To be honest, shamsi is way further in his understanding and knowledge, they should have had more manners speaking to him, even if they agreed with him. There are ways and mannerisms in speaking with those who possess knowledge.
I tell everyone to base your whole marriage around Quran, and Sunnah. That is the key to a successful marriage Wallahi. When you fear Allah Subhana Wa Tala you won't go out of bounds with your spouse.
Why are they discouraging marriage? Have tawakkul and get married. If you have bad experiences, learn from it, seek forgiveness for your shortcomings, and go on with your life!
Br Shamsi. May Allah preserve you and your patience. I don't know how you do it. Its also easy to get sucked into these toxic red pill and feminist philosophical arguments
Shamsi I feel maybe you should have advised these brothers to practice upon Tawhid as the priority because they have closely cropped their beards and one is wearing a chain with a high-fade. When brothers instil Tawhid in their own heart striving in full obedience to Allah with their actions, often times that brings forth the bounty of Allah to grant the man a righteous wife. Love you for the sake of Allah akhee BarakAllahu feek
Assalamu alaikum wa rahma tullahi wa barakatuhu akhi, "Who should be in charge" I think should be the correct title of the video. Allah knows best, may Allah reward DUSDawah for their efforts in spreading dawah salafiyyah allahuma ameen
May Allah guide the brother in the Blue Jacket, he has a bad attitude, unnecessarily aggressive, i knew a brother like this, very difficult individual.
That brother sounds very bitter. It's as shamsi said, embed yourself in the Muslim community and in Shaa Allah, Allah will aid you in finding a good wife.
May Allah bless both the brothers with good wives that are the coolness to their eyes ameen. Wallahi there's still alot or good sisters out there, you just gotta look in the right places.
I understand that this brother is hurt, but I think it's important to get an objective understanding of the law even if we disagree with it. This is a skewed POV. This brother is trying to talk about coercion to get your wife to consent to sexual activity. Buying flowers with the intention of seducing your wife isn't it. Holding that over her and guilt tripping her by remimding her every half hour that you got her flowers and that she's ungrateful if she doesn't respond to your advances might cross that line, however. The CPS has a whole section on their website about this and it is not as clear cut as this brother says. At the same time, many sisters can also come with their personal stories and talk about how UK courts were unfair to them when they took the stand and dismissed thick case files related to domestic violence and rape with evidence from social workers and medical files - since these are the types of cases these brothers talk about when they say the courts are against men. I can think of two cases from my own network at the top of my head. Let's be fair. This is also the result of soundbites going around the internet about these topics in secular and Islamic law without context, nuance or fact-checking so there's a whole generation of people being left upset and hyped up with a misunderstanding of their rights, obligations and reality.
لا إلهَ إلا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لا شَرِيكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ المُلْكُ وَ لَهُ الحَمْدُ يُحْيِي وَ يُمِيتُ وَ هُوَ حَيٌّ لا يَمُوْتُ بِيَدِهِ الخَيْرُ وَ إليهي مصير وَهُوَ عَلَى كل شيء قادر وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله صلى الله عليه وسلم اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم
Most women are feminist by nature if you go to biggest niqaby girl and talk to her she will talk about her career future and travelling and someone make her laugh
Not all brother , there's many young women from my village in Bangladesh that wear niqab and only want to be a wife and a mother. These women are diamonds and are hard to find because they aren't seen by everyone and they stay inside their homes looking after their parents and Siblings.
Offcourse, men should be in charge. But we should also be just while being in charge.
?what exactly
Huh
@@aymanus04 dictionary JUST
@@herbalistathari I probably asked someone who later on deleted his message,
The men really tried making the problem only from the women, May Allah bless Shamsi, he always tries to be balanced
To be honest, shamsi is way further in his understanding and knowledge, they should have had more manners speaking to him, even if they agreed with him. There are ways and mannerisms in speaking with those who possess knowledge.
I tell everyone to base your whole marriage around Quran, and Sunnah. That is the key to a successful marriage Wallahi. When you fear Allah Subhana Wa Tala you won't go out of bounds with your spouse.
MashaaAllah 💚 may Allah give these brothers righteous wives and make them be the best men towards their wives, too. Aameen 🤲🏽 🤲🏽 🤲🏽
أخي شمسي حفظه اللّٰه💚
Why are they discouraging marriage? Have tawakkul and get married. If you have bad experiences, learn from it, seek forgiveness for your shortcomings, and go on with your life!
Br Shamsi. May Allah preserve you and your patience. I don't know how you do it. Its also easy to get sucked into these toxic red pill and feminist philosophical arguments
MA SHAA ALLAAH BROTHER SHAMSI ❤
Jazakallahu khair
Shamsi I feel maybe you should have advised these brothers to practice upon Tawhid as the priority because they have closely cropped their beards and one is wearing a chain with a high-fade.
When brothers instil Tawhid in their own heart striving in full obedience to Allah with their actions, often times that brings forth the bounty of Allah to grant the man a righteous wife.
