ENDED UP IN HOSPITAL AGAIN

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  • @melissasaint3283
    @melissasaint3283 6 років тому +1454

    Does anyone else feel simultaneously grateful and guilty that he is taking the time to update us when he clearly feels awful and exhausted?

    • @sarahdixon2985
      @sarahdixon2985 6 років тому +87

      Therein lies the beauty of the man. He is behaving in a loving way to us in the midst of dying in many forms of agony. There are no words.

    • @stepanok
      @stepanok 6 років тому +17

      None should feel grateful or guilty. He made a concious decision /choice to share his life in public. I disagree 100% with the way its done but this not the place nor the time to discuss it

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 6 років тому +46

      @@stepanok
      Ok, I want to respond to this,
      Not because I am upset,
      But because you're doing two things that I imagine you didn't intend to.
      I just want you to be aware of them...
      1. Many of us habitually tell people how they should or shouldn't feel, with very good intentions ("don't cry, everything is ok" or "don't worry about that, everything will be fine") but we should not.
      Emotions are not the same as facts. Each of us feels our own emotions, and no one gets to dictate otherwise. For example, I feel some guilt here because I WANT the updates, and so I view. If these videos were getting no views, Dan would not be making updates for us. So I feel some responsibility for encouraging him to give us his precious time. That's an emotion I'm feeling, among a complicated mix of feelings.
      You can suggest how I can avoid feeling that way, but you can't just say I'm wrong. Feelings aren't like that.
      2. You say you "100% disagree" with what Dan is doing ...and yet here you are, watching? But why, if you disagree so strongly? Do you only disagree with part of his actions?
      We can't tell.
      Because you make a strong statement of criticism, yet you refuse to explain what you're criticizing.
      You don't walk into a party and tell the host "I 100% disagree with what you chose to wear tonight, but this isn't the time and place to get into it"
      If it's the right time to criticize strongly, it's the right time to explain yourself. If it's not the right time to explain yourself, it's not the time to criticize.
      Done regularly to the same person, that second one is considered covert/emotional abuse, so it's important to recognize if we are doing that without realizing it.

    • @sarahdixon2985
      @sarahdixon2985 6 років тому +10

      @@stepanok Quite right when you say this is not the right place to discuss it.
      OR MENTION IT!!!!

    • @tottenhamhotspurish
      @tottenhamhotspurish 6 років тому +9

      melissa saint - I don’t as Dan loves making videos as he has said before.
      I do however feel totally lost for words when trying to think of the right thing to say.
      I do think some people make some ignorant comments without thinking properly, maybe that’s because they are ignorant, naive or young.....

  • @lisaquiller1535
    @lisaquiller1535 6 років тому +89

    I want your mum and your dad to adopt me. They are the best and we love them so. You sir had a very busy week last week give your mind and your body some much needed rest, gather your thoughts, write love letters to family members and scent it with your most best cologne. Just something for them to hold on too. You are so special Dan, and you have been blessed with knowledge of a love so few of us will ever find. Rest well my friend. Until tomorrow ponder on the wonders of life, for you are one of them.

    • @tammylee6200
      @tammylee6200 6 років тому +3

      Very well said

    • @luvthesun100
      @luvthesun100 6 років тому +4

      Your last sentence had me in tears. Lovely😊

    • @TheTamelie1
      @TheTamelie1 6 років тому +3

      Thank you Lisa for putting into words what we all feel....it's beautiful ❤

    • @HunnyBunnyHoney
      @HunnyBunnyHoney 6 років тому +1

      That was beautiful ♥️

    • @markint342
      @markint342 6 років тому +1

      Wow Lisa thats so beautiful said

  • @stephennicholson1920
    @stephennicholson1920 6 років тому +89

    Legend, hero, and that goes for your family too, keep going mate

    • @mizlynn5167
      @mizlynn5167 6 років тому +10

      I could not have said it any better

    • @lisamccullough5150
      @lisamccullough5150 6 років тому +10

      Wonderful way to describe him.

    • @crazydiamond4565
      @crazydiamond4565 6 років тому +7

      Stephen Nicholson In true Freddy fashion..there can be only one Dan Thomas! 💕

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 6 років тому +366

    It’s crazy to realize that he died 10 days after this vid was made. He was so strong, right until the end. What a fighter and an inspiration.

    • @suzyq4982
      @suzyq4982 Рік тому +10

      He reminds me of the lovely Emily Hayward .. she went the gym a few days before she died ! Neither Dan nor Emily deteriorated completely before they passed which was a blessing .. although Emily was in better shape than Dan I think . Two wonderful young people taken too soon by the dreaded big ‘C’ .. rest in peace x

    • @ZoranaGažić
      @ZoranaGažić 11 місяців тому +1

      People die feeling perfect. He had cancer ...on this video he looks awfull..whats that hard to relize?

    • @Liquidouz
      @Liquidouz 10 місяців тому

      @@ZoranaGažić I think they misused the word "realize" here...

    • @mikey1986able
      @mikey1986able 6 місяців тому

      ​@@ZoranaGažićAre you trying to cause arguments, get the hate out ya heart bro!!

  • @patriciafoster3347
    @patriciafoster3347 4 роки тому +139

    He died exactly ten days later. Went down SO fast at this point. What an awesome person he was. Just so ya know....he had one of the worst cancers possible. Growing to outside as well as inside. He was precious and amazing.

    • @InveniosYT
      @InveniosYT 2 роки тому +5

      Truly an awesome guy

    • @Primetime_dads
      @Primetime_dads 10 місяців тому

      What type was it? Rip brother ❤️

  • @ruger2275
    @ruger2275 6 років тому +103

    You have moved mountains with your display of strength my friend. May your transition be peaceful and painless. I was once told by a monk that death is nothing more than a transition on our life's journey. He chuckled, it's only a bit more radical than puberty. I cannot wait to see you wherever we go next. Thank you for sharing with us. Both the beauty and tragedy of your story has changed many lives. That's our highest purpose I believe, and even if we only help one person.

