She apologized to Jada about her beef with her from Bad Boys ll There are some women who can practice humility…. Maybe the women in your family and your life are too prideful
Gabby’s a mean girl,I’m not fond of her or her husband. The way he did is first wife is disgusting,I can bet gabby was behind just to get the family she yearned for,karma has a way of showing up look at neyo wife all those years pretending she’s happy but was miserable,I don’t look at celebrity relationships as goals no way.
And so she don't even know you so guess what she's not fond of you either the other girl don't know of your existence of you either so eat your heart out been mad at them living their life peoples business business and their life bothers you so much you now gone to Neyo, do you know what your man is doing, chill out, losing sleep over other people's business.
Her fear of public humiliation should be the fact that she stayed with these men that cheated… that’s more humiliating than leaving. I’m confused with her logic.
Because it's illogical. Sad. Gabrielle could do better, but she HERSELF has to know this. With her past trauma, if she hasn't received therapy to heal herself and become more self aware, she should.
She's part of the fkn problem and part of her problem is she clearly wants to wear the pants and be the fkn man in her relationships and real man aren't gon a be emasculated and wearing skirts in their mf households PERIODDDDD🤌🏾🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sooo she dated somebody that cheated on her, stayed with him, still decided to marry him, didn’t think to get a prenup and somehow thinks this is less embarrassing than just leaving him from the very beginning ?? Like girl you were literally his mom while being cheated on
While I think she is super talented and beautiful, I'll never get over how she mentioned in her book the need to try to embarrass and humiliate other black women at events. There seems to be patterns of low self esteem and trauma and I hope she finds healing 🙏🏾
I hope the women she humiliated and embarrassed find healing going through abuse does not give you the right to do the same to others. Its just makes you an abuser also
I don't understand how these women think🤦🏽♀! Staying with a man who's cheating publicly to avoid embarrassment?! How about you only look stupid when you stay after being publicly humiliated again and again! Leaving makes you look brave and smart!
@@munix9351 ok but once that's been exposed as a lie, you staying makes you look weak and pathetic! If you leave at least others will look at your actions as strength and the pity turns to admiration. If you stay your open yourself to judgment and ridicule. Cat's outta the bag, girl move on!
Some women are afraid to stay alone, for them it's better to have a man no matter if he cheats or not. I was talking to a family friend about that. She replied to me that it doesn't matter if her husband cheats on her, the most important thing is that he always comes back home and she doesn't want to leave to allow another woman to take her place. I told her "girl WTF! you got a low self esteem". We ended up arguing!
@@Thegazelle1000 lmao you are too honest. I would argue with you too! You are right but so is you friend. Those women he's cheating with, at least one of them want her spot for sure cause they don't know any better. You just gotta pray for her and hope she gets tired of holding on to something that brings her so much pain. The more you try show her the light is the more stubborn she's going to be. I know it's hard to just stand by and watch but the opposite is not doing anything to improve the situation💔
Maybe as she allegedly broke up his marriage, well helped to. She doesn't want to admit he's cheated on her too. DW is despicable, typical bm who leaves the woman who was there when he had nothing. And he's so unattractive 🤮 Only money must attract her
@@GoddesssofMind nah the married men thing, her sexuality was so close to the character, a lot of actors have to go through therapy after playing a character because they become them.
So, she was mostly into professional sports players and was shocked when they were seeing other women🙄Then, she was okay with them cheating on her, but more upset with the story getting out to the public😏
I'm not shocked! Gabrielle is a beautiful woman, and I know she was a rape victim in her teenage years. Experiences like that can have a truly traumatic effect on a young woman. I read her first book, and it was an eye opener. But it helped me understand the woman she is today. I hope she, Wade, Kaavia and their whole family are happy and stay together! Gabrielle is beautiful, talented, outspoken and free spirited. It is who she is!
I didn’t know that…. Makes sense now. People really underestimate the effects sexual abuse has on a person. They act as if it’s something that affects victims on a physical level only.
It's hard to be married to somebody you can't trust. It's easier to leave when you're not married, and you don't have to go through with it for "appearances""
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 My best picks are delete their phone number and all social media connections immediately. Notice I didn't say block because when they call, you have to have the strength not to pick up meaning you would break and call them. Find something interesting and intense to do. Like visit a relative that you have seen in a while, go out for long walk, go to the gym or swimming. I like reading and watching series. Pay less attention to your phone. Only talk about them to the closed of friends that you feel free to vent to or even cry. Leave the wirst details for when you are completely over them for the biggest laughter. To the rest, just say it didn't work out and keep pushing. Break ups are hard but focus on the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Let it play in your mind, that will stop you from thinking of what if I did this and that, we might have made.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 praying for your strength, and motivation to leave. There is a full checklist for women leaving abusive relationships. I’m not saying that’s what you have, but check out the check list. Failure to plan is a plan to fail. Stack up your money.
Low self esteem as a dark skinned black woman, coupled with her college days trauma makes me feel no kind of way. As long as she is happy, and Dwayne met those requirements I wish them well for the sake of her well-being and the children involved.
@@Imissyoulou I’m glad that you aren’t “brain washed” as a dark skin woman because white supremacy coupled with patriarchy is the blueprint. Happy that black women are taking their power back, but also if you weren’t born with the tools, black girls and women will be in trouble.
