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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
  • This is my new go-to warm toned everyday soft glam since I went ginger 👩🏻‍🦰 I know red hair is trending right now, so if you have also dyed your hair red/copper and need a new everyday makeup routine to match it, this video is for you ♡ I'll also show you my technique on how to lighten your brows to match your hair color! This is a very chatty girl chat / chit chat grwm where I talked about toxic friendships and reflected on a petty high school drama from my past, so grab your brushes & get ready with me! 🎀
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    P R O D U C T S
    ┊SKINCARE
    ˖ Torriden Dive-In Low Molecule Hyaluronic Acid Serum bit.ly/3JooXBv
    ˖ Torriden Dive-In Low Molecular Hyaluronic Acid Soothing Cream bit.ly/3yYVE6u
    ˖ Isntree Hyaluronic Acid Watery Sun Gel bit.ly/3ZRJfZJ
    ˖ Fenty Skin Fenty Treatz Hydrating + Strengthening Lip Oil ("Cherry") bit.ly/3Jti0iw
    ┊EYES
    ˖ Moody Lenses Black Colored Contacts Teenage Daydream Magic Mirror ("Mulberry Black") - worn throughout video bit.ly/3RpjONG
    ˖ OLENS Green Colored Contacts ("Smoky Olive") - worn in intro & outro bit.ly/3G8JxEl
    ˖ Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Wiz Ultra-Slim Precision Eyebrow Pencil ("Auburn") bit.ly/3QdEVlz
    ˖ Kose Fasio Permanent Curl Mascara ("103 Hazelnut") - i bought this in Japan and can't find it online, but this is a similar product & shade from the same brand bit.ly/4dk1RtB
    ˖ MAKE UP FOR EVER Artist Color Pencil Brow, Eye & Lip Liner ("706 Full Scale Rust") bit.ly/46hfzZ8
    ˖ ColourPop BFF Creme Gel Liner ("Sunnyvale") bit.ly/3fERDqM
    ˖ Huda Beauty Empowered Eyeshadow Palette ("Legacy", "Best-Self") bit.ly/4cjJbZp
    ˖ Flortte Double Eyelid Tape ("S Fine Tuned Style") bit.ly/3w744XR
    ˖ Etude Curl Fix Mascara - New Edition ("02 Brown") bit.ly/3JtgblG
    ˖ DUO Brush-On Lash Adhesive with Vitamins ("Clear") bit.ly/3VniEUf
    ˖ Lashes no longer available
    ┊FACE
    ˖ Giorgio Armani Beauty Luminous Silk Perfect Glow Flawless Oil-Free Foundation ("4") bit.ly/4b1Gdrl
    ˖ Giorgio Armani Beauty Luminous Silk Face and Under-Eye Concealer ("4") bit.ly/3Q7lxa4
    ˖ Laura Mercier Pink Translucent Loose Brightening Setting Powder ("Tone-Up") bit.ly/3vZy0po
    ˖ KVD Beauty Shade + Light Powder Contour Palette Refill Pan ("Taupe") bit.ly/3NUtiiD
    ˖ Gucci Beauty Luminous Matte Beauty Blush ("08 Soft Red") bit.ly/3Qdfa50
    ˖ CLIO Prism Highlighter ("01 Gold Sheer") bit.ly/3whyTKd
    ┊LIPS
    ˖ Hourglass Shape & Sculpt Lip Liner ("Flaunt 2") bit.ly/4b2tZ1C
    ˖ Lilybyred Smiley Lip Blending Stick ("01 Grin With Me") bit.ly/3SOT0bd
    ˖ Peripera Ink the Velvet Lip Liner ("005 Chocolate Brown") bit.ly/3yXAztg
    ˖ Romand Juicy Lasting Tint ("19 Almond Rose") bit.ly/47rOOmu
    ˖ Yves Saint Laurent YSL Beauty Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick ("14 Scenic Brown") bit.ly/4c5ve1K
    ˖ Kaleidos Mono Blush ("Hotshot") bit.ly/4d2G7SH
    ┊TOOLS
    ˖ LUXIE Flat Definer Brush Rose Gold 221 bit.ly/3czzpox
    ˖ CLIO Small Eyeshadow Brush (comes with eyeshadow palette) bit.ly/3WxSUqw
    ˖ Shiseido Eyelash Curler bit.ly/40DJUQA
    ˖ Real Techniques Miracle Face + Body Makeup Blending Sponge bit.ly/3syC2mR
    ˖ Sigma Beauty Medium Sweeper Eyeshadow Brush E54 amzn.to/3Q7n3ZO
    ˖ Real Techniques Expert Face Makeup Brush RT200 bit.ly/3xSfrDU
    ┊WEARING
    ˖ YesStyle Bow Faux Pearl Earrings - no longer available, similar: bit.ly/3RtlMwN

