Q&A - 2 MONTHS IN AFTER HAVING TWINS | LAUREN & ARIE

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  • @TaraAnsty76
    @TaraAnsty76 3 роки тому +90

    This may sound mad creepy but I adore Lauren and find her to be so beautiful on the outside and inside as well. I love watching her on this site as she’s just so precious!

    • @ricknelson4721
      @ricknelson4721 2 роки тому +4

      She seems like a genuine person. We really feel these two belong together. Their relationship appears to be solid.

  • @katherinemaycher6627
    @katherinemaycher6627 3 роки тому +96

    I love what Lauren said about life being a series of phases. This is so true. When I had my baby earlier this year I really mourned my kid free freedom and still do at times. But now I wouldn't go back.

    • @robynschneider5019
      @robynschneider5019 3 роки тому +5

      Lauren and Arie have a lot of wisdom. I love how they talked about phases. It wasn’t how they missed going here or there when they wanted, Lauren mentioned different phases and contentment. Very wise woman and Arie is as well.

  • @thelmawall-butler6663
    @thelmawall-butler6663 3 роки тому +257

    Lauren and Arie - you guys are the best: raising twins in the newborn phase is not easy but you guys are such great parents. I truly adore your attitude especially how you work as a loving team. Arie, your humor and laughs are wonderful; and Lauren, the fact that you have maintained your beautiful smile through your recent illness & hospitalization is so awesome. Absolutely LOVE you; I pray God keeps both of you and your beautiful little family of three gorgeous children healthy, happy & safe! So now I look forward to seeing you in your Hawaii posting soon!!!!

    • @salliea8075
      @salliea8075 3 роки тому +14

      @@carver877 Arie doesn't have to account to you for anything, he pays taxes just like you, probably more than you. He didn't prevent you or anyone you know from getting one of those loans, there probably wasn't enough funding released at first and he would not have been aware of that. Even if the loan was not used that money probably would have been returned and probably allocated to another funding, such as that which was sent to the states and local governments to help with housing, the education systems, food programs, transportation, etc. And if he has to pay it back he has means to do so, That's what's wrong with the world today, Everybody in everybody else's business. Stop indulging yourself in other people's business. So rude!

    • @salliea8075
      @salliea8075 3 роки тому +3

      @@carver877 My heart goes out to everybody who became homeless during the pandemic, unfortunately some businesses had to close at the onset of the pandemic before ppl loans were approved in the stimulus package, and distributed. My hope is that everyone can be restored back into housing and employment through funding that has been approved.

    • @hannahblanton2044
      @hannahblanton2044 3 роки тому +5

      @@carver877 who the hell are you to even care what they do financially?

    • @wondersofstatus1532
      @wondersofstatus1532 3 роки тому

      Hi sir

    • @Futhi.Johnson
      @Futhi.Johnson 3 роки тому +2

      No...they are No longer the best. I am disappointed in them...did they get the PPP loan ? Up until I get the proper answer..I am not buying their ish

  • @maryvblair
    @maryvblair 3 роки тому +101

    I like how chill you guys seem to be about parenting. Not like you’re hands-off, but you seem to not sweat the small things, which is so great! Three kids under three is insane (my grandparents did it, they had an 18 month old and newborn identical twins 😬) and I feel like you have to be chill about the little things or you’ll lose your mind!

  • @dawndanelle3488
    @dawndanelle3488 3 роки тому +91

    Still watching but just have to say I LOVE YOU AS PARENTS... you were always just the best couple/ partners and watching you grow as parents and just how you compliment one another so well! You are beautiful people and the love you share for one another is truly amazing and refreshing to watch! Xo

  • @jaimefernandez6335
    @jaimefernandez6335 3 роки тому +264

    I never thought I would say this, but I think Arie was the best Bachelor of all time. He turned out to be such an amazing man.

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 3 роки тому +20

      He and Sean Lowe are my new favorites. Everyone else has been a hot mess.