I'm so glad you referenced the whole being spotted with Derek Jeter in 2007 and meeting Dwade later that same year but not being interested because she was "deeply in love" cited from her own interview. She told on herself. Wade was married to Siohvaughn (sons' mom) '02-'10 so 2007 would've been while they were very much still married. But she didn't mention his being a married man as the deterrent at all, only because she was in love. Wade's marriage was also in the public eye, so she can't claim to not have known 😂 Siohvaughn has literally been saying all along that Gabby was the other woman and no one wanted to believe her. Black media honestly owes that woman an apology because they joined in Dwade and Gabrielle's PR campaign witch hunt to make her look crazy and get her out of the way because she was telling the truth about them. Yes, he's the one who annihilated and dishonored his wife and his vows, but Gabby had no shame or regard. Maybe Siohvaughn and Vince Carter's ex wife can write a book, not out of scorn but truth.
I've always felt GENUINE sadness for Siohvaughn. She was/is still done wrong by this power couple. Look at what's going on with her youngest son! It's sad if she doesn't have a say in this matter!
@@Imissyoulou I have always liked and had crushes on guys who had darker skin. I had a friendship with a guy, who was very handsome/drop dead gorgeous/beautiful. When he and his friend would walk into the club "back in the day," as soon as they entered the doorway, all the women's heads would turn directly towards the both of them. We kicked it for a minute, but, I had to let it go. He was with the same woman who he had been with from the very first time when we actually met. And, I wasn't "by no means" trying to take him away from her because he wasn't gonna leave her anyway. I honestly, had no intent of even wanting to meet him. He said he heard I wanted to talk to him. That was a lie from the pits of hell. I already knew he was a womanizer; he just plain outright loved women. Shit started not to feel right after a while, so, I had to get out. We did care for each other and we had some really nice moments together. We would go to the park and just kick it and talk about a lot of things, which was nice. Some things happened that told me I had to exit. It is what it is. I have no ill feelings towards him, but, if I ran into him somewhere, I would, most definitely, have to run away. LOL! 😂💯😂
@@Zimruns listen I saw her once at this club in Atlanta. She was with D Wade and that was around the time they got back together after the baby incident. When I tell y’all that woman was MEAN AF for no reason it was unbelievable. Everyone was telling Dwayne hello and she was so mad because of that.. she is crazy.. I just sat at the side observing everything.. smh but she has issues..
“Now, we ain’t the ones to gossip…” as you continue to provide the gossip and tea! 😂 I absolutely LOVE Gabrielle Union and read both of books! Athletes were definitely her type and as one of the comments stated “Being Mary Jane” was her life in a nutshell although the show was not based on her life but it should’ve because whew chile! Also, I see why she was booked for certain characters in TV shows and movies! ☕️🐸
I will never forget seeing his 1st wife holding a sign sitting in front of the court house. Gabrielle seems like she does a lot to save face. That’s the sad part.
Gabby is gorgeous and has an extensive acting resume. Jason Kidd is from the Bay Area and so is she. I didn’t know they dated. I’ve read her book too I get why she is the way she is. He skin tone is at the root of her own insecurities. The guys she dated picked up on it. She has been on the black struggle love bus for quite a while. When you do everything for a man he’s not going to respect you.
Anyone who would make these people relationship goals must be aiming for the ground vs the stars!! I wouldn’t spend one minute of my precious time in their shoes for all the money in the world. They put on a show for the media and suffer in silence.
While gabrielle gets on my nerves sometimes I appreciate her being honest about her colorism issues … I remember always thinking she was so beautiful ..
I can’t understand how she felt that way about herself. I’m close to her complexion and I always got approached by white guys or light skin guys. My husband is bi racial and he chased me for years until I gave in. Glad I did…. 10 years and counting.
A lot of us darker complexes went through that- especially living in the north! It’s been my experience that southern men find us beautiful, but in the north light was always the attention getters. I went through that my entire high school year and into my 20s especially having a light skin long-haired girlfriend.
@belltowndaisyshe actually spent most of her childhood in California, in a town called Pleasanton, which is a suburb of Oakland But that town is majority white, so your point still stands 😂
Unpopular opinion...Sorry not sorry...Gabrielle is the problem, especially in her current marriage. Narcissism permeates this marriage. When you understand Narcissists, Psychopaths and sociopaths (the dark triad) you will understand where the problem lies.🤷🏿♀️
The small voice that told her to leave was God. She was unable to naturally carry his Child because God wanted to protect her womb. As a young woman who’s has always been told I look like Gabby it breaks my heart to see this.
@@darcelladowney7760 I understand what she is saying though.. What you said is also correct...however some women have insecurities about their skin colour...
@@unapologeticallyblack4159 if you want to play this little game of colorism doesn't exist and doesn't impact dark skin black women more than any other group, then go ahead but I'm not going back and forth with you about the truth and reality of the impact of colorism. Have a blessed day ❤️
Forget humiliation I would be out that door with the quickness. At the end of the day nobody is perfect. I couldn’t do it. I really like her, and love her as an actress. She’s fierce. I wish the best for her always.🙏🏾💕
@msls6592 Hence why she always played the mean girl role well on TV and in film. I still think that she’s a mean girl, but not as mean as she used to be.
She saw Dwayne as basically a last hood for marriage and that’s why she was willing to put up with him cheating and making a what they call “A break baby”
No one in their RIGHT mind would consider them relationship goals. She wears the pants and her husband wears the dresses, the same as Will and Jada. There’s nothing attractive about a weak man.
Nine miscarriages can be very painful... Wanting to have a child that is so easy for others, but seems impossible for you... I don't have words to express... Happy to See Gabrielle & Dwayne Doing so well... Wish Them both best...
It’s kind of crazy how all the characters that she ever betrayed was the baseline of her own story From #DeliverUsFromEve #TwoCanPlayThatGame #BreakinAllTheRule #GoodDeeds #ThinkLikeAMan2 Down To #BeingMaryJane
Hey bestie thanks for another great video. I don’t understand for the life of me why some women think staying a compulsive cheater is better than a divorce. I know divorce is hard but why tolerate someone stomping on your heart. Repeatedly! Love yourselves ladies, I know it’s not easy but please remember you are worth happiness.