    • @MAX-cm6hs
      @MAX-cm6hs 6 років тому +12

      You said that so beautiful! He will never be forgotten.

    • @wisewillow5731
      @wisewillow5731 6 років тому +7

      ruger2275 lovely words ❤️

    • @fraeuleinpolle
      @fraeuleinpolle 6 років тому +3

      ruger2275 ❤️

    • @projectedgolem9192
      @projectedgolem9192 6 років тому +3

      I love this comment. Truly what I believe and couldn't have said it better myself ❤

    • @CEECEERIDER60
      @CEECEERIDER60 6 років тому +2

      Rest,sleep...heal!

  • @sondracumberland3401
    @sondracumberland3401 6 років тому +143

    Mom you are very strong! I have two sons and I can’t imagine watching them go thru this. Bless you.💗 🌹

    • @ella-bt8hp
      @ella-bt8hp 6 років тому +6

      Couldn't agree with this more, fans mum and whole family are amazing and so strong. X

  • @jannalynn1137
    @jannalynn1137 6 років тому +21

    Never noticed your Dear Mom's dimples before, she is a Doll!! Such a Sweet, Sweet Lady!!!
    Thanks so much for the update. You are such a TROOPER!!!
    Keep looking UP!!!!

    • @sondracumberland3401
      @sondracumberland3401 6 років тому +1

      I wish I could get some of my home made chicken and noodle soup to you. I know it would make you feel better. Ba bye.....ta ta

  • @randomrambler2884
    @randomrambler2884 6 років тому +63

    Dan's mother is absolutely amazing.

  • @VraserX
    @VraserX 6 років тому +666

    After he said that his liver is basically shutting down, I knew he would pass very soon. There is nothing that could have been done at this point. May he rest in peace.

    • @lynjones9339
      @lynjones9339 4 роки тому +17

      Still watching Dan your looking tied hear didnt realise you where so close to leaving us RIP LOVELY GUY 18 APRIL 2020 XXX

    • @pat_mueller
      @pat_mueller 4 роки тому +29

      At least he didnt had to watch how the world getting shutting down, thank God

    • @davidkruse4030
      @davidkruse4030 3 роки тому +31

      @@pat_mueller the world reopened. What a stupid self serving comment.

    • @kelzzd89
      @kelzzd89 3 роки тому +38

      @@pat_mueller wtf? wow

    • @trickortrump3292
      @trickortrump3292 2 роки тому +47

      @@pat_mueller Yeah because that would’ve been the real tragedy, huh?
      smdh

  • @Lava_Girl-
    @Lava_Girl- 6 років тому +313

    Awe sweet man. You are SO loved. I'm holding on with you Dan, we've all got your back...don't ever forget that you are a superhero.

    • @rubberducky2926
      @rubberducky2926 6 років тому +7

      He really is such a fighter.
      WE need to stay strong for him, he wouldn't want it any other way!

    • @sudipdaw4572
      @sudipdaw4572 6 років тому +1

      How? Why is there so much hyped with this guy?

    • @Lava_Girl-
      @Lava_Girl- 6 років тому +5

      @@sudipdaw4572 If you had followed him and grew to love him as we did..you would understand my friend.

  • @willettej7988
    @willettej7988 6 років тому +46

    Chocolate is the answer to everything, Mom! Eat those chocolates, Dan!!!!! Enjoy yourself, your new life, your bride, and your kitty. Much love and many prayers. Damn that cancer.

  • @ishiart478
    @ishiart478 6 років тому +31

    Good old Mum, what a diamond....you are so lucky to have the family you have...rest well

  • @njay9761
    @njay9761 6 років тому +166

    We are all virtually holding your hand Dan, we all love you so much. Get some rest. ♥️⭐️💐

    • @sandawise79
      @sandawise79 6 років тому +5

      bless your heart and your moms

  • @eloiserosalind
    @eloiserosalind 4 роки тому +63

    Anyone else still comes here? Such an inspiration.

    • @mikesully110
      @mikesully110 4 роки тому +3

      yes he died a week after he made this video. very frightening. Do the NHS do whole body cancer checks? you would think they would want to do a scan on every person e.g. when they turn 30, just so they can catch things like this early?

    • @eloiserosalind
      @eloiserosalind 4 роки тому

      @@mikesully110 Totally agree! It seems they rule out the least important issues first not the worst case scenario illnesses. Or they wait for things to get worse instead of preventing them! Huge lesson to always get things checked ASAP to catch it early! He had so much more to give and he handled everything with incredible humour, positivity and strength! It's scary how we never know how much time we have so we must make the most of everything x

    • @welshlad6427
      @welshlad6427 3 роки тому +1

      An absolute inspiration ❤️

    • @ot9523
      @ot9523 3 роки тому

      I only found this because of recommendations 2 days ago and keep watching the videos over and over again i just can’t believe how positive he was such a strong person he tried to make the most terrible thing ever into something positive and he had a great personality to may he rest in peace

    • @Workerbee2024
      @Workerbee2024 3 роки тому

      I was just recommended this while looking for Olympics info. Now I am watching the videos. How sad and how brave of this gentleman.

  • @donnawoodman6249
    @donnawoodman6249 6 років тому +52

    Thank you for taking your precious time to let us know how you are feeling.

  • @keeks117
    @keeks117 6 років тому +91

    You make my days so much happier. ❤️❤️ you’re absolutely my favorite person!

  • @antcolchester5630
    @antcolchester5630 6 років тому +212

    Tell your mum to keep smiling . Very hard for your mum to

    • @drdianneLc
      @drdianneLc 6 років тому +30

      coin finders It’s probably hardest on the moms when these things happen.