    • @marcikaplan7381
      @marcikaplan7381 3 роки тому +11

      I agree, love them, favorite couple

    • @made_in_germany
      @made_in_germany 3 роки тому +12

      I so agree and was just here thinking about that. What an awesome couple, family, children. Best choice for you Arie. You did amazing and I agreed with you all the way. You two fit like a hand and glove. Amazing!

    • @jennifer8535
      @jennifer8535 3 роки тому +16

      Or.. maybe he was all along, but all the people behind the camera made him out to be what they wanted you to see… 😒 because, well, that’s more entertaining supposedly.
      I’ve always loved these two as a couple for the record ❤️

    • @annetnabuyondo7607
      @annetnabuyondo7607 3 роки тому +7

      @@jbb8261 did you know him and Sean are close, actually Sean recommended him if I correctly recall

  • @jessgorda111
    @jessgorda111 3 роки тому +355

    I can’t believe anyone would actually ask about Lauren loving one child more than the other. Hopefully, they stop that. All kids are loved the same and even making a kid think contrary to that is so toxic. Lauren and Arie are so sweet to their children, I love this video.

    • @ocgal80
      @ocgal80 3 роки тому +14

      Loving one child more than the other, absolutely not.. Favoring one over the other--yeah, that's a real thing..

    • @semperxian
      @semperxian 3 роки тому +11

      It used to not be a shameful thing and in the UK still fairly common to call one the favorite. Parents dont admit it but children know who it is. Usually 1st born

    • @nofear6435
      @nofear6435 3 роки тому +14

      They're the same people who dislike this video lol.. Lauren and Arie are amazing parents and their children are so blessed to have them. :)

    • @lindakaszynski1993
      @lindakaszynski1993 3 роки тому +7

      @@semperxian Well that is a lot of cr*p, I'm a mum in Scotland and love all 3 of my children equally. Don't know what part of the UK you're in but it is certainly not common in Scotland.

    • @sofialarson2791
      @sofialarson2791 3 роки тому +4

      Yea, doest like that... Thats a horrible question. Both of you are so graet parents💞 Its so easy to see you love all of your children.

  • @katharinawiebe762
    @katharinawiebe762 3 роки тому +34

    The tiredness in yall's eyes doesn't go unnoticed, being twin parents myself, i feel you 100%. ill be praying for yall.

  • @G-grandma_Army
    @G-grandma_Army 3 роки тому +49

    mastitis is awful. I had it over 40 years ago and I’ll never forget it! Lux has grown so much! Blessings to your fam!

  • @amandafannon4934
    @amandafannon4934 3 роки тому +7

    You guys are killing it at the twin parenting game 👏 Mom to 10 month old twin boys here and the newborn phase goes by soooo fast. Even though its a blur right now soak in every moment! The most important is the support you have for your spouse and that love for your kids ❤

  • @jackiebenjamin8772
    @jackiebenjamin8772 3 роки тому +18

    So glad that Lauren is feeling much better. My grandmother use to say, the sacrifice of no sleep, not eating on time etc etc is only for a time, in the twinkle of an eye they will all be grown up.

  • @iamnotauser93ify
    @iamnotauser93ify 3 роки тому +13

    I think the secret to recovering quickly is having such a great support system! Arie seems to be really involved and you guys have family around to help. A lot of women don’t have so much support or help which means they end up having to do a lot of the work themselves.

  • @singsiriiiriiriss
    @singsiriiiriiriss 3 роки тому +12

    Dear Arie and Lauren, Thank you for being so open, as a twin parent myself, I am highly entertained by your videos and insta pages. There is a feeling of community with you guys, as I feel I can sympathize you.. Mine are around 1 year older than yours, and man, those first weeks and months! But it does get easier, I promise! For us at around 4 months they slept through, and that is important to another dimension with twins, so it‘s good that you pacify, it helps! Also how do you both look so fresh like straight out of a spa and your house is spotless?? I’m in awe!!

  • @sherrybrewer5715
    @sherrybrewer5715 3 роки тому +14

    Life has seasons and you’re doing great at enjoying each season and not “missing” the past ones. Keep that great attitude!!

