About the 7th vice. When I come to the Philippines I want to relax. It’s not being lazy. I just want to enjoy the scenery and the company of my Filipina.
Fun fact: most of those turn offs local guys have and women have no problems of having them as husbands, having kids with them, even stay with them after they cheated haha. Oh boy, oh boy...
Newsflash. It is not the best of foreigners who come to the Philippines, but most of us are way better than a local man. Your turn-offs are like you talk about all the issues local men have. Most men who come to the Philippines are here for the girls, or they run from something. Some of us just like time travel because we cannot live in the present times in a Western country. If you want a good foreigner, you must look hard, just like foreigners must look hard to find a good Philippine girl. Few and fast between on both sides😉
Here are my turn-offs: (1) Tattoos (2) Smoking (3) A stinky 😺 (4) Unhealthy eating habits (5) Emotional immaturity and manipulation (I don't tolerate tampo) (6) Social media addiction and too much TikTok (or any TikTok at all, actually)
Sadly the countries attitude to foreign visitors is they just see dollar signs & how to divest the foreigners of there money…..despite great hospitality & friendliness there’s an underlying goal of making money……😢
@ 😂😂When it’s your first date, she will be turned off by you, but when you’re in a relationship with her for a long period, she probably used to or was immune to your smell.
i wonder what are the 10 biggest turnoff for foreigners when dating a filipina? ... i will let the foreigners answer that question ... here are my 10 reason ... 1) treating the bf as a atm or financial bank for her family 2)trying to change a foreigner to your custom when he has his custom 3)telling him you love him when you don't know him 4)tampo for no reason instead of explaining why you are angry 5) saying you are traditional but not acting traditional 6) lies to get what you want 7)cheating 8)saying you are christians but don't know your bible 9))not defending your bf from the scams of the family members 10) demanding from your bf quote from the bible " when a man leave his mother and father and join with a women then the two become one" the husband need to be first over your family and you are first over his family because you became one ... Gen 2:24 (KJV) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
almost all USA men go to the Philippines for sex with teenage girls, many have mental problems, women problems, or little money. Most are fat, bald, but want a slim and cute teenager. Most are hypocrites and drink and smoke, their gf will sit next to them and say nothing. Then men sit around and drink, while their teenage gf is on her phone the whole time. Its all about sex and controlling the girl with your money. How would u like if your daughter brought home one of these guys,,,,haha
Yes, but its much much much bigger monsters inside the usa. So just imagine how much toxity that actually exists on usa soil. Hopefully they never will figure out where the Philippines is on the map. Geography and history and math and ... is not usa people strongest skills ;)
2 sides to that. 1) Working is just a sign of Wealth.....A journey to an Easier lifestyle. 2) Man of Wealth cannot Work in Philippines or Own Property.....Marriage or Birthright through Children. Would You expect a Woman to "Fall into Bed" on the first date?? .....Doomed relationship from the start! I'd rather My family members be Single than look at a Retiree for a Partner! .....Who are You?? Hugh Hefner?? 🙊🙊😂
@@statementleaver8095and who are you? A try to be a social climber. There are many women who like expats with money. You can still be busy and contribute without 'working to be paid'. The option of 40% share in a business is also there.
I came to the Philippines [Cebu Business Park] in October 2024 after I RETIRED. I've worked my Forty-Five years... I have no need or desire to work. Am I lazy, no. I keep my Condo Clean, tinker with Computer Equipment, Cook if I feel like it. The Mall all it's Food Choices is a Seven minute walk if I don't feel like cooking. The other McDonald's is Twelve minutes away. There is Street Food & Cheap Restaurants within a Ten Minute Walking Circle of my Condo. For that matter, in the same Walking Circle there are Four 7-11s, at least three Sari Sari Stores, and Landers.
No 7 is absurd. Foreigners cant work there on a tourist visa. Im RETIRED with a sustainable income. I can cook, clean, wash my own laundry, pay all my bills on time, and enjoy online gaming. Enjoying the home, and being home alot is not lazy. Being retired is not lazy.