    • @lynkent677
      @lynkent677 6 років тому +14

      Such an awesome supported family....Blessed

    • @cheriellesnowden6962
      @cheriellesnowden6962 6 років тому +4

      Absolutely my love xx

    • @LahiruSenarathna
      @LahiruSenarathna Місяць тому

      I also got cancer. I have no courage to look at mom. Smoking causes for my cancer😢😢😢😢

  • @PortlandMan
    @PortlandMan 6 років тому +780

    Crazy how fast he deteriorated after this point

    • @Brend.0
      @Brend.0 6 років тому +227

      That's usually how it goes. When my dad died it was days. He went from laughing chillin. He even mowed the yard. Then dead in less than a week. When the cancer explodes it just explodes. The good part is it happens so fast you can't really register what is happening to you.

    • @Rase-iwnl-
      @Rase-iwnl- 6 років тому +29

      Atleast Dan is free I can’t wait to join him when I can.

    • @Brend.0
      @Brend.0 6 років тому +17

      @MrGoodkat Thank you, and I'm sorry about both of your parents. I cherish my mom with my life now because I know how fleeting it is

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions 6 років тому +1

      Adam D: yep. It was just his time, meant to be.

    • @sonay191
      @sonay191 6 років тому +41

      Ruhe1986 I don’t mean to be rude or anything at all, but the last week(s) of cancer are extremely painful and although it ends quick the patient absolutely registers almost anything unless given many many meds which usually doesn’t help at this point anymore anyway. My mom was an oncology nurse in Germany and told me about many of the patients she had and how they often suffered despite all the precautions etc taken by doctors and nurses. You can definitely register it, just not how fast it happens. It’s just like with how people say someone died of liver failure and if its this painless process... even though it’s painful and you basically turn into a liquid ballon: anyway... sorry again but yeah cancer sucks everything about it sucks and hurts

  • @cristyramirez7329
    @cristyramirez7329 6 років тому +3

    You are handling your journey like a true gentleman and with class. I will alway pray for you and your family. I feel so blessed to have been invited into your family of supporters.
    Sending you love and light and respect.

  • @Macsimus75
    @Macsimus75 6 років тому +168

    I don't know if you're reading our comments Dan, but you can be sure: whenever, and wherever, you will go, you will not be forgotten. Hugs and love, from Italy

    • @Toffee146
      @Toffee146 6 років тому +11

      He's not 'going' anywhere!

    • @aliholm1957
      @aliholm1957 6 років тому +26

      Harriet this isn’t the place to debate. Let people wish Dan and family love and leave your beliefs out of it.

    • @samgeorgesunny
      @samgeorgesunny 6 років тому +5

      Such lovely words. Dan has so much support 😊

    • @LM-kw2wt
      @LM-kw2wt 6 років тому +5

      @@aliholm1957 I think she meant he's not going to die on us, I doubt it was about "is there an afterlife" etc..

    • @Workerbee2024
      @Workerbee2024 3 роки тому +2

      RIP

  • @selmaalva9031
    @selmaalva9031 6 років тому +16

    Friends from California praying for you everyday! Keep smiling, you have the entire world praying for you!! Rice crispy treats are the best!!

  • @memes7957
    @memes7957 6 років тому +40

    You are a strong and a good person, Dan! Stay strong and keep fighting! I hope you get better!

  • @tracyogden3556
    @tracyogden3556 6 років тому +28

    This one got me. I don't want any announcement other than a video notification😢 I hope you are home cuddling with Becca and Poppy. Love you long time❤

  • @marymulcrone7413
    @marymulcrone7413 6 років тому +29

    Time to rest, our brave friend in the UK. I hope you feel all the love and prayers we're sending your way. And also I send prayers and love to your lovely fellow redhead as I am, all the love and prayers in the world to your wife Becky, your Mum and Dad and your other family members. love to you, Mary and Bob Mulcrone USA

  • @elaineeast-byers2339
    @elaineeast-byers2339 6 років тому +120

    I’m so sorry you’re not feeling well. I’m glad you don’t have to stay in the hospital. Consider yourself hugged. Love your mom. You know your body better than anyone hope the announcement you speak of is a long way of. Xoxoxoxo

  • @CrankyGrandma
    @CrankyGrandma 6 років тому +24

    ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for letting us know, but please know you do what you need to do for you and don’t worry about updates. I do look for them, but you don’t owe them to anyone. Much love and prayers. 🌹

  • @Craze4Babies
    @Craze4Babies 6 років тому +19

    I am dreading the day we see a video that you’ve passed away. I’m literally scared for you. But you are such a wonderful man and tough skinned person to go through this with such dignity and strength. God bless you. With all my love from Chicago. Xoxoxo

  • @cpgde
    @cpgde 6 років тому +18

    Your mother is such an amazing woman! I can see the sadness in her face but she is putting up a remarkable front. Many prayers for her, you and the rest of your family. Love from Montana 🇺🇸

  • @rosebudd5724
    @rosebudd5724 6 років тому +64

    As time goes on and this disease progresses further, it’s getting harder and harder to find the right words, but we want to say something, we feel so helpless! There are no words to adequately express what we are feeling as we see you getting weaker and weaker. Not only are you a true warrior, Dan, you are very kind and thoughtful man, with bags of personality and character. You are larger than life. I hope some day I will meet a man just like you. You are a unique and special person :) 💗

  • @TheHappyHermit
    @TheHappyHermit 6 років тому +76

    God bless brother. You've helped me learn to appreciate every moment a little bit more. I hope your symptoms ease up again soon! Cheers from Canada

  • @ShipShapeFitness
    @ShipShapeFitness 6 років тому +21

    You and your family are an inspiration to us. Your mom is an angel. As a parent I cannot imagine what she is going though.