  • @abak3948
    @abak3948 3 роки тому +22

    I seldom comment on your videos but I have truly fallen in love with your family. Also, Alessi has to be the sweetest and most polite little girl ever! Just watched your story where she asked for a cookie and then asked you to hold her “please.” SUCH A DOLL!

    • @LaurenAndArie
      @LaurenAndArie  3 роки тому +4

      Awe thank you :) hopefully she’s better soon and we can have her in our next vlog

    • @kinsleysechrist2813
      @kinsleysechrist2813 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 😕 be nice please

  • @iennavienna5161
    @iennavienna5161 3 роки тому +10

    Knowing how you guys started and seeing you guys now, I get a little teary eyed! Despite how tired you may feel, the pride and happiness for the life you've built and the family you have right now is palpable! I love how honest you are about how messy your life can be, and that you guys are figuring things out along the way. You guys just vibe and you show us how important it is in having a friend in your partner and keeping things fun too! Whenever I see a video update, I click on it so fast. lol. You guys are awesome people, and amazing parents! Thank you for sharing your life with us! Good luck!

  • @helenaivanka3767
    @helenaivanka3767 3 роки тому +2

    Big boy for 2 months!!! Gorgeous!! Babies are the greatest gift from God and your life will never be the same. The first 3 years..you can write off!!! It's all about the babies!

  • @marieneu264
    @marieneu264 3 місяці тому +1

    I need to know why this channel doesn’t have at least 1M subscribers! Sometimes UA-cam pushes out the videos they should, but sometimes they don’t. This is an example of where they don’t do enough! There are SO many people that love to watch family channels, and some of them are kind of boring, repetitive, and lacking of diverse content. Not this channel!!! There is such a huge market for a channel as wonderful as this, and lots of people obviously just don’t know about it, or they’d subscribe after watching their first vlog. These people are adorable, adventurous, funny, and entertaining. They are SO DOWN to EARTH, honest, real, and relatable.
    Come on @UA-cam ~ use your algorithm and share the joy of this channel with more people!!!

  • @fellykibwe2376
    @fellykibwe2376 3 роки тому +12

    I love how both of you talk so humble and kind🥰

  • @lauraroth5776
    @lauraroth5776 3 роки тому +7

    Triplet mama here; identical twin boys and a girl! They are eight now and I'm loving your videos as they bring back those memories from when mine were little babies. Do the things! Go on the trips! Integrate them into your life. You won't regret it. I'm so happy you're all going to Hawaii! I would LOVE to see a video showing your vehicle setup, carseats, strollers, etc. We had the valcobaby Zee Two with the joey seat attachment to stroll all three around. People were always so interested in our cool stroller! I'm a runner, and also had the Valco Tri Mode Duo X with joey seat attachment for running on the trails! We got the Diono carseats so we could fit them three across in any vehicle if needed.

  • @marionbarnes8806
    @marionbarnes8806 3 роки тому +4

    I’m a twin mom with a older toddler. A life saver is to get Alessi a bubble machine and make her a big girl box filled with a lot of fun toys she only gets to play with when you feed the babies.

  • @janice5218
    @janice5218 3 роки тому +3

    Mom of twins here
    Best twin advice I ever got
    Whatever your sick of it will pass and something else will replace it.
    I truly think twins are the best💖

  • @krysta4945
    @krysta4945 3 роки тому +6

    Lauren is my favorite person in bachelor history! She seems like such a strong, kind, caring woman. And not to mention she’s the most gorgeous girl ever lol. God bless you guys💜

  • @petmykitty
    @petmykitty 3 роки тому +55

    This is seriously the best looking couple ever. Wait scratch that... best looking FAMILY ever. My god you all glow

  • @angelvictoria6920
    @angelvictoria6920 3 роки тому +21

    LOVE Lauren's perspective of looking at different phases in life!! Great advice!

    • @LesleyFrey
      @LesleyFrey 3 роки тому +3

      I totally agree! What she said was really helpful for me.

