Yes, women do notice that the man is not interested but unfortunately they keep insisting thinking that he will give in eventually. I don't waste my time. Not interested, I move on.
"A guy can like you and not be THAT into you." Great statement! 👏👏👏 Us ladies need to be mindful of this, and not go into fantasy land about a man that's just not that into us.
@@susananderson4835 I understand. It's a lesson near and dear to my heart as well...as I too, am having to realize this in my own situation. Sadly, we can like him more than he likes us back, and the sooner we realize this truth, the better. Best wishes Susan and thank you for sharing. 💕💕💕
I'm a 60yr old guy that dated for 19yrs before finding a life partner in my new wife. I dated many women for at least a year making it clear I was not looking to get married again and didn't want something serious. (the truth is, I didn't want anything serious with them) if a man isn't texting and wanting to be with you everyday, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, if he isn't talking marriage within a year, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Women go along with dating a guy for many years without a getting a ring hoping this will change in the future. Truth is, if I guy is really into you, YOU CAN'T GET RID OF HIM!.. lol. (After 19yrs of dating, I met a great woman and 8 months later we got married, the last two years have been a mutually healthy and supportive relationship...
I straight up asked a man where he stands when it comes to me and this is what he said: "Idk I'm interested but I feel like so much is going on in my life that's bothering me, I can't focus on somebody other than myself rn it's hard to even focus on myself" it kinda hurts bc I feel like I've been led on but at the end of the day.... "a man's rejection is god's protection"
Girl yes! It's good to ask. I jumped to conclusions and he called me toxic for being anxious on his texts. I think us women need to stop worrying and be ourselves. If we worry and get red flags then they are the problem. We can find someone who isn't bothered by how we show affection. Just for all the women whose guy says they are keen on communication. Don't take their word for it and put that shh to the test. 😂 Save you some time.
@outroseok .. ❤ I hear you Sis .. same for me .. he finally told me the truth , that he was not in the right frame of mind he got lots going on 🙄 and he couldn’t go seriously into a relationship, this was after we been speaking 8 months! And he wanted us to now be friends.. nope 👎🏼 I said bye 👋🏼! Exactly it’s not rejection.. it’s God removing them , now we thank him and praise him ! 🙌🏼
I’m not ready to ask my crush that question,he’s always staring at me and we have some level of history. I have a funny feeling what you just said is what he’d probably say to me. I don’t mind but it’s the staring for me. 😂
1. Avoids eye contact. 2. He does not take advantage of your social media advances. 3. His energy is off. 4. He doesn't ask for your number or offer his. 5. Conversations are shallow, and he doesn't get to know you. 6. He doesn't initiate seeing you. 7. He doesn't allow you into his world.
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not! 💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You can't go by actions. Players are experts at imitating true caring and feelings for you, all the while working on lining up the next victim. It's also easy for them to pretend real feelings, since they may genuinely like you and your company. Women sometimes interpret certain actions as meaning true deep feelings, when the actions are just player actions. Or the actions of a lonely man using you for a placeholder until the right one comes along. They have issues and are probably incapable of real love, empathy, seeing women as human beings. It's hard for them to SAY they have feelings they don't have, though. Look for the man who both shows it through actions and behavior, AND says the words without you asking. He's the real deal.
It's ridiculous that we have come to this as a society. I have never dealt with men so indecisive in my lifetime. I have never had to be confused with men, why is this a thing all of a sudden? It's a huge turn off. I want a man to see me and know I'm his wife, that's it.
Yes ma’am ! It’s like when you ask God to remove certain people and it ends up being someone you’re dating. I believe a man not showing interest is Gods way of making that happen.
Trust God, of course. But don't make the mistake of thinking that God will give you the person you need, or anyone at all. He may not. You may never find a man to love you. Someone faced with letting a player go should know that that may be as good as she'll ever get. Doesn't matter if you're pretty, financially stable, having a nice figure. You may still end up alone.
Exactly.. hardest thing to accept about god is that he is not Santa Claus lol. But I think ppl got this idea back when Jesus was about because imo Jesus was used a LOT by ppl that didn’t even care what he preached but wanted stuff from him like healing, miracles etc. and I think the same type of ppl sit around waiting on Jesus to return today instead of having a relationship with god themselves.
I had to explain the dry response to the dm thing to my client. She was gonna try to message him AGAIN. I'm like GIRL!!! If a man is really interested, it don't take much to pique it. You shot your shot, just let it go. 🤦🏿♀️
This was such a good video. I especially heard you loud and clear when you said "he is not designed for you"! To me that was very deep because a lot of times we see what we want to see not what it actually is.
That and the fact yall could both be great ppl , just not compatible for each other; meaning yall want two different thing , or Your lifestyles are different
This was painful but true! I just got out of something like this simply jecause I was holding onto the crap he fed after I resisted for a very long time. My ego wouldnt allow me to admit that he was never sincere with his intentions. He enjoyed the chase ubtil I let my guard down and I struggled with moving on. When you know better, you do better. Thanks for this!
It seems to me that if you have to sit and wonder if he's really interested in you---+the answer is probably not. I've seen really shy guys going thru hell and high water to get to the person they are interested in!!
Real spill Stephan!! Doing self inventory and owning your own💩 is critical. I’ve done it and it has helped me tremendously. It’s not hard to tell when someone is not interested in you. All you have to do is pay attention to their actions and energy. Both will tell you exactly what you need to know.💯
I continued to paint over the signs and internalized his rejection of my love. I know my love will be appreciated by someone else - it just wasn’t him and that’s okay!
Mines appreciated by anyone girl or guy friends never contact me moatly guys my partner is alot like most of this dudes videos. I just dont give up on people but whats the difference nobody is out there for me
The bible says that pride goes before the fall. Never be too prideful, it will be your downfall. There's absolutely nothing wrong with showing interest first. You don't have to outright ask a dude out inorder to show interest. It could be through eye contact, a smile, touch, stuffs like that. Give a dude something to work with.
