as an Asian myself, "dinner is downstairs" is sooo accurate. after the scolding and beating, they'll act as if nothing happened and let you eat. if you don't eat, there will be more scolding and beating. so, you have no choice, but to eat while crying. HAHAHAHAHA. also, Asian moms are generally not vocal. their way of showing love is letting you eat. A LOT.
I think that "dinner's downstairs" is their way to say "after all of this beating I'm still loving you." 😂 All those praises they gave us during childhood and now they're too reluctant to say it clearly. Bunch of tsunderes they are.
thats not the worst part ... the worst part is when you are in your 20's and mention to them about the beatings they forget that happened and said I never beat you in my life
I felt this at a spiritual level. They acknowledge sometimes but suddenly turn dramatic if I mention it more times. So I have to just stop to not hurt them. This frustrates me sometimes but I do some stupid shit too. So I understand they may feel likewise. Love them for not disowning me & raising me patiently with love. Finally a happy, lovely & dramatic family with a lot of quarrels😂🤣
This happened to my mom actually, she had to raise her 7 siblings at 9 and got beat by her parents, the worst part is when she brought it up our grandparents literally said we never did that to you in front of her and her surviving siblings
The small sob at the end is so relatable. Then they be like, “Are you crying? You’re crying?! Stop crying before I give you something to cry about!” And then you end up making a disgruntled and inhuman sob which results in you getting beaten into a pulp.
OMLLL BUT YHIS IS SO TRU If I start crying then my mum is like ‘Stop crying, why u crying.. I won’t feel sorry even if u cry…. STOP CRYING’ And then ye lol
yep, my mom goes like " you cry more , i beat you more " then on hearing that i used to cry more and then she used to beat me more and thus i would cry even more and the cycle would continue .
Thats most relatable thing me and my brother agree to 💀👍🏻 my mother beats us with whatever in her hand and if it's knife she'll turn it up side down and beat us with its wooden 😭🤚🏻lol
@@prismaticscamatics2470 yea my Asian dad won't let me be a child and is stressing me about my future when I'm 13. He's been doing this since I was like 11
@@pickle-STDS same, my parents when I was age 10: You’re an adult now so act like it! Stop being so immature, don’t you know that kids your age act so much better than you…
true my bro and my dad fighted then he litterly hit my bro with a bat he said come eat dinner OMG I can't forget he got beaten up by a bat I'm the loved child so they cool 😎 with me and my bro moved out everything cool cool now 😌
I'm asian, and when I was a kid and whenever my mom would give me an ass whooping, she literally cycles through her entire arsenal like she's playing GTA or something. Her weapon for intimidation is a broom stick or a belt. For high speed chases, her favorite weapon are flipflops, it's so fucking versatile that you can use it as a melee weapon or be a fucking homing missile when chasing someone. And lastly, for guaranteed critical hit and 200% critical damage, she either uses clothe hangers or a rubber cooking utensil (mostly ladle and spatula). That shit stings so hard that you can hear your nerves submitting their retirement papers.
As a black person, this is super relatable, LOL. Black mom would have said "I brought you into this world and I'll take your @$$ out!" And when he said "I won't do it again!", Mom would have said "Oh I KNOW you won't. You gone learn today!" LOL
"Dinner is downstairs" So relatable. You literally have to go but you also don't want to go. Most awkward dinners where your alert the whole time and scared to your bone.
As an Indian lord the way i relate to this, likeee I cannot even. I still remember the first time i saw some white drama and saw children calling their parents by their name i was so shocked cause i know i could neverrrr like never address to my parents with their name. Its the most disrespectful thing to do in a Hindu/Brown household 💀
Yaa. Not Hindu, regardless of religion in any Indian or Brown family its relatable, you can't call your parents even your elder siblings you can't call by name (nowadays some call their elder siblings by name but it's not acceptable in all families)
In Asian household, calling the older family members by their name is considered very disrespectful. One time I called my elder sister by her name... it didn't end well. I never did that again after that. I was shook to the core when I found out that some Americans actually call their mom by their name, if i did that I would've been whooped by my entire family 💀
Omfg same! Growing up I ALWAYS had to use honorifics when addressing older family members, if I dared call my PARENTS by their first names I would not be here to type this comment.
Why is it bad to call your older sister by her name? (Maybe I don’t understand don’t come for me I’m not Asian) But in America you can still be beat or you’ll get in trouble if you call your mom by her name Okay thanks for giving me insight on that. Thank you now I understand
@@LovelyCuteBunnies123 bcuz u r supposed to call her 'big sister', not her name. But some asians call their older siblings by name(or nickname) too, especially if the age gap is small. I will never do it tho. It feels a bit rude. We only call ppl same age or younger by their names.
@@LovelyCuteBunnies123 In my culture respect is a big deal, I was taught from a young age to use honorific when speaking to older family members and to always be respectful. But now that we are older me and my sister are really close, so we only Do all the respectful stuff when we're around our parents😂
Even as an Asian, I didn't get spanked by my mother. I was scolded for not being on top of my class or not winning in competitions but I wasn't spanked. She grew up in an abusive household that she didn't really like the idea of physically hurting her children. Her love language wasn't "come eat dinner" but "here's some money, go buy whatever you want".
@@rosea1021 I wasn't a perfectly well-behaved trophy child. I burned rice, I didn't wash the dishes, I punched some boys, I left my Tupperware, I lost many umbrellas, I talked back, I accidentally killed our pet eagle, I lost so many of her things, but she never spanked me. My brother was worse but she never spanked him. She even fought for my 4th grade classmate who came to school all bruised because her aunt spanked her severely. She just didn't believe that spanking will do kids good and I agree. The cycle of aggression should really stop. We don't spank misbehaving adults, why do we spank not fully-developed humans?
@@rosea1021 not really, (not asian but arab), i did my absolute best to be well behaved growing up to the point teachers took me as a good example and no matter what i did, it was always yelling , screaming , demotivation and toxicity, last straw that broke the camel’s back was almost a year ago i just cut ties off.
What I learned growing up in an Asian household: You ain’t shit neither can you give a point until you’ve financially proven your worth, they don’t care what career path you choose as long as you can rack in money legally, they’re gonna back off...
@@gaminf6713 yep which is why they prefer you take engineering or medical courses as it guarantees you to get a job that racks in big money, but overall they really don’t give a fuck what course it is, they’re just concerned about other courses if it really brings in big money like as promised
TRUTH, one of the reason why i want to take science but my parents doesn't alow it because they know im too stupid for that lmao and they always recommend being a teacher because its the easiest job and easiest way to get money (and the most respectful job ever lol)
My Mom beats me with a Belt,Broomstick,slippers,or hanger,she doesn't stop beating me when the hanger is not broken yet And then there's always the "THIS IS MY HOUSEHOLD HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT TO ME,YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING ALL DAY. YOU SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT I'M FEEDING YOU AND PUTTING A ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD WHILE OTHER KIDS OUT THERE HAVE NOTHING TO EAT,LOOK AT YOUR COUSIN SHE'S NOT A FAILURE LIKE YOU SHE SO SMART AND PRETTY WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE HER"
And it doesn't stop there... I'm not Asian but I feel like Balkan parents be relaed to Asian parents because after they beat you (emotionally abuse me in my case) you just eat like nothing happened and are forced to be nice to each other in 5 minutes like nothing ever happened
I was gonna say, I distinctly remember that because I was like fuck dude do I even want to go to University now? Even at that point mass shootings were relatively common
As a Filipino, after a good, long and reasonable spanking and belting, my mom would then say "kaon na didto", means "dinner/lunch is ready". Truly an unforgettable hidden memory that's been etched onto my soul. Glady she is the most responsible mother by far I've ever known.
Can relate. Me after get beaten with rattan wood and sandals, my mother would invite me to the dinner while I am still crying. Come to the table with tears. She will yelled "stop crying! Are you gonna use your tears as salt instead?"
Ahh, I've had the same exact experience before. With my mother having that sharp look at me while I'm sobbing with tears running down my face as I slowly eat the food prepared flavored with some salty tears. If you have siblings, it kinda becomes a funny memory as you see them laughing at you at the dinner table.
That back-turned swatting is toooooo hysterical!! This is my much-needed laugh for today. I am African American, and my mom was Zorro with a switch - able to carve her initials into an arm, leg or butt in 1.3 seconds.
Us south asians can relate to this. I got into this massive stupid ass fight with another dude. Got home, dad beat me as well. Never I got into any fights again.