    • @angelvictoria6920
      @angelvictoria6920 3 роки тому +2

      ​@@LesleyFrey yess! will definitely incorporate this outlook :) glad you found it helpful too!! ♡

  • @mariem3429
    @mariem3429 3 роки тому +21

    I started watching you guys when you did Bachelor reviews eating breakfast, so much has changed lol...beautiful new babies...You two are a beautiful couple, compliment each other well...for lacking in sleep & birthing twins Lauren, you look stunning!

  • @nicolesoni4749
    @nicolesoni4749 3 роки тому +6

    My twin girls are now in their mid 20s. I had a 6 year old and a 4 year old when my twins were born. Enjoy this time with your three children, because they grow up so fast. Twins are so precious. The five of you are lucky indeed.

  • @theoneonlymichelle3.082
    @theoneonlymichelle3.082 3 роки тому +43

    I’ve missed y’all. Just glad to see you are doing better and glad to see you all back. Much love from a much older twin.

  • @gonurseyourself__
    @gonurseyourself__ 3 роки тому +5

    Awwww you two are ADORABLE with explaining the medical terms - you did a great job !! Made the peds nurse in me smile 🥰 I absolutely love you guys and so happy for you !🤍🤍🤍

  • @ashleycarpenter8428
    @ashleycarpenter8428 3 роки тому +29

    I love them and their kids! I’m so happy they posted I’ve been waiting for soooo long!!!!

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 Why don’t you stay in your lane it’s their business not yours

  • @ashleykts
    @ashleykts 3 роки тому +5

    Ok I wanted to hate Arie after how he ended his season on the Bachelor…but y’all are the sweetest family!! I think it all ended how it should’ve after all. You’re perfect together ❤️

  • @stephlyndsey3932
    @stephlyndsey3932 3 роки тому +24

    Kudos to you for trying and succeeding at breastfeeding the twins! Those memories will be with you forever 💕💕💕 Y'all are doing a great job.

  • @tinabrun4560
    @tinabrun4560 3 роки тому +4

    I cant believe that you two had all 3 kiddos down and you chose to make a video. The babies and Alessi are Adorable!!! Thanks for doing the Q&A!!!

  • @lauraeeeee
    @lauraeeeee 3 роки тому +7

    Lauren you’re such a gorgeous person, your kind soul just shines through in every video

  • @elizabethkoobs1060
    @elizabethkoobs1060 3 роки тому +16

    I had one of those terrible one vaginal/one Caesarean deliveries with my twin boys. The first delivery went fine, but Twin B's cord prolapsed and I had to have an emergency "crash" Caesarean for him. So, I had to be put to sleep not knowing if he would make it or not. I literally woke up in recovery asking if he was alive. So scary. They weighed 8-10 and 8-0 at 37 weeks! Big boys. Congrats on your beautiful babies(all 3 of them!)💜💙💜

  • @kaylaislas78
    @kaylaislas78 3 роки тому +2

    Lauren is glowing we cant deny it.

  • @suchitaamin7929
    @suchitaamin7929 3 місяці тому

    So beautiful to see how you both support one another with grace, positivity. Wonderful to see the emotional intelligence and processing through trauma.

  • @mariaf740
    @mariaf740 3 роки тому +34

    I think it’s so sweet how you two are towards each other. A true partnership & it’s great yall have an amazing support system with both of yalls parents & yall are so blessed to be able to be financially stable enough to be able to afford all of these things to make parenting the twins easier, im not a parent yet but it makes me think about all the single parents out there & all the ones that are less fortunate it breaks my heart to know that if raising kids is still difficult & stressful for you guys, how much harder it must be for them :( idk why but seeing yall talk abt yalls relationship, coparenting styles & just yalls optimism makes me happy

    • @mariaf740
      @mariaf740 3 роки тому

      @@carver877 i wasnt aware of this, i dont really keep up with them at all i just saw this was recommended. If thats true however thats pretty disappointing…

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 Stay in your own fucking Lane worry about your own finances what they do is perfectly legal and you need to mind your own business

  • @littleflower9536
    @littleflower9536 3 роки тому +31

    You all are doing great!! Not the same thing, but we had 3 babies in 3 years, and yes it was WILD! Ten years later now it’s so fun, all going swimming together or playing games ... I don’t know I’m just saying it’ll get easier and not be survival mode anymore!!!