Easy. If you are not lying to him, if you do not have tampo issues, and if you treat him well, he will be serious about you. If you do any of the three just mentioned, he leave you sooner or later. You are welcome for those facts😉
I have long dirty hair with food sticking in my beard and i smell like 💩 but i love my maliit titi 😉 😆 Pulubi kano Ako 😁 👍 i will send a kuripot choir boy to Davao to find a woman that doesn't like vices. okay 😁👍 I won't shave or cut my hair for a woman and i like my coffee and smokes 😆 Also i have a military pension 😁 i don't need to work ok 🆗
Proper behavior starts as kids .you should not embarrass one another by being rude, stingy, angry in public or at home. Aperson must show grace and gratitude.
I purchased some furniture and when I did I had to fill out a form with my phone number on it. A few days later a woman was sending me nude pics of her kitty and asking me out...I asked how she had my number she said it was on my purchase card but what intrigued her was my officer uniform, I then found out all the uniformed men she had dated and where and when she had them in detail. This woman had a uniform sex fetish...I was not interested in her at all beyond hearing her crazy story. There are very weird people out there men and women.
Very well, said, I really enjoyed it. To be honest that advice can be used around the world. I think most women look for those qualities in a good man.
@JoyOfTheJungleTV I think the Filipinas are becoming more westernized. The day of the sweet Filipina just happy to get out of poverty doddling over her western man are becoming less and less! The break up stories are more and more prevalent than ever!
@JoyOfTheJungleTV It is difficult when you open up online. It leaves you vulnerable to nasty comments. But don't worry Joy, nobody hates you. This video opens up for debate only 😊 You are doing a good job 👍
I hear they do not do public displays of affection in the Philippines so knowing the culture is important do not try to act like you might in the western world as the behavior is considered rude and unflattering....do not do gross things in public or around family and friends.
Miss Joy? Many men worked hard to retire early. There is a difference between being retired and being inactive though. I am have been retired several years but am every bit as active as my employed lady who happens to be 22years younger. We do not NEED her income per se, but she feels the need to work and I support her goals.
I guess I've been "lazy" for the past 12 years here after 24 years in the Marines, 12 deployments, I think I've earned my "laziness." My wife does pretty much everything for me, we share the cooking we share the bills we've made investments together, she's 60 I'm 66. Married 11 yrs nah. This is a matriarchal country and what most foreigners don't understand is that the women run the household. That's why we are "lazy" 😛 My wife just retired from the BI and she worked very long hours and not once did she ever have to worry about me 'cheating' (she'd probably have me deported 😂) anyway being well disciplined is important, most of my neighbors here are married. I don't talk to anyone in the subdivision and I'm good with that. Merry Christmas 🎄 y prospero año.
About number 7 work very hard all my life. When I come to the Philippines i just want to enjoy myself and have some fun ,spending quality time with my filipina not always having too go outdoors different place's all the time,relaxing at home with your filipina enjoying each other's company and living just a simple life...
What do you mean? Yes, is bad to be unfaithful, go with another woman when I’m already in a relationship but, do you say a man is unfaithful when he is with his friends? Friends who are men?
The question I want to ask is do you have the same expectations when dating a Filipino man ? First and foremost I don’t agree with men asking for nudes so don’t ask men you have never met for money. Because on dating sites as soon as you start talking to a Filipina she starts talking about her financial problems. Secondly when a man gets old it’s almost like he’s a child again. You want to date an old man a lot of those old dude’s the older they get the less they care about they hygiene. And also when you talk about lazy I think your confusing us foreigners with Filipino men
Yes.. First, I don’t have someone asking for money on a dating site. Second, I apologise when I said those words, but that is my preference, and I believe that 30 to 50-year-old men still care about their hygiene, especially when they want to go out for a date. And about laziness, I know most foreigners are hardworking, but there are still a few that are not as hardworking as you and don't want to work just like Filipino men. Anyway, thank you for watching my video.😊
@@JoyOfTheJungleTV@JoyOfTheJungleTV I have, to be honest, very few foreigners in the Philippines are not hard-working men. I know a few that were not and just tricked the system, but that is only very few out of many. Philippine men, though, my god. I instead do stuff myself to get it done most times😅 You see, to be able to come here, they must have worked up a pension usually, and those who choose the Philippines are hard-working, minimum sally type of people who can enjoy their small pension better in a country like the Philippines. Most high earners do not even think about going to the Philippines.
