You gotta set your boundaries right when you guys meet everything you like and dislike needs to brought up to your partner as much as you are afraid to lose them
As i always say, if youre truly being "nice" then you shouldn't be mad if the outcome isnt positive. Genuinely being nice isnt based on the outcome, for example to make a woman like you. Thats manipulation. Its also WEAK. Why do that to yourself? I like to remain "virtuous" meaning i generally make a conscious effort to not hurt others, try to do the right thing etc... but thats not tied to dating. I've struggled with lots of things in life, but Im glad to be as socially intelligent as i am now and Im only that way bc of ppl like Patrice who taught me valuable lessons. Self love is important
Personally, I have come to find that when I wised up, I got older, and became very honest about who I am and what I want, it didn't matter. women found it "refreshing", but always slide back into that default place they always go- they want to CHANGE you. And then when it doesn't work, it doesn't matter how honest you were with her, you're the 'villain'. So I got comfortable being "the bad guy". That's the thing with most guys- no one wants to be the bad guy. I got comfortable with it, because in SOMEONE'S story, you're always going to be the villain. That shit just doesn't bother me whatsoever. It perplexes me to hear stories like the guy at 4:30- this dude has stress induced asthma because of his woman. If you had a cat that was killing you with allergies, you'd get rid of it. what is so different, or what is so important about this human health risk you call a woman that you are using medication to merely deal with her? if a woman merely inconveniences me, or moves shit around in my apartment, or I just flat out feel like being alone... just say so. "Look, I really need to get work done and I value my privacy, I'd like to link up at a different time. Take a bottle of water for the road and I'll call you later". If a woman reacts poorly to that... then she's just simple minded. why would you want to hang out with THAT? I wonder what happened to that caller. I hope he didnt go through with it. It was actually PATRICE that made it click for me when I heard him say something in my mid 20s. I once heard Patrice ask "If your woman left, what would you TRULY miss?" And I laughed when he said it. But then it turned into a REAL self examination, and I tried and tried and tried to come up with something. And ever since that shit clicked in my mind, I have NEVER been able to find a "reason" to stay. Because I see it all for what it is now. It doesn't matter her age, socioeconomic background, culture, race, religion, creed, WHATEVER. They legitimately are all the same. They talk the same shit. Dating them and getting to know them is the same exact questions, like going on the same job interview every single time. And then you might find someone who's ok and maybe a bit different, but again, they get COMFORTABLE. THAT is the key. once they get comfortable, they feel they dont have to fix themselves up. They'll do it more for others or strangers in public than for you. they argue with you about shit that was decided in your life before they existed. It's just nothing that I would buy into.
Chris ended up cheating on his wife. Patrice was on the money. He just had a deep understanding of people that I admire deeply. He’s on the list of people I’d love to hang out with, DOA.
But counterpoint to Patrice with his own ideology. He sounds like hes already 5 cars behind her. On a one way road. Hes gotta flip the card table and take his ball to go home. If he can't teach her or deal with it. Thats the strange game professor falcon. His only winning move was...not to play.
I agree with this. I don't doubt that what Patrice says is possible, but personally for ME, I just wouldn't want to bother. You just get rid of her and move on. And again, there are guys who can play past that if she honestly changed. But I would always remember it. just start over man smh
Being the nice guy only ever works if you’re already hotter than 80% of other guys. Don’t waste time and money on women if you’re not hot, it’s pointless.
loser take. it's not about being "nice" just be decent but practical and make sure you get yours. Patrice literally starts this off talking about belief in yourself.
@@JoeMama-tz2jhwhat it means, ultimately, is that to truly believe in yourself, through thick and thin, you will untimely end up NEEDING to believe in God. Because why should you believe in yourself? Unless you have a spark of the divine; made in the image of God etc
This guy literally called in asking for advice. Somebody who understands he isn't smart enough for the situation is often smarter than the pricks who pretend to go through life without hiccups, as if they got born with a fuckin manual.
