5 things New Zealanders complain about...Americans living in New Zealand.

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  • @Tehinewai
    @Tehinewai Рік тому +115

    As a Maori, it sucks that you get bad feedback on your Reo Maori. At least youre trying and you have good intent. Please dont let it put you off ❤👍

    • @harrycurrie9664
      @harrycurrie9664 Рік тому +8

      I agree with you, it really upsets me when Maori call me out for mispronunciation, show me a Maori who can speak fluent French in France or Japanese in Japan.

    • @aheat3036
      @aheat3036 Рік тому +2

      Just speak English in an English speaking country!… it’s one of the very few uniting forces left these days!… Perhaps teach these Pacific Islanders to pronounce English words properly!

    • @katerinakemp5701
      @katerinakemp5701 Рік тому +4

      @@aheat3036 christ even English get mangled by the english

    • @Carte-Blanche-NZ
      @Carte-Blanche-NZ Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you. I am disgusted by the rise of nastiness, we shall ignore them and get on doing the right thing.❤

    • @jaygee5693
      @jaygee5693 Рік тому +3

      @@aheat3036 Good advice, to speak English in an English speaking country.
      New Zealand has 3 official languages though, English, Te Reo Maori, and NZ sign language. In parts of Northland eg, Maori is just as common as English. Get used to it.

  • @jandrury125
    @jandrury125 Рік тому +26

    Nobody likes to spend time in a queue. New Zealanders keeping to their place in the queue is motivated by a sense of fairness and not considering yourself to have greater entitlement than anyone else who is waiting....emergency services excepted, who actually do have the right to skip a queue.

  • @sharonfarrugia2665
    @sharonfarrugia2665 Рік тому +95

    You must stop by NZ law at a zebra crossing, if there are pedestrians waiting to cross 😊

    • @bhanani5480
      @bhanani5480 Рік тому +9

      Correct, the pedestrian is the only place on the road where people have the right of way - but not saying that everybody stops at a crossing (I've experienced myself people are still driving when I've obviously started to walk across the pedestrian)

    • @okpaflip2
      @okpaflip2 Рік тому +10

      Pretty sure Australia is the same, pedestrians have right of way.

    • @harrycurrie9664
      @harrycurrie9664 Рік тому +9

      I'm glad you said "waiting" so many don't and will step straight out in front of you giving very little time to stop.

    • @Tsass0
      @Tsass0 Рік тому +4

      @@bhanani5480 New Zealanders driving standard is down right BAD

    • @sirfer6969
      @sirfer6969 Рік тому +4

      @@harrycurrie9664 This...so many people just walk out without looking. If you are at a ped xing, you MUST do your due diligence and wait for traffic to stop.
      Also, jaywalking is not illegal in NZ, but if you get hit by a car, YOU are at fault.
      NZ Immigration and the Govt in general does an awful job of informing newcomers how things work here, so there's faults on all sides.

  • @carolinemcnicol498
    @carolinemcnicol498 Рік тому +8

    Everyone is on their own te reo journey. I found that when I had people working with me speaking te reo around me this really helped with my vowels.There was a certain amount of unlearning I had to do about realising the place that made English in my mouth was not the same place where te reo sounds came from. Over the years I also went to quite a few Marae, powhiri, tangi and workshops on Te Tiriti , pronunciation at DHB for staff , a weekend of full immersion at a Marae rakau method and a 200 hour Tikanga paper at Uni with a lecturer who helped us with pronunciation a lot.Singing waiata helps a lot and most of the time everyone was learning in the same waka so I took any "criticism" as being positive to help me.

  • @kn397
    @kn397 Рік тому +16

    I always feel like the people who say NZ is unsafe haven't been out and about in the world much or don't keep up with world news. Also 20 years ago we didn't have social media and the internet like it is now so awful things still happened in NZ, we just didn't hear about it the same.

    • @Chris-eq3en
      @Chris-eq3en Рік тому +2

      Yes and people that say the murder rate is out of control and the worse it's has ever been, when actually our highest murder rate was in the late 80's to early 90's and we had much less population. 😁

    • @jeringatai3156
      @jeringatai3156 Рік тому +1

      @@Chris-eq3en This. I lived in South Auckland as a teen and the amount of people saying how bad everything is dont understand that alot of this stuff was happening in the 90s. The stabbings, the ram raids and even the guns. Social media is making it look worse than what it is and I have pointed out that if youve never lived in those areas youre going to think, its gotten worse

  • @rastagirlnz
    @rastagirlnz Рік тому +17

    Wen people try to speak Maori and get it wrong, sometimes it's just correct you, but respect should be given to those who try, or falls in love with the culture.....

  • @strydermclean
    @strydermclean Рік тому +2

    it’s illegal to not stop at a pedestrian crossing, and secondly it actually causes more traffic to zoom and zig zag though peak traffic (its been proven) also stay as left as you can for emergency service’s.

  • @kyblack123
    @kyblack123 Рік тому +15

    Great comment about ‘it’s a matter of perspective’, Tara. Even though per capital, Kiwis are the most travelled people in the world, I’ve always felt we need to travel overseas before we can truly appreciate how fortunate we are here in Aotearoa New Zealand. Keep up the great work, I always watch your content. ;-)

    • @shaunmckenzie5509
      @shaunmckenzie5509 Рік тому +2

      That stat is a misconception. If you take out the kiwis that have only been to Australia (a country which is practically the same), they're really not that well travelled.

    • @OryanMcLean
      @OryanMcLean Рік тому

      You do not have tō travel tō experience different things. They are world wide, just not widely seen in nz.

