Why Spouses Don't Share Their Problems With Each Other | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
  • In this video, Salman Asif Siddiqui describes 13 reasons for why spouses fail to share their problems with each other.
    This video is a clip from a longer talk titled "Spouses as Counselors".
    Watch full talk here: • Spouses as Counselors ...
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 13

  • @saimaansari-sn2kq
    @saimaansari-sn2kq Місяць тому +7

    Valid reasons but in my case, my spouse might think I'm not that wise to give any advice to him and it's useless to share any problem with me. Everything is not necessary to be shared with wife.

    • @ZahLansWorld
      @ZahLansWorld Місяць тому +4

      Very bad, Khuda k khazany may koi chiz haqeer nahi, he should definitely share..

  • @MuhammadSaadKayani
    @MuhammadSaadKayani Місяць тому +2

    Reasons:
    1-They don't have time.
    2-You dont have time.
    3- They think it would worry you
    4- They are afraid you'll tell others
    5- They think you get emotional
    6- Because you don't listen
    7- They think that you'd blame them and lose trust in them
    8- They think that you're already depressed
    9- They think that you're already tangled up in many problems
    10- They think that you're confused and wouldn't be able to get good advice
    11- You give orders instead of suggestions
    12- They think that you don't respect them
    13- You're quick to form opinions and become judgmental

  • @izzaatif9799
    @izzaatif9799 20 днів тому

    I believe we shiuld not share everything to avoid conflicts .
    Otherwise there would be blaming etc
    Example l told my husband l am losing my self confidence he said pehly hi nahi tha
    I told him l am having psychological issue he said tum to thi hi nafsiati mareez

  • @asmaahmad7652
    @asmaahmad7652 Місяць тому

    Jazakallah khair good points

  • @NomanAli-cg1uu
    @NomanAli-cg1uu 18 днів тому

    13/10😮😮

  • @hirajuwayriyajaved7968
    @hirajuwayriyajaved7968 9 днів тому

    Share nahi karna hamare culture mey sabar ka naam hai. Jis tarah ap keh rahe hain k meri aadhi zindagi nikal gaye.

  • @hirajuwayriyajaved7968
    @hirajuwayriyajaved7968 9 днів тому

    Jab insaan share karne wala ho to time ka masla nahi.hota, insaan time nikal.hi leta hai. Agar ap apni biwi ko biwi mantey hain to share ki jaati hai baat. Kiski kya value hai sab is per munhasir karta hai.

  • @mehvishfarukofficial
    @mehvishfarukofficial Місяць тому

    Jazakallahu Khairan kaseera sir... And your team
    Kya sir se koi sawal Kiya ja skta hai ..

  • @mehnazcalligraphy
    @mehnazcalligraphy Місяць тому +1

    Husbnd agr koi share kre tu bv pe hi gussa q utara jata hy ye q bola bv agr ap ki problem me ap ko advice de tu bhi gussa bv pe.. 😢😢

    • @CookStudio906
      @CookStudio906 Місяць тому

      Sister aap foran response na dia krain jab tak khud na btayen aap b mat poochain ,esa krne se admi log arrogantly behave kertay hain better is keep quiet and when he is at some peace ask him politely that what was the matter n if he shares ,cool !
      If not ,don't get involved... Let him feel peace in and with you..

  • @evergreenlife2702
    @evergreenlife2702 Місяць тому

    Agr tamaam 13 reasons mojood hon to?

  • @hirajuwayriyajaved7968
    @hirajuwayriyajaved7968 9 днів тому

    Spouse jab k doosro k liye aur doosro ki biwi ka bohot hamdard hota hai, doosro k gham batney aur samjhne mey no 1 hotey hain. Sab munafqat hai.