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🤣 LMAO thank you for your honesty. This ENFP is becoming an INFJ. BTW IS THAT POSSIBLE AFTER TRAUMA? I think I am.... an introvert!!!!! Actually it's better. 😂 I can still talk to anyone if it's not personal.
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As an INTP, I’ve been in so many group projects by myself that I got so frustrated by everyone slacking off. Then, one day, people actually helped my and I was extremely shocked
As an INTP I stopped this habit right after entering college, I was like nope, not happening. If I get a F, at least everyone gets a F. And everyone would start the project like 2 days before the deadline, together, and we'd still complete XD
@Annelise Williams ISTJ here and I would love nothing more than for my project to get me a good grade and for my entire class to have absolutely 0 memory of the presentation 20 minutes later xD
As an INFJ, I do most of the project myself, while letting others I’ve worked with think they’ve been helpful. (But they were actually holding me back).=)
I'd do the entire project by myself without telling anyone (just in case) and then when they show me their slides, insert them into my project. That way; even if they didn't do their bit we can still present, but if they did do their part, less presenting for me. All it costs is a lot of needless time and effort! 😁👍
When asking my ISTP son if he's finished tomorrow's presentation he answers: -Yes. Why? - Well, who did you do it with? - Jonathan. He's doing part 2. - Well have you practiced the presentation together? -Why? He just reads his part, I read mine. - Well, has he even done his part? - I hope so or I'll kill him tomorrow. 😂
I love ISTPs they’re so straightforward and simple once you figure them out! Lots of misunderstandings, but no mind games and things usually work out fine as long as you accept how they are and offer some benefit of doubt rather than make assumptions about their sometimes odd or even hurtful behavior. After you get used to their bluntness they are incredibly refreshing to be around and the ones I know are so talented and interesting!
INTJ here. This representation is honestly so accurate for the way I do school. If its something I'm confident I can do in a short time then I'll 100% wait until the three minutes before class starts to to do my half. Why waste the effort getting it done early when you could listen to your professor talk about it for two weeks and hear your classmates complain about it as well. All of that is so much freakin intel dude.
I'm the opposite. I'd do it in the first three minutes after we first here about it and then do nothing until it eventually comes. You know... Unless I keep forgetting... Like that guy did... Hmm...
High school homework, we had to write a summary of our hometown as if writing for a travel brochure. I got picked to read mine aloud in class. Of course, I'd completely forgotten to write it, so winged it anyway. At the end of my detailed presentation, my teacher stared at me and smirked "you didn't do that homework, did you?", to which I straight admitted "no". He then reminded me that it only meant to be a summary, not a novel, but commended me for essentially pulling a 10 minute monologue out of my arse with no prep. I'll never forget the tension in the room when I admitted to not having done the homework, as that teacher was known for being quite strict.
Yeah thanks dude, I really appreciate the effort, like I’d never waste my time with something like that knowing that most ppl will take it for granted. So once again, thanks 🫶🏽
So true, I've written entire papers 30min before class and still got an A. However, it's probably because I had been writing my entire paper, in my head, for weeks, I just didn't actually physically write it down 😅.
Start same day it’s supposed to be handed in fake sickness and stay awake for 75 hours straight writing the whole paper until you start hallucinating, faint and get weird full body twitches. Then turn it in only for the teacher to accuse you of getting someone else to write it for you because it’s too good, whatever that means. Ended up only getting a passing grade because they are convinced you cheated, but can’t prove it 😭😭😭 I swear I never recovered the brain cells I fried in the process of writing that stupid paper
As an INFJ, that was totally true. One time i did this presentation with ESTP. And he was like "I'm gonna crush it" and then the next day he was like "what presentation?" And the night before the presentation he asked me what topic he was supposed to do. But THEN... the moment he was presenting, he became suddenly the master of that topic. I don't know how that worked that well for him.
I (ENTP) just studied for an exam with an ESTP and it went really well so I invited my INFJ friend to pick the subject and join. Two weeks after the exam he called me to tell me that he doesn’t like such large study groups which really confuses me cause 3 is not large. Also we got a lot done so it can’t be that. I asked him if he disliked my ESTP friend and he said no. INFJs are mysteries.
@@Janine396 i don't know the full story. But i feel like your INFJ friend might have felt uncomfortable because ESTPs tend to speak about the tiniest flaw in conversation. Like if i said "the speed of light is 300million meters" my ESTP friend would tell me "It's actually 299 792 458 meters". And that is really annoying for me to study with my ESTP friend. But I think as time passes your ESTP and INFJ friends will get along well since their cognitive functions are the same. They will understand where the other person is coming from. ))
@@namuun7629 Thank you very much that's actually helpful! He did do that and I might have thought it was super funny that I said a lot of obviously unrealistic stuff and my ESTP friend corrected me (like I expected). I thought my INFJ friend was waiting to warm up to tune in cause introverts take longer but apparently not haha The arguments we had in front of him were really informativ and not only about what we were supposed to know but so much more knowledge for life, so I thought he hit the jackpot studying with us, I would have never guessed that was the problem
@@sarahelo009 Me too! Although I turn beet red whenever I do a presentation. Oh, and there is no sleep the night after the presentation because I keep thinking about how ridiculous I might have looked or sounded that day 🥲.
Advice given to me as INTP from INFP: "Deliberately be awkward and then it becomes a comedy show that people can laugh at." I still haven't done the self-promo video but I know an INFP who got a job this way but he's also a genius. INFPs are the smartest type hands down and as an INTP I am beyond happy to hand you the trophy for that.
As an INFP, I always want to do the speaking for presentations because I like looking smart in front of a group, which inevitably always backfires when I put my foot in my mouth, mumble aimlessly, put myself down, accidentally insult someone I admire, and have to spend the rest of the day crying in hiding.
literally just had a presentation where i jokingly insulted the crowd,,,everyone thought i was rude after that (i apologised to them, very close to tears btw so it’s fine)
nah this is so real i literally just stutter and then it looks liek im doing it for attention so the poeple are jsut fucking annoyed then and then it makes me feel so utterly helpless that i half ass it or rather like one sixteenth ass it and get shit marks for my speaking skills even though i wrote a good speech yk
me (isfp) and my entj classmate/friend are very different in how much we care about school. she veeery much dislikes lazy people and respects hard-work, where as I dont really do homework, but we still share a mutual respect and understanding as well as liking of eachother. despite our differences we find a common language are understand eachother. it is a very interesting dynamic, as we seem to be so different in so many ways, yet still something brings us together.
I'm an INTJ but I never forget doing my projects in fact I usually end up being the one who not only completes their own part of the project on time but also has to constantly hammer the other lazy group members to do their part on time and since I don't find it easy relying on other people, I review their work and redo if need be to ensure that the project is of high quality.
Fr 😭😭😭😭 or end up receiving the estp part really late and yet staying awake all night to correct ir or change it accordingly, but also reassuring the estp they did a great job! ✨👌🏻😂
The ENTP one was so accurate, I just got war flashbacks to grade school where I would over complicate seemingly simple projects and stress myself TF out, just because I didn’t want to do things the standard way 😅
for presentations i either try to make them as fun as possible or do them last minute while putting in zero effort and just copy pasting there's no in between
No time wasting, while I'm the whole incarnation of a 69 ways to procrastinate while not doing anything meaningful... But if you're taking literal short term instances, I just jump right into it...
Saaaaaame! It's like my ideal group project would be perfectly divided based on individual strengths and yet I 100000% see the value in just GET IT DONE Love, ENFJ
@@Yumeko_Himo Both 😀 I forget things often, especially when under stress and/or it's something that I don't find interesting, even if it's important. I also practice the healthy habit of avoiding doing things I don't like until the last-minute pressure sets in. (This might also be due to some kind of neurodivergence.)
INFP here. In the beginning I thought "I'm actually good a those presentations", then I remembered how many times I managed to convince the rest of the group to let me do big part of the preparation and have them present the stuff. As a grown up once a colleague talked me into doing a presentation at a charity and I decided I'll never again in my life do such a thing in the middle of it. The anxiety was killing me 😂
Whenever I have to give a big presentation, I lose my recollection of it as soon as I am done. My body just does the presentation and my mind is blank. Was I good, was I bad? I don't care, it was the most uncomfortable thing I ever lived through. And the next time someone asks me to present stuff, I will just say yes and still do it because I am such a people pleaser.
I'm an INFP, and I had to take a public speaking class in college. I still cringe whenever I reflect on the presentations I had to give, and I honestly have no clue as to how I passed.
I had this same exact thought watching this lol I feel like I'm great at presentations but when I really think about it... there's definitely a lot of shirts I've sweat through and nervous twitching i overlooked during an otherwise "flawless" presentation lol
@@RB-gi3zqSame. People tell me I'm a natural and look very comfortable presenting, but in reality my body goes on autopilot and I barely remember anything. Then I spend the hour after that shaking due to nerves
As an INFP I did use to struggle speaking in public when I had to do presentations but after some time I just started to tell myself that a presentation is basically when I talk to someone about a topic I really like but this time there was going to be a group of people watching and listening and it actually helped me improve 😅
As an INFP, I like your advice. I noticed that if I am interested in the topic, my presentations go quite well. So, the secret is to get interested in the topic. Which can be hard if you are in school and get boring assignments.
Honestly, I WOULD do that as an INFP, but it would be followed by intense guilt and “Maybe I should have helped in presenting” but then I would picture the horrors and shut that thought down immediately. :)
As an ISFJ, this just happened during my last semester. A poster would have taken less amount of time but they wanted to do a PODCAST and then they kept wanting to rerecord it and it was very frustrating. It sounded good the first time, they just didn't like how their voices sounded!!