Love the videos! I dated (a lot!) for 19 yrs after my divorce. I knew down deep what it would FEEL LIKE to be in a HEALTHY relationship and never settled with any of the 100's of women I met, not that they weren't good people, but I knew within 15 minutes if they were long term dating material. I met my wife two years ago and 8 months later we were married. When you know, you know, it was just easy and flowed naturally without any drama or headaches, my Mom, Best friend, family and son just knew also she was the one for me... why?.. because we both had the life skills for creating happy relationship TOGETHER. And we both CHOOSE to be life partners and daily chose to support each other unselfishly. I never cared about a woman's education, what she had, (she's not some model or size 6) but she really cares about me, cooking good and nutritious meals, keeping a lovely home, giving me attention, praise, support and encouragement, she respects I'm THE MAN of the house, and I treat her great.
Thanks for sharing your opinion. I am wondering something and if your wife wasn't a "good" cook, or didn't housework, would u still marry her knowing it?
@@lyahazuki9728 The VALUE a man my age (60) looks for is not "her education", not "her business skills", not her "social network or INSTAGRAM postings, but her "CONTRIBUTION" to a relationship. If you can't cook, don't know how to decorate, don't keep a clean home, aren't "spiritually a blessing to OUR home (soul connection).. exactly what is your value?... When a man is 30, he marries for children, when a man is 60 he marries because she has a good pension (or assets) and provides a beautiful home and meal for him to come home to and is a great traveling partner... I dated hundreds of woman over 19yrs, if you can't cook and clean.... you didn't last long.... remember, there are woman you play with, and woman you marry.... which do you want to be? .. if your arrogant and don't like this?..... Die Single... I could have married a Trophy wife, but their to emotionally, financially and drama draining.
I do believe folks start with good intentions, then a shift happens. It's sad that people still ghost, or use its not you its me. If it's nit working don't blame or play games, just tell the person directly.
Yep, this one’s for me! I always get ‘half interested’ & hopeful, which in reality translates to ‘No!’ I remember advice on a channel which basically said if you have to ask ‘Why does a man…?’ Then he don’t want you! I hollered. But it’s so true.
Yes you are correct, a real man will be honest with himself and her by just being truthful,letting her know he is not interested. By simply saying, we can just be friends to talk to each other.
All these rules are putting a lot of burden on the woman. It’s frustrating, like I’m supposed to be the prize, if he don’t call text or come around I’m still gonna live my life completely. No one has time to study a man and try to figure out why , what , when and how. Life is too short. Just live love and be happy
22:30 THANK YOU!!! These women gotta stop tryna hold out hope...hoping he change...instead of just getting a better more equally yoked man. Its just that simple!
Yeah it's no ones fault if someone doesn't feel the same. I always struggle with knowing when I've shown enough light on myself for them to know if they like me to begin with. I really hope men can get better at saying "I'm just not feeling it" or "I see you only as a friend". In person I'm much more able to see all that. Social media is a whole other ball game. I just came to terms that I was clear enough and not getting a response, and was direct in a dm that I'll never know actually made it, but I have to assume he did get it. I only want something reciprocal at the end of the day.
Look, just look at it as this. Us guys naturally pursue. If we're really interested, we will already pursue. So if you're available, approachable or already talking to him...and welcoming...if he's interested enough, he will pursue you. If not, he doesn't have much interest in you. Simple as that.
Im saying " hurt my feelings" rip off the bandaid so i can move on, good grief, i just don't understand why they cant just tell us if they dont like us ..then we dont end up mixed up in the head about Their mixed feelings they always show!
Started seeing one this past July, we started going out, nothing happened sexually. I had to tell him that I was done because I could see there wasn't any interest. I explained what I meant by what I said, he pleaded his case about the fact that he was interested I bought into what he said. We continued to go out to eat. He would try to have sex but I wouldn't let him. September 29th was his birthday, I asked what he had planned, he said "to go out with you." I was flattered. He thought we would have sex after we went out, because it was his birthday I paid. We got back to my place he tried then, I wouldn't give in - I'm a true born Christian and I aim to Please God, not him or satan. Two days after his birthday, we went to the Anthony Hamilton's concert, he tried again, this is where I had to again, address the elephant in the room. I explained that I could not and would not have sex with him, that was yesterday. Today I haven't heard from him. Today at work was very stressful, and a little down for me, but I concluded this is all my fault. #1. He's not Christian, said he was before, but after a divorce he stopped going to church or acknowledging God. #2. I allowed him to kiss me on my mouth about a month after we started going out, I mention this because I didn't know where I was him. He was calming down talking about us. After our talk on Saturday, and him being told again that I couldn't give him sex, we haven't talked, texted, or reached out to each other after he found out he wasn't getting sex. I can't believe at age 60 this is what I'm having to deal with. I took some nuggets about me and how I conducted myself - I'll do better the next one I entertain.
This one guy led me on for like 6 months "knowing" he was not interested in me. I kept asking him if he was and if he wanted something more, I never got a straight answer, but he would call me everyday and literally tell me what he wanted in a wife, then he ended up being interested in someone else while I was still waiting for his answer.--Guys, this is something you DON'T DO. If she's asking you, just answer the question you either want her or you don't. She's asking you for a reason! Don't waste her time, the longer you keep dragging things on the more you're going to hurt her.
Thank God for you. You're such a blessing for so many people. I am so grateful for your purpose and your honesty is definitely a breath of fresh air. May God bless you on your journey. 🤍
I had this guy who would flirt over DMS, comment on photos, wanted to exchange numbers but wanted to text all day about nothing. I told him hey call me and talk on the phone I’m really not trying to text back and fourth I’m grown. I told him this multiple times and he still would still keep texting me like a kid. Then when we finally got on the phone he had nothing to say and got off the phone so fast. Still did the text thing so I said I’m not into it. Didn’t hear from him again lol. At my age I’ll be 27 this year I don’t need the games. At that point you could be texting ten other girls but if you call then I know you actually wanna hear from me. I don’t mind texting during the day if you’re already my man but not for getting to know someone.