    • @Incognito-vc9wj
      @Incognito-vc9wj 6 років тому +1

      Lynette Ship she's the mother of probably the most strongest man in the World. She's got a lot to be proud of.

  • @Catherine_Anne
    @Catherine_Anne 6 років тому +79

    You’re so brave, Dan. I hope the time you have left is a painless and comfortable as it possibly can be. I hope more than anything that your lovely mum and dad, Becky and your extended family and friends all take strength from the amazing things you are sharing here. Your legacy and memory will live on 💖

    • @jaggass
      @jaggass 6 років тому +5

      I sometimes ask myself why did it happen to man like Dan who is such a nice person and infact anyone?

    • @Catherine_Anne
      @Catherine_Anne 6 років тому +3

      Michael Langley I do too buddy. Nearly all of my family have passed from cancer. I honestly can’t wait for there to be a cure. People shouldn’t have to suffer like this.

  • @Humble_and_Sweet
    @Humble_and_Sweet 3 роки тому +26

    Listening to him on this video and then the one he did in hospice on the 20th what a difference in his voice. He went downhill real quick in just two days. After such a hard long fight, I hope he's comfortable and happy where he is. R.I.P Dan, an unbelievable soul with humour. I actually found this channel a week before his death.

  • @foxfiretales9273
    @foxfiretales9273 6 років тому +20

    I never knew I could love and respect a family I’ve never met before so truly and deeply. Rarely does anyone get to witness such an obvious embodiment of “Love”, in all its forms and depths as you, your parents, and Bec are showing us now. Your sheer spirit humbles me, Dan. ❤️😥

  • @amyt2163
    @amyt2163 6 років тому +22

    SO VERY GLAD YOU'RE FREE FROM THE HOSPITAL!!!! We can see how exhausted you are and I know you dont feel that amazing strength you have....but we all know its there! You've done an incredible job at proving the docs wrong so far and I know in my heart you'll do it again! I know the ultrasound showed that your liver is worse, but I also know first hand what an awesome organ it is. I want to tell you alittle bit about a close friend I had with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. Like you she was a fighter and like you she constantly proved the docs wrong! I was her advocate being she didn't know alot about the medical system. The docs were basically writing her off from the get go and I told her not to listen. On one of her first ER visits, due to dehydration and fever, they automatically sent down hospice people and the doc told me in front of her that they could just keep her comfortable cause death was inevitable. WTF!! We all know death is inevitable it's part of being human! BUT only God knows when! So, I proceeded to rip the doc a new one and tell her there would be NO MORE talk like that and we didn't need hospice hovering! The chemo had caused this problem and it was just another obstacle to overcome! Long story short, she was out of the hospital in a couple days and ended up living for another year from the day they said that "death was inevitable." Her scans were always scarey bad, and there were days when we thought it was close to the end...however like you she kicked ass and proved all the docs wrong! What I'm trying to say is don't let all the "experts" and their test results take away your hope! There is always hope, and sometimes miracles! You keep fighting for the months that you want, and we will all keep praying, sending positive thoughts and energy to you!! We have all fallen in love with you and your family and we will be here for you no matter what!! AS ALWAYS SENDING LOTS OF LOVE AND HUUUGE HUGS TO YOU ALL!! 😙🤗❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jackielindsay4682
      @jackielindsay4682 6 років тому +2

      Amy T what a beautiful message ❤️

    • @danielle5980
      @danielle5980 6 років тому +1

      It sure is a beautiful message, and I really hope Dan sees this comment.

    • @amyt2163
      @amyt2163 6 років тому

      Thank you Jackie and Danielle! I've been in and out of hospitals for 30 years and have seen the magic of medicine and unfortunately the very dark side of medicine! I've also lost too many family and friends to cancer! It infuriates me when docs give up on a patient because of a diagnosis or test result! Not saying all doctors are bad, cause I've had many amazing, caring docs in my life. But when you're scared, hurting and losing hope and a doc only gives you the doom and gloom it's very easy to believe them. I'm praying Dan doesn't do that and keeps his beautiful fighting spirit!

  • @dbstoudt
    @dbstoudt 6 років тому +18

    We all have our arms around you, giving you loving hugs!

  • @mke1110
    @mke1110 6 років тому +25

    Damn, I feel so so bad for your situation, but kudos to you for making me smile at the beginning of your video. I hope there are a lot of videos to come, because you have a great gift of oratory, and I think you're sending people a message that a little giggle and a little sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. Keep strong!

  • @mojowithoutatoe7734
    @mojowithoutatoe7734 6 років тому +8

    I wish I could go to England and simultaneously give you, Becca, and your beautiful Mum and big, warm hug!! Like many people watching you, we wish that we can take this devastating illness away. Continuous prayers your way my friends! Love, Monika from Arizona, USA

  • @tanyaperrin1218
    @tanyaperrin1218 6 років тому +5

    Me clicking the "like" button is not an indication that I "like" the situation, but rather to acknowledge your efforts and promote the video. Prayers continue on your behalf...for you, and Becky , your mom and dad....HUGS

  • @wille6788
    @wille6788 6 років тому +27

    You’re a legend Dan! Thanks for touching all of our hearts.

  • @penelopepitstop7769
    @penelopepitstop7769 6 років тому +14

    Hey Dan couldn't sleep last night kept seeing your lovely smile so I binged on your videos from day1your soooo funny.Hope you have a better night snuggled up with beccy & your baby cat sending Huge Hugs love you longtime ta ta for now 💛

  • @truthtold2
    @truthtold2 6 років тому +89

    Honestly Dan you have the most precious parents. Always driving you to and from the hospital. Many on this page have become attached to you and to your suffering. I pray the Lord will bless you with His Comfort and His Peace that surpasses all understanding. I know every person responding feels the same way, your amazing, even when your feeling miserable you have taken the time to update those whom you have never met, BUT one day shall indeed meet. The Lord bless you and your entire family, much love and kitty kissessss too, Lisa

    • @patriciacourt5946
      @patriciacourt5946 6 років тому +7

      Yukkibit Sibbits.... There is no need to swear..... if you don’t like reading other people’s comments then remove yourself from this site....or get a life....