ENTJ and ISFP finding common ground at the end was hilarious. 😂🤣 They are totally Gucci. Poor INFJ. That’s why I hated group projects all through school. 😂
As an INFJ…I procrastinate too much to have worked on a school project for 3 weeks. Oddly enough, I also depend on that last minute panic for some things.
True. I had a presentation in science recently that I had five weeks to prepare, yet I didn’t even start until the day before the presentation was due, and ended up calling in sick and got it postponed another week.
@@missrobinhoodie yeah that on point. I also do it last day but at that point i've been thinking about it for weeks and how exactly i want it to be and so actually it is weeks worth of work... The drafts are just in my head. My ISFJ mom never gets it.
@@missrobinhoodie good point…I’ve been thinking about it for weeks and torturing myself for procrastinating it 😅🥲. It’s definitely a mental work for weeks and then a no-time-to-cry rush to actually execute it.
Love the "Pinky & the Brain" comparison of INTJ and ESFP which is so true for most couple pairings on TV. I love how more in-depth the character sketches were this time! - ESFJ
I hate group projects, but I don't actually mind presenting. I'm pretty talkative, I just really prefer to do the work myself because collaborating with others is a nightmare and I don't like depending on others for my grade. I'm just a bit too controlling when it comes to that, lol. Sincerely, an INFP
Woah that’s odd I’m like the complete opposite lmao 🤣 I don’t mind collaborating with other people if they just tell what me to do and we’re done with it, sometimes when there is not set leader I’ll assume it but it’s not that often, on the other hand I despise presenting so much not because I’m bad at it or anything I just hate being put in the spotlight for like 15 minutes or so -INFP
Same, I don’t mind talking in front of people but I’m a trained musician so it’s more of an acquired trait. I can act/sing in front of people because I’m not actually being myself, just putting on a persona.
As someone who is an ENFP I usually also often relate to the ENTP (because they're very similar) and I've had that exact conversation with my ISFJ dad who has helped me with school projects before 🤣
Haha this was hilarious!!!! As an INFJ, I spend more time worrying about whether others did their part and whether I can get my hands on it to streamline than my own part… but I also spend a lot of time perfecting and re-thinking my own part. It becomes a 40 hour week during group project time with most of it projecting what the outcome is gonna look like 😂 Then I tell everyone what a great job they did and try to find something specific to complement them on to make them feel good. The anxiety in working in groups is so uncomfortable. I remember my friends telling my bf (INTP) how I would outshine the other presentations and they were like, “C’mon… we’re just trying to keep it easy and simple.” It was like an itch I had to scratch.
Ok, as an ISTP this is one of the most relatable bits for me i’ve seen on this channel. Every time there’s a project i’m like”I do this, you do this, don’t talk to me” and you captured that perfectly.
I liked group projects because I didn't have to talk. Lol. Unless I loved the subject. I basically ran my group project in mythology about mythical creatures. 🧛♀️🧚♀️🧜♀️🧝♀️🧞♀️🧟♀️
Being called lazy by a bossy person is definitely an ISFP's nightmare scenario but with the ENTJ as our partner at least we know the project will get done even if we're not on the same page!
Frank, you are so funny and so good at this. I really enjoyed the ENTJ/ISFP exchange. Idk how I would’ve handled it in school but as an adult I usually really enjoy being around ENTJs. They have given me some very good life advice. I find them to be very laid back, but not in the same way that I am (ISFP). I think they’re laid back because they already know they have their stuff together and they know things are going to work out because they have put in the work to organize things. Whereas my perspective is I rarely have my life together but hey that’s life. You have to take life as it comes and roll with the punches. If things don’t work out today, welp there always tomorrow! 😊
As a Isfp I totally agree! The way Entj's always know what they are doing with their life is really inspiring but I prefer to let life just lead me to my next destination you know what I mean?
As an ENTJ with ADHD, I am prepared for everything and will not follow my own plan whatsoever, so that's half correct. Laid back and coke-level brainstorm can switch in seconds.
INTJ here. I always did the entire group project by myself without speaking to the other members of the group. I would then give the entire presentation by myself, throwing the rest of the group under the bus for not having done any of the work, thereby earning an A+ while everyone else fails because they can’t answer any questions about any of it. Mission accomplished.
ENTP- literally remember being the one weirdo that did a video documentary on Japan while everyone read off powerpoint... TOO ACCURATE. It was hilarious, I did a bunch of goofy skits and everyone was in stitches. Good times haha
I'm an INTJ teacher's pet, and may I say, this is so accurate. I just pull out some fancy long words, look serious, and get at least a B for not studying at all. My classmates both hate and love me for it.
0:53 As an ISTP I've completely lost track of the amount of times I've responded with 'How about no' to my ENFJ friend. Or my other friend. I have like two and 'How about no' is just my go to retort at this point.
“How about no” is probably my husband’s catchphrase lol. I always invite him to group hangouts anyway, so he knows he is included. He usually responds with the how about no or “that sounds like my idea of hell” if it involves a bar. I bought him a t shirt with f*ck off on it and he loves it. 😂 -ENFJ
2:54 INFJ here is me in almost every school project... Me: "Okay, can you email me your part by 5pm tonight, and I will put them together." Them: "Okay, cool, I'll do that" The next day: Me: "Why... did you not send me your part of the homework?" Them: "What homework?"
As an INTJ, I would have my part done (or at least a backup plan). The only way I would do what the INTJ did here is if it was an oral presentation on something I was well versed in and didn't need any "notes" and yes I'd let my partner go down in flames if they didn't put in any effort at all lol.
It depends. If it is something that interests me or is a high mark I would have mine (and everyone else’s) part(s) done, but in things we are confident in our ability to do we really don’t often put in the effort until we have to. I last minute crammed nearly every presentation/project I did in school and usually received one of the top marks. Didn’t study really at all for tests/exams and always got a minimum of a B+ on them. I would rather spend my time in the Ni astral world than anything else, and Te takes time to truly develop in many of us. We often rely on our ability to “just know” things in order to get the job done rather than being drained by Ti style research when it doesn’t interest us. Te is just fine with that, especially when it is still immature. My experience of group projects was they are inefficient and if it was something I cared about it was always best for me to delegate what I thought others could/would handle and then do the entire project myself, splicing in their pieces as/if they did them (and assuming they were not too inferior to what I had done). Basically try to provide the illusion that it was a group project in order to human better with the humans. Ideal was always try and arrange the situation so I ended up “officially” on my own and not in a group.
Wouldn't the INTJ have planned for the eventuality of a partner (or themselves) failing them with a backup of at only need so much to still pass knowing they were never going to be able to trust that partner anyway? At least, that's what I do... - INTJ
As an INTJ, I would definitely forget about the presentation if the subject doesn't interest me. Especially if something more interesting catches my attention. Grades were never my priority even if I was among the best students in my class
@@sand7210 This INTJ agrees. I was notorious for throwing stuff together that I didn’t really care about at the last minute. If my partner went down in flames, oh well. I knew my part would be solid and that’s all that really mattered to me in those situations. School, for the most part, came easily to me, so I only prepped for the stuff I really cared about.
@@smokey5lbc1 Yes, kind of same for me too regarding my partner going down in flames and not really caring about it. However, it changed a bit as I aged. I've met a horrible INTJ in my mid-20s, until 30, and that opened my eyes.
Depends on how much effort I would choose to expend on the subject. I loved learning, but there were some topics I utterly hated and could not stuff into my brain. Also depends on the partner. In this case, ESFP was clearly INTJ's frequent trusted partner in a Pinky and the Brain dynamic. I did have a trusted high school BFF partner, who was an ENFP or ENTP, and we BSed our way to As all the time. I still fondly remember our off the cuff performances as the King and Duke, the conmen from Huckleberry Finn, talking about the symbolism ans purpose of the King and the Duke. We both did our reading, had note cards with specific topics, and then improvised the whole thing because playing an unscrupulous con man with my BFF was just pure fun. Especially as we were essentially pulling off a con right then, acting as if we had this planned out.
I really relate to the ENTP. I had a fun group presentation once. I did all of the work and made it into a Jeopardy game, complete with wacky edited versions of the Jeopardy theme. And then for a bonus question at the end, I played 'Other World' from Final Fantasy X. Yeah, it was pretty radical. My poor partners had no idea what was going on. There ain't no time to be shy when grades are on the line.
Infp here. This is eerily accurate. One time I got out of public speaking by writing a song about the whole project. 😂 I told everyone that it was to spice up the presentation but in reality I knew the teacher wouldn’t dare quiz me after the song (and I could take artistic liberties aka random words that rhymed and one concept stretched out thin,) so I didn’t have to worry about understanding my first semester of economics. I got an A. 👀
I can totally relate to ESTP's "Red Bull and last minute panic" recipe. My way of doing projects in school always was... two weeks of not bothering / forgetting about it. On the due day wake up at 4am. Panic all the way through writing / creating the thing. More panic as the time went by. Somehow managing to finish and somehow managing to get a good grade out of it. "Hell yeah" and repeat ;)
Yeah, as an INTP I did the same. I used to say “I just work better under pressure” like it was a calculated move on my part. But the reality is that I’m just terrible at self control and time management so I end up procrastinating until I’m out of time and have to end up pulling an all nighter to barely finish it and get a passing grade.
My favorite UA-cam show ! I always saved the others by anticipate they wouldn't do their part. The good grades come from because INTJ was here to add the original final touch in the last 24 hours to raise the grade. Teachers only asked for oral presentation : I added a Powerpoint. Teachers asked for a written statement : I added drawings so it was less boring for everyone. Teacher asked to do an art project with 2 opposites concepts : I did with 4. I always wanted to do everything differently than others 🤣 ENTP INTJ would be a great team.