Lol it’s like how my dad was when he went to school he’d get into fights either for himself or his younger siblings and beat the shit out of them then the kids would tell my dads parents and my dad got beat then my dad beat those kids again for snitching and it was just a cycle lol
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I'm Korean and I grew up getting my ass beat by my dad. I had suicidal thoughts but never homicidal ones. Then when I became an adult and lived on my own, I got bullied at work so I started having homicidal thoughts. My jobs were hostile manual labor type shit and they worked us like crazy for shit pay. Add drinking and isolation to all that, and I was ready to die and take as many people with me as I could. Luckily, I didn't have any guns at the time. I went to therapy, quit drinking and now my mental health is a lot better. It's still hard sometimes without a supportive family or financial security, but I've been lucky to find my people and learn a lot to help me control my anger. I was lucky I didn't get into fights and go to jail/prison like many of the people around me, but at the same time I took revenge on people by getting them fired and making them suffer in other ways. It was toxic and made me want to kill myself even more. I think the thing is a lot of it comes down to the individualism of White US Americans and the collectivism of East-Asian people. Living in the US makes a lot of us individualistic but a lot of immigrants come from collectivistic cultures so instead of blaming society we're more likely to blame ourselves first. Of course, without political knowledge, people will lash out at their communities instead of trying to change society in more productive ways. The US indoctrinates kids into believing that all of our successes and failures are directly caused by ourselves. The reality is that we do not live in a meritocracy, so most people will fail constantly without realizing the system is broken.
I hope you do get better soon yk what Ik as a young person with a sht family is that there are better world and people out of our perspective and we just have to try our best to look into those and ignore these bad things even if we cant completely ignore
I’m glad you were able to improve your situation and focus on your mental health. I completely agree with the difference in cultures between the West and the East, and how as a result it’s the next generation of Asian Americans (us) who have to deal with the struggles of having space to form our own identities vs fulfilling parental expectations out of the guilt and gratitude we’re obligated to feel for all the “sacrifices” they made for us. The difference in perspectives and expectations on personal freedom and lifestyle make communication with our parents difficult, especially if they refuse to see from your perspective, hence why I stopped bothering long ago to talk openly about my feelings with my parents. It also makes it hard to connect to my American peers as they don’t face the same problems, and this inability to talk about it becomes very personally isolating as well.
Mexican parent: this is MY house and everything in it is MINE. When you get a job, pay your own mortgage and bills on your own, you can tell whoever you want to get out. Love the similarities.😂
I'm not even asian, I'm romanian (I'm so into Chinese culture though, I almost feel as if I had a past life there or something)... but I always hear this even if the only thing I say is "my room"
Mother: Okay how about I kick you put of the house?! You can go live outside and pick up trash and eat it for the rest of your life as a living! And sell It for money. Or better yet I'll adopt a poor child and make him my son while you go outside being filthy and picking up trash! While he would be great full for having a house and food on the table.
I’m Arab North African and I remember once my mom picking me up after school and I was crying and annoying her so much by whatever nonsense I was saying and she deadass pulled over, got out, opened the backseat door and I got my ass beat as cars are speeding by😭💀
It’s so accurate when you’re crying at the end. Then your mother says: “What are you crying about? You have nothing to cry about you should be feeling guilty” or something else
White person raised by a psycho mom, here! Felt that one on a spiritual level. She used to get angrier when I cried and tell me to go to my room because she didn't want to look at it, then bang on my door and demand to know why I was still crying later.
@@cz2854 same. If i dont cry, she yells stuff like "YOU DONT EVEN CARE! YOURE NOT EVEN ASHAMED A LITTLE A BIT!" but if i DO cry, she yells stuff like "DONT YOU CRY! SHUT UP! STOP CRYING!" and she gets angrier if i cant stop crying. I dont fucking understand her
My family is Albanian and this Asian mom was just like ours - except she beat us with the long wooden stick that’s used to roll out phyllo dough for burek! I’m 54 now and still wouldn’t dare disrespect her. She raised us while working 3 jobs, hardly sleeping, making us hot dinners, fresh baked bread, singing songs, dancing with us, and never complaining. Te dua Nene ime!♥️
HAYAA :seconds later: every asian mom in the world: yes ma'am what do you need MY SON GOT B+ ON MATH IN HARVARD WITHOUT ME LETTING HIM TO ANY KIND OF HOME SCHOOL OR SCHOOL HYAAAA THE WAR HAS BEGUN :THAT ONE ASIAN MOM: DOES EVERYONE KNOW WHAT B STANDS FOR :EVERY OTHER MOM:B STANDS FOR BROOM STICK :THAT ONE ASIAN MOM: HAYAAA LET THE BROOM STICK KIIIIIILL HIM THATS WHY WE NEED DA ABORTION
Istg this is so true espeacially the asian version, and after that argument with your mom or dad and you go back to your room and bang the door while closing it, you know the devil's waiting for you outside
I still can remember when I did this. My mother stormed in right into my room and gave me the death glare and prepared herself to beat me up (I was 8 )😂😂
@@homeiraazweem9295 though my parents never used to beat me and my siblings, glares and words were more than enough for us. Those glaresand silence still frighten me. And I'm 25😂
Ohhhhh this gave me traumatic memories when I once prepared the rice and everything but forgot to set the rice cooker to cook. Found out just as we were about to have dinner...
I'm white. Can't tell you how many time I heard my mother say, "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it." Yeah, that brought back some memories roflmao.
Damn this is funny but also really sad. As a South Asian I thankfully have never been hit, not even once and I never caused any problems either. I wonder why parents feel the need to physically discipline children. For me my moms disappointment or sadness and her being quiet was like a death sentence. Everything she went through for my and my siblings sake I could never ever do anything to hurt her or make her sad.
Oh she did punish you too... emotional blackmail.. ahahahah! Once my grades are not so good. My mom would not hit me, but be sad and disappointed, and not talk to me. It felt like, I am the worst human being in the world... yep! I understand you.
@@cynthiaponce2133 I mean yeah you still have to discipline the children somehow 😭 And okay we maybe biased but like doesnt emotional black mail hurt a lot too? (I want to say its more agonizing than a beating but its not fair for me to say qwq) Id rather have her yell at me n tell me to get off my damn phone than be quite n not talk The worst was when she wouldnt talk to me except for "food is on the table, go eat." 😭😭😭
Phisically discipline is considered abusive, especially in western, i think... But you know, i kinda see the point parents give their children the beating to discipline them in this case, the child while being uderage is doing some illegal act, if that's how the act when they're child, then what's will they gonna do when they're reaching adulthood? They need to learn the weight of their ignorant behavior, and the consequences and effect of their act to themselves, their family and other, their moral, future, and their overall environments. Sometimes you need to implant the lesson into their body, especially if they're so stubborn that the discussion won't do it and they won't reflect on their self. At least in this, the child learn the fear of messing up their already wrong doing and what the consequences it's bring afterwards, doing illegal act is just uncool nor quirky lol
@@inglesporu-lisboa1715 Ikr. Labeling "disciplining" as abuse is such a joke when they both are worlds apart when we go for the literal meanings. Though, of course, abusive parents exist, but genuinely in most cases they would be dealt with by people around, We don't live in a barbaric society anymore after all. Like, Most people in the comments want their parents to be the 'perfect' no, robotic if any, and seem to wish their parents should let it slide no matter what they do, and this is why we kids who can't differentiate a wrong from a right.
@@inglesporu-lisboa1715 Thing is, it doesn't work. And it's not in Western specifically. Spanking is legal in the USA, it's not legal in some European countries. There are also plenty of non-western countries that came to the same conclusion. Scientifically speaking it lowers IQ and increases aggression. And more to the point, it also just doesn't work. The kid doesn't learn or understand what they did wrong, they only know that it made the parent/caretaker made enough to want to inflict harm. Most people don't think what they did was wrong or they wouldn't of done it. A child should want to not make their parents sad or scared for them. If that's not motivation enough, then the relationship is already kind of rocky. Kids who are beaten learn that their parents will physically harm them if they are displeased and in response they either, become more aggressive, learn to hide it better or even sometimes lash out or, they shut down, become obedient and later in life struggle to say no. Respect brought about by fear isn't respect, it's just fear. Humans also don't work with punishment. We work with redirection and positive reinforcement. When someone does something shitty, generally they don't think that what they are doing is shitty or at the very least, they believe it's justified. This is part of what perpetuates abuse. We all think we're doing the right thing ultimately. When I stole when I was younger, I grew up poor and felt frustrated because I didn't choose to be poor. I had a talk with my parent. Beyond regular punishment, scare tactics of saying others get their hands cut off for that etc, there was also an ask of if I felt bad. My answer was no, because I only stole from stores, big ones, where I had the knowledge that they were definitely covered financially and no one really lost out. I stopped stealing because of risk of getting caught. It wasn't until I was an adult that my own partner actually explained to me why stealing isn't a good idea. Not because of some intrinsic moral fiber, but because of social code. Because if I think this way, others think this way and that it pushes the envelope in an non-useful way. Society is built on a lot of moral codes like that, unspoken agreements that keep it functioning. I'd stopped for fear of getting caught, but now I actually understand why it's not helpful to steal.