  • @TheKL105
    @TheKL105 Рік тому +8

    I'm half Maori and I've been corrected in pronouncing Porirua wrong ! When I was buying a train ticket ! geez and I was barked at because I couldn't speak Samoan !
    😳 ..ok I was born in Wellington in the 60s so people spoke predominantly English unless you're parents spoke to you fluently in their native tongue to you which unfortunately mine didn't due to my mother only having limited knowledge of the Maori language as the era she grew up in Maori language wasn't encouraged although her parents could speak fluently and as for our father being Samoan coming to NZ in the 50s he couldn't speak English well being in his late teens and didn't bother speaking Samoan to us as I guess he wanted to learn English in those days it was an advantage and still is..so I basically spoke English but like you I only know the hellos goodbyes and thankyou a couple of words here and there I would love to speak both my parents language fluently but I don't shame on me !
    So don't worry I know how you feel at least your trying to and another thing you probably know more than me ! Good on you 🙂👍

  • @comjag
    @comjag Рік тому +2

    Always enjoy your point of view.Thanks Tara.

  • @churr19
    @churr19 Рік тому +11

    I think alot of the "correcting how to pronounce" comments stem from alot of Kiwis refusing to pronounce our kupu and or aren't open to changing things back to the original words,I mean, Whittaker's got so much backlash for naming their block of choc "Miraka Kirimi" for ONE WEEK. I feel like that's the only reason why, But tautoko some of us do need to realize you as an American or any other international persons will pronounce things differently esp with an accent and at least you're trying to say them 😊

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому +3

      Thanks for understanding! I did not realize Whittakers got backlash for that chocolate??

    • @ExUtiku
      @ExUtiku Рік тому +2

      @S It certainly makes one wonder whether it is an intelligence issue or a racist issue and your comment is a perfect illustration with your use of the words kupu and tautoko both of which have a number of interpretations, there really is no excuse why born and raised New Zealanders can't work out what the meaning of the word must mean when the context in which the word has been used is considered ... I have a recollection of Marcus Lush indulging in a radio talk back with a couple of people that refused to pronounce even place names correctly as willful ignorance, which they clearly demonstrated when he asked them to speak the words camembert and champagne, both of which they were quite happy to pronounce correctly!

  • @amateurfisherman4431
    @amateurfisherman4431 Рік тому +6

    Don’t worry about the language pronunciation too much the ones complaining are just whinging. It’s not like foreigners learn Māori from a young age, the complainers need to get over themselves.

    • @runforrestrun1965
      @runforrestrun1965 Рік тому +3

      Yeah, it’s not as if English is pronounced correctly by many is it, and they aren’t pouncing on that! If one asks respect for one language surely it should apply to the main spoken/written one here too. Gee if we were to correct peoples English often imagine the furore.

    • @jeringatai3156
      @jeringatai3156 Рік тому +2

      @@runforrestrun1965 Im going to cut you off on the english pronounciation. There are many different pronounciation for english words depending on where you come from. So if youre complaining about NZ mispronouncing english words thats an unfair comparison. For example, Australia has choosen to pronounce the letter "H" completely different to every other english speaking country. Process can be pronounced two different ways. There, their, theyre, here, hare, sheer, share.
      With Te Reo Maori if you learn the Maori alphabet itll help with pronounciation. The language is phonetic and with the exception of dialect. Theres only one way to pronounce every word. Its just learning and training your muscles to pronounce the words properly.
      Its sad people complain about her mispronouncing words, most people I know will just correct her once and move on. If you hear the correct pronounciation enough times youll eventually learn it. Thats IF your muscles bend that way.

    • @oneday458
      @oneday458 Рік тому

      @@runforrestrun1965 English is regularly corrected - particularly people's names. I am a primary teacher and have been teaching for over 35 years. I model both languages correctly - and almost all kids of this age group have very good pronunciation. It's as they get older that some choose to deliberately revert to mispronouncing words.

  • @adellesmith5412
    @adellesmith5412 Рік тому +1

    The nod is a way of saying "Thank You for stopping"

  • @maxwellward1795
    @maxwellward1795 Рік тому +6

    Just bare in mind that each tribe has different dialects, some names and greetings are different from others, I get confused sometimes but it's not hard to adapt to, you know what, at least you give it a go which is great. I have no problem with anyone trying to speak te reo

  • @dan4856
    @dan4856 Рік тому +7

    It is actually rather cool to take a step back, and realized part of Your Culture is not fussing🤣😂

  • @tlwalden1
    @tlwalden1 Рік тому +6

    There's definitely a difference between intentionally mispronouncing Māori words and really really trying to but struggling to pronounce them. Thank you for trying, please keep at it.

  • @bruceironside1105
    @bruceironside1105 6 місяців тому

    It is a legal requirement that if someone is waiting at the crossing, that the vehicles must stop. You can get a ticket for not stopping.

  • @Mcfreddo
    @Mcfreddo Рік тому +1

    I know about those car lines. Two lanes. Both turn right at an intersection. You're in the next to centre line but you'll want the adjacent to curb lane eventually. You do this because a: there are so manny dawdlers about and b: the middle lane at the intersection also goes straight ahead and this lane is really full.
    The car next to you or one/two behind in that other lane that are turning right (sometimes their indicators aren't on) don't like you to move over later in a gap that is naturally there, when they happen to turn. They will speed up to close it off if they can. The thing is that you're naturally ahead of them anyway but speed and will not slow there advance. They weren't up to you and wouldn't be up to you even if hypothetically weren't there. They purposely speed up.

  • @T.L.Robertson8366
    @T.L.Robertson8366 Рік тому

    Aww bless love your content I like to Watch it when I’m fleeing home sick.