Great video❣️🔥🔥🔥I totally agree, Because some people maybe attractive. It maybe wise not to assume that they are attracted…People can say things in an generalized perspective that can appear to be misleading, but it’s all in their head. I think men should be careful in how they speak towards women in these days of time. Because a man can say things in an loving matter of being his true self to all women. However; there are many women whom never heard or felt what “Love” really feels like. A loving man can open up a women heart chakra and that particular women may not innerstand that it’s apart of her healing. So, she may feel infatuated and confused about how she is feeling towards that man. We call that being “fatal attraction” a man can say loving things to women. But, because KINDNESS is a commodity often confused with desire. A person may never know by words, but his actions will tell it all.
I found your videos recently. You are insightful and express balanced views which respect the unique psychology of both men and women in healthy relationships. Been watching and listening, resonating with a lot of the content. I cried when I got to this one. The reasons you described in this video hit close to home. Every point you discussed, I've been treated in such a way by my ex. It hurt to see the truth spelled out like this, but in honesty there is empowerment. I need to stop dedicating myself to men that show me in so many ways, they aren't that into me. I need to do some reflecting. I need to respect myself. Thanks for helping me along the journey.
That's all we had was good conversations he even told me personal things about his life show me a lot of beautiful things I even met his parents. I new him for about 20 years he had me confuse cause how he was acting as if we was and a relationship so I was happy until one day we got into a argument and he screamed at me and said don't talk to him like that you're not my girlfriend that really hurt me I was so confused that day just hung up on him and text him and told him never call me again and that was it
All I gotta say is, God is a very mysterious spirit lol I didn’t know & had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER!!! That I was going to meet Stephan. And he is a wonderful human being on & off camera. He’s a real joy to be around. All I have to say is, if you ever meet him, please… pleaseee!!! Be yourself around him. Lol
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I guess not lol I was asking because your advice would be even better if your gf or wife comes on along with you.. my bf and I are thinking of doing the same.
Hi Stephan, I've been watching your videos for a while now and have taken good advice. However, in this video you talk about a guy not being interested by no eye contact. I have learned from personal experience by myself and interaction with others especially my ex partner, that no eye contact is NOT because they are not interested. Is can be a number of different reasons like 1. Social anxiety 2. They are going through trauma I'm their life and have a sheild up 3. They suffer with depression 4. Eye contact can make them feel judged and insecure 5. When you're very attracted to someone and give eye contact it can make you shy and uncomfortable and feel like their rejecting you. These are just a few of many reasons for no eye contact. So please review this and remember there is many different alternative reasons for this.
Most of the time they only want to sleep with you, and that’s why they don’t put any offer. I date a guy who in the begin want to get married and this and that. Second date he ask me if we could go to his place. I said no. Next day he told me we are not compatible 😪
It's very likely that he was serious at the beggining but he lost his interest (in marring you) somewhere along the way. But he still wants to sleep with you... Why not? 😜
This confuses me atm because of mental struggles...I did show interest in a few ppl but it either didn't pan out or they seemed not interested (with how I was, I can understand why)...I've gotten to a point that I feel I should be alone, which sucks because I did want to share my life with someone special...I always wanted them to be themselves as well as not needing high standards (because I look at vibes, not superficial things) so idk it is what it is
I had to learn the signs when someone doesn't want to talk to me. And when I see the signs someone doesn't want to talk to me i distance myself because I am not going to talk to someone that does not want to talk to me. I don't force anyone to be in my life. You're right not everyone is going to like me. There are plenty of people that i don't like that i don't want to talk to . But see the only time I didn't want to talk to someone is if they did something wrong to me or i didn't like the way they treated others.
Watching this video is taking me back to those golden years wasting my time in all these long winded friendship connections with guys. Even my mum was skeptical about me spending my time with these guys wondering if they like me or not
What I admire about your videos is that you always try to keep your insights and inputs realistic and express them in a constructive way. And for this video's topic, I've been dealing with a man showing those stuffs enough to prove his interest in me. What's just very off is that he knows that I know he already has a long term girlfriend, yet he still continues to show all those signs of interest. I already talked to him about it for him to stop whatever he is up to because I want to maintain a civil relationship with him as our jobs connect us for days every week but he still seems deaf to my words. And I'm like, okay bye.
I’ve found that if you want a guy to think you are nice , just let him talk and talk and talk all about himself . Ask him about himself and Notice he might not ask you hardly anything about You and Your life . If He does He will breeze over what You say quickly and then get back to talking about himself . If you have a conversation like this , He will want to call you again and meet you . Probably tell You He is interested . The thing is if a Man does this and most do . I don’t want ever talk to them again let alone meet them .
I've had this happen, more than once... 😞 I'll meet guys, but when we talk on the phone, it's all about THEM & their interests, etc... I used to be "naive" to that, but now I pick up on are they asking ME any questions about myself or my life???? I do like a guy that actually talks & isn't "quiet or shy", but dominating the conversation starts to get very old!!!
@@cheryljones2009 yes so agree .I never meet a guy without a phone call or two first . One that lasts at least over 20 minutes. I let Him take the lead to see if He will ask about Me . So many Men don’t ask much at all but as I said talk non stop about themselves . It’s such a turn off.
Omg Stephan your making so much sense but I’m completely confused about my situation if you have way of me getting my information to you I bet you’ll speak on this to all us women who’s dealing with my issue. Lawd help me cause your video help me but then when you say certain things that men do it’s not being done to me and it’s confusing the heck out of me to even go forward or stop!! HELP ME PLEASE😂😂😅
Funny But some women don't know or haven't been taught what signs to look for in order to know. A person can't do what they don't know. Also, you can't look anyone in the eye if there's no kind of visual communication. If they don't or won't want to meet you, see you or FaceTime even, that's a problem! ...Communication...
It was my fault things didn’t work . He wasn’t acting the same so I said some really really bad things and now he really doesn’t want to talk . I knew it was over when I FaceTimed him crying and I hung up and he never called me back 😢. I just blocked him so I can forget and move on …. Oh and that was his first time seeing/hearing me cry .
💝IT WOULD TAKE ME A DAY TO KNOW WHERE HE'S COMING FROM!! SELF CARE, RESPONSIBLE, HONESTY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME!! DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER!! LIKE CHARISMA, GOOD LOOKING, ETC.!! THANK YOU STEPHAN TO REFRESH NEW DATING GUIDANCE!! ♥
…I told this one guy flat out that I was interested in him and the next day, this dude was telling me what he was going to do to me in bed!! HUGE TURN OFF! Why do some men do that?