Take care. When it feels tough, try to find reasons to smile. Doesn't need to be grand. A cup of coffee in the morning,, sun shining,, wind blowing.. reading a book looking at the sky and smiling.. waiting for the moon to visit and Smile at us.. The universe is always Smiling and gives good vibes and takes care of everyone in it.. if we look closely we can feel it.. smile without any reason too just because you are existing. In this beautiful world as a beautiful person. Isn't it amazing! Try to find your healing!
can we also talk about the situation when mom says "if you don't stop crying, i will beat you more" then we have to pretend that we are not crying with teary eyes😂😂🙂
The Virginia Tech shooting was a spree shooting that occurred on April 16, 2007, comprising two attacks on the campus of the Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, Virginia, United States. Seung-Hui Cho, an undergraduate student at the university and a U.S. resident who was from South Korea, killed 32 people and wounded 17 others with two semi-automatic pistols. Six others were injured jumping out of windows to escape Cho.
@@thegrandnil764 ey sh*t, at least I didn't end up as an evil preson like my Pa. ₹_₹ One thing for sure is that I would have whooped my younger self too as I so had serious issues when I was a kid and a teen. Glad I was able to change after some disciplining.
I actually have quite a carefree life as an Asian. My family teaches me that if you care about your responsibility than you will naturally take action to fulfill it. I understand that going out to work to a lot of hard work so I would naturally make my school grades better. Gaming is a big part of my life, but once I have too much time game, I would find that even a fun game will turn to be boring and finally search for other things to do like going out for a walk, jog or even hang out with friends. As a child I think that getting good grades is a responsibility for me to fulfill to repay my parents after my parents retired from work even though parents don't ask for anything in return because they hope for the well being for their child. I learnt that from my parents even though they don't tell me 'I love you' but iinstead from their actions I felt their love just like 'dinner is downstairs', they still care.
I lived in America as well and what I find shocking is how sensitive your neighborhood is. Especially the sound, etc. They'll easily complain. Some even calls the cops for simple reasons. In our country, you'll hear noisy kids everywhere, old men drinking sake around the street, some women playing cards in a small stool, etc. It's so lively here Even when during the pandemic, The geezers here uses an empty can and a string to communicate to each neighborhood as if technology doesn't exist 😂 And if there ever is a conflict, there's no such thing as "call the cops" people living in the neighborhood will do the work to calm both parties till everything's back to normal. And what I'm shocked the most is how beautiful the house/how big the lot is in America despite being the cheapest. In our country, it'll be so small and looks ugly as hell. And in America, it's normal for them to throw leftover foods and many are picky eaters. In our place, of you do that you'll get beaten half death by your mom's broom Pretty much almost everything are beautiful In America except racism, lack of communication in the neighborhood, and the student loans. In America, houses are fences apart. Here, houses are literally walls apart 😂
We modern Americans are pretty spoiled. Just the other day I was talking to my Dad about my upcoming trip to Poland and I had to explain to him why it isn’t a third-world country. Additionally, I had to clarify that while the populations of many Arab nations live very traditional lives they aren’t “…fourth or fifth world…”
Yes american neighborhoods complain about the slightest things ever!! 😭 There's an app here called the neighborhood app, where you can communicate with your neighbors online. I always see people complaining about the littlest things ever, "did anyone hear that music at night??" "Did anyone see that guy walking down the street? He looked suspicious" " Did anyone else hear that?" Its so annoying 🙃
@@xflaminx4633 nope. Not an apartment. Once you visit Philippines and many other south east asian countries, you'll know what I mean. People literally build houses close to each other especially in the capital city of Manila, Philippines. 70% of the houses around the poor/squatters area doesn't even have a paint. It's raw cement most of the time. And pretty much 80% of the whole city is underdeveloped.
@@vubzs lmao I also find it weird how people always has their camera on literally everywhere and Even films you in subway for no apparent reason. Record here, record there, record everywhere. Almost as if they can predict any scenarios that's going to happen then post it in social media.
For the non Asians, this is surprisingly accurate. Those hits be HARD! When I was young, I got whipped so hard that the stick shattered. I still got the chills thinking about it.
Oh!We were starting to be taught taekwondo in school,and the teacher used a whistle as a whip-The first lesson was balancing,and if you wobbled,you were whipped with the whistle,on your butt.Most of us got hit.But on the second lesson,my classmate got hit so hard he broke the whistle- -This is from Nepal btw if you think this is abuse(Asian country)
Lol, there was a time in kindergarten when I wouldn't eat my breakfast and my mom was trying to make me eat. But then she took out a wooden stick specially meant for beating, so I quietly. Cause those hits were hard, like there was a time I didn't eat medicine and my dad just went rampage and man, I needed more medicine than those by the doctor.
I dated a white boy once in high school and witnessed him backtalk his mom and was APPALLED I looked at her like you gonna let this fool speak to you like that?!
This is so accurate even for African households. I always tell people that it wasn't in any way abuse. That's how my parents taught me accountability for the things I did and it worked.
Should've added a part where the Mom goes "Did you glare at me?!" and then, the son says "No!!", and then, she replies "How dare you talk back to me?!"
I love how he lowers his voice to the lowest octave it can go when he's acting out the Korean mom cuz it do be feeling like some adults crawled out of the depths of hell when you're a kid
Lmao the "dinner is downstairs" is so truee! 😭 Like they would have just did this then they will cook your favourite meal that's like saying "sorry" for asian parents
it’s interesting how folks seem to forget about Virginia Tech. it was a HUGE talking point in the mid 2000s but it seems like it’s not as brought up anymore when discussing school shootings.
@@rendexvousy I feel it’s a victim of timing. yeah, FB, Twitter and MySpace existed, but weren’t anything near the cultural and digital phenomenon as we know social media now. real time coverage online has def aided in how much we know of these shootings and it’s shelf-life on our collective conscious. I’d say Columbine has prevailed bc it was the “first” of its kind in the modern era + all the documented information surrounding the shooters. That entire 18 months leading up to it plays out like a disturbing movie that 20 + yrs later we still can’t get enough of . in a way, Eric and Dylan got exactly what they wanted.
@@fvnaticbychoice makes sense. the tech shooting happened both too late and too early to really stick out in the public consciousness, i guess. really unfortunate
@@lane250lk Not even that. It was, by far, the worst school shooting done by a single person throughout history. Such a shame that this topic gets overlooked.
"I give you life, I can take you life" logic is so strong in the asian household. As long as you couldn't make your own living yet, you better behave. My mother never really beat me but she does make sure I understand that I live in *her* house.
Low social and economical status mindset. I lived in China and not only chinese kids live with parents until they get married but parents also buy them a house as wedding gift.
@@mukti5896 The house as a wedding gift is more or less a rich people thing I think but living with your parents until you get married is not pampered as fuck at all. Its a cultural thing in most Asian countries that I personally know, the children living with their parents are usually the ones who start paying for everything around the house and take care of their parents as soon as they start earning because its their responsibility to do so, at least where I am from they do that.
How come the dialogues are so accurate. I mean, parents always say that we are failures but whenever they see another kids parents, they gonna brag about us like anything. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Growing up in this way I can relate, however this didn't stop Seung-Hui Cho who came to study in the U.S. from South Korea - he ended up murdering 32 people and wounding 17 others in what was known as the Virginia Tech shooting.
Bruh I thought the first "Get out of my room" Was a first class ticket to a good beating to the point where your soul would sign retirement papers from your body XD.
"I don't speak the failure."
I felt that at an emotional level.
so did we all my friend
On a spiritual level for me 🙃
haenyaa!! haeyaa!!
emotional damage 3000
HAIYAA WHAT U SAY IM YO MOTHER U FAILURE
"I gave you life, I can take away your life"
That shit hit home.
I know I heard that shit growing up...
Lmao, western kid here, im my parents hit me I would hit them back.
I'm stronger, I win.
@@thegrandnil764 what the hell
@@lezzzedd591 Domestic abuse is an actual horrible thing. I would not let it happen.
But I love my parents, and we would never throw hands.
