I'm not my sister's puppet! [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.03.04]
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Hello Counselor EP. 402
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The youngest is too nice. I hope she will find something that she likes! Fighting ✊
She cares about other people too much which is good and bad in the same time.. 😣. Good luck pretty little sister 🖤
I wish I was that nice 👍😫😫😫😫
Have to admit that they are beautiful sibling 😂
Yeah that is why both participate in beauty pageant from young age but i really want them to find a perfect career for themselves specially younger one she has so much depression and later they can try for acting, modeling too
BubbleTea 94 yep I also admit they are reallyyyyy beautiful sibling
@@host2407 Wow😥
Agree
@ミlia_berryミikr
who's care if she good looking or not. She shouldn't be controlling her sister like that. I have a little sister myself, but I never trying to control her life like this. This is so wrong!!!!!
My parents tell me to join singing competitions since I was good at singing since I was 3yr.old.But I told them I don't want to join it.Though they accepted it💗But it's still wrong to force someone else to do something for them.It's like you're the boss and someone else is the slave.
What do you mean, people are just saying that the two sisters are pretty... It has nothing to do with attitude .
but at the same time the other sister has a wick personality, and that what happens when you put two people at totally different spectrums. even if another person is at fault, you should still learn to hold your ground, if its not her sister, then it could be someone else. imagine if she had a controlling boyfriend, a girl like that wouldnt get out easily
100% agree
Your sister is lucky. unlike my big sis she controls alot especially that mom is not here anymore and I'm having a hard time 😪
Irrelevant to the story but they are both so gorgeous! OMG
Made in Busan hi my fellow jikook god
@@ohjiggly2585 lmaoo
OMG I LOVE U
Woow Why am i happy to see your comment ..
Made in Busan ikr!!
"are you watching Sky Castle?,that's how yeongjae's life was ruined" hahahahaha
The best comment ever
Tell me how you know thats my real name (except the min)
@@victoriabarron4994 😲😲😲😲😂😂😂😂
People here have commented that at least her sister care about her. Well my mum care about me but she's the greatest control freak ever. I'm 28 and still have to tell her if I want to go out or I need to ask for her permission to travel. She also decided my career path and now my work is miserable even though around people say i'm lucky to be an engineer but i hate it so much. So I relate if people would say to the young sister "well she looks pretty and she won 1st place why is she complaining". She doesn't want to do it, that's what matters.
My mum also would say hurtful remarks about my acne or weight and then later she says "I love you" ??? And if I say my opinion on something she guilt trip me and say I'm rude. That's manipulative behavior.
I hope there's a way you can escape soon - you've only got one life, you need to start living it for yourself! I know it's more difficult than a lot of people think when it comes to emotional manipulation and parents, but honestly, it'll be for your own happiness in the end which is important above all. Stay strong x
sometimes it’s nearly impossible to leave people but if it gets to the point where she becomes emotionally abusive, I hope you can put yourself first, best of luck
Toxic mom. I'm sorry
I dont mean to offend u, but what is your dream/goal? Y didnt u persue it instead of engineering?
@@juleskumiknox2987 I'm soon able to leave so thanks for the support
*not gonna lie but these two sisters are beautiful af-*
To everyone who is telling the older sister still had the best interest of the younger one in her mind, yes she did but the way she was trying to do it was the problem. Its her sisters life and she should be deciding what to do with her life and not her sister. The younger sister is 22 an ADULT and not a child.
Am an older sibling myself, my sister is 10yrs younger than me. I scold her when needed and support her with things when needed. That's how they grow up, you make take a wrong decision or make a mistake but that's how you learn to do things right.
i wish my sister can be like you. I'm (20 yrs old) 10 yrs younger than my sister but she always clings to me and tells me what to do with my life. I shared my opinions but she scolded me for being disrespectful. I'm moving out this fall so I don't have to be stressed all the time.
Yeongja is an angel. Such a wonderful person. (just my opinion)
My opinion too! She is an Angel and wish the guys would stop making fun of her!