  • @jimriley9697
    @jimriley9697 Рік тому +3

    Just got back to Texas after about 12 days in NZ. The Maori words were definitely challenging. We definitely got a few laughs trying to tell people where we were staying. The "wh" sounding like an F still gets me.

  • @runforrestrun1965
    @runforrestrun1965 Рік тому +16

    Spot on Tara. With the language pronunciation thing, I wouldn’t worry too much, let’s face it English is slaughtered and wrangled so badly here by kiwis so I just smile when I hear the language police people here jump up and down over the odd word in Maori that isn’t up to their level. Just try your best but the odd person will still feel the need to correct you. Sigh.😮😊

    • @horiwalker1346
      @horiwalker1346 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂🙄🙄🙄🙄 it gets slaughtered cause them born and bred folk just don't even attempt to try. The "I can't" excuse is washing over us and we will no longer wear it.
      What makes me proud and it puts many of you folk to shame, is when a foreigner comes in and tries.

    • @Camwin
      @Camwin Рік тому

      Imagine bragging about your language colonising so much of the world that you're afraid of someone butchering it. To tell me you have any respect for language.

  • @jasminema
    @jasminema Рік тому

    If I am at a pedestrian crossing even ones with lights I always make sure the cars have stopped before crossing

  • @MH-xd9os
    @MH-xd9os Рік тому

    Slow and steady .....
    your channel/ content is doing well

  • @MikePriornz
    @MikePriornz Рік тому

    On the road there are painted diamonds that the pedestrians are meant to check and they are NOT allowed to cross the road if there is car between them and the diamond, but most people do not know that.

  • @mamaspatch
    @mamaspatch Рік тому +5

    As a Pākehā kiwi (white) who is trying to learn Te Reo and be more culturally inclusive, I am often scared to kōrero in public for fear of offending. I had a bad experience years ago where my flatmate got really angry and yelled at me for trying to use Māori words and told my accent was "too white" and it took me a long time to get my confidence back. But the racism here is still pretty bad, one of my friends was having a meeting with his son's school and the SENCO was using Māori words like tamariki (children) and whānau (family) and he got really angry and told her to stop and that he wasn't "no Māori". I told him that's why they have to fight so hard - people like him. We get all this good press on UA-cam and stuff but our inclusiveness has a LONG way to go, only white people here think its good.

    • @Camwin
      @Camwin Рік тому +1

      Tautoko tō kōrero e hoa :) We have a long way and Māori themselves still have this trauma of losing their culture.

    • @mamaspatch
      @mamaspatch Рік тому +2

      @@Camwin Tēnā koe! And yes, absolutely, so much of the truth of that history is glossed over. It will be interesting to see what the new historical curriculum looks like when it comes through.

    • @oneday458
      @oneday458 Рік тому +1

      @@mamaspatch I've seen some material produced by Tamsin Hanley - well worth reading. Her books were specifically written for this reason and are available to schools. Her books are well researched, state the hard hitting facts (she does not gloss over anything) as they happened at that time, and don't hold back. They cover colonisation and the various waves of immigration from Britain and other parts of the world, and effects this had on Maori, their lands and resources..

  • @jamiekavanagh7987
    @jamiekavanagh7987 Рік тому +11

    Go you for trying to speak Maori it's not easy even for a kiwi like me 🌷

    • @ExUtiku
      @ExUtiku Рік тому +4

      Yep, I'm a born and raised Kiwi and I do my best, but it is really easy to get tongue tied when you are switching between two vowel sounds, and you see it working both ways as well, when people are speaking in Maori and the speech is interspersed with English words they frequently make the same errors in reverse by applying the Maori vowel sound to the English vowels in the word lol

    • @_JustinCider_
      @_JustinCider_ Рік тому +2

      @@ExUtiku For us older Pakeha Kiwis a big part is years of mis-pronouncing Te Reo, combined with a total lack of instruction on correct pronunciation. Old habits die hard, you can't teach an old dog new tricks, etc etc. I do try but often struggle. Thankfully my kids are so much better.

    • @pianoman4967
      @pianoman4967 Рік тому

      @@ExUtiku Spot on observation. I agree that many Maori have trouble with standard English pronunciation. I hadn't thought it of that way "bro!" Haha!

    • @ExUtiku
      @ExUtiku Рік тому

      @@_JustinCider_ Hiya HG, I have a suspicion that I qualify as one of those due to being on the wrong side of 70 lol ... I was quite happy to run with the bastardizations that we had grown up with until I moved to a province where bastardization of the Maori language was almost an art form, it was so bad that I would be directed to or asked questions about places that I had never heard of and using the provided pronunciation I was unable to find the places on a map, the bastardizations are so bad that you have to adopt a way of saying some of the words which sounded awful and I was struck with the realization that that must be what I sounded like as well, following are a couple of them and they are place names, to get the bastardizations right it may pay to put a peg on your nose lol Haaara (Hawera), Oharkra (Oakura), Patararoo (Putaruru), Tamranewey (Taumarunui), Oatrahonga (Otorohanga) ... try entering some of those into your navigator and see how you get on lol

    • @_JustinCider_
      @_JustinCider_ Рік тому

      @@ExUtiku Yep. I grew up going to Para-pram beach (Paraparaumu) as the worst example.

