Bless you! You were a voice for your mom. Im proud of you. Im truly sorry what you had to go through. You have became a handsome, beautiful soul. Your knowledge and voice calms me. Though I have not been through things as horrific as you but traumatic as well. That man, whom I will not consider him as your father because of his actions, I pray he gets everything he deserves for destroying your life. Hugs♥️
i cnnot imagine your beautiful moms family not IMMEDIATELY taking care of you. their excuse is just so EVIL, a childs dna is never their fault, and your mama should have haunted them forever. Your adopted family must be extraordinary people, bcz you are an excellent human being
How could he give you straight answers when he is still lying to himself, and he’s totally convinced absolutely that he was a good dad and husband , But the fact is the Devil is a Liar.
I guess, the family dont want to take up responsibility, just simply selfish. Rather not rock the boat... So the easiest thing to do is to blame the kid.
Collier, you are so smart for pretending you were asleep when he came in to check on you after you heard the thuds. He’s a crazy malignant narc. The mental manipulation is insanely off the charts.
@@xtinamarie_333, He was hurting him before so why wouldn’t he hurt him worse if he believed Collier heard what he was doing . Collier already said he was afraid of his father .
Beth Lantz, it's heartwarming to hear that you think so highly of my mother. She was an incredible woman; I'm lucky to have had her in my life for as long as I did. ❤️
My Ex husband tried and came close to murdering me (in front of our daughter when she was 5years old)We both got a lot of counseling and I left it up to her -if she wanted to communicate with her father,who is still in prison= doing 30+years. The way your father is reminds me of my ex, also a sociopath. When you share these letters I’m glad we have had low contact with my ex husband.He also literally goes from nice to mean back to manipulative. My ex somehow blames me for his attempted murder upon me! Even now blames me for how he permanently injured me. Just know You make me so thankful I did make it out alive and for the time I’ve had with my daughter! I hurt for you and your mother losing that time!Thank you deeply for sharing your world to help us all heal! You are amazing 💙
I'm glad you survived too, I left my ex husband after he assaulted me wasn't going to give him a second chance also got the police involved from the get go as I knew he was nothing but a coward. Wishing you and your daughter the very best for the future, with love from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
Well, I could be wrong, as I'm no expert on this case or Narcissists, although I believe both of my parents were both Narcissists; but it seems to me that being a psychopath (or a Narcissist at the minimum) means that not only is HE not to blame for the situation in which he now founds himself (jail), but due to his intelligence and his built in grandiosity, I'm sure that even sending missives from jail, he views himself as the best father and role model Collier could have. Therefore, he is being the bigger person, by rising above his circumstances, and parenting from afar; because that's just the kind of guy he is! He's that wonderful, that even though he is in jail for life, he is showing his intrinsic integrity and morality by rising to the occasion, forgiving his son for testifying against him, and showing his forgiveness and ethics by doing everything he can to raise Collier from afar. Honestly, he sounds like my father. (He didn't kill my mother but it certainly wasn't from lack of trying. If my grandparents hadn't lived upstairs and called the police, he would have accomplished it). Despite the physical evidence, and witnesses, like your father, his attitude for the rest of his life was that he was innocent, my mother had made up lies and turned us against him, yet he would be the "bigger" person, by "forgiving " her and us for believing he had done this. Forty years of denial; for forty years he indulged in self pity, telling everyone his own narrative, making up all kinds of fictitious things my mother had done, and then finishing off by stating that he "forgave "her because she gave him two beautiful children. Noone can believe their own lies like a Narcissist.
Narcs and socio/psychopaths can be so disgustingly predictable...like they follow the dark triad textbook of life. They classically follow a routine with the insidious intent of causing their victim to "bond" to them, we all know this as trauma bonding. Collier, I think that you recognized this as well but starting around 28:17 I began to notice that your father was following this pattern, attempting to solidify a trauma bond between you and him. You however, have the insight and strength to see the facade. He starts with (1) love bombing you...compliments and praise, (2) he then tries to earn you trust as he talks about what a great father he has been to you, next (3) he uses devaluation and criticism to instill some self-doubt...when he addresses you not being affected by what others "negatively think" about you, followed by (4) gaslighting and manipulation, the entire letter is drenched in this..where to even start and from there he is hoping that you will continue to solidify the bond by resigning and submitting to his nonsense, his deranged narrative of reality while you lose your sense of self as you ride the emotional roller coaster through the twilight zone that is the world of narcissism and psychopathy. Text book. Thank you as always for sharing your story. Your strength is palpable.
I'm appalled that he's a convicted murderer and he's telling you how to live your life and be a good person. It's disgusting, especially as he killed your mother !! Bless you Collier...your mum will be watching over you and cheering you on.
Actually, having been around him for many years? None of this surprises me in the least. Everything I hear has me shaking my head in the "yes" motion saying to myself: Yep, that's Doc.
That "Sperm Donor" who had the title of Father is Sooo dissociative to reality that he has woven and colored his own story to believe. It is a colorful web that is always a trap The doctor is so in denial, and trying to gaslight you for sure!!! Thank God you have had the Truth from the beginning and The Truth is your Shield from the psychological warfare the sick man conjured up. I don't know what has transpired as I'm listening to these present-day podcast so I'm going to speak at this stage of hearing what went down. I know when I had a parent that was off the rails we're at one stage in life I had to move to such a place that they did not get to send email did not have my phone number had no way of contacting me and that was the best thing to do. Several all connections. It just raises up anger all over when you do know the truth and then they try to you no needle you with trying to appeal to the child that they manipulated into the adult life. Severing that from any dysfunctional situation is is real Freedom. I love that you mentioned the Stockholm syndrome. It's a very valid in a very powerful psychological warfare. I don't know when this podcast was recorded and how current it is but in October of 2023, I think of the former Prince Harry being "turned" and actually a captive with Stockholm syndrome with the American woman Meghan Markle. That woman is bat a crazy socio- psychopath. And I don't know why all the best psychologists and psychiatrists in this world cannot do an intervention on that man, who is a shell of his former self and being paraded around under some mind control, addiction power with possible real threats and emotional blackmail. Anybody who's been in that situation are reading his body language and through empath, not his words, AR reading him loud and clear. Though he's nearing forty, it's no different than a ten-year-old boy or a girl who is trapped in a abusive blackmailing situation who's going to school and going through the motions of life. They don't see a way out. It's better to stay where they are and bare up, then the pain, losses, risk of life and destruction of breaking out. You were able to break that unseen barrier, like blowing through the sound barrier in a F-15, you carried on with the Battle. But FREE🌅
As a survivor from a narcissistic psychopath, I watch a lot of true crime to help my understand how their brain works and to reassure myself that I wasn't going crazy. Like you said they can convince anyone that the sky is pink and the ocean is yellow. I would watch him do things and I immediately ask him why he did it. He would ALWAYS answer "I didn't do anything", and always in a nonchalant manner. We would go back and forth that way for a while until I would start to think that maybe he was right and I just imagined it. I mean, wtf!!! I am an intelligent person! How does that happen? I knew he was a liar, but why lie in the first place especially over something that was so irrelevant. I would also tell him that I was not his mother and I was not going to punish him for telling the truth. He was never fond of that one 😂
Have you listened to the jailhouse phone calls between Alex Murdaugh and Buster? Alex does the EXACT same thing with "the big ask" at the end of every phone call. Not just with his son, but with everyone. It's astounding how similar he is to your father.