Yeah, it hit home like how it hit us LMAO!
"What was that?" "I don't speak failure." 💀I-
This is so accurate
The B+ beating supreme
made it 500 likes :)
Yes lol getting a 70 in my test in basically a -999999999 mark
The Steven He audio makes it all so much better!
@Juniper Yamoto i can’t stop laughing help
as an Asian myself, "dinner is downstairs" is sooo accurate. after the scolding and beating, they'll act as if nothing happened and let you eat. if you don't eat, there will be more scolding and beating. so, you have no choice, but to eat while crying. HAHAHAHAHA.
also, Asian moms are generally not vocal. their way of showing love is letting you eat. A LOT.
ur not wrong but u forgot if the grandparents get involved they will either punish you for not eating or they will just be like: well more food for me
I think that "dinner's downstairs" is their way to say "after all of this beating I'm still loving you." 😂
All those praises they gave us during childhood and now they're too reluctant to say it clearly. Bunch of tsunderes they are.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
The crying while eating cuz if you attempt to skip out you'll get more scolding resonated with me 😂😂
Great now the food will be extra salty with my tears 😢
That "haiyaannn" gets me everytime 😂
HE WAS SINGING 😭
Yes literally I am dying
@LmaoMagalona its lethal
What does it mean
1 thousandth like is me!
thats not the worst part ... the worst part is when you are in your 20's and mention to them about the beatings they forget that happened and said I never beat you in my life
I felt this at a spiritual level. They acknowledge sometimes but suddenly turn dramatic if I mention it more times. So I have to just stop to not hurt them. This frustrates me sometimes but I do some stupid shit too. So I understand they may feel likewise. Love them for not disowning me & raising me patiently with love. Finally a happy, lovely & dramatic family with a lot of quarrels😂🤣
bruh...
ong they be gaslighting you💀
LMAO THS IS SO TRUE. 🤣🤣🤣
This happened to my mom actually, she had to raise her 7 siblings at 9 and got beat by her parents, the worst part is when she brought it up our grandparents literally said we never did that to you in front of her and her surviving siblings
“Get out of my room” you don’t speak like that to your Asian parents if you still value your life 😂
That's fact.
the moment he said get out of my room I know he fucked up 😂
Typical asian parents: i bought this house with my own money who are you to tell me to get out
Bro i don't value my life and i still don't say that stuff😭 the beating is that terrifying-
SAME BUT IM BLACKKK
2 things I love: 1) Steven He's voice.........and 2) that Mom escalated to the ladle, the slipper and the shoe horn.
the constant switching of the *common household items to slap my children with* makes this more accurate
There probably a younger sibling off screen handing over the items from the beating shelf
That's called reloading 😭😭
no one ever slapped me or hit me but i am purely asian.
@@dream_y1000 bruh u missed out 😂
Hey Adrien The Fragrance 😂😂
The small sob at the end is so relatable. Then they be like, “Are you crying? You’re crying?! Stop crying before I give you something to cry about!” And then you end up making a disgruntled and inhuman sob which results in you getting beaten into a pulp.
OMLLL BUT YHIS IS SO TRU
If I start crying then my mum is like
‘Stop crying, why u crying.. I won’t feel sorry even if u cry…. STOP CRYING’
And then ye lol
My mom ligit is exactly like this
Me:cry
Mom:IF YOU DONT STOP CRYING WALLAH IL BEAT YOU UP UNTIL YOU STOP
huh
Jeez that's brutal..
yep,
my mom goes like " you cry more , i beat you more "
then on hearing that i used to cry more and then she used to beat me more and thus i would cry even more and the cycle would continue .
@@shukrantpatil That's just no.. That isn't strictness or discipline.. That's abusive..
“Dinner is downstairs” is how you know the parent still cares for you enough to let you live
Yeah😂😂
LITERALLY 🤣😭
So true
lmao yea
It's also confusing since you just got your ass beaten
The beating part was hilarious, she actually switched between things like a spoon or shoe to beat his son😂
Thats most relatable thing me and my brother agree to 💀👍🏻 my mother beats us with whatever in her hand and if it's knife she'll turn it up side down and beat us with its wooden 😭🤚🏻lol
People often say skits are exaggerated, but this is 100% accurate.
This is accurate for us Polynesian
@@prismaticscamatics2470 yea my Asian dad won't let me be a child and is stressing me about my future when I'm 13. He's been doing this since I was like 11
@@pickle-STDS same, my parents when I was age 10: You’re an adult now so act like it! Stop being so immature, don’t you know that kids your age act so much better than you…
@@izanai3790 bro that is so relatable
@Cian MacGana *Gang Lu has entered the chat*
*Wayne lo has entered the chat*
Child: *Backtalks*
True Asian parents: _So you have chosen death_
Child: Talks back.
Harsh and Responsible Parents: *so you have chosen the six paths of pain*
@Gaurav Backtalk is rude. Talking isn't. Know the difference cause conversations needs to have respect on both sides to be effective.
True African Parents: You’ve chosen to see your ancestors
Yep
True Portuguese Parents: I will send you to Jesus
“I GIVE U LIFE , I TAKE AWAY” 💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Juniper Yamoto on gawd😅😅
My parents would give me up on the streets, worse
I told my brother that our mom could have given us life but, she can also take it away... he ran off crying 🤣
That is absolutely accurate
The “HAIYAH” when beating is just a piece of art😂
The way you still had the guts to say " get out of my room " lmao even beating isnt enough my mom wouldn't have kicked me out of the house
If I say something like that they will kick me out of the house. 😂
@@vaishnaja same
My mom would have literally killed me💀
@@vaishnaja nah they will call the entire extended family to whoop me
My uncle has a donkey weep my mother can ask my uncle to give to her and whoop me with it
"Are you going to steal again?"
"No!"
"How dare you lie to your mom?"
HAHAHA 😂😂😂 THIS IS SO FUNNY
If that's you in the pic, you're gorgeous af
@@AR777bomb ikr so pretty
There's no correct answer haha. You're getting beat 1 way or another
but it’s true 😭
“hiyaaaaaa” is so funny tho
😀
“dinner is downstairs”
*STOOOPPPPP THATS SUCH AN ACCURATE ASIAN MOVE LMAOOO*
true my bro and my dad fighted then he litterly hit my bro with a bat he said come eat dinner OMG I can't forget he got beaten up by a bat I'm the loved child so they cool 😎 with me and my bro moved out everything cool cool now 😌
@@simply_bisma-quitted2547 What if you're gonna be the next family scapegoat or something?
@@simply_bisma-quitted2547 lmaoooo
@@mariuscovic4797 PLS THE WAY I IMAGINED THIS OMG
@@simply_bisma-quitted2547 well goddamn omg, hope you're okay
Why does his mom has such a deep voice 😂😂💀
Ex male
She's Barbra
Because he used that particular skit from Steven He youtube channel
1:11 is funny
I'm asian, and when I was a kid and whenever my mom would give me an ass whooping, she literally cycles through her entire arsenal like she's playing GTA or something. Her weapon for intimidation is a broom stick or a belt. For high speed chases, her favorite weapon are flipflops, it's so fucking versatile that you can use it as a melee weapon or be a fucking homing missile when chasing someone. And lastly, for guaranteed critical hit and 200% critical damage, she either uses clothe hangers or a rubber cooking utensil (mostly ladle and spatula). That shit stings so hard that you can hear your nerves submitting their retirement papers.
You can hear your nerves submitting their retirement papers 😭
@@wistfuloptimist1238 i know 😭
Hell. This was living hell. My mom always takes out the spatula. Oh god. I'm not even gonna talk about it. She looks like she'll kill me any minute.
Clothes hangers made out of metal wire bent into deadly shapes
😭😭😭 how are u even alive man
As a black person, this is super relatable, LOL. Black mom would have said "I brought you into this world and I'll take your @$$ out!" And when he said "I won't do it again!", Mom would have said "Oh I KNOW you won't. You gone learn today!" LOL
"Oh I KNOW you won't. You gone learn today!" portuguese (white, black, asian/indian/gipsy descend) mothers too 😆
As we come into the room with a belt.
Facts
latino moms would do the same lolz
I think it's not cultural, but just an universal fact that mothers say this to their kids 😂 (I'm Italian and my mother told us this so many times!)
the nicknames "failure" and "useless" are so accurate. AND THE CRYING TOO. I SWEAR THE AMOUNT OF TIMES I'VE CRIED LIKE THAT-
ok nobody cares
@@gmodiscool14 you know you don't have to respond right?
@@wotor5047 but i can
@Ryan McCreedy ok nobody cares, ryan
@@gmodiscool14 I do.