    • @mitchellmadness222
      @mitchellmadness222 3 роки тому +2

      We did the exact same and our youngest is now almost 10! I couldn't agree more 😊

  • @jennifermitchell9282
    @jennifermitchell9282 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for sharing, Beautiful family! You both have much more grace than I would have if someone made a comment about loving one child over another…..I can’t comprehend at all…..it is impossible in my eyes.

  • @mzj384
    @mzj384 3 роки тому +51

    So glad you guys are getting ln to a sleeping rhythm and you're getting better Lauren. We were all praying for you. You guys are the cutest little family. So happy for you and look forward to those Hawaii Vlogs😍❤❤❤

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +2

      @@carver877 You know that’s very rude to say about somebody but it makes you think they’re not getting that much money off these videos

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 3 роки тому +28

    You guys are doing amazing n doing a great job. We missed you guys so much xo Lauren looks absolutely beautiful!!!😍

  • @amyenderink8531
    @amyenderink8531 3 роки тому +2

    My twins are 2 years old now and if you want to see what it looks like to have a super best friend, you can look at them playing together. It's the cutest and most rewarding thing too see! Love your videos!

  • @hannahblanton2044
    @hannahblanton2044 3 роки тому +11

    Missed you guys, I can't wait for the Christmas and birthday videos for the twins. I'm so happy you are over all of the sad stuff and the baby are getting stronger and more beautiful everyday

  • @RVthereyetmemaw
    @RVthereyetmemaw 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for spending your free time with all of us! Enjoy those babies

  • @foreveraftergirl
    @foreveraftergirl 3 роки тому +5

    I love how you love all 3 of them effortlessly. They are going to grow up super close. Fed is best!!!

  • @theresa9925
    @theresa9925 3 роки тому +5

    Awww...thanks so much for taking the time in your busy lives to share with us! Sending you all lots of hugs & love!

  • @SueV123
    @SueV123 3 роки тому +11

    Kuddos to you both for even having 20 minutes to film a video! You are still smiling with sleep deprivation...so hats off to you both!...enjoy your sweet little family and all of those precious moments.😊💗

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 It’s legal in the US to do that plus it’s not in your damn business

  • @meganpepper787
    @meganpepper787 3 роки тому +6

    You guy's are doing a great job! Don't let the critics get to you. Your children are beautiful and I can tell they are very loved!

  • @robynschneider5019
    @robynschneider5019 3 роки тому +4

    You both are so funny. Even though you are both so tired, you both have such a sense of humor. I have missed you two but I knew you were busy busy. Thank you for giving time to the public instead of resting, which you both need..Love you both.❤️❤️ you are both wonderful parents.

  • @nikkis7375
    @nikkis7375 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you guys for the update! I’m sure it’s the most difficult thing to raise twins along with another baby so we appreciate you guys coming on! You both look great! Lauren, I hope you continue to recover nicely, mastitis is a B!👊🏼💪🏼sending love!❤️

  • @danieller9778
    @danieller9778 3 роки тому +4

    You guys are so zen and calm, love it. Just came out of a relationship that was verrrrry opposite so this is extremely nice and refreshing to see😅☺️ all the best with the kids💕

  • @margaretjames4589
    @margaretjames4589 3 роки тому +5

    Three loving little human beings to 'love..
    When they all start laughing and communicating.. together your joys as parents will pay off and the joys are forever more..

  • @TheMimiof7
    @TheMimiof7 3 роки тому +10

    I have an identical twin and we are soooo close. We did 23andme a couple of years ago and it showed 100% identical. I cannot imagine doing life without her.

    • @Piscoandmartinis
      @Piscoandmartinis 3 роки тому

      Mmm aren't identical twins... identical? Why would you need a test to tell you that?

