Why I dislike 'Gordon Ramsay' and prefer 'today' (PODCAST E64)

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  • @ExterminatorElite
    @ExterminatorElite 11 місяців тому +663

    One thing for which I'll be forever grateful to Gordon Ramsay was when he burned toast on camera. I was developing my skills at home cooking and getting to be very neurotic about how things turned out, often holding myself to such a standard that it was bumming out everyone else, even as they actually enjoyed my cooking. And then, in a video about English breakfast, Gordon Ramsay burned toast. And he laughed, and hurriedly popped in another slice. And I thought, "If the 'you fucking donkey' guy just laughs it off when he burns the toast, then what the fuck am I doing?" I chilled out a lot after that.

    • @krux02
      @krux02 10 місяців тому +68

      In my observation wouldn't yell at someone who burns a toast. He would yell at someone if the burned toast was served to the customer.

    • @ThermicLight
      @ThermicLight 10 місяців тому +22

      @@krux02 - Ramsey is the kind of insufferable critic who would complain about greese in his fast food. Too much of a cork sniffer for my liking.

    • @TBlev215
      @TBlev215 10 місяців тому +5

      I’m gonna set the smoke alarms off! That’ll wake up the missus!

    • @TBlev215
      @TBlev215 10 місяців тому +45

      @@ThermicLighthe actually went to In and Out Burger once and he enjoyed it so much he told his driver to go through the line again and order another one.

    • @connorwelch6265
      @connorwelch6265 10 місяців тому +53

      @@ThermicLight Have you actually followed Gordon Ramsey or are you just going off of highlights on TV. Much like Adam said, TV personalities are just that, TV personalities. Yes he yells a lot but it's only at people who should know what they're doing. Take Hell's Kitchen, the people that are brought in claim to be and usually are professional chef's. The fact that many of them continuously mess up a dinner service is not acceptable of a professional chef. Same with Kitchen Nightmare's. The owners that act like they're hot shit despite running a restaurant into the ground is also unacceptable.
      But when you look at shows like Master Chef or Master Chef Junior he's a very different person. Yes he's critical but the people competing are there to learn and he knows this. Especially with Master Chef Junior, he's very encouraging and only critiques to teach. He knows they're little kids and the fact they can even cook as well as they do is crazy on it's own. There's even stories of show crew employees working on his show and many have said he treats them with respect and is kind of a goofy joker. Outside of Hell's Kitchen and Kitchen Nightmares you'd be hard pressed to find content of him being an asshole, it's usually quite the opposite.
      @Kakarot1591 gave a great example demonstrating he knows when to be critical and when to be kind.

  • @Strikefence
    @Strikefence 11 місяців тому +1015

    As a cook, this episode was surprisingly hard for me to watch and nearly brought a tear to my eye on a couple occasions. We do just want a normal life with standard 8 hour shifts. The job is exhausting and the rewards aren't really worth the effort.
    I'll be taking the LSAT test in August and hope to move on from this life and go to law school. Wish me luck.

    • @georgem7502
      @georgem7502 11 місяців тому +17

      Good luck 🎉❤

    • @_rysie
      @_rysie 11 місяців тому +9

      Best of luck

    • @nrs_207
      @nrs_207 11 місяців тому +36

      Not cooking, but I quit my career and went to law school a couple years back. Taking the bar exam in a few weeks. One of the guys in my class was a cook and quit and found his way into the legal field too. Good luck

    • @zoeydeu2261
      @zoeydeu2261 11 місяців тому +12

      My ex's friend was head chef and owner of a renown restaurant in Sydney. He quit and went to law school as a mature student, passed and became a corporate lawyer

    • @enzog1078
      @enzog1078 11 місяців тому +36

      You want an easy 8 hour job and are becoming a lawyer? Lmao the military is easier than that

  • @Agodders
    @Agodders 11 місяців тому +777

    The worst thing about the blue plaster thing is that its food safety conscious and blue plasters are required in first aid kits in food prep so youd never accidentally eat it.

    • @GeorgeFarren
      @GeorgeFarren 11 місяців тому +74

      Gordon didn't even ask him to get a skin coloured plaster. He specified a white plaster. It looks almost as obvious as the blue one in the clip! What a pointless escapade 😂

    • @comparethequeercat
      @comparethequeercat 11 місяців тому +30

      @@GeorgeFarren Eh I guess that makes sense? Blue plasters probably come across as more "cheap" than white ones, but why would there be blue plasters in the building if it was that much of a concern

    • @MatthewBrannigan
      @MatthewBrannigan 11 місяців тому +24

      Yes, if there's a blue band aid in the goulash it can easily be retrieved but a flesh colored one is a bit more difficult to spot!

    • @random832
      @random832 11 місяців тому +12

      @@comparethequeercat He does say 'in the dining room' in the clip, it's possible that they did follow that for those same food safety best practices reasons in the back of house, and white in the dining room was a compromise to not look ugly for customers

    • @FlobbiJobbi
      @FlobbiJobbi 11 місяців тому +14

      RSVP Carrie Fisher

  • @NewSparky97
    @NewSparky97 10 місяців тому +240

    I wanna say Adam, you have achieved your goal of getting people to chill the hell out about food, at least in my case. Cooking is one of the few activities I can consider myself genuinely skilled at, and take pride in. Never in any way other than as a home cook, but still I had a kinda uppity attitude with my own family or friends about it.
    Now, after having been a viewer since 2019 into 2020, your influence has really curtailed that impulse in me. I'm much more laid back about food, and much less of a dickhead about food.
    And for that, I'm grateful

    • @Nicksonian
      @Nicksonian 9 місяців тому +2

      Adam is teaching us that it’s okay to improvise with food. You don’t need to follow recipes, just learn some basics and you can throw together whatever with whatever you’ve got. Ya, sometimes it’s not going to be worth saving the leftovers, but other times something delightful will result…with a lot less stress.

    • @Bustermachine
      @Bustermachine 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Nicksonian Pretty much. Cooking becomes ten times easier once you realize that, with the crucial exception of baking, you don't usually have to be that precise with your measurements. Just develop a good intuition for 'sane' amounts of seasoning. Also, plenty of recipes will turn out just fine if you have to skip a minor ingredient or make a substitution. The latter is important, it means suddenly, a small spice wrack can do a good job of cooking almost anything, rather than needing to have a hundred different herbs and spices on hand.

  • @michelleneal6860
    @michelleneal6860 11 місяців тому +305

    I've worked in restaurants for nearly twenty years. The best feeling in the world is when the front and back of house dig through the weeds as one cohesive whole. When every team member assists and anticipates each movement of the kitchen, the expo line, the dining room, the bar, etc. An effective dinner service feels like a symphony. To be a vital piece of a precise machine feels incredible.

    • @OrigamiMarie
      @OrigamiMarie 11 місяців тому +11

      I've never worked in food, my area is software. It's a really, unusually broken software place that has yelling. Sometimes there are software emergencies (the website goes down or the incoming orders are falling or the money isn't moving around correctly) and there is somewhat anxious coordination. The best feeling is successfully breaking the problem into parts that can each be performed by the person with the most applicable expertise.

    • @BlackCrossCrusader
      @BlackCrossCrusader 11 місяців тому +4

      Masterfully said, and as a chef in training, I agree wholeheartedly.

    • @beardlessodin945
      @beardlessodin945 11 місяців тому +8

      This sounds like a book excerpt. Get writing, Michelle!

    • @michelleneal6860
      @michelleneal6860 11 місяців тому +2

      @@beardlessodin945 I really appreciate the confidence boost! Very kind!

    • @beardlessodin945
      @beardlessodin945 11 місяців тому +2

      @@michelleneal6860 You’re quite welcome! It was truly said and deeply felt! You have a knack for beautiful sentence structure, of a surety!

  • @tlniec
    @tlniec 11 місяців тому +652

    I feel like I would prefer Gordon the person to Gordon the persona projected on TV.

    • @sircake132
      @sircake132 11 місяців тому +17

      Oh 100%

    • @triaxe-mmb
      @triaxe-mmb 11 місяців тому +73

      I think Gorden the dad who cooks at home with his kids is a much more enjoyable man in TV than the screaming chef on TV... basically lockdown helped me like him more than I did before lockdown...

    • @MetallicReg
      @MetallicReg 11 місяців тому +111

      On that note - watch his actual European program (that is for normal people) and not the US program (for mentally unstable sociopaths).

    • @GeldtheGelded
      @GeldtheGelded 11 місяців тому +14

      ​@@triaxe-mmbFor real, he should stop with all the creaming

    • @xipalips
      @xipalips 11 місяців тому +44

      According to Kenji, who has worked under him, Gordon does in fact embody the aggressive screaming boss persona in real life too.