I have had filipinas ask me for money numerous times on Facebook. At least one of them thanked me for not asking for naughty photos. That's a great point: they think it is unacceptable to ask for nudes, and yet perfectly acceptable to ask for money. I think I will use your point in future. Thanks!
Considered this before you comment on what she says above. I have no comment about what she says. I am thankful that she has given honest comentary. Also, I acknowledge that there is nothing that is more valuable that the Pinoy family. And that each Filipina seeks the men who can become a good member of her family and nothing else. Edited by my friend and editor of choice CHAT GPT: Here’s a refined and more impactful version of your piece: Wait, you're taking the way God and Mother Nature designed things personally? Listen, if a male bird has to prove he can build a nest before earning the trust of a female who depends on his skill for survival, why should it be any easier for a two-legged, big-headed, and-let's be honest-visually unremarkable creature like me? Think, just think, before you grab the first crayon and start scribbling nonsense. Young men in developed nations are in crisis because they don’t understand a basic truth: the worm doesn’t go to the early bird; it goes to the prepared bird. ua-cam.com/video/Dh0210A-VZo/v-deo.htmlsi=Aq2Gbe7QICY9p4VI
I’m deeply considering leaving Reston, Virginia to relocate to The Philippines. But The Philippines doesn’t allow foreigners to hold a job and work there (as I understand it). I’m also turning 43 this month (December 2024). And I’m saving myself for my future wife until after marriage. I’m a Christian. And don’t see divorce (or the like) as an option. And I wouldn’t exchange those types of pictures with a woman until after we’ve gotten to know each other well and were exclusive. And with consent and ground rules. I’m Andrew. I’m a nonsmoker. That includes vaping or anything like it and marijuana use. I’m also a one woman man.
@ Nope. I don’t smoke. My Grandpa (maternal) was on oxygen because he was a long time smoker. I promised my Dad, Momma, Grandma, and myself that I wouldn’t do that. And aside from trying marijuana and a cigar in college I’ve made good on that. It’s a dealbreaker for me if a woman is a smoker (including marijuana use, vaping, and like). Former smokers are ok though. I’m Andrew.
You telling everyone what you like or what most Filipina's like? Seems more you are looking. I don't like a women as demanding as you. I'm lazy i don't work. but i take very good care of my family i have a very nice income i don't need to work. I smoke and drink whenever i feel like it. It's not how often you drink. it's how much you drink. I am a gentleman i would never ask a lady for nude pictures. I think you turn men away from wanting a Filipina. Glad i met and married my wife long before i ever seen your video.
It is very rare that I comment on any video. Saying that I have to say that you have a list of turn-offs for Filipina women is NO different than the list of must haves form western women. You expect us to accept you and your culture but you will not accept us for the way we are. Like one of your other commenters said we come there to relax. I am 68 and have worked for the past 50 years. When I come to the Philippines I want to relax by the beach and enjoy the relaxed mood there. Like I said I am not hating what you said in fact I appreciate it. But I think CHEATING is a lot higher on your scale than you give it credit for. Much love from Canada.
Me thinketh whilst these factors are obvious and important., more and more it is starting to sound similar to the Western woman's loooong list of...........unrealistic expectations!@!?🤑🤪😉
😂 yes i saw some foreriners that smell bad all so philipinos asqk how many times i shawer a day ofcoursse when im. Sweet 3 or 4 times a day and yse deodorant Ha ha im a man and i cant be near a person that mabajo ha ha. Ingat
Enjoy watching your channel Joy. Your demeanor and personality are inspiring. You and your sister did a wonderful karaoke live stream a few weeks ago and it was so much fun ! Hope you karaoke sometime soon so we can all join in together for a sing -a -long. I'll leave you with one we can all sing together. I hope you like it. ua-cam.com/video/WIR-LURbCmk/v-deo.html Hope all is well in the Philippines. Merry Christmas !!