"Dinner is downstairs"
So relatable. You literally have to go but you also don't want to go. Most awkward dinners where your alert the whole time and scared to your bone.
As an Indian lord the way i relate to this, likeee I cannot even. I still remember the first time i saw some white drama and saw children calling their parents by their name i was so shocked cause i know i could neverrrr like never address to my parents with their name. Its the most disrespectful thing to do in a Hindu/Brown household 💀
I feel ya- indian too 💀💀
Yaa. Not Hindu, regardless of religion in any Indian or Brown family its relatable, you can't call your parents even your elder siblings you can't call by name (nowadays some call their elder siblings by name but it's not acceptable in all families)
Same in Pakistan 😂
@@Aditi-mb3qm yea I agree with you
Black parents will do the same 💀💀💀
In Asian household, calling the older family members by their name is considered very disrespectful. One time I called my elder sister by her name... it didn't end well. I never did that again after that. I was shook to the core when I found out that some Americans actually call their mom by their name, if i did that I would've been whooped by my entire family 💀
Omfg same! Growing up I ALWAYS had to use honorifics when addressing older family members, if I dared call my PARENTS by their first names I would not be here to type this comment.
Why is it bad to call your older sister by her name?
(Maybe I don’t understand don’t come for me I’m not Asian)
But in America you can still be beat or you’ll get in trouble if you call your mom by her name
Okay thanks for giving me insight on that. Thank you now I understand
@@LovelyCuteBunnies123 bcuz u r supposed to call her 'big sister', not her name. But some asians call their older siblings by name(or nickname) too, especially if the age gap is small. I will never do it tho. It feels a bit rude. We only call ppl same age or younger by their names.
@@LovelyCuteBunnies123
In my culture respect is a big deal, I was taught from a young age to use honorific when speaking to older family members and to always be respectful.
But now that we are older me and my sister are really close, so we only
Do all the respectful stuff when we're around our parents😂
@@LovelyCuteBunnies123 Because in Asia we respect our elders more than you guys do 🤷.
Mexican moms: Finally, I see a worthy opponent
Filipinos moms are a mix of Asian and Mexican lol
Indian moms are a mix of Asian, Mexican and Black lol
@@sir6379 LMAO. That’s the worse.
@@kawali6394 I stand corrected.
The whole Latam can relate XD
Even as an Asian, I didn't get spanked by my mother. I was scolded for not being on top of my class or not winning in competitions but I wasn't spanked. She grew up in an abusive household that she didn't really like the idea of physically hurting her children. Her love language wasn't "come eat dinner" but "here's some money, go buy whatever you want".
Maybe you are a well behave child. They don't spank or scold if you are well behave.
@@rosea1021 I wasn't a perfectly well-behaved trophy child. I burned rice, I didn't wash the dishes, I punched some boys, I left my Tupperware, I lost many umbrellas, I talked back, I accidentally killed our pet eagle, I lost so many of her things, but she never spanked me. My brother was worse but she never spanked him. She even fought for my 4th grade classmate who came to school all bruised because her aunt spanked her severely. She just didn't believe that spanking will do kids good and I agree. The cycle of aggression should really stop. We don't spank misbehaving adults, why do we spank not fully-developed humans?
@@ZeeTaylor25 wait lets circle back to the pet eagle lol
@@rosea1021 not really, (not asian but arab), i did my absolute best to be well behaved growing up to the point teachers took me as a good example and no matter what i did, it was always yelling , screaming , demotivation and toxicity, last straw that broke the camel’s back was almost a year ago i just cut ties off.
@@ZeeTaylor25 left tupperware thats a no no
"i ask you one last time are you going to steal again?"
"no no"
"really?"
"yes"
"HOW DARE YOU LIE TO YOUR MOTHER"
annnd this is fucking accurate
Yup, even if it is true they think your still lying 😞
😭
okay but this is so true wtf
@@urrmaad9575 2:00
Yes
What I learned growing up in an Asian household:
You ain’t shit neither can you give a point until you’ve financially proven your worth, they don’t care what career path you choose as long as you can rack in money legally, they’re gonna back off...
This is the whole truth and the only truth
Yeah man, Unless you rack up *your own* money, They'll always be there for you
@@gaminf6713 yep which is why they prefer you take engineering or medical courses as it guarantees you to get a job that racks in big money, but overall they really don’t give a fuck what course it is, they’re just concerned about other courses if it really brings in big money like as promised
@@DEEZ_N4T yeah i want i want to take computer science course and my father doesn't care as long as i make money lol
TRUTH, one of the reason why i want to take science but my parents doesn't alow it because they know im too stupid for that lmao and they always recommend being a teacher because its the easiest job and easiest way to get money (and the most respectful job ever lol)
He presented all the whooping things in the exact order 😆:
1. Fly swatter
2. Metal spoon
3. Belt
4. Wood spoon
5. Stick
6. Fly swatter again
And again
One more thing!!
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.
.
The chancla!
@@MizukiHoshizora yesss!
He is missing the back scratcher lol
The mom forgot the broomstick
My Mom beats me with a Belt,Broomstick,slippers,or hanger,she doesn't stop beating me when the hanger is not broken yet
And then there's always the "THIS IS MY HOUSEHOLD HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT TO ME,YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING ALL DAY. YOU SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT I'M FEEDING YOU AND PUTTING A ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD WHILE OTHER KIDS OUT THERE HAVE NOTHING TO EAT,LOOK AT YOUR COUSIN SHE'S NOT A FAILURE LIKE YOU SHE SO SMART AND PRETTY WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE HER"
The Korean mom was so mad that she changed her language
Telling the child to come eat even after punishing him is so accurate
@Kaleb Kurian oh that happened to me last time
After she’s done she just casually say dinner is downstairs and act like nothing happened lol
that's asian parent lol
Bwahahahahhahahahaa... Thats so trueeee....
I thought that was only me tbh
And it doesn't stop there... I'm not Asian but I feel like Balkan parents be relaed to Asian parents because after they beat you (emotionally abuse me in my case) you just eat like nothing happened and are forced to be nice to each other in 5 minutes like nothing ever happened
“Why Asians can’t be school shooters”
Seung-Hui Cho: *sad noises*
Does no one remember this incident? SMH
@@LivewireT Guess so
I was gonna say, I distinctly remember that because I was like fuck dude do I even want to go to University now? Even at that point mass shootings were relatively common
Don't forget Elliot Rodger
It got something with the Western thing. People wont just get a gun in Asia unless youre actually have connections with criminals
"Asians can't be school shooters"
*Virginia tech shooter*:
"Hold my chopsticks."
“He can’t kill his classmates if I kill him first.”
-Any Asian Parent
Omfg lmao
Seung hui cho's parents didn't follow that law
You can ki** all the people you want after you become a doctor😁
“Dinner is downstairs”
Noooo you just unlocked a hidden memory of mine 😂
And tears falling down on your face while eating and you're supposed to finish everything on your plate. Takes me back 😂
Sameeee
As a Filipino, after a good, long and reasonable spanking and belting, my mom would then say "kaon na didto", means "dinner/lunch is ready".
Truly an unforgettable hidden memory that's been etched onto my soul.
Glady she is the most responsible mother by far I've ever known.
Can relate. Me after get beaten with rattan wood and sandals, my mother would invite me to the dinner while I am still crying.
Come to the table with tears. She will yelled "stop crying! Are you gonna use your tears as salt instead?"
Ahh, I've had the same exact experience before. With my mother having that sharp look at me while I'm sobbing with tears running down my face as I slowly eat the food prepared flavored with some salty tears. If you have siblings, it kinda becomes a funny memory as you see them laughing at you at the dinner table.
This isn't a "white vs non-white" thing, it's "the western anglosphere vs normal fucking world". I'm a Slav and I can relate to the Asian family here.
yeah im from russia and was thinking the same thing
Yea European white parents are pretty disciplinary and strict
@@H0SANNA European is a pretty broad term from see British and Irish families have a lot of similarities to the American ones still
No, is a USA thing, South América get discipline with the chancla aswell.
Mexicans do this as well, maybe all latinamerica does it so yeah its a USA thing
That back-turned swatting is toooooo hysterical!! This is my much-needed laugh for today. I am African American, and my mom was Zorro with a switch - able to carve her initials into an arm, leg or butt in 1.3 seconds.
My mom could turn anything into a PTSD-inducing weapon, even a freaking stack of paper was scary af in her hands
relatable
Relatable +2
Papercuts
Jokes aside if you fold paper it hurts like a whip.