And he always says mommy when talking about the woman he killed, just like Alex M. would say PawPaw on trial and at the station when talking about Paul, his son who he killed. If he refers to them in a sweet nickname manner, of course they’ll believe I couldn’t have killed them. That’s what these narcissists think.
Don't you see that he attempted to downtalk Sherry to you as a means of triangulation. Also, he mentioned "heritage" and "in your blood" to knock you unsteady about who you are, that your genetics could influence you to become the kind of man he was. This is insidious. Malignant Narcissism 101.
I had a Monster sociopath Father and my story is horrifying and dark, but I'm too shy or embarrassed or Ashamed to share it. I have 9 other bro's and sisters I have to "protect" or consider their privacy. But the load gets heavier and heavier. We just don't talk about it even though we are super close because we had to ban together to fight the monster and then console one another. Maybe someday I can be BRAVE like you and share? But I admire your strength as a child, teenager and young man❤ Thank you Collier🤗 Someday... Someday...
I am so sorry you suffered by the hands of your father. I understand why it's hard to discuss but you and your siblings need to talk to each other and get the pain off your chest Love. Not good to be holding it all inside.
Do you ever get the feeling: ‘I’m done with this man. I erase him out of my life.’ Isn’t like opening old wounds. He’s not capable of loving somebody else. It’s so painful cause you expect parents would love their children unconditionally. They don’t. He dares to give you fatherly advice!
At the point that he is warning you, I feel stronger that my thought at his earlier statement that "maybe even a lifetime" was a threat. I would not have sent this comment without hearing the rest of this letter because I thought that my reaction was over the top. This is scary stuff! I grew up with 2 narcissistic parents and while I applaud you, I can't help also being concerned. Please know that it pains me to send this!
Collier, you are so wise to be able to pick through the letter and interpret it. ❤ Have you ever considering having George and Susan on your show? We can learn so much from people who take in a child to love and care for when there are other complex family and emotional issues at play. Those teenage years can be a roller coaster ride for everyone under the BEST of circumstances! ;)
Reminds me of my brothers letters from prison… I’ve been catching up on your videos the letters are so intense but I love that you read them cold like this!! Thanks for the workshop tonight!!!
You have such a generous heart, you are dealing with your own trauma yet you are coming forward and doing this to help and to protect others. You have such a beautiful heart and I know your darling mum with most definitely be so proud of the man you have grown into ❤
Collier, u give all of us hope that an authentic life is possible. You’re showing how blind your father is to the tragic life he set u up for, and you seeing it so clearly. Clarity is golden ❤
I first heard of your story on Forensic Files - a show which launched my obsession for true crime as respects forensic science and good detective work into outer space (also Peter Thomas's voice omg). Seeing that brave boy taking the witness stand was so touching, and as a mom to a kickass son myself, I was so proud of you! I thought of the bond I have with my own son - who is now a man - and how we would die inside if anything happened to either of us. It would be an unimaginable, burning pain that would never go away. I hope like heck you have found an ersatz surrogate to fill the void Noreen left. She was beautiful. You definitely have her eyes, and I suspect also her heart. May you find peace in telling her/your story. Much love ❤❤❤❤
Me and my French roast with autumnal spices and cream🧋had the same thing happen to us last night-it’s bananas! Good-morning CoffeeBuzz! *…although…looks like you’re two days ahead and have probably finished your binge. 😬😄🖖🏼
@@StuftBanana I highly recommend A Murder in Mansfield if you haven't watch it yet! It's heartbreakingly riveting. I enjoyed my morning sipping hot mulled spiced cider and a banana😜🍌
Baby steps...if feeling uneasy Stop....take a breath or many....Return to podcast or like topic Only when ready. Nightmares...perhaps share with Safe Person/therapist,etc.
Narcissism at its best! Your father is right where he belongs. He seems so out of touch with reality. And it must be hurtful to see he has the audacity to talk about his mistress with you 😏👍🏻Stay strong Collier! You have so much to offer our often cruel world! My mom is a narcissist and I call what she does to me: “Crazy Making” lol it doesn’t work with me anymore because I refuse to allow anybody to abuse me anymore🫶🏻❤️🌻
Collier, I am so proud of you. For staying asleep when your “Father” checked on you. My Father was a Pedophile snd he Sexually and Mentally and emotionally and Physically Abused all 5 of his children. I was the oldest and 6:42 tried so long to protect my 5:48 siblings. I eventually escaped and went to college and never returned home.
Collier… I didn’t have a father who killed my mother… He was very similar to your father in the way He acts.. talks etc… my parents have passed away ..felt the biggest relief when that happened… Narcissist are really hard to. Recover from especially since you learn from them( parent) as a child.. I found your UA-cam videos and I am watching… You are a miracle… thank you for being the person you are..sharing your story and experience! Much appreciated!
I want to let you know I think what you are doing with your program Is helping you in the long run, so Glad you don't keep this Nightmare bottled up inside. Much Respect for you and Prayers for your PEACE. HE IS RIGHT ABOUT ONE THING, YOU ARE VERY HANDSOME AND WELL ROUNDED PERSON.
Your father! I have no words! Your adoptive parents must be amazing! You are in my thoughts and prayers for you! Please know you are an inspiration for many!