  • @francoiselafferty-hancock5112
    @francoiselafferty-hancock5112 Рік тому +1

    Oh so true on so many counts. My husband asked for the Banoffi pie Trumpet at a pedal boat place in Masterton and they gave him Boysenberry instead. He was so gutted we had to go past the dairy the next day so he could get the Banoffi pie Trumpet he'd been craving. And yup, I get seriously peeved when cars don't stop at pedestrian crossings if I was ready to cross before they got to the traffic diamond. Not sure if everyone knows the rule about if a car is past the diamond you have to let them go as it's not enough time for them to stop otherwise. Finally, gutted you get shamed for trying to speak Māori language. I think it's great pronunciation is getting better. I lived years of my life pronouncing Taupo incorrectly and didn't learn it until a few years ago (in my 30s!) when I went on holiday for Christmas there and would get to practice saying Taupo (Toe Paw) a lot. And I've lived in NZ all my life! Don't let people be too hard on you. It's good you're trying and there's lots of Kiwis (like me) who are learning how to pronounce words correctly too.

  • @_JustinCider_
    @_JustinCider_ Рік тому +11

    I'm gonna guess:
    The weather
    The government
    Cost of everything & wages
    People who complain about things.
    Americans. 😉

    • @Luubelaar
      @Luubelaar Рік тому +1

      People who complain about things: Poms.
      Source: half my family are English. (The other half are Scots and are often just as bad)

    • @mymai5859
      @mymai5859 Рік тому

      @@Luubelaar yep was going to add grumpy Poms moaning about the weather no matter if it's hot or cold.

  • @ronprichard6145
    @ronprichard6145 Рік тому +2

    in 2022 New Zealand is ranked second behind only Iceland for safety. The people who complain about safety need to take an interest in what's happening elsewhere. We're still in the top 10 for happiest people too, not that you'd know that if you listened to the whinging on NewstalkZB.

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому +1

      Yes exactly Ron! It is pretty great here!

    • @juice8037
      @juice8037 Рік тому

      Ron 😂newstalk ZB 😂😭I can’t-

  • @jandobson5441
    @jandobson5441 Рік тому +5

    I’m from Oz and I’ve rarely felt unsafe here or in Aotearoa NZ. I’m also reasonably confident the stats haven’t worsened over time, either. I do wonder though if that would also be true for most who live or have travelled in most Pacific Island nations, most European nations, most Asian nations…. (speaking gently) The US is a bit of an outlier in this regard, so maybe not an appropriate comparison?

    • @Luubelaar
      @Luubelaar Рік тому

      Australian here, I also have never felt unsafe in NZ.

    • @leesoarable
      @leesoarable Рік тому

      Just to point out for point 2, there are rules that both must follow! The driver isn't the only one who needs to pay attention!
      What does a diamond mean on a pedestrian crossing?
      The diamond shape before a pedestrian crossing is there to warn motorists that they are approaching a crossing and also for pedestrians who must not step off the kerb on to the crossing if a vehicle has passed over the diamond.

    • @jamestutanekai5060
      @jamestutanekai5060 Рік тому

      Agreed there is a lot of violent crime at present hopefully it will be brought under control.

  • @sunsetlights100
    @sunsetlights100 Рік тому

    Crossings divided in NZ 2parts
    In driving a car you only have to stop if pedestrian on ur side of crossing.

  • @dmwallacenz
    @dmwallacenz Рік тому +2

    Lots of New Zealanders, especially older ones, don't know how to pronounce te reo. If someone tries to correct your pronunciation, you can't necessarily assume that they're right.

  • @samgreer8274
    @samgreer8274 Рік тому +1

    Just wait in line. Patience is a virtue. Imagine everyone cutting the cue because they ALL feel their need is more important. Unless its a matter of life or death, just wait like everyone else that there BEFORE YOU. First in, first serve seems fair.

  • @graemecross3182
    @graemecross3182 Рік тому +1

    I completely agree with no 4 and 5.even the English language with the accent, words are pronounced differently its hard to adjust.and with crime you hear it all the time on the news but in my area in christchurch I still feel safe.

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching and taking the time to share your thoughts!

  • @daycare5881
    @daycare5881 Рік тому +1

    I agree with not complaining about food or even bad coffee from a cafe. We do complain within a group of friends or whaanau but sending it back. My friend ordered lamb rump with pureed peas etc, sounded delicious NOT EVEN!! The lamb was a slab of meat on the plate with whole peas from a packet of frozen Wattles. We all looked at it, I told her to take it back, it was a special treat to go out for dinner, it was bad. But NO!! She continued to eat it, with the peas rolling around her plate.
    Well done for trying to pronounce Te reo Maaori, celebrate it.

  • @gregnz1
    @gregnz1 Рік тому

    I stop and look at crossings and also on bike tracks,

  • @riar4699
    @riar4699 Рік тому +1

    Good on you for trying Te Reo Maori. Even kiwis muck up the pronunciation sometimes & depending where you are from in NZ, pronunciation can differ between tribes/regions. I'm all for people giving it a go (& yes I am Maori) & I don't think anyone should be negative to people attempting or learning a new language. I know how difficult it is to learn other languages so patience & encouragement is the way to go IMO.

  • @heididavis2170
    @heididavis2170 Рік тому

    Hi Tara, you mentioned before that New Zealanders are reasonably. I hope they are when people vacationing or moving there are trying and learning there language

  • @amandapurcell3707
    @amandapurcell3707 Рік тому +1

    You do well with your language. Different regions pronounce words differently which makes it harder.

  • @danielintheantipodes6741
    @danielintheantipodes6741 Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @claudiamcfie1265
    @claudiamcfie1265 5 місяців тому

    The road code specifies pedestrians have right of way on a zebra crossing. Its more than custom, its actually legal.