I think so
@Liessa Abiane Be quiet
i’m just going to leave this here because this strongly reminds me of something i heard just to get by:
“Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are simply toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren't inherently bad people, but they aren't the right people for us.”
Daniell Koepke
👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm glad the sister actually realized that she was in the wrong, the apologies usually feel so fake on this show but they actually seemed to solve their conflict
22:17 THIS DUDE STILL SHOOTING HIS SHOT IM WHEEZING
IM GLAD I WASNT THE ONLY ONE WHO SAW IT SKSKSKSKKSS
@@sunnytae4565 I WAS IKE WAIT HE STILL GOING HZK
Omg just saw that hahahaahha lmao,it was cute at the beginning tho (when he first saw her).
Lol fr! 😂😂😂
Gross
i can’t believe people are saying this ain’t a serious concern? munji, the younger sister, was hospitalized TWICE in ONE MONTH, but nOoOoOoooooooOoo the older sister just wants the best for munji right?? making her so stressed that she lost her hair and went to the psychiatrist is is TOTALLY wanting just the best for her right? just because she is good at it doesn’t mean she likes it yk. for example, compared to the rest of my classmates i’m really good at english but that doesn’t mean i want to participate in english storytelling competitions. i have terrible stage fright and going on stage makes me cry and shake like crazy bc i’m terrified. munji is beautiful and she is good at beauty pageants but it doesn’t make her happy. in fact, it made her depressed. just because everyone else is depressed doesn’t mean being depressed is normal and the fact that the older sister said that being stressed and depressed wasn’t a big deal INFURIATED me.
if you love someone, let them do what makes the happy. if the older sister really loved munji, would she have made munji go through all that bullshit? you can encourage someone to do something outside of their comfort zone and that’s perfectly fine, but to force someone to do something they don’t like to the point where they’re crying every single day? that is not love. love isn’t making someone miserable for the sake off fulfilling your own dreams. love isn’t disregarding someone’s struggles, saying everyone struggles just like that nowadays. love isn’t dictating every single little thing they do. love isn’t thinking you know what is best for someone. they are their own person, they know what they want best and you either support them or you fuck right off.
if you think this is love, then you probably are just like the older sister. i pity the people you supposedly ‘love’.
FACTS
Oh and no one said that it’s not serious, the studio has 200 people in it and 150 said that it’s a concern I don’t understand what you’re so getting worked up about
@@idilkaraali fifty people is still a lot. and there are people in the comments that don't think its a concern.
Literally preach
It’s obviously Iove you can’t say the older sister doesn’t love her younger sister, she loves her so much she wants her to succeed and while she didn’t go about it the right way her intentions were not malicious she thought after a little tough love her sister would find happiness and success (cause everyone knows in SK success/wealth = happiness) yeah she should control her a little less but a lot of ppl who love like parents do that as well where they control a bit too much, that’s the concern and that’s the problem but don’t go saying she doesn’t love her sister that’s just bs
The two sisters are beautiful
I feel like everyone needs a 영자 in their life. She gives good advice, is positive and can also make you laugh ☺️
the fact that one of the counselors/guests is still trying to ask her out after hearing about the problem🤦
y u sad right? I thought I was the only one thinking that
Lol I found that hilarious, the sis doesn’t seem bad tho she just loves her sister and wants the best for her a bit too much she’s like a parent controlling their kid and needs to let loose a little. My parents were like that and I kno they both love me to bits they just want what’s best for me and over time learned to be less controlling, the sister def will too she seems like a good person
That’s a big problem in Korea, most Korean don’t care whether they have done something malicious as long as they are pretty or handsome
And it is disgusting to me
@@catherinesmith5793
Not an excuse. Love doesn't excuse controlling and disgusting behaviour like that
THE SISTER TELLING THE CONCERN LOOKS A LITTLE BIT LIKE WHEEIN FROM MAMAMOO TO ME
looks like yeri from rv to me ^===^ KEJSAVKQJ (the sister who caused the concern, not the one telling KSJAK read it wrong :c)
She looks like Jiwoo from Kard to me
rightttt
....sigh
@@beething3458 💀
at first i didn't think older sis was that bad from her intentions, but the fact that she's dismissing her younger sister so much that she becomes physically and mentally ill is just awful.
older sister needs to acknowledge the hurt she's been causing
The younger sister is way too good for this world from what I can tell.