Love all your videos! Very interesting just on the level of the different mentalities that your dad had. On so many levels too. The narcissism I get…totally understand. (My husband) But, adding in the other mental problems is just a disaster waiting to happen. I’m so very sorry that all of this happened to you as a child. Your in my prayers and I know that you will do well in all your endeavors! Added note: the entirety of the video, when talking about the narcissistic behaviors I was just blown away. Everything you said about a narcissist was point on. Unbelievable how the characteristics of of a narcissist never change from one person to another. Their ALL the same. After 30+ years with one I know that kind of chaos. People ask me how I do it, (it’s exhausting) but…. I’m from the south. You know what is coming before it happens and you just have to be more clever than they are. More than that……you gotta be meaner than they are. I give back, I call it as I see it. I don’t back down, I don’t put up with the crap and call him on it. I let him by with nothing. He’s getting older now, he’s getting a little defeated, and I just smile….lol
My son and I are watching all your videos. Dear Collier, I am a mom too and belongs to the academe from the Philippines. We must speak the truth and defend or else crooked people will rule over us. Your Dad keep on defiling your Mom's name and that shows that dark side of his character. That shows he really doesnt care for your Mom. Again, keep on with the fight. I know your Mom would have been proud of you.🌴🌴🌴👧
He's adorable. During the trial and now. I just found out about his story and it's really touched me. He's strong to maintain a relationship with his father despite what he has done.
I've dealt with manipulative family members in my life. I learned how to relinquish contact, refuse contact, abandon contact. I'm happy you're sticking up for yourself. God bless you, from Findlay. ❤
Hi Collie, I remember watching the bravest testimony I had ever seen but little did I know that you would have such a profound effect on me so many years later and all the way over here in Australia. I'm a Mum of two adult boys and their father is a self described sociopath. He's spent half their lives in prison but still manipulates us all. Thank you for exposing the insidious tactics they use. As you read these letters and explain it, I can recognise and confirm what is happening to us. Even though I know he does this I fall victim to him when he acts kind is a relief from the vicious conflict. I so appreciate you. You were a rock for your mother under indescribable pressure. And now you are a rock for us. Saying thank you can not convey my gratitude. Please don't underestimate your impact . You are appreciated ❤
Intriguing to think about your biological father's deluded comments. At the 7.45 min mark, your smiling eyes amongst the irony of your father's words. Your coping strategies in sharing your letters, are super amazing. 🙏🏽Praying for comfort always, for the pain that can never truely go away.. Our children in an accident that took their father's life. Often there is a bit of Dark humour in our ' family group chat' on a good day. Third eldest recently mentioned, she has invited her dad for Easter lunch, but he didn't answer her! Our eldest replied, that's a bit stiff, how rude of him!😅 4th child responded, 'He never replies😅😢😅 If he doesn't show up, we'll just have to eat the family pack of M&M's I bought him for Easter😅
Absolutely! You are the first I’ve heard that sees the truth in the simplicity of drugs and family generational cycle of traumatic dysfunction. Does not fit a sociopath or psychopath.
First, I'm sorry for your trauma, sustained trauma from your Father, family abandonment. I'm grateful that you find healing and have the strength to share your experiences. My eldest is a narcissist and this helps me between my therapy appts to remember the world is full of narcs/ socios. To be strong not bite the bait, internalize the gaslighting. My prayers and best positive vibes sent to you. Serenity prayer but also self grace when we lose our shit and get depressed.
Halo collier I am following you from Australia. I have seen a lot of the videos there isn’t one person to watch them and not filing the pain and suffering and the every day Agony that you have safer wat can I say you are a Hero many times over lots of love and respect ❤❤🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷🇦🇺💒
He tried to insinuate that Collier must not feel like a good person for testifying against his dad - and then reassured him that he was indeed a good person. Why reassure him he’s a good person - who said he wasn’t? Every single word is loaded, a trap.
I Just Love 💘 you sharing this inside info on the horrible stuff the side ove what your story has been this can help other familys that have been threw this 😢😢😢😢but sharing is very good therapy
...Collier...were the scratches and cuts you saw on your dad's hands ever explained ??? also, don't ever forget... you were going to be next.... You think you escaped and in a way you did but also, in a way ... you havent ..... yet.
I got the impression that his Dad got the scratches and sore back when he buried his wife under the concrete floor. The construction alone to get that accomplished is hard core labor. I doubt he had someone else do it.
I have been watching many videos about you and the “father” and I can’t believe how his personality mimics my ex abusers! Same exact behaviors, gas lighting, explosive hair trigger temper, rewriting the story to fit his narrative … I would almost be convinced you were talking about my kids “dad”. My kids went through exactly what you talked about except I ran and hid with them several times, staying at shelters, only to be arrested for kidnapping them several times. Once Inproved abuse I would be let out and then try to run and the last judge here put me in jail twice and then held contempt over my head all the time… I was revictimized by the court Al over again and I didn’t care because I was not dropping my teens off to visit a violent drunk who tortured them. Thank The Lord Above that they are aged out of the courts and we are safe so far! I give God the glory he has protected us and now I will fulfill my role and write a book about my story…. Maybe you can help me some day!
Don't let your dad do that to you. You don't have to read these letters if it's not healthy for you. You can't lose sleep over this. You don't owe any of us to do something that isn't mentally healthy for you. Keep that in mind. You've already helped people in bad situation's to recognize people like your father in their lives.
It is interesting that you wondered if he was actually writing these letters for his own benefit. He probably was hoping that you would share them with the parole board. I was thinking the exact same thing when you said it! Also, I can tell how much these letters hurt you to read, bc they validate the feelings you already have of your father. I am so sorry that this happened to you and your mother. Neither of you deserved it. You are a fine young man, and your mother would actually be so proud of you( I say this as a mother, not a gaslighter). I hope you have received therapy through the years, along with your therapeutic podcast. Sending you much affection. ❤
Dear Collier, I just discovered your podcast today and I wanted to know why your father's mistress was not charged as an accesory to your mother's murder because she must have known before (because it was premeditated; they bought the house before the murder; they forged your mother's signature; they bought tools, etc) and after the murder (they buried her body under the floor of the basement). She was pregnant at the time of the murder (that's motive) and moved into your house immediately to replace your mother. The fact that they bought a house before his divorce to your mother went through is proof that he wanted to start a new life with his mistress and he didn't want your mother to get half of his assets in a divorce. A narcissist sociopath would perceive giving half of his assests to your mother as a failure/insult, even if he was an unfaithful, violent husband and father, he would never let your mother LEAVE him, on her terms not his. He had to kill her to protect his ego. She didn't leave him, he killed her and then he lied to everybody saying she is in Canada shopping. During the trial and after, he continued lying to get out of prison, blaming the cops, your mother everybody except himself. Based on the letters that you have read, he will never confess his guilt and ask for your forgiveness because his family will stop visiting in prison if he admits the truth and he can play the victim (he is an innocent man framed for a murder he didn't commit) and gaslight everybody into believing he is innocent and make them spend lots of money in prison trying to prove his innocence. What kind of monster allows his mother to lose her house and other assets paying for lawyers and appeals and PIs investigating corruption in the police department to back up hix claims that he was framed?