Sometimes I wonder how is it even possible to have mothers in anime that people simp over...
Us south asians can relate to this. I got into this massive stupid ass fight with another dude. Got home, dad beat me as well. Never I got into any fights again.
But did you win?
@@L3H11 No the bell rang. we both had to go back to class.
@@L3H11 that's an important question. but either way you still get beat up.
Lol it’s like how my dad was when he went to school he’d get into fights either for himself or his younger siblings and beat the shit out of them then the kids would tell my dads parents and my dad got beat then my dad beat those kids again for snitching and it was just a cycle lol
@@MALITH666 I would have ten slippers on my face and called a failure if I lost
This man is so funny I love his content he deserves more subs tbh
His main channel has a lot of subs 😄
@@mushroomgaming7243 he doesn't get any revenue from that channel and his family and everyone's telling him to stop making content and get a serious job... Please support him on patreon guys if you can
💯💯💯💯
Well he started the channel a month ago. So he has 16k in a month. Considering that, I'd say he's doing well.
@@mushroomgaming7243 what's his main channel name?
"Why Asians can't be school shooters.......usually)
😭😭😭
I'm Korean and I grew up getting my ass beat by my dad. I had suicidal thoughts but never homicidal ones. Then when I became an adult and lived on my own, I got bullied at work so I started having homicidal thoughts. My jobs were hostile manual labor type shit and they worked us like crazy for shit pay. Add drinking and isolation to all that, and I was ready to die and take as many people with me as I could. Luckily, I didn't have any guns at the time. I went to therapy, quit drinking and now my mental health is a lot better. It's still hard sometimes without a supportive family or financial security, but I've been lucky to find my people and learn a lot to help me control my anger. I was lucky I didn't get into fights and go to jail/prison like many of the people around me, but at the same time I took revenge on people by getting them fired and making them suffer in other ways. It was toxic and made me want to kill myself even more.
I think the thing is a lot of it comes down to the individualism of White US Americans and the collectivism of East-Asian people. Living in the US makes a lot of us individualistic but a lot of immigrants come from collectivistic cultures so instead of blaming society we're more likely to blame ourselves first.
Of course, without political knowledge, people will lash out at their communities instead of trying to change society in more productive ways. The US indoctrinates kids into believing that all of our successes and failures are directly caused by ourselves. The reality is that we do not live in a meritocracy, so most people will fail constantly without realizing the system is broken.
Nice english
I hope you do get better soon yk what Ik as a young person with a sht family is that there are better world and people out of our perspective and we just have to try our best to look into those and ignore these bad things even if we cant completely ignore
So sorry for you to experienced that in your childhood, it´s horrible :(
God bless you
I’m glad you were able to improve your situation and focus on your mental health. I completely agree with the difference in cultures between the West and the East, and how as a result it’s the next generation of Asian Americans (us) who have to deal with the struggles of having space to form our own identities vs fulfilling parental expectations out of the guilt and gratitude we’re obligated to feel for all the “sacrifices” they made for us. The difference in perspectives and expectations on personal freedom and lifestyle make communication with our parents difficult, especially if they refuse to see from your perspective, hence why I stopped bothering long ago to talk openly about my feelings with my parents. It also makes it hard to connect to my American peers as they don’t face the same problems, and this inability to talk about it becomes very personally isolating as well.
The best thing about this is that no one can label it as a "racist stereotype" because an Asian made it💀
I mean Yeah, why would anyone who isn't Asian make this joke, it would be out of place and cringe at best
@@OriginalJohnnyCage Africans or Latin Americans could also make the same joke
@@josh_final Yeah I mean about their own experience, they can't joke about Asian parents when they aren't Asian
And because it’s literally true.
Source: me
@@OriginalJohnnyCage why not
Asian child: “get out of my room”
Parent: “I own this house, so this is my room. You telling me to get out?!”
As a white person raised by a domineering, authoritarian mother, this is crazy accurate for me too.
omg right I’m asian and heard this so many times as a child
Mexican parent: this is MY house and everything in it is MINE. When you get a job, pay your own mortgage and bills on your own, you can tell whoever you want to get out.
Love the similarities.😂
I'm not even asian, I'm romanian (I'm so into Chinese culture though, I almost feel as if I had a past life there or something)... but I always hear this even if the only thing I say is "my room"
Mother: Okay how about I kick you put of the house?! You can go live outside and pick up trash and eat it for the rest of your life as a living! And sell It for money. Or better yet I'll adopt a poor child and make him my son while you go outside being filthy and picking up trash! While he would be great full for having a house and food on the table.
I’m Arab North African and I remember once my mom picking me up after school and I was crying and annoying her so much by whatever nonsense I was saying and she deadass pulled over, got out, opened the backseat door and I got my ass beat as cars are speeding by😭💀
"That's it I'm gonna cut ur allowance for a week! "
My parents: *gets out flip flop*
@Spicy Orange Agreed
@Spicy Orange very true
If I’m lucky,I get the 1 dollar change
@Spicy Orange I have white parents and I don’t get an allowance either some people have it and some people don’t I guess
@Spicy Orange You guys can live?
It’s so accurate when you’re crying at the end. Then your mother says: “What are you crying about? You have nothing to cry about you should be feeling guilty” or something else
White person raised by a psycho mom, here! Felt that one on a spiritual level. She used to get angrier when I cried and tell me to go to my room because she didn't want to look at it, then bang on my door and demand to know why I was still crying later.
Idk I'm Asian but my mom isn't strict, just flexing 😗
@@cz2854 gosh im sorry u had to go through that. How are you now?
@@cz2854 same. If i dont cry, she yells stuff like "YOU DONT EVEN CARE! YOURE NOT EVEN ASHAMED A LITTLE A BIT!" but if i DO cry, she yells stuff like "DONT YOU CRY! SHUT UP! STOP CRYING!" and she gets angrier if i cant stop crying. I dont fucking understand her
@@ilchu8167 same, I know I did wrong that’s why I’m crying
the "i dont believe you, you liar" part is so accurate lol
@Aurum Kings YEEEESSSSS EXACTLY!!AND THEN KEEP HITTING YOU LOL
Bruh that's my brother's reaction-
My family is Albanian and this Asian mom was just like ours - except she beat us with the long wooden stick that’s used to roll out phyllo dough for burek! I’m 54 now and still wouldn’t dare disrespect her. She raised us while working 3 jobs, hardly sleeping, making us hot dinners, fresh baked bread, singing songs, dancing with us, and never complaining. Te dua Nene ime!♥️
"Are you going to steal again?"
"No😭"
"You liar I don't believe you!"
*starts to hit with every household weapon
when stolen comment be like
HAYAA
:seconds later: every asian mom in the world:
yes ma'am what do you need
MY SON GOT B+ ON MATH IN HARVARD WITHOUT ME LETTING HIM TO ANY KIND OF HOME SCHOOL OR SCHOOL
HYAAAA THE WAR HAS BEGUN
:THAT ONE ASIAN MOM: DOES EVERYONE KNOW WHAT B STANDS FOR
:EVERY OTHER MOM:B STANDS FOR BROOM STICK
:THAT ONE ASIAN MOM: HAYAAA LET THE BROOM STICK KIIIIIILL HIM THATS WHY WE NEED DA ABORTION
Istg this is so true espeacially the asian version, and after that argument with your mom or dad and you go back to your room and bang the door while closing it, you know the devil's waiting for you outside
Banging the door is like inviting them to a fight.
@@vaishnaja OMG YES
I still can remember when I did this. My mother stormed in right into my room and gave me the death glare and prepared herself to beat me up (I was 8 )😂😂
@@homeiraazweem9295 though my parents never used to beat me and my siblings, glares and words were more than enough for us. Those glaresand silence still frighten me. And I'm 25😂
@@homeiraazweem9295 oh woah you got lucky with the death glare, my mom gave me another slap in the face
"I don't speak the failure" 😂
The black version: I put you in this world, I can take you out.
As an asian I agree don’t talk back, also make sure the rice is cooked before parents get home....
Ohhhhh this gave me traumatic memories when I once prepared the rice and everything but forgot to set the rice cooker to cook. Found out just as we were about to have dinner...
As a Hispanic my mom wouldn't let me near the kitchen when she's cookinh
@@givemeyoureyes7 OOF
RIP
So true 😂 Once I had to practice this great big lie about the electricity going off because the rice was still cooking when they got home 🤡
The shown incidents are based on true life stories of each and every child born and brought up in an Asian Family👍💥💯
SAME NAME
my mom isn't even asian and treated me like this
@@dkchariot2716 my mom is white and she treats me like this as well
@@nunofthem same lol
@dgdg fsf atleast get A in math cuz thats rlly important for middle and highschool
I'm not Asian , I'm black but that is exactly what my mom says
" I gave you life I can take it back" he is so relatable.
