Foreigners, Do Not fall in Love with a Bargirl!

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  • @richardroy6179
    @richardroy6179 3 місяці тому +19

    Don't be Captain Save A "Ho

  • @wolfgangstimmel8048
    @wolfgangstimmel8048 3 місяці тому +8

    I don't degrade or disparage any bargirl, although many Filipinas do. Most BGs come from an impoverished area, have very little education, many grew up in squatter housing, many have kids, and ALL have family obligations.
    BGs reflect YOU. If YOU think she is only after money, or YOU think she is wild, or YOU think she will screw you over - She will give YOU what you expect. If YOU don't want your BG to go with the next clown who comes along, then YOU need to take her out of the bar and give her an allowance to send home to her family - 10K will do. If YOU leave her in the bar, then SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRL and that is on you - no one else is to blame.
    When I retired to AC, I stupidly broke the 3 night rule and ended up shacking up with a BG from Samar - basically because she did a lot of crying and refused to leave. Her parents had sent her to AC to make money any way she could. I eventually gave her a 10K allowance because I was tired of constantly being nickeled and dimed for money for her kids. All was well while I was in tourist mode wandering around the Philippines, Thailand, and Cambodia with her, but when I settled down in an apartment, she brought her kids over and things quickly fell apart - I'm just not Dad material, so I Escaped by going to Thailand.

    Despite what ACE says, BGs will latch onto a foreigner even quicker than most Fiipinas. I have never met a BG who actually liked working in the bar - they all did it out of necessity.
    IMHO - Province Girls, City Girls, Bar Girls are ALL EQUAL. I think anyone who thinks a Province Girl or a Girl he meets on line is better is kidding himself. The only way to find a "good" Province girl is to grab one when she turns 18 and hope she doesn't already have kids. While City Girls are more educated, they are also more conniving. The Scammers you meet on on-line dating sites are some of the worst. As for Bar Girls - almost all ARE Province Girls.

    • @oceanearth2243
      @oceanearth2243 3 місяці тому

      It’s not that easy to get a BG to latch onto you. They barely even make eye contact with non Koreans let alone latch on. I think it happens when you’re not looking for anything, and you are living there full time.

    • @wolfgangstimmel8048
      @wolfgangstimmel8048 3 місяці тому

      @@oceanearth2243
      my experience in 2008 was very different - not a single BG i took back to my hotel wanted to leave, after breakfast they would hang out with me at the pool and try to convince me to BF them again - the one BG i stayed with for 3 nites was crying and begging when i wanted her to leave - she stayed with me for over a year - i finally got rid of her, gave her a severance package - flew her and her kids to samar (airport in leyte), bought her a 100K php house, and gave her 10K allowance for 6 months
      (i'm married now, so no longer in the market, maybe things have changed)
      i have a friend who owns a condo at chatsworth (by kandi 3). he's been here since 2008. he never BFs a girl, but never lives alone either. he likes perimeter bars, buys drinks, and invites the girls to come to his condo in their free time - the last girl was 18 when she stopped over and 24 when she left 6 years later - he is 82

  • @JG-gg9wk
    @JG-gg9wk 3 місяці тому +6

    Two thoughts, first one daaah. Second one, why not. Let her think she's got you. Meantime ride that little doggie for all shes worth.

  • @just_matthew1826
    @just_matthew1826 3 місяці тому +5

    Another saying is "If a bar girl is talking then she's lying".

  • @jtraveler888
    @jtraveler888 3 місяці тому +10

    I fall in love have the 3 hour honeymoon and then divorce all in the same night.
    I'm no 3 day rule romantic.
    Single and free is the way to be. I sleep alone.
    Babydolls! Babydolls! Babydolls!

  • @ManWithNoName-t2d
    @ManWithNoName-t2d 3 місяці тому +7

    Better yet, do not fall in love at all. Play them before they play you. At the end of my life, I'd rather be well to do and alone, then divorced, broke, bitter, and alone. Single and free is the way for me.

    • @ManWithNoName-t2d
      @ManWithNoName-t2d 3 місяці тому

      Don't worry, the Dramaguete Geriatric White Knight Society will marry them before they are totally used up

  • @RayHaffenden
    @RayHaffenden 3 місяці тому +2

    Unfortunately you cannot help who you fall in love with, but you can manage your expectations!

  • @epicriosonlinemoney3654
    @epicriosonlinemoney3654 3 місяці тому +6

    TOO Late‼
    This has been going on for DECADES‼

  • @mistrmedia
    @mistrmedia 3 місяці тому +4

    the biggest mistake is guys marrying them, this story hardly ever ends well.... the men never fully recover emotionally, sometimes financially

    • @ph7715
      @ph7715 3 місяці тому +1

      There are actual females that are not bar girls. I wasted two grand then I found a real nice 19 year old the last week I was in Manila

    • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
      @RoyGJones-bd7jw 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ph7715their all bar girls, the streets are always calling

  • @maxblack2113
    @maxblack2113 3 місяці тому +2

    She said she loved me ❤

  • @AdrianShoutout
    @AdrianShoutout 3 місяці тому +4

    2nd Like
    2nd View
    🇵🇭😎🇵🇭

  • @jeffmann1218
    @jeffmann1218 3 місяці тому +1

    Best advice ever!

