Comfort Cooking for One: A Personal Pot of Beans and Greens with Bread for Dips

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  • @CarlaLalliMusic123
    @CarlaLalliMusic123  3 місяці тому +70

    And your comfort food is .... ???

    • @yellowbird30
      @yellowbird30 3 місяці тому +9

      Mac and cheese!

    • @maries1381
      @maries1381 3 місяці тому +10

      @CarlaLalliMusic I'm Cuban American so beans are definitely comfort food to me :) White beans with smoked hams, chorizo and greens (Caldo Gallego) one of my favs, Red beans also with smokey ham hocks, different types of chorizos yum yum,, traditional Cuban black beans (with the amazing sofrito) to have as a side to a garlicky pork roast or weeknight steak. Beans, beans, beans!!!! Thank you for sharing this one! I have a pantry filled with Rancho Gordo beans - I will be making your recipe tonight! Cheers Carla!!!! xoxo from Los Angeles

    • @g0lddustt29
      @g0lddustt29 3 місяці тому +1

      fried rice!

    • @jcurious2598
      @jcurious2598 3 місяці тому +3

      Chicken pot pie

    • @yellowbird30
      @yellowbird30 3 місяці тому +1

      @@maries1381😋😋😋😋😋

  • @epylien5228
    @epylien5228 3 місяці тому +496

    please can this become a series, i NEED solo comfort food

    • @kimkohrt377
      @kimkohrt377 3 місяці тому +6

      Me too!

    • @ttt0904
      @ttt0904 3 місяці тому +5

      Agreed!

    • @eliz_
      @eliz_ 3 місяці тому +6

      I was coming on here to say the same thing 🙌

    • @sarahwatts7152
      @sarahwatts7152 3 місяці тому +2

      For an interim solution, there are cookbooks for one, most of which have a lot of comforting recipes (not so many recipes for virtuous salads). I can't recommend any singular one, but there's a lot of good stuff out there

    • @mariehelena2364
      @mariehelena2364 3 місяці тому +5

      I liked this comment so much the 👍 button wasn't enough, I kicked into the air as I did so🦵👟🤌 but until there is a button for *that* - I wrote this 😁😎

  • @mahsashamsai
    @mahsashamsai 3 місяці тому +265

    Well done Carla for making a negative into a positive and teaching us self care and self love with the humble bean. 🙏🏻

    • @matthewtoohey4103
      @matthewtoohey4103 3 місяці тому +2

      Came here to say something like this, but you said it so much better than I could have hoped to. 👍

  • @Elizabeth-d1n
    @Elizabeth-d1n 3 місяці тому +159

    "Carla taking care of Carla." Love! And please stop apologizing for being the full-blown goddess that you are!

  • @samdillon1
    @samdillon1 3 місяці тому +76

    Seldom do I comment on videos, but this one was lovely. You said so much in revealing so little. Sending love to you and your family, transitions are tough. However, as a child of “uncoupling,” I can say it's often for the best.
    And as a college student living abroad, I wholeheartedly support the "personal pot" message. This should absolutely become a series or your next book.. cooking for one!

  • @sadrans444
    @sadrans444 3 місяці тому +42

    You putting that frozen stock right into the pot is such a great example of why I am devoted to your videos.

    • @peggydfg
      @peggydfg 3 місяці тому +3

      Wait-are there actually people who thaw their stock?

  • @BlinkyB23
    @BlinkyB23 2 місяці тому +11

    I got divorced 5 years ago and (this sounds weird to say, but) it was the best thing that ever happened to me. It needed to happen. I'm sorry you're going through it, Carla, but we ❤ you. Second another person's comment that a "personal pot" cookbook would be amazing and would go well with the cookbook of yours on my shelf 😄 I'm actually engaged now...But when I was alone, I discovered your vids back with Bon Appetit and have followed you since. You've brought so much comfort to my days. Sending lots of bean love and comfort your way.

  • @katieintraining
    @katieintraining 3 місяці тому +85

    I spent last Winter going through divorce also and I haven't had my own kitchen between then and now. I'm so glad to be back in my own space with my own kitchen. Cooking can be so therapeutic. Thank you!