The fact is that what turns you off is the same thing in all culture's but the men who goes to the filipines or anywhere else is there to enjoy your country and some good company and then go back home and get on with their life. If they happen to meet a beautiful woman who is looking for a serious relationship with a foreigner and not just another player then that is a good thing but usually that doesn't happen because we have enough women in this country who are looking for a easy payday. I'm not saying that Filipino women are just interested in a easy payday but we know that it's a possibility and he can be taken to the cleaner's because he let himself get played by a beautiful con artist. You have to admit it does happen all the time especially in the United States. That is why a lot of men are opting out of marriage in this country. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. it's just the way it is. Peace over drama. Self preservation over slander. owning what is mine instead of being owned.
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The biggest turn-off is
NO MONEY
That's all you want
$$$
get a job.
About the 7th vice. When I come to the Philippines I want to relax. It’s not being lazy. I just want to enjoy the scenery and the company of my Filipina.
How about a list of things that turn men off from Filipinas.
@@paulclinton6414 I loved that idea..will make video soon with this topic.
Point one: Dont ask a guy for money to support your family.😂
SHITTY ENGLISH. They all think there English is great but it's not even close.
100%. That’s something you have to pick up on quickly before getting involved. It’s simply a no no for me. 😳
That'll take 100 years to explain 😂
Fun fact: most of those turn offs local guys have and women have no problems of having them as husbands, having kids with them, even stay with them after they cheated haha. Oh boy, oh boy...
True story
Agreed. Never take advice about women from a woman. Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask a fisherman.
Newsflash. It is not the best of foreigners who come to the Philippines, but most of us are way better than a local man. Your turn-offs are like you talk about all the issues local men have. Most men who come to the Philippines are here for the girls, or they run from something. Some of us just like time travel because we cannot live in the present times in a Western country. If you want a good foreigner, you must look hard, just like foreigners must look hard to find a good Philippine girl. Few and fast between on both sides😉
Here are my turn-offs:
(1) Tattoos
(2) Smoking
(3) A stinky 😺
(4) Unhealthy eating habits
(5) Emotional immaturity and manipulation (I don't tolerate tampo)
(6) Social media addiction and too much TikTok (or any TikTok at all, actually)
Thank you for sharing 😊
U likely need a lady aged 30+ guy
Sadly the countries attitude to foreign visitors is they just see dollar signs & how to divest the foreigners of there money…..despite great hospitality & friendliness there’s an underlying goal of making money……😢
Honestly where is that not the case?
Never been to Thailand or Cambodia?
So if you want a Filipina to break up with you stop being clean and smelling good. Thank you Joy for good advice.
That made me laugh so hard😅😅🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Sadly ... one she is with you ... that might not work
@ 😂😂When it’s your first date, she will be turned off by you, but when you’re in a relationship with her for a long period, she probably used to or was immune to your smell.
@@JoyOfTheJungleTVok, so just best to try and try... until find the filipina that is not OCD about foreigner smelling then;)
i wonder what are the 10 biggest turnoff for foreigners when dating a filipina? ... i will let the foreigners answer that question ... here are my 10 reason ...
1) treating the bf as a atm or financial bank for her family
2)trying to change a foreigner to your custom when he has his custom
3)telling him you love him when you don't know him
4)tampo for no reason instead of explaining why you are angry
5) saying you are traditional but not acting traditional
6) lies to get what you want
7)cheating
8)saying you are christians but don't know your bible
9))not defending your bf from the scams of the family members
10) demanding from your bf
quote from the bible " when a man leave his mother and father and join with a women then the two become one" the husband need to be first over your family and you are first over his family because you became one ...
Gen 2:24 (KJV)
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Tampo and constantly lying. Oh, and not to forget so many problems she need money for🤣
Wow! I couldn't have put it any better myself!!
Actually 11 reasons... Don't forget Shitty English.
We obviously are not sending our best from the US, LOL.
@@jamesrecknor6752 😂😂
Me thinketh so many Colonizers looking to., exploit the vulnerable for their.......minerals @@?🤑😉🤪
almost all USA men go to the Philippines for sex with teenage girls, many have mental problems, women problems, or little money. Most are fat, bald, but want a slim and cute teenager. Most are hypocrites and drink and smoke, their gf will sit next to them and say nothing. Then men sit around and drink, while their teenage gf is on her phone the whole time. Its all about sex and controlling the girl with your money. How would u like if your daughter brought home one of these guys,,,,haha
Yes, but its much much much bigger monsters inside the usa.