I'm an INFJ and my older sister is an ESTP. She's a hard person to know but we work in similar fields so she can be good for a bursty theory-crafting chat. We've worked on some projects together and it was ehhh. She does go from rushing me on some big idea and being super gung ho to going radio silent for a month and then checking if I had made any progress on my end during the radio silence (I tend to match the effort of communication so I don't get railroaded so when she goes poof I put our project the bottom of my to-do list).
This was by far the most accurate representation of myself as an ISTJ I've seen so far. Deadpan half of the time, focused on getting the work done accurately, though I also have flavors of the ENTP in that I *hate* boring presentations. Listening to them or giving them. So I wouldn't be all that mad at the cat gifs- but they have a time and a place, and the economic system of ancient Mesopotamia doesn't meet those requirements, lol. Anyway, great video!
I once entered a competition with a team of 2 ENFPs and 2 ISTJs. Honestly, we work amazingly well because we all value hard work and wanted to do our best. It was funny because we all gel really well together during training and discussions but the moment the training session ends and we're headed back, automatically and subconsciously, without fail, we would separate by our types to chat. We only found out about our types later and had the best laugh because of how funny it was. But it's very clear from the start that the ISTJs were very grounded and organised, they kept us all in check. The ENFPs on the other hand, were the ones pulling off random jokes and make far off suppositions (which actually helped for the competition). But I remember one time, one of the ISTJs made a pun and the two ENFPs were laughing so hard that the ISTJ said, "that's sweet of you guys but really it wasn't funny at all". When the two ENFPs insisted that it was, the other ISTJ looked completely baffled and said, "I don't know. I don't feel anything," which of course made the ENFPs laugh harder. (If it isn't clear from the length of this narration, I was one of the ENFPs. The other ENFP isn't actually sure what she is yet, she's also considering INFP, INFJ, ENTJ -she's so not an ENTJ- but IMO she checks the boxes for ENFP)
i think entjs and isfps are the most similar opposites. considering isfps, more often than not, have relatively well developed Te, Fi doms like isfps can be just as competitive and determined as an entj
As an INFP, I totally agree with my part. Also, I really envy ESTP (and similar types to them) because they really actually manage those situations somehow! Even if they have done nothing, and they speak brilliantly on the presentation and then get at least ok grade. like how???!
Well, I can definitely relate to the INTJ (despite the ISTJ hardworking stereotype, I am actually pretty lazy), except that I have not forgotten about it, I have just been stressing out over the fact that I have to do it while not actually starting on it until the last weekend or so. The ESTP is right, there is nothing like last minute panic to jolt you into action and even give you extra inspiration that you never had previously (I remember the stories I had to write for English class for one, sit down earlier and I would have 0 inspiration and not even be able to get past the title, wait until midnight the night before it is due and suddenly a decent story starts taking shape with incredible speed while my mum blames me for “not wanting to do it before”). On projects my usual method was to devolve parts to everyone as usual (btw, how am I even supposed to pick what part I want to do? There is no “part I am better at”, it is all looking up information that I might or might not find. Same with presenting, it is just a bigger or smaller block of text (roughly equal, if your group cares about fairness at all) that I have to remember. I d pick the smallest/easiest one but that would be unfair to the others and would mean trusting them even more not to mess up, the bigger/tougher ones mean a progressively higher chance that I mess up) but make myself responsible for “putting it together” aka correcting everyone else’s bad language, formatting, leaving out unnecessary drivel, adding in extra information that was required but they couldn’t find and so on and then sending them a text at 4 am like “okay guys, this is what we are actually presenting, I will read any further complaints tomorrow”. If a competent person wants to do this final check or they do their part right the first time I am perfectly fine with that and I will just add on any thoughts I have on top of that, that is less work for me, the issue is finding such people. And yeah, I will definitely be weirded out by random cat gifs when seeing them so unexpectedly, not necessarily be against them though, maybe I need my own ENFP to come up with and spend time on wacky ideas like that. So long as there is an actual project to present still that is, we aren’t graded on the quality of cat gifs people. Honestly that just seems like extra work for no reason, not like classmates pay attention to or learn anything from others’ school projects anyway
INFP and INFJ being in the projects were pretty much a mood. That's about my situation whenever I'm in a group project. 😬 (INFP here, I hate group projects....)
I had a classmate (I don't know her personality type) in my online school tell me that she once did a presentation on pollution and got an F from her teacher because her background was unicorns.
As an INTJ who was often paired with the Big Idea types, I was pretty experienced pulling random things out of nowhere in the last few hours. Though my experience taught me to assume most group members wouldn't do any of their work and I often did the whole project _just in case_ and wouldn't tell them it was done until they were through giving me fake excuses and pretending to be worried. If they actually did the work, I'd never tell them that I had the rest of the project done separately. May have been more work for me but it only took one inept partner to tank a project before I knew better than to rely on someone else in that scenario again! (and I didn't even fail that project. I asked the teacher if he'd consider grading the actual, fully completed work given I could provide said finished version within a day, by any means necessary. He agreed and I finished the slacker's chunk-probably a week of work in a few hours-and pulled a good grade.)
When it comes to group projects, I always turn into some weird *hybrid* personality 😅 INFP: giving it my all so I'll neither let my partners nor myself down ESTJ: expecting the same amount of effort from my partners INTP: hating to be the only one that puts in work (though the complaints don't stay in my head) ENTP: the desire to create something unique ESFP: turning into a freaking entertainer for the presentation
Look as an ISFJ, I like ENTP's ideas! But its corn and we've got a week to finish so let's at least do what we need to and then maybe we can make the PowerPoint really snazzy and fun to look at :) Also related to the INTP the most here. I always end up doing the majority of the work AND be group leader. :/
I had to do several group projects this year and I’m an INFJ… it was the most socially, mentally, and emotionally exhausting experience of my life. I’m glad the INFJ in the video actually stood up and told his partner how much anxiety he was giving him 😂 I need to learn how to do that
INTJ here, and let me say one of my most significant accomplishments was designing a 10-minute presentation with a quiz in 3 minutes before the professor walked into the room. Everyone in the group misread the schedule, and we didn't know it was our turn to present.
As INFJ, I do give up on my group and start doing every section alone and finish everything like week before the deadline as I'm too stressed out to the deadline, lol. Then follow by yeah we done a good job well done everyone your work are great 👍.
I'm an ambivert and through these videos I've been able to see that, yes, yes, I am most definitely an INFJ and an ENFJ. I can literally picture myself in this situation, trying to get to know the person helping me at the beginning then at the end trying to lecture them on time management. These videos are awesome, you play these personalities so well. Thanks for another great video!
In the 16 types typology system, an I can be an extrovert and an E can be an introvert. And vice versa of course. It has nothing to do with the social battery
@@arool4017 On the contrary I have know I was an ambivert before I took the 16 personality test. I was merely stating I can very easily see myself in both personalities at different times. In my case it does actually relate to social battery as sometimes my brain decides to be introverted and other times it decides to be extroverted. Sorry if you were confused.
@@tImagine you sound like an INFJ to me. its normal. infj and enfj are quite similar despite whatever they say about functions order(and both have same functions). i know both enfj and infj types inside out.
I knew a girl in high school who would complete all group work assignments herself and let the other students share her grade. She didn't trust anyone else with her grades.
Okay, this INTJ is affronted....I never forget projects. In fact, I begin work as soon as it's been mentioned: receiving due date, planning personal target date before the official due date, plotting backwards from there what needs to be done in order to complete by personal deadline so as to have built-in buffer space for when LIFE interrupts plan. And as I hate group projects, because others are unreliable....I have their portions already done as well in case they fail to produce, or need help with their end, etc cus if my grade is hanging in the balance, I take no chances (or hostages)...I don't even care if they pass when they shouldn't because I covered for them so long as I don't suffer for their failures. and if I were assigned a clearly ESFP partner, I'd be scheduling out their portions due dates too, in portions they can handle, and making them check in every day in that regard. (Though it is true that in the case of actual surprise tests/projects, I am incredibly capable of slapping something decent on short notice....but while I can fly by the seat of my pants on a wing and a prayer, I prefer a properly laid out flight plan and do daily checks to make certain the bird will fly.)
2:36 Here is the text for the slides "Mesopotamia Silver,gold, cash, dollars, green, lettuce, the goods! What are all these words for? That's right money... Economy has money. Mesopotamia...had money But what kind of money??????" Your welcome
I'm an INFP and I have all these different characters in my head. For 4 of them, I took the test because I was curious. The results were ISFP, ISTJ-A, ISTJ-T, and ENFP. They're best friends and their friend group is called "Legendary to the 4th Power," which I was very proud of to come up with. I like watching these videos to see my personality, but also their personalities. It's cool to see how accurate it is! And yes, I'm terrible at presenting. I get full-blown panic attacks every time. 😆
As an INTP, last year, I had to do a group project with my best friend and another friend. Long story short, I did the whole thing myself. They weren’t bad friends, I just have trust issues. I mean my other friend actually tried helped out with the portfolio, I just didn’t use anything she wrote in the final draft cause the way she wrote it clashed with mine.. I have another group project this year, it’s gonna be even harder… yayyy more panic attacks…🙄
I'm an INTJ and I've got two options: A) I forget about the project and cram it as shown in this video or B) I hyperfocus and finish it the same day it was assigned.
As an INFP who worked on a group project with an ESTJ I will tell you... It ended in tears. Not from me at first. I frustrated him so much with my lack of assertiveness he cried the day before the presentation. I'm so sorry. I'm so so so sorry.