    T E C H
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    Canon EOS Rebel T6i DSLR
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    EF-S 18-55mm IS STM Kit Lens
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    ˖ EDITING PROGRAM
    Final Cut Pro 10.7.1
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 173

  • @nilouwanter552
    @nilouwanter552 3 місяці тому +261

    i love female friendships so much, they’re just hard to navigate sometimes, but when you do find the right friendship, it’s priceless!! i’ve been having those problems recently

  • @tuyetanliu
    @tuyetanliu 3 місяці тому +319

    honestly, you suit almost every hair colour i've seen you test as if you were born with it!
    in the little girl chat you mentioned, i think that's one of the major tests i would recommend to other girls to see if your friends are real ones. you express interest in someone and if your "friend" immediately jumps into "getting to know" them... well, that is not your friend. then, the "cutting people off" angle is also dependent on the actions that prompted the issue... like if someone did something i'm morally opposed to even if they're just an acquaintance, i would probably cut them off. i'm just not interested in associating myself with people like that and i personally believe that the people you keep around you speak to your character.

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +65

      thank you!! ᡣ(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)𐭩ྀིྀི also i 100% agree with u, the people you associate with not only speak to ur character but will inevitably influence your actions and beliefs as well so it's best not to keep ppl who dont align with your morals around 🙅🏻‍♀️

    • @ajsjjksmzzmznsjajajajajakakN
      @ajsjjksmzzmznsjajajajajakakN 3 місяці тому

      ​@@jessyluxeheyyy, you made a video which included a sponsor i think from the app called flip like a year ago. Does the app still exist? I know I'm wayyy too late.

    • @audreyelaisahiponia2893
      @audreyelaisahiponia2893 3 місяці тому +2

      Yeeees i totally agree to this. I had a friend of several years but then they did something that is really out of my morals, I cut them off. I cannot afford to be friends with someone who does the opposite of what my values are.

  • @Jay-kk1kv
    @Jay-kk1kv 2 місяці тому +6

    That’s breaking girl code. No excuses. If she also had an interest, she should’ve said it immediately when her friend talked about it. Real girl friends wouldn’t be a snake like that.

  • @hollynko
    @hollynko 3 місяці тому +84

    Any "friend" that perceives you as competition ain't a real friend. It's essentially feeling an unnecessary sense of superiority over someone who genuinely cares about you and only showcases more of your insecurity more visibly. I also agree with another comment here (@tuyetanliu) saying that "cutting people off" is dependent upon the actions which elicit the issue. People like that will only mentally exhaust you and are just best kept in the past. On that note, I absolutely ADORE your hair and this makeup look! Sending lots of love to you Jessica

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao 3 місяці тому +59

    Wait, the intro is so cute!! 💗😭🫶🏼 Also, I love how we finally got the new daily makeup because of the hair! Thank you for updating us ☺️

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +14

      thank u linda!! ˊᵒ̴̶̷̤ꇴᵒ̴̶̷̤ˋ it's been fun learning how to adapt my everyday makeup to suit different hair colors 👩🏻‍🦰

  • @nocchu5035
    @nocchu5035 3 місяці тому +25

    Haven’t finished the video yet but it’s the tea time for me 😭 people like that with their passive aggressive comments like that are just so annoying 💀 Plus chasing around guys who like her friends to show that she was more desirable is just so strange 🗿

  • @fattychoccie
    @fattychoccie 3 місяці тому +30

    This brow trick has just blown my mind...🤯
    i have pastel pink hair but am naturally dark brown. I have typical asian eyebrows in shape and hair strength/straightness (mum is Chinese) but they're very thick and dark (dad is italian) - so i feel like i look a bit silly with super dark eyebrows and light hair. I am so excited to try this. Seriously, THANK YOU ❤🙏🏽❤

