Why Do White People Adopt Black Children?
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- Опубліковано 6 тра 2024
- In all honesty, the answer is a lot simpler than you think it is. Either encourage more people of colour to adopt or just shut up about it! Geez… 🙄
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Because their black family members won't adopt them perhaps?
This woman is just making everything about herself.
He should tell the kids. “Blk people won’t let me raise you. Put back the toys”. Why help certain people. No matter how much you apologize you will always be Wht to them. Look up AK Nation. In April 3 Wht people a day in 🇺🇸. By Blk 🇺🇸. Billy Chemirmir over 22 elderly women. But all Wht in Biden’s 🇺🇸. Dems don’t want to stop racism or violence.
Why don’t Black people adopt Black children?
My sister adopted 4 biracial children who were in need of a loving home. I find people criticizing actions that are overwhelmingly positive, offensive and narcissistic.
Cos black people won't?
How many children has this woman taken in?
I’m wondering, the same thing
Zero I'm sure. Honestly that's a good thing orphans would be better off in foster care than be adopted by a legit racist like her
Hopefully none!! she seems very aggressive and abusive yuck
Well said bro. That woman is only keeping racism alive. What matters is he chose to raise them. He wanted them as his family and that's beautiful.
She IS a racist.
She didn't adopt them. Why not be glad someone did. Horrible person
Not everything is about race/colour. why aren't the black people adopting black children. Children need love and care and nuture.... I as a black woman would rather be with a white/different race than to be in the system.
Ok why ask that question if you going to your rather be with white and different race In the system.
Why? Because every child deserves love and a family. Don’t ask ignorant questions, please.
Friends of mine adopted 2 boys as infants. One is half white and half Hispanic. The other is half black and half Hispanic. The mothers lost custody because of drug and neglect issues. Do NOT tell me those boys would be better in an orphanage. They are both great, happy respectful kids who are loved and cared for. Oh and by the way their adoptive parents are Christians.
Maybe because you won't.
I mean unfortunately there are way too many children in the foster care system and adoption system who right now do not have the love and care they deserve because their parents, for whatever reason, could not give it to them.
If there are families, regardless of their skin color being the same or not, if they’re being given love and care and an environment to be the best person they can be, why is that a problem? Yes obviously some tough conversations will have to be had but at the core, if the child is receiving love and stability, then that is what matters.
Totally agree. And if these children grow up to be stable, skilled human beings because of the stable loving family they grew up in, and they are not 'underprivileged' (hate that word, but okay), then any racial issue will bother them much less. They know what they're worth anyway. They know they are loved. That's way more important than any racial lessons others might be able to give.
People who grew up in the system and never had much to show for, who have low self confidence, will be much more vulnerable if they ever encounter racial injustice.
Oh my please stop with racial stereotypes. It’s 2024. Seriously, getting tired of the I’m a victim.
Because the babies need homes and families question answered
Its better the child is in a home that wanted a child. Not in an orphanage, group home or other not normal situation.
Thank you, I was in foster care as a child. I just wanted to have a family of my own
The amount of people who have gone after that racist woman for her nonsense is so heartwarming. It's like we're finally rounding the corner from this clown world.
to give them a better life.
My white self and my white husband adopted a black child from foster care a long time ago. Said son now hates us and thinks we’re racist. We still love him. He’s our son, just confused at this time.
Oh no. I'm African, so sorry to hear about this. Soo painful. So painful. Unfortunately some children are difficult to love than others, irrespective of skin I think difficult temperament and personality or hot headedness affects kids n youth of all races.
I have 3 kids myself and one of them is very hostile and rambunctious towards me and the mother though I try not to go overboard wit the authority and discipline. Must be even harder with an adopted child of another race. Children and youth also pass through idiotic phases.
Anyways I'm sure you guys will chart out way forward, but I feel sad for your struggle despite choosing to sacrifice and love the child.
This lady plays the victim card a lot, that's for sure.
Humans loving other humans is bad now, lol. I adopted two kids myself. A boy and a girl. Brother and sister and I could not separate them. That was 15 years ago. I could not imagine my life without them.
We are different ethnicity don't act like we all the same when we not.