  • @samuelcrawford1611
    @samuelcrawford1611 3 місяці тому +85

    This is one of my favorite videos you’ve done, I’m recently without a roommate and the silence is sometimes overwhelming. Cooking for myself really helps pull me back. I really appreciate you being vulnerable with your audience!

  • @nozzwald
    @nozzwald 3 місяці тому +26

    This came out on the perfect day. I got home from work feeling defeated and lonely. I watched this and was inspired to take care of myself and throw together a weird cauliflower, black bean, harissa soup situation and I’m excited :)

    • @inMuro
      @inMuro 3 місяці тому +1

      that sounds amazing!

  • @KC-dx1yo
    @KC-dx1yo 3 місяці тому +64

    This was so lovely. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us and sending you lots of love during this transition. ❤

  • @tatianagallardo3891
    @tatianagallardo3891 2 місяці тому +3

    I don't comment on UA-cam videos ever.. but I just moved into an apartment alone and am in a total state of transition. Your words and excitement for cooking for yourself made me so happy. I can't wait to make this and cheers my bowl of comfort soup in your honor!

  • @lancelotdufrane
    @lancelotdufrane 2 місяці тому +6

    Thanks. Living alone, cooking large amounts fills my freezer and reduces opportunity for variety. However, it doesn’t stop my cooking. I love the kitchen. Great idea.

  • @dtpugliese318
    @dtpugliese318 3 місяці тому +23

    No one teaches us how to cook while waxing philosophical better than Carla

  • @cloudgoose
    @cloudgoose 3 місяці тому +14

    as a coupled person, I still find the reminder to care for myself and be intentional with myself really helpful. sometimes you need to make a pot of beans and greens to carve out space for yourself in your own life. doing things for your own pleasure, no one else’s! 🌟

  • @tyghe_bright
    @tyghe_bright 2 місяці тому +3

    Beans and greens are my favorite meal. And there are so many variations possible, changing the bean. the green, and the seasoning. Butter beans with turnip greens, grainy mustard, caraway, and a little beer (maybe a bit of maple or sugar) is a favorite. It's also good with bratwurst, but doesn't need it.

  • @biscottaish
    @biscottaish 2 місяці тому +5

    My cooking really evolved when I was suddenly living on my own! I no longer had to cater to a picky eater so I could explore what I was interested in. There is something beautiful about being able to cook for yourself

  • @francescachudnoff679
    @francescachudnoff679 3 місяці тому +16

    Carla. My partner and I separated at the beginning of the summer. I need this! Appreciate u always ~

  • @erinpineda2119
    @erinpineda2119 3 місяці тому +45

    🎈couldn’t be better timing for this video. Thank you for giving us a recipe and reminder for genuine self-care that happens to be in the form of some food magic. ✨

  • @carlamendez6590
    @carlamendez6590 2 місяці тому +1

    Carla, thank you.

  • @inMuro
    @inMuro 3 місяці тому +9

    🥬 didnt know how to tell you i really liked the video, so i went and searched for a leafy green vegetable emoji. i hope it does a good job of telling you this was great. thanks carla

  • @mariasunshine6968
    @mariasunshine6968 2 місяці тому +3

    Super Witchy!?! I'm in. ;) I am solo in my sixties and I LOVE it. I love to cook, and it really is so self-nurturing to cook yourself a nutritious meal and then thank yourself for cooking it.

  • @ethancn
    @ethancn 3 місяці тому +47

    Okay this video was ACTUALLY ✨magical✨ 🎈

  • @zoefields6552
    @zoefields6552 3 місяці тому +9

    This video made me emotional in a good way. You are such a treasure and this was so comforting to watch.

  • @allonszenfantsjones
    @allonszenfantsjones 3 місяці тому +4

    When I got back from India 12 years ago I was so in love with the food I took a class. One of the first things I learned was to 'perfume your oil'. So that can be peppercorns, cardamom pods, other things. But mostly it's building the foundation. After that the sky's the limit.

  • @TheLast0000
    @TheLast0000 2 місяці тому +2

    This was soul-nourishing Carla. You made me laugh and tear up with your lovely way of describing a new stage in your life that is so relatable. Really beautiful content, thank you!