  • @CesarAndreu
    @CesarAndreu 11 місяців тому +89

    A lot of what Gordon Ramsay cooks nowadays seems to be focused more on looking good than actually tasting good. Recently he published a video on TikTok where he made a massive steak sandwich, and when other people tried to recreate it they all showed that it was nearly impossible to eat due to stacked it was. It's food for the cameras, not for humans.

    • @Athalwolf13
      @Athalwolf13 10 місяців тому +19

      Tbh,that's more or less a common problem with a ton of tiktok.
      Either it's impractical to eat or make, or outright based on lie.

    • @2adamast
      @2adamast 10 місяців тому +1

      Just any UA-cam sandwich is over stacked, now a basic hamburger is a sorry thing too, there is little chance on salvation annyway

    • @moekitsune
      @moekitsune 7 місяців тому

      ​@@2adamastA basic hamburger is the perfect amount of sandwich for me, are people really saying that it's too little?

    • @lebambale
      @lebambale 6 місяців тому

      Just saw that video a few minutes ago :D Yeah, it's huge. But it def looked good, with the juices flowing, etc. Could taste the onions! And their crunchiness.
      However, I thought to myself that that particular sandwich is soooo basic! Even for the Gordon's level - he always does the same prep, same ingredients, same method ('a cast iron skillet, olive oil (!), a clove of garlic, rosemary...' blah blah). Damn that's boring!! As if there's no other method to prepare a steak!? Or any other piece of meat in that regard...
      So the final result is that the video was as GENERIC as it could be! (In other words, trash.) Nobody gained anything (new) and the sandwich was absolutely the same - terribly ordinary stuff - Gordon makes every single day!
      So if you're a chef or he's a chef - what's the point of making the same stuff (same way) over and over again? Especially for the telly? It (the latter format) means exactly that the skills should be applied in different ways, virtuosicly and ingeniously. It's experimentation, and invention, and innovation... Not some steak just all over again!!!! At some point it just becomes stupid, a performance routine, a meme.

  • @anishsrinivasan8591
    @anishsrinivasan8591 11 місяців тому +90

    Take a shot every time Adam fawns over Gordon's appearence 😆

    • @pXnTilde
      @pXnTilde 10 місяців тому +3

      felt a bit voyeuristic after a while ngl

    • @Patrick_Bateman92
      @Patrick_Bateman92 10 місяців тому +4

      Take a shot every time he says "what Brits call..."

    • @2adamast
      @2adamast 10 місяців тому

      @@pXnTildeindeed, beards poorly hide a sad reality our millennials are getting old

    • @JoJoModding
      @JoJoModding 3 місяці тому +1

      No thank you I don't need to die of alcohol poisoning

  • @foragingadventures
    @foragingadventures 11 місяців тому +105

    Watching Adam thirsting over young Gordon and Marco is not something I expected to watch this evening but here we are.

    • @anjalialaniz
      @anjalialaniz 11 місяців тому +9

      jim morrison in an apron

    • @ninjarooster9258
      @ninjarooster9258 10 місяців тому +6

      This is extremely uncomfy. “Man I hate this guy gawwwwd he’s so hawwwttt” BRUH

    • @KiraRagged
      @KiraRagged 10 місяців тому +2

      @@ninjarooster9258 long distance negging? 😂

    • @treyshaffer
      @treyshaffer 10 місяців тому

      ​@@ninjarooster9258I think his point is that most of Gordon's success and places he got in life was from his looks

  • @pathologicaldoubt
    @pathologicaldoubt 11 місяців тому +93

    Adam, never accept those reality tv casting offers. I worked in reality, it’s exactly as you’d expect if not worse.

    • @josuel.9598
      @josuel.9598 7 місяців тому

      In reality tv? Which one? If you don’t mind sharing.

    • @themyth7274
      @themyth7274 Місяць тому

      It may have been next level chef, I think that's what it's called. They had a couple of youtubers on there

  • @honey-bagder3451
    @honey-bagder3451 11 місяців тому +195

    Kenji has talked about this a few times as well. Creating work environments that aren’t abusive is important.

    • @slipperynickels
      @slipperynickels 11 місяців тому +35

      trades are having a similar issue, because people are sick of spending all day being bullied by their own boss, so they get jobs in industries where that isn't treated as both the norm and a positive.
      also gordon's grilled cheese was a crime against humanity and i'll never forgive him for that.

    • @randomassortmentofthings
      @randomassortmentofthings 11 місяців тому +8

      ​@@slipperynickels I was training in tool and die and left because it was verbally abusive. Luckily in a much better place in CNC machining now but that was a terrible few months

    • @manaspradhan8041
      @manaspradhan8041 10 місяців тому +10

      Kenji isn't the best person to talk about anything

    • @dsspiegel
      @dsspiegel 10 місяців тому +10

      @@manaspradhan8041 Could you please expand on this comment?

    • @dreamlegion4165
      @dreamlegion4165 10 місяців тому +1

      @@manaspradhan8041why? I’m curious

  • @somewhatboxes
    @somewhatboxes 11 місяців тому +52

    the lesson i'm taking away from the blue bandage story is that gordon ramsay doesn't realize that he's structurally set up his restaurant to be stocked with band-aids that he'll scream at people for using, which is like... definitionally self-defeating. at some point hours in advance, possibly days or even weeks, someone showed up with a box of colorful band-aids. and in theory, gordon is such a stickler for details that he saw the band-aids, but apparently didn't tell this person that they needed to go back out and buy more inconspicuous band-aids.
    i totally agree with you that he was wrong to yell at the waitstaff with the band-aid. he should've been yelling at himself, because he shouldn't have provided his employees with band-aids that he didn't want them to use. he could have made it impossible to make this mistake, but he neglected to. and that's not the waitstaff's fault - it's gordon's.

    • @ObsoleteVodkaYT
      @ObsoleteVodkaYT 11 місяців тому +12

      And as some have already pointed out, the blue bandages are meant for this kind of jobs because in the rare case one of them falls on food or drink the staff can spot that from a mile away.

    • @muchluck7981
      @muchluck7981 10 місяців тому

      @@ObsoleteVodkaYT Just a quick reminder that the blue bandage story was during a time when he was going after a michellin star. It is true that blue bandages do help with food/drink situations but this is fine dining and not your normal restaurant, you never know when you are going to be spot checked by one of the michellin investigators. A blue bandage can imply low standards and gordon wouldn't want that.
      Also note that the blue bandage was being worn by a server. A chef cooking and wearing a blue bandage is fine but a maitre'd/waiter wearing a blue bandage is unsightly because everyone can see your bandage and would hyperfocus on that. you can lose michellin stars because of tiny details like that, not just for your food quality dropping
      Also, Gordon is more chill when he is not in a professional kitchen. Masterchef adult and junior, his travelling series unchartered and great escape and even his home cooking series. It's just that when he's in a kitchen he places a very strict bar for himself and the chefs he is working with to uphold and maintain. that also includes the front of staff.

    • @legopenguin9
      @legopenguin9 10 місяців тому

      @@muchluck7981 you have something in your mouth

    • @BeyondTrash-xe1vs
      @BeyondTrash-xe1vs 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@muchluck7981You could lose a Michelin star because a server dared to wear a bandage?
      Thats ridiculous lmao, and regardless going for a Michelin star doesn't excuse treating your staff terribly.
      Thought it would be common sense, but treating people right is more important than some award.

    • @muchluck7981
      @muchluck7981 10 місяців тому

      @@BeyondTrash-xe1vs It's not really treating your staff like shit. It's called holding a standard. Could it be handled better? Yes but not saying anything at the same time is just as bad because that waiter is unintentionally setting an example to the other wait staff that it's fine to use that kind of bandage for the front of house
      Also at the same time, he was really after a michellin star at the time and michelin was sending in secret diners, anybody could be an inspector of michelin and you wouldnt know it

  • @joshuachesney7552
    @joshuachesney7552 11 місяців тому +118

    "There are a lot of permanently anxious workaholics among the gen X generation"
    Oh my god, this hit so hard. This explains my parents and my fiancees parents and a lot of other gen Xers we know.

    • @SimuLord
      @SimuLord 11 місяців тому +12

      If you think it hit hard secondhand, just imagine being an actual Gen-X hearing that. I still can't even take a sick day without feeling like I'm going to be fired for slacking when I go back into the office.

    • @realityisfake
      @realityisfake 10 місяців тому +17

      @@SimuLord I got over all that after working with zoomers and millenials for a while. A lot of the will quit if you look at them funny. They wont put up with much bullshit, and why should they. Kinda relaxing when you dont have to compete with a bunch of psychos.

    • @OnTheNerdySide
      @OnTheNerdySide 10 місяців тому +6

      I'm on the cusp of X and Millennial, so I was on the receiving end of those workaholic values. Here in the US, the rug was pulled out from under workers by the time I made it into the workforce. Thankfully, I have resisted the urge to take it out on others or pull what's left of the ladder up behind me.