    • @Spicegirl1100
      @Spicegirl1100 6 років тому +1

      Amen Lisa xx

  • @kimberlyshort5711
    @kimberlyshort5711 6 років тому +3

    Dan, finding your channel has changed my life. From the bottom of my heart thank you for sharing your journey with the world. I honestly believe it is going to make a great inpact on many lives for many years to come. Thank you for showing us how to LIVE even when facing death. Thank you for showing the impact cancer has on the family members as well. I wish you peace, happiness and nothing but love.

  • @phantomxxlord9290
    @phantomxxlord9290 6 років тому +11

    Dan, have you seen the stars these days? The sky is so beautiful. But I bet you're busy seeing the brightest. And you're watching over her. Have a fantastic year Becky, and don't forget to be happy. You DESERVE to be happier than ever. And you will, I know. 💗

  • @Xtremegaming5000
    @Xtremegaming5000 6 років тому +188

    Hope all goes well man i’m really sorry it’s getting this bad.

  • @philuk5154
    @philuk5154 6 років тому +297

    How your mum keeps it together I'll never know

    • @Diana-tf5xq
      @Diana-tf5xq 6 років тому +30

      Phil UK yes now we know where Dans strength comes from x

    • @circleofwilhelmina6964
      @circleofwilhelmina6964 6 років тому +46

      Phil UK I agree. What a woman. I’m sure she hides it well so she can be there for her son. Inside she must devastated- which is an understatement but I cannot find the words. What a beautiful family.

    • @rochellenicoletta7353
      @rochellenicoletta7353 6 років тому +12

      I thought I noticed a lot of anguish on her face today while keeping up a brave front . Too sad 😞

    • @SA77888
      @SA77888 6 років тому +8

      Yeah, this is awful for the entire family. Its like a nightmare that you wanna wake up from, but when you wake up.......its all fucking true.

    • @wisewillow5731
      @wisewillow5731 6 років тому +8

      Phil UK strong beautiful woman 😘

  • @lynkent677
    @lynkent677 6 років тому +15

    Rest Rest Rest!....Cuddles and Kisses with Becs and Poppy....Sending you much love and prayers Dan.....We are all rooting for you mate..xx GOD BLESS

  • @CalebHyles
    @CalebHyles 6 років тому +325

    Keep strong, brotha' ~ you have me and my wife's prayers from Texas

    • @freecryptos
      @freecryptos 6 років тому +1

      Video Owner = Don't wait ... avoid the hospital by all means whatsoever!!! See "Chris Beat Cancer" and "Rick Simpson", please please please! Chemo = Drug of Death, take any alternative but Chemo!!

    • @ruok3351
      @ruok3351 6 років тому +15

      Im sure Dan is fucking sick of prayers by now.

    • @ZiggyBonham
      @ZiggyBonham 6 років тому +14

      How about instead of useless prayers, you donate a dollar to the prevent cancer foundation? At least that does something.
      Give a man a fish, he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish, and he will eat for a lifetime. Teach a man to pray, and he dies praying for fish

    • @gibbo91
      @gibbo91 6 років тому +2

      Tyler Isabell love that! Haha

    • @therealbabyfacenelson3345
      @therealbabyfacenelson3345 6 років тому +8

      Next time, try another god. Yours obviously did not help

  • @marieevelyndunlap
    @marieevelyndunlap 6 років тому +7

    I would never have believed that I could shed so many tears for someone that I'll never have the pleasure of meeting. Dan, your courage, positive attitude and willingness to share your journey is beyond amazing. There are many thousands of us, all over the world, who care so much about you. Sending you and your family much love from Vancouver, BC, Canada. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @caroljedynasty4773
    @caroljedynasty4773 6 років тому +12

    I've grown to know you all and feel like you are all family and we are all in this together. Love you all so much.

  • @bethany9008
    @bethany9008 6 років тому +5

    Your parents are absolute gems. Despite their hearts breaking they always manage to bring some levity to the situation. Amazing family you have there Dan. I see where you get it from.

  • @desiderata333
    @desiderata333 6 років тому +43

    My love and prayers surround you all dear Dan. I am so sorry you’ve been this ill. Thank you for the update. In my eyes you’re a legend! You’ve inspired me to live and love deeper. I love you bro! ❤️🙏🏽

    • @Ariesbuddha
      @Ariesbuddha 6 років тому +2

      Beautifully said Cynthia 🙏 xxxxxxxxxx

    • @desiderata333
      @desiderata333 6 років тому +1

      Lorna Maria 🙏🏽

  • @hippygirlami2612
    @hippygirlami2612 6 років тому +2

    Dan your an inspiration to all of us. Please know I have you and your family in my prayers ....lots of positive thoughts and vibes your way! Sending hugs from 🇨🇦

  • @theresawarchulski5339
    @theresawarchulski5339 6 років тому +14

    As a Cancer patient, l'm sorry for what you're going through, things are moving fast sadly, you are handling it so well, l love how you keep it real, this is not going to fix itself and l'm on your "Team Tom" Showing the people the reality of Cancer, it is what it is, l am so humbled by you sharing your battle, win or lose " that's life" You have left so many memories and l absolutely love your Humour 👍👍👍👍 that's so important. Thanks for helping open up the other side of Cancer.. 😘👍

  • @annecarrick7227
    @annecarrick7227 6 років тому +22

    Sending you all the best wishes in the world Dan, thinking of you and your family and keeping you all in my prayers.