  • @JacquelineJoestar
    @JacquelineJoestar 3 місяці тому +31

    Nobody else can pick the spices of your life but you. Thank you for another amazing recipe ❤❤❤

  • @lindsayjelercic
    @lindsayjelercic 2 місяці тому +3

    🎈 currently going through the beginnings of separation and divorce as a 33 year old, which is to say I know I have so much life ahead. Heading into winter feels like the perfect and also the worst time, but this recipe and your light give me some hope for the lightness on the other side 🎈I look forward to hunkering down this winter and caring for myself and my two boys 🩷

  • @jennhall7264
    @jennhall7264 2 місяці тому +2

    Literally eating a personal pan pizza while watching this…I feel seen and look forward to making this!

  • @MeganAngelos-g2w
    @MeganAngelos-g2w 3 місяці тому +10

    I love the storytelling of your new life in the context of food, these videos are my favorite ❤️

  • @srad-oq7cb
    @srad-oq7cb 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh yummm. My favorite beans and greens are also so nostalgic for me. Broth made from leftover ham bone, great northern beans and kale. Brings tears to my eyes. So simple,nourishing and delicious. ❤

  • @JennyBaggins
    @JennyBaggins 3 місяці тому +9

    You're GLOWING and I love your nails!

  • @hannahjohnson7915
    @hannahjohnson7915 3 місяці тому +2

    This was like therapy to me. I have a feeling I'll revisit this video and meal over and over in coming years. Thank you Carla!

  • @scout4au
    @scout4au 3 місяці тому +4

    Fun fact: my favorite restaurant is a country cooking buffet called “Beans and Greens”. They even catered my wedding!
    This looks delicious! Praying for you as you continue to navigate the single life. I know you’re rocking it 🩵 Love you Carla!!

  • @barbaraacosta7365
    @barbaraacosta7365 2 місяці тому +1

    I love all of your videos, but this one was especially touching. The Carla Magic that you share with us is a blessing.

  • @breyon5010
    @breyon5010 3 місяці тому +4

    the backstory to this recipe makes it all the more better ❤️

  • @davidlindsay5327
    @davidlindsay5327 2 місяці тому +1

    Love this. Life and cooking go hand in hand for me. It has carried me through many changes/challenges. I could relate to every single moment of this video! Thanks.

  • @aknudsen93
    @aknudsen93 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm so glad I found your channel! I love how you just keep pouring the olive oil in. I grew up in the midwest where spices are butter, sugar, salt and pepper. My sister-in-law is from Spain and I'm so grateful to her for the introduction to spices. I can't wait to make this!

  • @StateofKait
    @StateofKait 2 місяці тому

    I've made Carol's fried bread SO many times because of this recipe. So simple but so good!

  • @elizabethmaitland3225
    @elizabethmaitland3225 3 місяці тому +2

    This is so great it feels like a vulnerable but very warm hug - I sent it to my own mum as an inspiration video for accepting and embracing being alone and I’m still trying to get her into cooking! What an under explored way of cooking too. More of this please!! Sending lots of good vibes for the tough times too.

  • @LuLu-xs4sh
    @LuLu-xs4sh 2 місяці тому +2

    🎈 Thanks, Carla

  • @himbo_noa
    @himbo_noa 3 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this. ❤🎈
    I used cooking a lot to help deal with grief (lost two close family members only months before the 2020 COVID lockdowns here in Australia). it was a very emotional time for my family, and we cooked side-by-side to help live through it
    Now as a single person, cooking for myself can still be a labour of love! taking care of ourselves one meal at a time, and fed is best

  • @CosmicNursery
    @CosmicNursery 2 місяці тому +2

    🎈love this and need it to be a series! Solo gal cosy autumn and winter, let’s go!

  • @emilykraus4898
    @emilykraus4898 3 місяці тому +1

    My gosh Carla I absolutely adore you. While I can’t fully relate, I recently moved cross country and got a place to myself. I, too, spend a lot of time alone. I really appreciate your perspective and approach to it-alone doesn’t mean lonely and it can be a beautiful restorative thing.
    PLEASE keep the personal recipes coming! I love Self Care Carla!!