LMFAO OH NOOOO POOR ESTJ 🫂💔 they deadass cried?? omg i would feel sad for the estj too... i'm sorry sweetie, ik you were trying your best as an infp!! as one too, i can def relate with that signature experience of the sj's being so done with our incessant bs (i live in a family chock-full of judging sensors so that brand of "tf u even doing bro????" is pretty much my family @ me everyday of my life) Honestly, I am lucky that my perfectionism and high standards for academic achievement usually make me take charge more so that we get things done according to "my oddly specific vision". My desire to get a good grade (academic success is my shitty coping skill) therefore helps me direct my group towards fulfilling the standards needed to exceed expectations that I have gleaned, and I pull a lot of INFJ tactics of dividing the work up and "valuing" everyone's contributions... only to edit in anything they missed in their parts last minute because I WANT TO MAKE A REALLY GOOD PRESENTATION GODDAMNIT (even if i go overboard and forget that this project may not even be worth the extra effort) and if suzie missed part of the prerequisites for a stellar presentation, I am using my academic and technological prowess to reword (and sometimes rewrite entirely if i can't trust them for shit and eventually do my own research to make sure that their work is correct) and restyle her sections until it looks to my liking. Does that sometimes mean making big formatting changes to make the aesthetic look nicer and more refined? Yes. Does this mean debating with confused groupmates over very small details because of my need to fufill my strangely specific vision of how I want to do this project? Yes. Do they think I'm weirdly limiting at the end of the day? Probably lmfao 💀 i think plenty of infps prefer to work alone so that they get things done in their own way without worrying about bothering anyone. my personal goal when working with a group is to have the endgoal be as close as to what I would have created on my lonesome. I wish I was one of the people who found group projects fun since it sounds cute in theory to come together and create a nice project with the power of teamwork™, but fuck no I ain't that person at all!!! Cons: THIS STRATEGY OF MINE ONLY WORKS WHEN PEOPLE ARE WILLING FOR ME TO TAKE CONTROL OVER THE CREATIVE PROCESS. I am just lucky that most of my group members are on the lazier side and don't mind me tinkering around with shit since it is subtle and likely to net the group a higher grade in the end. If everyone else in the group already has agreed on a plan that I don't like, and does not take kindly to me editing their work or is content with doing the bare minimum.... then i am fucked!! :)))))) What is even more ridiculous is that I am still the most unreliable figure known to man due to having severe mental illness!!! So I am the dumbass waxing poetics about having lofty standards when we discuss the team project plan, only to end up not doing my part on time due to crippling executive dysfunction, indecision paralysis, and serial procrastination, courtesy of my many mental comorbidies that my oblivious groupmates will never know about for their entire lifetime!!! In other words, I get good grades and appear like a very smart student but still miss deadlines and look like a clown, to the constant confusion of many. The only pros of working with a group for me is that they can cover for my ass whenever I am struggling, at the expense of enduring more stress for having an inconsistently performing group member. Which gets one YIKE from me but I don't decide the rules about having to work with other people for an assignment. In other words, I do pretty well on my presentations when I am not grappling with terrible mental health issues (even with how neurotic I become behind the scenes trying to memorize a cohesive speech script that is of reasonable presentation length, because i loathe public speaking thanks to my inner social anxiety demon)! My overachieving nature allows me to mask my glaring faults and some people don't realize just how much of a "slacker" I am. But god knows that I am sure that some poor ESTJ can immediately look at the hot mess that is my existence and call me out like "this girl stresses me out so much, how tf do i even begin to manage this disaster of a person?? we are doomed to a shitty outcome and my academic success is riding on this undisciplined mf??? Christ almighty save me, i need divine intervention bc idk how to deal with this level of utter uselessness. ffs can you at least be reliable for ONE minute" All in all. It's okay, a lot of us have been there. We're just chaotically quirky and a lot of people don't know how to deal with quirky chaos. WE don't even know how to deal with our own quirky chaos. But it is okay because I give you internet hugs.
Thanks Frank, the fact that INTJs can be extremely forgetful is often .. well.. forgotten. In related news, one time I drove an hour and a half to the next state before realizing that I had forgotten to put on shoes. One time when taking lab mice from the animal facility to my lab (yes, really), I realized I had forgotten my key card to get into the research building. Which wouldn't have been a big deal except I was alone and it was midnight. And it was snowing. And I didn't have my coat. I swear to god it's a true story. And yes, just recently I realized that I forgot my anniversary which was two months ago. But it's OK, because my husband's an ENFP so he apparently forgot too. 😅 -an INTJ
FYI- I have nothing interesting to say, except I loved it and your hair looked pretty awesome :) Your acting is so good, I love how distinct you make each type!
In my experience, these are stages of doing a group project. from "we should make a video game", to "you do bullet points one through three, i do bullet points four to six", to "due tomorrow, do tomorrow" to, ultimately, "pull it out of our tushies in 20 minutes during lunch"
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Great video as always! 🎉
🤣 LMAO thank you for your honesty. This ENFP is becoming an INFJ. BTW IS THAT POSSIBLE AFTER TRAUMA? I think I am.... an introvert!!!!!
Actually it's better. 😂
I can still talk to anyone if it's not personal.
@@erikavaleries Keep being your authentic self. You make the world and your future even better for all of us good ones out there that adore your uniqueness. 😻
INTJ's wig is Frank's hair on top of his hair.
As an INTP, I’ve been in so many group projects by myself that I got so frustrated by everyone slacking off. Then, one day, people actually helped my and I was extremely shocked
As an INTP I stopped this habit right after entering college, I was like nope, not happening. If I get a F, at least everyone gets a F. And everyone would start the project like 2 days before the deadline, together, and we'd still complete XD
@@villanelle2.0 lol
I've got a better solution: Do the project, but omit your """partner's""" name and inform the teacher/professor that they wouldn't do any of the work.
as an intp im the actual slacker loll
@@astonxshedbel0ved717 same bruhh, and i complete the project at the last minute
Can we just appreciate how this one man plays 16 different people so damn perfectly?
Preach, I'd forget that Frank is playing all of these characters, he embodies them all so perfectly!
And we get to see the same comment in all his videos 😂
You know what they say about chamele- INFJs!
Acting skills top notch
@@poojamoroliyaindeed. At nauseum.
As an ENFP we have to ✨spice up ✨ the presentation. We don't want the audience to get bored
Meowsopotamia was the laugh I needed 🤣🤣
Meanwhile half the class is sitting on their phones or talking with each other not giving a shit either way lol
@@edi0157 That's why you find a way to get them involved...project on Prohibition? Time to have them do some rum running of their own...
Not an ENFP, but I totally agree. ✨
@Annelise Williams ISTJ here and I would love nothing more than for my project to get me a good grade and for my entire class to have absolutely 0 memory of the presentation 20 minutes later xD
As an INFJ, I do most of the project myself, while letting others I’ve worked with think they’ve been helpful. (But they were actually holding me back).=)
I'd do the entire project by myself without telling anyone (just in case) and then when they show me their slides, insert them into my project. That way; even if they didn't do their bit we can still present, but if they did do their part, less presenting for me.
All it costs is a lot of needless time and effort! 😁👍
INFP here but same! My obsessive perfectionism doesn't like to delegate 😅
That's a trait? Cause yes
@@JokerCrowe Smart and efficient, I like it.=)
Same :')
When asking my ISTP son if he's finished tomorrow's presentation he answers:
-Yes. Why?
- Well, who did you do it with?
- Jonathan. He's doing part 2.
- Well have you practiced the presentation together?
-Why? He just reads his part, I read mine.
- Well, has he even done his part?
- I hope so or I'll kill him tomorrow.
😂
I am a ISTP and that sounds exactly like me
I love ISTPs they’re so straightforward and simple once you figure them out! Lots of misunderstandings, but no mind games and things usually work out fine as long as you accept how they are and offer some benefit of doubt rather than make assumptions about their sometimes odd or even hurtful behavior. After you get used to their bluntness they are incredibly refreshing to be around and the ones I know are so talented and interesting!
As an ISTP i agree
That's soo me
That’s literally me
Frank's INTJ hair is the best thing I've seen all week.
hee hee
Tbh, it looks exactly like what my hair looks like right now and kinda weirded me out. Frank, are you spying on me? -INTJ
I loved his INFP rucksack.
YESSS 🤣🤣🤣
It looks like Leon from resident evil hair lol
INTJ here. This representation is honestly so accurate for the way I do school. If its something I'm confident I can do in a short time then I'll 100% wait until the three minutes before class starts to to do my half. Why waste the effort getting it done early when you could listen to your professor talk about it for two weeks and hear your classmates complain about it as well. All of that is so much freakin intel dude.
Exactly!
It’s worked for me many times.
ESFP here, I have been there, I have done that. Dream team, yay
I'm the opposite. I'd do it in the first three minutes after we first here about it and then do nothing until it eventually comes.
You know... Unless I keep forgetting... Like that guy did... Hmm...
High school homework, we had to write a summary of our hometown as if writing for a travel brochure. I got picked to read mine aloud in class. Of course, I'd completely forgotten to write it, so winged it anyway. At the end of my detailed presentation, my teacher stared at me and smirked "you didn't do that homework, did you?", to which I straight admitted "no". He then reminded me that it only meant to be a summary, not a novel, but commended me for essentially pulling a 10 minute monologue out of my arse with no prep. I'll never forget the tension in the room when I admitted to not having done the homework, as that teacher was known for being quite strict.
0:00 INTP ESFJ
0:23 ENTJ ISFP
0:46 ENFJ ISTP
1:06 INTJ ESFP
1:22 ENTP ISFJ
1:55 ESTJ INFP
2:28 ISTJ ENFP
2:54 INFJ ESTP
THANK YOU
@@Child.DazaiOsamu YOU'RE WELCOME
Yeah thanks dude, I really appreciate the effort, like I’d never waste my time with something like that knowing that most ppl will take it for granted. So once again, thanks 🫶🏽
Plot twist, that last scene was just an ESTP stress dream for a class they were never in
Correction: the INFJ DID do three weeks of work, but crammed it into the last three days because we are the kings of procrastination.