So just imagine how much toxity that actually exists on usa soil.
Hopefully they never will figure out where the Philippines is on the map.
Geography and history and math and ... is not usa people strongest skills ;)
Me thinketh the Western Colonizers that come to exploit these vulnerable, naive ones for their........minerals!@!?🤑🤪😉
Number 7 is ridiculous I've worked all my life and "retired"... what makes you think that a man has to keep on working in order to please you???
2 sides to that.
1) Working is just a sign of Wealth.....A journey to an Easier lifestyle.
2) Man of Wealth cannot Work in Philippines or Own Property.....Marriage or Birthright through Children.
Would You expect a Woman to "Fall into Bed" on the first date?? .....Doomed relationship from the start!
I'd rather My family members be Single than look at a Retiree for a Partner! .....Who are You?? Hugh Hefner?? 🙊🙊😂
@@statementleaver809595% of Filipinas fall into bed on the first date if her meal is paid for.
@@statementleaver8095and who are you? A try to be a social climber. There are many women who like expats with money. You can still be busy and contribute without 'working to be paid'. The option of 40% share in a business is also there.
@@statementleaver8095 Eh, what now?
I agree
I came to the Philippines [Cebu Business Park] in October 2024 after I RETIRED. I've worked my Forty-Five years... I have no need or desire to work. Am I lazy, no. I keep my Condo Clean, tinker with Computer Equipment, Cook if I feel like it. The Mall all it's Food Choices is a Seven minute walk if I don't feel like cooking. The other McDonald's is Twelve minutes away. There is Street Food & Cheap Restaurants within a Ten Minute Walking Circle of my Condo. For that matter, in the same Walking Circle there are Four 7-11s, at least three Sari Sari Stores, and Landers.
No 7 is absurd. Foreigners cant work there on a tourist visa. Im RETIRED with a sustainable income. I can cook, clean, wash my own laundry, pay all my bills on time, and enjoy online gaming. Enjoying the home, and being home alot is not lazy. Being retired is not lazy.
Foreigners can't do much of anything on a tourist visa, you only can be just a tourist, and you're no even that, you're only considered a visitor.
You can't do much at all on a tourist visa besides being just a tourist but your not even that you're considered just a visitor. Good luck
the next video that Joy will make is titled:
"10 biggest turn offs for a foreigner when dating a Filipina"
You are very smart and articulate. I love the new way of shooting the video with two different angles. Very cool!
@@biggerlonely7242 Nah! trying my best to be articulate on this video😅 Thank you for watching. ❤️
#7- what I meant is the person/guy who rely from someone/gf/wife and doing nothing at all.
Don't be for hire then and a meal ticket
But what are you bringing.
I learned from a Filipino that when a man leaves the house alone, he is single!
Enjoy being single... lol
Happy New Year 🎉 and thanks for the tips of advice for finding my perfect Filipina in marriage
Nonsense, they put up with all that stuff with a PHILLIPINO MEN & get bashed & cheated on
I enjoyed this video. It had authenticity.
Yes don’t settle for anything less then what is right for you 👍
Very good points Joy not only your opinion I think that it is common for all philipinas to feel like this
@@DerekHunterr
yeah! and I think not just for Filipinos but for other women in other countries also.
Request po next vedio...baka nemen.. about
"How can a Filipina know if her live-in foreign partner is serious and truly loves her?"
Easy. If you are not lying to him, if you do not have tampo issues, and if you treat him well, he will be serious about you. If you do any of the three just mentioned, he leave you sooner or later. You are welcome for those facts😉
@TheVeiledGospels will do.
I have long dirty hair with food sticking in my beard and i smell like 💩 but i love my maliit titi 😉 😆 Pulubi kano Ako 😁 👍 i will send a kuripot choir boy to Davao to find a woman that doesn't like vices. okay 😁👍 I won't shave or cut my hair for a woman and i like my coffee and smokes 😆 Also i have a military pension 😁 i don't need to work ok 🆗
I agree with your list of turn offs. Thanks for the pointers.