Because you did that too directly or too soon for his male ego to handle, so he got a big head and thought you were desperate and he could come at you like that. Men have double standards. Sucks for us but they do. SMH
Yes on everything! Thank you for this. What about if your boyfriend of 2 years continues to accuse you of cheating on him with friends he names, and I constantly let him know I never cheated? Its like everything is great, then he questions me with “you sure you arent cheating?” Its so draining like an emotional roller coaster 😞
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate that and I am praying for him, but I had to let him go and completely cut off. As I do not deserve to be treated like that. Enjoy your content 🍃
I don't understand. The conversations went from friendly and getting to know each other to a complete switch, colder, and more shallow and only work related. So by this, he has another interest or whatever. I feel completely shut out, so I shut up. Not playing these games.
Lol. I like the DM part but I don't even know how to do that have to have help. I'm not the flirty type anyway but I can recognize when a guy isn't interested and I respect him with that.
Presenting my best self? Well, I present my authentic self, which is good enough. I am watching this video because the lovely shy guy I set my eyes upon has been sending me mixed signals. Well, I am moving on 🤷🏼♀️
Stephan please stay out of my head!! Everything that you mentioned in the video about how some women react when they see a nice looking man described me to the T!! 😀😀. I definitely will look but then if he looks back I break eye contact because I too am a little shy and so I just glance and keep it moving. I’m still not completely comfortable with expressing my interest in someone but maybe I’ll get to this point one day. I’m so use to men showing interest first and then going from there. Thanks for sharing your clarity on this topic, very helpful!!
Quick questions. How do you deal with all this when you know but you have to see them all the time? Vice versa, how do you deal with it when you know but you know the person is always around even if you never meet or care to meet them, after time and healing has told you. How do you deal with both scenarios?
thank you, so much 🤝🏼 I know I'm a damn good person and young woman. grateful to know my worth and not letting a man distract me or mislead me, to not see my own worth in myself, because he wants to keep me, unhappy and yet, can you please 🥺 tell me, why do men tend to keep you unhappy when you know you deserve happiness. yet, a man can move on with someone else and make them happy but keep you unhappy 🤦🏽♀️ good video ✊🏼 much 💜 for your honesty in man's actions
Or maybe they just trying to get the upper hand because they think you’re not really interested in them! Insecure. Pluto power games where should be love games. ❤ This Libra time and retrograde should help bring balance (or an end!) to the squirrelly situation! Sheesh.
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Yes, women do notice that the man is not interested but unfortunately they keep insisting thinking that he will give in eventually. I don't waste my time. Not interested, I move on.
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My problem is sometimes I don’t listen to my intuition. I’ve changed that.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
This! Saved me so much drama and hurt.
I am not even asking anymore how what why.
I move on and disappear like he never excisted.😂😂😂
Same
Tunnel vision and fixation is the enemy. Never let a man tell you he don't want you twice.
Ooof yes ma’am!
Preach that! 👏👏👏
Amen
Meh. Some of us need to hear it multiple times.
"A guy can like you and not be THAT into you." Great statement! 👏👏👏 Us ladies need to be mindful of this, and not go into fantasy land about a man that's just not that into us.
Indeed, it really helps when people embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤
This makes sense of my recent events ty💜🙏
@@susananderson4835 I understand. It's a lesson near and dear to my heart as well...as I too, am having to realize this in my own situation. Sadly, we can like him more than he likes us back, and the sooner we realize this truth, the better.
Best wishes Susan and thank you for sharing. 💕💕💕
I think often a woman (or man) knows exactly if a person is really into them yes or no, they just choose to ignore the red flags.
I'm a 60yr old guy that dated for 19yrs before finding a life partner in my new wife. I dated many women for at least a year making it clear I was not looking to get married again and didn't want something serious. (the truth is, I didn't want anything serious with them) if a man isn't texting and wanting to be with you everyday, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, if he isn't talking marriage within a year, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Women go along with dating a guy for many years without a getting a ring hoping this will change in the future. Truth is, if I guy is really into you, YOU CAN'T GET RID OF HIM!.. lol. (After 19yrs of dating, I met a great woman and 8 months later we got married, the last two years have been a mutually healthy and supportive relationship...
I would rather him say he's not interested than him saying he is interested BUT his actions says he's not....The games people play....
Prefer that too
What about the man who says he’s not interested but acts like he is and does things like a boyfriend
Me to girl …
@@tiffyfittaz6550 he's not interested
Men will keep you around because you’re benefit now or could be later. “Always be my maybe.. l
Energy doesn’t lie 🙏 if something or someone doesn’t feel right don’t ignore gut instincts 🙏❤️
So hard tho
Always important to listen to your intuation.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I regretted acting on this and still do as I miss my partner. However self respect comes first, but my heart is still in it..
So true. Im glad I know how to feel and tune in with my energy. It saved me from that confusing guy.
That gut feeling is the Holy Spirit
I straight up asked a man where he stands when it comes to me and this is what he said:
"Idk I'm interested but I feel like so much is going on in my life that's bothering me, I can't focus on somebody other than myself rn it's hard to even focus on myself"
it kinda hurts bc I feel like I've been led on but at the end of the day....
"a man's rejection is god's protection"
Girl yes! It's good to ask. I jumped to conclusions and he called me toxic for being anxious on his texts. I think us women need to stop worrying and be ourselves. If we worry and get red flags then they are the problem. We can find someone who isn't bothered by how we show affection.
Just for all the women whose guy says they are keen on communication. Don't take their word for it and put that shh to the test. 😂
Save you some time.
@outroseok ..
❤ I hear you Sis .. same for me .. he finally told me the truth , that he was not in the right frame of mind he got lots going on 🙄 and he couldn’t go seriously into a relationship, this was after we been speaking 8 months!
And he wanted us to now be friends.. nope 👎🏼 I said bye 👋🏼!
Exactly it’s not rejection.. it’s God removing them , now we thank him and praise him !
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Girl I’m in the same boat rn!!!