Love you for the sake of Allah akhee BarakAllahu feek
Alhamdulillah
❤❤Allahu akbar
beautiful discussion, as always, May Allah Azzawajal protect them, Ameen.
Alhamdulilah
Assalamu alaikum wa rahma tullahi wa barakatuhu akhi, "Who should be in charge" I think should be the correct title of the video. Allah knows best, may Allah reward DUSDawah for their efforts in spreading dawah salafiyyah allahuma ameen
Shamsi fair and balanced. Not appealing to feminism or the red pill. May Allah bless you and grant you success.
16:25 hilarious shamsi has some incredible one liner sentences.
I see he is coming with the redpill angle, end of the day it depends on the women u marry, if she is toxic she will use the law against you
That is why you don't get married under the western law system.
May Allah guide the brother in the Blue Jacket, he has a bad attitude, unnecessarily aggressive, i knew a brother like this, very difficult individual.
Who defends the house at 3am against intruders: is in charge
In charge of what?
All the brothers discussing are in khair in sha Allah, may Allah bless us all آمين
ماشاءلله بارك الله فيك أخينا شمسي.
shamsuden jazaka ALLAH khaira
That brother sounds very bitter. It's as shamsi said, embed yourself in the Muslim community and in Shaa Allah, Allah will aid you in finding a good wife.
اخي شمسي وفقك الله وسدد خطاك. نتمنى ان تضع الترجمة الفيديوات.
Allah bless you shamsi .
Barakallah fik.. Great discussion brother..
kiss me
bro shamsi is such a nice person ❤
May Allah bless both the brothers with good wives that are the coolness to their eyes ameen. Wallahi there's still alot or good sisters out there, you just gotta look in the right places.
The guy said I’m divorced Alhamdulillah 😂😂 idk why that part cracked me up
He prolly said Alhamduliah because his wife was bad
I understand that this brother is hurt, but I think it's important to get an objective understanding of the law even if we disagree with it. This is a skewed POV. This brother is trying to talk about coercion to get your wife to consent to sexual activity. Buying flowers with the intention of seducing your wife isn't it. Holding that over her and guilt tripping her by remimding her every half hour that you got her flowers and that she's ungrateful if she doesn't respond to your advances might cross that line, however. The CPS has a whole section on their website about this and it is not as clear cut as this brother says. At the same time, many sisters can also come with their personal stories and talk about how UK courts were unfair to them when they took the stand and dismissed thick case files related to domestic violence and rape with evidence from social workers and medical files - since these are the types of cases these brothers talk about when they say the courts are against men. I can think of two cases from my own network at the top of my head. Let's be fair. This is also the result of soundbites going around the internet about these topics in secular and Islamic law without context, nuance or fact-checking so there's a whole generation of people being left upset and hyped up with a misunderstanding of their rights, obligations and reality.
بارك الله فيكم
I feel like this man in the hood is very confused some men don't understand islam and think being abusive is being a man he seems like one of them
جزاكم الله خيرا
ALHAMDULILLAH ❤️ JAJAKALLA KHIRAN ❤️🙂❤️
May Allah forgive us all
Assalamualaikum brother
لا إلهَ إلا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لا شَرِيكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ المُلْكُ وَ لَهُ الحَمْدُ
يُحْيِي وَ يُمِيتُ وَ هُوَ حَيٌّ لا يَمُوْتُ بِيَدِهِ الخَيْرُ وَ إليهي مصير وَهُوَ عَلَى كل شيء
قادر
وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله صلى الله
عليه وسلم اللهم صل على
سيدنا
محمد
وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم
What did Shamsi say at 14:08 “I left the masjid…” I couldn’t make out what he said
"I left the masjid thinking let me go commit haraam again", cos the brother presented such a skewed view of marriage.
@@ManAmongMassesjazakallah khair
نريد ترجمة
May allah meet me with shamsi in jannat alfirdos
Shamsi ❤
i understand what he want to say which is that the islamic law doesnt exist in realt life in any country in the world
It does
Hi
Get married and leave to Allah the rest❤️
If men determine gender of a baby, why wouldn't men need to be in charge....
Allah who determine the gender
Makes zero sense. Throughout all of human history, everyone thought it was the woman who decided genders. Iq is in the negatives I see😂
Learn the game like how you learn the offside trap 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I didn't like that brother's attitude. He sounds very bitter
@@Mozee854 I think he sounds reasonable. He's warning brothers of the potential danger that can happen if divorce occurs.
Most women are feminist by nature if you go to biggest niqaby girl and talk to her she will talk about her career future and travelling and someone make her laugh
Not all brother
Not all brother , there's many young women from my village in Bangladesh that wear niqab and only want to be a wife and a mother. These women are diamonds and are hard to find because they aren't seen by everyone and they stay inside their homes looking after their parents and Siblings.
???
Not by nature, but because of the media
That’s because of media, not nature
Majority of hellfire are women and minority of paradise are women for a reason