  • @pianoman4967
    @pianoman4967 Рік тому +1

    Interesting perspective Tara. I've been known to complain about an 11min presentation having a complete 2min add break that's totally tailored to the overseas market in the middle. Observation via the comments points towards primarily kiwis watching. Something to consider.

    • @_JustinCider_
      @_JustinCider_ Рік тому +2

      Actually, I think her target audience is more towards Americans and others considering a move to New Zealand. Kiwis watching it is just us being curious about how others view us.
      If you don't want to watch the ad then just hit the right arrow key 'till it's over - that's what I do.

    • @pianoman4967
      @pianoman4967 Рік тому

      @@_JustinCider_ Good advice and I'll take it aboard. I've followed Tara for a long time, but as has happened recently with a few more of my favourites, the advertising has become more "in your face." I understand why, but...

  • @terenatua8433
    @terenatua8433 Рік тому

    Pedestrian Crossings have a signage - white diamonds on the road prior to these "zebra crossings ", to warn drivers of upcoming pedestrian.
    As long as you try pronouncing Te Reo - Maori language, that's fine.. the challenge there falls upon whom corrects you.. and hopefully it's in a logical constructive way.
    60-80% of the population live within 45-60 km of the NZ coastline, so one can go surfcasting or fishing off the beach on either coast, 45min away from home living in Auckland.
    Love your insights and views on findings regarding differences, keep up the good work

  • @greggiles7309
    @greggiles7309 6 місяців тому

    Te Reo Is All around us, what do think about the IRD translantion?

  • @kristinaasimova601
    @kristinaasimova601 Рік тому +2

    Yeah, Americans are really weird if they think those complaints are weird

  • @KiwiCatherine
    @KiwiCatherine Рік тому +1

    Agree with first one. I never really complain about things at restaurants or places like that. They have to stop at crossing because it is required bylaw. I do always look first. You should not push in when in a queue. It is very rude. I think older generation like myself at 57 doesn’t really care that much about the pronunciation of Maori as it wasn’t such a big deal when I was growing up. It is definitely more unsafe in larger cities in NZ compared to Denmark

  • @Tag_EW
    @Tag_EW Рік тому

    Māori is not your first language and the fact that you are trying is awesome, keep your head up 👏

  • @suekennedy1595
    @suekennedy1595 Рік тому

    I live in a beach place one hour north of Brisbane and it’s expected to always wave thankyou to cars that stop for you at a Zebra crossing it a person doesn’t wave we believe they are rude people from the big smoke.

  • @matthewashman1406
    @matthewashman1406 Рік тому +2

    Queuing is the English in us.

  • @englishkiwi3051
    @englishkiwi3051 Рік тому +8

    Yep we are the 2nd safest country in the world 2nd only to Iceland.... people who say that NZ is unsafe have never left New Zealand.

    • @mattieclan8957
      @mattieclan8957 Рік тому +1

      2nd safest in the world - is your data out of date?
      Nz is not as bad as other countries re safety, but it is increasingly not as safe at this time and i hope that we do not let things get out of control that it is hard to rein it in. and.... I have left NZ, came back, travelled and all that, and I still worry especially for youths going astray. I don't feel as safe now.

    • @shaunmckenzie5509
      @shaunmckenzie5509 Рік тому

      I feel much safer in Melbourne than I ever felt in Auckland. Australia is safer than NZ imo. There's also countries like Japan, Singapore, Norway, Taiwan which are way safer than NZ. No way is that stat true.

    • @ExUtiku
      @ExUtiku Рік тому

      @English kiwi Either that or they are national party supporters and they are trying to use the media to create fear in people that the current govt is to blame for the types of crime that we are experiencing at the moment when the reality is that like any crime anywhere it is simply an evolution of crime, as one door is closed for the crims they have to find another that is open ... and that will never ever change regardless of which party is in government!

    • @thrusta100
      @thrusta100 Рік тому

      @@shaunmckenzie5509 BS mate, you are just a deluded kiwi basher! Melbourne ain’t safe! Full of meth heads, bogans and drunks, and you pulled those other countries outta your ass when you never ever even been there!

    • @KiwiCatherine
      @KiwiCatherine Рік тому

      Top 20 Safest Countries in the World (2022 Global Peace Index - lower is better):
      Iceland - 1.107
      New Zealand - 1.269
      Ireland - 1.288
      Denmark - 1.296
      Austria - 1.300
      Portugal - 1.301
      Slovenia - 1.316
      Czech Republic - 1.318
      Singapore - 1.326
      Japan - 1.336
      Switzerland - 1.357
      Canada - 1.389
      Hungary - 1.411
      Finland - 1.439
      Croatia - 1.440
      Germany - 1.462
      Norway - 1.465
      Malaysia - 1.471
      Bhutan - 1.481
      Slovakia - 1.499

  • @rebeccaterupe8518
    @rebeccaterupe8518 Рік тому

    Walkway is called a zebra crossing

  • @k9nick
    @k9nick 9 місяців тому

    In new zealand. You hit someone on a crossing, you better have a damn good reason for not stopping too let a pedestrian cross. You'll lose your case

  • @taranbirbedibedi5462
    @taranbirbedibedi5462 Рік тому

    When u will upload next vlog

  • @JackiePittar
    @JackiePittar 23 дні тому

    It’s the law to stop if people are on the zebra crossing .. until they are all they across the road… road rules

  • @zeth479
    @zeth479 Рік тому +1

    I really like your videos and I know you mean well. I also agree that we put too much emphasis on te reo pronunciations, sometimes people truly struggle with it, often not due to lack of effort or respect. However please understand that there are historical reasons to it. We are just on our journey to fulfill the true meaning behind treaty of waitangi. I'm not going to go too deep into Māori history here but please do look into it now that you've lived here for 7 years. Te Reo Māori isn't just the language of Māori people, but the official language of Aotearoa (New Zealand). This identity and heritage is part of every kiwi. Also please be careful when you say things such as that Māori people are being integrated into the society. They've been long integrated into the society already, through different colonization tactics such as forced English education. Generations of Māori people did not know how to speak their own language as a result. Te Reo Matahīapo (revitalization) is something that started somewhat recently. For people planning to move to Aotearoa, they must be prepared to learn and adopt this part of our identity, as almost every job interview will have questions about biculturalism and treaty of waitangi.