  • @TaylorTiree
    @TaylorTiree 6 років тому +9

    Glad you have been discharged hope you have a better day tomorrow Dan and are able to rest properly. Love to you & Becky. I love your Mum❤️xxx

  • @happyheart5861
    @happyheart5861 6 років тому +14

    We are all, out here in the world, praying and sending love. Please make sure Becca knows the trolls are just that and don’t matter. She and your mum are angels here for you. 💙🙏🏻💙

  • @cobrass8033
    @cobrass8033 6 років тому +63

    I feel like I'm gonna miss you deeply and I don't know you. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @VraserX
      @VraserX 6 років тому

      @@positivewarrior5206 He won't

    • @denesemortimore855
      @denesemortimore855 6 років тому +1

      @@positivewarrior5206 he wont survive but his journey is incredible
      He will be missed but its not his Itime

    • @sisterspooky
      @sisterspooky 6 років тому

      +Positive Warrior : You didn’t call that accurately, now, did you? SMH

  • @MD-gn3gw
    @MD-gn3gw 6 років тому +30

    It's so eerie to think that 10 days from this video he will have passed away.

  • @theoriginallacey
    @theoriginallacey 6 років тому +8

    My mom had myelodysplasia for about 7 years. 5 years into it, they started hospice care and it was very helpful not only for her, but for the family. I am sorry you are having a hard time of it, but happy to see you are going home where you can hopefully be more comfortable and with your fam. Snuggle with your kitty a little, will make you feel a little better.

  • @marlysmithsonian5746
    @marlysmithsonian5746 6 років тому +8

    I'm so thankful you have li'l miss ginger by your side. Please only worry about the positives people say. Always praying for you, you two deserve it. Say Hi to mum for me!

  • @suzyhall2608
    @suzyhall2608 6 років тому +16

    Love you, Dan! If you CAN sleep, you’ll feel surprisingly better. Please know you are enveloped in love from all over the world - and outer space, of course. SO MUCH LOVE! You’ve impacted so many!

  • @HRodMusic
    @HRodMusic 6 років тому +8

    Said it before and I’ll say it again. You Sir are a total legend and trooper!

  • @hollyvan7011
    @hollyvan7011 6 років тому +33

    You’re so strong that it actually
    Blows my mind ❤️

  • @TheSabresrock
    @TheSabresrock 6 років тому +15

    So sorry you have to go through all of this Dan. Praying for you and the family. Love and hugs!!

  • @breezee6467
    @breezee6467 6 років тому +9

    Much love and prayers for peace and no pain...and time. 💕🙏🏼💜. Thanks for the update. You are on a lot of people’s minds always, just now that.

  • @elisamastromarino7123
    @elisamastromarino7123 6 років тому +172

    I love mum! I see where you get your spirit. 😊🌹 Rest now...ta for now.

  • @Lakotajo2
    @Lakotajo2 6 років тому +12

    My heart is breaking that things are so incredibly hard for you. Prayers and my love to you, your Mrs. and your mum and dad.

  • @tammycole8772
    @tammycole8772 6 років тому +61

    My heart is breaking for you, Dan. I’ve followed you for the longest time (as I did Emily), and I am absolutely dreading the day that your journey ends. Please know you’ve put a real and brave face on cancer, put the reality out there, and did it honestly. I pray you can find small pieces of joy in your time that you have left, and know that you made a difference in this world. GODSPEED.

    • @lauratanner3971
      @lauratanner3971 6 років тому +5

      You are SO loved Dan. Thank you for sharing your life with us and bringing awareness of the true story of shitty cancer. I wish we could all
      Collectively give you a massive hug. Instead I’m giving a massive “fuxk you” to cancer with my middle finger. It might destroy cells but believe me it doesn’t destroy a beautiful soul like yours will always be xx

  • @EinkOLED
    @EinkOLED 6 років тому +42

    I know we are very concerned Dan, I can't imagine what your friends, family and wife must be going through too. On the bottom of my heart Dan, I hope things improve mate. no human should be going through what you are, cancer is fucking horrible. I'm just glad you are not alone, you have thousands of people including family and friends who love you. We are looking out for you my friend.

  • @sij6169
    @sij6169 6 років тому +20

    You are fucking awesome man. You are the bravest of men, you have a great persinality and I tip my hat to you and your family. Best wishes man my thoughts and prayers are with you and as much love as I can muster.

  • @kpowe65
    @kpowe65 6 років тому +24

    I pray that hospice can help you with the sickness and pain. Hugs :)

  • @bepowerification
    @bepowerification 2 роки тому +14

    he was basically dying and still made a video about what is going on. and he even made one from his death bed saying good bye. what an awesome human being, gentle and polite until the end of his life. souls like his deserve to be embraced by the after life and being welcome - even though I dont believe something like this exists.

  • @jaggass
    @jaggass 6 років тому +23

    I know every person's battle with cancer is different but. my neighbour was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer and given just six weeks to live but 2 years later she is still with us and in remission. As a neighbour and a friend it was horrible to see her looking so frail during her battle with it. She has permanent side effects from chemo but said she's glad to be alive and i am too because she is such nice person. I thank the NHS, the nurses and her husband who cared for during her battle. Sadly some other people aren't so lucky but i know that one day every form of cancer will be cured. We just have to find it.

