Don't Be a Victim - Overcoming the Victim Mentality.

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  • @cahokia33
    @cahokia33 6 місяців тому +47

    This woman is a TEACHER OF THE WORD OF GOD. NO FLUFF NO GLITTER. THANK YOU, Mrs. PEGGY

    • @philmiciakcmyles133
      @philmiciakcmyles133 6 місяців тому +5

      Yes SHE IS!!🙏🏽🙏🏽She is Straight forward & direct from the Bible- I❤❤❤her teachings !!!She is that teacher that everyone loves n remembers from their childhood!
      Amen

  • @MsHighHeels1951
    @MsHighHeels1951 6 місяців тому +15

    You cannot be a victim and a overcomer at the same time. Victory in Jesus my savior forever. He sought me and bought me with his redeeming blood.

  • @roselebosada8973
    @roselebosada8973 6 місяців тому +12

    Your testimony, I remember the horrible thing that happened to me, every time when I remember I always cry & feel hate to those people. I was falsely Accused with Lies, slander frm an Islamic co- worker. I got suspended twice. I was horribly tormented. I pray for Justice & victory. Sadly nothing good happen.I never go back to work.Until now I'm still angry &in pain. Please pray for me.. for Justice, victory and peace. And move forward now..Thank you

    • @Doris-y5v
      @Doris-y5v 6 місяців тому +4

      Forgive , give it to God to let go all the hurt, don't hold on the hurt, because is evil that . Persist with God how to overcome You must do what God says, in the bIble , to be set free. Love your enemies etc. You are 'weak'' from this you will be strong and it will not hurt you any more, with God's will about enemies. Also go the enemy and rebuke them, and tell them of their sin as God said.

    • @elizesimpson5579
      @elizesimpson5579 6 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @borina8234
      @borina8234 6 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @sallybyrd3712
      @sallybyrd3712 6 місяців тому +1

      Plead the Blood of Jesus over yourself and ask God to heal the hurt and ask God for Guardian Angels to surround you.

    • @sallybyrd3712
      @sallybyrd3712 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Doris-y5v Going to the enemy and rebuking the enemy will just cause more hurt because they will not respond well. Don't get into strife, just walk away and give everything to God and allow God to repay.

  • @sallyaversa7556
    @sallyaversa7556 6 місяців тому +46

    1 Peter 5:10 After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.

    • @dudumzuke6488
      @dudumzuke6488 6 місяців тому +3

      My scripture..it just encourages me so so much

    • @merzohana1957
      @merzohana1957 6 місяців тому +4

      Thank you

    • @SarahBearah2023
      @SarahBearah2023 6 місяців тому +2

      A m e n

    • @Momoffourjjaa
      @Momoffourjjaa 4 місяці тому

      This has also been a scripture I've been standing on! Amen!!!

  • @jennifersparks7611
    @jennifersparks7611 6 місяців тому +4

    Oh yeah. I'm out walking dogs right now listening to you I'm so glad I found you. Yep the enemy keeps attacking me in the area of getting to see my grandchildren. Oh something always comes up.. I've tried and tried to try with my daughter-in-law I don't know if she's ever going to care for me. Kids are almost 4 years old and 2 years old I've never been asked to babysit I look 5 minutes away. But unfortunately so does her mother and sisters. Okay I'm not going to be a victim anymore I need prayer and I'm going to get this taken care of the scriptures. I'm going to praise God right now.

  • @helgayu596
    @helgayu596 6 місяців тому +12

    I love Peggy Joyce!!!!

  • @ponchothewhitedog
    @ponchothewhitedog 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this teaching. Acknowledging the things you mentioned is making me take the reigns of my life and fight based on the word of God.
    New King James Version (NKJV) of the Bible, 1 John 4:4 states, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world".
    Praise the Lord ❤

  • @MissCC
    @MissCC 2 місяці тому

    This day I pass over from victimhood to Victory in Jesus! This message was soo timely

  • @RainFall-wz2yp
    @RainFall-wz2yp 4 місяці тому +1

    The intensity of my loneliness and my desire and ache for love are all-consuming

  • @traceyjm8041
    @traceyjm8041 6 місяців тому +6

    Yes patterns repeat. Tribulation is hard but God will use all things for good.

  • @Kevin-jk5fl
    @Kevin-jk5fl 6 місяців тому +3

    Very thankful for this word!!! Come quickly Lord Jesus!!!!!!!❤❤❤

  • @emmalewisrogers
    @emmalewisrogers 6 місяців тому +4

    Another good word. Thank you, Jesus ❤

  • @alves01
    @alves01 6 місяців тому +5

    What a blessing this word was for me thank you

  • @sepdawg33
    @sepdawg33 6 місяців тому +1

    I needed to hear this and pray I can heal from this victim mentality. For the past twenty years i have struggled with this.