    • @Sycokay
      @Sycokay 10 місяців тому

      I'm a late Xer and have to say...boomers are workaholics. We already figured out that putting in effort doesn't pay off the way it used to.

    • @2adamast
      @2adamast 10 місяців тому +1

      Now imagine this going on for generations, because previous generations where just that, generations.

  • @howycwap
    @howycwap 10 місяців тому +60

    Gordon's best show is his series with prisoners (Gordon Behind Bars). He's genuinely nice to them and wants them to succeed and it is so much more powerful and entertaining than his traditional angry shows

    • @sabojude
      @sabojude 10 місяців тому

      The scrambled eggs recipe he used is still wack though

    • @definitelyzeblackcat743
      @definitelyzeblackcat743 10 місяців тому +13

      Blame the American cut of those 'angry shows.' You should see how he helps people grow in Hotel and Kitchen Nightmares. It's very similar, in UK/EU. Just not in the USA.

    • @sandrawiersma2512
      @sandrawiersma2512 9 місяців тому +3

      The one with the little kids is also really sweet. He really comforts those kids when their dished flop and tries to bolster their confidence in pointing out where things did go well.

    • @dennischiapello7243
      @dennischiapello7243 8 місяців тому

      I noticed that some years back! Yes, somehow in the USA he found producers who very much wanted to amp up the tension--which is true to one degree or another of ALL the US food shows. @@definitelyzeblackcat743

  • @ivanaflores-salcido8438
    @ivanaflores-salcido8438 11 місяців тому +46

    Idk if this applies at fine dining-level restaurants but I was taught that the purpose of wearing blue or bright-colored bandaids is to make them visible to prevent food from getting sent out with an inconspicuous bandaid on the plate

  • @dieseldan420ca
    @dieseldan420ca 11 місяців тому +321

    A video on the history of our public school lunch program would be interesting. It’s sad to see what it has turned into. The Chris Farley Lunch Lady making meals from scratch has been replaced with corporate premade prison style meals that get delivered and microwaved all under the guise of health.

    • @afrothundermusic4439
      @afrothundermusic4439 11 місяців тому +25

      This. I remember when there was this "health initiative" to make school lunches healthier. It made lunches taste significantly worse and honestly I don't think they are much better for you.

    • @pavelow235
      @pavelow235 11 місяців тому +4

      I thought Jamie Oliver fixed Americas Public School Systems lunch programs...🤣🤣😂😂

    • @SimuLord
      @SimuLord 11 місяців тому +14

      I think we can trace everything that's broken about education in the United States, from K-12 performance to school lunch to the college student loan debacle, to the creation of the cabinet-level US Department of Education in the 1970s. Imposing strict federal standards and regulations on something that the states and the localities were doing a far better job of then and could do a far better job of now (especially in states that saw their standards decline because they were dumbed down to the mean, states like my home state of Massachusetts) made everything worse.
      Same with the federal Department of Transportation jumping all the way out of its mandate and instead of being about building and maintaining infrastructure became about utter folly like the 55-mile-per-hour federal speed limit that spawned Sammy Hagar's GOAT-level protest song in the '80s and gave us the Cannonball Run when Brock Yates and friends decided to hold a protest at three times the legal maximum.
      The further removed from the voter you put the government agency in charge of that voter's life, the worse the ideas tend to be that come from that governing apparatus. Michelle Obama killed the lunch lady. It's time to abolish the USDOE entirely. Just scrap the whole thing.

    • @AyAy008
      @AyAy008 11 місяців тому

      Just came here to say, f*ck Big Mike

    • @onesimplefool5250
      @onesimplefool5250 11 місяців тому

      its always comments like this that makes me grateful of the schools i went to. i graduated highschool in 2020 so some things might have changed, but the school lunches were always good, in highschool there was always a 'build you own' style lunch line where you would pick what you want with things like, pastas, rice, even gryos! the other lines were also good, i think that the reason is because i had a really good school district.

  • @heqaib
    @heqaib 10 місяців тому +240

    Toward the end of the podcast, I realized this was not about GR or cooking. It was management and politeness. A ‘library voice’ is what is needed in today’s world. Our TV shows, news broadcasts, movies, sporting events, etc., should reflect this. Sadly, verbal and physical violence has become the norm. This has spilled over from so-called ‘entertainment’ to what is happening in our daily lives. Thanks, AR, for contributing to a saner world.

    • @terilapsey
      @terilapsey 10 місяців тому +4

      Well said. I was looking for a way to express the feelings Adam evoked in this podcast. Thank you for finding them. Kinder, gentle response.

    • @TheGodYouWishYouKnew
      @TheGodYouWishYouKnew 10 місяців тому +2

      A library voice is what got us here. Not enough parenting and kicking asses. Too many participation trophies and no bail for criminals.

    • @davidthedeaf
      @davidthedeaf 10 місяців тому

      People should be themselves, and there should be understanding for oppressed minorities, yes including those who grew up in an abusive home, to be themselves. Elites like to create rules of “culture and professionalism” that are methods to gatekeep and prevent minorities from having a voice. I totally disagree.

    • @i0ushephf
      @i0ushephf 10 місяців тому +1

      In live audio production the best advice I have learned is in line with this.
      First: never run anywhere. By running you’re communicating that something’s about to break and nothing is working
      Secondly: always speak to musicians through a microphone into the stage monitors (or in ears) or walk up to them and speak no matter how small the venue is. To be heard without microphones You’ll need to raise your voice to be heard and by raising your voice you’re communicating aggression. Just by shouting “HEY” in order to get attention from someone will sour the atmosphere

    • @simshengvue5799
      @simshengvue5799 10 місяців тому

      When you take one month to make 1 cooking video library voice can work. When you are in a busy kitchen having to get 30 plates of food out an hour I cannot hear your library voice

  • @zerarch77
    @zerarch77 6 місяців тому +7

    Favorite quotes:
    "If you're yelling in the workplace, and there's no literal explosion going on, that's not a sign of strength-it's a sign of weakness. It means you're out of control-of yourself or your team."
    "A real man's courage is to acknowledge that he doesn't know everything, and he doesn't have to. Real strength is in learning and constant self-improvement. Real strength is in working with other people so that they can do the things you can't do, and vice versa. Real strength is making the people you work with feel valued and heard and supported. And if you don't value the people you work with, that's really your fault. You either should have trained them better or hired someone else, or maybe they really do just suck and you need to fire them, but you can do that quickly and quietly. Professionally. With library voices."

  • @inspaceoo9165
    @inspaceoo9165 11 місяців тому +62

    I always liked the "old" UK-Kitchen Nightmares Ramsay and disliked the loud US one. The UK series was just way more calm, focused (not only on the food itself) and overall respectful to the Ppl and profession itself.

    • @DaveF.
      @DaveF. 11 місяців тому +17

      I've mentioned this a couple of times here - the first few seasons are excellent - it starts getting 'gimicky' toward the end with lots of silly team-building stuff thrown in - but the first few are all about the business and the food - and very little ranting (even when you suspect there should be. e.g GR being fed rancid scallops and having to literally vomit them up by a useless chef)

    • @definitelyzeblackcat743
      @definitelyzeblackcat743 10 місяців тому +1

      Thank goodness there's people who know there was a difference in the UK vs the US edition.

  • @therabbi9848
    @therabbi9848 11 місяців тому +148

    I would be a lot more open to going back to restaurant work if I knew everyone in the kitchen was committed to controlling themselves. It just felt so shitty to be screamed at for making the simplest mistake. You are so spot on when you say some people just want to go to war in the kitchen whether there is one or not. It's really frustrating to deal with people who feel entitled to act out when things go wrong instead of acting like professionals.

    • @lostboy8084
      @lostboy8084 11 місяців тому +4

      The screaming came about due to a particular reason of noise and little space it was hard to hear people making even harder was the small kitchens so you tried your best not to walk around to much because you would get in each other way. For some reason people took the screaming turned it into belittling finding fault for minor issues.

    • @applegal3058
      @applegal3058 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@lostboy8084and then you need to scream even louder to scream over the other people screaming in the kitchen.

  • @jamesterwilliger3176
    @jamesterwilliger3176 11 місяців тому +61

    Gordon Ramsay's classes on Masterclass are actually legit awesome, which surprised me to no end because I find his primary media persona horrifying.

    • @Zach476
      @Zach476 11 місяців тому +24

      you should look at the difference between his media persona in the Uk vs the Us his persona in the Us it seems to get amped up for the American audience

    • @MayorOfEarth79
      @MayorOfEarth79 11 місяців тому +6

      Gordon's definitely softened a bit over the years. I remember people love watching Masterchef Junior because he's very patient, supportive, and understanding of the kids. (He's had 5 of them after all)

    • @diegomeredith-marquez929
      @diegomeredith-marquez929 10 місяців тому +2

      @@m.c.murdoch6 His Ultimate Cookery Course series is genuinely helpful and a bit underrated, IMO.