She is super pretty and won competitions yet she doesn't have a high self esteem because she feels like she didn't work for it herself because her sister made her do it. She's also to nice to rob her sister from her dream even if all this time that meant doing things she hated and even got so sick of she had to be hospitalised twice in 1 month. She does say she doesn't want it but not enough to make her sister (and mother apparently as well) stop controlling her life because she knows they do it out of love (or so she says). Really she is beautiful inside and out and she really doesn't deserve this.
I'm sure she will find her dream eventually but I don't really think she needs to find it right away. She is one of those people who will do good at everything so whether she wants to be a nurse, a police officer or something completely different she will do well.
I hope she won't have to do those competitions anymore and that she can find her own dream and I also hope her sister can find her own dream as well.
Finally someone who actually looks like they'll try to change
How can any of you watch her crying sadly and say that her sister has her interest at heart? Baffling. She went to a freaking psychiatrist!!!!
Because she does nobody is saying the sister was right, but the older sister obvi loved her younger sister she wanted her to be successful and thought controlling her will do that so she wouldn’t make mistakes, while that’s wrong, she didn’t have malicious intent her intent was always good and that’s why this was able to be resolved by the end of the episode
She is such a nice girl! Really caring and lovely.
I'm sorry but the older sister doesn't have her best interest. If she did, she wouldn't have allowed her sister to get to the point to have to visit a psychiatrist and she wouldn't say that all 20 year olds go through that. As a mother, I can say I'm strict when it comes to school and grades but I would never decide my daughter's career. I have a younger sister (11 years to be exact) and when she comes to me I always ask her, what makes you happy? Go for it! I can give my opinion but that's really all.
@MidnightFlower13 At what moment did I say my child owes me anything? First of all, if you're a student, you don't work, you don't have siblings, you don't have bad parents, you don't have a physical or mental illness , there is no reason to fail at school. If you are here on UA-cam posting replies and you failed 2 classes that means you were slacking. An education is not for a parent but it is for you. I work 40+ hours a week, I'm a single parent of a teenager I have completed 2 degrees, 1 of them Magna Cum Laude and now on my 3rd degree and still 4.0 GPA. If you think life is hard right now when you're young wait until you're an adult. You'll be in for a rude awakening.
29BWA That’s everything my mom would have said. We had no excuse when it came to school so I understand where you are coming from ( I’m not a mom but I am an adult) But also sometimes when you try your best you still fall short. For example I terrible at math and I worked really hard to get a C+, instead of my mom scolding me she applauded that I gave my best at something I suck at. However failing was never an option.
@@danithehermit41126 I'm the same. My daughter struggles with math but I'm ok with a C. What's important is that you give your all. It's not about getting all A's it's about the effort. 🙂
29BWA Exactly. However she’d never accept me failing anything especially since I was born in the land of opportunity as she says lol
She does, she’s doing it out of love I’m not saying it’s rigjt but her intentions were out of love for her sister to be the best and most successful she can be her intentions were good and not malicious
Older sister is a control freak the younger one needs to take a firm hold of her life and stand up for herself... Not everyone knows what they want to do with their lives while in their 20's let her find her own dreams and just be there to support her
I feel her. Actually maybe all the youngest in the family having older siblings or relatives who wants to dictate your life probably experienced this too. *The pressure they give you is too much stress for you to take. And when you fail, that pressure became a dismay.*
I must admit that they both are pretty. But dont force people do the things that they dont like to do 😌
Krystal Chi so true I for one don’t like to do anything by force from people
The big sister has a fierce look compare to the little sister, which has softer features, which probably one of the important keys to her winning the pageant.