  • @Scarletweeb
    @Scarletweeb 3 місяці тому +7

    Omg the story of ur toxic friend give me Regina George vibes ! With ur redhair you are kinda Kady !❤😂

  • @TheScottSistersSing
    @TheScottSistersSing 3 місяці тому +6

    Oooh lawdy. The dating people you’ve mentioned you are interested in is an immediate red flag

  • @latishaluvlee
    @latishaluvlee 3 місяці тому +2

    your eyebrows look so amazing!! its been soo hard for me to keep my eyebrows both equal and even 😭I would love to know what's the trick to keeping eyebrows even, when trying to shave and pluck by yourself.

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +4

      thank you !! ᡣ(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)𐭩ྀིྀི tbh i sometimes shave too much off on one side too 😭 but what i find helps is backing up instead of being so close to the mirror so u can check that they're even! sometimes we get too close to the mirror when we're focused but then we can't see the other eyebrow so it's hard to keep them even ⚖️

  • @MrChoKyuHyun
    @MrChoKyuHyun 3 місяці тому +3

    You look absolutely stunning ❤

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +2

      thank you!! 🎀(*^‿^*)

  • @strawb568
    @strawb568 3 місяці тому +53

    internalised misogyny is heartbreaking when it affects young girls who could be successful on their own, without having to ‘prove’ their worth through male validation. in any case I’m glad you got out of the toxicity though and hope she matured too🥲
    also the hair colour is an absolute slay

  • @SakuraCrystalMoon
    @SakuraCrystalMoon 3 місяці тому +4

    The Oxford English definiton of friend is "a person with whom one has developed a close and informal relationship of mutual trust and intimacy; (more generally) a close acquaintance." you were saying that you don't want a friendship with competition, and i'm kind of struggling to see how that's even a friendship. you're totally right: that's not what a friendship should be like. it's just that is that really the definition of mutual trust or intimacy? anyway, you're makeup (as per usual) is GORGEOUS and so are you! i hope you know that you deserve the BEST friends ever, and you would be a great friend to have because you're talented, conscious, driven, and opinionated! thanks so much for posting another girl talk/grwm video and i wish the best for ur channel ☆⌒ヽ(*'、^*)

  • @KGbby24
    @KGbby24 3 місяці тому +14

    Reminds me so much of a red panda and that movie turning red! Very cute 😁♥️

  • @holynymph
    @holynymph 3 місяці тому +21

    Finally! Just dyed my hair a week ago and I've been looking for a new makeup style since then THIS IS SO GOOD!

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +7

      yay!! did u also go red 🤭

    • @holynymph
      @holynymph 3 місяці тому +3

      Yes love, we are matchy-matchy 🥰🥰

  • @barbaraquiroz8338
    @barbaraquiroz8338 3 місяці тому +28

    Wow ! You can pull of any hair color!!! Your beauty shines through any change ❤

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +9

      ah thank u sm 😭 i hated it for weeks after i dyed it but it was probably the shock

    • @barbaraquiroz8338
      @barbaraquiroz8338 3 місяці тому +2

      @@jessyluxe yes but it payed off !! It looks so chic on you!

  • @Jay-kk1kv
    @Jay-kk1kv 2 місяці тому +1

    Girl same. I don’t hang out with anyone except my sister. As much as I want to have close girlfriends. I’ll meet someone and then question their character when I see who they’re nice to. Or friends with 💀. It’s just not worth it to me lol

  • @_aiko020
    @_aiko020 3 місяці тому +1

    4:34 Specifically where you were talking about if it's ok to date a friend's crush, NO IT'S NOT OK.
    Friend S saying that she's interested in a dude IS THE REASON WHY none of your friends should be going after him!! She likes him. That means she wants to date him. And that means, he's off limits. Find someone else to crush on, don't steal someone else's.

  • @AyakoSapphirePhoenix
    @AyakoSapphirePhoenix 3 місяці тому +3

    love the look!!

  • @uuuusc
    @uuuusc 3 місяці тому +2

    I would like to know what color contacts you use for your thumbnails.

  • @kittygirlsamara
    @kittygirlsamara 3 місяці тому +1

    Suppose were friends n i got good grades right. N you’d be happy n praise me like thats what i do. But Isn't it toxic if ud be all sad n goofy n think that the teacher(female) likes me n graded me more.what do i do???