Just what I was about to say 😂
Last three days? Amateur.
I cram it into the last 5 minutes
So true, I've written entire papers 30min before class and still got an A. However, it's probably because I had been writing my entire paper, in my head, for weeks, I just didn't actually physically write it down 😅.
I used to be that way, then i developed anxiety. So now everything is done way in advance
Start same day it’s supposed to be handed in fake sickness and stay awake for 75 hours straight writing the whole paper until you start hallucinating, faint and get weird full body twitches. Then turn it in only for the teacher to accuse you of getting someone else to write it for you because it’s too good, whatever that means. Ended up only getting a passing grade because they are convinced you cheated, but can’t prove it 😭😭😭 I swear I never recovered the brain cells I fried in the process of writing that stupid paper
As an INFJ, that was totally true. One time i did this presentation with ESTP. And he was like "I'm gonna crush it" and then the next day he was like "what presentation?" And the night before the presentation he asked me what topic he was supposed to do. But THEN... the moment he was presenting, he became suddenly the master of that topic. I don't know how that worked that well for him.
@@otterinaballgown3703 Agree! I witness it everyday XD
I (ENTP) just studied for an exam with an ESTP and it went really well so I invited my INFJ friend to pick the subject and join. Two weeks after the exam he called me to tell me that he doesn’t like such large study groups which really confuses me cause 3 is not large. Also we got a lot done so it can’t be that. I asked him if he disliked my ESTP friend and he said no. INFJs are mysteries.
@@Janine396 i don't know the full story. But i feel like your INFJ friend might have felt uncomfortable because ESTPs tend to speak about the tiniest flaw in conversation. Like if i said "the speed of light is 300million meters" my ESTP friend would tell me "It's actually 299 792 458 meters". And that is really annoying for me to study with my ESTP friend. But I think as time passes your ESTP and INFJ friends will get along well since their cognitive functions are the same. They will understand where the other person is coming from. ))
@@namuun7629 Thank you very much that's actually helpful! He did do that and I might have thought it was super funny that I said a lot of obviously unrealistic stuff and my ESTP friend corrected me (like I expected). I thought my INFJ friend was waiting to warm up to tune in cause introverts take longer but apparently not haha The arguments we had in front of him were really informativ and not only about what we were supposed to know but so much more knowledge for life, so I thought he hit the jackpot studying with us, I would have never guessed that was the problem
@@otterinaballgown3703much agree to this. My brother is ESTP and he's a master of improvising. And very annoying in debate. Lmao.
That part where INTP yells at ESFJ yet it’s all imagined is so relatable
As INFP, I can say it's accurate 😂 I don't like being attention, giving presentation feels awkward.
Yes! I totally messed up two big presentations in college. The professor called me out on it too. Sooooo embarrassing.
INFP but I actually really like giving presentations because I love teaching things I research or am passionate about 😂
@@sarahelo009 same ! but only on passionate
@@sarahelo009 Me too! Although I turn beet red whenever I do a presentation. Oh, and there is no sleep the night after the presentation because I keep thinking about how ridiculous I might have looked or sounded that day 🥲.
Advice given to me as INTP from INFP: "Deliberately be awkward and then it becomes a comedy show that people can laugh at." I still haven't done the self-promo video but I know an INFP who got a job this way but he's also a genius. INFPs are the smartest type hands down and as an INTP I am beyond happy to hand you the trophy for that.
As an INFP, I always want to do the speaking for presentations because I like looking smart in front of a group, which inevitably always backfires when I put my foot in my mouth, mumble aimlessly, put myself down, accidentally insult someone I admire, and have to spend the rest of the day crying in hiding.
Me (INFP) in written speech: 150 IQ
Me in spoken speech: 50 IQ
I had a cringe foot in my mouth/accidentally insult someone situation at work today omg (still reeling)
literally just had a presentation where i jokingly insulted the crowd,,,everyone thought i was rude after that (i apologised to them, very close to tears btw so it’s fine)
that's so true
nah this is so real
i literally just stutter
and then it looks liek im doing it for attention
so the poeple are jsut fucking annoyed then
and then it makes me feel so utterly helpless that i half ass it or rather like one sixteenth ass it and get shit marks for my speaking skills even though i wrote a good speech yk
ENTJ&ISFP dynamics is hilarious 😆
Makes me want to be their friend just to watch them argue in such a way. It's kinda cute...
Marceline and Princess Bubblegum:
@@handlewhatever I'd like an ENTP friend to do the same 😸😜
me (isfp) and my entj classmate/friend are very different in how much we care about school. she veeery much dislikes lazy people and respects hard-work, where as I dont really do homework, but we still share a mutual respect and understanding as well as liking of eachother. despite our differences we find a common language are understand eachother. it is a very interesting dynamic, as we seem to be so different in so many ways, yet still something brings us together.
Exactly
I'm an INTJ but I never forget doing my projects in fact I usually end up being the one who not only completes their own part of the project on time but also has to constantly hammer the other lazy group members to do their part on time and since I don't find it easy relying on other people, I review their work and redo if need be to ensure that the project is of high quality.
same
I sometimes leave it for the last minute but everything I do ends up serving. I have ADHD which can also interfere.
Exactly. It's me right now🙂
Ah yes redoing people's work to my standard.
As an INTJ with OCPD i always do. While crying
I used to report a non contributing member to lecturer to prevent this guy getting free mark.
I think we alllllll know that INFJ just gonna do the entire project themselves the second they see they're paired with ESTP.
Lol
yes 😭
Not necessarily 😅 I've had to collaborate with an ESTP before, he was MUCH more helpful than the ENTP or ISFJ I had to collaborate with.
Fr 😭😭😭😭 or end up receiving the estp part really late and yet staying awake all night to correct ir or change it accordingly, but also reassuring the estp they did a great job! ✨👌🏻😂
estp is the king of last minute, i always did last minute studying or last minute researching and my results didn’t disappoint me at all
The ENTP one was so accurate, I just got war flashbacks to grade school where I would over complicate seemingly simple projects and stress myself TF out, just because I didn’t want to do things the standard way 😅
fr, my whole self itches when I see the digital newspaper some of the presentations are, like bro what's that shit
for presentations i either try to make them as fun as possible or do them last minute while putting in zero effort and just copy pasting there's no in between
FOR REAL. I felt so called out, I always had to make something new and not boring ESPECIALLY when the topic was bland as hell
they give presentations like they give out candy in Halloween in my school so i dont even try anymore
ISTJ same
That's why I like ISTPs: no-nonsense and no time-wasting
From an ENFJ 😊
100%(Im ISTP)
Same! Although I’m an INFJ, I related to the ISTP because I honestly just really prefer that
The same, from an ISTJ :)
No time wasting, while I'm the whole incarnation of a 69 ways to procrastinate while not doing anything meaningful...
But if you're taking literal short term instances, I just jump right into it...
Saaaaaame! It's like my ideal group project would be perfectly divided based on individual strengths and yet I 100000% see the value in just GET IT DONE
Love, ENFJ
Ah finally. Some representation of INTJ's who procrastinate. Yes, we are serious about our studies. No, I will not be proactive.
Do you have bad memory or you procrastinate?
@@Yumeko_Himo Both 😀
I forget things often, especially when under stress and/or it's something that I don't find interesting, even if it's important.
I also practice the healthy habit of avoiding doing things I don't like until the last-minute pressure sets in. (This might also be due to some kind of neurodivergence.)
Well I rarely forget, I just ignore it till is imminent.😂😂😂
@@citriz I'm sometimes kinda of both it swings sometimes I forget sometimes I procrastinate, sometimes I forget because I procrastinated lol
@@smaug2396But don't forget to say that you forgot it rather than you ignored it
People are less annoying giving this excuse
INFP here. In the beginning I thought "I'm actually good a those presentations", then I remembered how many times I managed to convince the rest of the group to let me do big part of the preparation and have them present the stuff.
As a grown up once a colleague talked me into doing a presentation at a charity and I decided I'll never again in my life do such a thing in the middle of it. The anxiety was killing me 😂
Whenever I have to give a big presentation, I lose my recollection of it as soon as I am done. My body just does the presentation and my mind is blank. Was I good, was I bad? I don't care, it was the most uncomfortable thing I ever lived through. And the next time someone asks me to present stuff, I will just say yes and still do it because I am such a people pleaser.
I'm an INFP, and I had to take a public speaking class in college. I still cringe whenever I reflect on the presentations I had to give, and I honestly have no clue as to how I passed.
I had this same exact thought watching this lol I feel like I'm great at presentations but when I really think about it... there's definitely a lot of shirts I've sweat through and nervous twitching i overlooked during an otherwise "flawless" presentation lol
@@RB-gi3zqSame. People tell me I'm a natural and look very comfortable presenting, but in reality my body goes on autopilot and I barely remember anything. Then I spend the hour after that shaking due to nerves
As an INFP I did use to struggle speaking in public when I had to do presentations but after some time I just started to tell myself that a presentation is basically when I talk to someone about a topic I really like but this time there was going to be a group of people watching and listening and it actually helped me improve 😅
As an INFP, I like your advice. I noticed that if I am interested in the topic, my presentations go quite well. So, the secret is to get interested in the topic. Which can be hard if you are in school and get boring assignments.
Honestly, I WOULD do that as an INFP, but it would be followed by intense guilt and “Maybe I should have helped in presenting” but then I would picture the horrors and shut that thought down immediately. :)
Yep exactly
As an ISFJ, this just happened during my last semester. A poster would have taken less amount of time but they wanted to do a PODCAST and then they kept wanting to rerecord it and it was very frustrating. It sounded good the first time, they just didn't like how their voices sounded!!