@@ken.cade5 you’re welcome.. Thank you for watching 😊
Good points Joy what you have said is what many men want in a woman as well. Loving your content ❤❤❤
@@fredericksykes8037 Absolutely! Thank you for watching, Fred. ❤️
Excellent points, good advice.
@@jamesrecknor6752 Thank you, James. 😊
Proper behavior starts as kids .you should not embarrass one another by being rude, stingy, angry in public or at home. Aperson must show grace and gratitude.
Thank you for sharing Joy. Very interesting points of views
Glad you enjoyed it!
I purchased some furniture and when I did I had to fill out a form with my phone number on it. A few days later a woman was sending me nude pics of her kitty and asking me out...I asked how she had my number she said it was on my purchase card but what intrigued her was my officer uniform, I then found out all the uniformed men she had dated and where and when she had them in detail. This woman had a uniform sex fetish...I was not interested in her at all beyond hearing her crazy story. There are very weird people out there men and women.
Very true.
my biggest turnoff with Philippinas is karaoke !
How about tiktok? 😂
It works both ways Joy, just saying.
@@ManneGonzalez-mw3jm yeah! I agree!
Very personal vlog, but sincerly 🙂. Like it! By the way the lightning of your eyes is very beautiful!
Very well, said, I really enjoyed it. To be honest that advice can be used around the world. I think most women look for those qualities in a good man.
Absolutely!
Thank you Joy
Praise God. Great video.
Glad you enjoyed it
Lazy? Or fully retired? I worked my entire life so someday I could quit working.
I'm retired and I am done with working. We, Expat's have our income and want to enjoy our last year's with our ladies and have peace 😊. Blessings
Well # 7 being lazy might be tough as many of the men are retired and might be wanting a slower...lazy like pace. That's a heads up for Joy.
Thank you for heads up 😉
@JoyOfTheJungleTV I think the Filipinas are becoming more westernized. The day of the sweet Filipina just happy to get out of poverty doddling over her western man are becoming less and less! The break up stories are more and more prevalent than ever!
I agree with you 🇺🇸😊
Thank you, Steve. 😊
Good job once again Joy 😂
Thank you for your list, it is something for us guys to work on within ourselves. 👍
Thank you for the support😊😊 even others hate me already because of this video 😅
@JoyOfTheJungleTV It is difficult when you open up online. It leaves you vulnerable to nasty comments. But don't worry Joy, nobody hates you. This video opens up for debate only 😊 You are doing a good job 👍
magandang umaga sis, kumusta ka ? mega masaya at blessed 1st day of december, salamat for the video, interesting,God bless
@@pauldenham9406 Magandang umaga, ok lang po. Ikaw, kumusta? Salamat sa panunuod ng aking video. God bless.
@@JoyOfTheJungleTV walang anuman sis, at ako din masaya at masarap haha agoy,
@ 😂😂
I hear they do not do public displays of affection in the Philippines so knowing the culture is important do not try to act like you might in the western world as the behavior is considered rude and unflattering....do not do gross things in public or around family and friends.
😊😊
Miss Joy?
Many men worked hard to retire early. There is a difference between being retired and being inactive though.
I am have been retired several years but am every bit as active as my employed lady who happens to be 22years younger. We do not NEED her income per se, but she feels the need to work and I support her goals.
@@davidfisher5140 Thank you for sharing.. yeah! retired is a different story of being lazy.
I guess I've been "lazy" for the past 12 years here after 24 years in the Marines, 12 deployments, I think I've earned my "laziness." My wife does pretty much everything for me, we share the cooking we share the bills we've made investments together, she's 60 I'm 66. Married 11 yrs nah.
This is a matriarchal country and what most foreigners don't understand is that the women run the household. That's why we are "lazy" 😛 My wife just retired from the BI and she worked very long hours and not once did she ever have to worry about me 'cheating' (she'd probably have me deported 😂) anyway being well disciplined is important, most of my neighbors here are married. I don't talk to anyone in the subdivision and I'm good with that. Merry Christmas 🎄 y prospero año.