  • @CioneCiox
    @CioneCiox 3 місяці тому +1

    Same. I do not get women who center their lives around men. I have a coworker who was in a bad relationship in on the verge of breaking up with the guy so she asked me to hang out with her out of work so she didn’t have to see him. She broke up with him & then started up another relationship with an old high school friend. She seemed happy so I was relieved for her that she was in a good place, but then she stopped hanging out with me and dedicated all her time to this guy (being on FaceTime even during work). They are in a long distance relationship, so now that he is gone for weeks at a time, all of the sudden she wants to hang again & says she has no friends trying to guilt trip me & another coworker, I don’t know if she sensed us losing interest spending time with her. And when we do hang out, she is non stop talking about her boyfriend. She’s nice, but this behavior is so annoying. 😒

  • @irosecorpse
    @irosecorpse 3 місяці тому +2

    OMGGG I understand how you feel. I don't know why girls always have to compete with each other. We should support each others successes, not bring down others. I have had a girl who I thought was super nice and kind, but in the end I found out that she was in a secret competition with me. One day, during a party where she was a little tipsy, she mentioned that the reason she did not invite me to the trip, because I take a lot of pictures whenever I go out or travel. She literally invited everyone but me and I felt like the odd one out at the party since everyone was talking about it. In addition, I had girlfriends who were upset with me because I bought a house. Then the next week, they went out and did the same thing and then boasted about it in the group chat. I don't understand why they would be upset. If my friends succeed, I would be so very happy for them. But apparently, they did not think the same for me.

  • @cicilyly6027
    @cicilyly6027 3 місяці тому +5

    I agree with you I only had two best colleagues in college and that was enough for me. When you talked about toxic friends I thought about the Korean drama “Marry my husband” her friend in the drama was obsessed with the main girl and was not happy that she found happiness. I hate friends who compete with me whether through life or boyfriends also!! Having toxic friends teaches you to make better choices on good friends who support and uplifts your friendship!

  • @GraceW-jx3ll
    @GraceW-jx3ll 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow this reminds so much of the friendship I had with one of my “friends” of 10 yrs. Although I haven’t fully cut her off as she’s friends with some of my friends…I’ve definitely limited my contact with her. Although everytime I happen to have to hang out with her…she always ends up making subtle comments like “wow why are so many guys hitting on you”🤦‍♀️ Anyways I’ve always been a bit thick skinned so I’ve never let her comments get to me but it does get a little draining…and I know it stems from her deep insecurities

  • @moka_dotz3149
    @moka_dotz3149 3 місяці тому

    Hellooo I really enjoy your content and just wanted to say that I appreciate it ❤

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому

      thank u sm that means a lot to me 😭♡

  • @niki_jungkook7
    @niki_jungkook7 3 місяці тому +12

    you look gorgggg🤭 gonna try this out tooooo🫶

  • @aquaaria3489
    @aquaaria3489 3 місяці тому +1

    3:22 Depends on the situation, considering I can’t stop two people from liking/loving each other just because of what I feel for the other person. Obviously though, it’s a big red flag if a “friend” of yours starts taking interest that person by flirting and making other type of advances right after you told them about your crush. It’s like they’re silently telling you they are better…

  • @marilynneng1579
    @marilynneng1579 3 місяці тому +2

    U look gorgeous

  • @itsokaytho
    @itsokaytho 3 місяці тому +1

    Ahh.. the basic pretty girls fight 🙃 it's a fact when a person got that pretty privilege regardless what gender, it will always be that kind of a fight/bully.. sad for them that their prettiness doesn't reflect being pretty inside

  • @jessw.6250
    @jessw.6250 3 місяці тому +1

    It is still breaking (a) code when someone (goes out of their way) to date someone (after) someone told that person they like that person.

  • @Nieves001
    @Nieves001 3 місяці тому +1

    Girls who act all cute and giggley when they are around boys and only talking about themselves is the biggest red flag ever, I just can't stand those two face girlies. One of my cousin is like that, we hang out on their to celebrate her older sister birthday, her older sister boyfriend and friends were also coming over, and there was this one guy who my other cousin think is cute and thereh is a situationship between them and everyone knows about it and wanted to give them a privacy moment, but my fake cousin have to ruin by going up to the guy and flirting with him and being all clingy and you can clearly see the guy was very uncomfortable, and I just can't stand her anymore so I just went up to her says that it's my other cousin boyfriend that she's flirting with and that she's being delusional if she thinks he will ever like her. She looks so shock and before she could even reply or get angry I just left after saying that. Sometimes you just have to give them a reality check for their egos.