  • @rangergxi
    @rangergxi 11 місяців тому +129

    This reminds me of a documentary about the Battle of Midway. The captain of one of the US ships was a soft spoken man who stood stoicly unmoved by explosions. He even made puns. The man interviewed said just looking at the captain inspired him to do his job despite bleeding and freaking out about the torpedoes he could literally see the ship dodging.

  • @yourguysheppy
    @yourguysheppy 11 місяців тому +79

    Another particularly cruel dynamic I've had with yelling in the workplace is the supervisor exclusively scolding you from across the room. So, any time you screwed up (it happens in a fast paced warehouse environment) everyone in the department got to know about it.

    • @gianni_schicchi
      @gianni_schicchi 9 місяців тому +3

      That’s a huge no-no for me. I’ve managed many people and I’ve used bad language and even raise my voice a few times but I would never scold someone in front of the group.
      Every employee gets a 30 minute meeting once a week and I can discuss it there.
      The only time I would scold someone in front of the group is, if they were scolding, someone else, I would tell them to cut it out .

  • @GoCoyote
    @GoCoyote 11 місяців тому +63

    While I am not a pilot, following some pilots on youtube has led me to appreciate the types of "crew resource management" that have been shown to work in the cockpit, and I have found many ways to apply it in my life. Yelling at and demeaning ones coworkers does not actually achieve results.

    • @RowdyTheHitman
      @RowdyTheHitman 10 місяців тому +2

      But it sure is entertaining, especially when paired with a crash zoom

    • @RowdyTheHitman
      @RowdyTheHitman 10 місяців тому

      @@SimonWoodburyForget living hell it sounds like to me

  • @canorth
    @canorth 11 місяців тому +32

    “Why I roast my Gordon Ramsay and not my Gordon Ramsay”

    • @jrk1666
      @jrk1666 11 місяців тому +3

      why I roast my Gordon Ramsay and not my Marco Pierre White

  • @ileutur6863
    @ileutur6863 10 місяців тому +11

    I love how the classic boomer argument of "hurf back in MYYYY DAAAY we used to be tough and do things the right way" when it comes to toxic workplaces is so easily defeated by real life examples of top level kitchens being run by well treated, well mannered and calm staff.
    The world can be a better place, most of humanity just doesn't want it to be.

  • @AlexKojfman
    @AlexKojfman 10 місяців тому +30

    This was excellent. Thank you Adam. I once heard "hurt people, hurt people." And I didn't realize that about the Marco/Gordon relationship, but I did see that video of the ravioli. Loved the breakdown on the bad of Ramsey and how there is a real danger for millions of people seeing that angry yelling person each night. And it goes beyond just wanna-be chefs. That stuff leaks into your everyday outside of the kitchen, as a father, husband, boss, employee - you think it's cool or macho to yell to get what you want. It is nice to see Gordon's moved on from telling people they are an idiot to calling them "donuts" which to be honest is unfair for donuts (they are so damn delicious, but anyway.) But at least it's a softer take, but the message is still there. It'd be interesting to see if Gordon could pivot away from that persona since he has so much power, because all signs point to him being a really nice person outside of the TV stuff.

  • @STV-H4H
    @STV-H4H 11 місяців тому +42

    Just got through the episode.
    My days in the kitchen following culinary school was not unlike the place depicted by Gordon Ramsey. Being abused by the chef was commonplace and eventually became the reason I changed my mind about wanting to become a chef.
    These days I’m a home chef with chops, but not anything I picked up in the kitchens where I was the bitch boy who took the job no where near as seriously as Anthony Bourdain did.
    I simply jumped ship and went somewhere else. Not very heroic, but there’s only so much abuse that I was willing to endure.
    The next job, was by far, a worse and more demeaning job, I lasted almost a year before I told the boss to fuck himself and his wife, she should murder him in his sleep, before he killed her.

    • @zhiracs
      @zhiracs 11 місяців тому +4

      Damn, those are some strong words. I hope whatever you're up to now is more fulfilling and enjoyable (genuinely).

    • @Checkmate1138
      @Checkmate1138 10 місяців тому

      Haha 😂, what was his reaction?

    • @STV-H4H
      @STV-H4H 10 місяців тому

      @@Checkmate1138 his reaction was much like the daily greeting: “go fuck yourself faggot”. Or words very similar. This happened back around 1985, so gay or not, it wasn’t like today, where someone is insulted, no one would care. I recently learned he died, I only hope it was an employee had a hand in it, or better, his wife.

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 10 місяців тому +1

      yikes

    • @treyshaffer
      @treyshaffer 10 місяців тому +2

      Yo wtf that's a really weird thing to say to somebody 😳

  • @christinepierce8592
    @christinepierce8592 11 місяців тому +23

    I'll go first. Yes. When we are in the weeds, the best thing is to work together.
    In my later work life, I worked in a medical facility. On one day during the big of Covid, I was paired with a person I absolutely couldn't stand and she couldn't stand me. Suddenly we found ourselves in the weeds. We both just pitched in while noticing all around us. By the end of that shift and working together in tandem, we grew utmost respect for one another. And are friends now.

    • @moekitsune
      @moekitsune 7 місяців тому

      I wanna thank you for working in medical during the height of Covid but I don't know how to really say it other than thanks

  • @applegal3058
    @applegal3058 10 місяців тому +12

    Hearing a kitchen manager or head chef shout and belittle others really makes me to never return to that restaurant ever again.
    I was at a Subway restaurant once, where i had to listen to a manager yell at their staff about how awful they were while I ate. I put in a complaint online, and got an email from that manager back saying they were joking with the staff and she was mad at me for pointing out the inappropriateness of her behaviour. I have no idea how the manager got my email address, except from customer service who probably shared my email without redacting my name...

  • @sazr9569
    @sazr9569 11 місяців тому +45

    Adam Ragusea calls Gordon Ramsey sexy and attractive for an hour straight that's the video yall

    • @xX_dash_Xx
      @xX_dash_Xx 11 місяців тому +3

      I still don't understand if he Adam thinks Ramsey is hot or looks like a "boiled potato". Maybe somewhere in the middle

    • @AppleGameification
      @AppleGameification 11 місяців тому

      You can be both. I mean he's not wrong about Gordon being very handsome, especially when he was young

    • @hansdieter8801
      @hansdieter8801 11 місяців тому +1

      @@xX_dash_Xx I'm an relatively sure this is not actually about what he things about his look. It is about how ramseys sucses had not only to do with his skill as a cook and am chef, but with his marcability, what your looks are part of

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 10 місяців тому +1

      @@xX_dash_Xx Gordon will be a boiled potato to me forever.

    • @stevencoardvenice
      @stevencoardvenice 10 місяців тому

      Gordon is awesome. Not sure why Adam is so salty

  • @yes0r787
    @yes0r787 10 місяців тому +20

    Great work, Adam. I have felt the same for ages. The culture of promoting drama, anger and bullying to make a bigger buck creates an angry, damaged society. Hurt people hurt people.

  • @dynomite463
    @dynomite463 10 місяців тому +17

    Im still enamored how youre able to host a solo podcast and still be as engaging as many of the hundreds of famous dude bro podcasts out there

    • @iceblaster1252
      @iceblaster1252 10 місяців тому +4

      Helps he has experience in journalism and thus the ability to tell a story compared to untrained groups just kinda vibing and talking

    • @ParsnipCelery
      @ParsnipCelery 7 місяців тому

      I mean his wife co-hosts podcasts with him.

  • @terubokmasin3247
    @terubokmasin3247 11 місяців тому +12

    "They don't remember me but I remember them." That line is especially scary coming from an Italian. Totally agree with Adam on not having to be an arse as a prerequisite for being a boss or someone in charge.

  • @JBOboe720
    @JBOboe720 11 місяців тому +38

    Hey, remember when Gordon got epically ratioed when he made a "grilled cheese" and somehow managed to both burn the bread and not melt the cheese?
    Yeah...

    • @willywestsidee
      @willywestsidee 11 місяців тому +9

      and remember the hundreds of other foods hes made that turned out extremely good? If you cook 500 times your bound to have a few slip ups.
      Yeah...

    • @xyz0zyx
      @xyz0zyx 10 місяців тому +3

      Compared to what? The over thirteen Michelin stars he’s been awarded? Cope.

    • @commodorjack8633
      @commodorjack8633 10 місяців тому +13

      @@willywestsidee okay but having been doing the whole food media thing for like 25 years, the fact that he published that one instead of reshooting it or scrapping it is... a decision to be sure.