    • @TheMimiof7
      @TheMimiof7 3 роки тому +1

      @@Piscoandmartinis We are now 69 years of age and still look alike. Even though twins look alike, there are still some differences. I have a dimple and my twin does not. I’m a half inch taller than she is. The DNA just confirmed for us that we are identical.

  • @michelle72albright
    @michelle72albright 3 роки тому +4

    Lux is defiantly going to be a tall boy I cant wait to see them both grow up so cute! Congratulations to both of you such a blessing!

  • @amberj3941
    @amberj3941 3 роки тому +5

    I think you all are great. Keep being amazing parents and honest people it’s so refreshing. Lauren I hope everything gets better the health stuff you didn’t want to talk about too, all of it! Take care of yourself mama!

  • @m82s01l
    @m82s01l 3 роки тому +3

    Glad you decided to address the favoritism question because people need to stop saying that.

  • @SuperCHERISHED
    @SuperCHERISHED 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you for taking some of your precious time to share with everyone how the family is doing! Congratulations on the entire family being reunited! Lauren of course looks beautiful. You both are so sweet. I am happy that you have one another as mates. God bless your family! The children are adorable! Try to stay in the moment, what needs to be accomplished now! Keep celebrating the NOW!

  • @joannadp3488
    @joannadp3488 3 роки тому +2

    Oh man, i’m two weeks into recovery from a c-section and I can honestly say it’s the worse for me! The pain! Especially to nurse! Im happy your recovery was fast. Your babies are precious. Sending love from LA 💕

  • @zendamartin7931
    @zendamartin7931 3 роки тому +5

    So good to see y’all vlogging again. Babies are so cute 🥰

  • @shilohivy4590
    @shilohivy4590 3 роки тому +7

    My twin was miscarried in the third month. My teenaged mother thought “I’ll never have to tell anyone this ever happened” …six months later her water broke while she was jumping off of her porch. Surprise! I was adopted by a wonderful family and I met her when I was 21. I’ve always known I was a twin and it was the first thing I asked her.

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому

      Telling your story is always a blessing to somebody else I’ve lost two infants but I have two other kids thank the Lord but when I don’t have a relationship with you never get over the wash you always wonder what if

  • @whitneymisja4652
    @whitneymisja4652 3 роки тому +2

    I have been married for 13 years, 4 children and we talk about our kids a lot on dates. Trust me, once your kids aren't toddlers and newborns, but big kids with real life stuff going on, you will need that time to also process and talk to each other about what is going on in your kids' life. Kids growing up and becoming teenagers is a whole different ballgame!

  • @tarabarrett9892
    @tarabarrett9892 3 роки тому +2

    honestly love to see on here how far you two have come from where you started on the show 🥲

  • @LeewayLane
    @LeewayLane 3 роки тому +1

    RELATABLE!! First, hats off to you both for being such a great team. So much of singleton + twins is trial and error to see what works best. People used to tell me that the milestones of 18 months and 3 years were game changers and I’m so close to the first one. One day your babies will feed themselves, sleep through the night, and play and laugh together. You just got to hold on and know that it gets easier. I think it was 7 months that I did Taking Cara Babies and it was amazing. I wish I would have purchased her program earlier for my twins. Highly recommend her. Thank you for being so real about your experience, it’s appreciated!!

  • @rutacerniauskaite9550
    @rutacerniauskaite9550 3 роки тому +5

    Honestly, I want to find someone at whom I will look with so much love after kids and years together as they look at one another :) beautiful

  • @Umekoh21
    @Umekoh21 3 роки тому +10

    I love that Lux is smiling almost the whole time 🥺🥰

  • @brunaninamedeiros
    @brunaninamedeiros 3 роки тому +2

    My heart melted when he smiled while sleeping when Lauren said his name 😍😍

  • @kyliesalinas4141
    @kyliesalinas4141 3 роки тому +3

    Y’all are SUCH amazing parents, I love y’all’s little family, y’all’s kids are soo precious, y’all are doing sooo amazing!!!!