  • @RileyCollins-y3p
    @RileyCollins-y3p Місяць тому +1

    how do you keep your hair so red/copper? mine was like yours but it faded in like 2 weeks. i got it done professionally too

  • @xgwolf.2222
    @xgwolf.2222 3 місяці тому +1

    I want to know more about hair! 𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ⁠𐀔 ⋆。‧˚ʚ🍒ɞ˚‧。⋆

  • @TheGirlinBluePyjamas
    @TheGirlinBluePyjamas 3 місяці тому +2

    Omg I'm so earlyyyy hi Jessica! Much love from Philippines ❤

  • @SassyPunk33
    @SassyPunk33 3 місяці тому +1

    Sounds like the Marry My Husband K-drama.

  • @ShisuLu
    @ShisuLu 3 місяці тому +2

    😍 you look gorgeous in that hair color.
    Funny how you started talking about “that one friend”… I just mentioned something similar to my husband and that is how I ended up with almost no friends after I left my home country lol.
    I guess you live and learn 😊.

  • @w1ckedness
    @w1ckedness 3 місяці тому +1

    You look so good and my hair has been a similar color for over a year now but you just saved me from bleaching my brows. I’m trying to find the mascara you use for your brows but am having trouble. Can you please tell me the name?

  • @_W1nt3rr
    @_W1nt3rr 3 місяці тому +5

    I have never been this early! And ginger really suits you

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +2

      ahh thank u for being here! ᡣ(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)𐭩ྀིྀི

  • @leilaniwynn
    @leilaniwynn 3 місяці тому +9

    omg ur hair looks so good

  • @영-x6r3m
    @영-x6r3m 3 місяці тому +5

    you can pull off any color, but you look especially magical in red ❤

  • @noonmiu
    @noonmiu 3 місяці тому +1

    I've never been able to get along with boy-crazy girls either... especially when they're insecure like A was. Female friendships can be so beautiful and healing that toxic friends like that are a complete waste of time.. too many fish in the sea to put up with a lunatic lol. Also loving the red hair and the monochrome look 🫶 Your eye for color and attention to detail really amaze me!

  • @kirayany1704
    @kirayany1704 3 місяці тому

    I had the same toxic friendship. She has crushes on everyone and when the other guys asked me out she would freak, I never said yes because of girl code. She also got mad that when our periods weren’t in sync anymore and yelled at me asking “who have you been hanging out with”

  • @oyasumae7319
    @oyasumae7319 3 місяці тому +1

    khó chịu is lowk "annoyed" and "upset"

  • @myriamtouil3347
    @myriamtouil3347 3 місяці тому +1

    I love you love what you say about girls thank you❤❤❤❤be together ❤❤

  • @ariannalamorte01
    @ariannalamorte01 3 місяці тому +1

    I already had so much respect for you, but when you said your ideal friend can't center their life around men 😩😩 you just gained so many points girl

  • @jessw.6250
    @jessw.6250 3 місяці тому +1

    WHO THIS 👀🤯🙀
    no way but, look great 🧡

  • @imjanemi
    @imjanemi 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm sorry you had to go through with that. I honestly never had close female friends. I think it has to do with my own insecurities. I wish to become more open and share my personal stories with my friends so I could gain genuine friendships. Your videos are always inspiring and motivates me to live more positively. Thank you~

  • @ffc2d1
    @ffc2d1 3 місяці тому +3

    i have been looking for insipirations about which hair color should I try next, and I guess I found it! you're an absolute goddess, jess!

  • @notmika8877
    @notmika8877 2 місяці тому +1

    I can’t understand what is theme of this make, too busy gossiping

  • @tufodahyuniieee5630
    @tufodahyuniieee5630 3 місяці тому +1

    hi jess!! can you do an updated version of your skincare routine?