    • @reneemoore6249
      @reneemoore6249 5 місяців тому +1

      Help others. Encourage someone today in the Lord. It helps me to stop the self self self and focus on Jesus. Did you watch her video on joy? I took notes. I'm here to hear it again. Xox hug.

    • @sepdawg33
      @sepdawg33 5 місяців тому

      ​@@reneemoore6249I'm going to watch it now

    • @Momoffourjjaa
      @Momoffourjjaa 4 місяці тому

      I've gave struggled with this my whole life as well... Grateful at 55 years old the Lord is still teaching me the things I need to know to gain freedom in this life!

  • @MichaelValeri-f1r
    @MichaelValeri-f1r 6 місяців тому +1

    God Bless you Peggy Joyce Ruth. You are the best .

  • @陳小慧-b5u
    @陳小慧-b5u 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this message it's powerful🙏✝❤

  • @emiliorodriquez5677
    @emiliorodriquez5677 2 місяці тому

    I appreciate you so much.

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 5 місяців тому

    We do have wounds mentally and.pysically and people are fallen and do get wounded and have been assaulted and victims thru the prince of the air or sin so definitely it can be true and people feel helpless and are hurt and sick

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 5 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @awesomemax3330
    @awesomemax3330 6 місяців тому

    Thank u Miss Peggy. Your word is true. I like your teachings

  • @elizabethsydnor5247
    @elizabethsydnor5247 7 місяців тому +2

    So looking forward to this one!

  • @Stand787
    @Stand787 6 місяців тому

    Very insightful . Thank you Sister 🌺

  • @jennywoodley7057
    @jennywoodley7057 6 місяців тому

    Thank you 🩷

  • @Loved2024
    @Loved2024 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you! Very much appreciated ♥️

  • @aruniebissoon2120
    @aruniebissoon2120 6 місяців тому

    Thanks sis God bless you 🙏

  • @One.Person
    @One.Person 6 місяців тому +2

    Victim mentality builds up a stronghold of the devil , a footstool for the devil....thats why many people find abuse repeating in the same way over and over again.God hems us in behind and before.

    • @Userkvlnk
      @Userkvlnk 6 місяців тому

      If you have C-PTCD and it's hard to cure it... Normally people it all their life. The devil will keep attacking because such people are most vulnerable and don't have any support system that some other people have (Some people in the world, non-believes are all covered like a soldier. They don't almost have problematic areas, no areas to try try aim there )

  • @orion9k
    @orion9k 6 місяців тому +1

    So my mom kidnapped my brother and I from our dads when we were 1 and 8 years old, we were not victims? Our dads were not victims?
    If you are forced to work in a profession that you cannot stand, and not even paid a regular salary and coerced by the threat of homelessness if not complying, is that not being a victim of authority abuse?
    What about if your mom threatens you with homelessness if you do not pay half your salary (300 dollars), while you're a 16y minor trying to earn a little cash and you're by law your moms responsibility to feed and keep a roof over, am I not a victim?
    When I was younger, I experienced heavy assault and beaten down by a lunatic security man and then taken into jail by police, falsely accused for something, few months later in court the judge, witness from the thing I was accused of told judge that security and police had the wrong guy - Am I not a victim in this case?
    It feels like being a victim when your rights and boundaries are being violated.
    Oh and now you talk about immune system, my immune system only becomes dysfunctional when I am being forced/coerced into doing things that creates extreme stress and from my past I have become extremely sensitive to stress. I have some negative thoughts all day long and still manage to be healthy from living a stress free life, resistance training, eating clean etc. to boost my health, but the moment people with demons inside (e.g. my mom or people from the government) starts telling me what to do with my life, that's when my immune system starts failing, just facts, seen it happen again and again - I've been offered high salary jobs that fits my master degree, but because of the stress government puts on you from threatening you and trying to use/abuse you for free labor, it's created chronic stress within me, and it's absolutely ridicules that I am wasting my time and life with this kind of stress and hetz from government, if they would just f off and let me live my life how God wants me to live it, I would be supporting myself within a relative short time frame. And to people who say "if you don't like it, become homeless", homeless people live short lives for a reason, it's so stressful that it shuts down the immune system and makes perfect environment for diseases, you would not even wish homelessness for your worst enemy, it's a guarantee slow death and only few people recovers from homelessness without loss of identity and loss of health, homelessness should be avoided at all cost.

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 5 місяців тому

    Jesus had a scars when he was resurrected and so do we

  • @One.Person
    @One.Person 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh my.waiting.