I’m not ready to ask my crush that question,he’s always staring at me and we have some level of history. I have a funny feeling what you just said is what he’d probably say to me. I don’t mind but it’s the staring for me. 😂
1. Avoids eye contact.
2. He does not take advantage of your social media advances.
3. His energy is off.
4. He doesn't ask for your number or offer his.
5. Conversations are shallow, and he doesn't get to know you.
6. He doesn't initiate seeing you.
7. He doesn't allow you into his world.
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
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Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤
Plz read my comment above
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You can't go by actions. Players are experts at imitating true caring and feelings for you, all the while working on lining up the next victim. It's also easy for them to pretend real feelings, since they may genuinely like you and your company. Women sometimes interpret certain actions as meaning true deep feelings, when the actions are just player actions. Or the actions of a lonely man using you for a placeholder until the right one comes along. They have issues and are probably incapable of real love, empathy, seeing women as human beings. It's hard for them to SAY they have feelings they don't have, though. Look for the man who both shows it through actions and behavior, AND says the words without you asking. He's the real deal.
@@Honeycombe88 Well said.
It's ridiculous that we have come to this as a society. I have never dealt with men so indecisive in my lifetime. I have never had to be confused with men, why is this a thing all of a sudden? It's a huge turn off. I want a man to see me and know I'm his wife, that's it.
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You’re not being realistic. He can’t know you just by seeing you and vice versa
Same!
I feel you on this fr !
"He's not *able* to give more"... like he's married and he likes to keep you on a string for his ego?
Yep lots of those scenarios. Sigh.
I’m not focused on a man right now! My relationship with THE LORD JESUS, GOD is my main focus!🔥🔥🔥
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Trust God that’s the best advice, he will give the person you need. Love can’t be so complicated.
Waiting on God's timing is hard sis but we push through ❤
Yes ma’am ! It’s like when you ask God to remove certain people and it ends up being someone you’re dating. I believe a man not showing interest is Gods way of making that happen.
Trust God, of course. But don't make the mistake of thinking that God will give you the person you need, or anyone at all. He may not. You may never find a man to love you. Someone faced with letting a player go should know that that may be as good as she'll ever get. Doesn't matter if you're pretty, financially stable, having a nice figure. You may still end up alone.
Indeed love can’t be complicated. Thank u
Exactly.. hardest thing to accept about god is that he is not Santa Claus lol. But I think ppl got this idea back when Jesus was about because imo Jesus was used a LOT by ppl that didn’t even care what he preached but wanted stuff from him like healing, miracles etc. and I think the same type of ppl sit around waiting on Jesus to return today instead of having a relationship with god themselves.
I had to explain the dry response to the dm thing to my client. She was gonna try to message him AGAIN. I'm like GIRL!!! If a man is really interested, it don't take much to pique it. You shot your shot, just let it go. 🤦🏿♀️
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This was such a good video. I especially heard you loud and clear when you said "he is not designed for you"! To me that was very deep because a lot of times we see what we want to see not what it actually is.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
That and the fact yall could both be great ppl , just not compatible for each other; meaning yall want two different thing , or Your lifestyles are different
This was painful but true! I just got out of something like this simply jecause I was holding onto the crap he fed after I resisted for a very long time. My ego wouldnt allow me to admit that he was never sincere with his intentions. He enjoyed the chase ubtil I let my guard down and I struggled with moving on. When you know better, you do better. Thanks for this!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
It still hurts. It’s ok to grieve and ask why as you move on.
It seems to me that if you have to sit and wonder if he's really interested in you---+the answer is probably not. I've seen really shy guys going thru hell and high water to get to the person they are interested in!!
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Real spill Stephan!! Doing self inventory and owning your own💩 is critical. I’ve done it and it has helped me tremendously. It’s not hard to tell when someone is not interested in you. All you have to do is pay attention to their actions and energy. Both will tell you exactly what you need to know.💯
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Exactly
Indeed Sis!
Hi CJizzy, your comment got my attention. You're right but I got some comments for you too on this issue. Do you mind?
I continued to paint over the signs and internalized his rejection of my love. I know my love will be appreciated by someone else - it just wasn’t him and that’s okay!
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Mines appreciated by anyone girl or guy friends never contact me moatly guys my partner is alot like most of this dudes videos. I just dont give up on people but whats the difference nobody is out there for me
I'm trying to get to where you are. It's been almost two years now
I have never and will never let a man know I’m interested first. My ego and pride is HUGE and gets in the way. 🤷🏽♀️
Yes but more so it would be far toooo forward and aggressive for me to ever do such a thing
The bible says that pride goes before the fall. Never be too prideful, it will be your downfall. There's absolutely nothing wrong with showing interest first. You don't have to outright ask a dude out inorder to show interest. It could be through eye contact, a smile, touch, stuffs like that. Give a dude something to work with.
Love the videos! I dated (a lot!) for 19 yrs after my divorce. I knew down deep what it would FEEL LIKE to be in a HEALTHY relationship and never settled with any of the 100's of women I met, not that they weren't good people, but I knew within 15 minutes if they were long term dating material. I met my wife two years ago and 8 months later we were married. When you know, you know, it was just easy and flowed naturally without any drama or headaches, my Mom, Best friend, family and son just knew also she was the one for me... why?.. because we both had the life skills for creating happy relationship TOGETHER. And we both CHOOSE to be life partners and daily chose to support each other unselfishly. I never cared about a woman's education, what she had, (she's not some model or size 6) but she really cares about me, cooking good and nutritious meals, keeping a lovely home, giving me attention, praise, support and encouragement, she respects I'm THE MAN of the house, and I treat her great.
Real love. Blessings
Thanks for sharing your opinion. I am wondering something and if your wife wasn't a "good" cook, or didn't housework, would u still marry her knowing it?
