
Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Grand Rising Queen ❤❤❤❤❤❤peace and blessings, Namaste 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
❤❤ I'm going thru this 12vyears I needed this to miss Faye 🎉🎉😅😅
I learned about narcissistic behavior in family therapy. The woman in the beginning video is 100% right. I also learned in therapy about the Cain & Able effect. That’s where the narcissistic mother will pit one sibling over the other. My mother made it clear my sister was her favorite. This caused friction between my sister and myself. After many years, my sister and I know longer speak. My sister is cut from the same cloth as our mother. The common characteristics of those two are greed, slanderous remarks behind one’s back and selfishness. They don’t live and aren’t capable. My mother’s childhood was bad and so was mine. Pure evil is narcissism.
🎯💯
Thank you ❤
Good morning Miss Faye.
BOOM, BAM, KABLAM! YES, MA'AM! 🧨💣💥🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🎆🎇🎇
Been no contact with my narc mother since a few years now. Moved to a different continent far away to get away from my narc family . I remember as a child how my mother would come into my room and broke open my lock of my diary just to read everything. She even went as far as tearing my beloved posters off the wall and throwing my clothes out of the cupboard during one of her narcissistic fits. My life was a nightmare from the age of 8 years old after my fathers death. My narc mother never even gave me time to grieve his death and she was already bringing home scumbag boyfriends, one of who physically hit me and my step father she married when I was 13. I was also abused by my step father and no one believed me. I’m thankful to God everyday that I managed to leave my country of birth to live 1000s of miles away where the narc mother and flying monkeys can’t get to me.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can't imagine a child going through abuse there's not much you can do at all, I'm always praying for children that are suffering, this world is full of evil. I'm glad you recognized what they are, I hope you can cope with life and I hope you are happy.
@@alegnavblack stay strong kiddo. And never ever come back. I did, after 35 years of being away. Big mistake! It was worst. Please don't go back. Hugs
Age 8 is when I start noticing not so happy times too. 😢 I'm so sorry to hear about what you went through. I agree. Run & don't look back.