  • @99goat99
    @99goat99 6 років тому +6

    I can't express just how sorry I am that you're going through all this. Your family has been so beautiful and supportive, just beautiful. I want you to know that your videos have genuinely touched me and impacted my life. Your videos here on UA-cam are not just some morbid curiosity for me, not just simply something I landed on at 2 AM and pressed "LIKE". You....you have changed me. You've changed my mindset on this disease, and on what's possible with a positive attitude. You've redefined "strength" for me. So has Becky and your mom and dad. You are ALL amazing people. From this day forward, whenever I've got the opportunity to donate to cancer research, my time watching your story will motivate me to dig a bit deeper. On my next birthday I will be 50. I've got my share of medical baggage too, though very different from yours. I want you to know your strength and outlook are indeed inspiring, and make me want to relish life all the more and redouble my efforts to take care of myself and watch my diet, exercise more, etc. I've come to feel like I know you quite well, though we've never met and you don't know me at all. Big hugs from across the Atlantic. I wish you and your family nothing but the best. And one last thing, I want to say THANK YOU. Thank you for making a difference in my mind, I will remember you and your lessons for the remainder of my life.

  • @Chinaguitarsceptic
    @Chinaguitarsceptic 6 років тому +31

    Thinking of you and wishing you felt better dude!

  • @beh4846
    @beh4846 6 років тому +31

    I love you all, and Dan, I hope the fluids help you feel a lot better. I know many people hate to hear the word hospice, but it is truly a blessing to have it as an option. They can offer loads of help for almost any type of situation. Thank you so much for the update.
    Becca, you're an angel, and you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers; I can't imagine the highs and lows you've been going through recently. Love and Peace from California.

  • @failed17thchromosome
    @failed17thchromosome 6 років тому +1

    I love your Mums positive attitude so damn much - you were so serious and talking about deep stuff, and then your mum was just like ‘MARKS AND SPENCERS’
    💖

  • @jacquelinemcdougall6476
    @jacquelinemcdougall6476 6 років тому +3

    Came across dans videos the other day after finding out my mum has cancer. This guy is the strongest and bravest person ever! I am on an emotional rollercoaster watching the videos from the start of his journey. It’s devastating but at the same time empowering. I feel so sorry for what dan and his family are going through. My thoughts are truly with them xxx

  • @GaudyGotti
    @GaudyGotti 6 років тому +25

    WE LOVE YOU DAN... A HERO TO ME... YOU'VE TAUGHT ME SO MUCH.... BRAVERY ,APPRECIATION A NEW PERSPECTIVE TO LIVING... IM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOU... TRULY

  • @a13xlaircey666
    @a13xlaircey666 6 років тому +107

    Your videos are so hard to watch, and yet you smile so bravely throughout them. I hate seeing young people having to deal with mortality. Yet you do so, with so much vibrance and courage, you don't even look sick at all. This brings a tear to my eye. Words cannot even express. My heart goes out to all of you guys.

    • @Incognito-vc9wj
      @Incognito-vc9wj 6 років тому +5

      Amy Laircey Dan's videos gives me hope. He shows us that the World doesn't have to be a dark and miserable place even in the worst of times. I hope I can live up to what he's taught me.

    • @jaggass
      @jaggass 6 років тому +5

      He's made me realize that i shouldn't take anything for granted

    • @jakeross7043
      @jakeross7043 6 років тому +8

      I'm sorry but if you haven't seen his other videos this guy clearly looks very ill

    • @lynnwrigglesworth6524
      @lynnwrigglesworth6524 6 років тому

      Amy Laircey b

  • @drdianneLc
    @drdianneLc 6 років тому +12

    I feel so badly for all of you, Dan. Still praying for a miracle.

  • @paulmurphy7626
    @paulmurphy7626 6 років тому +3

    Oh Dan.. you are one resilient, passionate creature. I'm so glad you have such a loving, supportive family around you.
    We're with you all the way, brother.

  • @robinwojcik8514
    @robinwojcik8514 6 років тому +1

    Prayers to you and your family Dan! Thank you for sharing "all" of them with us! Oh, and don't get me started about that new kitten! I haven't watched the "kitty cam" yet, but what a brilliant idea! It will keep our minds occupied while you catch your next breath! much love to you and yours!

  • @Venetian_Blue
    @Venetian_Blue 6 років тому +65

    You have been on my mind non-stop. Im sending so much love and positive energy your way. I wish you nothing but peace and happiness during these dark times. I wish more than anything in this world that I could just snap my fingers and everyone be cured of cancer. It is so awful and I hate that it even exists. I know my comment may get lost in the sea of others but should you read mine, please know that you are such a strong person with such a beautiful soul. I see it and so do many of your other subscribers. Much love to you, your wife, family and friends. I cant imagine the pain they must be feeling with you. ❤️

    • @9250td
      @9250td 6 років тому +5

      I agree; I'm constantly thinking about Dan! He is such a strong person and his wife is just as strong...I will continue to pray for both of them! Also, I can't forget your wonderful parents.

  • @FiTrill
    @FiTrill 6 років тому +17

    I hate that you're suffering, Dan. Make sure hospice gives you what you need and don't hesitate to use it. Nurse Poppy kitty will take good care of you too I'm sure. 💕

  • @dianelarose5933
    @dianelarose5933 6 років тому +11

    I'm praying for your serenity and peace of mind. i'm also praying for your wife and family. You are love and it is the most important in this circomstance. May God be with you through those dificult moments !! Thanks for your honesty and the share. It is true, we people, care about you. You are a Hero and you wil remain a Hero in my mind for al my life. From Montréal, Canada big big kiss to you and the family !!

    • @debbyb0806
      @debbyb0806 6 років тому

      Very Nice, Positive Comment! 👍🏻😊 Born and raised in Montreal, Canada! US Citizen now for many, many years! 🇨🇦🇺🇸⛱

    • @ranoutofeyeballs
      @ranoutofeyeballs 6 років тому +1

      God doesn't exist, you are rude. Keep your fantasies to yourself. Do not impose on others.

    • @Joyce-dd3fm
      @Joyce-dd3fm 6 років тому

      Beautiful thank you.