    • @willywestsidee
      @willywestsidee 10 місяців тому +1

      @@commodorjack8633 i don't agree with you but i'm not bothered to argue so

    • @user-cn7io2pe8p
      @user-cn7io2pe8p 10 місяців тому +1

      @@commodorjack8633 Gordon is just the personality on the front, he has a whole team producing and publishing "his" shows.
      Could be that they didnt have enough time to redo the recipe and moved on the other 9 recipes they shot that day.
      Could be the opposite problem, running out of time.
      Could be that nobody asked for another take, so the rest of the pipeline published what they had.
      Could be that gordon literally just didnt care about doing it again, because who cares about one bad grilled cheese when hes done thousands of recipes. What does he have to prove haha

  • @virgyvirgil
    @virgyvirgil 11 місяців тому +57

    I liked boiling point and the original kitchen nightmares in the uk while it does have those flaws of being more a persona than reality I appreciate how much more low key it is and he only really yells if there is gross negligence w safety standards and cooking and none of those grating sound queues to denote something bad is happening

    • @jayteegamble
      @jayteegamble 11 місяців тому +13

      The UK version is about food. The US version is all yelling.

  • @chashagin1
    @chashagin1 11 місяців тому +51

    There are so many reasons why I love listening to you, Adam - but your metacognition is what I love the most.

    • @JHaven-lg7lj
      @JHaven-lg7lj 9 місяців тому +1

      Right? I recognize that what we see here is a persona, not least because it’s only parts of a whole personality. But I was thrown for a loop when I cooked the crust pie (hold your head with pride, Adam, you’re a genius for this creation!) for Christmas and my daughter and her husband were delighted partly because he knows Adam from his music-persona, not his cook-persona 😄

  • @000585677
    @000585677 10 місяців тому +91

    Can't thank you enough for this, man. I absolutely love the perspective of framing his antics as abuse, because that's exactly what it is. There's this horsecrap culture of abuse among male-dominated fields and I applauded in my own home when you said "burn that shit to the ground"

    • @heytherebato
      @heytherebato 10 місяців тому +6

      You probably think WWE is real wrestling

    • @Tavares0709
      @Tavares0709 10 місяців тому +7

      @@heytherebatoMaybe not, but someone still comes out of it with their ribs broken

    • @BeyondTrash-xe1vs
      @BeyondTrash-xe1vs 10 місяців тому +7

      ​@@Tavares0709Indeed, wrestlers work with unfair contracts and often develop health problems and die young. That industry is far from a standard you'd want to hold others to.

  • @MrJoegiorgio
    @MrJoegiorgio 11 місяців тому +10

    alright Adam, we get it, you're really really attracted to young Gordon

    • @johnh8268
      @johnh8268 11 місяців тому +1

      and old apparently too

    • @treyshaffer
      @treyshaffer 10 місяців тому

      Lol I think a lot of y'all are missing the point. His point of continuously re-emphasizing it is that 99% of the reason why Gordon Ramsay became a TV persona is because of his looks. There are plenty of excellent chefs out there working in Michelin star kitchens, but he just happened to be good looking is basically the synopsis of his back story lol

  • @berger8100
    @berger8100 10 місяців тому +6

    the sexual tension of adam talking about guys in their 20s'll never get old

    • @pXnTilde
      @pXnTilde 10 місяців тому

      He really does have a way of going on and on about men's bodies. Thinking back to some of the body builder stuff

    • @MB-ez7lf
      @MB-ez7lf 10 місяців тому

      You can address your comment to him

  • @GeoffreyToday
    @GeoffreyToday 10 місяців тому +18

    I think there's something to be said for America's role in shaping the media personality of Gordan Ramsay that we know today. Before his star started to rise over here, he was already quite well known across the pond, and while his persona was still very much a suffer no fools or bullshit kind of entity, it wasn't nearly as dialed up or abrasive as it become once American media got a hold of it.
    Back in the day, the original seasons of the UK Kitchen Nightmares was a favourite of mine, and part of that alchemy was the balance Gordon struck between being genuinely helpful to and nurturing of talent, while also calling a spade a spade in no uncertain terms. The aim of the show was very clearly to help right ships that had gone wrong. Some efforts were more successful than others, but I never doubted the end goal.
    American Kitchen Nightmares by contrast is unwatchably mean. It felt like the participants were chosen solely to give Ramsay a justification to blow his stack constantly. It was clear that the purpose of the show was to showcase all of the most unpleasant aspects of Ramsay for no other reason that to watch him scream and swear creatively. It was such a disappointment.
    Clearly, leaning into that side of the persona has made him obscenely rich, so I get why he's said "fuck it, if that's what they want, I can provide" but for fans who remember the before times, it's sad. I genuinely liked Ramsay back then, even when he was laying into someone, because it never felt malicious. It never felt undeserved, and it's purpose was almost always as a wake-up call.

    • @TroyBrophy
      @TroyBrophy 9 місяців тому +1

      I agree with this 100%

  • @spudd86
    @spudd86 11 місяців тому +22

    As someone currently looking for work, most employers don't actually seem to check too closely if you actually match their requirements before sending an invite to apply. I get lots where I only have one of their things they are looking for, and even that is a minor skill I haven't used in years. It's actually quite irritating.

    • @ezgolf1764
      @ezgolf1764 11 місяців тому

      what industry are you in?

  • @ericfallabel9201
    @ericfallabel9201 11 місяців тому +6

    I also always liked Ramsey's old BCC show "F Word" - showed a lot more of his regular human side

  • @SimuLord
    @SimuLord 11 місяців тому +71

    There is an entire UA-cam subgenre of "Gordon Ramsay called me a donut" cooking videos, which leads me to think that Ramsay's UA-cam character is a stealth way to bring more attention to cooks on the Internet.

    • @bipolar-tiger
      @bipolar-tiger 11 місяців тому +6

      Well, that's exactly what Uncle Roger is. The channels he criticized ended up getting more views and subs.
      Granted, something they also get death threats and obnoxious comments...but yeah, the price of fame.

    • @ericconrad8854
      @ericconrad8854 11 місяців тому +22

      @@bipolar-tiger imagine being so misguided that you threaten the life of someone over rice cooking techniques...

    • @Betelgeuse2142
      @Betelgeuse2142 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ericconrad8854Weak

    • @Noisy_Cricket
      @Noisy_Cricket 10 місяців тому

      Yup.

  • @tomlangford1999
    @tomlangford1999 6 місяців тому +3

    "permanently anxious British Gen X workoholic". Ragusea you've described my mother better than I ever could.

  • @jakefromkc8739
    @jakefromkc8739 11 місяців тому +13

    I've always disliked Iron Chef and Hell's Kitchen. The drama and abuse never landed with me. But I quite enjoyed Kitchen Nightmares where usually the only person getting berated is the egotistical owner that is causing the problems for the business, and his latest show Next Level Chef. while he does criticize obvious mess ups, it's not abusive like his previous shows, as it's a mentorship competition.

    • @xyz0zyx
      @xyz0zyx 10 місяців тому

      Competitive masculine men triggers Reddit nerds indeed.

    • @jakefromkc8739
      @jakefromkc8739 10 місяців тому +7

      @@xyz0zyx ?? What are you talking about?

    • @scoutbane1651
      @scoutbane1651 21 день тому

      @@xyz0zyxWow what a "truth teller". Really "telling us how it is" like the big stwong man you are

  • @SimplyHolisticASMR
    @SimplyHolisticASMR 11 місяців тому +21

    as a lowly shift manager, my favorite thing has been to use the library voice and encourage my staff to be themselves. its so nice to see people flourish.

  • @rainbeaunicorns
    @rainbeaunicorns 10 місяців тому +4

    Wouldn't the cook's blue bandage be better since in the off chance it fell into food, you could know what was contaminated more easily? A lot of food is flesh colored, not much is blue.

  • @sarthakbiswas2201
    @sarthakbiswas2201 7 місяців тому +4

    I really think Ramsay's tv personality is terrible, absolutely. He is never in the wrong

  • @Pablosko611
    @Pablosko611 11 місяців тому +10

    I’m only 8 min. in and Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, but in which universe was gordon ramsay a teenage beauty 😂

    • @pXnTilde
      @pXnTilde 10 місяців тому +1

      The one where Adam finally comes out

    • @breezus3928
      @breezus3928 4 місяці тому

      Right? He looked/looks like a pittbull. He's best feature is that he's tall.

  • @Sergeantoneoneone
    @Sergeantoneoneone 8 місяців тому +2

    Anthony Bourdain said kitchen nightmares was closer to what Gordon was really like, not boiling point.