I'm white. Can't tell you how many time I heard my mother say, "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it." Yeah, that brought back some memories roflmao.
I’m also black and grew up in an Asian neighborhood so this was relatable on a lot of levels.
As Jamaican child, I can relate to the report card part 💀
As Jamaican child, I can relate to the report card part 💀
My mom would say, “I brought you into this world and by God I can take you out!”
Damn this is funny but also really sad. As a South Asian I thankfully have never been hit, not even once and I never caused any problems either. I wonder why parents feel the need to physically discipline children. For me my moms disappointment or sadness and her being quiet was like a death sentence.
Everything she went through for my and my siblings sake I could never ever do anything to hurt her or make her sad.
Oh she did punish you too... emotional blackmail.. ahahahah! Once my grades are not so good. My mom would not hit me, but be sad and disappointed, and not talk to me. It felt like, I am the worst human being in the world... yep! I understand you.
@@cynthiaponce2133 I mean yeah you still have to discipline the children somehow 😭
And okay we maybe biased but like doesnt emotional black mail hurt a lot too? (I want to say its more agonizing than a beating but its not fair for me to say qwq)
Id rather have her yell at me n tell me to get off my damn phone than be quite n not talk
The worst was when she wouldnt talk to me except for "food is on the table, go eat." 😭😭😭
Phisically discipline is considered abusive, especially in western, i think... But you know, i kinda see the point parents give their children the beating to discipline them in this case, the child while being uderage is doing some illegal act, if that's how the act when they're child, then what's will they gonna do when they're reaching adulthood? They need to learn the weight of their ignorant behavior, and the consequences and effect of their act to themselves, their family and other, their moral, future, and their overall environments. Sometimes you need to implant the lesson into their body, especially if they're so stubborn that the discussion won't do it and they won't reflect on their self. At least in this, the child learn the fear of messing up their already wrong doing and what the consequences it's bring afterwards, doing illegal act is just uncool nor quirky lol
@@inglesporu-lisboa1715 Ikr. Labeling "disciplining" as abuse is such a joke when they both are worlds apart when we go for the literal meanings.
Though, of course, abusive parents exist, but genuinely in most cases they would be dealt with by people around, We don't live in a barbaric society anymore after all.
Like, Most people in the comments want their parents to be the 'perfect' no, robotic if any, and seem to wish their parents should let it slide no matter what they do, and this is why we kids who can't differentiate a wrong from a right.
@@inglesporu-lisboa1715 Thing is, it doesn't work. And it's not in Western specifically. Spanking is legal in the USA, it's not legal in some European countries. There are also plenty of non-western countries that came to the same conclusion. Scientifically speaking it lowers IQ and increases aggression.
And more to the point, it also just doesn't work. The kid doesn't learn or understand what they did wrong, they only know that it made the parent/caretaker made enough to want to inflict harm. Most people don't think what they did was wrong or they wouldn't of done it.
A child should want to not make their parents sad or scared for them. If that's not motivation enough, then the relationship is already kind of rocky.
Kids who are beaten learn that their parents will physically harm them if they are displeased and in response they either, become more aggressive, learn to hide it better or even sometimes lash out or, they shut down, become obedient and later in life struggle to say no.
Respect brought about by fear isn't respect, it's just fear.
Humans also don't work with punishment. We work with redirection and positive reinforcement. When someone does something shitty, generally they don't think that what they are doing is shitty or at the very least, they believe it's justified. This is part of what perpetuates abuse. We all think we're doing the right thing ultimately.
When I stole when I was younger, I grew up poor and felt frustrated because I didn't choose to be poor. I had a talk with my parent. Beyond regular punishment, scare tactics of saying others get their hands cut off for that etc, there was also an ask of if I felt bad. My answer was no, because I only stole from stores, big ones, where I had the knowledge that they were definitely covered financially and no one really lost out. I stopped stealing because of risk of getting caught.
It wasn't until I was an adult that my own partner actually explained to me why stealing isn't a good idea. Not because of some intrinsic moral fiber, but because of social code. Because if I think this way, others think this way and that it pushes the envelope in an non-useful way. Society is built on a lot of moral codes like that, unspoken agreements that keep it functioning. I'd stopped for fear of getting caught, but now I actually understand why it's not helpful to steal.
I was feeling like garbage but this video managed to make me laugh and feel better.
@Juniper Yamoto Thank you, I really appreciate it :)
Take care. When it feels tough, try to find reasons to smile. Doesn't need to be grand. A cup of coffee in the morning,, sun shining,, wind blowing.. reading a book looking at the sky and smiling.. waiting for the moon to visit and Smile at us.. The universe is always Smiling and gives good vibes and takes care of everyone in it.. if we look closely we can feel it.. smile without any reason too just because you are existing. In this beautiful world as a beautiful person. Isn't it amazing! Try to find your healing!
And ofcourse look at beautiful Taehyungie and smile.. I am an Army too.. 💜
@@rabahkhatoon609 I will try, thanks a lot :)
@@rabahkhatoon609 Yeah lmao hello fellow Army!
I'm full blooded Korean born and raised in Los Angeles. My parents immigrated from Seoul. THIS is my childhood 100%! Gave me flashbacks and chills! 🤣😭
can we also talk about the situation when mom says "if you don't stop crying, i will beat you more" then we have to pretend that we are not crying with teary eyes😂😂🙂
Those emojis though
I can see the dead inside in the last one lol
That sounds so painful oof :(
My mom would actually beat me if I cried when she was yelling at me now I don’t cry in front of anyone anymore
That's low income low social status mindset. That's all.
“Quit crying before I give you a reason to cry”
The Virginia Tech shooting was a spree shooting that occurred on April 16, 2007, comprising two attacks on the campus of the Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, Virginia, United States. Seung-Hui Cho, an undergraduate student at the university and a U.S. resident who was from South Korea, killed 32 people and wounded 17 others with two semi-automatic pistols. Six others were injured jumping out of windows to escape Cho.
The end when they just act like they didn't hurt the shit out of you is so accurate 🙂
"Domestic abuse is good" - Comment section
@@thegrandnil764 yes it is what you gonna do about it barbra
@@thegrandnil764 ey sh*t, at least I didn't end up as an evil preson like my Pa. ₹_₹ One thing for sure is that I would have whooped my younger self too as I so had serious issues when I was a kid and a teen. Glad I was able to change after some disciplining.
@@thegrandnil764 You See it as Domestic Abuse.?
@@mukti5896 It falls under child abuse as defined by the world health organization
2:08 IM SCREAMING I THOUGHT HIS CRYING WAS A PHONE VIBRATING
Seeing josh with a hair band is iconic ✨
😂😂😂
Bro you forget the feathers duster with rattan handle.
That ratan thwack on your skin sting for hours man.
Virginia Tech Survivors: “Man have I got a story for you.”
Right them and Isla Vista.
Incels too*
I was going to say
I was looking for a comment like this 😬
I actually have quite a carefree life as an Asian. My family teaches me that if you care about your responsibility than you will naturally take action to fulfill it. I understand that going out to work to a lot of hard work so I would naturally make my school grades better. Gaming is a big part of my life, but once I have too much time game, I would find that even a fun game will turn to be boring and finally search for other things to do like going out for a walk, jog or even hang out with friends. As a child I think that getting good grades is a responsibility for me to fulfill to repay my parents after my parents retired from work even though parents don't ask for anything in return because they hope for the well being for their child. I learnt that from my parents even though they don't tell me 'I love you' but iinstead from their actions I felt their love just like 'dinner is downstairs', they still care.
Never have I ever related to something more than this
They love you, and care for your life's future
And they taught us to learn from our mistakes, that's how all parents should be
Can your family adopt me :’)
Only a small percentage of people can read this
And I’m not one
:(
-Diomin
You're on your way to be a s schooter.
"Asians can't be school shooters"
Virginia Tech shooter wants to know your location.
@dezessete exceptional in that he committed the worst school shooting in US history
@dezessete Not when you consider population count.
There was that Virginia Tech shooting in 2007, but an exception doesn’t make the rule.
What?
I lived in America as well and what I find shocking is how sensitive your neighborhood is. Especially the sound, etc. They'll easily complain. Some even calls the cops for simple reasons. In our country, you'll hear noisy kids everywhere, old men drinking sake around the street, some women playing cards in a small stool, etc. It's so lively here Even when during the pandemic, The geezers here uses an empty can and a string to communicate to each neighborhood as if technology doesn't exist 😂
And if there ever is a conflict, there's no such thing as "call the cops" people living in the neighborhood will do the work to calm both parties till everything's back to normal.