  • @startpink22
    @startpink22 3 місяці тому +2

    Hace 12 min , gracias Jessica por un vídeo nuevo 😊

  • @linhchiibi
    @linhchiibi 3 місяці тому

    thật là may mắn khi em đã bước ra khỏi cái tình bạn độc hại đó !!! great job bae 💘💘

  • @nirjanedeguzman8445
    @nirjanedeguzman8445 3 місяці тому +2

    can u do a video for ur haircare routine? izzo pretty 🥺

  • @llera_navi
    @llera_navi 3 місяці тому +1

    this monochrome red look is amazing on you :O the eyebrows really tie everything together!! i've been experimenting with brow mascara lately and it makes such a difference, it's so fun💖
    and thank you for sharing about your ex-friend, i'm sad that it's common to end up in toxic friendships:( but hopefully these discussions help people reflect on how their close circle affects overall mood and happiness, i think it's often hard to notice how draining some relationships are until you're out of them

  • @foxecturn4183
    @foxecturn4183 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m a natural redhead with thick black brows, so I kinda like the mismatched look! Gives fox vibes 🦊 new video idea maybe?? ☺️

    • @jessyluxe
      @jessyluxe  3 місяці тому +3

      you're so lucky, i love red hair!! i do really like how blonde hair looks with dark brows (khaleesi vibes) so maybe i should have tried darker brows heh

    • @foxecturn4183
      @foxecturn4183 3 місяці тому

      @@jessyluxe You’d definitely slay! of course you slay every look you do 🧡

  • @dyllingermora4999
    @dyllingermora4999 16 днів тому

    I'm HERE FOR THE TEAAAAAA! and the way your make up ATE is just amazing, ly

  • @larasnandafebiayu2998
    @larasnandafebiayu2998 3 місяці тому

    Competing with ur friends meaning u're not happy when they happy
    Jealousy can be considered as a dissease :(

  • @Serena-Vanderwoodsen
    @Serena-Vanderwoodsen 3 місяці тому +1

    Lol, typical shit then eh?

  • @jcm85
    @jcm85 2 місяці тому

    I feel like while growing up, we settle for friends who are convenient to us without our awareness. We are so young, we don’t have better judgment, we are stuck in the same place for years, and so we find ourselves in toxic relationships more easily.
    I had a ride or die best friend from ages 5-17. The older I got, the more I didn’t like her. She bullied me, humiliated me in front of guys, was making choices that put her and others’ lives in danger, and she had a toxic view of women due to her own insecurities, which impacted my own view of women that still affects me to this day. I cut her out of my life the summer we graduated high school and we have not spoken in 13 years. You have to make the best choices for you.

  • @jcm85
    @jcm85 2 місяці тому

    I feel like while growing up, we settle for friends who are convenient to us without our awareness. We are so young, we don’t have better judgment, we are stuck in the same place for years, and so we find ourselves in toxic relationships more easily.
    I had a ride or die best friend from ages 5-17. The older I got, the more I didn’t like her. She bullied me, humiliated me in front of guys, was making choices that put her and others’ lives in danger, and she had a toxic view of women due to her own insecurities, which impacted my own view of women that still affects me to this day. I cut her out of my life the summer we graduated high school and we have not spoken in 13 years. You have to make the best choices for you.

  • @imdov
    @imdov 3 місяці тому

    Relatful traumtic experience except I’ll never in my life want, need or try to make friends ever again. Love the makeup

  • @KawaiiPrincess_Love
    @KawaiiPrincess_Love Місяць тому

    1. Omg you are beautiful ❤
    2. I used to be that friend. Well, not that I was purposely putting others down or stealing their men or hurting them, more like I kept comparing myself to my friends and it made me feel bad. I never wished them anything bad and I actually got upset when they didn't get something even though they were perfect for it and absolutely deserved it, but everytime they did get something, it was like a spotlight for my insecurity and that I did not get it because I simply wasn't as good or didn't have the connections or whatever. Even when I got something my head started comparing and the result of those comparisons was always that at least one of my friends would have been better. That's why I didn't even try to get some things.
    Anyway, as the years went by, I told one of my friends about those insecurities and how bad I felt for not being happy for her when something good happened for her, she was perfectly understanding. I started talking more open about my insecurities and almost all of my friends were really nice about it, only one wasn't but she was even worse than I was. She was the kind of person who if you go on a vacation and are super excited to tell your friends all the places you wanna see in wherever you go compulsively has to go on a more expensive, more exciting and fabulous vacation and directly starts talking about it when you tell about yours.
    Anywho, my other friends were super nice about it, shared some of their own insecurities and we decided to not view that as envy but as the desire, Motivation and possibility to learn from each other. ❤