I’m from the future. Anthony is a racist mental patient, Jimmy is married to the wayans brothers from white chicks, and Patrice ate cake until his feet fell off. Perhaps they should’ve cried like Keith urban when a woman upset them
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“Is she in the room?” I was thinking the same thing 😂
Dawg was whispering heavy as hell!!! 🤣🤣 he’s in the worst possible situation. Patrice is insane telling him to stay.
that dude is super fucked
😂😂😂😂😂😂
It was even more hilarious to realize he was at work.
@@crozon3 he was in his office though, door closed.
Rest in peace always. Would of loved Patrice's input over these past few years
Patrice never gets old 😂
The one and only
Cause he died young
You gotta set your boundaries right when you guys meet everything you like and dislike needs to brought up to your partner as much as you are afraid to lose them
They slowly break you down nomatter what
Nah this call is f’n epic lmfao!!!!!!!!! This is the marriage episode lol
6:23 “Oh..Get out of there!” 😂🤣 😂
I hope that dude got out that shit 😅
Foreal. The tone of his voice had me stressed out and im not even in a relationship rn
For real, that man sounded so worn down and then went on to describe all of these shitty personality traits. Hope he pulled the rip cord.
@@Ronarch2671 Goddamn medication, over a woman. can you even imagine?
thank you for uploading Patrice O neal content.
If you are ever going through something with a woman, play Patrice
Daughtry stuck with her ,24 years later
As i always say, if youre truly being "nice" then you shouldn't be mad if the outcome isnt positive. Genuinely being nice isnt based on the outcome, for example to make a woman like you. Thats manipulation. Its also WEAK. Why do that to yourself? I like to remain "virtuous" meaning i generally make a conscious effort to not hurt others, try to do the right thing etc... but thats not tied to dating. I've struggled with lots of things in life, but Im glad to be as socially intelligent as i am now and Im only that way bc of ppl like Patrice who taught me valuable lessons. Self love is important
No. Being nice doesn t mean being an idiot or a push ocer roomate. Quit the lie.
TO JULBOOL, HONEZTY MiZTER, THAT'Z MORE OF THE KEY ! [NOT YELLiNG, JUZT LiKE TYPiNG iN CAPZ]
this a space for men shut up
Personally, I have come to find that when I wised up, I got older, and became very honest about who I am and what I want, it didn't matter. women found it "refreshing", but always slide back into that default place they always go- they want to CHANGE you. And then when it doesn't work, it doesn't matter how honest you were with her, you're the 'villain'. So I got comfortable being "the bad guy". That's the thing with most guys- no one wants to be the bad guy. I got comfortable with it, because in SOMEONE'S story, you're always going to be the villain. That shit just doesn't bother me whatsoever.
It perplexes me to hear stories like the guy at 4:30- this dude has stress induced asthma because of his woman. If you had a cat that was killing you with allergies, you'd get rid of it. what is so different, or what is so important about this human health risk you call a woman that you are using medication to merely deal with her? if a woman merely inconveniences me, or moves shit around in my apartment, or I just flat out feel like being alone... just say so. "Look, I really need to get work done and I value my privacy, I'd like to link up at a different time. Take a bottle of water for the road and I'll call you later". If a woman reacts poorly to that... then she's just simple minded. why would you want to hang out with THAT? I wonder what happened to that caller. I hope he didnt go through with it.
It was actually PATRICE that made it click for me when I heard him say something in my mid 20s. I once heard Patrice ask "If your woman left, what would you TRULY miss?" And I laughed when he said it. But then it turned into a REAL self examination, and I tried and tried and tried to come up with something. And ever since that shit clicked in my mind, I have NEVER been able to find a "reason" to stay. Because I see it all for what it is now. It doesn't matter her age, socioeconomic background, culture, race, religion, creed, WHATEVER. They legitimately are all the same. They talk the same shit. Dating them and getting to know them is the same exact questions, like going on the same job interview every single time. And then you might find someone who's ok and maybe a bit different, but again, they get COMFORTABLE. THAT is the key. once they get comfortable, they feel they dont have to fix themselves up. They'll do it more for others or strangers in public than for you. they argue with you about shit that was decided in your life before they existed. It's just nothing that I would buy into.