She's lived with him longer then she has been marrired to him. Talk about buying the cow and having the milk for free. Oh, but she's so sophisticated, liberal, worldly, successful. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I got the impression that she knew he was a cheater... And it did not hurt her heart at all... What she feared was the public Humiliation.... But once someone tried to make it public, then she was ready to roll out.
Interesting topic and title, her husband said in a interview within the last 2 years on the Ellen Show, that his wife Gabrielle was the boss and that he was 5th in line within the household to having a say in their household and that even the family dog was before him. Thought 2nd hand embarrassment and bless the children and the 1st wife who doesn't have a say in her children's life
Very good, this made things much more clear to me about Gabrielle. I will never understand how someone can think her marriage represents high standard for others.
Wow! I am so shocked, that I need to watch this for a 2nd time, to see if I missed anything! Meanwhile, the "red flag 🚩dings", had me rolling. Every time I would gasp, there would be DING .0001 second later! 😭 Still love her tho!!! She's HUMAN just like all of us w/just a few more millions in her bank accts! 😭
Gabrielle is a troubled woman and it's disgusting how she is negatively impacting his son. Dewayne's ex wife was right about Gabrielle and my heart goes out to her. I can't imagine, as a mother, having to watch another woman destroy your children 💔
She def had an agenda with that … have a boy baby on her she tried to hit him Where it hurts and that’s his son (daughter) whatever is going on there but u knw what I mean . She wud rather stay and hurt him that way . I’ve never liked her ole tight mouth hoe 😂
Outside the assault this mean girl has BEEN a willing participant in everything in her life …. She’s a Real life scorpio ( & NOT the good kind ) #carryon
What makes her stay? I cannot stand a cheater! She's faced so many scandals because of these men (in most cases), but why just deal with it as if it's acceptable behavior? The red flags are overflowing on both ends!
@@LOSTGPS lol no one has to ‘get over it’…don’t expect everyone to be ok with people cheating. And yes most people TODAY, are still monogamous even if polygamy is more common nowadays…not everyone wants to be with someone giving it away to any and everyone. Especially when together…
0:35 When she came out and admit that she would be extremely jealous of other black women I was done with her then. I don't think being a mean girl is cute, in fact it shows extremely low self-esteem. Especially how she did Ryan Destiny, because she really looked up to Gabrielle Union.
13:01 That small voice is your discernment your expectations your boundaries your standards...we gotta do better as we age ladies...not perfect but better
I always knew she was a liar & they were cheating when he was married, it was obvious. This whole situation is trifling. Cant feel sorry for any of them and they were wrong how they did his 1st wife, give that woman another $5M. What goes around comes around.
This woman ages amazing. She looks the same as she did in the movie She's All That. LOL. I find it very interesting Gabriel had the same colorism she claimed her dad had during the beginning of her dating history. It's interesting how we carry the same issues our parents do if those issues are left unaddressed. She also likes men who are unavailable. But if she's truly happy blessings be upon her. Great video as always. I had no idea Gabriel Union dated Vince Carter.🤣🤣
This is the nicest comment on here I've read I've made so many mistakes I stayed with a man 21 years abusive physically mentally and emotionally 3 outside kids I did my thing as well. The point is we are all human and have a story to tell. God forgives if you ask. But dating marries men is not good at all. I reaped alot behind that and I'm glad I did. It made a better woman out of me. No one deserves it and I'm truly sorry for it. And for the people I've hurt
I don't respect what he did to the children of his mother and I never understood how Gabrielle supported his children being alienated from their mother.
As a black woman who's always had low standards when it comes to men, I try to learn from those stars. Beautiful women like Gabrielle, Vivica Fox ect, do not seem to see the beauty they are. Although it's really hard for dark skin women.
did you take time to ask God for revelation and healing? because often the way we date can reveal a lot about our childhood trauma or family history etc.. Jeremiah 33:3 is a good verse to use when needing revelation (if you believe in God, he is the real deal😊). There are 2 books that I can suggest you it's a psychologist who wrote it "how to spot a dangerous man before you get involved by Sandra L Brown" It's really good the other one is "secrets of an irresistible woman by michelle mckinney hammond" this one put so much into perspective when it comes to relationship It's a must for every black women❣
Hard for dark skinned women?? In what way pls explain cause that statement I don't understand. Wouldn't it be hard for women of any shade? Y'all wonder why we have colorism among our ppl, this is why.
No matter the shade of my skin I would not want to make a statement like that cause I don't have color issues,we as brown skinned women need to stop addressing ourselves by the shade of our skin it's no wonder other ethnic groups do it ,it is time for us to appreciate who we are and embrace all our beautiful shades . Personally I love the dark shade of my sistas their beauty comes forth more prominent and being as I am a dark skinned sista I know what I'm talking about ✌️
She's a walking,talking red flag herself so💁🏽♀🤷🏽♀
The show "Being Mary Jane" was indeed about her!
EXACTLY 🚩
She’s seems to go after married and taken men so she’s living her Karma!!!!
😭😭
Yep, she is a red flag, she needs to heal herself.
Thy was a good show.
That’s why she took the role and was upset that it got cancelled 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Goes to show you can be drop dead gorgeous and have everything going for you and still be insecure.
Upbringing. And you can be very detached from how you look or not even care
This is a leap
That’s mean
PREACH! Her insecurities are kicking her butt.
Facts
She seems like the type that’ll find out she’s wrong about something and still won’t apologize. Prideful
Aren’t most women like that?