WOW just fucking WOW this is a true murdering narcissist!!! Collier I absolutely love how you can see straight through this man. You sir are a legend 👌
I never would have thought that this letter was even more horrific than you had talked about, but when you said he possibly wrote it for others to see when you hopefully told them how wonderful of a father he was! Just wow how your biological fathers broken brain works. I have been in the hands of a psychopath who I thought was going to kill me at 18 yrs old but he let me go. My life was permanently changed. I have read or watched a lot if true crime and better understand why people do these horrible things to others. I’m so sorry you had to go through so much at such a young age. Thank you for all you do for others. I will continue to watch them all.
Wow. He passive aggressively knocks you down. For putting him in jail. But, hey! Don’t you blame yourself! Even though he is suffering more than most! Your Dad never stops lying. He can’t ever make himself ‘look bad.’ And he can’t ever stop trying to get outta jail. Couldn’t be more evidence against him…. And yet, he just can’t stop loving the lie. 🤮
oh god. not the same road of tragedy but similar road of brokenness to thriving-hood. would love to share with someone who would understand. "there's no end to your endurance until you die" not always what I want to hear but I am still here.
I’m here to say, I’ve gotten used to your style. This is about the 3rd day of finding you. I am divorced from a narcissist. I do now realize that, more than ever. Your content is teaching me, for sure. Yes. You survived. I have too, with many scars.
Thank you for sharing Collier! I’m curious if you’ve touched on your experiences with your father the Narcissist from before his terrible actions of killing your mother. I’ve recently left a relationship with a Narc and feel I got away with my sanity AND my life thankfully.
His "lady" friends probably, . You are so special to be able to even talk to this horrible monster!!! Your mother must have been a really beautiful woman because you are quite handsome and she was so wise and taught you so much. Hang in there!! Your mom would really be happy and proud of you!!! God bless and keep you always. Wish you happiness and healing and much success.❤
I love the way you are sharing your story with your viewers . Daddy never fails to continue playing the victim 😂 ! You are an asset to society #CollierLandry ❤
He talks about how her family and friends duped her? 😂 Then he complains about Sherry. Wow! Its amazing how some even such intelligent people can be so stupid or delusional too.
When you read your dad's letters it really makes me angry at him. Just getting to know you Collier the last few months makes me wish I could have been there for you during your teen years. You are such a sweetheart and very intelligent. I've written in before and said that I wish I had a son like you. I had a daughter that is easy on the eyes, just like you!☺️❤
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Bless you! You were a voice for your mom. Im proud of you. Im truly sorry what you had to go through. You have became a handsome, beautiful soul. Your knowledge and voice calms me. Though I have not been through things as horrific as you but traumatic as well.
That man, whom I will not consider him as your father because of his actions, I pray he gets everything he deserves for destroying your life. Hugs♥️
So so inspiring ❤
It kind of sounds like Sherry may have been in on the plot to murder your mum, if she forged ur mum's signature?
Please make a playlist of letters only thank u
Congrats~! Only my second time here, who is your chat partner discussing this letter with you here ?
I am appalled at your family for not giving you all the love that you deserved!! Shame on them!!!
i cnnot imagine your beautiful moms family not IMMEDIATELY taking care of you. their excuse is just so EVIL, a childs dna is never their fault, and your mama should have haunted them forever. Your adopted family must be extraordinary people, bcz you are an excellent human being
I married a sociopath,
course I never knew it
Just took it all til I got into therapy, learned ,
realized I had to go...
How could he give you straight answers when he is still lying to himself, and he’s totally convinced absolutely that he was a good dad and husband , But the fact is the Devil is a Liar.
I guess, the family dont want to take up responsibility, just simply selfish. Rather not rock the boat... So the easiest thing to do is to blame the kid.
Collier, you are so smart for pretending you were asleep when he came in to check on you after you heard the thuds. He’s a crazy malignant narc. The mental manipulation is insanely off the charts.
I wonder if his dad would've hurt him if he got up 😮
@@xtinamarie_333 probably would have hurt Collier and claimed his mother took him when she left the house and no one would have been the wiser.
definitely 💯 as a victim of domestic abuse we learned early that trying to intervene only gets your azz beat 😢
@@xtinamarie_333,
He was hurting him before so why wouldn’t he hurt him worse if he believed Collier heard what he was doing .
Collier already said he was afraid of his father .
@@dharmawannab Seriously 😧
'never underestimate the predictability of someone with a fundamental lack of integrity'. Learned from experience...
The most severe punishment for him would be to cut all communications.
I remember watching you on the stand and thinking how brave you were....and later wondering what happened to you.
I think mom would be proud ❤
Beth Lantz, it's heartwarming to hear that you think so highly of my mother. She was an incredible woman; I'm lucky to have had her in my life for as long as I did. ❤️
You are who you are because of her 🌹
How's Elizabeth, your sister?
My Ex husband tried and came close to murdering me (in front of our daughter when she was 5years old)We both got a lot of counseling and I left it up to her -if she wanted to communicate with her father,who is still in prison= doing 30+years. The way your father is reminds me of my ex, also a sociopath. When you share these letters I’m glad we have had low contact with my ex husband.He also literally goes from nice to mean back to manipulative. My ex somehow blames me for his attempted murder upon me! Even now blames me for how he permanently injured me. Just know You make me so thankful I did make it out alive and for the time I’ve had with my daughter! I hurt for you and your mother losing that time!Thank you deeply for sharing your world to help us all heal! You are amazing 💙
I'm glad you survived too, I left my ex husband after he assaulted me wasn't going to give him a second chance also got the police involved from the get go as I knew he was nothing but a coward. Wishing you and your daughter the very best for the future, with love from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
I feel your pain! Glad he is in prison!