  • @jacquespoulemer3577
    @jacquespoulemer3577 11 місяців тому +21

    Gordo had a show which I saw in the 90s where he cooked for folks in his London Apt. His friends, chefs he knew and his wife were in it. And it was relatively calm informative and kindly. (noone to yell at) I enjoyed watching that. the Master Chef and HK nonsense is where I finally decided to stop watching. I remember one episode where salmon was on the menu and one young chef poached it. Gordon never HEARD of Poaching fish, which I found absurd. Just glance through Escoffier or Julia Child. when Gordon finally tasted it he admitted it was fine. But all the psychotic yelling beforehand was totally unnecessary.
    Thanks Adam for covering this. All the best Jim Oaxaca Mexico

    • @willywestsidee
      @willywestsidee 11 місяців тому +1

      From what I remember he thought it was raw so he smashed it and they never said anything to him and just started making another one, not his fault if they don't tell him its poached. Maybe this is a different episode though, correct me if I'm wrong.

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@willywestsidee A chef can't tell poached salmon from raw ? So he smashes it?

    • @willywestsidee
      @willywestsidee 10 місяців тому +1

      @@yes0r787 i mean the whole point of the show is him getting angry at the food, if this was not on tv im sure he wouldn't smash the salmon

  • @bwdesmoagogo
    @bwdesmoagogo 11 місяців тому +8

    Great episode, and I’ve found a kindred spirit in the “my new favorite way” method of explaining new things.

  • @davidcarbone3385
    @davidcarbone3385 11 місяців тому +8

    Hurtful comments are remembered by those who were hurt. I worked in a very good, neighborhood restaurant as a young teenager washing dishes. I remember everyone being nice, no yelling, no drama. Somewhere along the way, drama became marketable; hence, Ramsey, et al.

  • @andrewhiebert6499
    @andrewhiebert6499 8 місяців тому +2

    The number of times I’ve stolen Adam’s line from the Christmas cookies episode; “It’s Christmas, not a special forces operation.” I’m a musician, and I often catch my colleges or myself in the same high tension low stakes trap.

  • @AhmedEtman79
    @AhmedEtman79 9 місяців тому

    I love this episode so much so that when it showed up on my new suggestions I re-watched it from start to finish again. This is one of your best work. Great message, thank you!

  • @JM-ll2vv
    @JM-ll2vv 6 місяців тому +3

    It's refreshing to hear a dissenting voice on Ramsay for once

  • @dennischiapello7243
    @dennischiapello7243 8 місяців тому +5

    Adam, you're so articulate and fluent. It makes even your lengthy videos fly by. So it delights me to point out that, at 11:25, you say "R.S.V.P. Carrie Fisher" when surely you meant to say "R.I.P." 😂

  • @S0m35uy
    @S0m35uy 11 місяців тому +7

    One of the great parts of the channel Vincenzo’s Plate is the frequency at which Vincenzo points out how much of a bully Ramsay is and how terrible he is at making Italian cuisine.

    • @keithjackewicz8423
      @keithjackewicz8423 11 місяців тому +5

      Vincenzo is more of a “do it this way or it’s wrong” doofus than Ramsay is.

    • @ErebosGR
      @ErebosGR 9 місяців тому

      @@keithjackewicz8423 Not if his entire point is to make traditional Italian cuisine.

    • @keithjackewicz8423
      @keithjackewicz8423 9 місяців тому

      @@ErebosGR “Traditional” methods are not intrinsically better, and dunking on people that are clearly not even trying to make things by the method that he prefers is just pointless rage-farming. I like Vincenzo as a cook, but as a reaction guy, he adds very little and perpetuates the territoriality over food and recipes that is one of the more noxious and annoying phenomena online.

    • @ErebosGR
      @ErebosGR 9 місяців тому

      @@keithjackewicz8423 I never said traditional cuisine nor its methods are inherently better now, but at the time, for various reasons, they mostly were.
      Vincenzo dunks on people that try to pass Italian-American dishes as Italian. It's about cultural misrepresentation.
      What "territoriality"? Don't you use words you don't understand.

    • @keithjackewicz8423
      @keithjackewicz8423 9 місяців тому

      @@ErebosGR Vincenzo does not attack misrepresentations, he attacks anybody that even deviates slightly from tradition unless they’re somebody whose clout he wants to chase.

  • @jesterdans
    @jesterdans 11 місяців тому +6

    He has another persona though when later he travel aboard to Asia to learn their local foods, he was really humble and willing to listen, may be he knows how to be a student at least? The matter addressed in this video is less bad in Kitchen Nightmare(UK) compared to the US version, producer’s choice and editing also played a hand on there.

  • @davidpetersen6694
    @davidpetersen6694 10 місяців тому +3

    Adam, I’m so glad you tackled The topic of Gordon--the Enigma of Eatery. Gordon totally confuses me at every turn, but I think your observations have helped decipher his Carefully Curated Culinary Craftiness as personified on his shows. If distracting me from my own kitchen problems is the goal, he does it outstandingly each time. Yes, personas are a big part, but every now and then he slips and shows his other side; a kind, fatherly and compassionate cook from a tough upbringing. One of these moments happened when he visited a Hindu retreat center to explore vegetarianism. While there, he was a loss for words. He never cussed and behaved himself while watching them cook simple and delicious food. Of course it didn’t last for long and by the next episode he was back to making crude remarks about anything and everything he deemed worthy of his constant scrutiny. Love your show Adam! ❤🎉😊David Petersen/Houston, Texas

  • @edwardwong654
    @edwardwong654 11 місяців тому +4

    I used to be a big fan of Gordon and watched many episodes of his "Hell's Kitchen", "Kitchen Nightmares", and "Masterchef", but Adam is right, we should NOT be supporting bad workplace behavior, even if it is for entertainment.

  • @dontlistentome7498
    @dontlistentome7498 10 місяців тому +3

    I really do hope you see this because i want to thank you for all the help you've given me on weeknights for easy meals. You've genuinely improved a little part of my life with all your cooking help.

  • @tracematson385
    @tracematson385 11 місяців тому +4

    According to urban dictionary, a gypsy dog is all ribs and male genitalia. So you were partially correct in calling it skinny

  • @AWWx2
    @AWWx2 11 місяців тому +34

    I really respect your wisdom and love so many of your skills and recipes. I'm also really happy to see that your opinion of that man is much like my own, just a showman with a schtick. Thanks for these extended talks. I seldom disagree with you on anything because I know you have so much more wealth and breadth of experience in the kitchen and the garden. I'm glad this video popped up in my sub list this weekend.

  • @slkdfjklasasdfasdf
    @slkdfjklasasdfasdf 11 місяців тому +23

    I agree wholeheartedly with your message that leadership isn't just instilling fear in people, and that individuals should be mindful of how they treat others, as they can profoundly impact them (both negatively or positively). Your psychological analysis of Gordon Ramsay strikes me as quite similar to a "psychobiography," which attempts to understand someone by applying psychological principles, research, and their developmental history. One of the most famous authors of psychbiographies is Dan McAdams - you might find his material helpful and interesting if you ever wanted to do more of it. He has a lot of material, but his most famous piece is likely his article from The Atlantic analyzing Donald Trump. In any event, your analysis was pretty good psychbiographically speaking. I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast.

  • @44zeliow
    @44zeliow 10 місяців тому +4

    Reminds me of my first job as a 14 year old. If we asked how something needs to be done then we were idiots who cant think for ourselves. If we did something ourselves then we were yelled at for not asking first. Everything needed to be done fast and cheap and with quality, one of these things missing and we get yelled at. Making a mistake means getting yelled at. We were often getting a verbal list of things we should be doing and how it should be done, writing anything down is a waste of time and paper and forgetting anything meant getting yelled at. Trying to learn something is a waste of time but when we had to do something that we didnt know then we were useless idiots. That job cost me way more than I earned.

  • @Craxin01
    @Craxin01 11 місяців тому +2

    I made a comment on Epic Rap Battles of History's video about Gordon Ramsay versus Julia Child. I am STILL getting responses that Gordon Ramsay is SOOOO much more important than Julia Child, mostly from brits and younger people who aren't aware of Julia Child. He's an ass! Even if it's a TV persona and he's nothing like that (ask me if I believe that), Julia Child was always the consummate professional and was never anything less than dignified and polite.

  • @jamesyoutube2591
    @jamesyoutube2591 11 місяців тому +34

    I'd like to add Richard Corrigan to the list of library voiced chefs, I got a chance to eat at his restaurant in Mayfair and the kitchen was quiet and extremely calm. I challenge anyone screaming and shouting to provide a better experience than I had at that place...

  • @LeonAugienstein
    @LeonAugienstein 11 місяців тому +11

    I want to see an animated short in the style of MeatCanyon where Adam is the head chef at a restaurant and he kills Gordon Ramsay with kindness in the kitchen. Every time Gordon isn't yelled at for a mistake he just gets more anxious with the compliments from Adam.