@@illenessOne you sound hurt or mommy didn't love you? Lol
No she beautiful individual
@@illenessOne u said some and u are right I know couple of them
She apologized to Jada about her beef with her from Bad Boys ll
There are some women who can practice humility….
Maybe the women in your family and your life are too prideful
No way Gabrielle and Duane are “the epitome of relationship goals.” No Ma’am 🤨
Exactly! They’re a sick couple IMO.
Ikr,she tires too hard.
NEVER
Facts
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Gabby’s a mean girl,I’m not fond of her or her husband. The way he did is first wife is disgusting,I can bet gabby was behind just to get the family she yearned for,karma has a way of showing up look at neyo wife all those years pretending she’s happy but was miserable,I don’t look at celebrity relationships as goals no way.
yep
And so she don't even know you so guess what she's not fond of you either the other girl don't know of your existence of you either so eat your heart out been mad at them living their life peoples business business and their life bothers you so much you now gone to Neyo, do you know what your man is doing, chill out, losing sleep over other people's business.
@@corrinepowell8332 girl she just commented on the video relax
Exactly!!!
Exactly!!
Her fear of public humiliation should be the fact that she stayed with these men that cheated… that’s more humiliating than leaving. I’m confused with her logic.
I think so too
Because it's illogical. Sad. Gabrielle could do better, but she HERSELF has to know this. With her past trauma, if she hasn't received therapy to heal herself and become more self aware, she should.
She's part of the fkn problem and part of her problem is she clearly wants to wear the pants and be the fkn man in her relationships and real man aren't gon a be emasculated and wearing skirts in their mf households PERIODDDDD🤌🏾🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@danavixen6274 are you talking about the rape!?
@@STREETCODE-d9z Yes.
Therapy and inner work is priceless. I've always wanted more for her.
Folks please please PLEASE don't make relationship decisions based on these celebrities' lives. 🤣🤣🤣
I try to learn from, I struggled with low self esteem.
@Shaèron Nikole EXACTLY 🤣🤣🤣
WORD
I wouldn't because half of these celebrities don't know jesus. 😉
@@pretibrowniss let's be honest: half the folks in church dont know Jesus for real either. 🤣 I love Jesus but His people wear me all the way out 🤣
Sooo she dated somebody that cheated on her, stayed with him, still decided to marry him, didn’t think to get a prenup and somehow thinks this is less embarrassing than just leaving him from the very beginning ?? Like girl you were literally his mom while being cheated on
That boggles my mind, the man proposed & had another woman coming with days of the proposal & she still married him with no pre-nup. Crazy 😮😮
She does however look PHENOMENAL, she ages very well.
We agree!
Facts ❤️
I agree
Agreed
Very true
While I think she is super talented and beautiful, I'll never get over how she mentioned in her book the need to try to embarrass and humiliate other black women at events. There seems to be patterns of low self esteem and trauma and I hope she finds healing 🙏🏾
I hope the women she humiliated and embarrassed find healing going through abuse does not give you the right to do the same to others. Its just makes you an abuser also
Does the book explain WHY she tries to embarrass and humiliate other black women at events?
I mean, is that some kind of preemptive strike?
I don't understand how these women think🤦🏽♀! Staying with a man who's cheating publicly to avoid embarrassment?! How about you only look stupid when you stay after being publicly humiliated again and again! Leaving makes you look brave and smart!
because she spent so much time portraying how perfect she was behind the scenes.
@@munix9351 ok but once that's been exposed as a lie, you staying makes you look weak and pathetic! If you leave at least others will look at your actions as strength and the pity turns to admiration. If you stay your open yourself to judgment and ridicule. Cat's outta the bag, girl move on!
Some women are afraid to stay alone, for them it's better to have a man no matter if he cheats or not. I was talking to a family friend about that. She replied to me that it doesn't matter if her husband cheats on her, the most important thing is that he always comes back home and she doesn't want to leave to allow another woman to take her place. I told her "girl WTF! you got a low self esteem". We ended up arguing!
@@Thegazelle1000 lmao you are too honest. I would argue with you too! You are right but so is you friend. Those women he's cheating with, at least one of them want her spot for sure cause they don't know any better. You just gotta pray for her and hope she gets tired of holding on to something that brings her so much pain. The more you try show her the light is the more stubborn she's going to be. I know it's hard to just stand by and watch but the opposite is not doing anything to improve the situation💔
Maybe as she allegedly broke up his marriage, well helped to. She doesn't want to admit he's cheated on her too. DW is despicable, typical bm who leaves the woman who was there when he had nothing. And he's so unattractive 🤮 Only money must attract her
All I know is I feel sorry for D. Wade's first wife.
She's prob better off..you're always are when they treat u badly
Rejection is protection
She is better off because he is garbage.
@@laleezy77 I agree but I mean in regards to her sons and how D Wade took them from her.
@@petitensweet08 I agree but I meant in regards of her sons being taken away from her by D Wade.
The "epitome" of relationship goals?! Ummm...No, No, and NOPE!
LOL look at the comments on their social media accounts
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Lol that’s what I said! Dude had a whole baby on her, what relationship goals? 😂
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Watching this and playing out my own dating history in my head; we all miss red flags and sometimes we see them and just ignore them.
I call it 'eyes wide shut'
No babe. She's a hoe. Period. Be accountable.
That part
We are also all red flags to somebody one way or another.
My mom always told me The tv show “being Mary Jane “ is who Gabriel actually is.
That was a Character.
It’s always her character, she got sex appeal
@@GoddesssofMind nah the married men thing, her sexuality was so close to the character, a lot of actors have to go through therapy after playing a character because they become them.
That's why she act it so well .
How about
"DELIVER US FROM EVA?"