I'm so sorryyou went through that but thankful you're ok🙏
What gets me is besides his manipulation it sounds like he is trying to father you from jail and you have a dad
Well, I could be wrong, as I'm no expert on this case or Narcissists, although I believe both of my parents were both Narcissists; but it seems to me that being a psychopath (or a Narcissist at the minimum) means that not only is HE not to blame for the situation in which he now founds himself (jail), but due to his intelligence and his built in grandiosity, I'm sure that even sending missives from jail, he views himself as the best father and role model Collier could have. Therefore, he is being the bigger person, by rising above his circumstances, and parenting from afar; because that's just the kind of guy he is! He's that wonderful, that even though he is in jail for life, he is showing his intrinsic integrity and morality by rising to the occasion, forgiving his son for testifying against him, and showing his forgiveness and ethics by doing everything he can to raise Collier from afar.
Honestly, he sounds like my father. (He didn't kill my mother but it certainly wasn't from lack of trying. If my grandparents hadn't lived upstairs and called the police, he would have accomplished it). Despite the physical evidence, and witnesses, like your father, his attitude for the rest of his life was that he was innocent, my mother had made up lies and turned us against him, yet he would be the "bigger" person, by "forgiving " her and us for believing he had done this. Forty years of denial; for forty years he indulged in self pity, telling everyone his own narrative, making up all kinds of fictitious things my mother had done, and then finishing off by stating that he "forgave "her because she gave him two beautiful children. Noone can believe their own lies like a Narcissist.
Narcs and socio/psychopaths can be so disgustingly predictable...like they follow the dark triad textbook of life. They classically follow a routine with the insidious intent of causing their victim to "bond" to them, we all know this as trauma bonding. Collier, I think that you recognized this as well but starting around 28:17 I began to notice that your father was following this pattern, attempting to solidify a trauma bond between you and him. You however, have the insight and strength to see the facade. He starts with (1) love bombing you...compliments and praise, (2) he then tries to earn you trust as he talks about what a great father he has been to you, next (3) he uses devaluation and criticism to instill some self-doubt...when he addresses you not being affected by what others "negatively think" about you, followed by (4) gaslighting and manipulation, the entire letter is drenched in this..where to even start and from there he is hoping that you will continue to solidify the bond by resigning and submitting to his nonsense, his deranged narrative of reality while you lose your sense of self as you ride the emotional roller coaster through the twilight zone that is the world of narcissism and psychopathy. Text book. Thank you as always for sharing your story. Your strength is palpable.
I'm appalled that he's a convicted murderer and he's telling you how to live your life and be a good person. It's disgusting, especially as he killed your mother !! Bless you Collier...your mum will be watching over you and cheering you on.
Actually, having been around him for many years? None of this surprises me in the least. Everything I hear has me shaking my head in the "yes" motion saying to myself: Yep, that's Doc.
Right, how FUCKING dare he!
That "Sperm Donor" who had the title of Father is Sooo dissociative to reality that he has woven and colored his own story to believe. It is a colorful web that is always a trap
The doctor is so in denial, and trying to gaslight you for sure!!! Thank God you have had the Truth from the beginning and The Truth is your Shield from the psychological warfare the sick man conjured up.
I don't know what has transpired as I'm listening to these present-day podcast so I'm going to speak at this stage of hearing what went down. I know when I had a parent that was off the rails we're at one stage in life I had to move to such a place that they did not get to send email did not have my phone number had no way of contacting me and that was the best thing to do. Several all connections. It just raises up anger all over when you do know the truth and then they try to you no needle you with trying to appeal to the child that they manipulated into the adult life. Severing that from any dysfunctional situation is is real Freedom.
I love that you mentioned the Stockholm syndrome. It's a very valid in a very powerful psychological warfare.
I don't know when this podcast was recorded and how current it is but in October of 2023, I think of the former Prince Harry being "turned" and actually a captive with Stockholm syndrome with the American woman Meghan Markle. That woman is bat a crazy socio- psychopath. And I don't know why all the best psychologists and psychiatrists in this world cannot do an intervention on that man, who is a shell of his former self and being paraded around under some mind control, addiction power with possible real threats and emotional blackmail.
Anybody who's been in that situation are reading his body language and through empath, not his words, AR reading him loud and clear. Though he's nearing forty, it's no different than a ten-year-old boy or a girl who is trapped in a abusive blackmailing situation who's going to school and going through the motions of life. They don't see a way out. It's better to stay where they are and bare up, then the pain, losses, risk of life and destruction of breaking out. You were able to break that unseen barrier, like blowing through the sound barrier in a F-15, you carried on with the Battle. But FREE🌅
As a survivor from a narcissistic psychopath, I watch a lot of true crime to help my understand how their brain works and to reassure myself that I wasn't going crazy. Like you said they can convince anyone that the sky is pink and the ocean is yellow. I would watch him do things and I immediately ask him why he did it. He would ALWAYS answer "I didn't do anything", and always in a nonchalant manner. We would go back and forth that way for a while until I would start to think that maybe he was right and I just imagined it. I mean, wtf!!! I am an intelligent person! How does that happen? I knew he was a liar, but why lie in the first place especially over something that was so irrelevant. I would also tell him that I was not his mother and I was not going to punish him for telling the truth. He was never fond of that one 😂
They just love twist your mind!! It's bewildering to the max!!
My malignant narcissist ex had huge Mommy issues too. Hiding from me, yet I had to fix his messes.
It happens bc those of us who don't/would never lie don't expect someone is lying to us.
Good luck on understanding them! Glad you got out of that and hope you are having a good life.
Not the most famous murderer, the most INFAMOUS.
Have you listened to the jailhouse phone calls between Alex Murdaugh and Buster? Alex does the EXACT same thing with "the big ask" at the end of every phone call. Not just with his son, but with everyone. It's astounding how similar he is to your father.
And he always says mommy when talking about the woman he killed, just like Alex M. would say PawPaw on trial and at the station when talking about Paul, his son who he killed. If he refers to them in a sweet nickname manner, of course they’ll believe I couldn’t have killed them. That’s what these narcissists think.
Don't you see that he attempted to downtalk Sherry to you as a means of triangulation.
Also, he mentioned "heritage" and "in your blood" to knock you unsteady about who you are, that your genetics could influence you to become the kind of man he was. This is insidious.