  • @bruceironside1105
    @bruceironside1105 6 місяців тому

    Different tribes within NZ will pronounce Māori works differently too, so don’t be too offended if someone corrects you.
    You can always correct their English pronunciation or grammar if the p you off too much.

  • @fin7251
    @fin7251 Рік тому +1

    Queues are there for a reason, first in first out, it is rude not to wait your turn as the people in front of you have already done. NZ is still very safe in comparison to other nations. But 10 years ago you would have had 1 or 2 gun stories on the news a year to every week now.

  • @dodoxasaurus6904
    @dodoxasaurus6904 Рік тому

    I think the Language thing is more of a fact that for quite a few Māoris, including myself, is that we are tired of our language/ culture getting pushed aside and not said right (which believe me is still hard to say, especially if you can't roll your R's).
    I think its due to the skipped generation where the language was banned from being spoken and is only now getting a big comeback with the revival and all, so its just such a personal thing to most people; so I guess its really about practice and remembering the words which I think is the hardest for people since the wrong version of the word is said the most.

  • @markcrisp8279
    @markcrisp8279 Рік тому +1

    Tara,
    Your lovely Your doing your best.
    Here we respect that ... consider your self a kiwi.
    I would love to think this country has increased your understanding of empathy and love.
    I should also include self awareness knowing your self makes it Easy to relate.
    You have these qualities in abundance.
    I however disagree ... hamburgers definitely better with beetroot.
    LOL.

  • @bruceironside1105
    @bruceironside1105 6 місяців тому

    If service or standards are not to our liking in a shop, cafe etc, we just vote with our feet and don’t go back to that store.

  • @k9nick
    @k9nick 9 місяців тому

    Being in line is taking your turn. To jump a rude is rude.

  • @thomasfy4
    @thomasfy4 Рік тому +1

    This is like British complaints as well

  • @monowaikiwi6802
    @monowaikiwi6802 Рік тому +1

    Great observations. I speak for many of my fellow Kiwis - the only time I have had any issues with Maori language is with "white liberals" generally in the education and academic areas. I worked with, and managed many Maori and that hasnt come up in those contexts. In some cases it can be a sign of that they respect you for trying and wish you to be better. One thing though - us kiwis do shorten names - or put an "ie" on the end. (Johnnie, Katie, Georgie, Martie, Abbie, etc) It is disrespectful to shorten a Maori name and they may correct that. But its all good, you are doing fine - Great job.

  • @ockiesimmonds9279
    @ockiesimmonds9279 Рік тому +2

    Kia ora Tara, kia kaha ki to reo Maori - you will get there with your Maori & please keeping going with your great video clips.

  • @k9nick
    @k9nick 9 місяців тому

    Number 4. Really applies to city folk.
    Most others, particularly the south island, don't give a shit.

  • @zunairbirds3984
    @zunairbirds3984 Рік тому

    Beautiful sharing 💕💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @SageRosemaryTime
    @SageRosemaryTime Рік тому +1

    Hi Love this channel. As a Kiwi I can say that I agree with the safety concerns. They are changes for the worse. They are indications that NZ will go the way of America and other countries and any sign that this is happening is MISERABLE for us, We know we have a very rare privilege to live in Peace and with that eroding , , ,Y'know

  • @davidhughes6
    @davidhughes6 Рік тому

    David Hughes
    I would be really interested on a financial video. One where you compare which place nz or america is better in terms of getting ahead and having a good middle class life. There is no such video i know of and this must be a factor to people moving too NZ. Will they be able to afford a good middle class life with a typical salary? Its not just median salaries; its tax rates, other taxes, like nz not having stamp duty or capital gains tax, healthcare, university tuition fees, car registration, food and entertainment, clothes. There is a lot to it but you would be the perfect person to weigh it all up. Is there a kiwi dream and is it different to the american dream?

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому +1

      David thanks foe sharing! This is quite interesting and I talk to my clients about this alot. My struggle is that everyone's standard of living is different. I like the kiwi dream vs American dream topic! That I can speak to for sure

    • @davidhughes6
      @davidhughes6 Рік тому

      @@Kiwiamericans Id love to see that video! part of the kiwi dream is having a bach by the sea or in the country

  • @ExUtiku
    @ExUtiku Рік тому +1

    That was quick, I just tried to submit a comment relating to the investment scammers and they have been caught up with and dumped from the comments already, now all google has to do is figure a way to get on top of these damned porn site bots!

  • @loganager7377
    @loganager7377 Рік тому

    It's the law if u outside the diamonds it's your responsibility to stop if some one steps onto the zebra crossing this something we are taught as kids

  • @parkiwi4787
    @parkiwi4787 Рік тому

    It's the law to stop.A pedestrian crossing gives pedestrians the right of way. Staying in your place in the queue respecting others. Maori language is a NZ language. I struggle but try to learn. Now it's taught in primary school things will change. Safety? Where can I buy a semi automatic.