The big sister should just focus on herself instead of shoving her goals to the little sister. We should talk more about what the big sister wants to do with HER life instead of the little sister's life. With her persona, she could be a tiger mom, or a high achievement teacher, or a prominent image for her company or something along the line. She's fierce, driven and energetic. It's just she's coaching the wrong person.
If she still wants to join the pageant herself, she definitely has no time to dictate someone else's life in the mean time.
The older sister lost because she was too short and she doesn’t qualify for miss Korea due to her height
As Yoongi once said..it's ok to not have a dream right now, as long as you are happy. That's what matters.. It's what kept me going all this time being at my late 20's and still have not realized a dream 😔 We can find our dreams anytime but happiness is rare now a days we should hold on to it if it's there..
I only noticed sungwoon was there at the end, he’s so quiet that it makes him sMOL:
Both sisters are really pretty. The older one should continue to be in pageants since she likes them so much and let the little sister explore other dreams.
I HOPE EVERY COUNTRY HAS THIS SHOW
The younger sister looks so much like KARD Jiwoo
I know this shouldn't be the focus of this concern but they're both so beautiful
The pink guy look like he doesn’t wanna be there haha
Lisa Oppa who is he?
@@Serendipityismy Sungwoon from Hotshot
@@Serendipityismy my baby sungwoon😭sad that wanna one disbanded
Sungwoon from Wanna One
(😭)
HAHAHAHA
My baby sungwoon 😭 😭 I want to see 11 of them on stage together 😭
I cried because this is similar to what I went through I was forced to do a beauty pageant I didn't want to do and my self esteem dropped even lower
I saw in the end of the show her sister is proud coz even her concerned problem got 150 score and be the winner of that week! She's always winning in everything she does , no wonder her sister so excited😂😂
I always pay attention to their concern and everyy comment everytime I watch Hello Counselor
But this time when my ultimate bias is hereee.. I cant take my eyes off Sungwoon 😅😅
He is so smoooool and cute compare to the others here.. Uri cloud is toooo preciousss OMG 💎💎💎
*When the younger sister cried I did to, I seriously feel her pain* 😭
This is exactly what I dealt with, my parents always decided what I'd study or where I'd go and what job I was to get in the future, as soon as they gave up I had no idea what I wanted to do😞 but luckily I managed to realise I loved to teach and I'm finally gonna do what I want 🙌🏽
This reminds me of how some parents force there kids into sports that young and when they get older they resent there parents.
I agree with what Miss Young Ja said about some people find there goals in there 30's or 40's. That is what happened with me and I have friends who is supporting me to reach that goal
Why are they so pretty tho. 💕💕💕
It would've been resolved if she dares to speak up about her thoughts. Sometimes older sister/brother will have you do something because they think that you're still very young and incapable of doing your own right choices and they want you to do the right thing.
I'm the youngest and I totally understand the younger sister but I also understand the older sister.
Ps: srsly tho. They're so pretty. I can look at the older sister for days. I love her hair and makeup so much
No matter how much someone says they love you.....maipulating, restraining, and having no respect for your own opinion is not caring. People who use the excuse that they love you to control you is suffocating.
I really do think it's so insensitive of the older sister to say that _anyyone in their 20s is stressed, everyone is depressed_ . She's saying it like depression is just a normal, everyday thing and it's nothing to be worried about. But when you're among those who are clinically diagnosed with one, it's a struggle. When you hear people like her talk about depression, it makes you feel more like you're just making up all the struggles in your head. It pushes you to deny the fact that you're in dire need of help. It makes you say to yourself, _no one can understand, everyone will think of you as crazy so just shut up and keep it to yourself_ and then one day, it'll be over for you. 😔
In this day and age, it's sad to know that there are still people who are so "uneducated" about mental health issues. Some are still not in touch with the fact that it exists and it can happen to everyone.
She said depressed not that they have depression, and in SK that’s honestly kinda true
I agreed on Yeong Ja words. You can find your goal anytime, be it on your 20s, 30s, 40s, or later or even ealier than that. As long as it is you who run the life not someone else, so you would notice what you truly want in life. The older sister should settled with giving advice and examples not directing.