Malignant Narcissism 101.
I had a Monster sociopath Father and my story is horrifying and dark, but I'm too shy or embarrassed or Ashamed to share it. I have 9 other bro's and sisters I have to "protect" or consider their privacy. But the load gets heavier and heavier. We just don't talk about it even though we are super close because we had to ban together to fight the monster and then console one another. Maybe someday I can be BRAVE like you and share? But I admire your strength as a child, teenager and young man❤ Thank you Collier🤗 Someday... Someday...
I am so sorry you suffered by the hands of your father. I understand why it's hard to discuss but you and your siblings need to talk to each other and get the pain off your chest Love. Not good to be holding it all inside.
@angiebaby67 Angie, you're courageous even in writing this, and so thoughtful of protecting your siblings. I pray for healing and freedom for you. 💞😺🙏
Do you ever get the feeling: ‘I’m done with this man. I erase him out of my life.’ Isn’t like opening old wounds. He’s not capable of loving somebody else. It’s so painful cause you expect parents would love their children unconditionally. They don’t. He dares to give you fatherly advice!
yep. i think it would be great to literally create a new reality and leave this all behind. find love and move in with it.
At the point that he is warning you, I feel stronger that my thought at his earlier statement that "maybe even a lifetime" was a threat. I would not have sent this comment without hearing the rest of this letter because I thought that my reaction was over the top. This is scary stuff! I grew up with 2 narcissistic parents and while I applaud you, I can't help also being concerned. Please know that it pains me to send this!
Collier, you are so wise to be able to pick through the letter and interpret it. ❤ Have you ever considering having George and Susan on your show? We can learn so much from people who take in a child to love and care for when there are other complex family and emotional issues at play. Those teenage years can be a roller coaster ride for everyone under the BEST of circumstances! ;)
Reminds me of my brothers letters from prison… I’ve been catching up on your videos the letters are so intense but I love that you read them cold like this!! Thanks for the workshop tonight!!!
You have such a generous heart, you are dealing with your own trauma yet you are coming forward and doing this to help and to protect others.
You have such a beautiful heart and I know your darling mum with most definitely be so proud of the man you have grown into ❤
Collier, u give all of us hope that an authentic life is possible. You’re showing how blind your father is to the tragic life he set u up for, and you seeing it so clearly. Clarity is golden ❤
Thank you so much @KarenCote-id4dl for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!
I thank God you are recovering from such horrendous trauma. Blessings 🙏🏼🤗
You have such a great smile, smile more Collier!!
You are so brave. I watched the story on TV. Glad to meet you
I first heard of your story on Forensic Files - a show which launched my obsession for true crime as respects forensic science and good detective work into outer space (also Peter Thomas's voice omg). Seeing that brave boy taking the witness stand was so touching, and as a mom to a kickass son myself, I was so proud of you! I thought of the bond I have with my own son - who is now a man - and how we would die inside if anything happened to either of us. It would be an unimaginable, burning pain that would never go away. I hope like heck you have found an ersatz surrogate to fill the void Noreen left. She was beautiful. You definitely have her eyes, and I suspect also her heart. May you find peace in telling her/your story. Much love ❤❤❤❤
Greetings Collier, he did not allow you to have your own thoughts or feelings nor acknowledge your pain as a young child.❤
Absolutely
Collier! I'm so glad I found your podcast. Let the binge watching begin!
Me and my French roast with autumnal spices and cream🧋had the same thing happen to us last night-it’s bananas! Good-morning CoffeeBuzz! *…although…looks like you’re two days ahead and have probably finished your binge. 😬😄🖖🏼
@@StuftBanana I highly recommend A Murder in Mansfield if you haven't watch it yet! It's heartbreakingly riveting. I enjoyed my morning sipping hot mulled spiced cider and a banana😜🍌
Discussing trauma(like reliving it) unsettles my spirit and I often cannot sleep afterwards also, and when I do sleep, I have nightmares!
Baby steps...if feeling uneasy Stop....take a breath or many....Return to podcast or like topic Only when ready. Nightmares...perhaps share with Safe Person/therapist,etc.
I chose not to relive my nightmares. I've moved on
loving the dark twisted sense of humor. Two things are ETERNAL on Earth and in Heaven, these are LOVE and OUR SENSE OF HUMOR.
Narcissism at its best! Your father is right where he belongs. He seems so out of touch with reality. And it must be hurtful to see he has the audacity to talk about his mistress with you 😏👍🏻Stay strong Collier! You have so much to offer our often cruel world! My mom is a narcissist and I call what she does to me: “Crazy Making” lol it doesn’t work with me anymore because I refuse to allow anybody to abuse me anymore🫶🏻❤️🌻
Collier, I am so proud of you. For staying asleep when your “Father” checked on you. My Father was a Pedophile snd he Sexually and Mentally and emotionally and Physically Abused all 5 of his children. I was the oldest and 6:42 tried so long to protect my 5:48 siblings. I eventually escaped and went to college and never returned home.
I'm sorry to hear about this. Glad you made it out ok! Thank you so much @kathrynsloan4694 for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!
Oh my I'm so sorry you went through such abuse,,God love & protect you & your family 🙏😢
Narcissists and sociopaths always make themselves the victim. The one who is suffering. Ugh, I find that sooo frustrating!
It is
Collier… I didn’t have a father who killed my mother… He was very similar to your father in the way He acts.. talks etc… my parents have passed away ..felt the biggest relief when that happened… Narcissist are really hard to. Recover from especially since you learn from them( parent) as a child.. I found your UA-cam videos and I am watching… You are a miracle… thank you for being the person you are..sharing your story and experience! Much appreciated!
I want to let you know I think what you are doing with your program Is helping you in the long run, so Glad you don't keep this Nightmare bottled up inside. Much Respect for you and Prayers for your PEACE. HE IS RIGHT ABOUT ONE THING, YOU ARE VERY HANDSOME AND WELL ROUNDED PERSON.
Your dad must have come up with this conspiracy after watching "The Fugitive." It sounds very similar.
It's really helping me in so many ways.... realize I was not crazy...
Thank you for sharing your story Collier. ❤
Your father! I have no words! Your adoptive parents must be amazing! You are in my thoughts and prayers for you! Please know you are an inspiration for many!