  • @amyhall40
    @amyhall40 6 років тому +2

    I hope you are feeling a little better today and getting the treatment you need, I saw your Twitter post and please do not pay attention or give anymore thought to those who have nothing better to say or do with their time. You have a beautiful wife, life and parents who are just amazeballs xxx

  • @FootballShirtsUnited
    @FootballShirtsUnited 6 років тому +15

    Strong Mum, strong son. Much love

  • @fredaluke4514
    @fredaluke4514 6 років тому +74

    I must be honest when I say that I dread "the announcement" I don't want it. You have fought so long and hard to survive it, yet, I have two family members that keep trying to end it. You inspire me with your strength and courage, Dan. You have taught me to savor each breath that I take. I am so sorry that you aren't feeling well. Rest well at home with your loving family and bride. Cuddling with your kitty is good for the soul. You are my hero, Dan. Love and light from Canada xox

    • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
      @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 6 років тому +6

      Aunt Freda No one does, We are given the chance to properly say goodbye though, many of us found Tom through Emily Hayward and her passing so sudden and we didn't get this chance.

    • @jaggass
      @jaggass 6 років тому +3

      I really hope that he can beat this and the chances of that are very slim but he is such a fighter. Life is just far too short.

    • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
      @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 6 років тому +2

      Michael Langley I know. I wish there was a fair percent instead of none in his favor 😞💔

    • @dgma626
      @dgma626 6 років тому +2

      @@jaggass not even slim it's basically impossible :(

    • @gia9551
      @gia9551 6 років тому +1

      Disney Gamer I mean this with the best intentions, but his name is actually Dan Thomas (where the nickname comes from), I'm just so worried about him and feel like you would want to know❤️

  • @SteBradburyDesign
    @SteBradburyDesign 6 років тому +392

    Stay strong brother, we're all rooting for you! 💪

    • @kimceleste600
      @kimceleste600 6 років тому +8

      Our thoughts and prayers are with you/and your wife/parents/friends
      I hope you see how much love is going around the world for you! You are the toughfest person I have ever seen. We all our holding you up...I am so sorry you not having a good day. Check in on you everyday..you have become a household name and to read your journey everyday!!💝

    • @philipharris2319
      @philipharris2319 6 років тому +2

      Well said Kim!
      🙌🏼 Holding him up 🙌🏼
      ❤️ Love & prayers 🙏🏼

    • @maryvee61
      @maryvee61 6 років тому +3

      @『 L U X U R I A 』 What goes around comes around. Hope it is you first.

    • @crochethappy3786
      @crochethappy3786 6 років тому +6

      The greatest love is this..That Jesus died for the sins of the world and that believing this and nothing else, he will be in heaven eternally! If you are really praying, pray for this! That He receives the free gift of salvation before he leaves this earth! Its free and not earned. JUST BELIEVE!!!

    • @lynnwrigglesworth6524
      @lynnwrigglesworth6524 6 років тому

      Ste Bradbury Design )7

  • @stevejessup8608
    @stevejessup8608 6 років тому +9

    You never fail to amaze me, Dan. You just don't give up do you. Respect mate. Keep on fighting the fight. When the time comes to lay down your sword you will have the satisfaction of a battle well fought. Many would have given up by now. I hope you and your wonderful family enjoy what time is left, and I wish you all my very best. Inspirational doesn't cover it, but you know what I mean. I have changed the way I live because of you. I engage more with my family, my friends, and people in general. My son, who is nine, asked me if I'd fallen on my head because of the change :D Thank you for that. I told him why, he didn't fully understand but sort of grasped it. Cheers mate, I'll remember you. :D

  • @sglondon301
    @sglondon301 6 років тому +10

    WE ARE FAMILY..
    I NOW UNDERSTAND HOW I FEEL WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS..EVERY PERSON ON HERE TRULY FEELS YOUR JOURNEY AND LOVES YOU. YOU TAKE THE ULTIMATE JOURNEY OF BRAVERY AND SO DOES YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY...AND WE STAND WITH YOU, FROM AFAR BUT OH SO CLOSE. MAY I SAY THAT YOUR MUM IS AN EXAMPLE TO US ALL..LOVE REALLY IS A MANY SPLENDID THING AND REALLY CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS..SENDING YOU ALL, ALL THE LOVE THAT I CAN. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AS MUCH AS YOU CAN LITTLE SPARROW. XXXX

  • @hotswede69
    @hotswede69 6 років тому +1

    You are such a hero and so strong like my very best friend who fought big time! I am so proud of you posting your vid on UA-cam. All hugs in the World to you and your fam. Hugs, Pat

  • @tonyalatsha7403
    @tonyalatsha7403 6 років тому +14

    Our dear, sweet fighter! I think today was the 1st I see how very tired you are...we just love you so much & you've become such a big part of our lives! We understand that there are going to be times where you can't vlog (which is totally understandable), but I think we're so worried about you that if we don't hear from you by a certain time, we get nervous...I know I'm getting on UA-cam every day looking to see how Dan is doing...I pray you get lots of rest tonight with no pain! Love ya lots!!

  • @c1bav
    @c1bav 6 років тому +38

    Your Mum looks such a lovely woman, a real strong family they should be very proud of you my mate x

  • @bigrooster6893
    @bigrooster6893 6 років тому +5

    I feel so blessed when I see a video from you everyday. You’re truly like a family member of mine now.

  • @Novastar6
    @Novastar6 6 років тому +2

    You're the man Dan.....I certainly wouldn't be as strong as you. You make me view my own life differently and for that you've already made a difference. That will carry on no matter what happens in the end.

  • @JaFeeIMe
    @JaFeeIMe 6 років тому +1

    Prayers from California brother. Your strength is out of this world. Threre's no doubt you've impacted thousands upon thousands of lives. i know for damn sure my perspective on life will forever change.