Thank you for sharing your short story😊
Merry Christmas too. 🎄
About number 7 work very hard all my life. When I come to the Philippines i just want to enjoy myself and have some fun ,spending quality time with my filipina not always having too go outdoors different place's all the time,relaxing at home with your filipina enjoying each other's company and living just a simple life...
@@TeddyPalozie ❤️❤️
Ouch!!! This will hurt the feelings of many Westerners coming to the Philippines to get a lady and show off like a King. Thanks Joy!!
😂🤭🤭 you’re welcome
There you go again!! SPEAK FOR YOUSELF ONLY 😮 cant judge other girls iv met filipinas and knw filipinas completely different personalities
What do you mean? Yes, is bad to be unfaithful, go with another woman when I’m already in a relationship but, do you say a man is unfaithful when he is with his friends? Friends who are men?
You are so sweat! I love your voice and your pronunciation and intonation speaking English, you're really sweat, God bless you
@@inglescomluizbronzati Thank you ❤️❤️ God bless you too 🙏
Being very kind often just leads to people asking for money too often
You can say NO and no one will force you to give money to someone.
Perfection fit for dreams. Relationship founded on virtue.
Oh wow, surprisingly I have none of these turn-offs
❤️❤️❤️
In a perfect world...
What if the guy is retired?
That is a different story from lazy.
Good video
Thanks for watching 😊
This is too funny I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
The question I want to ask is do you have the same expectations when dating a Filipino man ?
First and foremost I don’t agree with men asking for nudes so don’t ask men you have never met for money. Because on dating sites as soon as you start talking to a Filipina she starts talking about her financial problems.
Secondly when a man gets old it’s almost like he’s a child again. You want to date an old man a lot of those old dude’s the older they get the less they care about they hygiene.
And also when you talk about lazy I think your confusing us foreigners with Filipino men
Yes..
First, I don’t have someone asking for money on a dating site.
Second, I apologise when I said those words, but that is my preference, and I believe that 30 to 50-year-old men still care about their hygiene, especially when they want to go out for a date. And about laziness, I know most foreigners are hardworking, but there are still a few that are not as hardworking as you and don't want to work just like Filipino men.
Anyway, thank you for watching my video.😊
@@JoyOfTheJungleTV@JoyOfTheJungleTV I have, to be honest, very few foreigners in the Philippines are not hard-working men. I know a few that were not and just tricked the system, but that is only very few out of many. Philippine men, though, my god. I instead do stuff myself to get it done most times😅 You see, to be able to come here, they must have worked up a pension usually, and those who choose the Philippines are hard-working, minimum sally type of people who can enjoy their small pension better in a country like the Philippines. Most high earners do not even think about going to the Philippines.
I have had filipinas ask me for money numerous times on Facebook. At least one of them thanked me for not asking for naughty photos. That's a great point: they think it is unacceptable to ask for nudes, and yet perfectly acceptable to ask for money. I think I will use your point in future. Thanks!
Considered this before you comment on what she says above. I have no comment about what she says. I am thankful that she has given honest comentary. Also, I acknowledge that there is nothing that is more valuable that the Pinoy family. And that each Filipina seeks the men who can become a good member of her family and nothing else.
Edited by my friend and editor of choice CHAT GPT:
Here’s a refined and more impactful version of your piece:
Wait, you're taking the way God and Mother Nature designed things personally?
Listen, if a male bird has to prove he can build a nest before earning the trust of a female who depends on his skill for survival, why should it be any easier for a two-legged, big-headed, and-let's be honest-visually unremarkable creature like me?
Think, just think, before you grab the first crayon and start scribbling nonsense.
Young men in developed nations are in crisis because they don’t understand a basic truth: the worm doesn’t go to the early bird; it goes to the prepared bird.
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seems you been dating some foreigners, and finding out your likes and dislikes
I’m deeply considering leaving Reston, Virginia to relocate to The Philippines. But The Philippines doesn’t allow foreigners to hold a job and work there (as I understand it). I’m also turning 43 this month (December 2024). And I’m saving myself for my future wife until after marriage. I’m a Christian. And don’t see divorce (or the like) as an option. And I wouldn’t exchange those types of pictures with a woman until after we’ve gotten to know each other well and were exclusive. And with consent and ground rules. I’m Andrew. I’m a nonsmoker. That includes vaping or anything like it and marijuana use. I’m also a one woman man.
yeah! but you can work thru online if you want.
wow! that’s good that you don’t have any vices.