  • @cairo9544
    @cairo9544 Рік тому

    definitely not the same level....5 million vs 330 million! i love New Zealand! i would love to retire there in 11yrs!

  • @user-xm6tx7uf9d
    @user-xm6tx7uf9d 10 місяців тому

    I always stop at a pedestrian crossing & drivers respect that & they will Stop to let you cross some driver's will give you the thumbs up while you are crossing i return the favour

  • @Latkrys
    @Latkrys Рік тому

    Very very true re Te Reo pronunciation. Those who can speak it, and so judgmental should be thankful others are trying to speak your language. Dicks.

  • @alanp3334
    @alanp3334 Рік тому

    Oh, we do complain about bad service or bad food alright... but we politely eat what's in front of us, pay, and once we've left the restaurant, we then tell all our friends and family, "What a stink place! They stuffed my bloody order up!"

  • @rogerb4436
    @rogerb4436 Рік тому

    By law you have to stop for pedestrians 🚶‍♂️ on your side of the crossing. I've lived here all my life and never really heard ppl complain about ppl getting words wrong so I personally think that's a bit misleading. I literally never heard that before. Great video though.

  • @sideshow_sean4968
    @sideshow_sean4968 Рік тому

    My Pittsburgheze is gonna get me killed with mispronunciation. Haha

  • @gregnz1
    @gregnz1 Рік тому +1

    Te Reo is still a relative new introduction into main stream culture, it doesnt trigger me, I am not linguistically talented.

  • @gillyrocksjapan
    @gillyrocksjapan Рік тому

    As far as pronunciation of the Maori language goes, most Kiwis don’t even speak the language, let alone pronounce it correctly. If you check out Māori TV news you can hear how it actually sounds. For example nowadays I notice people pronouncing the “au” sound as “oe” as in toe, which is just as wrong as the English version. If somebody remarks, ask them how they say it and then just reply “okay, thanks.”

  • @jkaplan
    @jkaplan Рік тому

    I don’t understand what you’re trying to say about #2. It’s illegal to not stop for a pedestrian at zebra crossing, there’s nothing optional about it. I’ve seen police pull over motorists that failed to stop. I live in central Auckland and rarely see people nodding at drivers, perhaps this is only a thing where you live?

    • @jeringatai3156
      @jeringatai3156 Рік тому

      Its the slight hand wave. Odd you havent seen it because I see it all around NZ including Auckland. But then again I havent been in Auckland a long time so maybe the dont do it anymore

    • @OKBoomer2k
      @OKBoomer2k Рік тому

      She's telling Americans, who sometimes sneak through a zebra crossing *just* before the pedestrian gets to where their front bumper would be.
      It's not to say the law doesn't exist or that it is a dumb law. And she added a request for the pedestrians to also look around in addition to the drivers stopping. Extra safe.

  • @meganf1658
    @meganf1658 Рік тому +1

    Hmm I like to watch videos like this and think about how much of a New Zealander I actually am.. haha because I think that I sometimes don't do the things other NZers do.. I would find it difficult to complain about the food I ordered.. but is that because I'm a New Zealander or because I'm kinda a shy person? lol. But I do think that my relatives etc don't complain if their food is wrong unless maybe it's really bad.. Be careful saying anything seeming negative about NZ.. 😛 NZers can be overly sensitive and defensive about our country, don't ya think? lol

  • @jackiejones690
    @jackiejones690 Рік тому

    We call this just being polite

  • @peterferan4389
    @peterferan4389 Рік тому +2

    Queuing is fair and good manners. Americans speak at the back of the nose hence your problem with speaking like us ....with a mouth full of cotton wool

  • @martinemartin4779
    @martinemartin4779 6 місяців тому

    Lol at zebra crossings, the cars are supposed to stop - required by law...hence complaints. Yes, you're right about the queues and it grinds my gears - we're all about the fairness 😁 plus it teaches you to be patient, which is a great quality to have. Unless it's an ambulance, fire engine or the police, you respect the rights of others, behave like good human being and don't cut the queue. With te reo Maori, it is a thing and I like to be corrected, so I learn to do it properly - you can actually change the meaning of a word by not pronouncing it correctly e.g. keke means cake and kēkē means armpit and kekē means to creak....they're all said differently...we talk to communicate, so we have to say it right.

    • @greggiles7309
      @greggiles7309 6 місяців тому +1

      I grew up near a 100k road,

  • @debrawalker4642
    @debrawalker4642 Рік тому

    The person who is crossing on a designated Pedestrian crossing has the right of way?

    • @debrawalker4642
      @debrawalker4642 Рік тому

      If I didn’t have such good friends around me, I would have been run over quite often. That’s to all my mate! I’m actually a lot better at paying attention now.

  • @NzLand3r
    @NzLand3r Рік тому

    Ahaha, my stepmother is American and she lives here in NZ.😄

  • @reneeandcharliecat7007
    @reneeandcharliecat7007 Рік тому +1

    I always do a thumbs up

  • @horiwalker1346
    @horiwalker1346 Рік тому

    At least you're trying and it gets up my nose when you get put down for attempting. I'm Māori and I'm proud when someone tries. it's them born and bred here folk to lazy to even attempt that piss me off.
    Hope it don't put you off and we should be guiding you not putting you down.

    • @craftrunner
      @craftrunner Рік тому

      So you are a Maori and what is your other genetic make up, that would be interesting

  • @Nothingstutube
    @Nothingstutube Рік тому +3

    Sounds like your saying new zealanders complain about arrogant people.