  • @carolwoodrow9170
    @carolwoodrow9170 3 роки тому +5

    Hi! fellow twin mom here :) mine are 6.5 now and in 1st grade! You are very smart to try and keep them on the same schedule. It may seem hard sometimes but the consistency will pay off. We did the 3 hour feeding schedule until 5 months I think and then every four hours? Don't let anyone guilt trip you. Having multiples is tough! God bless yall :)

  • @cancerlight7842
    @cancerlight7842 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you both keep it real when answering these questions. Some people make parenthood out to be easy but it has its hard at times even though its also amazing. Your doing a great job supporting each other, its lovely to see.

  • @kalidevi26
    @kalidevi26 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for posting, missed you guys! glad to hear you are slowly figuring it out and that Lauren is better! 🥰💕

  • @marshasmirh3976
    @marshasmirh3976 3 роки тому +6

    The first year with twins is hard but it gets so much better. My daughter has boy/girl twins that’s are 3 now. They have a sister that’s 22 months older than them so it’s been wild. But it’s so fun now. Hang in there and tell people unless they’ve had twins they have no idea!!!

  • @marthalanderverde581
    @marthalanderverde581 3 роки тому +6

    Any good parent knows not to compare your children. Ignore those comments and questions!! You're doing amazing 👏❤

  • @sherribuss4320
    @sherribuss4320 3 роки тому +3

    Hang in there! You are both doing an amazing job! They are only this young and helpless for such a short time❤️

  • @salliestewart4713
    @salliestewart4713 3 роки тому +3

    CONGRATULATIONS. I had same age difference but boy 1st. 6 mo it gets better. My Scott screamed from 11-6 x 6wks. I nursed them for 9 mo. My ex worked 11-7 w 1 hr drive each way. My twins are now 35 and Dave is 37!! Enjoy !

  • @meganducharme9729
    @meganducharme9729 3 роки тому +49

    We are about to go the opposite way, we have twin toddlers and are expecting a singleton. Y’all are rocking it!

    • @LaurenAndArie
      @LaurenAndArie  3 роки тому +4

      You got this!

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      No infant can nurse while a sleep cause they have to suck out the milk u could pump milk into bottles for Ari to feed

  • @brooklynwilson9214
    @brooklynwilson9214 3 роки тому +3

    I love the way Lauren looks at Arie!! So cute❤️

  • @janiceyoder621
    @janiceyoder621 3 роки тому +1

    As a mom to adopted twins, boy and girl, they are so everything! Mine are 9 years old and though the girl is small and petite, she is very competitive and will try to get her brother in trouble all the time. Then she joins up with him and gets in trouble, too. Never, ever a dull moment, and so much fun!

  • @elfgirl1973
    @elfgirl1973 3 роки тому +4

    Whole family is GORGEOUS!!

  • @tonibrooks9719
    @tonibrooks9719 3 роки тому +5

    Omg lol. My son was a grunter too. He is so precious. Lauren, I had mastitis with my second child and it was horrible. They told me to keep nursing while on the antibiotic but the pain from my breast was so horrible I said absolutely not. It gave me a fever, chills and my breast which was the right breast with it, felt like it was on fire and throbbed nonstop for 3 days until the medicine started working. My husband felt helpless and so bad for me because I was beyond miserable. I hear you, I would give birth 10 times before having that again. I’m so happy you got through it. I know your pain.

  • @Elizabeth-lj1vm
    @Elizabeth-lj1vm 3 роки тому +8

    Lauren is the MOST beautiful!! Congrats on 250K!

  • @melissakummeth5428
    @melissakummeth5428 3 роки тому +1

    My twins, who are now 13, were born at 25 weeks. They were 1lb 6oz and 1lb 11oz. It was the hardest thing we ever did-feeding tubes, oxygen tanks, apnea monitors etc. after our 7 month stint in the nicu of course. Everyone has their own path-just try and enjoy every minute of it bc it is so short lived-the baby years! It got easier for me around age 5. Best of luck and keep strong-you guys are amazing together!!