Love all your videos! Very interesting just on the level of the different mentalities that your dad had. On so many levels too. The narcissism I get…totally understand. (My husband) But, adding in the other mental problems is just a disaster waiting to happen. I’m so very sorry that all of this happened to you as a child.
Your in my prayers and I know that you will do well in all your endeavors!
Added note: the entirety of the video, when talking about the narcissistic behaviors I was just blown away. Everything you said about a narcissist was point on. Unbelievable how the characteristics of of a narcissist never change from one person to another. Their ALL the same.
After 30+ years with one I know that kind of chaos. People ask me how I do it, (it’s exhausting) but…. I’m from the south. You know what is coming before it happens and you just have to be more clever than they are. More than that……you gotta be meaner than they are. I give back, I call it as I see it. I don’t back down, I don’t put up with the crap and call him on it. I let him by with nothing. He’s getting older now, he’s getting a little defeated, and I just smile….lol
My son and I are watching all your videos. Dear Collier, I am a mom too and belongs to the academe from the Philippines. We must speak the truth and defend or else crooked people will rule over us. Your Dad keep on defiling your Mom's name and that shows that dark side of his character. That shows he really doesnt care for your Mom. Again, keep on with the fight. I know your Mom would have been proud of you.🌴🌴🌴👧
He's adorable. During the trial and now. I just found out about his story and it's really touched me. He's strong to maintain a relationship with his father despite what he has done.
I lived in Columbus during this time. My husband was in the news business. He covered all of this😣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's full of advice! And trying to affect and get in your life to manipulate, use and abuse!
I've dealt with manipulative family members in my life. I learned how to relinquish contact, refuse contact, abandon contact. I'm happy you're sticking up for yourself. God bless you, from Findlay. ❤
OMG! OMG! those letters are soooo my friend's father!!! Such a shame my friend is so traumatized, and is an addict!
I am in erie and will never forget this horror so sorry for you and your mom
Hi Collie, I remember watching the bravest testimony I had ever seen but little did I know that you would have such a profound effect on me so many years later and all the way over here in Australia.
I'm a Mum of two adult boys and their father is a self described sociopath. He's spent half their lives in prison but still manipulates us all.
Thank you for exposing the insidious tactics they use. As you read these letters and explain it, I can recognise and confirm what is happening to us.
Even though I know he does this I fall victim to him when he acts kind is a relief from the vicious conflict.
I so appreciate you.
You were a rock for your mother under indescribable pressure.
And now you are a rock for us.
Saying thank you can not convey my gratitude. Please don't underestimate your impact . You are appreciated ❤
Happy to see you I saw that case on forensic files. This case sadden my heart. Good that you are doing amazing
Intriguing to think about your biological father's deluded comments. At the 7.45 min mark, your smiling eyes amongst the irony of your father's words.
Your coping strategies in sharing your letters, are super amazing. 🙏🏽Praying for comfort always, for the pain that can never truely go away..
Our children in an accident that took their father's life. Often there is a bit of Dark humour in our ' family group chat' on a good day. Third eldest recently mentioned, she has invited her dad for Easter lunch, but he didn't answer her! Our eldest replied, that's a bit stiff, how rude of him!😅
4th child responded, 'He never replies😅😢😅
If he doesn't show up, we'll just have to eat the family pack of M&M's I bought him for Easter😅
Absolutely! You are the first I’ve heard that sees the truth in the simplicity of drugs and family generational cycle of traumatic dysfunction. Does not fit a sociopath or psychopath.
It’s good to hear your healthy rebuttal to your father’s bs!!!
I have so much respect for you you are a strong good Man ❤
First, I'm sorry for your trauma, sustained trauma from your Father, family abandonment. I'm grateful that you find healing and have the strength to share your experiences. My eldest is a narcissist and this helps me between my therapy appts to remember the world is full of narcs/ socios. To be strong not bite the bait, internalize the gaslighting. My prayers and best positive vibes sent to you. Serenity prayer but also self grace when we lose our shit and get depressed.
Halo collier I am following you from Australia. I have seen a lot of the videos there isn’t one person to watch them and not filing the pain and suffering and the every day Agony that you have safer wat can I say you are a Hero many times over lots of love and respect ❤❤🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷🇦🇺💒
He tried to insinuate that Collier must not feel like a good person for testifying against his dad - and then reassured him that he was indeed a good person. Why reassure him he’s a good person - who said he wasn’t? Every single word is loaded, a trap.
I’m sorry how your family treated you. You did the right thing
That is so true about good cop bad cop, roller coaster, spin the wheel, dizzying! ♥️🙏
I Just Love 💘 you sharing this inside info on the horrible stuff the side ove what your story has been this can help other familys that have been threw this 😢😢😢😢but sharing is very good therapy
They always have imaginary friends.
...Collier...were the scratches and cuts you saw on your dad's hands ever explained ???
also, don't ever forget... you were going to be next.... You think you escaped and in a way you did
but also, in a way ... you havent ..... yet.
I got the impression that his Dad got the scratches and sore back when he buried his wife under the concrete floor. The construction alone to get that accomplished is hard core labor. I doubt he had someone else do it.
Thank you for sharing. My mother was a monster
Sorry to hear that Thank you so much @Jeannine-jf4ie for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!
“the royal ‘we’” 😂
I have been watching many videos about you and the “father” and I can’t believe how his personality mimics my ex abusers! Same exact behaviors, gas lighting, explosive hair trigger temper, rewriting the story to fit his narrative … I would almost be convinced you were talking about my kids “dad”. My kids went through exactly what you talked about except I ran and hid with them several times, staying at shelters, only to be arrested for kidnapping them several times. Once Inproved abuse I would be let out and then try to run and the last judge here put me in jail twice and then held contempt over my head all the time… I was revictimized by the court Al over again and I didn’t care because I was not dropping my teens off to visit a violent drunk who tortured them. Thank The Lord Above that they are aged out of the courts and we are safe so far! I give God the glory he has protected us and now I will fulfill my role and write a book about my story…. Maybe you can help me some day!
Don't let your dad do that to you. You don't have to read these letters if it's not healthy for you. You can't lose sleep over this. You don't owe any of us to do something that isn't mentally healthy for you. Keep that in mind. You've already helped people in bad situation's to recognize people like your father in their lives.
Stop reading his letters. Move on!