That whole family has great genes. Look at them at the end too. Theyre sparkling.
This story really remind me of myself. A few years ago when I just graduated from high school and wanna sumbit college. My parents esp my father want me to become a doctor. At first I said I want to become physicolog, but they said nothings good come out of it. So, I start to negotiate with them and finally submit college with veterinary medicine major. Doctor for animals.
The fact that till now I still not sure what I'm going to do in the future scary me.
You dictate someone's dream make them have low self-esteem, anxious, etc.
I hope the sister really change her mind, not just in front of camera. Actually they're a lovely family and beautiful sisters.
cheer up! i very much root for you! i have dogs and in my place we really lack of vets. often cross my mind why i never thought about being a vet. (and no turning back for me cuz, i took accounting major)
it's not like i dont support your actual dream. but i'm trying to ease you when you said you're not sure what are you going to do in the future.
either doctor or physicologist are both hard jobs, but both helps others. both are good. and what could be better than helping animals who cant speak? :) i wish you luck and cheer up. fighting!
@@esveaz Thank you so much for your kind words 💜 I got teary eyes reading it.
It's just sometime I think it's ironic how I hate animals, don't really like touch them but I choosed this past instead to be a doctor like my father want. Even fore years now, I still cannot touch dogs because of my childhood trauma. I'm still overcame my trauma everyday.
@@ntzkyh95-27 a friend of mine who work in animal field (im not sure what it is but he took care of many endangered animals) said that if you have a trauma against an animal thats starting from early childhood (not from before you were born) you can be cured slowly by using therapy. i hope you'll overcome it soon, dogs are precious and im sure they will love you too! :)
@@esveaz I hope so too ~
It's during my kindergarten, when I were 4 or 5 y.o. A dog bark and chase me out so I have to hide in a drain. It's still clear in my mind lol, and there's 2 times that I got so scared. I like watching dog's videp like in SBS show. But to see it by myself nah...
Btw, I think you're a nice person :)
@@ntzkyh95-27 as for me my trauma is against rats and mice, it's so hard that i can't even see their animated pictures, or even their vids, i would cry or scream when i see one. my friend gave me a tip for the therapy you can go slowly from watching vids and seeing photos, later slowly seeing the real one (no need to straight touch them) until you can find what's good in them and you may slowly like them. well as for me now, i can see their pic/vids but still doesnt dare to see the real one XD
i may suggest you look for different kind of dog breeds, maybe one of their type could be your favorite and it may help you cure faster. my suggestion is Pomeranian cause that's one of my fave.
sorry for too long text ^^;
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i think you're the first person to say that. hahaha.
btw what year are you in vet major?
I'm kinda impressed how she can still be confident and outgoing when her sister is controllin her life too much
If I have an sister like her, I would literally move out of the house. She's so lucky her younger sister is so good and seems like to have a good personality.
When they get home
YOUR ENTERING THE PAGEANT
“You must tell her, If not you’re making her a bad person.” No she’s doing that by herself, her sister was hospitalized and crying everyday but all she cared about was her in the pageant.
They so beautiful I felt like I was watching a kdrama scene when they were talking to each other with the emotional music in the background
Lmao if only i could send my concern to this show. Gurl, i just pretend you go there on my behalf. We got the same fate 😂
I can tell that her older sister really thinks highly of her. I think if she just lets her younger sister be, she won’t disappoint her because she knows that her older sister is doing it out of love/concern. But since the older sister is getting involved and controlling her life, she wants to break free.... but it doesn’t mean that she has the rights to take control of her little sister’s life and place her bets because she sees potential... just because she can’t accomplish something does not mean that she has the rights live her dream through her little sister. But I can see how well both of these girls were raised...
My family usually tells me that I should be an artist, but I say no. But they keep telling me. They dont force me, but I just like it as a hobby.
I think "because you're good at it" doesnt work on everyone. To some, they might take it as a challenge, to not giving up because they know they can do it. They can be good at it. But to some people, it could stress themselves out. They'll think that they're force to do it. Being good at something is one thing, but liking the thing you do is another thing. Yes she might be good at beauty pageant, but if shes not happy with it, forcing her and telling her because shes good at it doesnt make sense.