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@@lyahazuki9728 The VALUE a man my age (60) looks for is not "her education", not "her business skills", not her "social network or INSTAGRAM postings, but her "CONTRIBUTION" to a relationship. If you can't cook, don't know how to decorate, don't keep a clean home, aren't "spiritually a blessing to OUR home (soul connection).. exactly what is your value?... When a man is 30, he marries for children, when a man is 60 he marries because she has a good pension (or assets) and provides a beautiful home and meal for him to come home to and is a great traveling partner... I dated hundreds of woman over 19yrs, if you can't cook and clean.... you didn't last long.... remember, there are woman you play with, and woman you marry.... which do you want to be? .. if your arrogant and don't like this?..... Die Single... I could have married a Trophy wife, but their to emotionally, financially and drama draining.
Here to get my feelings hurt lol 🤷😅
😂 it’s all good!!! 🙏🏾
😂 me too
Lol yea same. Never fails.
So funny, THEIR LOSS TGOUGH SIS! 😌😌😌 on ALL of us!!! LOL 😎✨
I felt that! A real man, man of GOD don’t hurt! You’ll know when he’s the right one!🔥❤
You cannot imagine at what point your video came at the right moment. Thank you so, so much.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
I do believe folks start with good intentions, then a shift happens. It's sad that people still ghost, or use its not you its me. If it's nit working don't blame or play games, just tell the person directly.
Yep, this one’s for me! I always get ‘half interested’ & hopeful, which in reality translates to ‘No!’ I remember advice on a channel which basically said if you have to ask ‘Why does a man…?’ Then he don’t want you! I hollered. But it’s so true.
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Yes you are correct, a real man will be honest with himself and her by just being truthful,letting her know he is not interested. By simply saying, we can just be friends to talk to each other.
Never ignoring my intuition again! Never Again!
Always important to listen to your intuition
This was hard to watch bc I know he just never liked me. Great message. Thanks Stephan
Great video! Don’t internalize rejection. Don’t take it personally. Best advice ever.. they are designed for you..
All these rules are putting a lot of burden on the woman. It’s frustrating, like I’m supposed to be the prize, if he don’t call text or come around I’m still gonna live my life completely. No one has time to study a man and try to figure out why , what , when and how. Life is too short. Just live love and be happy
Well said!
Yess ❤
Exactly.
A man who wants you will do what it takes to have you I wasted five years chasing someone who wasn’t really transparent and didn’t wanna commit anyway
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Unfortunately sounds so simple and easy to just move on..but in actuality it takes years of practice to become so enlightened
Most times they'll come right out and tell you, or give you an excuse! We just have to listen and believe them!
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And even if they don't tell you, move on
@@MeetStephanSpeaks pplpppppplllllllll
22:30 THANK YOU!!!
These women gotta stop tryna hold out hope...hoping he change...instead of just getting a better more equally yoked man. Its just that simple!
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Yeah it's no ones fault if someone doesn't feel the same. I always struggle with knowing when I've shown enough light on myself for them to know if they like me to begin with. I really hope men can get better at saying "I'm just not feeling it" or "I see you only as a friend". In person I'm much more able to see all that. Social media is a whole other ball game. I just came to terms that I was clear enough and not getting a response, and was direct in a dm that I'll never know actually made it, but I have to assume he did get it. I only want something reciprocal at the end of the day.
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Look, just look at it as this. Us guys naturally pursue. If we're really interested, we will already pursue.
So if you're available, approachable or already talking to him...and welcoming...if he's interested enough, he will pursue you. If not, he doesn't have much interest in you. Simple as that.
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I'm not a guy but yes I totally agree!!!
Well said 💯
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That’s is so true. When I do see a guy that I’m interested in I try my best to not let him know. Lol
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Im saying " hurt my feelings" rip off the bandaid so i can move on, good grief, i just don't understand why they cant just tell us if they dont like us ..then we dont end up mixed up in the head about Their mixed feelings they always show!
Started seeing one this past July, we started going out, nothing happened sexually. I had to tell him that I was done because I could see there wasn't any interest. I explained what I meant by what I said, he pleaded his case about the fact that he was interested I bought into what he said. We continued to go out to eat. He would try to have sex but I wouldn't let him. September 29th was his birthday, I asked what he had planned, he said "to go out with you." I was flattered. He thought we would have sex after we went out, because it was his birthday I paid. We got back to my place he tried then, I wouldn't give in - I'm a true born Christian and I aim to Please God, not him or satan. Two days after his birthday, we went to the Anthony Hamilton's concert, he tried again, this is where I had to again, address the elephant in the room. I explained that I could not and would not have sex with him, that was yesterday. Today I haven't heard from him. Today at work was very stressful, and a little down for me, but I concluded this is all my fault.
#1. He's not Christian, said he was before, but after a divorce he stopped going to church or acknowledging God.
#2. I allowed him to kiss me on my mouth about a month after we started going out, I mention this because I didn't know where I was him. He was calming down talking about us. After our talk on Saturday, and him being told again that I couldn't give him sex, we haven't talked, texted, or reached out to each other after he found out he wasn't getting sex. I can't believe at age 60 this is what I'm having to deal with. I took some nuggets about me and how I conducted myself - I'll do better the next one I entertain.
Because they might get "some" out of it
This is an answered prayer for a prayer I prayed 4 hours ago. TY
This one guy led me on for like 6 months "knowing" he was not interested in me. I kept asking him if he was and if he wanted something more, I never got a straight answer, but he would call me everyday and literally tell me what he wanted in a wife, then he ended up being interested in someone else while I was still waiting for his answer.--Guys, this is something you DON'T DO. If she's asking you, just answer the question you either want her or you don't. She's asking you for a reason! Don't waste her time, the longer you keep dragging things on the more you're going to hurt her.
Thanks Stephan for "holding our hands as we walk our journeys through life. Learning a lot from your videos. God bless you.
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This is THE BEST advice I’ve watched from this man so far Stephan!
I appreciate that ❤
Thank God for you. You're such a blessing for so many people. I am so grateful for your purpose and your honesty is definitely a breath of fresh air. May God bless you on your journey. 🤍
Hello friend 👋
If it’s forced it’s not for you! I will remember that.
I had this guy who would flirt over DMS, comment on photos, wanted to exchange numbers but wanted to text all day about nothing. I told him hey call me and talk on the phone I’m really not trying to text back and fourth I’m grown. I told him this multiple times and he still would still keep texting me like a kid. Then when we finally got on the phone he had nothing to say and got off the phone so fast. Still did the text thing so I said I’m not into it. Didn’t hear from him again lol. At my age I’ll be 27 this year I don’t need the games. At that point you could be texting ten other girls but if you call then I know you actually wanna hear from me. I don’t mind texting during the day if you’re already my man but not for getting to know someone.