  • @emmiewilson5024
    @emmiewilson5024 6 місяців тому

    Amen ❤️ 🙏

  • @Userkvlnk
    @Userkvlnk 6 місяців тому +7

    I don't quite agree with you on some aspects, To be honest. I have never loved most people's lectures on a "victim mentality, a victim costume... " People should be allowed to speak their emotions. Like in a psychological therapy. I think a lot of you, guys, have never had a narcissistic, psychopathic family, parents, husband when you've been trapped for years and have an extreme major massive CPTSD, amnesia, the issues in all field, massive bullying, All at once, human trafficked, kidnapped, put in a fascist prison and other things. Didn't lose many of your children because of the diseases, in a murder, car accidents, war, Didn't lose your house. (I know, God can help prevent that) But some situations.. We were born into that and they happened or keep happening and it's pretty hard to resolve it even with the help of God. Some people are born and many situations are already a disaster in their life. It's very serious and takes uncanny spiritual fight, knowledge, a lot of attempts. The pain would be enough to fill every inch of this universe and beyond daily
    People should be allowed to say they are hurting and state they've been abused, State they don't like it and want it. That's the point. I don't like it not being acknowledged. It's not that we allow it and ourselves want to feel less. It's like writing it in a police officer's book about the harmful events avd violations. Because they are the satanic events, obviously

    • @breeze8756
      @breeze8756 6 місяців тому +4

      WOW!
      Incredible information.🎉🎉🎉
      Everyone needs to read this bc your eyes will be opened to at least one area mentioned here.
      I agree. You need to be heard. It's a part of healing but also in getting help . The right ears made aware of your situation can help you escape it or provide some comfort and support. 🎉🎉🎉

    • @esthermcdaniel9292
      @esthermcdaniel9292 6 місяців тому +5

      @@breeze8756 You are right. There are a lot of people out there who have never experienced even one of the terrible things you have listed. This world is becoming increasingly more and more wicked! I don't believe she was saying that there aren't times when professional, human help is needed. And I don't think she's judging people who take that route. Nor do I believe God negatively judges such a person. His heart is bleeding to see all the wickedness in this world that was so perfect and beautiful when He created it. It won't be long now before He restores it to its original beauty.
      But why is He waiting? Why isn't He stepping in and not allowing these things to happen? It's because Lucifer (now known as Satan) attacked God's character and His method of government back before this world was created. Then Eve chose to listen to him, speaking through the serpent, and Adam chose to take the fall along with her. In so doing, the dominion of this earth, which God had given to Adam, was usurped by Satan! HE is currently the god of this world. And his method of government--that he claimed was so much better than God's--is being put on display for everyone to judge.
      And our God is waiting for His people--those who believe in Him and who choose Him and His ways--to come to the place where they truly love and trust Him to the point where they fully reflect His image and reveal to the watching universe that God's system of government is the best after all!!! That it truly does produce the happiest intelligent beings!
      This war that took place in heaven will soon be settled. All of the Bible prophecies are being fulfilled before our very eyes and they are pointing to that fact. God is not willing that any should perish. He has freely given us a way out through the death of His Son. His grace is sufficient for anyone--the most victimized and even the vilest sinner-- who will receive it.
      I hope this is helpful. I am praying for you.

  • @cc-cd1yh
    @cc-cd1yh 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!

  • @bobbietevepaugh5574
    @bobbietevepaugh5574 6 місяців тому +2

    For years just about ever time I go to store I get cheated not just that area I get stolen from I can go to simple stuff and it’ll end up being so complicated it’s been going on for years HELP !!

    • @RykerMcDowell
      @RykerMcDowell 6 місяців тому +1

      It Probably an Unclean Spirit and You Have to Force Yourself to Create Some type of Daily Affirmations In order to Force It Back Outside of Your House Bro!!!
      Trust me!! I knowww!!!

    • @sallybyrd3712
      @sallybyrd3712 6 місяців тому +1

      Read Psalm 91 daily and claim the promises in the verses.

  • @dawnschellhammer8170
    @dawnschellhammer8170 6 місяців тому +1

  • @missfloflowers
    @missfloflowers 6 місяців тому +1

    Make list at 33.05

  • @gisg2243
    @gisg2243 6 місяців тому

    Jesus is often referring to being persecuted for believing and teaching the word of God which is suffering for righteousness sake. Someone who's suffering from someone else's wrong doing is not the same thing, He doesn't say to rejoice when someone does you wrong unless it's for His sake.

  • @NaturalBlackBeautiful
    @NaturalBlackBeautiful 6 місяців тому

    This is the second time I'm listening to this message and it is awesome. Sometimes we are the primary cause of our downfall. No more!!
    I am a winner, I am strong, healthy, beautiful and successful. I am God's child

  • @Abbasgirl312
    @Abbasgirl312 6 місяців тому +2

    Wow! What a wonderful revelation. 🩷