That is the worst.
@@terig8974 I promptly booked it out of there once done. That class was terrible on top of the group project!
As an ENTP, that sounds about right. But posters are so boring!!!
@@koibubbles3302 They areee. My dislike for posters runs deep.
As a ENTP, we want perfection.
ENTJ and ISFP finding common ground at the end was hilarious. 😂🤣 They are totally Gucci.
Poor INFJ. That’s why I hated group projects all through school. 😂
As an INFJ…I procrastinate too much to have worked on a school project for 3 weeks. Oddly enough, I also depend on that last minute panic for some things.
True. I had a presentation in science recently that I had five weeks to prepare, yet I didn’t even start until the day before the presentation was due, and ended up calling in sick and got it postponed another week.
But you very likely have thought about it for 3 weeks, no? Inner prep work so to say…
@@missrobinhoodie yeah that on point. I also do it last day but at that point i've been thinking about it for weeks and how exactly i want it to be and so actually it is weeks worth of work... The drafts are just in my head. My ISFJ mom never gets it.
@@missrobinhoodie good point…I’ve been thinking about it for weeks and torturing myself for procrastinating it 😅🥲. It’s definitely a mental work for weeks and then a no-time-to-cry rush to actually execute it.
Love the "Pinky & the Brain" comparison of INTJ and ESFP which is so true for most couple pairings on TV. I love how more in-depth the character sketches were this time!
- ESFJ
That's true as an ESFP it already happened to me me with an INTJ 😂
The fact that every personality is played perfectly blows my mind.
I hate group projects, but I don't actually mind presenting. I'm pretty talkative, I just really prefer to do the work myself because collaborating with others is a nightmare and I don't like depending on others for my grade. I'm just a bit too controlling when it comes to that, lol.
Sincerely,
an INFP
Woah that’s odd I’m like the complete opposite lmao 🤣 I don’t mind collaborating with other people if they just tell what me to do and we’re done with it, sometimes when there is not set leader I’ll assume it but it’s not that often, on the other hand I despise presenting so much not because I’m bad at it or anything I just hate being put in the spotlight for like 15 minutes or so
-INFP
Same but I’ve reached a point in my life where I don’t care anymore and just want it done lol getting old as an infp
Same, I don’t mind talking in front of people but I’m a trained musician so it’s more of an acquired trait. I can act/sing in front of people because I’m not actually being myself, just putting on a persona.
As I got older presenting has just got easier as time passes on
As an INFP, I knew after a few words you were one of my own! Here here!
As someone who is an ENFP I usually also often relate to the ENTP (because they're very similar) and I've had that exact conversation with my ISFJ dad who has helped me with school projects before 🤣
Same!@
The ENTP was much closer to an ENFP than an ENTP tbh.
Same but in a different way. I am a ENFJ and I relate to enfp sometimes. We are also very similar.
I am entp and i actually did a game in a group project using rpg maker
same but i'm intp lol
Haha this was hilarious!!!! As an INFJ, I spend more time worrying about whether others did their part and whether I can get my hands on it to streamline than my own part… but I also spend a lot of time perfecting and re-thinking my own part. It becomes a 40 hour week during group project time with most of it projecting what the outcome is gonna look like 😂 Then I tell everyone what a great job they did and try to find something specific to complement them on to make them feel good. The anxiety in working in groups is so uncomfortable.
I remember my friends telling my bf (INTP) how I would outshine the other presentations and they were like, “C’mon… we’re just trying to keep it easy and simple.” It was like an itch I had to scratch.
Jeez.. I do the exact Same thing!!! 🤝
Omg exactly what I did on group assignment 😂😂
Ok, as an ISTP this is one of the most relatable bits for me i’ve seen on this channel. Every time there’s a project i’m like”I do this, you do this, don’t talk to me” and you captured that perfectly.
BTW, are u guys as cools as FJ portrays u (n that music he uses..).
Just curious 😀
@heiresslaite2950
Not me. I am the person who would never be seen as cool.-ISTP
I wish I could say 'dont talk to me' , but I can't!..
Me who also liked to do group projects alone because of this: -infp
I liked group projects because I didn't have to talk. Lol.
Unless I loved the subject. I basically ran my group project in mythology about mythical creatures. 🧛♀️🧚♀️🧜♀️🧝♀️🧞♀️🧟♀️
Being called lazy by a bossy person is definitely an ISFP's nightmare scenario but with the ENTJ as our partner at least we know the project will get done even if we're not on the same page!
Frank, you are so funny and so good at this. I really enjoyed the ENTJ/ISFP exchange. Idk how I would’ve handled it in school but as an adult I usually really enjoy being around ENTJs. They have given me some very good life advice. I find them to be very laid back, but not in the same way that I am (ISFP). I think they’re laid back because they already know they have their stuff together and they know things are going to work out because they have put in the work to organize things. Whereas my perspective is I rarely have my life together but hey that’s life. You have to take life as it comes and roll with the punches. If things don’t work out today, welp there always tomorrow! 😊
As a Isfp I totally agree! The way Entj's always know what they are doing with their life is really inspiring but I prefer to let life just lead me to my next destination you know what I mean?
As an ENTJ with ADHD, I am prepared for everything and will not follow my own plan whatsoever, so that's half correct. Laid back and coke-level brainstorm can switch in seconds.
INTJ here. I always did the entire group project by myself without speaking to the other members of the group. I would then give the entire presentation by myself, throwing the rest of the group under the bus for not having done any of the work, thereby earning an A+ while everyone else fails because they can’t answer any questions about any of it. Mission accomplished.
Yes. INTJ hates group projects. I also did the project by myself because I doubted other’s capabilities. And I also didn’t trust them.
I got picked with all sports kids but thankfully I was able to leave the group and do the project myself
ENTP- literally remember being the one weirdo that did a video documentary on Japan while everyone read off powerpoint... TOO ACCURATE. It was hilarious, I did a bunch of goofy skits and everyone was in stitches. Good times haha
I'm an INTJ teacher's pet, and may I say, this is so accurate. I just pull out some fancy long words, look serious, and get at least a B for not studying at all. My classmates both hate and love me for it.
0:53 As an ISTP I've completely lost track of the amount of times I've responded with 'How about no' to my ENFJ friend. Or my other friend. I have like two and 'How about no' is just my go to retort at this point.
“How about no” is probably my husband’s catchphrase lol. I always invite him to group hangouts anyway, so he knows he is included. He usually responds with the how about no or “that sounds like my idea of hell” if it involves a bar. I bought him a t shirt with f*ck off on it and he loves it. 😂 -ENFJ
I'm also an ISTP. I also have two friends. I also say "how about no" to anything my friends try to get me to do that isn't what *I* want to do.
2:54 INFJ here is me in almost every school project...
Me: "Okay, can you email me your part by 5pm tonight, and I will put them together."
Them: "Okay, cool, I'll do that"
The next day:
Me: "Why... did you not send me your part of the homework?"
Them: "What homework?"
The Intj's hair, the enfp's cats and the infp's blink... I mean... Chef kiss!
As an infj that is so freaking accurate 💀 so glad I’m homeschooled and rarely have group projects (I do have them sometimes)
As an INTJ, I would have my part done (or at least a backup plan). The only way I would do what the INTJ did here is if it was an oral presentation on something I was well versed in and didn't need any "notes" and yes I'd let my partner go down in flames if they didn't put in any effort at all lol.
Totally!!!
I wouldn't just come without a plan
Other people can do whatever, not my business 😗
It depends. If it is something that interests me or is a high mark I would have mine (and everyone else’s) part(s) done, but in things we are confident in our ability to do we really don’t often put in the effort until we have to.
I last minute crammed nearly every presentation/project I did in school and usually received one of the top marks. Didn’t study really at all for tests/exams and always got a minimum of a B+ on them.
I would rather spend my time in the Ni astral world than anything else, and Te takes time to truly develop in many of us. We often rely on our ability to “just know” things in order to get the job done rather than being drained by Ti style research when it doesn’t interest us. Te is just fine with that, especially when it is still immature.
My experience of group projects was they are inefficient and if it was something I cared about it was always best for me to delegate what I thought others could/would handle and then do the entire project myself, splicing in their pieces as/if they did them (and assuming they were not too inferior to what I had done). Basically try to provide the illusion that it was a group project in order to human better with the humans. Ideal was always try and arrange the situation so I ended up “officially” on my own and not in a group.
The trick as always is to be first to pick a project so you can choose the one you already know by heart.
@@infensus1992 Couldn't have said it better 😌
@@seg1912 Touche'
Wouldn't the INTJ have planned for the eventuality of a partner (or themselves) failing them with a backup of at only need so much to still pass knowing they were never going to be able to trust that partner anyway? At least, that's what I do...
- INTJ
As an INTJ, I would definitely forget about the presentation if the subject doesn't interest me. Especially if something more interesting catches my attention. Grades were never my priority even if I was among the best students in my class
@@sand7210 This INTJ agrees. I was notorious for throwing stuff together that I didn’t really care about at the last minute. If my partner went down in flames, oh well. I knew my part would be solid and that’s all that really mattered to me in those situations. School, for the most part, came easily to me, so I only prepped for the stuff I really cared about.
@@smokey5lbc1 Yes, kind of same for me too regarding my partner going down in flames and not really caring about it. However, it changed a bit as I aged. I've met a horrible INTJ in my mid-20s, until 30, and that opened my eyes.
Depends on how much effort I would choose to expend on the subject. I loved learning, but there were some topics I utterly hated and could not stuff into my brain.