Great video❣️🔥🔥🔥I totally agree, Because some people maybe attractive. It maybe wise not to assume that they are attracted…People can say things in an generalized perspective that can appear to be misleading, but it’s all in their head. I think men should be careful in how they speak towards women in these days of time. Because a man can say things in an loving matter of being his true self to all women. However; there are many women whom never heard or felt what “Love” really feels like. A loving man can open up a women heart chakra and that particular women may not innerstand that it’s apart of her healing. So, she may feel infatuated and confused about how she is feeling towards that man. We call that being “fatal attraction” a man can say loving things to women. But, because KINDNESS is a commodity often confused with desire. A person may never know by words, but his actions will tell it all.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I found your videos recently. You are insightful and express balanced views which respect the unique psychology of both men and women in healthy relationships. Been watching and listening, resonating with a lot of the content. I cried when I got to this one. The reasons you described in this video hit close to home. Every point you discussed, I've been treated in such a way by my ex. It hurt to see the truth spelled out like this, but in honesty there is empowerment. I need to stop dedicating myself to men that show me in so many ways, they aren't that into me. I need to do some reflecting. I need to respect myself. Thanks for helping me along the journey.
You look AMAZING in that color sir! 🍷🤷🏾♀️👌🏾
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I’m really happy you’ve done a video on these early stages… I feel like I’m “not taking the hint” and because it’s so early it’s hard to tell.
This is crazy but so true... The first sign I see I'm gone lol 💯
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I'm only the first three and a half minutes in and cracking up, because you are so right!! Lol
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Preach, the world will not change and mold to make my experience more pleasant and comfortable. Great break down and advice!
That's all we had was good conversations he even told me personal things about his life show me a lot of beautiful things I even met his parents. I new him for about 20 years he had me confuse cause how he was acting as if we was and a relationship so I was happy until one day we got into a argument and he screamed at me and said don't talk to him like that you're not my girlfriend that really hurt me I was so confused that day just hung up on him and text him and told him never call me again and that was it
I'm sorry to gear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
All I gotta say is, God is a very mysterious spirit lol I didn’t know & had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER!!! That I was going to meet Stephan. And he is a wonderful human being on & off camera. He’s a real joy to be around. All I have to say is, if you ever meet him, please… pleaseee!!! Be yourself around him. Lol
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I think the more I grow the less interested in starting a relationship now.
A man can flirt with you take you out and make love to you and still not be interested.. hello
Unfortunately it happens to a lot of people!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks are you single ?
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I guess not lol I was asking because your advice would be even better if your gf or wife comes on along with you.. my bf and I are thinking of doing the same.
Your hair and beard looks so amazing in this video, you’re glistening lol.
Hello friend 👋
Hi Stephan, I've been watching your videos for a while now and have taken good advice. However, in this video you talk about a guy not being interested by no eye contact. I have learned from personal experience by myself and interaction with others especially my ex partner, that no eye contact is NOT because they are not interested. Is can be a number of different reasons like
1. Social anxiety
2. They are going through trauma I'm their life and have a sheild up
3. They suffer with depression
4. Eye contact can make them feel judged and insecure
5. When you're very attracted to someone and give eye contact it can make you shy and uncomfortable and feel like their rejecting you.
These are just a few of many reasons for no eye contact.
So please review this and remember there is many different alternative reasons for this.
Most of the time they only want to sleep with you, and that’s why they don’t put any offer.
I date a guy who in the begin want to get married and this and that.
Second date he ask me if we could go to his place. I said no. Next day he told me we are not compatible 😪
It's very likely that he was serious at the beggining but he lost his interest (in marring you) somewhere along the way. But he still wants to sleep with you... Why not? 😜
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That's how it be with these kind of men out here but you got to keep it moving
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🤣 these men are something else Chile! Can we say #liar!
I hate Lukewarm men I don’t deal with them lol
You describe women's behaviour so well😂 I recognized myself in it.
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Just what I needed to hear today.
Thank you!
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Yes
This confuses me atm because of mental struggles...I did show interest in a few ppl but it either didn't pan out or they seemed not interested (with how I was, I can understand why)...I've gotten to a point that I feel I should be alone, which sucks because I did want to share my life with someone special...I always wanted them to be themselves as well as not needing high standards (because I look at vibes, not superficial things) so idk it is what it is
I had to learn the signs when someone doesn't want to talk to me. And when I see the signs someone doesn't want to talk to me i distance myself because I am not going to talk to someone that does not want to talk to me. I don't force anyone to be in my life. You're right not everyone is going to like me. There are plenty of people that i don't like that i don't want to talk to . But see the only time I didn't want to talk to someone is if they did something wrong to me or i didn't like the way they treated others.
Watching this video is taking me back to those golden years wasting my time in all these long winded friendship connections with guys. Even my mum was skeptical about me spending my time with these guys wondering if they like me or not
What I admire about your videos is that you always try to keep your insights and inputs realistic and express them in a constructive way. And for this video's topic, I've been dealing with a man showing those stuffs enough to prove his interest in me. What's just very off is that he knows that I know he already has a long term girlfriend, yet he still continues to show all those signs of interest. I already talked to him about it for him to stop whatever he is up to because I want to maintain a civil relationship with him as our jobs connect us for days every week but he still seems deaf to my words. And I'm like, okay bye.
I’ve found that if you want a guy to think you are nice , just let him talk and talk and talk all about himself .
Ask him about himself and Notice he might not ask you hardly anything about You and Your life .
If He does He will breeze over what You say quickly and then get back to talking about himself .
If you have a conversation like this
, He will want to call you again and meet you . Probably tell You He is interested .
The thing is if a Man does this and most do .
I don’t want ever talk to them again let alone meet them .
I've had this happen, more than once... 😞 I'll meet guys, but when we talk on the phone, it's all about THEM & their interests, etc... I used to be "naive" to that, but now I pick up on are they asking ME any questions about myself or my life????