@ I have some vices. I cuss. I bite my nails. And I’m a stress eater to name a few. You’re not going to find anyone who doesn’t have any vices.
@ I meant like smoking and others.
@ Nope. I don’t smoke. My Grandpa (maternal) was on oxygen because he was a long time smoker. I promised my Dad, Momma, Grandma, and myself that I wouldn’t do that. And aside from trying marijuana and a cigar in college I’ve made good on that. It’s a dealbreaker for me if a woman is a smoker (including marijuana use, vaping, and like). Former smokers are ok though. I’m Andrew.
@@JoyOfTheJungleTV Are you single, Joy?
Well bye. I drink and I like it so bye. Have a good day
So beautiful
thank you ☺️
my ex filipina wanted to faten me up and act like a baby. im freaking 30 years old!
No problems here. Maybe a little laziness, but I won't be moving to the Philippines until I have enough income to hire a maid.
You telling everyone what you like or what most Filipina's like? Seems more you are looking. I don't like a women as demanding as you. I'm lazy i don't work. but i take very good care of my family i have a very nice income i don't need to work. I smoke and drink whenever i feel like it. It's not how often you drink. it's how much you drink. I am a gentleman i would never ask a lady for nude pictures. I think you turn men away from wanting a Filipina. Glad i met and married my wife long before i ever seen your video.
Like the video, be more confident in your english.
I will try my best 😊
Only 10?
@@OldHickoryAndyJackson 😂😂😂10 only for this video.
It is very rare that I comment on any video. Saying that I have to say that you have a list of turn-offs for Filipina women is NO different than the list of must haves form western women. You expect us to accept you and your culture but you will not accept us for the way we are. Like one of your other commenters said we come there to relax. I am 68 and have worked for the past 50 years. When I come to the Philippines I want to relax by the beach and enjoy the relaxed mood there.
Like I said I am not hating what you said in fact I appreciate it. But I think CHEATING is a lot higher on your scale than you give it credit for.
Much love from Canada.
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@@Liampo00 ❤️❤️
Me thinketh whilst these factors are obvious and important., more and more it is starting to sound similar to the Western woman's loooong list of...........unrealistic expectations!@!?🤑🤪😉
😂 yes i saw some foreriners that smell bad all so philipinos asqk how many times i shawer a day ofcoursse when im. Sweet 3 or 4 times a day and yse deodorant
Ha ha im a man and i cant be near a person that mabajo ha ha.
Ingat
I think it’s sad that you have to make this video to educate people as it should already be understood.
Enjoy watching your channel Joy. Your demeanor and personality are inspiring.
You and your sister did a wonderful karaoke live stream a few weeks ago and it was so much fun ! Hope you karaoke sometime soon so we can all join in together for a
sing -a -long. I'll leave you with one we can all sing together. I hope you like it.
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Hope all is well in the Philippines. Merry Christmas !!
yeah! sure.. we will nxt time..Advance Merry Christmas too.
Hi
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May I respectfully ask you a question? Are you single or married?
The fact is that what turns you off is the same thing in all culture's but the men who goes to the filipines or anywhere else is there to enjoy your country and some good company and then go back home and get on with their life.
If they happen to meet a beautiful woman who is looking for a serious relationship with a foreigner and not just another player then that is a good thing but usually that doesn't happen because we have enough women in this country who are looking for a easy payday.
I'm not saying that Filipino women are just interested in a easy payday but we know that it's a possibility and he can be taken to the cleaner's because he let himself get played by a beautiful con artist.
You have to admit it does happen all the time especially in the United States.
That is why a lot of men are opting out of marriage in this country.
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
it's just the way it is.
Peace over drama.
Self preservation over slander.
owning what is mine instead of being owned.
So many of these channels springing up over the last 12 months or so.
Nice to get different opinions I suppose.
Relatively easy way for them to make money if they get monetized. Not a lot of opportunities for work even for college educated filapinas.