  • @25yennhi85
    @25yennhi85 2 місяці тому

    "i'm very khó chịu"😂 i thought i misheard until i turn on the subtitle

  • @krys1075
    @krys1075 3 місяці тому

    It depends on the situation.
    I would drop her, if he was a really good guy and that I liked him a lot.
    I wouldn’t drop her, if the guy was a player. She can have him. And then I’d find someone else to like.

  • @little_pappy
    @little_pappy Місяць тому

    quên mất chỉ là người vn cho đến khi chỉ nói khó chịu=))))

  • @RileyCollins-y3p
    @RileyCollins-y3p Місяць тому

    how do you keep your hair so red/copper? mine was like yours but its faded to a lighter orange!

  • @blooddeath84
    @blooddeath84 Місяць тому

    You enunciate your S words so hard that it literally hurts when I have headphones on 😅

  • @MsAlison
    @MsAlison 3 місяці тому

    that’s insane that A went after S’s crushes THREE times! that’s definitely weird, going out of her way to hurt her “friends.”

  • @rena4618
    @rena4618 3 місяці тому

    when you mentioned that two close people to you argued and one told you to cut off the other, what did you do? how did you manage?

  • @rawsawce6452
    @rawsawce6452 2 місяці тому

    I dyed my hair red and now i use brown shade eye liner and brows because i only own brown and black

  • @_aiko020
    @_aiko020 3 місяці тому

    Oh girl any friend that starts dating the guy you like is a RED FLAGG. that means they liked that guy too!! And they were trying to hide it from you. That's sooo toxic.

  • @Bitab247
    @Bitab247 3 місяці тому +1

    Beutiful makeup and words ❤

  • @سالمةناصرسالمحمدالحجرية

    Happy eid 💗💗💗

  • @evanseekins517
    @evanseekins517 3 місяці тому +1

    What a gorgeous creature she is

  • @faithing17
    @faithing17 3 місяці тому

    Hi Jessica! Do you have any tips for retouching makeup? Would like to hear some tips from you❤❤❤

  • @GiangNguyen-me4ph
    @GiangNguyen-me4ph 3 місяці тому

    "uncomfortable" is the word you was looking for to replace khó chịu i think😁😁

  • @heejusobubbly
    @heejusobubbly 3 місяці тому +1

    Omg the hair color suits you so well and the makeup is stunning ✨️ i especially like the red eyeliner:))

  • @anandeztvseries8498
    @anandeztvseries8498 2 місяці тому

    I also have a similar toxic friend in high school. She is super insecure and she wanted to stay with me every time. As long as I want to have some spaces for breathing, she said, "you're abandoning me, you're so selfish!" Even when I was sick and need rest she wanted me to stay with her. We have been half a year and finally, in the last semester of high school, I told her, "please leave me alone, get the f out." Then I blocked her on social media. It's been 7 years now and she's still in my block-list.

  • @busysworld7922
    @busysworld7922 2 місяці тому

    I'm jealous, I wanna look like you ! I mean look, you are beautiful ! I wish I was pretty like that 😩❤️❤️

  • @tyne6398
    @tyne6398 Місяць тому

    i stumbled across this video and it's my first time watching you. i just wanna say the skill you have on matching the color of your eyebrows and hair is just incredible. you and your makeup are both beautiful

  • @itslyssiej
    @itslyssiej 3 місяці тому +2

    I love your new hair color Jessica❤

  • @anandeztvseries8498
    @anandeztvseries8498 2 місяці тому

    When I was in primary school, I felt insecure, too, mainly because my dad started working overseas when I was 3 years old. The other kids in nursery school didn't wanna play with me because of this insecure that I have. Later, I learned always being alone, and started enjoying this loneliness and feeling the freedom it gives me. This is why I'm always being alone.