So, she was mostly into professional sports players and was shocked when they were seeing other women🙄Then, she was okay with them cheating on her, but more upset with the story getting out to the public😏
I’m confused as well 😂😂😂
So Wade is perfect for her?
@Tracee Johnson ▪ Right, that part. 💯
Kind of like Khloe Kardashian.
U gotta c read her book it's dope!! She from Santa Rita
I'm not shocked! Gabrielle is a beautiful woman, and I know she was a rape victim in her teenage years. Experiences like that can have a truly traumatic effect on a young woman. I read her first book, and it was an eye opener. But it helped me understand the woman she is today. I hope she, Wade, Kaavia and their whole family are happy and stay together! Gabrielle is beautiful, talented, outspoken and free spirited. It is who she is!
I was looking for this comment. She has talked about this publicly and how it has led to poor decision making...
As a result, she has used that experience to DOMINATE AND EMASCULATE men in any of her relationships.
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Indeed Love her 💕
I didn’t know that…. Makes sense now. People really underestimate the effects sexual abuse has on a person. They act as if it’s something that affects victims on a physical level only.
RRG never disappoints.
Never!!!
They never ever miss!
That is why I subscribed😁💕
@@dorothysingletary4444 righttttt🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ever‼️
Gabrielle is and has always been the red flag in all her relationships.
I didn't know she has been married before. Very physically attractive woman with beautiful skin.
Yes. But with dark energy.
@@user-qz3ls9od9n I worded my comment carefully.
@@arvelynlewis 😇😅
What has she done? Apart from cheat allegedly. I used to think she was nice
I knew about her first marriage.
“She didn’t want to kick him while he was down.”
I would’ve been kicking dirt all in his face 💅🏾
Hey my baby 😻😻
What time are you coming home Missy??
😂😂😂😂yes definitely
He would have been buried in it. 😂
It's hard to be married to somebody you can't trust. It's easier to leave when you're not married, and you don't have to go through with it for "appearances""
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 I'm sorry to hear that. You deserve better.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 can I ask why?
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 My best picks are delete their phone number and all social media connections immediately. Notice I didn't say block because when they call, you have to have the strength not to pick up meaning you would break and call them. Find something interesting and intense to do. Like visit a relative that you have seen in a while, go out for long walk, go to the gym or swimming. I like reading and watching series. Pay less attention to your phone. Only talk about them to the closed of friends that you feel free to vent to or even cry. Leave the wirst details for when you are completely over them for the biggest laughter. To the rest, just say it didn't work out and keep pushing. Break ups are hard but focus on the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Let it play in your mind, that will stop you from thinking of what if I did this and that, we might have made.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 praying for your strength, and motivation to leave. There is a full checklist for women leaving abusive relationships. I’m not saying that’s what you have, but check out the check list. Failure to plan is a plan to fail. Stack up your money.
I love this couple so let them live their lives. Keep doing you Gabbie!
Low self esteem as a dark skinned black woman, coupled with her college days trauma makes me feel no kind of way. As long as she is happy, and Dwayne met those requirements I wish them well for the sake of her well-being and the children involved.
Dark skin is BEAUTIFUL. I am so glad I am not brainwashed.
@@Imissyoulou I’m glad that you aren’t “brain washed” as a dark skin woman because white supremacy coupled with patriarchy is the blueprint. Happy that black women are taking their power back, but also if you weren’t born with the tools, black girls and women will be in trouble.
Gabby is a mean girl to other black women so maybe her relationships are her karma.🤷🏾♀️
She wasn't humiliated she was desperate.
Gabrielle Union is the RED FLAG 🚩
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Exactly
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Lol... I said the same before I saw your post. When you know, you know.
I'm so glad you referenced the whole being spotted with Derek Jeter in 2007 and meeting Dwade later that same year but not being interested because she was "deeply in love" cited from her own interview. She told on herself. Wade was married to Siohvaughn (sons' mom) '02-'10 so 2007 would've been while they were very much still married. But she didn't mention his being a married man as the deterrent at all, only because she was in love. Wade's marriage was also in the public eye, so she can't claim to not have known 😂 Siohvaughn has literally been saying all along that Gabby was the other woman and no one wanted to believe her.
Black media honestly owes that woman an apology because they joined in Dwade and Gabrielle's PR campaign witch hunt to make her look crazy and get her out of the way because she was telling the truth about them. Yes, he's the one who annihilated and dishonored his wife and his vows, but Gabby had no shame or regard. Maybe Siohvaughn and Vince Carter's ex wife can write a book, not out of scorn but truth.
I always believed Siohvaughn. I was never on that bashing bandwagon just because Dwade & Gabrielle were famous.
@@marlene5494 Same 💙
@@marlene5494 me too
Always believe her💯💯
I've always felt GENUINE sadness for Siohvaughn. She was/is still done wrong by this power couple. Look at what's going on with her youngest son! It's sad if she doesn't have a say in this matter!
Her biggest mistake was dating athletes.
Repeatedly 😭
and staying with those clowns after they cheated
@@afropowa1598 Athletes aren't good choices
That first guy, Jason, did not look that hot, however, I don't like light skinned men.
