1. Fall in love with your own life 2. Courage to understand your “musts” 3. Expressing your matching traits 4. Invite with your heart but don’t push 5. Worth
My husband didn’t give me a chance to wonder. He let me know that he saw my value before I even got home from meeting him. The next communication we had, he told me he can’t stop thinking of me. Well! That instantly made me not be able to stop thinking about that! I never had to wonder or play games. 11 months later he asked me marry him. Next week will be 15 years since we met.
Giiirl… I was soooo happy and then let someone in that trashed it up, made a huge mess of my heart and soul and left the 💩 for me to clean.. be very very very careful and vet like crazy.
Thank you. Enjoyed this. Focus on you and use your feminine energy for yourself to make you feel happy inside.when you are truly happy with yourself, that's when you attract the right man to you.
Very helpful! Yet not sure how where to meet men to date multiple at the same time, its not like I can go the supermarket and pick an choose from a shelf several at a time... 🤪😜🤔
Olivia, what needs to happen is a re-definition of what's most important to you, and as much as possible clear boundaries around what you can and can't offer. Once this is clear you can look for a relationship that is a fit to your lifestyle with clear definitions and boundaries from the start.
There is no need to be mean that will only get you in and out of toxic relationships. Asserting yourself doesn't typically require being mean except for life or death situations.
What if you are in love with your life and all you attract are men who aren't in love with theirs and want you to give up on all that you worked hard for? I love being in my femininity yet I seem to get men wanting me to be more masculine and the bread winner? Its a real turn off!
Sounds like they are trying to date their Mom and have you take care of them while they stay home playing video games or whatever and you go to work. That would be a turn off! There are dating sites for successful women to meet successful men or you can go to places where happier successful men are more likely to be such as a Starbucks working on something, country club, singles travel club, swanky hotel lounge where someone might be on a business trip, golf course, a class, airport lounge, religious or spiritual or new age group or activity or festival, MeetUp group enjoying a volunteer group activity (people are happier who think outside themselves), a shared interest/ hobby or singles group activity, MENSA meeting as a guest or networking MeetUp group. There are plenty of places to meet quality people. You may even meet someone by unsolicited referral from someone you know unexpectedly. You may even meet him at the counter at the grocery store picking out something for the next cookout asking for your advice. Never know.
@@BrooklynBaby100 alternatively a popular thing is doing the 90 day rule....this is more my idea, because the only person who will agree to see that through is also someone who wants something real and lasting...
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1. Fall in love with your own life
2. Courage to understand your “musts”
3. Expressing your matching traits
4. Invite with your heart but don’t push
5. Worth
Glad you enjoyed it, Stacey.
Chemistry
Friendship
Depth (the feeling of being seen, understood)
Compatibility
Commitment
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My husband didn’t give me a chance to wonder. He let me know that he saw my value before I even got home from meeting him. The next communication we had, he told me he can’t stop thinking of me. Well! That instantly made me not be able to stop thinking about that! I never had to wonder or play games. 11 months later he asked me marry him. Next week will be 15 years since we met.
Im happy yo hear this! :)
I love how he explain things. I also appreciate the diversity in his visuals. Great advice.🙏❤️
The thing is I am loving my life so much that I am not too sure whether to let anyone new into my life...It is a dilemma.
Giiirl… I was soooo happy and then let someone in that trashed it up, made a huge mess of my heart and soul and left the 💩 for me to clean.. be very very very careful and vet like crazy.
So true. To stop asking something/ somebody we're not yet a match to. Soooo so true.
Thank you. Enjoyed this. Focus on you and use your feminine energy for yourself to make you feel happy inside.when you are truly happy with yourself, that's when you attract the
right man to you.
Thank you for your support and enthusiasm, Sandra.
@@BernMendez you more than welcome😊
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Hi Christina, thank you for your kind words!
He truly is!
Thanks for posting on femininity from a man's perspective! So valuable👏
"not based on what you think you can get" I heard that! 😁
Glad this part resonated deeply with you, Pamela.
WORTH. Hits hard.
Glad this was useful, Tina : )
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Great as always!
Arta, so glad you enjoyed this!
Thank u so much Bern for this video .I love it.
My pleasure, Presela. : )
Thank you so so much many many blessing !! Go for it🍀🍀👊
As an Aquarius ♒😀💝, you cannot be my lover without being my friend 💕👑 first and foremost. I need to test the chemistry and your loyalty to me
Glad you enjoyed it!
Awesome video! Thank you!
Glad you liked it, Crystal.
Thank you 😊
Very helpful! Yet not sure how where to meet men to date multiple at the same time, its not like I can go the supermarket and pick an choose from a shelf several at a time... 🤪😜🤔
you got it. right on point.
Thank you 🙏
Watching from kenya
Blessings all the way to Kenya.
What needs to happen when your life changes to that of caregiver to a parent yet you still have a desire for a companion/mate?
Olivia, what needs to happen is a re-definition of what's most important to you, and as much as possible clear boundaries around what you can and can't offer. Once this is clear you can look for a relationship that is a fit to your lifestyle with clear definitions and boundaries from the start.
My Dad used to say a woman’s got to be mean. I wish I would have listened to him and did that.
There is no need to be mean that will only get you in and out of toxic relationships. Asserting yourself doesn't typically require being mean except for life or death situations.
What if you are in love with your life and all you attract are men who aren't in love with theirs and want you to give up on all that you worked hard for?
I love being in my femininity yet I seem to get men wanting me to be more masculine and the bread winner? Its a real turn off!
Sounds like they are trying to date their Mom and have you take care of them while they stay home playing video games or whatever and you go to work. That would be a turn off!
There are dating sites for successful women to meet successful men or you can go to places where happier successful men are more likely to be such as a Starbucks working on something, country club, singles travel club, swanky hotel lounge where someone might be on a business trip, golf course, a class, airport lounge, religious or spiritual or new age group or activity or festival, MeetUp group enjoying a volunteer group activity (people are happier who think outside themselves), a shared interest/ hobby or singles group activity, MENSA meeting as a guest or networking MeetUp group. There are plenty of places to meet quality people. You may even meet someone by unsolicited referral from someone you know unexpectedly. You may even meet him at the counter at the grocery store picking out something for the next cookout asking for your advice. Never know.
@@verycherry4459 yea but don’t sleep with them until marriage.. otherwise they’ll just hookup and leave.
@@BrooklynBaby100 alternatively a popular thing is doing the 90 day rule....this is more my idea, because the only person who will agree to see that through is also someone who wants something real and lasting...
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Thanks for watching, Darlina
@@BernMendez you've given the best advice and guidances ☺️🙏❤️