And what I'm shocked the most is how beautiful the house/how big the lot is in America despite being the cheapest. In our country, it'll be so small and looks ugly as hell.
And in America, it's normal for them to throw leftover foods and many are picky eaters. In our place, of you do that you'll get beaten half death by your mom's broom
Pretty much almost everything are beautiful In America except racism, lack of communication in the neighborhood, and the student loans.
In America, houses are fences apart. Here, houses are literally walls apart 😂
would that make it an apartment if they are walls apart or am i reading it wrong?
We modern Americans are pretty spoiled.
Just the other day I was talking to my Dad about my upcoming trip to Poland and I had to explain to him why it isn’t a third-world country. Additionally, I had to clarify that while the populations of many Arab nations live very traditional lives they aren’t “…fourth or fifth world…”
Yes american neighborhoods complain about the slightest things ever!! 😭 There's an app here called the neighborhood app, where you can communicate with your neighbors online. I always see people complaining about the littlest things ever, "did anyone hear that music at night??" "Did anyone see that guy walking down the street? He looked suspicious" " Did anyone else hear that?" Its so annoying 🙃
@@xflaminx4633 nope. Not an apartment. Once you visit Philippines and many other south east asian countries, you'll know what I mean. People literally build houses close to each other especially in the capital city of Manila, Philippines. 70% of the houses around the poor/squatters area doesn't even have a paint. It's raw cement most of the time. And pretty much 80% of the whole city is underdeveloped.
@@vubzs lmao I also find it weird how people always has their camera on literally everywhere and Even films you in subway for no apparent reason. Record here, record there, record everywhere. Almost as if they can predict any scenarios that's going to happen then post it in social media.
For the non Asians, this is surprisingly accurate. Those hits be HARD! When I was young, I got whipped so hard that the stick shattered. I still got the chills thinking about it.
Oh!We were starting to be taught taekwondo in school,and the teacher used a whistle as a whip-The first lesson was balancing,and if you wobbled,you were whipped with the whistle,on your butt.Most of us got hit.But on the second lesson,my classmate got hit so hard he broke the whistle-
-This is from Nepal btw if you think this is abuse(Asian country)
Lol, there was a time in kindergarten when I wouldn't eat my breakfast and my mom was trying to make me eat. But then she took out a wooden stick specially meant for beating, so I quietly. Cause those hits were hard, like there was a time I didn't eat medicine and my dad just went rampage and man, I needed more medicine than those by the doctor.
@@user-mc6vw3os3y Abuse is legal in pretty much all countries in Asia so a handful of households do it to their children
wrong is wrong no matter what the country is. in some countries it is legal to stone people. doesnt mean it is right
@selenite. If you are hurt or threatened by your parents then that’s domestic abuse, bae, race has nothing to do with it. Are you okay?
I dated a white boy once in high school and witnessed him backtalk his mom and was APPALLED I looked at her like you gonna let this fool speak to you like that?!
Well lol
fr idk how some people are so chill or even pushing back against their parents, like how tf r u still living
You probably still date white boys lol
I would've slapped him myself if she wasn't gonna do it.
@@kawaiiamarii2240 Haha
This is so accurate even for African households. I always tell people that it wasn't in any way abuse. That's how my parents taught me accountability for the things I did and it worked.
Should've added a part where the Mom goes "Did you glare at me?!" and then, the son says "No!!", and then, she replies "How dare you talk back to me?!"
That sounds so unfair.
@@thegrandnil764 No, this is extremely accurate and common. it happened to me and my sister too(I'm asian)
Hahaha that is so true! No lies there
@@thegrandnil764 I only ever had that incident with my grand aunt. It sucks, but at least I get some pocket money from her. Hehe.
01:21 Seriously... that's true... i give you life, i can take it away.
Then dinner is ready.🙂
Video title: Why Asians can’t be school shooters?
Cho Seung-Hui: HOLD MY SOJU!
The beating up part, I felt it... on my face
I love how he lowers his voice to the lowest octave it can go when he's acting out the Korean mom cuz it do be feeling like some adults crawled out of the depths of hell when you're a kid
I DiDN”T EVEN REALIZE THEY WERE SWITCHING TOOLS UNTIL THE RICE SCOOP CAME OUT
As Taiwanese, it’s a hundred percent accurate except the stealing part.
right lmao you don't even have to do anything bad to get this response, if I got caught stealing something I'm fucking DEAD my guy
For anyone saying this exaggerated: You never expierinced pain in your life.
As an Indian it's just soooooo relatable!!😅
You can't call your Parents by name.
After getting that if you slam the door you get one more round💀
As he insulted his mom I felt rising internal fear for what was about to happen lol
Lmao the "dinner is downstairs" is so truee! 😭 Like they would have just did this then they will cook your favourite meal that's like saying "sorry" for asian parents
I was raised by a German mom and got beaten by everything that was shown in this skit. I laughed so hard because I could relate 🤣.
it’s interesting how folks seem to forget about Virginia Tech. it was a HUGE talking point in the mid 2000s but it seems like it’s not as brought up anymore when discussing school shootings.
yeah seriously. i get this is a meme video and all but…
Literally the deadliest US school shooting in history.
@@rendexvousy I feel it’s a victim of timing. yeah, FB, Twitter and MySpace existed, but weren’t anything near the cultural and digital phenomenon as we know social media now. real time coverage online has def aided in how much we know of these shootings and it’s shelf-life on our collective conscious. I’d say Columbine has prevailed bc it was the “first” of its kind in the modern era + all the documented information surrounding the shooters. That entire 18 months leading up to it plays out like a disturbing movie that 20 + yrs later we still can’t get enough of . in a way, Eric and Dylan got exactly what they wanted.
@@fvnaticbychoice makes sense. the tech shooting happened both too late and too early to really stick out in the public consciousness, i guess. really unfortunate
@@lane250lk Not even that. It was, by far, the worst school shooting done by a single person throughout history. Such a shame that this topic gets overlooked.
the B+ beating at the end was iconic asf
they “heiyæh” thing is gorgeous, mans a good singer
In fact the biggest school shooting to date was perpetrated by a Korean student Seung-Hui Cho. The Virginia Tech Massacre.
I was looking to see who knew about this. I just take this vid as him being too young or just not looking at the news.
Found the comment I was looking for lol
His mom probably called him a success one time and spoiled him permanently!
"I give you life, I can take you life" logic is so strong in the asian household. As long as you couldn't make your own living yet, you better behave. My mother never really beat me but she does make sure I understand that I live in *her* house.
As a mother should.
Low social and economical status mindset.
I lived in China and not only chinese kids live with parents until they get married but parents also buy them a house as wedding gift.
@@Sarablueunicorn that Pampered as Fack. And i dont recall you can Access UA-cam From China.
It's so that you don't make idiotic and dumb choices and also don't become Homeless and poor
@@mukti5896 The house as a wedding gift is more or less a rich people thing I think but living with your parents until you get married is not pampered as fuck at all. Its a cultural thing in most Asian countries that I personally know, the children living with their parents are usually the ones who start paying for everything around the house and take care of their parents as soon as they start earning because its their responsibility to do so, at least where I am from they do that.
I hate it when people generalise but this killed me, it's so fucking accurate
I used to get beaten a lot by my parents and they would say some similar things but the beating really fucked me up I swear
I mean, look who shot up Virginia Tech.
@@Un1234l America's citizens?
@@yazyaz2969
Like I said, look up who shot up Virginia Tech.
Lmao in other words "I hate when people show me the truth ugh"
“Dinner is downstairs” in the man-voice while the son sobs😂💀
When I was in my early 20s I never understood why my Asian friends feared their parents that lived hours away, and now I know lol.
How come the dialogues are so accurate. I mean, parents always say that we are failures but whenever they see another kids parents, they gonna brag about us like anything. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
"What was that?" "I don't speak failure."
THAT WAS ACCURATE AS HECK-
Growing up in this way I can relate, however this didn't stop Seung-Hui Cho who came to study in the U.S. from South Korea - he ended up murdering 32 people and wounding 17 others in what was known as the Virginia Tech shooting.
1:04 you know they love you when they give you a chance to make up for your mistake 🥺♥️
Bruh I thought the first "Get out of my room" Was a first class ticket to a good beating to the point where your soul would sign retirement papers from your body XD.
Real mercy moment wasted right there...