  • @alyssacarbone2191
    @alyssacarbone2191 3 роки тому +3

    Missed your videos!! Loved to hear the updates!

  • @nancypatterson374
    @nancypatterson374 3 роки тому +21

    You just need to block the rude people, they are everywhere. People today don’t seem to have a filter, it’s sad. Enjoy your 3 beautiful children , you are blessed!💖💙💖

  • @-nellie-m3711
    @-nellie-m3711 3 роки тому +15

    Your doing Great Mumma and Poppa, it’s only going to get better as they grow, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. Looking forward to seeing your next video. Best Wishes and Kindness from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️

  • @janblack4021
    @janblack4021 3 роки тому +2

    I have said before and still say you two are great parents. I love the way you two work together. God bless you all.

  • @wildwood143
    @wildwood143 3 роки тому +5

    I am 2 yrs older than my twin brothers, which today is their birthday! Mom and Dad had a time with us, it was hard but they got us raised!

  • @duckypam
    @duckypam 3 роки тому +5

    I can’t even imagine how you are doing this! God bless your sweet family!

  • @teresaingram4347
    @teresaingram4347 3 роки тому +2

    Ive always absoultely loved you two guys together! I know you thank yourself a million times a day for having the heart to go back and get her!

  • @charlenefriesen8286
    @charlenefriesen8286 3 роки тому +1

    I hate to break it to you guys, but twins as babies are the easiest I found. My twin girls are 25 now and their still pretty needy. Although one is a nurse and one is a civil engineer and they own their own houses they still depend on their mom and dad, mainly dad, which we wouldn’t have it any other way! I did have my girls on a tight schedule but my girlfriend had boy/girl twins and you really need to feed the boy more because of their appetite. I had another daughter that was 3 at the time so it was pretty busy. We started traveling with all 3 when they were babies so you will get a travel plan that will work for you guys. Good luck guys!!

  • @violetjane7152
    @violetjane7152 3 роки тому +4

    Love Aries shirt, it brings out his eyes. Always excited when a new video pops up.

  • @ashleycarpenter8428
    @ashleycarpenter8428 3 роки тому +19

    I’m so happy they posted I have been waiting every day for them to post!! I love them and their kids!!!!

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 It’s legal and it’s none of your damn business why are you poking your nose in business it doesn’t involve you quit doing so

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому +1

      @@carver877 Taking out a loan is not imoral plus it’s none of your damn business

  • @elizabethkoch3426
    @elizabethkoch3426 3 роки тому +4

    Love this so much! So so excited for a day in the life. Good luck!
    Thank you for having this space and informing us! My husband and I are doing IVF and we have to decide if we are up for the possibility of twins, this is so helpful! You are doing so much good.

  • @bekaheb
    @bekaheb 3 роки тому +3

    Love this q&a. You guys are awesome parents!!! ❤️❤️❤️ and such a cute couple. Love the way Lauren looks at Arie when he talks 😍

  • @jens33
    @jens33 3 роки тому +3

    I love that you found the time to share with us !! Busy house, so much love ❤️ so happy to see you both, and Lux too 😊

  • @jennifercarson4757
    @jennifercarson4757 3 роки тому +3

    I had one child and I was dying the first 3 months so I can only imagine. My heart goes out to you because I know you both are exhausted!

    • @rachaelnelson3810
      @rachaelnelson3810 3 роки тому

      Why do people think the first three months of the hardest all they do is eat sleep and use the restroom

  • @dawnwhitney1614
    @dawnwhitney1614 3 роки тому +4

    I remember when my twins were infants !! The hardest work I have ever endured ! My girls are nine now!! Keep going it gets better and better (with some freshness thrown in there haha)

  • @cokopuffz
    @cokopuffz 3 роки тому +1

    I love the real and raw moments & reminiscing. More of those moments would be amazing!

  • @yeisydiaz3924
    @yeisydiaz3924 3 роки тому +1

    Yay!!! you're back! missed your videos so much!!

  • @juliawardwell7307
    @juliawardwell7307 3 роки тому +2

    You’re killing it guys!! Such a cute fam