  • @gabrielchaney1577
    @gabrielchaney1577 8 місяців тому +3

    Love this anti-bully anthropology class. So tired of the gaslighting "it's just a persona" comments

  • @Shindashi
    @Shindashi 11 місяців тому +3

    The early TV Gordon Ramsay persona more or less doesn't exist anymore. It kind of died a while ago in a past season of Hell's Kitchen, which is the last place he comes close to deploy it. I think he has moved on. I don't think it's fair to say he's still playing this character. I think I last saw it 4-5 years ago.

  • @michaelmcnabb9748
    @michaelmcnabb9748 11 місяців тому +5

    I remember watching his Indian travel show and wondering why he didn’t film his other shows like that. He was so much more likeable without the yelling.

  • @nuabioof83
    @nuabioof83 11 місяців тому +4

    I don't think "gypsy" refers to Roma in Britain but refers to all travellers, most notably Irish travellers which have nothing to do with Roma

    • @nuabioof83
      @nuabioof83 11 місяців тому

      Disclaimer I'm not Bri'ish I'm french but I've head Brits say "gypsy" to refer to irish travellers

  • @Bornahorse
    @Bornahorse 11 місяців тому +17

    Thank you!!! I absolutely HATE his media persona! So many wannabe Gordons running around insulting and degrading people just because he does too. "But he's so sweet with kids" most people fire back. Well why can't he be nice to adults too! Treat others how you want to be treated. No one actually likes to live/work/exist in a hostile environment, and it's up to people like him to set the example for others to follow. It infuriates me that people say "well, he can insult cooks because he is a cook and knows better than them". That's completely ridiculous. Nothing can justify berating someone down for any reason. 80% of the time those people he is berating on those shows literally don't have the knowledge and are just trying to make it work. Or they have no idea their food is bad simply because that's all they're used to. Or they're under a lot of stress and make mistakes because surprise, surprise, they've got a rabid dog breathing down their backs. That abusive persona spills over into wannabe chefs at restaurants, wannabe chefs on YT, wannabe chef commentors on YT, and anyone else who loudly voices their opinion as fact on cooking. I'm sick of seeing it and sick of people excusing it.

    • @ravensthatflywiththenightm7319
      @ravensthatflywiththenightm7319 11 місяців тому +1

      the way you describe sounds a lot like dealing with a Narcissist. You can call them out as often as you want but a Narcissist is always a Queen Be and he / she will always have an Army of Skanks AKA The Flying Monkeys who will defend everything the Narcissist does or says.

    • @willywestsidee
      @willywestsidee 11 місяців тому

      I still think its funny so I don't mind

    • @zesky6654
      @zesky6654 10 місяців тому

      It's not like they don't know what they signed up for. The show is a pressure cooker, that's the whole point.

  • @pierredubois1823
    @pierredubois1823 10 місяців тому +2

    I worked and kitchens for over 20 years and this really hits home. I called it the "Gordon Ramsey effect" as I can see this style of "leadership" became more and more prevalent. Its abuse is what it is and makes working in a kitchen or anywhere toxic. The high stress low reward dynamic this creates has been one of the several reason why I don't work in kitchens anymore. Add to this the rampant nepotism, the "I got my restaurant management degree" boss, a wage often so low you can't afford to eat at the places you work and lastly the Karen factor. The "customer is always right" mindset that has given way too many people the perceived "right" to shit all over service workers in general. Working in kitchens doesn't need to be a physical, mental and emotional grind, but the celebrity chef culture of the 2000s and beyond has certainly made it harder to get away from that. Thank you for doing this video Adam, your content reminds me of what I love about being in a kitchen

  • @nuabioof83
    @nuabioof83 11 місяців тому +3

    Despite the high unemployment in France, the food industry can't seem to hire. This french restaurant etiquette and tough love, on top of shitty and illegal working conditions (70 hours paid 35, often under the table pay, close to minimum wage etc.) Are to blame.

  • @AroyalMcWiener
    @AroyalMcWiener 11 місяців тому +17

    You didn't cover it here, but one show of gordons that i like is the ones where he travels and gets to try diffrent foods from diffrent peoples. It's way more layedback and he is way more humble in it. It's super enjoyable to me.

    • @144megabytes
      @144megabytes 11 місяців тому +3

      I love these. It's light hearted and explores cultural foods.

  • @emilynelson5985
    @emilynelson5985 11 місяців тому +18

    The most upsetting thing about Ramsay is seeing the little glimpses of him being happy. He could be such a beautifully enthusiastic television presenter, chatting with local restaurateurs and home cooks as you see in his travel shows but instead he wants to be the belligerent television chef.

    • @InvaderTroy
      @InvaderTroy 11 місяців тому +5

      He's only belligerent on the US programming, the UK versions of his show are a lot more real and show him actually being a human being instead of the character they created for ratings

    • @kibaanazuka332
      @kibaanazuka332 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@troyhasapython Yeah, Kitchen Nightmares UK is so chill and more documentary like than overly reality drama machine 3000 like in the US.

    • @JimBob1937
      @JimBob1937 11 місяців тому +1

      Can't blame him. The act he puts on gets him the money.

    • @user-cn7io2pe8p
      @user-cn7io2pe8p 11 місяців тому

      ​@@JimBob1937 yeah even if he wanted to start genuinely trying to help people (as he did in the uk show) you will have directors, producers, editors hell even the scum-level people will all be begging him to just yell and get mad. The show was never about cooking- It was about drama and screaming

    • @zesky6654
      @zesky6654 10 місяців тому

      @@user-cn7io2pe8p Have you seen the show? Most of those places were horribly dysfunctional before Ramsay even showed up. He doesn't even do most of the screaming in most episodes.

  • @justinguitarcia
    @justinguitarcia 11 місяців тому +4

    Fun fact if anyone wants to watch a film so terrible its ironically great, ‘Burnt’, by Bradley Cooper, had Gordan as culinary advisor and it shows. The film is the hyper masculine lovechild of Gordan’s persona and the lore (and reality) of Marco’s menacing, abusive, militant, self aggrandizing personality. Its truly terrible and offers a fascinating glimpse into his mind and the paradigm of the tortured chef arc that went on wayyyy too long

  • @languagechefcorey
    @languagechefcorey 10 місяців тому +5

    I could listen to Adam talk about any subject. He models extremely healthy behavior and evolved conceptions of masculinity to an audience with many young men who probably get a lot from it. I wish his pod was twice a week!!!

  • @macscoop1
    @macscoop1 11 місяців тому +18

    Gordon's grilled cheese is absolutely hilarious. He should have looked in a mirror, punched it and said "GIVE ME YOUR JACKET YOU DONKEY!"

    • @uniktbrukernavn
      @uniktbrukernavn 11 місяців тому +3

      Seeing him bite into it was funny. Strange that none of the famous cooks can make the most basic stuff; pizza, grilled cheese, hamburger, pasta etc. They always overcomplicate it and they don't know what makes it good.
      Ask them to make vanilla ice cream and you'll get it with cinnamon, sea salt, and a basil leaf.

  • @definitelyzeblackcat743
    @definitelyzeblackcat743 10 місяців тому +2

    It's so sad to see how America has such a horrible image about Gordon Ramsey, and I do mean the on-screen persona, because of the way how media is edited over there to provoke and rile people up. Whilst in Europe and England, there's a form of adoration, because outside of the shouting Scott, we also see how caring and helping he is in building people's characters up. Something which CLEARLY is completely lost in American television.

  • @stuntmonkey00
    @stuntmonkey00 11 місяців тому +2

    Gordon Ramsay on the UK version of Kitchen Nightmares vs the American version is a complete 180 degree flip. One is a dumbed down shout-fest written at a 6th-grade level and portrays what a dumb person thinks a talented genius looks like, and the UK version was an often surprisingly insightful near-documentary of what running a restaurant is about which treated their weekly subjects as human beings with in depth and often very personal interviews. In the American version Ramsay shouts at the owners, the owners at like complete idiots and then magically they get a free makeover that would have cost into the dozens of thousands had they paid for it themselves. In the UK version, the business and personal issues are broken down and looked at, and not every episode ends on a happy note. In the earlier days of food celebrity, smart people kind of understand that it was an act because Ramsay was so often charming and not like his personal outside of his main line cooking shows (note how he doesn't scream at the kids in Master Chef Jr.)
    FWIW, the first "Mama Cherrie" episode from UK Kitchen Nightmares was the gold standard. Excellent episode about the the real struggles of running a restaurant, and where the guest was a put on camera as a person of interest and value, not as fodder for content. It's also one of the few episodes where Ramsay unreservedly says he liked the food at the very start.

    • @DaveF.
      @DaveF. 11 місяців тому

      This ____/|\

    • @SimuLord
      @SimuLord 11 місяців тому

      It really does speak volumes, and not flattering volumes, about Americans when you compare our version of any show we imported from overseas with the original in its home country.
      If the entire civilised world wanted to try us for barbarism and kick us out of the club of advanced countries, those shows alone might be sufficient evidence to convict.