Also depends on the partner. In this case, ESFP was clearly INTJ's frequent trusted partner in a Pinky and the Brain dynamic. I did have a trusted high school BFF partner, who was an ENFP or ENTP, and we BSed our way to As all the time. I still fondly remember our off the cuff performances as the King and Duke, the conmen from Huckleberry Finn, talking about the symbolism ans purpose of the King and the Duke. We both did our reading, had note cards with specific topics, and then improvised the whole thing because playing an unscrupulous con man with my BFF was just pure fun. Especially as we were essentially pulling off a con right then, acting as if we had this planned out.
I really relate to the ENTP. I had a fun group presentation once. I did all of the work and made it into a Jeopardy game, complete with wacky edited versions of the Jeopardy theme. And then for a bonus question at the end, I played 'Other World' from Final Fantasy X. Yeah, it was pretty radical. My poor partners had no idea what was going on. There ain't no time to be shy when grades are on the line.
2:30 it's like watching my parents' conversations lol (an ENFP and ISTJ somehow married one another)
I'm an ENFP and I love that hahaha
Blessed be their relationship!
Infp here. This is eerily accurate. One time I got out of public speaking by writing a song about the whole project. 😂 I told everyone that it was to spice up the presentation but in reality I knew the teacher wouldn’t dare quiz me after the song (and I could take artistic liberties aka random words that rhymed and one concept stretched out thin,) so I didn’t have to worry about understanding my first semester of economics. I got an A. 👀
I can totally relate to ESTP's "Red Bull and last minute panic" recipe. My way of doing projects in school always was... two weeks of not bothering / forgetting about it. On the due day
wake up at 4am. Panic all the way through writing / creating the thing. More panic as the time went by. Somehow managing to finish and somehow managing to get a good grade out of it. "Hell yeah" and repeat ;)
Yeah, as an INTP I did the same. I used to say “I just work better under pressure” like it was a calculated move on my part. But the reality is that I’m just terrible at self control and time management so I end up procrastinating until I’m out of time and have to end up pulling an all nighter to barely finish it and get a passing grade.
Real
I just absolutely love the ESFP and INTJ being perfect mirror images once more.
My favorite UA-cam show !
I always saved the others by anticipate they wouldn't do their part. The good grades come from because INTJ was here to add the original final touch in the last 24 hours to raise the grade.
Teachers only asked for oral presentation : I added a Powerpoint.
Teachers asked for a written statement : I added drawings so it was less boring for everyone.
Teacher asked to do an art project with 2 opposites concepts : I did with 4.
I always wanted to do everything differently than others 🤣
ENTP INTJ would be a great team.
I'm an INFJ and my older sister is an ESTP. She's a hard person to know but we work in similar fields so she can be good for a bursty theory-crafting chat. We've worked on some projects together and it was ehhh. She does go from rushing me on some big idea and being super gung ho to going radio silent for a month and then checking if I had made any progress on my end during the radio silence (I tend to match the effort of communication so I don't get railroaded so when she goes poof I put our project the bottom of my to-do list).
The ENFJ trying to divide the work based on strengths and weaknesses was too real 😭
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We need more of the personalities interacting with each other 😂 ISTJ and ENFP together are always so funny
INFJ is just going to make the second part of the projekt too, because the impression ESTP made was way too risky
This was by far the most accurate representation of myself as an ISTJ I've seen so far. Deadpan half of the time, focused on getting the work done accurately, though I also have flavors of the ENTP in that I *hate* boring presentations. Listening to them or giving them. So I wouldn't be all that mad at the cat gifs- but they have a time and a place, and the economic system of ancient Mesopotamia doesn't meet those requirements, lol. Anyway, great video!
As an ISTJ I agree with everything you said 😊
1:22 ENTP. Very Accurate Depiction of an ENTP. 😂🤣
I once entered a competition with a team of 2 ENFPs and 2 ISTJs. Honestly, we work amazingly well because we all value hard work and wanted to do our best. It was funny because we all gel really well together during training and discussions but the moment the training session ends and we're headed back, automatically and subconsciously, without fail, we would separate by our types to chat. We only found out about our types later and had the best laugh because of how funny it was.
But it's very clear from the start that the ISTJs were very grounded and organised, they kept us all in check. The ENFPs on the other hand, were the ones pulling off random jokes and make far off suppositions (which actually helped for the competition). But I remember one time, one of the ISTJs made a pun and the two ENFPs were laughing so hard that the ISTJ said, "that's sweet of you guys but really it wasn't funny at all". When the two ENFPs insisted that it was, the other ISTJ looked completely baffled and said, "I don't know. I don't feel anything," which of course made the ENFPs laugh harder.
(If it isn't clear from the length of this narration, I was one of the ENFPs. The other ENFP isn't actually sure what she is yet, she's also considering INFP, INFJ, ENTJ -she's so not an ENTJ- but IMO she checks the boxes for ENFP)
Awww that's adorable. Istj and enfp solidarity warms my heart 🥺
i think entjs and isfps are the most similar opposites. considering isfps, more often than not, have relatively well developed Te, Fi doms like isfps can be just as competitive and determined as an entj
0:13 me always making the most badass argument but then I just stand there and just say something dumb and then feeling instant regret
I love how accurate the entp is lol
As an INFP, I totally agree with my part. Also, I really envy ESTP (and similar types to them) because they really actually manage those situations somehow! Even if they have done nothing, and they speak brilliantly on the presentation and then get at least ok grade. like how???!
Well, I can definitely relate to the INTJ (despite the ISTJ hardworking stereotype, I am actually pretty lazy), except that I have not forgotten about it, I have just been stressing out over the fact that I have to do it while not actually starting on it until the last weekend or so. The ESTP is right, there is nothing like last minute panic to jolt you into action and even give you extra inspiration that you never had previously (I remember the stories I had to write for English class for one, sit down earlier and I would have 0 inspiration and not even be able to get past the title, wait until midnight the night before it is due and suddenly a decent story starts taking shape with incredible speed while my mum blames me for “not wanting to do it before”). On projects my usual method was to devolve parts to everyone as usual (btw, how am I even supposed to pick what part I want to do? There is no “part I am better at”, it is all looking up information that I might or might not find. Same with presenting, it is just a bigger or smaller block of text (roughly equal, if your group cares about fairness at all) that I have to remember. I d pick the smallest/easiest one but that would be unfair to the others and would mean trusting them even more not to mess up, the bigger/tougher ones mean a progressively higher chance that I mess up) but make myself responsible for “putting it together” aka correcting everyone else’s bad language, formatting, leaving out unnecessary drivel, adding in extra information that was required but they couldn’t find and so on and then sending them a text at 4 am like “okay guys, this is what we are actually presenting, I will read any further complaints tomorrow”. If a competent person wants to do this final check or they do their part right the first time I am perfectly fine with that and I will just add on any thoughts I have on top of that, that is less work for me, the issue is finding such people. And yeah, I will definitely be weirded out by random cat gifs when seeing them so unexpectedly, not necessarily be against them though, maybe I need my own ENFP to come up with and spend time on wacky ideas like that. So long as there is an actual project to present still that is, we aren’t graded on the quality of cat gifs people. Honestly that just seems like extra work for no reason, not like classmates pay attention to or learn anything from others’ school projects anyway
I just realized how amazing actor frank is
INFP and INFJ being in the projects were pretty much a mood. That's about my situation whenever I'm in a group project. 😬 (INFP here, I hate group projects....)
Same
ESTP is always painfully accurate HAHAHA
I had a classmate (I don't know her personality type) in my online school tell me that she once did a presentation on pollution and got an F from her teacher because her background was unicorns.
As an INTJ who was often paired with the Big Idea types, I was pretty experienced pulling random things out of nowhere in the last few hours. Though my experience taught me to assume most group members wouldn't do any of their work and I often did the whole project _just in case_ and wouldn't tell them it was done until they were through giving me fake excuses and pretending to be worried. If they actually did the work, I'd never tell them that I had the rest of the project done separately. May have been more work for me but it only took one inept partner to tank a project before I knew better than to rely on someone else in that scenario again!
(and I didn't even fail that project. I asked the teacher if he'd consider grading the actual, fully completed work given I could provide said finished version within a day, by any means necessary. He agreed and I finished the slacker's chunk-probably a week of work in a few hours-and pulled a good grade.)
When it comes to group projects, I always turn into some weird *hybrid* personality 😅
INFP: giving it my all so I'll neither let my partners nor myself down
ESTJ: expecting the same amount of effort from my partners
INTP: hating to be the only one that puts in work (though the complaints don't stay in my head)
ENTP: the desire to create something unique
ESFP: turning into a freaking entertainer for the presentation
LMAO the ENFP presentation killed me! 😂 INFP was pretty accurate, but what we really want to do, is what the ENFP did.
I felt the INFJ one so strongly. 😢
Look as an ISFJ, I like ENTP's ideas! But its corn and we've got a week to finish so let's at least do what we need to and then maybe we can make the PowerPoint really snazzy and fun to look at :)
Also related to the INTP the most here. I always end up doing the majority of the work AND be group leader. :/
The nametags are so cute😂👍
PS- Red Bull & Last minute panic, sounds about right 😂
I had to do several group projects this year and I’m an INFJ… it was the most socially, mentally, and emotionally exhausting experience of my life. I’m glad the INFJ in the video actually stood up and told his partner how much anxiety he was giving him 😂 I need to learn how to do that
INTJ here, and let me say one of my most significant accomplishments was designing a 10-minute presentation with a quiz in 3 minutes before the professor walked into the room. Everyone in the group misread the schedule, and we didn't know it was our turn to present.
"you can't rush the last minute panic" - Frank James 🤣
As INFJ, I do give up on my group and start doing every section alone and finish everything like week before the deadline as I'm too stressed out to the deadline, lol.