Chris ended up cheating on his wife. Patrice was on the money. He just had a deep understanding of people that I admire deeply. He’s on the list of people I’d love to hang out with, DOA.
But counterpoint to Patrice with his own ideology. He sounds like hes already 5 cars behind her. On a one way road. Hes gotta flip the card table and take his ball to go home. If he can't teach her or deal with it. Thats the strange game professor falcon. His only winning move was...not to play.
I agree with this. I don't doubt that what Patrice says is possible, but personally for ME, I just wouldn't want to bother. You just get rid of her and move on. And again, there are guys who can play past that if she honestly changed. But I would always remember it. just start over man smh
Being the nice guy only ever works if you’re already hotter than 80% of other guys. Don’t waste time and money on women if you’re not hot, it’s pointless.
loser take. it's not about being "nice" just be decent but practical and make sure you get yours. Patrice literally starts this off talking about belief in yourself.
@@cynicaltheastrocreep4504 Wrong. Just a reality take.
@@cynicaltheastrocreep4504 tried it out does not work, women do not like decency
@@edwardantidruggang7925 tried what out? Getting a girl that's right for you and training her up?
@@edwardantidruggang7925 incel take
2:11
Opie never fails to disappoint.
I would listen to this conversation if it were 5 hours long
Bro I’m sorry this dudes voice had me weakkkkk😂😂😂
Was the caller Dane Cook? 😅
😆
Felt like it could be😂
To believe in self is to believe in God
HEAVY!!! ❤❤
What do you mean by this? Could you explain this further please?
@@JoeMama-tz2jhwhat it means, ultimately, is that to truly believe in yourself, through thick and thin, you will untimely end up NEEDING to believe in God.
Because why should you believe in yourself? Unless you have a spark of the divine; made in the image of God etc
Yeah a lot of religious belief is a kind of narcissism, for sure
@@MatauReviews ehh not really
I miss these days. Back when you can talk shit about people. For their own sake lol
What was the song at the end?
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shrek
I feel bad for that dude
He got himself in that situation.
I didn't even know streesed induced asthma was a thing. Fuck.
Honey where you getting this advice “..
🐐
Damn... That woman needs to be evaluated.
This guy fell for this woman for love and this woman was trying to milk him for money.
What song is 8:05
This is not nice. This is simp extrordanaire.
Dear god!
What show was this
I’m surprised Mrs. Opie hasn’t got rid of Greggy just yet. That’ll be soon. I’m sure.
It been already happend
Money
Never get married.
Tired of the simp callers
This show was years ago mate, just fast forward :D
Stfu. Acting like you never seemed advice about relationships before.
@@rustyhands8179I don’t wanna fast forward. There’s even more pathetic simps and white knights than ever before.
This guy literally called in asking for advice. Somebody who understands he isn't smart enough for the situation is often smarter than the pricks who pretend to go through life without hiccups, as if they got born with a fuckin manual.
Patrice crawled so that Tim Dillon could run, you could argue that Tim Dillion is the white gay variant of Patrice
Man, Tim is great but the thought of him running and even the thought of himself running is absolutely hilarious.
Who the fuck is that guy 😂
Tim Dillion is lame repetitive opportunist.
@@xenon6947😂
@@xenon6947 I like Tim but you’re right he’s a bit repetitive 😂
04:54 😅
Some REEL HOMOS calling in!!!! 🌈
Betabux Deluxe
Piglet 😂
taken too soon
Get two wives and that will solve your good guy attitude 😂😂😂
0:35.
Free Palestine 🫢
I’m from the future. Anthony is a racist mental patient, Jimmy is married to the wayans brothers from white chicks, and Patrice ate cake until his feet fell off. Perhaps they should’ve cried like Keith urban when a woman upset them
k simp.
All humans are flawed, including the women you’re simping for
That may be true but the content here is as close to reality as it gets they are about 85-95% right now