  • @ysabelle9600
    @ysabelle9600 3 місяці тому

    I'm like lowkey in that last situation you're talking about. One of my childhood best friends for over 10 years started shit talking some of my closest friends now, whom I've known for 6 almost 7 years now. Like at first I brushed it off because she was one of my closest and longest friends, but then when some of my other friends like hated her and cut off all contact with her, I was put in a really uncomfortable position. Even though she has texted me a bit and has asked to hang out, I just don't feel comfortable hanging out with her like I used to. She got into an argument with a bunch of people in our year at school and basically turned them all against her, so I stood by her. But then I heard about more of the things she's done and now I just can't be friends with her the same way we used to be, which I'm upset about. We used to talk all the time and hang out every break from school and now we haven't spoken regularly in over a year, only a few texts here and there, and I haven't been to her house in almost 2 years, and I used to go quite often.

  • @paigesae
    @paigesae 3 місяці тому

    omg the whole time during this video I kept getting flashbacks of this ex friend😭

  • @sipsip4872
    @sipsip4872 2 місяці тому

    Gurl I come for the makeup- like I was ready to try out warm tone makeup too... but now I'm on my bed with a cup of tea listening to ur story cause damn what a ride... love it tho ❤❤❤😂

  • @eef8297
    @eef8297 Місяць тому

    these stories all sound a little too familiar aspecially with the competing stuff and bringing ''friends'' down when males are in the room

  • @yoojayyy7987
    @yoojayyy7987 3 місяці тому

    If one of my so called friend would go for a guy I was crushing on first, then that answers your question. Is she/he a friend? I had an experience where I was talking to a guy and we liked each other and a girl I was mutual with went for him and ended up scooping him. I fought my best friend and that mutual friend cause I sorta knew her and she would hang with us and she has the audacity saying “i saw him first!” Like girl you were a literal nobody, also she tried to be like me like changing her style and even talk like me and hear the music the same. But yet again I was like “girl, you can have him” and later on he regretted it and cheated on her. And I ended up just cutting ties with her but still friends with the best friend but not close anymore which I can careless❤ I am happy with my other friends I can really say “that’s my family”

  • @phant0m0th_
    @phant0m0th_ 3 місяці тому

    Not really about the toxic friend. But what if you edit the product names in the video as text so you dont have to say it or interrupt the story. It's less abrupt to do the in between

  • @idreamofsakuras7842
    @idreamofsakuras7842 3 місяці тому

    Its really heartbreaking when you find out your friends are not really friends- i had a friend that got so jealous and angry when i started making my own friends in HS (I was really shy growing up and she had been p much mt only close friend till then) and made me feel like i was the one in the wrong- as if she didnt tell me to my face she had another best friend i didnt know about till i met her. Im so happy with my friends now , and its so peaceful when its a mutual loving friendship

  • @yonas4175
    @yonas4175 3 місяці тому +1

    ginger looks saur good on you

  • @galactic3536
    @galactic3536 3 місяці тому

    I relate to what you said about only needing 2 friends.. But I only have 1 now, and she spends almost all of her time with her boyfriend now and I hate third wheeling 🙃

  • @ILOVECATS-gm3te
    @ILOVECATS-gm3te 2 місяці тому

    Im pretty young, like highschool young, and my parents have always encouraged me to make loads of friends but after a while ive been sticking to this one girl. Shes my other half and honestly shes way better than 10 half ass friendships. I relate so much to finding it difficult to truly become friends with a lot of peiple at the same time so i really resonate with you! Ive been really insecure about it lately but listening to you talk about it the same way i see it is so reassuring so thank you ❤

  • @hannitabeautysison
    @hannitabeautysison 3 місяці тому

    Of course,I think it’s wrong that she started dating the guy that the other friend was interested in! I would dropped that friend immediately!

  • @happyperson7663
    @happyperson7663 3 місяці тому

    I haven't seen your boyfriend recently, are you still with him? I think it would be a fun vid to do cute date ideas!

  • @Stormii1
    @Stormii1 3 місяці тому

    am I the only one having issues with the Armani foundation 😭 it always goes on patchy no matter what

  • @gulsenzdm
    @gulsenzdm 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you🎉

  • @LegalServices-v6j
    @LegalServices-v6j 3 місяці тому

    You are a real artist the way you matched everything. So so beautiful! I am so sorry about your friend.

  • @quangquoq5076
    @quangquoq5076 3 місяці тому +1

    more videos like that

  • @rachel-k9k9x
    @rachel-k9k9x 3 місяці тому +2

    ily