  • @Sarrington-Rising
    @Sarrington-Rising 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤ Renaissance time Carla! Be bold, be beautiful, be solo, be a pot of beans and greens, be whatever you need to be, and remember you are beloved!

  • @135bpmCoffee
    @135bpmCoffee 3 місяці тому +16

    🎈
    „Just getting the vibe“ is honestly all i'm doing with Cooking-UA-cam and even before that with Chef-TV. I rarely ever cook whats presented, but just observing and learning about basic principles helped me a lot in my day to day cooking. Things like "dont stir like crazy or theres no browning; heat your spices, otherwise they just boil and dont get to their full potential" and so on. love it!
    Much love from grey-ish Berlin xx

  • @laraschafer-tr8fu
    @laraschafer-tr8fu 3 місяці тому +2

    Since my separation, I spend every other week alone, which is still not always easy. But then during these silent weeks I celebrate exactly what you are talking about here, dear Carla: I do myself good, above all by first buying loads of great products and then preparing delicious food for myself day after day - in the best case scenario ;-) Which I then eat every evening with time and peace and full of enjoyment and pleasure. It helps and I wouldn't want to do without it.

  • @marisunn7541
    @marisunn7541 3 місяці тому +7

    This is probably my fave video of yours ❤ thanks for sharing!

  • @christygreen9550
    @christygreen9550 2 місяці тому +2

    I love the way you talk about cooking. It truly is magic for me. Cooking can always pull me out of a funk.

  • @LOLCoolJ
    @LOLCoolJ 3 місяці тому +3

    I love you, Carla! I'm so grateful to have you in my life. 💙

  • @cd2659
    @cd2659 3 місяці тому +10

    I love you Carla ❤ thanks for sharing this with us. All of it. I need to start taking care of me too.

  • @brittanywitmartin4024
    @brittanywitmartin4024 3 місяці тому +17

    thank you for this!! and for talking about a vulnerable topic - i'm going through one of the roughest times of my life (mental health stuff) and am having to rebuild my sense of purpose and self esteem from scratch, basically, and cooking is one of the very special, magical things that NEVER fails to bring me back to myself. it grounds me, excites me and reminds me that i can always choose to make the next moment count. xo

  • @deborahrobertson4670
    @deborahrobertson4670 2 місяці тому +1

    How timely. Newly minted red balloon over here😢Making this will give me something comforting to look forward to, merci😘

  • @punkbyproxy
    @punkbyproxy 2 місяці тому +1

    I needed this, thank you!🎈

  • @chrissurcey1311
    @chrissurcey1311 3 місяці тому +9

    🎈🎈🎈🎈 some of us more than others… but who’s to judge ….Love you Carla and everything you do……💕

  • @charlesdavid81
    @charlesdavid81 3 місяці тому

    Wishing nothing but the best for you and your loved ones. You’ve been an endless source of comfort during the last couple years of my life. I hope that all that you’ve given me comes flooding back to you at the times when you need it.

  • @eurojack44
    @eurojack44 3 місяці тому +2

    🎈🎈🎈 I love to cook, but when you live alone and you don’t want endless leftovers, it can be tricky. Love this. Also love this empowered NYC wise aunt energy.

  • @maxwelllll7826
    @maxwelllll7826 3 місяці тому

    I adore every part of this video. Thank you for being so vulnerable and uplifting, Carla. 🥰🩵

  • @nancyhull5917
    @nancyhull5917 3 місяці тому

    I like Carla taking care of Carla. Way to heal. You remember, you are cherished for all the wisdom you give in these videos.

  • @TaylarThibaud
    @TaylarThibaud 2 місяці тому

    This is giving massive later seasons Nigella energy but still
    uniquely you. And once again you are UA-cam food hero!!!

  • @pamelajoy67
    @pamelajoy67 3 місяці тому

    The soup and bread look delicious (and yes, very comforting!). We love you, Carla! Thank you for being you!