Then follow by yeah we done a good job well done everyone your work are great 👍.
The entj and isfp 😂 is literally me (enfp) and my estj mum
You make my day with these 16 personalities sketches lol keep up the great work!
I need to listen to a full song version of 'They Say A Stranger Has Come To Town, They Call Him Mister Frank James!'.
Intj rarely forget the project but have to admit that love to do last minutes due too much overthinking 🤭
I'm an ambivert and through these videos I've been able to see that, yes, yes, I am most definitely an INFJ and an ENFJ. I can literally picture myself in this situation, trying to get to know the person helping me at the beginning then at the end trying to lecture them on time management. These videos are awesome, you play these personalities so well. Thanks for another great video!
In the 16 types typology system, an I can be an extrovert and an E can be an introvert. And vice versa of course. It has nothing to do with the social battery
@@arool4017 On the contrary I have know I was an ambivert before I took the 16 personality test. I was merely stating I can very easily see myself in both personalities at different times. In my case it does actually relate to social battery as sometimes my brain decides to be introverted and other times it decides to be extroverted. Sorry if you were confused.
@@tImagine you sound like an INFJ to me. its normal. infj and enfj are quite similar despite whatever they say about functions order(and both have same functions). i know both enfj and infj types inside out.
*INTJ* who relates to this even as an adult manager in the corporate world :0 Feeling *mixed emotions* (the very little I actually don't repress) ●__●
Same! 🙌🏾 - Another INTJ in corporate management
I knew a girl in high school who would complete all group work assignments herself and let the other students share her grade. She didn't trust anyone else with her grades.
1:42 FROM THE EARTH I RISE AND TO THE EARTH I ONE DAY WILL RETURN
Okay, this INTJ is affronted....I never forget projects. In fact, I begin work as soon as it's been mentioned: receiving due date, planning personal target date before the official due date, plotting backwards from there what needs to be done in order to complete by personal deadline so as to have built-in buffer space for when LIFE interrupts plan. And as I hate group projects, because others are unreliable....I have their portions already done as well in case they fail to produce, or need help with their end, etc cus if my grade is hanging in the balance, I take no chances (or hostages)...I don't even care if they pass when they shouldn't because I covered for them so long as I don't suffer for their failures. and if I were assigned a clearly ESFP partner, I'd be scheduling out their portions due dates too, in portions they can handle, and making them check in every day in that regard. (Though it is true that in the case of actual surprise tests/projects, I am incredibly capable of slapping something decent on short notice....but while I can fly by the seat of my pants on a wing and a prayer, I prefer a properly laid out flight plan and do daily checks to make certain the bird will fly.)
2:36
Here is the text for the slides
"Mesopotamia
Silver,gold, cash, dollars, green, lettuce, the goods!
What are all these words for? That's right money...
Economy has money. Mesopotamia...had money
But what kind of money??????"
Your welcome
I'm an INFP and I have all these different characters in my head. For 4 of them, I took the test because I was curious. The results were ISFP, ISTJ-A, ISTJ-T, and ENFP. They're best friends and their friend group is called "Legendary to the 4th Power," which I was very proud of to come up with. I like watching these videos to see my personality, but also their personalities. It's cool to see how accurate it is! And yes, I'm terrible at presenting. I get full-blown panic attacks every time. 😆
"due tomorrow, do tomorrow" needs to be on a t-shirt. You could market that to Uni students everywhere
ESTP here, the last minute panic hit different, it’s like a 10x multiplier of efficiency!
THE ENFP ONE IS SOOO REAL AND GOT ME LAUGHING SO HARD RN. I ALWAYS ADD SOMETHING LIKE THIS ON PRESENTATIONS TO MAKE IT LOOK MORE INTERESTING. XD
As an INTP, last year, I had to do a group project with my best friend and another friend. Long story short, I did the whole thing myself. They weren’t bad friends, I just have trust issues. I mean my other friend actually tried helped out with the portfolio, I just didn’t use anything she wrote in the final draft cause the way she wrote it clashed with mine.. I have another group project this year, it’s gonna be even harder… yayyy more panic attacks…🙄
i hope you survived
Once I wrote a little story about high school students and the ENFP boy actually put a lot of pictures of squirrel babies on the powerpoint
I'm an INTJ and I've got two options: A) I forget about the project and cram it as shown in this video or B) I hyperfocus and finish it the same day it was assigned.
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As an INFP who worked on a group project with an ESTJ I will tell you... It ended in tears. Not from me at first. I frustrated him so much with my lack of assertiveness he cried the day before the presentation. I'm so sorry. I'm so so so sorry.
LMFAO OH NOOOO POOR ESTJ 🫂💔 they deadass cried?? omg i would feel sad for the estj too... i'm sorry sweetie, ik you were trying your best as an infp!! as one too, i can def relate with that signature experience of the sj's being so done with our incessant bs (i live in a family chock-full of judging sensors so that brand of "tf u even doing bro????" is pretty much my family @ me everyday of my life)
Honestly, I am lucky that my perfectionism and high standards for academic achievement usually make me take charge more so that we get things done according to "my oddly specific vision". My desire to get a good grade (academic success is my shitty coping skill) therefore helps me direct my group towards fulfilling the standards needed to exceed expectations that I have gleaned, and I pull a lot of INFJ tactics of dividing the work up and "valuing" everyone's contributions... only to edit in anything they missed in their parts last minute because I WANT TO MAKE A REALLY GOOD PRESENTATION GODDAMNIT (even if i go overboard and forget that this project may not even be worth the extra effort) and if suzie missed part of the prerequisites for a stellar presentation, I am using my academic and technological prowess to reword (and sometimes rewrite entirely if i can't trust them for shit and eventually do my own research to make sure that their work is correct) and restyle her sections until it looks to my liking.
Does that sometimes mean making big formatting changes to make the aesthetic look nicer and more refined? Yes. Does this mean debating with confused groupmates over very small details because of my need to fufill my strangely specific vision of how I want to do this project? Yes. Do they think I'm weirdly limiting at the end of the day? Probably lmfao 💀 i think plenty of infps prefer to work alone so that they get things done in their own way without worrying about bothering anyone. my personal goal when working with a group is to have the endgoal be as close as to what I would have created on my lonesome. I wish I was one of the people who found group projects fun since it sounds cute in theory to come together and create a nice project with the power of teamwork™, but fuck no I ain't that person at all!!!
Cons: THIS STRATEGY OF MINE ONLY WORKS WHEN PEOPLE ARE WILLING FOR ME TO TAKE CONTROL OVER THE CREATIVE PROCESS. I am just lucky that most of my group members are on the lazier side and don't mind me tinkering around with shit since it is subtle and likely to net the group a higher grade in the end. If everyone else in the group already has agreed on a plan that I don't like, and does not take kindly to me editing their work or is content with doing the bare minimum.... then i am fucked!! :))))))
What is even more ridiculous is that I am still the most unreliable figure known to man due to having severe mental illness!!! So I am the dumbass waxing poetics about having lofty standards when we discuss the team project plan, only to end up not doing my part on time due to crippling executive dysfunction, indecision paralysis, and serial procrastination, courtesy of my many mental comorbidies that my oblivious groupmates will never know about for their entire lifetime!!! In other words, I get good grades and appear like a very smart student but still miss deadlines and look like a clown, to the constant confusion of many. The only pros of working with a group for me is that they can cover for my ass whenever I am struggling, at the expense of enduring more stress for having an inconsistently performing group member. Which gets one YIKE from me but I don't decide the rules about having to work with other people for an assignment.
In other words, I do pretty well on my presentations when I am not grappling with terrible mental health issues (even with how neurotic I become behind the scenes trying to memorize a cohesive speech script that is of reasonable presentation length, because i loathe public speaking thanks to my inner social anxiety demon)! My overachieving nature allows me to mask my glaring faults and some people don't realize just how much of a "slacker" I am. But god knows that I am sure that some poor ESTJ can immediately look at the hot mess that is my existence and call me out like "this girl stresses me out so much, how tf do i even begin to manage this disaster of a person?? we are doomed to a shitty outcome and my academic success is riding on this undisciplined mf??? Christ almighty save me, i need divine intervention bc idk how to deal with this level of utter uselessness. ffs can you at least be reliable for ONE minute"
All in all. It's okay, a lot of us have been there. We're just chaotically quirky and a lot of people don't know how to deal with quirky chaos. WE don't even know how to deal with our own quirky chaos. But it is okay because I give you internet hugs.
Thanks Frank, the fact that INTJs can be extremely forgetful is often .. well.. forgotten.
In related news, one time I drove an hour and a half to the next state before realizing that I had forgotten to put on shoes.
One time when taking lab mice from the animal facility to my lab (yes, really), I realized I had forgotten my key card to get into the research building. Which wouldn't have been a big deal except I was alone and it was midnight. And it was snowing. And I didn't have my coat. I swear to god it's a true story.
And yes, just recently I realized that I forgot my anniversary which was two months ago. But it's OK, because my husband's an ENFP so he apparently forgot too. 😅
-an INTJ
Thank you for the needed dopamine rush, really appreciate your timing. :)
As an INTJ, I remember that I used to learn an entire presentation on the break before class started. Ah, the good high school days
FYI- I have nothing interesting to say, except I loved it and your hair looked pretty awesome :) Your acting is so good, I love how distinct you make each type!
In my experience, these are stages of doing a group project. from "we should make a video game", to "you do bullet points one through three, i do bullet points four to six", to "due tomorrow, do tomorrow" to, ultimately, "pull it out of our tushies in 20 minutes during lunch"
As an INTJ that was accurate for me. Sometimes I knew there was stuff I could literaly do before school. Free period or during lunch.