@@kaizatengoku3893 No two people are the same. Polar bears are white and grizzly bears are brown they both are still bears.
@rabidpepe But polar bears skull and nose are longer.Polar bear are excellent swimmers, But brown bears can't swim. Brown bears possess sharper and longer claws for killing and digging prey.Polar bears have firmer grip for walking on ice. See their differences make them unique and more different from each other. So they not technically the same except for in species category.
@@kaizatengoku3893 Exactly! They are still bears. Some eat meat, some don't but still bears.
When I walk in the woods I do realize that their is diversity but I celebrate it. Are we at least allowed to celebrate diversity in nature? When I walk pass people I love their differences and the way they express their identity. Because I think its awesome. Please diversity is everywhere. Its like trying to escape your shadow. You can only avoid it by remaining in the dark girl.
I have a feeling those two little boys are going to have a little brother or sister soon.😂
maybe because there are a lot of orphaned black children to adopt. market saturation. it's also an uncomfortable statistic the amount of black crime and some people want to fix that. it's good for the black community because they're not going to raise them right so someone has to
Why does she sound like she has a big problem with that? does it affect your life? What does it matter what race they are? They're children plain and simple they need a good life they need a family they need a home 🏡🥺🥺
In the USA there's approximately 1 million abortions per year, and approximately 2 million parents wanting to adopt! And they have a heart full of LOVE and prefer to adopt a child that needs parents. BUT what the big question is...what does it matter what race the child and or parents adopting them? They must go through a rigorous process to be able to adopt any child!!!!
Out of the goodness of their hearts 💞
Who cares? So long as the kids are being loved and taken care of, who fucking cares what color the parents and kids are?
I knew a white girl who was adopted by a black family.
Oh wow. Hope they loved her and took Care of her well.
@@lonewulfmo9128 of course they did!
A real question for me is “how many black children have you adopted?”
Because they are babies who need a home.
Because you don’t look after them ,,people love children colour don’t mean nothing and you making a big scene about it ,,,be glad that the kids are looked after
Perhaps th hey didn’t want two little brothers to languish in the system because no one else wanted them?
call me wrong for this but as a white guy i would gladly take a black baby or kid under my wing, not just black actualy. any race, it is a good feeling to give a better life to someone who would of other wise had it rough. is that so bad lmao
and no im not saying everyone other than white people have it rough. cos we do too. we live in the same damn economy.......stop caring so much about the nitty gritty and look at the bigger picture. you simply cant get mad at someone for helping others...thats just crooked and weird
Who cares!!!!
Purple green blue
They're innocent children and a blessing!🙏❤️
They are adopting children period children need families and love
To add to that, please let these kids have a place of belonging. Don't walk up to this family and constantly remind these kids they didn't start out in this home. Adopted children and foster children have enough issues with bonging already, just internally. They don't need it fed externally.
Just as long as they are able to be there for the kids when racial issues arise, theres no problem
If a black family adopted a white child would that family try to raise that child in a "white" culture? Or would they raise that child as one of their children? Raise children as children of the family who adopted them.
Majority of black (or brown etc) couples who are willing to adopt don't adopt outside their race. Because this is America and they know better so don't worry about that because these situations are pretty rare compared to the opposite (yt couple with adopted black, brown, Asian etc. kids) Let them play the saviors.
What's wrong with adopting a child of a different race?
Everything apparently to trash like that woman
You don't undetstand this, because you're not racist.
The reality of America. You can scream I don't see color! as long as you like. But we know you do.
Preach that truth sir
Who let this lady out of the barn??
🤣🤣🤣🤣
You spelled "asylum" wrong
Thank you 💜🙏🏽🕊️
Why do Americans always make it all about race and nationality?
I know personally two couples that adopted children from different nationality and colour than they are (one Slavic family that adopted a black kid and other Slavic family that adopted a Chinese baby) and no one had any problem with that in our country. It feels so weird that all things that are considered normal and no one would make about race or nation in your country are suddenly controversy and cultural debate in the US.
Maybe just focus on the fact that there are A LOT of babies of all colors who need loving homes?