    • @juice8037
      @juice8037 Рік тому

      Lmao right? Haha 😂 I suppose that’s what they do in America -

  • @pisaseala
    @pisaseala Рік тому +1

    in fairness with traffic, I think is only fair if we all just be patient and wait on the line. better safe than sorry is what we say here... Te reo Maori is not that bad when it comes to pronounciation. you probably met just a few that have taken that way too serious instead of considering others weren't born with the similar tongue speaking... I wouldn't worry too much about that one to be honest.

  • @_JustinCider_
    @_JustinCider_ Рік тому +1

    So, my guesses were all wrong but hey ...
    Regarding the pedestrian crossings - it is law here that vehicles must stop for pedestrians either on a crossing or waiting to cross. We teach our kids to use crossings and that cars should stop for them, and as you have frequently mentioned many times we allow our kids to walk to school or elsewhere on their own. So now we are down to Mama & Papa bear protecting their youngins. My kids expect cars to stop at a pedestrian crossing, at 5 or 6 their self preservation skills are not fully developed, so they may step out expecting you to stop. If you threaten their safety by not stopping for them, or contribute to a blasé attitude towards stopping, then you can bet your life I'm going to pull you up on it.
    On the queuing thing, I don't care if you leave the queue, just don't expect to get back into it in front of me. People who drive down the outside lane and then try to get into the correct lane at the last minute do not help with the traffic flow - they make it worse by slowing the flow in a second lane. If it's good enough for me and 90% of the others to wait then it's good enough for you.
    Loved your observations as always. I so agree with the perspective thing, sometimes it takes an outside view to see how better off we are than so many places in the world. And I still say, the most commonly complained about thing here has to be the weather. It's always either too cold, too wet, too hot, too muggy, too windy, too something for us to not mention it.

    • @beauandarrowfilms
      @beauandarrowfilms Рік тому

      Thank you for these comments! Especially re 2 and 3 - I was really taken aback by the blasé attitude especially in terms of safety. I think because at my children's primary school this week they have had to get the police to come and issue tickets (and hefty education) to those that don't stop at pedestrian (ahem - pedestrian!!) crossings. This video has really opened my eyes to why this is perhaps such a problem here, with foreigners not respecting these rules and expectations. Also SO WELL put re the queueing - change lanes, but don't push back in to the lane you left right up ahead of me!! How do these drivers not realise that it is by THEM doing this that the entire flow of traffic is slowed down (and don't get me started on 'merge like a zip'). I think some people/cultures have a me attitude vs a collective one. ie EVERYONE is trying to get somewhere on time. NO ONE likes to queue. But it's civilized and when people co-operate and don't shove in front of others, then we all get to where we need to be safely and - hopefully - on time. I need a cup of tea.... haha

  • @Frank-rx8ch
    @Frank-rx8ch Рік тому

    1. We want to complain but we've learnt to be humble. 2. Cars give way to you at z'bra xings. 3. Waiting for your food?Patience is a virtue, but not always. 4. What do you call a tongue twister? It's when your tang gets tonguegled up. 5. Safety? Big bro. is every watching 24hrs.

  • @jeringatai3156
    @jeringatai3156 Рік тому +1

    Im sorry people complain about your pronounciation. You do have a point, that your accent will make it more difficult. Some people will think of a way to help pronounce words properly. Keep trying and hopefully these complaints dont deter you from learning.

  • @andrewshanaghan797
    @andrewshanaghan797 Рік тому +1

    I wouldn't worry about Maori pronunciation 95% of them can't speak it anyway I'm a kiwi if someone tried to pull me up for not speaking it correctly they would experience an ear full of some very colourful English verbs.

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому

      Haha ok!

    • @jessicaahhhhh
      @jessicaahhhhh Рік тому

      “95%” of “them” can’t speak it because multiple generations were beaten for speaking te reo at school. Bragging about being racist is boring Andrew. Do better.

  • @rodrobson903
    @rodrobson903 Рік тому

    We can be somewhat passive aggressive

    • @Kiwiamericans
      @Kiwiamericans  Рік тому

      Ummm yes... I talk about that in another video! 😳

  • @byrongordonbeukes3934
    @byrongordonbeukes3934 11 місяців тому

    With all due respect, this is a Social Democracy where the consideration of others is normal and a courteous response is expected. Not like the USA at all! Otherwise as an immigrant I have also experienced harshness while learning to speak or pronounce the Maori words... sometimes even experiencing hostility. My reminder to those who behave like this, is that inclusion often requires acceptance from both sides of the aisle.

  • @stoptheplanetiwantoff6906
    @stoptheplanetiwantoff6906 Рік тому

    What to do if people complain about your pronunciation of some Kiwi names is pick a couple of towns in America that are hard to pronounce and ask the Kiwis to pronounce it if they can't have a go at them some people in this country at this too precious. And there is actually one word which is incorrectly pronounced on TV which is oamaru oamaru is not a Maori word it is an English word and they pronounce it incorrectly on TV all the time. I just wouldn't worry about it just tell them stop being so precious the problem with some New Zealanders is they don't take into account there are other cultures outside of New Zealand. Those people who complaining are not the centre of the universe.

  • @susannetenahu6691
    @susannetenahu6691 Рік тому

    At least you give te reo Maori, a go. Annoys me that people disrespect you, when you are actually trying. Chin up, Tara. I truly enjoy your videos.

  • @s1t2a3c4e5y6123
    @s1t2a3c4e5y6123 Рік тому

    Yes because we grow up believing it's rude to complain..

    • @s1t2a3c4e5y6123
      @s1t2a3c4e5y6123 Рік тому

      Yip crossings we hold the perspective that we have the right of way..

  • @datractor
    @datractor Рік тому +2

    Just 5 😁