  • @antoineesposito9166
    @antoineesposito9166 2 місяці тому +1

    love this woman so much!❤

  • @harpy2602
    @harpy2602 3 місяці тому

    I've always loved Carla's ability to wax philosophical while remaining her goofy, endearing self. And I love her longstanding championing on self care.
    Greeny beanies sound delish, and I will always love a happy, healthy, healing Carla. Thank you for addressing such a sensitive topic in such a genuinely "you" way

  • @Kieran648
    @Kieran648 3 місяці тому

    Yes to nights at home alone with your favourite comfort food! May we all learn to appreciate the beauty of being alone 🥰🥰 Thank you for demonstrating this in such a positive light, Carla! ❤️❤️

  • @bdastrup
    @bdastrup 3 місяці тому

    🎈 Isn't it incredible that something as simple as a pot of beans and greens can be so profoundly comforting? Thank you for sharing your gifts and for not shying away from your humanity. The internets and the world is brighter because of you. 🎈

  • @JonathanCurtis
    @JonathanCurtis 3 місяці тому

    This is exactly how I cook most days. No recipe, no exact end goal. Just a general idea about what I want to eat and using my intuition and what's kicking around my fridge and pantry to make something comforting and delicious.

  • @SLAMSwan
    @SLAMSwan 3 місяці тому +1

    I need Carla to record an audio book. I could listen to her all day long. :)
    This looks like an amazing meal to make on a cold, autumn/winter day.

  • @rhv4752
    @rhv4752 3 місяці тому

    A Queen being a Queen. We love you, Carla. Thank you for sharing and for this delicious recipe. ❤

  • @gabrielgolden4336
    @gabrielgolden4336 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm taking a drink every time she says 'personal pot of beans and greens."

  • @reneesmith695
    @reneesmith695 2 місяці тому

    🎈 Thank you, Carla.

  • @richardmanguse6022
    @richardmanguse6022 3 місяці тому

    Wonderful. I’ve gone from cooking to three children plus friends to just me. I thought I’d lost my passion. Thank you for your many kindnesses. You’re the bean queen. Can’t wait to cook again.

  • @adamisbob
    @adamisbob 3 місяці тому

    I haven’t felt like cooking for myself since being in my new place.
    Thank you so much Carla for being vulnerable and sharing your magic with us! I REALLY needed that spark to get back in my kitchen ✨❤🎈

  • @m_a_k_e_n_n_a
    @m_a_k_e_n_n_a 2 місяці тому

    Carla I just went through a breakup and this is exactly what I needed to see to get me cooking for myself again!!! My mental has been in the toilet but I can feel myself mustering the energy to take care of myself with food again

  • @Andyt11
    @Andyt11 3 місяці тому +1

    I love Carla's therapy sessions.

  • @Krushniccc
    @Krushniccc 3 місяці тому +1

    Carla done casted a spell on all of us huh? Jokes aside, she's such a comforting force that I can't have enough of. Here's to more power to all of us!

  • @ShinyFeral
    @ShinyFeral 3 місяці тому

    🎈 And wow, so very magical! Thank you, Carla!

  • @rpederse
    @rpederse 3 місяці тому

    Thanks!

  • @ninaameigh6001
    @ninaameigh6001 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for being so vulnerable with us Carla. You are wonderful and inspiring. Absolutely loooove your videos. You have such a fabulous vibe and I am here for it all day, everyday ❤

  • @katyowens3119
    @katyowens3119 3 місяці тому

    Carla I love you. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this all. I also would love more solo sized meals as I often just cook for myself.

  • @hmoore625
    @hmoore625 3 місяці тому +1

    This video is a public service, and you’re fabulous. Thank you always ❤🎈

  • @sarahkohout4563
    @sarahkohout4563 3 місяці тому +1

    this video healed a part of me I didn’t know needed to heal

  • @geekbruin
    @geekbruin 3 місяці тому

    Adding anchovies is low key genius. Love you, Carla!

  • @ryangriffithbass
    @ryangriffithbass 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video, Carla! You brought attention to what a lot of folks go through, which is that relationships don't always work out. And the way you put it was perfectly diplomatic, and hats off to that. It's very important to take care of yourself, and I'm glad you made a video to reinforce that.