To answer your question, its because our political system has devolved into identity politics and racebaiting is used all the time to distract people, create division, and pave the way for a sociality/communist society. The dumbing down of the population has been ongoing for decades and decades. I recall, when I was a child some 40 years ago, the USA was among the highest standards of living in the world and was among the top in many metrics. That isn't the case these days. Most Americans don't make their lives about skin color, etc. It's all MSM and the woke agenda trying to shove it down everyone's throat. You'll see this sort of bickering back in forth in the comments, but its not quite like that in the real world, other than the big liberal cities if anywhere. Things certainly weren't like this when I was growing up.
Democrat politicians get a lot of mileage out of it. They are the ones perpetuating racism. It was rapidly dying out in the 1980s.
Stop generalizing
America has a problem with racism always had. But don't act like Slavic countries like black or brown folks they use the N-word like it's nothing 😂
Well said
Well put. Children are Children no matter what color or nationality. We're all human 😊
That’s pure stupidity.
@@christerry7689...some of us are puppies?
@@JP2GiannaT
Are you new to Earth??
So u believe black and white children have the same strengths, abilities, tendencies, preferences characteristics etc???
By the way, the word ‘nation’ derived from the same word ‘nature’ did…
Each nation has a different nature.. it’s the way God made us, and we may as well accept it!
I was bullied as a child in grade school because I was friends with different color skin as she was the nicest friend to have and needless to say I stuck by her as a true friend no matter what. That's reality check !!!!!!!
@christerry7689 The stupidity is being racist and needs to be stopped as nobody needs the ignorance no matter what color or nationality they are. Reality check!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thenk you . 😊
I do think that if you are raising a child who is a person of color, as a parent, you do need to ready your child for the difficulties they will likely face. But i fully agree with what youre saying.
Now, let’s not act like some of these YT folks that adopt black children don’t blatantly ignore the culture they come from while raising them. Of course these kids deserve family, love and all of that. I don’t know if you’ve encountered a black person raised by YT people in real life try to participate in black culture is extremely awkward. It really disconnects them
Oh gwad the amount of whining is mindblowing. Their own parents screwed over the kids and now y'all wanna whine to the whites who spend their life and ressourcers raising OTHER ppls children. Damn thats a ridiculous level of ungrateful spoiledness. 😮 just be happy these white folks are so nice otherwise those poor blck kids would be on the streets.
Gosh. As a non-American I will never understand US obsession with race. It's just ridiculous. In my country, it doesn't matter if you're white, black, red, yellow or purple, you're a part of culture you were raised in. Kids are not "black kids", "white kids" or "asian kids", they're just KIDS. They weren't filled with racism and stupid social expectations yet so it doesn't matter what colour they are as long as their adoptive parents give them a happy life.
You behave like blacks, whites, hispanics, asians, etc are essentially different and need to be treated in different ways. Sounds like racism to me.
Versus growing up with no family to speak of, growing up in foster care or worse. But you are right it is more important that the child grow up participating in culture than in a loving family. Grow up dude.
@@lisamarieva3514 so true. Pootube deleted my comment, so just gonna say i totally agree with you.
YT folks don't care about other cultures. That's what they really mean when saying "I see no color!"
Love is intention with action. Commitment to any person, especially a child, is noble. Black folks I know are so quick to throw around the Bible, but forget loving thy neighbor and thyself. As if the humans around you are an extension of you. Collective consciousness and enlightenment is few and far between. The cognitive dissonance is embarrassing, and sad.
Amen
I ubderstand both sides. Racism is alive and well and one of the most racism things to say in the current enviroment is that there is no racism. Thats how its problem when people dont see color until they ready to start quouting negative black statistics
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IDK i'm not going to act like I haven't asked this my question myself. I remember early 2000's it seemed like EVERY celeb went to Africa to adopt some kids and I was like....."you know we got kids here in the states that need adopting" might not be the same thing, but I have asked this question and I grew up in foster care. It's not that deep.
idk, I think a segment of Whites have a savior complex or want to impress other Whites in their segment circle. I am White and can't understand it.
@@MsMollah it's not a savor complex.. not all white people are bad people.. with people do care about others.. white people used pregnant black female slaves to take care of their babies back then... it's more of a damn caring problem..