And Youngja is right. We all have our own timeline. You dont have to rush yourself because people your age has already become someone or whatever. You dont have to worry, you've just to continue doing whatever you want, dont give up and soon you'll get to harvest whatever you've plant.
at first i was thinking "oh, the older sister probably will be prettier" judging on the thumbnail. but holy crap, the younger one is so pretty :o
I want her sister.. Maybe then I would've achieved something in life
Same.
Saaameee.
Same😭
So true...I would have reached the top niche of my life today..
Having the best intentions for someone specially a loved one means letting them making their own decisions, the older sister believes she has the right to control her life but she absolutely doesn’t. Let your sister live her life, and deal with yours more.
These sisters love each other so much, compared to the other sisters that had been featured on this show
OML genes must be amazing in that family they are both so beautiful
Why did sunghoon looks like he's so done with life 😂
After i watched this, i feel so grateful for having my life now, no one controlled me, no one tells me what to do, i can do everything that i want and i can be anything that i want 💝 i hope she live a better life after this show and do what she wanna do. 💝
Am I the only one who thinks she looks like a mixture of mamamoo wheein and itzy yeji??
Anyway, all that aside, the younger sister is so kind-hearted and sweet she deserves so much better
There's a sulky boy between the mcs hhahahahahha
totodiedes light and that sulky boy is sunghoon ♥️ who looks like he’s done with his life and is wondering why he’s there 😂😂😂😂😂
@@sake-bc5ul i know who is he but smtm he really look like jimin at first glance
@@sake-bc5ul he's not sunghoon he's sungwoon
That's cutie sulky boy tho hahahhahaha
@@unanana2199 and sungwon is jimin best friend right 😂
She is very sincere and has a kind heart but i didn't think that she could get through her sister...The sister didn't seem to truly care about what her little sister really wants or care when seeing her cry... Every one has their own independent life. No one has the right to control or manipulate someone's life .
She is so cute telling her sister that she won't do pageant. Go girl!
The story of my life. My parents have a say in my life and I am scared to tell them anything because they always-- I'll cry while typing this. I relate so much.
What happened in daegu? Why theres a lot of beauties
Angela Nindya maybe the water is different there 🤔
@Shaira Belle Alegro thats what i mean hahaha
Taehyung, Irene, Suga, such beautiful specimens 👏💕
If I reincarnate, i will make sure my future parents are from there hahaha just kidding
Wow...if I had a sister who tried to do that to me, she'd catch those hands. Thank God my own sis is loving and wants me to find my own thing. This girl is lucky that her sister is such an angel.
Everything aside, They're both gorgeous
She just too nice and looks easy that's why her old sister think she has power to control the younger one
This is totally random but like, people from Daegu are so beautiful/handsome! ♥️
Well at least her sister means well and loves her. Because we've seen some devilish siblings in that show
Edit: You guys ! Of course what her sister does is wrong as she is being too controlling. However she loves her sister and it shows
I am a little sister and a big sister and I can understand both. As a little sister u wanna experience things by urself. As a big sister you want ur lil sibling to avoid the mistakes u've made and realize their potential quicker. Though it's wrong the behaviour comes from a place of love, the intent is not to cause harm. In a show where we've seen sisters call their donsaengs fat, ugly, useless or treat them like servants I thought it was good to axknowledge it.
That's not love, her sister is too sslfish.
What do you mean by her sister meant well? She is obviously controlling her younger sister life. I mean who will like it if someone control your life in every aspects you do. So whats gonna happen next? Is she gonna decide her future husband for her as well? Yeahhh i'm sure she meant well since the guy is rich, handsome bla bla bla. Thats just a load of crap
That’s not love darling, that’s control. Just because someone means well, it doesn’t excuse their actions that negatively affect others. She needs to let her little sister live her own life.