  • @DHChitown
    @DHChitown 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey. It is really helpful to see someone being positive about the changes in their life as I navigate changes in my own.

  • @lucashall6349
    @lucashall6349 3 місяці тому

    i have never resonated with a cooking video more than this one. thank you for sharing the joys or nurturing yourself within hardship.

  • @ellieantestenis3037
    @ellieantestenis3037 3 місяці тому

    🎈🎈🎈🎈need this as a series!!!!

  • @TalysAlankil
    @TalysAlankil 3 місяці тому +2

    omg solo comfort food is a great concept and since i just moved into my own place i would need a million of these 🎈

  • @jolenetolbert4027
    @jolenetolbert4027 3 місяці тому

    Not single but this is still what I needed this morning! Hubs and I got back from sunny Sardinia 3 days ago and it has been raining constantly. We both WFH and I am so tired of thinking about what's for lunch( we do take turns). I'm putting this on to simmer going for a short run in the rain and can look forward to this to warm us up for lunch!

  • @nubisor5042
    @nubisor5042 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for putting the frozen stock in the pot. That is 100% something I would do and have done while cooking for myself.

  • @kevinpoole6122
    @kevinpoole6122 3 місяці тому

    🎈
    God! You have NO idea how much I needed this video today-please make this a series!
    🎈

  • @nancycerra8076
    @nancycerra8076 3 місяці тому +1

    🎈Thank you Carla, this video really spoke to my heart...and my stomach!🥰

  • @shinewithheart
    @shinewithheart 2 місяці тому

    This is so sweet...❤

  • @sallyatkinson1682
    @sallyatkinson1682 3 місяці тому

    🎈🎈I love cooking beans, and they're my comfort food. I grew up in NM, and pintos were the most common dried bean we ate. The fun thig about being my own cook is all the different beans I've discovered, and all the different flavors and seasonings I've learned to use. Thanks so much for this simple, comfort food plan.

  • @wrightcodyj
    @wrightcodyj 3 місяці тому +6

    We love you, Carla!

  • @moonectar
    @moonectar 2 місяці тому +1

    Most mornings or lunch times, I make a personal pot of greens and beans, and I just came across this video. I like to spice it up with chilis, and sometimes I add an egg if I'm extra hungry. Mine is not a soup.

  • @jasminescott2729
    @jasminescott2729 3 місяці тому

    Carla, you are my comfort watch! Watched this video while eating soup and also recently uncoupled. Thank you!! ❤️❤️

  • @standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory
    @standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory 3 місяці тому

    This looks so good, I’m liking & commenting for the algorithm. I actually cannot eat legumes, or at least I can’t eat more than 2 tbl (sorry, I’m American I have no idea what the real measurement is), due to a GI disorder, but I loved food like this in my younger years! Now I make do with greens & potatoes cooked with a gnarly chunk of pig & bone, whatever’s cheap, usually a hock, but with beans, it’s heaven. So many delicious bean dishes & here’s a tip for very busy solo cooks: I love the deliciousness of bean dishes made from dried beans, but even after 10 yrs of cooking lessons in 4H, and being known as an excellent cook, I never did master dried beans. Canned are definitely still good, they’re fully cooked, & why they are dramatically more expensive than dried, they are still cheap compared to all other proteins! I can cook pulses but not legumes from dry, but my bean dishes still always get rave reviews. I can no longer digest beans so I don’t make them often, but sometimes you gotta make someone black bean soup or hummus or vegetarian chili!

  • @ryanhass8716
    @ryanhass8716 3 місяці тому

    Carla, your whimsical personality brings something so beautiful to the world. Sorry you're having to adjust to this change, but if nothing else you seem like a person who is well adjusted enough to get through it as well as anyone could. All the best.

  • @irishfergal
    @irishfergal 3 місяці тому

    My comfort food is garlic parmesan mashed potatoes, saving the extra for breakfast with scrambled eggs. What a huge relief to know that I can be uncoupled and still care for me. May your heart always be this open. ❤

  • @Sarah-qt3vi
    @Sarah-qt3vi 3 місяці тому

    "One of the great immersive activities." You have finally put into words why I like to cook!