Her comments make more sense if you listen to them in whole. Her point is, white parents of black children will have to address the issue of race at some point. And she suggests that parents get their adopted black children in therapy.
Instead, I think white parents should tell their adopted black children, skin color is not important and doesn’t tell us anything about who you are. Race is something people madd up. But in reality, all humans are the same species and there are no subspecies of humans. People build families with people they love and care about. People build communities with people they cooperate with. And skin color is not important when who you choose to love or cooperate with.
But there are people in the world who think skin color is important or that people with a certain skin color share a common culture or identity, that people should be divided by skin color, and that people should live only with other who have the same skin color. We don’t have to listen to those people. They are wrong. They are not important and we can ignore them.
There are people who think it's important and most are black. These kids Will catch more BS from blacks than anyone else, know it.
There's much more to life than race. If that is the only thing the adoptive parents can not fully help their children with, they still are great parents. At least better than most of the options that were available. There are so many other things that children need. If they have all their other needs met, then their race matters less anyway. Like if you're doing well at school, because your adoptive parents brought you up well, can have enough self confidence to not let any racial matter bother you. So parents can prepare their children for racial issues in different ways. Not just by being of the same race.
Also, maybe you should tell this to all these mixed raced children of white mothers with absent black fathers. What about their racial issues? Please go and blame the right people.
@@anniehope8651 I agree. I don't know why you're replying to me.
That's what the UFC fighter basically said when asked why he was adopting the kids (Your 2nd paragraph ) ..But she took it to a whole new level, and didn't recognise the good the ufc fighter is actually doing, he stepped up
My cousin, who is a single successful African American nurse in her early 50s tried to adopt a child who was in NICU and she was denied adoption, yet a young Caucasian woman was able to adopt a child and she was single as well. So, please do not say that there are not African-Americans who won't adopt because there are, but they are denied adoption rights in some cases.
Sorry to break it to you buddy but the adoption programs are extremely rigorous and do background checks, psych check etc. she probably failed a test. It’s that simple, white people are denied to and like the guy says in video most foster have white kids as majority… meaning parents had to give up for some reason…
He's not saying there aren't African Americans that don't adopt. He's saying that the pool of them isn't that big. Listen to his words carefully.
And yes they do thorough background checks and the procedure is usually in this order
1: they will find relatives of the child first to see if they will. If they can find any.
2: they will try to match them with families of the same race or ethnicity.
3: if all that fails then it becomes an open door for anyone who applies
@@B3OWOLF416and why do you think they see the second step as necessary while all the yt folks crying "race doesn't matter"? Because in America's reality it still does no matter what you say and the foster care system at least knows that. That's why this is wrong and the lady is right.
@@onlyfoesthere's no denying reality in USA. Even though 2nd step is part of it, it eventually boils down to getting the children in loving homes that will take care of them in the end because that's better than no home. And those state run foster homes are ruthless. If the try to pair the child with a family of the same race and it's been years and they can't find one or one won't adopt them. Who is that on? It isn't a match them correct or let them suffer. The mercenary mentality isn't necessary in their case, there's no need to harden them, let them be kids
A legitimate question if ever there was one. Look what they do to their "family" members you know ( dogs & cats) they "fix" them.
You mean spay and neuter their pets? You do understand that a dog or cat isn't a human child, don't you? That is zero to do with people of one colour adopting kids of another colour. Skin colour is superficial. It is other humans that make it an issue.
I don’t have a problem with them adopting the kids however I do have a problem when they raise them to not see color. They need to understand how things work in society. It’s the difference between life and being unalived.
Lmao..the white people say ..they don’t see color! Children get older and will see their skin color! Stop making big deal out of it! They will have a good home ..parents …and good education!
They need to know that thanks to affirmative action they'll have an easier life than their lighter skinned peers. And they need to seize that opportunity.
But also because of affirmative action, there is a high chance that people will think he didn't earn the spot he's in. Ain't that something.
Will they protect those children from their own friends and families ...can they! will they even understand!. All it takes is one bad parent child day for the N word to come out and its down hill
But nine out of ten times the N word comes out of African Americans in this country. 😏
Well said