    • @DaveF.
      @DaveF. 10 місяців тому

      @@SimuLord To be fair, the rot had started by season 3 of Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares in the UK- the producers started to stuff more and more silly gimmicks and reduce the amount of interviews in the show, but the US version is very different to even that. If the UK show was made I think its be even more like the US version than the original now.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 11 місяців тому +6

    Nice to see the change in scenery. It’s lovely.

  • @TisiphoneSeraph
    @TisiphoneSeraph 11 місяців тому +5

    I have only ever experienced Gordon Ramsay through his Ultimate Cookery Course which was fantastic (if a bit misinformed in places) and was what ultimately gave me the confidence to develop as a home cook having not really gotten a lot of those skills growing up. It's fascinating to hear this side of his story.

    • @diegomeredith-marquez929
      @diegomeredith-marquez929 10 місяців тому

      I agree with all of Adam's points (as well as some of Kenji's statements decrying Gordon's impact on the generation of young male chefs that followed him), but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't enjoyed a fair amount of his content. His Ultimate Cookery Course series is genuinely helpful and kinda underrated, IMO. And Kitchen Nightmares US is one of my favorite not-so-guilty pleasures.

    • @xyz0zyx
      @xyz0zyx 10 місяців тому

      @@diegomeredith-marquez929 Because you guys are all Reddit nerds.

  • @getclem
    @getclem 10 місяців тому +2

    I used to work in restaurants, I quit being cook for a long time, because I really dislike the toxicity in the kitchen culture, and Gordon's attitude was glorified (in result, I really despised him, even he is playing a character but it made influence in the kitchen as the results, the chef really thought this is how kitchen supposed to function)
    Right now I'm happier finding the middle ground doing a home based private fine dining with none of the toxicity I used to endure.

  • @verager2493
    @verager2493 11 місяців тому +2

    In workplaces I'm in, I've not had to deal with yelling, unless someone got fired, usually the yeller.
    If your crew knows the job, they know they fucked up, and we'll deal with that when we have time.
    If you have time to yell, you don't have a real job, and you're subtracting more time from someone who does.
    If you need to reprimand someone, you can do it with a look. Any more is excessive and wastes time, and if you waste time during rush, I can't take you seriously.

  • @lucifermorningstar4606
    @lucifermorningstar4606 11 місяців тому +2

    Irish Travellers are not Roma... Though both can go by Gypsy...

  • @Thepuffingyank
    @Thepuffingyank 11 місяців тому +14

    i worked in a kitchen as a dishwasher and occasional prep cook. 2 weeks after i was hired. the owner and the cook get into a fight, cook walks, then the two prep cooks walk. in the middle of dinner. at the time i kind of felt sorry for him. but then he started hiring anything that walked through the door instead of hiring good reliable people that can work together. the reality is that he hired 4 guys all form different parts of our southern neighbor, these men came from different social classes. and clearly did not get along. hell the first shift was like pushing 400 pounds around. nothing was getting done until the owner came down and re-explained positions and duties, again. which makes it the 3rd or 4th time. 2nd shift was actually pretty good. everyone got along and no fights broke out. 3rd times the charm.
    i came in early, and made sure my station was set up and the silverware and glasses were done first. everyone was just coming in. my station as dishwasher was in a secluded spot that's kind of shielded, plus the dishwasher was kind of load. plus i could play my own music at the owners request. it took yelling, 1 hour into dinner that dashed any hope that this was a long term solution. i left my station, and went to investigate, what i witnessed i thankfully have never seen anything as horriffic. an all out brawl was taking place, the cook against the 2 preps. one of who had be , thrown on the the cooktop . i instinctively yelled stop. and grabbed a bucket filled with ice and threw the contents at the men. the hvac went off. the 2 preps were legal but so new to America they feared repercussions and fled. didn't even wait for their pay. very strange. the cook was fired on the spot. and that was that. i turned around to see the entire restaurant that an hour ago had been filled with customers , completely devoid of a single customer, including the adjoining bar. and it remained that way until we closed a month later. towards the end our only customer was the homeless man asking for ice. lucky for me this was just a Friday Sat sometimes thursday job as i was in school
    several years later whilst working at a certain south lake tahoe ski resort as a cook in one of their restaurants, first year, about 3/4 of the way through the season, the resort had a junket tour come in from the bay area. it's skiing and casinos hotel thing. people who have never gone skiing before, kind of fun thing to do. even if you are a karen that takes anything as a pretext.
    on the day of the incident, i was WRAPPING up my WRAP station. hey i was the one who took tortilla chips home and clear coated them with rare earth magnets, just so i could walk around with a chip one my shoulder. though that i wasn't. too busy, it would fall off if i moved arround too much
    today she walked in quite literally closing. i mean im wrapping everything up. the work tables a filled wrapped cooking pans and plastic containers. though she's in luck as the Chinese food section hadn't been shut down. she asked for some stuff that was either sold out or had just been pulled and stored. i pointed to the dishes we did have up. i asked her if i could double up the portions to make up for being out of food. now i must note. in this particular kitchen is a workspace and little office and where the walk-in is located. both my supervisor and manager are talking. and they can see me. they can hear me being polite and see that i'm not disrespecting her in any way. what happens next after i served her her food and i turned back to my work. is that most of that food ended up on the back of my head. she threw the food i just graciously served her, at me, just because of perceived wrong. my manager, was on that like white on rice. oh my god i have never seen someone move so quickly before. thats who saw it happen, supervisor came over and consoled me and helped me clean off the food. none of my other customers ever came close to that level of kareness. i did have someone who couldn't stop laughing over the chip on the shoulder. and quite a few that called me a wise ass, which i always found amusing as i never discuss iq with customers
    anyway little miss karen was introduced to security who then introduced to the Eldorado county Sherriff
    that lady is really lucky that i allowed the ski resort handle the situation instead of filling my own complaint with the sheriff. in the end though it stayed with me for a very long time, i essentially shrugged it off and kept working. well not the day but i didn't walk and was at work the next day

  • @stentor1980
    @stentor1980 10 місяців тому +1

    “Some people just need a war, and they will make a war to fight if none exists.” That’s something I knew was true but had never seen put into words.

  • @squeezy8414
    @squeezy8414 2 місяці тому

    Great video as always man, really interesting sociological/psychological insight into the restaurant and TV industry in what was quite a dark time for Britain.
    One thing I find ironic about Gordon Ramsay is when he fights for the staff in Hotel Hell and Kitchen Nightmares, it's some of my favourite parts in those shows and I'm not sure if that's kind of him atoning for the sins of his past or what. "If you don't value the people you work with, that's really your fault." - I like to think this is the sentiment he expresses in these episodes, and something he's probably had to reflect on quite a bit since Boiling Point.

  • @guerillawhite3083
    @guerillawhite3083 11 місяців тому +16

    This is the first time I've listened to one of these all the way through. This was very captivating and good to listen to.

  • @duranabourezk3262
    @duranabourezk3262 10 місяців тому +5

    I freaking love Kitchen Nightmares even as I recognize it is a highly constructed and framed series. There is some deep and interesting analysis of the time and place Ramsey came from. Good video.

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 10 місяців тому

      Irony of scripted reality, LOL

  • @rumidude
    @rumidude 10 місяців тому +1

    Treat others as you wish to be treated, it's that simple. Additionally, I have learned not to take shit from others. I refuse to be abused. It has its cost, but in the end has served me well. The greatest benefit is the self-esteem it brings. Additionally I insist that others should be treated respectfully. I was not always like this, but once I started down that road I just couldn't turn back. Now I sometimes find myself wondering if I have taken this too far.

  • @davidboltbear147
    @davidboltbear147 10 місяців тому

    in my time in the army, I was worked in a factory-line type of work in time of need, we needed to produce a lot of a certain thing, and we always worked with patience, it not worth losing your finger for one when you can work slowly and steadily to make many and go out safe and sound.

  • @TKRepository
    @TKRepository 11 місяців тому +10

    Gordon Ramsay the character is an anti-hero, not a face or heel.

  • @funakfunak2740
    @funakfunak2740 11 місяців тому +4

    Love the new Marco Pierre White, he is just so over it. Like he's mincing garlic mentions that some people get it out of a tube and that's fine. How he likes to put 'ingredient x' in but you don't have to, it's your choice.

  • @thetribunaloftheimaginatio5247
    @thetribunaloftheimaginatio5247 11 місяців тому +2

    "After all, what had it gotten her? The reward for toil had been more toil. If you dug the best ditches, they handed you a bigger shovel."
    --Terry Pratchett, "Carpe Jugulum"

  • @Eltener123
    @Eltener123 10 місяців тому +2

    The Tudors were still a nobel family who had held land. Owen Tudor most definitely wasnt working class by any stretch of the definition