@@Imissyoulou I have always liked and had crushes on guys who had darker skin. I had a friendship with a guy, who was very handsome/drop dead gorgeous/beautiful. When he and his friend would walk into the club "back in the day," as soon as they entered the doorway, all the women's heads would turn directly towards the both of them. We kicked it for a minute, but, I had to let it go. He was with the same woman who he had been with from the very first time when we actually met. And, I wasn't "by no means" trying to take him away from her because he wasn't gonna leave her anyway. I honestly, had no intent of even wanting to meet him. He said he heard I wanted to talk to him. That was a lie from the pits of hell. I already knew he was a womanizer; he just plain outright loved women. Shit started not to feel right after a while, so, I had to get out. We did care for each other and we had some really nice moments together. We would go to the park and just kick it and talk about a lot of things, which was nice. Some things happened that told me I had to exit. It is what it is. I have no ill feelings towards him, but, if I ran into him somewhere, I would, most definitely, have to run away. LOL! 😂💯😂
It's the "we ain't ones to gossip for me" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😉 I love the folks @RRG
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@@rrg ya'll have zero chill 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Seems like she has a few red flags of her own….🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ Great video!!!! 💛💛💛💛
😭😭 Thanks for watching!
Okkkaaayyyyy!!!!!!
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she is a walking red flag
@@Zimruns listen I saw her once at this club in Atlanta. She was with D Wade and that was around the time they got back together after the baby incident. When I tell y’all that woman was MEAN AF for no reason it was unbelievable. Everyone was telling Dwayne hello and she was so mad because of that.. she is crazy.. I just sat at the side observing everything.. smh but she has issues..
“Now, we ain’t the ones to gossip…” as you continue to provide the gossip and tea! 😂 I absolutely LOVE Gabrielle Union and read both of books! Athletes were definitely her type and as one of the comments stated “Being Mary Jane” was her life in a nutshell although the show was not based on her life but it should’ve because whew chile! Also, I see why she was booked for certain characters in TV shows and movies! ☕️🐸
This is the most I’ve heard that red Flag Buzzer 😭🤣
LOL!!!
I will never forget seeing his 1st wife holding a sign sitting in front of the court house. Gabrielle seems like she does a lot to save face. That’s the sad part.
Lmao he proposed with a potato wedge in hand???? Noooo😭😭😭
Can you imagine? 😭😭
Gabby is gorgeous and has an extensive acting resume. Jason Kidd is from the Bay Area and so is she. I didn’t know they dated. I’ve read her book too I get why she is the way she is. He skin tone is at the root of her own insecurities. The guys she dated picked up on it. She has been on the black struggle love bus for quite a while. When you do everything for a man he’s not going to respect you.
What is wrong with her skin tone?
She's from the Midwest, not the Bay Area.
Absolutely I am a living witness.
Black is beautiful...so what’s her problem? Please with this bullshit
Shes from Nebraska
Anyone who would make these people relationship goals must be aiming for the ground vs the stars!! I wouldn’t spend one minute of my precious time in their shoes for all the money in the world. They put on a show for the media and suffer in silence.
This👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yep
It’s the red flags beeping for me😹😹😹
Someone said they were annoying and hurt their ears LOL glad you loved them 😂😂😂
While gabrielle gets on my nerves sometimes I appreciate her being honest about her colorism issues …
I remember always thinking she was so beautiful ..
She never ages!
@@rrg most Evil ppl never do🤭🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
♥️ Love your videos. Please don’t stop with the red flags 🚩 x
More to come! 😀
I luv the 🚩. Hilarious! 😭😂🤣
I guess she’s ignoring Dwades femininity
I dont count elementary, Middle or high school relationships UNLESS the couples have been together since.
Call my phone Missy 😡😡
@TopTierEnergy already did 🤡🤡
Mean Girl Karma
She’s a walking Red Flag 🚩
I can’t get past the way they treated Siovaughn and basically alienated her from her children.
Me neither
It was extremely evil
LMAOOOO I really be cracking up at yall titles.
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I can’t understand how she felt that way about herself. I’m close to her complexion and I always got approached by white guys or light skin guys. My husband is bi racial and he chased me for years until I gave in. Glad I did…. 10 years and counting.
A lot of us darker complexes went through that- especially living in the north! It’s been my experience that southern men find us beautiful, but in the north light was always the attention getters. I went through that my entire high school year and into my 20s especially having a light skin long-haired girlfriend.
@belltowndaisyshe actually spent most of her childhood in California, in a town called Pleasanton, which is a suburb of Oakland
But that town is majority white, so your point still stands 😂
Unpopular opinion...Sorry not sorry...Gabrielle is the problem, especially in her current marriage. Narcissism permeates this marriage. When you understand Narcissists, Psychopaths and sociopaths (the dark triad) you will understand where the problem lies.🤷🏿♀️
Are you a mental health professional
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The dark triad?!🤣🤣
Seems to be a popular opinion
The small voice that told her to leave was God. She was unable to naturally carry his Child because God wanted to protect her womb. As a young woman who’s has always been told I look like Gabby it breaks my heart to see this.
I never thought about it like that
I've thought the same thing about Adrienne Bailon.
She can’t naturally carry any mans baby.. that’s not God that’s science
@BeingBrayah Amen
@@omphilemoerane2569 Amen
The Vince and Faizon story 😅😂😂
Lmfao😂😂💀💀💀🤣🤣🤤...I'd be toooo embarrassed ...shiiit
@@CiaobellaAmour Talk about going out sad 😭😂😂
Omg I was hollin 🤣🤣🤣
I'm sorry but it kind of grossed me out when I heard Faizon say they made out. 🤢
@@courtneypalmer53 Me too…and he was too happy to brag about it!
She doesn't value herself and it shows. This is the impact of colorism for many dark skin women and girls. Nonetheless, I truly wish her the best.
Not true "many dark skinned girls " false statement . It happens to women period no matter the shade !
@@darcelladowney7760 I understand what she is saying though.. What you said is also correct...however some women have insecurities about their skin colour...
@@darcelladowney7760 it’s not false…let’s not even do that
Umm what?? Whats color gotta do with her choices?