I do like a guy that actually talks & isn't "quiet or shy", but dominating the conversation starts to get very old!!!
@@cheryljones2009 yes so agree .I never meet a guy without a phone call or two first .
One that lasts at least over 20 minutes.
I let Him take the lead to see if He will ask about Me .
So many Men don’t ask much at all but as I said talk non stop about themselves .
It’s such a turn off.
What you’re saying is all 100% fax I just excuse myself from the same exact situation for those reasons that you’re talking about
Omg Stephan your making so much sense but I’m completely confused about my situation if you have way of me getting my information to you I bet you’ll speak on this to all us women who’s dealing with my issue. Lawd help me cause your video help me but then when you say certain things that men do it’s not being done to me and it’s confusing the heck out of me to even go forward or stop!! HELP ME PLEASE😂😂😅
You are so onpoint stephan I always enjoy watching your videos.
I appreciate that 🙏
So much clarity in this video. TY
Men seem so into themselves these days lol
I swear social media has turned them into clout demons who want to be chased.
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Narcissism.
Been crying so much
Hey Stephan! Greetings from Brazil! Just wanted to say that, besides the excelent contet of your videos, your english is so easy to understand!!
Here to get some sense.
Thank you king 🙏
My pleasure ❤️
Your right about not having any interest because of my past issues with men 👍🏾
Funny
But some women don't know or haven't been taught what signs to look for in order to know. A person can't do what they don't know.
Also, you can't look anyone in the eye if there's no kind of visual communication. If they don't or won't want to meet you, see you or FaceTime even, that's a problem!
...Communication...
I don't do witchcraft!
It was my fault things didn’t work . He wasn’t acting the same so I said some really really bad things and now he really doesn’t want to talk . I knew it was over when I FaceTimed him crying and I hung up and he never called me back 😢. I just blocked him so I can forget and move on …. Oh and that was his first time seeing/hearing me cry .
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
💝IT WOULD TAKE ME A DAY TO KNOW WHERE HE'S COMING FROM!! SELF CARE, RESPONSIBLE, HONESTY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME!! DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER!! LIKE CHARISMA, GOOD LOOKING, ETC.!! THANK YOU STEPHAN TO REFRESH NEW DATING GUIDANCE!! ♥
…I told this one guy flat out that I was interested in him and the next day, this dude was telling me what he was going to do to me in bed!! HUGE TURN OFF! Why do some men do that?
My video on why men get too sexual too early will give you the clarity you need. Check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/LdUKO6LGRzQ/v-deo.html
Because you did that too directly or too soon for his male ego to handle, so he got a big head and thought you were desperate and he could come at you like that. Men have double standards. Sucks for us but they do. SMH
This came just in time! Thank you so much Stephan!
My pleasure ❤️
Man you hit the nail on the head with this one today!!
🙏❤ Thank you!
Yes on everything! Thank you for this. What about if your boyfriend of 2 years continues to accuse you of cheating on him with friends he names, and I constantly let him know I never cheated? Its like everything is great, then he questions me with “you sure you arent cheating?” Its so draining like an emotional roller coaster 😞
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate that and I am praying for him, but I had to let him go and completely cut off. As I do not deserve to be treated like that. Enjoy your content 🍃
He’s projecting
Off topic, you look good in maroon, Stephan!
Great video! Thank you Stephan! You’re such a breath of fresh air listening to your videos!
This video is everything i need it thank you Stephan for always making such a beautiful and helpful videos for all us,send you big love
I don't understand. The conversations went from friendly and getting to know each other to a complete switch, colder, and more shallow and only work related. So by this, he has another interest or whatever. I feel completely shut out, so I shut up. Not playing these games.
This is my same experience. I am left bewildered. What happened?
@@sunshinecasea8834 I'm sorry 😞
He’s not interested he was just flirty !
@@Meyouletsgo it's a shame, we'd be great.
Lol. I like the DM part but I don't even know how to do that have to have help. I'm not the flirty type anyway but I can recognize when a guy isn't interested and I respect him with that.
Presenting my best self? Well, I present my authentic self, which is good enough. I am watching this video because the lovely shy guy I set my eyes upon has been sending me mixed signals. Well, I am moving on 🤷🏼♀️
Same here . The mixed signals are so confusing and exhausting . I don’t get it ! Just be straightforward- we’re grown 🤷🏽♀️
Stephan please stay out of my head!! Everything that you mentioned in the video about how some women react when they see a nice looking man described me to the T!! 😀😀. I definitely will look but then if he looks back I break eye contact because I too am a little shy and so I just glance and keep it moving. I’m still not completely comfortable with expressing my interest in someone but maybe I’ll get to this point one day. I’m so use to men showing interest first and then going from there. Thanks for sharing your clarity on this topic, very helpful!!
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Quick questions. How do you deal with all this when you know but you have to see them all the time? Vice versa, how do you deal with it when you know but you know the person is always around even if you never meet or care to meet them, after time and healing has told you. How do you deal with both scenarios?
Many women who are Career , Educated don’t use social media. Let’s skip that
thank you, so much 🤝🏼 I know I'm a damn good person and young woman. grateful to know my worth and not letting a man distract me or mislead me, to not see my own worth in myself, because he wants to keep me, unhappy and yet, can you please 🥺 tell me, why do men tend to keep you unhappy when you know you deserve happiness. yet, a man can move on with someone else and make them happy but keep you unhappy 🤦🏽♀️ good video ✊🏼 much 💜 for your honesty in man's actions
"Men are struggled with rejecting women." 👌👌👌
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Facts love it
If he don’t act on it - exactly
Force is unnecessary
Connection is important indeed
Or maybe they just trying to get the upper hand because they think you’re not really interested in them! Insecure. Pluto power games where should be love games. ❤ This Libra time and retrograde should help bring balance (or an end!) to the squirrelly situation! Sheesh.
You are amazing ❤️ thank you so much for this
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
He doesn't ask for your number or ask you out, doesn't talk to you, just says "hi".
Honestly, this video came right when I needed it, I say thank you a lot, but I truly thank God for you and this channel, this is amazing.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!