  • @ridvanureten9518
    @ridvanureten9518 3 місяці тому +3

    Professor Ace, I feel edumacated 🎉🎉

  • @willest0652
    @willest0652 3 місяці тому

    Nice jersey 💯

  • @clrodrick
    @clrodrick 3 місяці тому +3

    I was there in February and met a nice bar girl (though granted she just barely started working). Kept in touch in daily basis and will meet her in October again and will travel with her to BGC Manila. No bar fines, no nothing she just genuilely wants to go with me. It can happen if you are still young enough, not horrible looking, wealthy enough, etc).

    • @josephrelaford6826
      @josephrelaford6826 3 місяці тому +2

      What bar

    • @3dmixer552
      @3dmixer552 3 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂 And you believe it?

    • @mateor7302
      @mateor7302 3 місяці тому +1

      Sad that you need to date hooks

    • @clrodrick
      @clrodrick 3 місяці тому

      @@josephrelaford6826 baccarat, but she doesn't work on WS anymore she said she hated it

    • @clrodrick
      @clrodrick 3 місяці тому

      @@3dmixer552 she has given me no reason to not believe it. She doesn't even work at WS anymore

  • @user-jf9vr6gb5t
    @user-jf9vr6gb5t 3 місяці тому +7

    I had a meth head crack head baby doll hottie 9.5 girlfriend here in the US. One time she didn't like something I said while I was driving. She proceeded to use my head for a punching bag, hitting me as hard as she could 8-9 times while I tried not to crash my new Jag.

    • @thepontiff7505
      @thepontiff7505 3 місяці тому +1

      My Filipina does that all the time. Finally left her for good. Imagine roles were reversed

    • @user-jf9vr6gb5t
      @user-jf9vr6gb5t 3 місяці тому +4

      @thepontiff7505 I guess I'm a six foot five baby but my girl had a strong right cross. I said I'd call the cops one time and she never laughed so hard.

    • @Jackson-e4k
      @Jackson-e4k 3 місяці тому +3

      Why do people say “my Filipina”? Nobody says my German or my American or my Thai.

    • @buzuxi
      @buzuxi 3 місяці тому

      @@Jackson-e4k - Always found that funny. It's also the reverse, if the girl is with a foreigner, she says "my foreigner" . Can't say I've ever heard in the west someone say "I'm married to a foreigner", or I'm with a foreigner, etc.

  • @dbf70
    @dbf70 3 місяці тому

    Amazing that it even has to be said.

  • @smrmantravel
    @smrmantravel 3 місяці тому +2

    It's going to cost money to have a girl friend or wife period. Buttom line relationships of any kind cost money..

  • @skip2it426-
    @skip2it426- 3 місяці тому +2

    ACE we all know that’s easier said than done. We know guys are falling in love with bargirls all the time. As I write this I know a bargirl who’s currently in Samar that works in the lollipop getting married next week to a foreigner 🤦🏾‍♂️! Thanks for sharing

  • @gregoryschmidt3332
    @gregoryschmidt3332 3 місяці тому

    Wiser words have never been spoken! Falling in love with anyone is inherently risky and potentially very expense, however the odds of both heartbreak and bankruptcy are exponentially higher if both your heart and wallet rolls the dice with an Angeles City bar girl. That said, rare success stories do exist as nothing is ever certain in life especially when it comes to dealing with women. But the smartest expats on Angeles Walking Street absolutely do proceed with greatest of caution!

  • @pappadappacarhauler757
    @pappadappacarhauler757 3 місяці тому

    My girl walks in the SM holding my hand. I'm currently on the province with her family. Even in the province. She just doesn't care what anyone thinks.

  • @RPhTom
    @RPhTom 3 місяці тому +3

    Sometimes, you meet a girl at the mall but she works or worked at the bar & didn't tell you. Ace, how can you tell if she is secretly a bar girl? Thanks.

    • @johnp4000
      @johnp4000 3 місяці тому +3

      That isn't too difficult, as there will be a point in the day normally evenings when she can't date you ,without you paying a bar fine. Also you can see if she knows all the restaurants on Fields, a good sign that she works there. Unless of course she is on leave or between jobs?

    • @buzuxi
      @buzuxi 3 місяці тому +3

      Tattoos is a red flag. If she can afford stuff in that mall in her 20s also a possible giveaway.

    • @johnp4000
      @johnp4000 3 місяці тому +3

      @@buzuxi A lot of people just walk around, if she has a bag full of shopping , especially clothes then yes, very likely.

    • @mateor7302
      @mateor7302 3 місяці тому +3

      She isn't shy talking to unknown foreigners

    • @mikekinsella2822
      @mikekinsella2822 3 місяці тому

      I know a few Mall girls that use to be Bargirls

  • @Alex-bt9uu
    @Alex-bt9uu 3 місяці тому +1

    Talking to YOU Chubs! 😂

  • @johnp4000
    @johnp4000 3 місяці тому +2

    Ace, you need to look at the type of guys that can actually fall for bar girls, as part of it is Romanising bar girls and believing yours is different and ignoring all those red flags you have identified!