@@unapologeticallyblack4159 if you want to play this little game of colorism doesn't exist and doesn't impact dark skin black women more than any other group, then go ahead but I'm not going back and forth with you about the truth and reality of the impact of colorism. Have a blessed day ❤️
She got revenge bcoz Dwayne Wades has 3 Rings and Jason Kidd just has 1. 😂
Forget humiliation I would be out that door with the quickness. At the end of the day nobody is perfect. I couldn’t do it. I really like her, and love her as an actress. She’s fierce. I wish the best for her always.🙏🏾💕
That takes courage and self respect.
Stop using that as a crutch
She's a real life Mean Girl!!!
Why is everyone calling her mean?
@@MoDavI-sl7iy Gabby actually admitted it herself in an interview with Oprah years ago.
@msls6592 Hence why she always played the mean girl role well on TV and in film. I still think that she’s a mean girl, but not as mean as she used to be.
The red flags are hilarious 😂😂But their baby Kaavia is a blessing . She’s a delight .
She's such a cutie!
The woman who challenged aging 💪🏿
She does look phenomenal
And won!
Indeed, what's the "witch's brew", that shez consuming 💯🤨🤨🧹🪄🪄
@@thesecretaryofcommonsense3851 she took it and they took away her ability to have a child
you’ve heard it all too often, but know this much is true; your beauty is deeper than the oceans
She saw Dwayne as basically a last hood for marriage and that’s why she was willing to put up with him cheating and making a what they call “A break baby”
Nobody considers them relationship goals…
They do though lol
@@rrg - Yup, just like Will and Jada. SMH
No one in their RIGHT mind would consider them relationship goals. She wears the pants and her husband wears the dresses, the same as Will and Jada. There’s nothing attractive about a weak man.
Nobody with good sense, at least
Fr fr!
Nine miscarriages can be very painful...
Wanting to have a child that is so easy for others, but seems impossible for you...
I don't have words to express...
Happy to See Gabrielle & Dwayne Doing so well...
Wish Them both best...
I'm a dude I feel it from Tha other side. I'm happy fa Gabrielle my East Bay Sista Yee!!!
Mind you, Gabrielle Union is aging better than Kim Burrell 🫢.
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Lol
preach!
Damn 💀💀💀
She started off ahead to begin with so...
"Would I be who I am today without that pain"...I felt that
Seems like she’s a red flag that was attracted to other red flags…but she was honest lol
This relationship itself was a red flag at some point and honestly she's a red flag herself.
So in THE END Gabrielle SETTLED like she ALWAYS had..sad sad sad😣 #NOselfworth
She aint settling she found someone who is will put up with her BS and let her run the show. Thats a win for me.
@@tomarasmith4459 What bullshit does she come with? Name 2 valid ones.
It’s kind of crazy how all the characters that she ever betrayed was the baseline of her own story From #DeliverUsFromEve #TwoCanPlayThatGame #BreakinAllTheRule #GoodDeeds #ThinkLikeAMan2 Down To #BeingMaryJane
Hey bestie thanks for another great video. I don’t understand for the life of me why some women think staying a compulsive cheater is better than a divorce. I know divorce is hard but why tolerate someone stomping on your heart. Repeatedly! Love yourselves ladies, I know it’s not easy but please remember you are worth happiness.
Hey bestie! We agree with everything you said! Self-love is the best love ❤️❤️
She's lived with him longer then she has been marrired to him. Talk about buying the cow and having the milk for free. Oh, but she's so sophisticated, liberal, worldly, successful. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I got the impression that she knew he was a cheater... And it did not hurt her heart at all... What she feared was the public Humiliation.... But once someone tried to make it public, then she was ready to roll out.
This is the shadiest video y'all have ever uploaded and I am here for it! I'm literally LMAO 🤣 Well done RRG!
Yeah, I'm here for the mess! 😂😭
Interesting topic and title, her husband said in a interview within the last 2 years on the Ellen Show, that his wife Gabrielle was the boss and that he was 5th in line within the household to having a say in their household and that even the family dog was before him. Thought 2nd hand embarrassment and bless the children and the 1st wife who doesn't have a say in her children's life
Very good, this made things much more clear to me about Gabrielle. I will never understand how someone can think her marriage represents high standard for others.
Wow! I am so shocked, that I need to watch this for a 2nd time, to see if I missed anything! Meanwhile, the "red flag 🚩dings", had me rolling. Every time I would gasp, there would be DING .0001 second later! 😭 Still love her tho!!! She's HUMAN just like all of us w/just a few more millions in her bank accts! 😭
40 years later, she is still drop dead gorgeous 😍.....Faison Love made me 🤢🤢 up in my mouth.
Can’t believe shit he says
Yeah he’s gross
@@COURTNEYVCK And ur beautiful 🤤🤤
The excitement when I see a new video from RRG!!!!
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Luv this channel
Gabrielle is a troubled woman and it's disgusting how she is negatively impacting his son. Dewayne's ex wife was right about Gabrielle and my heart goes out to her. I can't imagine, as a mother, having to watch another woman destroy your children 💔
I Agree,I'm surprised that know one seems to see the real B @@%* that she is.
She def had an agenda with that … have a boy baby on her she tried to hit him
Where it hurts and that’s his son (daughter) whatever is going on there but u knw what I mean . She wud rather stay and hurt him that way . I’ve never liked her ole tight mouth hoe 😂
It's heartbreaking
What negative impact?
She one sick person!!! That a rap..
SHE is the red flag.
How you get 'em is how you keep 'em. Gabby is broken and knows it and so are all them me she captured. I wish her well.
I love getting notifications from this channel
We love you too!
I lost count of the red flag sound effects. Thank you for your deep dive and thorough analysis.