@@chimcham6762 answer to y'all in my edit
She literally said that her sister will call her fat and tell her to loose weight and cover up the mole on her EAR? Is that being supportive, just because she's pretty doesn't mean she's a good sister lol
I have father and 3 older brothers, I'm the youngest and only daughter. They were controlling me in anything, my study, major, friendship, career and husband. I was angry at that time. But when now I see myself I'm grateful for having these 4 strict man in my life. I have a very good and happy life, good financially, good hudband (which is handsome, rich and successful). I know for some people controlling is a bad thing and big concern. For me, I thank alot to my strict father and brothers. They stop controlling me at the right time, right moments, and right man. I regarded it as protective, not controlling. Even some of friends are jealous with what I am now. They were a free youngster, their family didn't put much efforts or intentions for what they do/did, no guidance whether they are in the right or wrong path.
Wow she’s really pretty
junho really make full use of the media, only those at scene are able to do such a thing so lucky. Sometimes i feel actors are lucky, able to experience different stuff in the film.
He is trying out his luck to date the sister lol.
Both of the sisters are really pretty at least she thought was trying to do something for her sister
I can relate to this.
When I was in 5th grade my aunt forced me to take piano classes I didn't enjoyed it at all. So later on I quit but then I said I wanted to be a dancer or a designer in the future but my aunt said I should be a doctor and I don't even have an interest with being a doctor.
I understand the elder sister since I have also a younger sis. The feeling when you want her to do well like you or better than you. However, feelings just come and go, you can learn to change or control that mentality. Understand that, before we're siblings we are different individuals with different goals in life, ability and skills. And we should respect that.
Match making session was hilarious lol they are beautiful siblings
(I only got this far in the video so far)
When someone is so forceful, they don't realize that they are not giving the space for the person they are forcing to find their dream on their own and use their freedom to their own liking. Success doesn't always mean numbers and results. You need time and the space to cultivate culture, personality, creativity, curiosity exploration. That is the part you don't see and don't really understand until you have walked the whole path by yourself.
The older sister is so pretty she looks kinda like hyunee eats
Dudeeeee 4:30 had me dead he wanted to ask the older sister out lol 😂
it's not related but i legit thought sungwoon was little kid there for a second
just bc ur good at something, it doesn’t mean it makes u happy or its ur passion.
Lol I’d JSUT like to applaud the editors for the song we all lie 😂😂
When you truly care about someone, you have to respect their autonomy. I can imagine what people would have said if the older sister was a man and said the things she said to her sister. Her words deeply wounded her and her actions are authoritarian. Maybe older sister isn't conscious or maybe she knows, but I hope things changes from now on and they develop a healthy sisterhood
Her older sister does care about her a lot and is just afraid of her making the wrong decision. However, she needs to become her own wome. and choose her own path. Her elder sister has good intentions but despite that it can still be very harmful.
I feel bad for the big sis. Even though what she did was wrong, I clearly understand her.
The Daegu dialect is strong... I love it !!! :)
Am I the only one who thinks that women from daegu are so gorgeous? I mean.. look at Irene rv, and these siblings
Thank god my sister is kind af eventhough she does nag a lot 😂. We're very close and i can say that she's my bestfriend i share everything with her, problems and also clothes, skincare, makeup. She always buy me things for me and support me. After watching this i realized how lucky i am to have such a great sister. 💕
I teared up a bit too. I understand where the older sister coming from but you can't force someone life path. they have to do it themselves.
I am jealous of that younger sister i want older sister like her😇
I swear this show goes from funny and happy to sad and depressed
Both my parents did this to me once, and it made me almost didn't graduate from highschool. I fight them to let me choose my dream for the whole 8 years ever since i'm still in junior high. And finally they let me do what i wanted to. I'm doing quite well now in my college because i choose the major i want not theirs.
lol I'm dead when they play "We all lie" xD
Both of the sisters are very beautiful and i just hope the older one lets the younger sister do what she wants in her life and instead of forcing her broken dreams on her the older sister should change her dream or try to make it come true focus on what she wants to do
“Family is all about Love~” the captions said but that ain’t my family