  • @notquiteright45014
    @notquiteright45014 3 місяці тому +1

    Emerson is on a roll!

  • @bobnewhart4318
    @bobnewhart4318 3 місяці тому +4

    So whos the number 1 single youtube vlogger

  • @Peter-li3dk
    @Peter-li3dk 3 місяці тому

    I wish some Asians guys, expecially Koreans can watch this video. Some guys just keep supporting their girls, but they just don't know the bargirls are playing with them. God bless with these boys.

  • @josephrelaford6826
    @josephrelaford6826 3 місяці тому +2

    If they not working in the bar some dont wear a lot of makeup. They damn sure dont eat as much as you. You main expense is her family

  • @MrBongBarango
    @MrBongBarango 3 місяці тому

    Maybe Ace's best vid😅😅😅😅

  • @oceanearth2243
    @oceanearth2243 3 місяці тому

    I fell for a Thai bargirl; 21 years old sweet girl.
    she left the bar but not before having a few customers for side cash before she quit.
    Really disappointed but what could I expect ? I didn’t pay her. It only works if you don’t care about fidelity! It’s an open relationship so to speak. Can’t take it seriously.

  • @easymoneynch
    @easymoneynch 3 місяці тому +6

    But Ace Bargirls need loving too! 😁😁😁😁

    • @acebachelorcool
      @acebachelorcool  3 місяці тому +1

      @@easymoneynch ha ha ha

    • @brianvesta
      @brianvesta 3 місяці тому +4

      Give them short time love with a extra bit of protein......😉

  • @brianmallety1910
    @brianmallety1910 3 місяці тому +1

    " I ❤. PEA "

  • @hanglee5586
    @hanglee5586 3 місяці тому +4

    Nor a Filipina streetwalker lol 😂

  • @vimtocrazy739
    @vimtocrazy739 3 місяці тому

    Can someone have a word with Greenhorn Chubbsy then . Looks like his princess royal is taking control.

    • @acebachelorcool
      @acebachelorcool  3 місяці тому +1

      @@vimtocrazy739 Yeah. I agree.

    • @mateor7302
      @mateor7302 3 місяці тому +1

      I remember her from Shooterz 💦

  • @Steven-t9s
    @Steven-t9s 3 місяці тому

    Angeles not have the Coconut bar like Pattaya has.

  • @Pr3ct
    @Pr3ct 3 місяці тому

    She said she love me long time.

  • @sheiladikshit5110
    @sheiladikshit5110 3 місяці тому +1

    first

  • @SteveLopez-q4o
    @SteveLopez-q4o 3 місяці тому

    One
    Golden rule
    Never marry
    Sucker 😢
    But have your fun 😉

  • @charo8339
    @charo8339 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow. Thanks for this information this is really helpful

    • @arnoldjohnson3317
      @arnoldjohnson3317 3 місяці тому

      I never would have thought about it without Ace. Who knew not to fall in love with a hooker.

  • @mikekinsella2822
    @mikekinsella2822 3 місяці тому

    NO!! Fall in love her. Marry her, have the honeymoon, then divorce her all in 3 hrs. Then move onto the next girl and repeat the cycle.

  • @joeblakely5950
    @joeblakely5950 3 місяці тому +1

    Cell phones

  • @billinorlando2887
    @billinorlando2887 3 місяці тому

    Should redo Country Girl with Bar Girl 😂
    Come on, anybody....Black Sabbath? Mob Rules album 😂

  • @PartyLife4me
    @PartyLife4me 3 місяці тому +3

    I have to disagree with you. I found my wife in the Dollhouse back in 2006. Been together ever since. 3 children later and living the dream. My wife is now a nurse, and I sit at home drinking beer enjoying the good life-wouldn't trade it for all the pesos in the world!

    • @mateor7302
      @mateor7302 3 місяці тому

      What was her body count? 300? 1300?

    • @mikekinsella2822
      @mikekinsella2822 3 місяці тому

      @@mateor7302 there is some girls that have 2-3 body counts but you got to get them early. There is 2 guys I know that married a cherry girl but they had to wait a whilke to bang her till they married them.

  • @viking8889
    @viking8889 3 місяці тому

    She is not yours, its just your turn 🤮 ….if you can pay. Someone else was on the ride 5 minutes ago 🤮

  • @bbaalliibbaaggoo
    @bbaalliibbaaggoo 3 місяці тому

    not
    i want falling Love
    barGirlsss

  • @3dmixer552
    @3dmixer552 3 місяці тому

    No wonder they don't want to be seen with you in public

  • @arnoldjohnson3317
    @arnoldjohnson3317 3 місяці тому

    Is it okay to fall in love if she’s only a waitress at a bar? I’m asking for a friend.

  • @ExpatNTraining
    @ExpatNTraining 3 місяці тому

    11. STDs

  • @juicebox853
    @juicebox853 3 місяці тому

    incoherent