Outside the assault this mean girl has BEEN a willing participant in everything in her life …. She’s a Real life scorpio ( & NOT the good kind ) #carryon
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You said it 👏
Ooooh a Scorpio dear God...say no more lol
Her and Tracee Ellis Ross are my birthday twins. We are free spirits and our happiness is what matters.
@@tomarasmith4459 mean girls
It’s giving Toni Childs vibes 🤣
What makes her stay? I cannot stand a cheater! She's faced so many scandals because of these men (in most cases), but why just deal with it as if it's acceptable behavior? The red flags are overflowing on both ends!
“I can’t stand a cheater” get over it, humans aren’t naturally monogamous, stop being emotional.
@@LOSTGPS Whatever you say...
Asè
@@LOSTGPS lol no one has to ‘get over it’…don’t expect everyone to be ok with people cheating. And yes most people TODAY, are still monogamous even if polygamy is more common nowadays…not everyone wants to be with someone giving it away to any and everyone. Especially when together…
People pleasing is a bad thing.
@@jba414 low self-esteem
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When she came out and admit that she would be extremely jealous of other black women I was done with her then. I don't think being a mean girl is cute, in fact it shows extremely low self-esteem. Especially how she did Ryan Destiny, because she really looked up to Gabrielle Union.
Ya know Gabrielle is Mean Vindictive Narciss..
She is reformed
What did she do to her?
what did she do to Ryan destiny???
She not afraid to do her without any apology and looking beautiful while doing it😊
That's very true!
I can definitely see why she titled her book "We're Going to Need More Wine". 😝 But it's all good. I love wine. 🍷♥️
Your channel is great, you're a great story teller
She is the red 🚩
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I always thought the show "Being Mary Jane" was a reflection on Gabrielle's real traits.
I hated that show!
Whew!! I actually _am_ shocked! I guess I wasn’t paying attention bc I had no idea it was so messy!! 😩 but..Heyy RRG!! 😆 thanks for this! ❤️❤️❤️
Yesssss -- I was most definitely enlightened about her love journey.
I love this channel.. Classy, respectable and knowledgeable.❤
Thank you so much! ❤️😘
SHE IS THE RED FLAG
Gabrielle is troubled to say the least. Her relationship is not goals but her SKIN!!!!! Beautiful.
13:01 That small voice is your discernment your expectations your boundaries your standards...we gotta do better as we age ladies...not perfect but better
Thanks
Thank you so so much, Mark! ❤️
Just in time besties. #1 supporter!❤️
We love you bestie!
I always knew she was a liar & they were cheating when he was married, it was obvious. This whole situation is trifling. Cant feel sorry for any of them and they were wrong how they did his 1st wife, give that woman another $5M. What goes around comes around.
This woman ages amazing. She looks the same as she did in the movie She's All That. LOL. I find it very interesting Gabriel had the same colorism she claimed her dad had during the beginning of her dating history. It's interesting how we carry the same issues our parents do if those issues are left unaddressed. She also likes men who are unavailable. But if she's truly happy blessings be upon her. Great video as always. I had no idea Gabriel Union dated Vince Carter.🤣🤣
This is the nicest comment on here I've read I've made so many mistakes I stayed with a man 21 years abusive physically mentally and emotionally 3 outside kids I did my thing as well. The point is we are all human and have a story to tell. God forgives if you ask. But dating marries men is not good at all. I reaped alot behind that and I'm glad I did. It made a better woman out of me. No one deserves it and I'm truly sorry for it. And for the people I've hurt
Actually she looks better
Me either vince is fine I'm not surprised.
7:24 him and Ellen I'm not shocked many men cheat 😳.
I don't respect what he did to the children of his mother and I never understood how Gabrielle supported his children being alienated from their mother.
Sio and Zaire have a relationship. I don't think she and Zaya deal with each other.
Darren Sharper tho wow. 🙄😒
Gabrielle Union is beautiful but she definitely have issues and alot of bodies/soul ties.
As a black woman who's always had low standards when it comes to men, I try to learn from those stars. Beautiful women like Gabrielle, Vivica Fox ect, do not seem to see the beauty they are. Although it's really hard for dark skin women.
Now, Vivica has learned her lessons and she is happy and full of joy, being single.
did you take time to ask God for revelation and healing? because often the way we date can reveal a lot about our childhood trauma or family history etc.. Jeremiah 33:3 is a good verse to use when needing revelation (if you believe in God, he is the real deal😊). There are 2 books that I can suggest you it's a psychologist who wrote it "how to spot a dangerous man before you get involved by Sandra L Brown" It's really good the other one is "secrets of an irresistible woman by michelle mckinney hammond" this one put so much into perspective when it comes to relationship It's a must for every black women❣
Hard for dark skinned women?? In what way pls explain cause that statement I don't understand. Wouldn't it be hard for women of any shade? Y'all wonder why we have colorism among our ppl, this is why.
@@darcelladowney7760 Ask Meghan , LOL.. If you don't understand my statement it is because you are not a dark skin black.
No matter the shade of my skin I would not want to make a statement like that cause I don't have color issues,we as brown skinned women need to stop addressing ourselves by the shade of our skin it's no wonder other ethnic groups do it ,it is time for us to appreciate who we are and embrace all our beautiful shades . Personally I love the dark shade of my sistas their beauty comes forth more prominent and being as I am a dark skinned sista I know what I'm talking about ✌️
Now this was good! 15min of pure entertainment and a lot of stuff i had nooo idea about
The story of a woman who didn’t know her worth. She’s so beautiful
Because of childhood abuse....it happens to many
Her worth is only because of her looks? lol
I absolutely love the video RRG good job once again. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Great one 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 Gabi just wants to be happy, so she ignored the red flags.
Thanks for watching!