It is interesting that you wondered if he was actually writing these letters for his own benefit. He probably was hoping that you would share them with the parole board. I was thinking the exact same thing when you said it! Also, I can tell how much these letters hurt you to read, bc they validate the feelings you already have of your father. I am so sorry that this happened to you and your mother. Neither of you deserved it. You are a fine young man, and your mother would actually be so proud of you( I say this as a mother, not a gaslighter). I hope you have received therapy through the years, along with your therapeutic podcast. Sending you much affection. ❤
Dear Collier, I just discovered your podcast today and I wanted to know why your father's mistress was not charged as an accesory to your mother's murder because she must have known before (because it was premeditated; they bought the house before the murder; they forged your mother's signature; they bought tools, etc) and after the murder (they buried her body under the floor of the basement). She was pregnant at the time of the murder (that's motive) and moved into your house immediately to replace your mother. The fact that they bought a house before his divorce to your mother went through is proof that he wanted to start a new life with his mistress and he didn't want your mother to get half of his assets in a divorce. A narcissist sociopath would perceive giving half of his assests to your mother as a failure/insult, even if he was an unfaithful, violent husband and father, he would never let your mother LEAVE him, on her terms not his. He had to kill her to protect his ego. She didn't leave him, he killed her and then he lied to everybody saying she is in Canada shopping. During the trial and after, he continued lying to get out of prison, blaming the cops, your mother everybody except himself. Based on the letters that you have read, he will never confess his guilt and ask for your forgiveness because his family will stop visiting in prison if he admits the truth and he can play the victim (he is an innocent man framed for a murder he didn't commit) and gaslight everybody into believing he is innocent and make them spend lots of money in prison trying to prove his innocence. What kind of monster allows his mother to lose her house and other assets paying for lawyers and appeals and PIs investigating corruption in the police department to back up hix claims that he was framed?
Hello from Rayon Cubbins 😂…and btw as far as your dad is concerned I still think wtf and I probably always will 😂
The amount of gaslighting in that letter, geez!! I'm surprised that letter didn't explode in your hands.
WOW just fucking WOW this is a true murdering narcissist!!! Collier I absolutely love how you can see straight through this man. You sir are a legend 👌
I remember when my narcissistic sister was in prison she wrote a letter detailing her day & which foods & pop she liked etc & i thought WOW.
I never would have thought that this letter was even more horrific than you had talked about, but when you said he possibly wrote it for others to see when you hopefully told them how wonderful of a father he was! Just wow how your biological fathers broken brain works.
I have been in the hands of a psychopath who I thought was going to kill me at 18 yrs old but he let me go. My life was permanently changed. I have read or watched a lot if true crime and better understand why people do these horrible things to others. I’m so sorry you had to go through so much at such a young age. Thank you for all you do for others. I will continue to watch them all.
Wow. He passive aggressively knocks you down. For putting him in jail. But, hey! Don’t you blame yourself! Even though he is suffering more than most!
Your Dad never stops lying. He can’t ever make himself ‘look bad.’ And he can’t ever stop trying to get outta jail.
Couldn’t be more evidence against him…. And yet, he just can’t stop loving the lie.
🤮
oh god. not the same road of tragedy but similar road of brokenness to thriving-hood. would love to share with someone who would understand. "there's no end to your endurance until you die" not always what I want to hear but I am still here.
I’m here to say, I’ve gotten used to your style. This is about the 3rd day of finding you. I am divorced from a narcissist. I do now realize that, more than ever. Your content is teaching me, for sure. Yes. You survived. I have too, with many scars.
One good thing about narcissists are theyre so easily red flagged once you know.
Thank you for sharing Collier! I’m curious if you’ve touched on your experiences with your father the Narcissist from before his terrible actions of killing your mother. I’ve recently left a relationship with a Narc and feel
I got away with my sanity AND my life thankfully.
That uncle asking you for money to get your dad out is degenerate & disgusting & it breaks my heart for you.
His "lady" friends probably, . You are so special to be able to even talk to this horrible monster!!! Your mother must have been a really beautiful woman because you are quite handsome and she was so wise and taught you so much. Hang in there!! Your mom would really be happy and proud of you!!! God bless and keep you always. Wish you happiness and healing and much success.❤
Do Not keep returning to "Empty Wells" expecting at some point to get something "Needed/Wanted". My mantra for decades...Hell. Life goal.
Also, don’t throw your pearls before swine! Jordan Peterson speaks about that quite a bit.
I'm new here. Very interesting topic.
Why the different last names - Boyle and Landry?
Landry is his Mom's maiden name. Understandable not wanting to bare his father's last name Boyle, the murderer.
Did he pass a lie detector. Thats a rare sociopath that can pass one.
Great podcast
Thanks for listening
I love the way you are sharing your story with your viewers .
Daddy never fails to continue playing the victim 😂 !
You are an asset to society #CollierLandry ❤
Thank you so much for watching and commenting, your support means so much to me. Have a wonderful day!
Narcs think about how they want to say so a letter is a whole ego trip into their empty soul.
I have listen to his letters that you read,and i see that this man is sick,sick, sick.
At Camp😄 Well his camp has really small rooms with a toilet in the room.
But it was not he who worked so hard for his degree, but actually your mother who worked so hard for his degree. Omg. So ungrateful.
He thinks you should have Mistresses like he did.
Be kind to each other. Stay safe. Love to all
Stop FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF?!, Wtf? Narcs are truly nuts
You group up in the great man,be proud if you self,respect🙏🙋♀️
Hi from the highlands of Scotland you have a new subscriber how beautiful was your mum x
14:26 he’s still trying to exert some control over you!
U r an excellent storyteller...
He talks about how her family and friends duped her? 😂 Then he complains about Sherry. Wow! Its amazing how some even such intelligent people can be so stupid or delusional too.
Has Sherry written a book or appeared on Dr Phil to give her take or was she charged with accessory to your father's crimes?
I’m so sorry your dad did this to your mama ! He will answer to god for what he has done .
Collier, i searched everywhere for your movie today with no sucess. Im in Ireland, can you point me in the right direction please? ❤
Do you ever wonder if you didn’t pretend you were asleep what your father would have done to you?
When you read your dad's letters it really makes me angry at him. Just getting to know you Collier the last few months makes me wish I could have been there for you during your teen years. You are such a sweetheart and very intelligent. I've written in before and said that I wish I had a son like you. I had a daughter that is easy on the eyes, just like you!☺️❤
You don’t look like your father…your good looks are from your mother who was a beautiful woman!